Line	Speaker	St Time	Content	En Time
1	DCB_int_01	0.5258	And where were you born?	1.6485
2	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2.1386	I lived in DC but I was born in Prince George's County.	5.4333
3	DCB_int_01	5.4253	Okay, so you were born in	6.7253
4		7.6463	Prince George's but you grew up in DC.	10.0314
6		10.5529	In what neighborhood?	11.4476
7	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	11.9416	Um, Langston Place.	13.5708
8	DCB_int_01	13.5597	Mm.	13.8437
9	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	14.3547	[Formerly known as Woodland.]	15.9667
10	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	14.3707	[/inaudible/.]	16.0992
11	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	16.6530	Huh?	17.0023
12	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	17.1732	You got a neighborhood,	18.3399
14		18.5378	/inaudible/ [/That's Woodland./]	20.5138
15	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	19.3142	[No.]	20.0115
16	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	21.2603	[It's cool she] /wouldn't/ hear about them girl gangs and stuff.	23.8270
17	DCB_int_01	21.2843	[Um-]	21.7163
18		23.8615	What- how long have you lived in DC?	26.0082
19	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	26.1426	Um,	26.9066
21		28.5609	I'm twenty-five, so, for twenty-three years.	31.0861
22	DCB_int_01	31.0901	Twenty-three years.	31.8807
24		32.4827	Where'd you live the other two years?	33.5912
25	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	33.5765	Germany for two years.	34.7535
26	DCB_int_01	35.1692	Huh.	35.5319
28		36.0776	How'd you get to Germany?	37.0883
29	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	37.0821	My father's in the [military.]	38.4314
30	DCB_int_01	38.3547	[Mm.]	38.6960
31	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	38.7509	[Yeah.]	39.0870
32	DCB_int_01	38.9790	[I] thought so.	39.6896
33	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	39.7886	<laugh>	40.1207
34	DCB_int_01	40.4849	Where'd you go to school?	41.2129
35	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	41.5974	Um, all the schools?	43.0574
36	DCB_int_01	43.1341	Mm-hm.	43.5488
37	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	43.6303	Elementary /RD-SCHOOL-7/.	46.8273
39		48.4178	Uh, for middle school /RD-SCHOOL-2/,	50.2484
40	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	50.3827	/They ain't gonna remember ?/.	51.6747
41	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	51.8646	and for high school /RD-SCHOOL-4/.	54.8340
42	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	54.7099	I don't remember [that.]	55.5714
43	DCB_int_01	55.2782	Oh mm-hm.	56.0385
44	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	56.0465	And college.	57.2351
45	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	57.5044	Oh, <laugh> and college /RD-SCHOOL-3/.	59.5177
46	DCB_int_01	60.4778	Oh.	62.4546
48		63.0510	My girlfriend just graduated from /RD-SCHOOL-3/ a coup- well not just, two years ago.	66.5993
50		67.3022	Um, what do you do?	68.5475
51	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	68.9189	I'm a food service worker at /RD-WORK-9/.	72.7699
52	DCB_int_01	78.0456	What about your father and mom where were they born?	79.8825
53	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	80.2346	Mm- sh- my mother was born- I think she was born here.	84.6499
55		84.9300	But she moved around a lot, and my dad was born in Mississippi.	87.7269
56	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	89.1332	[I like my baby hair with baby hair and afros. (singing)]	92.9102
57	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	90.7657	[<laugh>] [Hey.]	94.4556
58	DCB_int_01	93.9967	[What about your] parents what do they do?	95.3573
59	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	95.6094	Um, my dad is- he's still in the military.	98.9790
60	DCB_int_01	98.9950	Mm.	99.3710
61	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	99.6565	Um, and he's a regional manager for Home Depot.	103.1938
63		104.4627	[M-]	104.7894
64	DCB_int_01	104.4747	[Is he in] reserves?	105.4792
65		105.7966	Or is he [retired? No?]	107.0291
66	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	106.2568	[No, he was] in reserve but he just went back to [active.] Yeah.	109.5581
67	DCB_int_01	108.7299	[Oh.]	109.0352
68	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	110.2666	Um, and my mom is a retired government employee.	113.9660
69	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	122.7869	She was trying to [/inaudible/]	124.3390
70	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	124.0927	[No] I'm not.	124.7610
71	DCB_int_01	125.8935	So-	126.2202
72	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	126.1857	That's my thinking, like I'm really trying to think. [<laugh>]	129.7953
73	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	127.8384	[/inaudible/ <laugh>]	129.9154
74	DCB_int_01	130.2328	So tell me about, um,	132.1817
75	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	132.2377	[/inaudible/]	134.2666
76	DCB_int_01	133.3422	[your youngest] memory like your first- do you remember your first home	136.6530
77		137.2612	um, or your first- like, growing up in DC, tell me about it.	140.6279
78	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	140.6068	My first home I would say was around-	144.2577
79		145.8785	What was the name of them apartments?	147.2105
81		148.9611	I cannot remember the name of the apartments.	150.8620
82	DCB_int_01	151.0981	But just [describe 'em.]	151.9825
83	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	151.4302	[But basically] it was like a real hood like people got shot	155.9015
84		156.1376	in the neighborhood, people were killed in the neighborhood,	158.4547
86		158.7749	heard gunshots all the time, we weren't allowed to go outside.	161.8207
88		162.6259	And things like that.	163.4863
90		163.6383	I wanna remember the neighbor- this is like one of those neighborhoods everyone knows but I can't remember, so we lived around there for a while.	168.5900
92		168.9220	Then my mom- I'm not sure why she moved I don't know if she got put out or she just wanted to move,	173.0131
94		173.3293	I just know we packed up all our things put it into storage and we moved with my grandmother in	177.1230
96		177.3671	Woodland, which is Langston Place.	179.4569
97	DCB_int_01	179.7735	Mm-hm.	180.2588
98	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	180.8180	And	181.5140
100		181.6984	we lived around /RD-ADDRESS-3/	183.0237
102		183.9326	for a long time probably about ten years then my mom got a house,	187.3176
104		188.1466	um,	188.6266
106		188.9069	cause my dad had left.	189.9923
108		190.2208	My dad had left and	191.2813
110		191.6614	he was	192.3577
112		193.0421	probably in another country somewhere, but them two weren't getting along and my mom was still pregnant with his-	196.8891
114		197.2052	they had a baby- she was pregnant but they weren't /unintelligible/ so she got pregnant with my	200.5788
116		200.9630	brother but they were broken up. So he was	203.1972
118		204.0336	out of the country my mom is just	205.4403
120		205.5623	taking care of us, th- herself.	207.1703
122		207.4672	And, then-	208.2475
124		208.9851	we li- we moved in a house on Massachusetts Avenue, we stayed there for about	212.8629
126		213.3471	seven years.	214.4556
128		214.8130	I know she got put out of that. It was like, um,	217.0397
130		217.4743	yeah so we had to move back to /RD-SCHOOL-2/ with my grandmother.	219.8476
131	DCB_int_01	221.5254	Are your-	222.0374
133		222.5979	so wait how many siblings do you have?	223.9885
134	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	223.9767	I have two older sisters and one little brother.	226.1198
135	DCB_int_01	226.3808	Okay.	226.8582
137		227.0411	[And did you] all live together?	228.2531
138	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	227.0531	[/That's-/]	227.4091
139		228.5899	Yes, um,	230.2037
141		230.3667	yeah we did.	231.1509
143		231.2751	My	231.8711
145		232.1207	s- okay I have a older sister that's-	234.2497
147		234.7099	she's about eight years older than me.	236.8219
149		237.4204	And I have another sister that's six years older than me. My sister that's six years older than me she was like one of those like trouble kids.	243.3393
151		243.8926	So it was like every time she'd get in trouble my mom would say, okay, you gotta go to your grandmother's, so she's just like back and forth.	248.5548
153		249.3231	That was about it, other than that yeah we all lived together.	251.1812
154	DCB_int_01	251.9336	Um,	252.4336
156		253.1061	so what-	253.6954
158		254.0265	okay so you said you didn't play outside so what did you do as a kid like [growing up-]	257.7544
159	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	257.2732	[Played with my sisters.]	258.1865
160	DCB_int_01	258.4098	In the [house?]	258.9900
161	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	258.7179	[Yeah] in the house. Mm-hm.	259.8704
162	DCB_int_01	260.2866	So outside did you ever feel like	262.1173
164		262.3008	there was a point where you were going to get hurt?	264.3377
165	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	264.5258	Once we moved to Woodland which is strange she had- that's when she allowed us to go outside though,	268.1995
167		268.3648	around Woodland cause we had family members that lived around there.	271.4463
169		272.0105	So Woodland was like a	273.1390
171		273.5152	I had my aunt, uncles, all lived there before they all branched off and moved to like Maryland	278.6872
173		278.8709	and other places.	279.7829
174	DCB_int_01	279.8126	So you were safe in [an unsafe] neighborhood because you had [people-]	283.7904
175	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	281.2332	[Woodland.]	281.8612
177		283.6503	[People] yeah, because these were people that we'd known, like e- although it was a very unsafe neighborhood it was just like,	288.7167
178		289.1181	it was more familiar. Like, we knew these people they wouldn't hurt us and things like that. They did things to other people but they wouldn't do it to us.	294.9673
179	DCB_int_01	295.5223	Gotcha.	296.1076
181		296.2826	So what about elementary school?	297.8652
182	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	298.2008	[Um-]	298.9727
183	DCB_int_01	298.4609	[Do you remember] a lot about elementary school?	300.0449
184	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	300.3537	My first elementary school was /RD-SCHOOL-4/, um, my grandmother was a teacher there, so	304.7433
186		305.2372	she took us back and forth to /RD-SCHOOL-4/.	307.8050
188		308.7228	Um,	309.3992
190		310.4169	that was in North- I think /RD-SCHOOL-4/'s in Northwest.	312.6297
192		313.3222	I don't even know how I was able to go there because we lived in Southeast but I think because my grandmother,	317.7495
194		318.1977	so yeah, but	319.2061
196		319.6864	I don't remember much about /RD-SCHOOL-4/.	321.2711
197	DCB_int_01	321.4632	What about /RD-SCHOOL-2/?	322.2552
198	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	322.3608	/RD-SCHOOL-2/ I remember a lot, um, that's when the nine eleven	325.6421
200		326.0946	happened so I remember being in class with that.	328.0555
202		328.7410	School shut, my mom came and got me.	331.2623
204		331.4983	I didn't know what was going on,	332.6423
206		332.9509	and I think <laugh> as a child and probably now it was just like, okay.	336.7073
208		337.3262	Somebody- I- I was just always nonchalant about it like, okay somebody just	340.6260
210		341.0812	took a plane and,	341.9225
212		342.2337	like I was never sad about it like, I don't know [why but-]	344.8949
213	DCB_int_01	344.3187	[Mm.]	344.7973
214	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	345.7073	I guess I didn't- because it was no one that I knew.	348.0736
216		348.5458	It was just like another current event on the news, so.	350.8949
217	DCB_int_01	350.8820	And you were like eleven, right? [So it wasn't a-]	353.4043
218	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	352.3358	[Yeah so it was just like]	353.6604
219		353.9966	I saw everybody else saying thing- things like that was just like,	356.6099
221		357.3834	what was your rush for coming to get me like, we were [playing in school, like, <laugh> like, some-]	362.3813
222	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	359.2362	[<laugh> /inaudible/ so out of] control.	363.0736
223	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	363.0792	So.	363.5325
225		363.7395	But I'm [still like that to this day like,]	365.6242
226	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	364.2424	[/unintelligible/]	364.7217
227	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	364.9864	[/I was gonna/] say that.	366.2047
228	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	366.2367	I don't know why I'm like that but it's just-	367.9175
230		368.8511	Things that everybody else can be crying about, I'm like, girl, like, it's not that serious, like,	372.9970
232		373.4772	so.	373.8574
233	DCB_int_01	373.9175	Have anything like really just shaken you to the core like- and- and- and you don't have to share if you don't [want to but like] something that's just like,	380.1255
234	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	378.5448	[Uh-huh.]	379.0061
235	DCB_int_01	380.3977	messed you all up emotion like, I just can't, this is too much?	383.4403
236	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	383.4465	I would sa- n- I still wasn't messed up to the- but I was like- I would say like the- the most that ever hit me	388.6741
238		389.1722	was /RD-NAME-2/ passing away like I've been-	391.9882
240		392.2736	I've been molested before and it still- when that happened I was just like,	395.0361
242		396.9810	okay, like,	398.0370
244		398.2308	he did this, okay what's next? And that was it. But I wasn't like, oh my god, like, my world's ruined and- no.	403.8454
246		404.2776	Never was like that.	404.9976
247	DCB_int_01	405.3593	Mm.	405.7914
248	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	406.2998	So.	406.7118
249	DCB_int_01	407.4003	Um, so I'll ask you- so okay, moving on to- to middle school then we'll come back,	411.7035
250	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	411.7355	Mm-hm.	412.1277
251	DCB_int_01	412.1557	um, but moving to middle school, you went to- I forgot what you s- which one.	415.9255
253		416.9311	[<singing>]	418.6199
254	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	418.1957	[/RD-SCHOOL-2/.]	418.6277
255	DCB_int_01	418.7160	/RD-SCHOOL-2/.	419.2106
256	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	419.9806	[I hated going to /RD-SCHOOL-2/.]	421.0272
257	DCB_int_01	420.0086	[And high school?]	420.8206
258	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	420.7009	[/inaudible/]	423.0780
259	DCB_int_01	421.0170	[Okay.]	421.5717
260		422.0855	[Why did you hate going-] okay.	423.7472
261	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	423.7678	Because it was the neighborhood school and I wasn't supposed to go to /RD-SCHOOL-2/, I was supposed to- during this time my mom was getting- cause I had	429.8756
263		430.1997	a niece	430.8824
265		431.3843	and a brother they're the same age so my mom and my sister were pregnant at the same time.	434.4910
266	DCB_int_01	434.4789	Mm-hm.	434.8150
267	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	434.8671	And so	435.3578
269		435.5634	my mom was trying to transfer all us to a private school so they- their scholarship had went through, they had started pro- my scholarship was still in the process so,	442.6840
271		442.9161	she was like, you can just go to /RD-SCHOOL-2/ for one year and then the next year,	445.7654
273		446.4817	um,	447.0310
275		447.3714	we'll c-	448.1037
277		448.3253	continue doing the /payment/ so you can go, and I was like, I don't wanna go to school, this is a neighborhood school, like,	452.7338
279		453.2873	I-	453.5514
281		453.6395	the kids were rough to me like, you know, I didn't know how it was gonna go but it ended up being a great experience.	458.3857
283		458.6276	Like in the beginning I was like, I don't wanna go to this school, but my mom was like, well there's no other options, but I ended up loving it. But in the beginning I was like, I don't wanna go to this school.	465.3233
284	DCB_int_01	465.7115	Why?	466.1837
285	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	466.8280	Cause it was neighborhoods like w- they were rough, [<laugh>] like, I didn't wanna go there.	471.3553
286	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	468.7009	[/inaudible/]	469.8356
287	DCB_int_01	471.3473	But no- but I mean why did it [end up being- embracing] the [experience?]	473.9751
288	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	472.2358	[Oh why'd I li-]	473.0264
290		473.7685	[I think] because it was so hood.	475.2831
291	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	475.4612	[<laugh>]	479.4630
292	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	475.7254	[<laugh>]	478.4230
293	DCB_int_01	476.1628	[<laugh>]	478.5799
294		479.0721	[I ain't like it] because it was hood but it was great because it was [hood.]	481.3635
295	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	481.2211	[Right, you know how you-	482.2851
296		482.6298	like it- I- my- my childhood was, uh, it was like-	485.5138
298		485.6644	[My mom- and it's- it's like] I am now with my sons like, I live in a hood, but it's like	489.0938
299	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	485.6644	[<laugh>]	486.8911
300	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	489.3714	you try your best to	490.7440
301	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	491.2282	Branch out to [the-]	492.2402
302	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	492.0126	[No], you try your best to pr- cause I have two others- I m- I have two sons. [They're five and seven.]	496.0762
303	DCB_int_01	495.4034	[Mm.]	495.8356
304	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	496.3958	So you try your best to like, protect them from that.	498.7849
306		499.0771	Like although my kids in the hood,	500.3777
308		500.5818	I-	500.9311
310		501.2193	they don't feel like they're in the hood. [So that was] my mom's thing like, we're in the hood but	505.3052
311	DCB_int_01	503.0441	[Mm.]	503.4763
312	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	505.5773	you don't have to-	506.5831
314		506.7609	I'm not gonna treat you like you're in the hood, you don't have to talk like this, you know so, it's just like, although we in the hood I try my best to like,	512.0177
316		512.4257	still show you the nice part of life.	514.2197
318		514.9441	So it was like that with my mom.	516.1894
320		516.3727	So.	516.7489
321	DCB_int_01	516.7929	And when you say show them the ni- like what do you mean like how do [you-]	519.8004
322	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	519.4154	[Like] anything	520.9407
323		521.4003	a person making a hundred K a year,	523.4292
325		523.7134	I'm able to do that. So I take them on trips, you know, I show them nice things I get 'em out here,	528.0417
327		528.2127	I buy them nice clothes and stuff like that so you won't-	530.5698
329		530.8551	there- there's always food on the table, there's always-	533.3511
331		533.9205	Like I've been without electricity, um,	536.1654
333		536.9231	that's a-	537.2753
335		537.4394	that was another story. I don't even know if y'all know that.	539.2242
337		539.5884	Okay my- I had a- I've been on my own since I was seventeen.	542.5710
339		543.0472	Had my first place when I was eighteen.	544.4510
341		544.7920	So I experienced having no lights	547.1771
343		547.3372	in my- in my first apartment.	548.6258
345		548.8671	I was like, oh no we're never gonna be there, no ma'am, my lights are never gonna get cut off again like that.	552.7568
347		552.9570	So it was like things like that I don't ever wanna experience again.	555.1580
349		555.5147	And like with my oldest son, we went like from house to house to house to house before and I was like, oh we're never gonna be without a house.	560.4137
351		560.7231	And then it was like,	561.5644
353		561.6835	I gotta make sure we always have our own place so it was like stuff like that.	564.2341
354	DCB_int_01	564.6569	I understa- my mom was	565.8982
356		566.1948	um, a single parent [and we grew up] in the projects so I understand, and my mom was very much- she said she would go without	571.6733
357	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	567.3073	[Yeah.]	567.8620
358		571.9255	[Yeah.]	572.5348
359	DCB_int_01	572.0495	[so that we] could ha- so we would never know what it is to	574.4879
360		575.0521	eat, you know never know what it is to be [hungry, never know what] it is to-	578.3695
361	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	575.5043	[Mm-hm.]	576.1817
363		577.0250	[Right.]	577.6837
364	DCB_int_01	578.6510	You okay?	579.1590
365	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	579.2713	Yeah I got charley horse. [<laugh>]	582.7569
366	DCB_int_01	580.4278	[Oh yeah I kno- ooh, yes, um.]	582.8249
367		583.1011	So I- I [understand that], I understand you don't, you know.	585.4714
368	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	583.7174	[Uh-huh]	584.2587
369	DCB_int_01	585.6795	Um, so thinking about high school then, you moved to-	589.1611
371		589.6093	you went to /RD-SCHOOL-4/, what was that experience like?	592.1773
372	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	592.3758	[Um],	593.2242
373	DCB_int_01	592.3758	[Where is it? Is it-] Where is [Math-]	593.9325
374	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	593.6964	[it's] in Northeast.	594.6689
375	DCB_int_01	594.6609	Okay.	594.9785
376	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	595.2812	Okay /RD-SCHOOL-4/-	597.2322
378		597.8956	What year- what year is that when you're seventeen, is that eleventh or twelfth?	601.4086
379	DCB_int_01	602.2416	It [could be either] eleventh or twelfth depending on when you started school.	605.0306
380	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	602.4389	[Eleventh.]	602.9191
381	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	605.0521	Well I don't-	605.6615
383		606.3847	Ninth and tenth was smooth,	607.7814
385		607.9094	because that's when my moth- my mother was like very active in my life, like she did everything	611.5908
387		611.8645	for me	612.6529
389		612.7769	that [like-]	613.2211
390	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	613.0531	[You] was pregnant twelfth grade.	614.4520
391	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	614.5990	I know.	615.1630
393		615.3033	But it's some stories lining up	616.6144
394	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	616.6760	[Oh.]	616.9401
395	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	616.7440	[before] we get to that. <laugh>	618.0546
396		618.3287	So when I turned seventeen is when my mom got really really really really really sick.	622.2277
398		622.4999	Like she wasn't supposed to make it past December of	625.0235
400		626.3857	whatever that year was that I was seventeen. /Is/ [that two-thousand seven?] Yeah two-thousand seven.	630.0806
401	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	628.3598	[Two-thousand seven.]	629.0851
402	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	630.5488	So I was living with her and her husband in District Heights,	634.1557
404		634.3078	they had a house.	635.0851
406		635.5324	But me and her husband did not get along because	638.0564
408		638.5470	I felt like he took advantage of her because she was very sick,	641.8895
409	DCB_int_01	642.1206	Mm.	642.5446
410	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	642.5128	and like would talk to her any type of way just do anything to her and things like that.	646.3230
411		646.6399	And my mother couldn't do anything on her own like she couldn't wipe her own butt, she couldn't	649.8398
413		651.1793	clothe herself, she couldn't- nothing, like she had like the mind of a two year old she would just go in the kitchen,	655.5813
415		655.7454	cut on the stove and	657.1094
417		657.7555	like- and just walk away, and stuff be on the stove, like so you had to	660.8889
419		660.9850	tend to her like a- all the time.	662.6624
421		663.0672	So me and him had got into a heated- oh and then I was getting child support from my dad.	666.3535
423		666.6689	My dad just disappeared after a while.	668.0811
425		668.2989	But he-	668.6630
427		668.8431	the child support was ending.	669.8231
429		670.5239	And so I was like, you know, I need my money to take care of me like my mom can't take care of me and my child support so me and him got into it one day and he was like, well you gotta go.	677.4257
431		677.8205	And like just put me out.	678.8178
433		679.3812	And so,	680.2092
435		680.5870	I'm still going to /RD-SCHOOL-4/, still going to school, so I end up moving with my aunt.	683.5804
437		684.3687	And then I don't know what happened with me and my aunt, but that didn't work out either.	687.8513
439		688.3038	So I moved from my aunt, I went to go- still going to school.	691.6093
441		691.7254	I never dropped out, still going to school.	693.4594
443		693.8676	And then I moved with my friend who lived around /RD-ADDRESS-2/,	696.9010
445		697.3412	but by this time I did get pregnant.	699.0860
447		700.4158	Um, who was I living with when I was pregnant? <laugh>	702.9290
448	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	703.2371	Girl you got a lot of [living situations.]	705.0590
449	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	704.0547	[Wasn't it /RD-NAME-2/?]	705.0590
450	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	705.1272	Huh?	705.4806
451	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	705.6635	Was it /RD-NAME-2/?	706.4198
452	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	708.2167	I don't know who I was living with when I got pregnant, it could have been /RD-NAME-2/.	710.8896
454		712.2558	I don't know, it was between, /when I was pregnant/, could have been with /RD-NAME-2/ but then it could have been my aunt /RD-NAME-3/.	716.1076
456		716.5590	But I think both, but when I finally had him,	718.7735
458		719.1562	I was w- living with my aunt /RD-NAME-3/.	721.0971
460		721.5573	But it was like, I would sleep on the couch, my baby sleep on the couch, and was like this not gonna work, so I went back with /RD-NAME-2/.	726.4764
462		727.0931	So I was still in school, so I finally had my son, graduated from high school,	730.2764
464		731.2722	and then	731.8709
466		732.2967	yeah.	732.7169
467	DCB_int_01	733.1811	So,	733.6211
469		733.8374	do me a favor, move your mic to the middle [of your shirt. No because] you talk with your hands,	737.5804
470	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	735.3353	[Oh. <laugh>]	736.4599
471		737.5964	[Uh-huh.]	738.1364
472	DCB_int_01	737.7124	[that's fine], I just don't want you to- I don't want it to [hit you.]	740.0586
473	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	739.6133	[Right.]	740.2080
474	DCB_int_01	740.4017	Um, okay so you had your son,	742.1917
476		742.5159	and then	743.1802
478		743.5444	um, when- at what [point did you-]	745.0410
479	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	744.5088	[When I was going] to UDC too, once I had had him [then I /lived/ with my] aunt. Mm-hm.	748.1317
480	DCB_int_01	746.9432	[Okay you-]	747.5554
482		748.1077	Okay so then	749.0041
483		749.1282	fr- how did you-	750.0455
485		750.1606	kind of from high school did you go straight to UDC?	752.1576
486	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	752.1496	Mm-hm.	752.5269
487	DCB_int_01	752.7671	Okay.	753.1897
488	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	753.3714	So I went straight to UDC but I stopped after the second semester.	757.9380
490		759.2073	Um,	759.9796
492		760.4839	<ts>	760.6239
494		761.3243	um, my sister called me one day and was like,	764.0055
496		764.3176	oh these people have a apartment listing opening up you should go try it out, and it was like, okay.	768.5088
498		768.8650	So me and my friend /RD-NAME-2/ the girl that I was living with, we went to go put our name on the list.	772.6840
500		773.6284	They end up calling me a week la- it was a quarter income,	775.7643
502		776.0695	ended up calling me a week later and I got the apartment, um,	778.9001
504		779.3883	I still wasn't working at this time,	781.1011
506		781.7414	so it was just me and my son, I don't know what I was doing though.	784.3017
508		786.5968	I don't know, but I ended up getting a job at Giant.	788.6685
510		789.7195	So I was working at Giant, at this time my rent was only like twenty dollars. <laugh>	793.9747
511	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	794.1068	Ooh, [/inaudible/]	795.2681
512	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	794.5470	[<laugh>]	795.4874
513		795.8556	Like twenty dollars, um,	797.5701
515		798.2487	this when I was	798.7769
517		798.8970	getting food stamps, /??/, everything, like I was getting all the benefits, WIC,	803.5442
519		803.9485	everything you name, I was	805.2131
521		805.3412	getting every, all the benefits, but	806.9579
523		807.4074	I didn't- I [know n- ]	808.2077
524	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	807.8556	[/inaudible/]	808.8796
525	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	808.4158	[no, then] sum- you know about summer jobs, the summer youth employment [program?]	811.5754
526	DCB_int_01	810.9930	[Mm-hm.]	811.5344
527	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	812.1988	That came around	813.2833
529		813.7875	and I quit my- I quit my real job and I said okay I'm'a just see how this works because this is in a government building.	819.7670
531		820.1237	This is a government position, I'm'a see how this work, everybody was like, No you're dumb, you're stupid, why would you quit your real job?	824.8579
533		825.1232	So this was a summer job that's gonna be over by the end of the summer.	827.6619
535		828.5248	And I was like, you know,	829.2972
537		829.7414	if- if it's-	830.6578
539		831.2393	I put in a two weeks notice and my boss told me if you need to come back, you can come back, you're /?/ what you supposed to do.	836.5537
541		836.8631	So I tried the job out and it did end,	839.3683
543		839.9045	but they ended up calling me back and they was like, okay you did so well want- we want you to come on by, and so I ended up getting a full time position	846.0604
545		846.6809	at /RD-WORK-6/ so that worked out.	848.7751
547		849.3633	Then my rent was no longer twenty dollars, <laugh> my rent- <laugh>	853.7894
548	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	852.1006	[<laugh>]	854.2496
549	DCB_int_01	852.4728	[/It sure wasn't/.]	853.4612
550		853.9094	Amen.	854.4497
551	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	854.4749	my rent-	854.9003
553		855.0312	I'm sorry. My rent was no longer twenty dollars,	857.4660
555		857.9966	they cut me off of food stamps [um,]	860.4303
556	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	860.1708	[You got] the real life bills.	861.5754
557	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	861.6075	Yeah <laugh> um,	863.4163
559		864.0806	n-	864.2847
561		864.4808	I- the only thing they allowed me to continue was Medicaid.	867.7235
562	DCB_int_01	868.0357	Mm-hm.	868.5479
563	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	868.6039	Yeah, and then two years later,	870.7999
565		871.2211	no.	871.6331
567		871.8134	Hold on,	872.2881
569		872.6218	so after my oldest son was born I got pregnant again.	875.0161
571		875.8125	I had abortion with	876.5688
573		876.7489	the second baby.	877.7094
575		878.2416	Then-	878.9656
577		879.1392	no no no no. [<laugh>]	882.1847
578	DCB_int_01	881.5564	[Okay, rewind.] We [going back.]	883.0771
579	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	882.5568	[Yeah rewind.]	883.2772
580		883.5613	Okay.	884.2213
582		884.4109	Before my son was born I got pregnant.	886.9481
583	DCB_int_01	887.0041	Mm-hm.	887.3414
584	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	887.4243	I didn't have that baby.	888.4363
586		888.6209	All this with the same man, I was with one- with this man for four-	890.9889
588		891.4154	four almost five years.	892.7280
589	DCB_int_01	892.8400	Mm-hm.	893.2147
590	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	893.4483	So I was with him, got pregnant.	895.7534
592		896.2656	Hold on, I met him in August,	898.0116
594		898.4198	I got pregnant [by him in December,]	900.3012
595	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	899.0041	[/inaudible/]	900.9334
596	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	901.7414	I- I aborted that baby in December. I got-	904.6760
597	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	904.2237	[Who was that?]	904.8851
598	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	905.2562	Huh?	905.5736
599	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	905.7404	Who was that?	906.3551
600	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	906.6289	This was /RD-NAME-2/.	907.5702
601	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	907.6893	Oh.	908.1520
602	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	908.4709	<laugh>	909.1576
604		909.8436	[<laugh>]	910.4889
605	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	910.0757	[She know] her baby father [is girl.]	912.0597
606	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	911.3763	[<laugh>]	912.1883
607		912.5368	I aborted that baby in December,	914.5848
609		914.9392	Then I got pregnant again in Jan- the very the next month	917.2816
610	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	917.5644	/??/	918.1286
611	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	918.0806	with my oldest son.	919.3593
612		919.6133	I had him in October,	921.4217
614		922.3878	before my six weeks is up I was pregnant again <laugh>	925.7807
615	DCB_int_01	926.1188	Okay.	926.6841
616	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	926.8031	/inaudible/ no judgement.	928.4599
617	DCB_int_01	928.7800	Mm-mm.	929.4253
618	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	929.6524	Oh, she don't wanna hear my [/inaudible/]	931.9135
619	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	930.9450	[I got pregnant again.]	932.3490
620		932.9139	I did not have that baby,	934.4118
622		934.9121	and then I preg- got pregnant with my second son,	937.4452
624		938.0975	<ts>	938.2056
626		938.3136	and	939.0032
628		939.2753	I didn't wanna keep him but it- m- God was telling me like, if you have abortion,	943.6013
630		943.9655	I'm gonna kill you.	945.0588
632		945.1472	[You know what I'm saying like, <laugh> like,]	948.3767
633	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	945.1753	[<laugh>]	948.3072
634	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	948.6769	Did God physically say that?	950.1416
635	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	950.1896	Like I-	950.8819
636	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	950.9392	You [felt that?]	951.5554
637	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	951.1403	[/inaudible/]	951.7761
638	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	951.5194	[I] felt it like, I- that- that's another thing like, my mom has always like	955.2571
639		955.4132	brought us up in church /and though-/ and although we not li- her children aren't the most like	959.3963
641		959.8205	religious people in the world it's just like, those things will never leave you.	963.1633
642	DCB_int_01	963.1312	Yup.	963.4379
643	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	963.4994	You know, so,	964.6287
645		964.9601	it's just like,	965.7668
647		966.1446	I did it once, God didn't do anything.	968.4538
649		968.6630	I did it a second time, I'm like, he was like, you playing with me now like,	972.1322
651		972.7009	you get this again something's gonna happen to you, so I was just like, okay /God just did it./	976.6079
653		976.9161	Then I ended up getting a birth control after my second son	979.1906
655		979.4532	I was on that for five years.	980.8539
657		981.2553	I was off my birth control for a week and then I got pregnant again.	983.7605
658	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	984.2767	[<laugh>]	987.5337
659	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	984.2807	[<laugh>]	985.1247
660	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	984.4076	[<laugh>]	987.8023
661	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	986.3457	[<laugh>]	987.6595
662	DCB_int_01	986.7231	[Mm.]	987.3177
663		987.9316	Okay, [you're fertile.]	989.1596
664	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	988.4318	[/inaudible/]	989.3425
665	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	989.5404	Very. <laugh>	990.5017
667		991.3732	Um,	992.0855
669		993.3714	so I think I was out of college for about	996.8610
671		997.1811	four years,	998.1304
672	DCB_int_01	998.1828	[Mm-hm.]	998.5950
673	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	998.2909	[cause that's] how long it took you to get-	999.4554
674		999.6435	you was in school for four years?	1000.7280
676		1001.1242	I was out of college for four years, so as- as I was working at the job that I am now,	1004.4937
678		1004.9792	this lady came to me and was like, have you ever considered	1007.6362
680		1007.9285	like going to school, you know, going to get your bachelors, and I was like, no.	1011.3217
682		1011.6195	And she was like, why? I was like, cause I believe- like, I'm a very hard worker, so I believe, like,	1015.5555
684		1015.7734	if I do good at my job,	1017.1881
686		1017.4154	I'm- I'm'a continue to get promoted and promoted and promoted and promoted, and she was like, honey,	1021.7832
688		1022.1828	it doesn't work like that. Or whatever like, you have to	1025.1002
690		1025.4363	have the education as well as the experience. So I was like, okay I guess I'll try it out.	1028.7458
692		1028.9952	I didn't know who was gonna watch my kids while I was in school, I didn't know how I was gonna make it work but	1033.4092
694		1034.0347	faith in God, was like just do it, step out on faith and you never know.	1037.5080
696		1038.9130	And, um,	1039.6730
697	DCB_int_01	1040.6898	It's okay, it's my mom. She- we can-	1042.3398
698	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1042.4719	[<laugh>]	1043.0612
699	DCB_int_01	1042.5319	[we can talk to her] later.	1043.6924
700	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1044.1206	So I enrolled in school, I didn't know who was gonna watch my kids but it was just like,	1047.5074
702		1047.7635	people were coming out of anywh- everywhere like, oh I'll watch 'em	1050.6369
704		1050.8443	fo- f- for this day, and I'll watch 'em for that day.	1053.3377
706		1053.5074	So it all worked out and I'm	1054.7080
708		1054.8760	graduating next year.	1055.8040
710		1056.0446	So.	1056.2939
711	DCB_int_01	1056.2607	Well [congratulations, what's your degree] in?	1058.4954
712	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1057.1011	[Yes, thank you-]	1058.0464
713		1058.6378	Um,	1059.1793
715		1059.3954	business administration with human resource management, this is not what I wanna do with my life, though.	1063.4714
716	DCB_int_01	1064.7591	[Okay.]	1065.2884
717	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1064.9792	[So], it was just one of those things, I just needed to get in school just-	1067.7004
718		1068.2727	just needed to go get a bachelors.	1069.3260
720		1069.6733	Now I think I wanna be interior decorator but it's just like that's my plan B like,	1073.7777
722		1073.9966	/although-/	1074.4219
724		1074.5808	n- no one can take my education away from me so I was just like,	1077.0782
726		1077.4914	okay I'm'a just go get a degree in something, bam.	1079.9726
728		1080.3882	/And, that's it/.	1081.2463
729	DCB_int_01	1081.5533	But that's a smart- I'm'a tell you why that's really smart. Human resources is always a necessary field right, [you can have no] company	1088.1696
730	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	1086.6249	[Yes it is.]	1087.5795
731	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1086.9090	[Mm-hm.]	1087.4612
732	DCB_int_01	1088.3709	and you don't have an HR department.	1090.1874
733	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1090.1917	Right.	1090.6399
734	DCB_int_01	1090.6439	So th-	1091.3323
736		1091.4683	if nothing else, that's a great	1093.4923
738		1093.9135	backup [plan, because it's- it's-]	1095.4474
739	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1094.4429	[Mm-hm.]	1095.0522
740	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1094.7991	[Everybody] needs [somebody in HR. They] always need [somebody in HR.]	1098.9656
741	DCB_int_01	1095.8396	[everybody needs HR.]	1096.9822
742	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1097.0721	[Right.]	1097.3801
743	DCB_int_01	1098.2567	[So], that's a great backup plan.	1100.4954
744	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1100.6870	No that was- yeah, that was one of the reasons why I didn't take school seriously at first because it's like	1105.9404
746		1106.3096	I didn't wanna go to school for four years and	1108.4799
748		1108.6359	it's not something that I really wanted to do, so it was just like, until I found out what I really wanted to do then /now I'm not going to/ school, so.	1114.3118
749	DCB_int_01	1116.0246	So how was college?	1117.2819
750	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1118.0495	Um,	1118.9509
752		1119.9636	it's-	1120.4530
754		1120.6800	I've been in school since two-thousand twelve, and I've never taken a break like,	1124.9739
756		1125.1232	going on every semester.	1126.7338
758		1127.1562	Um,	1127.7364
760		1128.8249	it- in the beginning str- it was stressful but it's like /now/ a part of me like,	1132.9404
762		1133.3643	like I'm not going to school this summer and I feel like a loser like, why am I n- <laugh>	1137.8756
764		1138.4038	I don't know what I'm gonna do with myself.	1140.1366
766		1140.4968	And then I was talking to my sister, my sister said, no maybe you- maybe you needed this break. But only reason I'm not going to school this summer because they had no classes that I need.	1148.1536
767	DCB_int_01	1148.5257	[Mm.]	1148.9284
768	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1148.5870	[So they're] like, you know we have no classes for you this summer, that's the only thing you can do is sit out until fall semester.	1153.7163
769		1154.0695	So it's like, I won't be working this summer, I won't be in school, and it's just like, I haven't done that in so long like, what am I gonna be doing?	1159.9135
770	DCB_int_01	1160.0735	Hanging out with the boys.	1161.3353
771	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1161.6635	And having a baby.	1162.6928
772	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1162.6800	I'm just one of those constructive people like I have to be doing something.	1165.9680
773		1166.1736	I have to be doing something, like, so.	1168.2362
774	DCB_int_01	1168.5279	When is the baby due?	1169.4239
775	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1169.5964	In July.	1170.2007
776	DCB_int_01	1170.5528	<gasps> July what?	1171.3808
777	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1171.5293	Fifteenth.	1172.1893
779		1173.1032	[<laugh>]	1174.0076
780	DCB_int_01	1173.2313	[My birthday's in July.]	1174.2806
781	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1174.2758	[Oh yeah?]	1174.8744
782	DCB_int_01	1174.4118	[If you could just wait] a couple [weeks /??/]	1175.7565
783	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1175.2762	[When your birthday at?]	1176.0522
784	DCB_int_01	1176.2807	Honey I understand that, you wanna give birth [as soon as possible.]	1178.8767
785	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1177.8574	[Yeah.]	1178.5041
786	DCB_int_01	1179.0232	Um, July twenty seventh.	1180.2165
787	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1180.4719	What s- what sign is that?	1181.5123
788	DCB_int_01	1181.9525	Leo.	1182.3672
789	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1182.5008	Le- oh.	1183.2968
790	DCB_int_01	1184.3016	Uh-	1184.5763
792		1184.8751	ooh.	1185.1698
793	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1185.0512	Here we go. She ain't- she ain't /RD-NAME-1/'s yet?	1186.8805
794	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1185.7955	[/inaudible/ birthday?]	1188.2276
795	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	1186.8600	[Uh-uh.]	1187.8214
796	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1187.8845	[Mm.]	1188.3112
797	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	1188.3127	I'm trying to get her to do it but /Jessie/ can't do hers until six, so I- I don't know if she wanted to be [by five.]	1192.8244
798	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1191.9116	[Oh.]	1192.3343
799	DCB_int_01	1192.3278	[Oh.]	1192.7998
800	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	1192.9921	Now that'd be a interesting interview.	1194.7334
801	DCB_int_01	1195.0210	[So um,]	1196.5778
802	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1195.5653	[/inaudible/]	1197.1833
803	DCB_int_01	1196.7791	[okay] so let's talk about then	1198.8791
804		1199.2722	talk about-	1199.8682
806		1200.7289	so okay, I know you're getting- you're- you're engaged now, so tell me a little about your fiance.	1205.1562
807	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1205.8645	So I was dating this guy,	1208.7819
809		1209.6167	for seven months	1211.5674
811		1213.2652	in two thousand fourteen.	1215.0860
813		1215.7075	And he was like very like verbally abusive like, he would be like, oh you're not pretty, you're this, that,	1221.3553
815		1221.7755	and all that so,	1223.1809
817		1223.6684	I just knew that relationship wasn't work but it was just like one of those convenient things, okay, he's here for my rent,	1227.8116
819		1228.1237	just gonna enjoy it	1229.2384
821		1229.4323	and then go from there.	1230.3723
823		1231.0731	We had all had a falling out.	1232.6704
825		1233.9396	Um, after /RD-NAME-2/ passed away.	1235.8071
827		1236.0806	Um, I don't know what the falling out was for but	1238.5950
829		1238.7471	we decided to go out to the bar	1240.5159
831		1240.7320	on H Street	1241.5493
833		1241.9045	at Kong's so it was me /RD-NAME-3/,	1243.9175
835		1244.3296	/RD-NAME-2/-	1245.0947
837		1245.8396	that was it, right?	1246.4849
839		1246.6920	And /RD-NAME-3/.	1247.2480
841		1247.9926	And so I kept feeling this boy like, look at him he's- <laugh>	1252.6037
842	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1252.1077	[And I moved my seat so y'all could see him.]	1254.5904
843	DCB_int_01	1252.4579	[<laugh>]	1256.5250
844	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1253.4836	[<laugh>]	1256.1448
845		1256.5090	<laugh>	1257.3156
846		1257.8016	So we- /RD-NAME-2/ the one you gonna meet,	1260.1955
848		1260.4600	she's like-	1261.2724
850		1261.4164	she was like, kirking off, I don't even know what she was kirking off on,	1264.4579
852		1264.6700	the bartender was really nice, he was paying for the shots, it was just wonderful.	1268.0447
854		1268.5730	So I see the guy walk in,	1270.2183
856		1270.6139	like, oh he's cute. So- but once he sit down I'm like, I see him out of my corner of my eye.	1275.1132
858		1275.8376	<ts> And so I don't know if he aks us what we drinking or did we aks him what he drinking,	1279.3302
860		1280.1168	but it was like,	1280.7371
862		1280.9412	and he was like, all I drink is Patron, and I was like, okay well,	1283.9145
864		1284.3920	we- you know, let us get a shot of Patron.	1286.5210
866		1286.6850	You know- yeah, so.	1287.9130
868		1288.8260	I don't- and then he was there with his sister and I think his sister was like, my brother like-	1292.8771
870		1293.0132	something happened. [Basically-]	1294.5292
871	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1294.0096	[I moved] seats so y'all two could sit [/inaudible/]	1296.5515
872	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1295.8437	[No I got up] honey.	1297.1637
873	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1297.3604	Well yeah you got up [/inaudible/]	1298.8371
874	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1298.1288	[<laugh>]	1299.4734
875	DCB_int_01	1298.8731	[Mm.]	1299.4465
876	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1299.2373	[Cause] I was sitting beside him so I- him and his sister, so I end up moving-	1303.8325
877		1304.0808	you know, I moved to the /?/	1305.4447
878	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1305.5534	I don't know how it happened but [basically]	1307.4860
879	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1306.9688	[Mm-hm.]	1307.5926
880	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1307.8197	I got up, and I went down there with him and his sister and so we was just talking, I did tell him I had a boyfriend.	1312.9741
882		1313.2382	/RD-NAME-3/ made sure that he knew that I had a boyfriend,	1316.1728
884		1316.6690	she just kept saying, but you got a boyfriend like, why are you over talking to him? Like- [<laugh>]	1322.0327
885	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1320.9923	[<laugh>]	1322.0203
886	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1322.4889	But I knew that I was not happy and I knew that	1325.1634
888		1325.3955	me and my boyfriend	1326.2959
890		1326.7401	at the time was not gonna be a permanent thing, wasn't gonna be a long term thing so it was like, let me do me. Like,	1331.4663
892		1332.0598	you know, and so me and him started talking-	1334.3302
894		1334.8531	No no no no, we didn't start talking right then and there.	1336.9621
896		1337.3983	We didn't start talking right then and there.	1338.8583
897	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1339.0163	Y'all started drinking.	1339.8042
898	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1340.1488	[<laugh> Yeah we was drinking] we was talking and all this other stuff. So we all left.	1343.7821
899	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1340.1968	[And /inaudible/]	1341.1568
900	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1345.0003	We left and went to this-	1346.2327
902		1346.6810	this little fake party looking thing across the street.	1349.9210
904		1350.9722	<laugh>	1352.2008
906		1352.6050	So guess who was in the party. <laugh>	1355.4195
907	DCB_int_01	1355.4195	Mm.	1356.2515
908	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1356.3880	And so this song was like, you make me wanna leave the one I'm with, [start a new- <laugh>]	1362.6393
909	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1359.4894	[<laugh> I remember that.]	1363.7350
910	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	1363.8086	I do too.	1364.7180
911	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1364.5970	[Start a new relationship.]	1366.5779
912	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1364.7020	[Start a new relationship with you.]	1367.3062
913	DCB_int_01	1366.6019	[Mm-hm.]	1367.3823
914	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1367.5156	So they go, /RD-NAME-3/ that's a sign.	1369.3796
915	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1369.3884	[<laugh>]	1371.3704
916	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1369.7846	[<laugh>]	1371.4595
917	DCB_int_01	1370.8891	[<laugh>]	1372.9421
918	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1374.7962	Everything- (laughing)	1375.5365
919	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1376.0087	[Everything's a sign.]	1377.2687
920	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1376.0247	[everything's a sign] for her. <laugh>	1377.9701
921		1378.4819	So we're like, grooving and dancing,	1380.9762
923		1381.4965	and stuff like that.	1382.7602
925		1383.0532	/RD-NAME-3/ talking to one of his cousins, we're just dancing,	1386.3422
927		1386.5320	and then you know we just-	1387.6446
928	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1387.7046	She [crazy.]	1388.3969
929	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1388.1768	[we] exchanged numbers and stuff like that.	1390.2603
930		1390.5179	But it was like I- it felt weird that day because its like, okay I'll be right back- I don't know where I went but once I came back he was down there talking to another girl.	1397.2222
932		1397.9318	I was looking at him like, what is this?	1399.6821
934		1400.3329	So but	1400.9782
936		1401.1493	he called me later on that day, he was like, no my sister- basically his sister had him out	1405.4883
938		1405.7486	because she felt like he needed to talk to girls.	1408.2698
940		1408.6059	Because he had broken up with some girl	1410.9122
942		1411.1883	a while ago, so he just was messing with just	1413.2030
944		1414.2338	I guess girls that he- she didn't think that he should be with.	1416.9475
946		1417.2444	So she was like, I'm'a take you out and I'm'a hook you up with some girls, so [I was like, that's-]	1420.8056
947	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	1419.9736	[/That's dope/.]	1420.7283
948	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1420.9661	I was number one,	1422.1261
950		1422.9042	the girl in the club was number two,	1424.3809
951	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	1424.5130	[<laugh>]	1426.3778
952	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1424.6370	[and then I don't know who else- <laugh>]	1426.1577
953		1426.5019	[whoever else he met that night.]	1427.7917
954	DCB_int_01	1426.5099	[<laugh>]	1428.5120
955	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1428.5841	So, um,	1429.6161
957		1429.8286	that was that. Our relationship moved really really really really really really fast though.	1433.3983
959		1433.8237	Um, so,	1434.7882
961		1435.4845	I met him in November,	1437.2093
963		1438.2698	um, he started catching feelings, he was like, well /look, you gotta-/	1441.4885
965		1441.9927	I thought I could play the dude on the side,	1443.8656
967		1444.0577	DC does that a lot, you know side chicks, side dudes.	1446.9963
969		1447.2844	He was like, <laugh>	1448.3249
971		1448.8291	I thought I could be the, uh, side dude but I can't, you know, I got feelings for you, like so whatchu gonna do?	1453.7342
973		1454.4769	I was like,	1455.1889
975		1455.8496	well I'm'a work it out with my boyfriend because I don't really know you, like, so I sent him this real	1460.3169
977		1460.6010	long text message and I was like you know, I'm sorry for [leading you on,]	1463.9838
978	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1463.2314	[/Exit/ message.]	1464.1861
979	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1464.6361	<laugh> I'm sorry for leading you on, and all this other stuff.	1467.6100
981		1468.1097	Um, because during this time we would go on like, multiple dates	1471.0163
983		1471.2284	within one week.	1472.3278
985		1472.7451	But it was just like, I'm cheating, like- Oh don't- I- I didn't-	1476.0449
987		1476.9883	cheating ain't my thing, but I felt like that was- that was just-	1480.1094
989		1481.8837	me and him was just not right for each other so /I'm just like, oh-/ oh I'm just gonna cheat, I don't care like, you know, so.	1487.3077
991		1487.7877	So I was just like, you know, I can't do this no more, so he- he- basically he went off.	1492.1917
993		1492.6592	No no no, I w- I talked to my friends I was like, who do y'all think I should let go?	1496.0876
995		1496.6433	And so /RD-NAME-3/ was like,	1497.8607
997		1498.0413	one day she'll be on team /RD-NAME-2/ side, and one day she'll be on team /RD-NAME-2/ side. <laugh>	1502.4234
999		1502.6986	/RD-NAME-3/ one day she be-	1504.0426
1001		1504.3170	Like I was like, I couldn't even go to my friends and ask them for advice like, who should I talk to? So I was just like, well I'm'a just try to make it work with him.	1508.9619
1003		1509.3987	So he- and I was like, if me and /RD-NAME-2/ don't work out, I'm'a knock on /RD-NAME-2/'s door,	1513.4165
1004	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	1513.9771	[<laugh>]	1515.9222
1005	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1514.4165	[<laugh>]	1515.9973
1006	DCB_int_01	1515.9935	That's that backup plan.	1517.1495
1007	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1517.1050	Yeah I was like, [I'm not gon- <laugh>]	1519.0801
1008	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1517.6608	[That's that side- that side-]	1519.1408
1009	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1519.6284	And I'm'a just see what he say.	1521.0964
1011		1521.4281	But he didn't take my farewell text message	1524.0228
1013		1524.3758	as- like I thought he would because I'm thinking,	1526.4572
1015		1526.6825	I just met you in November it's December like,	1528.2258
1017		1528.5863	m- b- dudes don't catch feelings like that, like why you so mad?	1531.2326
1019		1531.7266	So he didn't take it good, and I didn't- and then	1534.0359
1021		1534.1260	we stopped talking for about a couple of days but I like- I missed him like terribly like,	1538.0173
1023		1538.4153	I was like, oh my god, like, no more dates?	1540.5593
1024	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	1540.7847	[<laugh>]	1542.4869
1025	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1541.3179	[<laugh>]	1543.4219
1026	DCB_int_01	1542.7722	[<laugh>]	1543.7856
1027	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1543.9813	No more like, falling asleep on the phone,	1546.1401
1029		1546.4521	/And then the fact-/ and then I wanted to know people like,	1548.1913
1031		1548.5523	how did I even have this much time to date you	1551.2897
1033		1551.5413	and talk to you this much and I had a full-	1553.2836
1035		1553.6264	a full boyfriend like how did I have this much time like, w- where are you?	1557.1185
1036	DCB_int_01	1557.3664	Mm.	1557.7930
1037	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1557.9221	But that wasn't a /??/	1558.9594
1039		1559.6693	So,	1560.2506
1041		1560.7733	I- I was like, I'm just gonna make it work with /RD-NAME-2/.	1562.8866
1043		1563.5369	My car got a boot on it.	1565.1873
1045		1565.7685	Or whatever so,	1567.2961
1047		1567.7624	um, I called my boyfriend at the time,	1570.1356
1049		1570.7413	I was like, uh, my car has a boot on it,	1573.0018
1051		1573.2120	and it wasn't like a thing I was aksing for money, to help me or anything, he was like- and but he know I has two sons,	1577.8844
1053		1578.1810	and use- I use my car for everything. He was like, dang, you know,	1581.0273
1055		1581.8834	that's so sad to hear that, or something, he was like- basically that's what he said.	1584.9541
1057		1585.3504	So /RD-NAME-2/ ended up texting me and was like, um,	1588.3664
1059		1588.4494	how your morning going? I was like, It's going horribly, he was like, why?	1591.1155
1061		1591.4159	I was like, I w- walked outside and had a boot on my car.	1593.6999
1063		1594.2896	He was like, alright, well meet me at the station,	1596.4167
1065		1597.0495	or whatever, and I'm'a give you money to get the boot off your car. I'm like, I just met this dude like, a couple of weeks ago, and it's like,	1602.2537
1067		1602.8408	he's willing to help me and my own boyfriend's not willing to help me, like,	1606.0756
1069		1606.4692	it's time for me to- So after that I was like, yeah /RD-NAME-2/ we- we're- we're just not gonna work anymore.	1610.5633
1071		1611.1491	So- <laugh>	1612.6285
1073		1612.9402	so I ended up going to team /RD-NAME-2/.	1614.6349
1074	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	1616.8465	[<laugh>]	1618.5701
1075	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1618.0969	[/RD-NAME-2/] and /RD-NAME-2/ is two different type of men though, okay?	1620.7449
1076		1621.4250	/RD-NAME-2/ was the	1622.6491
1078		1623.3288	on the right path type of guy like,	1625.7019
1080		1626.4566	<laugh>	1627.9255
1082		1628.8648	he had a nice little job and,	1631.0468
1084		1631.5195	you know, he come from a nice little family.	1634.1067
1086		1634.6636	He was like different from any other guy I ever talked to and like, and that- I think that was the reason I tried him out but he wasn't-	1639.6387
1088		1641.6565	<sigh> he wasn't- it- we was like oil and vinegar we just didn't [mix, it was just] like,	1645.3150
1089	DCB_int_01	1644.0157	[Mix, mm-hm.]	1644.8931
1090		1645.4013	Yup.	1645.6760
1091	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1645.8669	[We- we too] from-	1647.1624
1092	DCB_int_01	1645.8932	[I know that feeling.]	1646.7892
1093	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1647.7557	d- [it just] didn't work.	1649.6837
1094	DCB_int_01	1648.3790	[Mm.]	1648.8444
1095	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1649.9685	And so <laugh> /RD-NAME-2/ was just like,	1653.1265
1097		1653.4944	the hood boy. /You know, so-/ [<laugh>]	1657.7162
1098	DCB_int_01	1657.0966	[/Alright/.]	1657.5579
1099		1657.9865	I understand.	1658.7338
1100	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1658.7713	So- [<laugh>]	1660.6353
1101	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	1659.8351	[/??/]	1660.6111
1102	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1659.9666	[You better] be street [if you looking at me, hey. (singing)]	1663.4512
1103	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1661.4310	[<laugh>]	1662.0297
1105		1662.1933	[So- <laugh>]	1662.9893
1107		1663.3798	But it was like,	1664.2885
1108		1664.3899	/RD-NAME-2/ was like that protector as well like, he's like,	1667.1280
1110		1667.3425	if I was around him, you're not about to talk no trash about me, you're not about to- you're gonna respect me, and it was like one of those thing, and /RD-NAME-2/ didn't make me feel protected.	1674.3552
1112		1674.6546	Like-	1675.1519
1114		1675.2178	so it was just like, both of them was giving me different feelings cause like,	1677.9018
1116		1679.0152	I- I felt wanted and I made him happy and he showed it he was,	1683.0143
1118		1683.3797	he told me how he felt and /RD-NAME-2/ didn't like,	1685.9443
1120		1686.3949	it- it was just two different things. But my sister was like, you know,	1689.7706
1122		1690.0083	s- even before she met /RD-NAME-2/ she was like, come on,	1692.8270
1124		1693.0048	he a street dude,	1693.8435
1126		1694.3427	I was like-	1695.1613
1128		1696.1489	She was like, yeah he is street dude, <laugh> she was like, that's why you like- I was like, no that's not why I like him.	1700.1855
1130		1700.5058	But then after a while, like my family wanted me to stay with /RD-NAME-2/ because	1703.8402
1132		1704.1894	the type of guy he was but they didn't know like, how he was.	1706.7477
1134		1706.8941	E- every guy shows to be a nice person	1708.8993
1136		1709.1546	while they around your family but behind closed doors that's	1711.6680
1138		1711.8932	not how they treat you. So everybody was like,	1713.5529
1140		1713.8044	team /RD-NAME-2/, team /RD-NAME-2/ but	1715.2804
1142		1715.7157	eventually everybody is now team /RD-NAME-2/.	1717.9811
1144		1718.7246	And so,	1719.2465
1146		1719.4305	[then-]	1719.8809
1147	DCB_int_01	1719.4418	[Are y'all team] /RD-NAME-2/?	1720.3605
1148	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1721.2817	Are you team /RD-NAME-2/? <laugh>	1722.6864
1149	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1722.7999	Even when they crazy.	1724.0845
1150	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1723.9564	<laugh>	1725.1138
1151	DCB_int_01	1725.3570	[<laugh>]	1726.2157
1152	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1725.6537	[And] so me and him have been dating	1728.4169
1153		1729.2221	for-	1730.2780
1155		1731.8393	two thousand fourteen of November and then he propo- no- Oh lord.	1735.8845
1157		1736.3126	Two-thousand fourteen November we moved in with each other that April.	1739.3299
1159		1740.2264	Um,	1741.0863
1161		1741.2778	and then he proposed to me	1743.4219
1163		1743.7448	this January.	1744.8368
1165		1745.6685	And I-	1746.0778
1167		1746.5735	I got pregnant by him last October.	1748.3120
1169		1749.3334	So everything just kind of like-	1750.5774
1170	DCB_int_01	1750.7088	Mm-hm, when are you gonna get married?	1752.0541
1172		1754.2611	Mkay, take some [time.]	1755.3571
1173	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1755.0796	[S- no], it shouldn't take no time.	1757.1423
1174		1757.4464	So when I asked him when we're getting married it's one of those things like,	1761.2917
1176		1761.7721	right now	1762.9308
1178		1763.2528	we need to focus on the baby then after the baby, focus on	1766.6165
1180		1767.7824	it's the wedding and then it's just like,	1769.7416
1182		1770.5010	I- I just feel like, you shouldn't have proposed to me if you wasn't ready to do this, like at least give me a date.	1775.0870
1184		1775.4512	That's the question everyone asks, so when's the date?	1777.4259
1186		1779.2299	And it just makes me look dumb, <laugh> that's- /and I just feel like- it just meant like,/ give me something like, a round about or something.	1784.3404
1188		1784.5769	It doesn't have to be the exact day but maybe you could /saying/ it's	1786.8036
1190		1787.2216	December, next July, or something like just give me a round about and it's not that so,	1791.1993
1192		1791.8526	that's why the ring is no longer on my finger.	1793.6513
1193	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	1793.6137	God, this girl's annoying.	1795.2097
1194	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1795.4398	<laugh> Because it's like,	1796.8544
1196		1797.1445	at the end of the day you're not about to-	1798.6202
1198		1799.3187	When a man sees that, or anyone sees that, that means you're- you're- you're- you're off- you're off limits, you know what I'm saying? And I feel like that was his way like, keeping me on a leash, like,	1807.3138
1200		1807.6532	and you can't go nowhere you're pregnant, got my baby, and all this. And it's just like, you're not ready to make that real commitment yet.	1812.1555
1202		1812.3883	So it was just like,	1813.0353
1204		1813.2681	until you're ready to make that real commitment then,	1815.2875
1206		1815.5999	yeah.	1815.9754
1208		1817.2709	Mm-mm.	1817.8416
1209	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1817.8567	/One/ [relationship's] a lot of work.	1819.8926
1210	DCB_int_01	1818.1095	[Okay.]	1818.5842
1211		1819.9118	It is a lot of work.	1820.7566
1212	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1820.7379	It [is.]	1821.2792
1213	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1821.0045	[Mm-hm.]	1821.7631
1214	DCB_int_01	1821.2260	[It is a lot] so how did you- okay so let's talk about a different type of relationship [right, so]	1824.8719
1215	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1824.1222	[Okay.]	1824.6956
1216	DCB_int_01	1825.0835	you're best friends, how did y'all	1826.4009
1218		1827.5130	get	1827.8716
1220		1828.0762	together? I know-	1829.0176
1222		1829.5069	she told me kind of her side and I know /RD-NAME-3/ told me about- [from your-]	1833.2292
1223	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1832.7073	[How each-/	1833.3366
1224	DCB_int_01	1833.4921	how you become friends with them.	1835.3519
1225	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1835.3820	Okay, um, /RD-NAME-3/ and I started going to /RD-SCHOOL-2/ together	1838.6500
1226	DCB_int_01	1838.6976	[Mm.]	1839.0322
1227	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1838.8966	[in] the seventh grade.	1840.0355
1228		1840.5800	And we kind of like kicked it from there but our, um, relationship always had like-	1844.1409
1230		1844.4514	she's always been my best friend	1845.7517
1232		1846.4314	but our relationship always had those	1848.3239
1234		1849.4128	breaks and gaps in between like I don't- the falling out never be that serious but	1853.9387
1236		1854.7214	the length that- [that we go not talking to each other you would] think it would be like that serious [but-]	1859.3887
1237	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1855.7026	[<laugh>]	1857.6889
1238	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	1856.3747	[<laugh>]	1858.0419
1239	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	1859.1534	[Fall] out in two [point five seconds, not talk two point] five years.	1863.0579
1240	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1860.1222	[It's never like- it's never that deep like-]	1862.3763
1242		1863.0297	like we're- we're never fought each other, we never like-	1865.8534
1243		1866.0374	So it's just like	1866.9348
1245		1867.1538	we just be	1867.9160
1247		1868.1789	not tal- and it don't- it don't even be beefing.	1870.2762
1249		1870.5633	Cause it's like I- I wouldn't talk bad about her and never- n- never heard her like, say she was talking bad about me, it's just like we're not talking anymore, so.	1876.8991
1251		1877.5374	And then,	1878.5441
1253		1879.1382	/RD-NAME-3/ and I, my kids'-	1881.2034
1255		1881.6841	my son's father	1883.3361
1257		1883.7279	and her	1884.6404
1259		1885.1886	kids' father were friends.	1886.7579
1261		1887.2351	And so	1887.9751
1263		1888.1776	they'll come around with their girlfriend, he'll come around with his girlfriend and we just	1891.6521
1265		1892.0426	intertwine.	1892.8452
1267		1893.2517	And yeah.	1894.0597
1269		1894.7886	And /RD-NAME-2/,	1895.9189
1271		1896.2380	I met her through /RD-NAME-3/ and /RD-NAME-2/ and I met her through /RD-NAME-3/, through the mentoring.	1899.5386
1273		1900.2558	No I been-	1900.9291
1275		1901.0042	I been met	1901.5776
1277		1901.7853	/RD-NAME-2/ like, long time ago.	1903.6402
1279		1903.7416	But we- me and her never like	1905.2511
1281		1905.5402	got close a long time ago /until/ recently then we started	1908.5566
1283		1908.8345	getting close.	1909.3677
1284	DCB_int_01	1909.6456	So tell me a little bit about the mentoring program.	1911.7429
1285	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1912.6958	Um,	1913.5857
1287		1914.1076	me and /RD-NAME-3/- okay, my mom had a mentoring prog-	1916.4357
1289		1916.5409	mentoring program before she got real sick,	1918.4082
1291		1918.8438	but she would do it at her house and it was named, Not a Girl, Not Yet a Woman.	1921.9717
1293		1922.5237	Um, so it ended	1923.7184
1295		1923.9630	because she couldn't no longer do it, and so /RD-NAME-3/ was like,	1926.9444
1297		1927.4626	why don't we- why don't we start it back up? And I was like, sure, y- you know, she was president, I was the vice president.	1931.9487
1299		1932.3790	But I think her and my mom had a falling out,	1934.8346
1301		1935.4855	cause it was like, /RD-NAME-3/ wanted to do something, my mom was like, no,	1938.6059
1303		1938.9514	we can't do that because-	1940.3719
1305		1940.5709	I don't know why they couldn't do it but she was just like, no, so /RD-NAME-3/ was like, I'm just gonna start my own.	1944.2176
1307		1944.6038	So it was like, okay.	1945.5737
1309		1945.7877	I guess I'll just go along with you then, like,	1948.3486
1311		1948.7466	help you do you. And b- it wasn't like no shade to my mom or nothing.	1952.0071
1313		1952.2399	But it's just like, I still wanted to be a mentor you know, we- we can do /??/ a later time in life, /like/ now.	1956.7689
1315		1957.0587	/RD-NAME-3/ wanted to do her own	1958.5119
1317		1958.8611	mentoring route, I'm still gonna support. So we ended up /doing/ um,	1961.9101
1319		1962.0829	mentoring.	1962.7224
1321		1963.0190	I had two young ladies, /RD-NAME-2/ and /RD-NAME-2/.	1965.9014
1323		1966.6200	/RD-NAME-2/ was seventeen at the time, and /RD-NAME-2/ was like, thirteen.	1969.2510
1325		1969.9706	Like thirteen at the time.	1971.3186
1327		1972.0922	<ts>	1972.1710
1329		1972.7793	Um, I didn't spend that much time with /RD-NAME-2/ but I spent more time with /RD-NAME-2/.	1976.4035
1331		1977.4854	I don't know why cause I thought I would	1979.0550
1333		1979.3491	connect more with the seventeen year old but I connected more with the thirteen year old.	1982.7173
1335		1983.1604	But then I eventually fell off, like I don't even to talk to her anymore.	1986.1859
1336	DCB_int_01	1986.9691	To either of them?	1987.6784
1337	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1987.8665	No.	1988.2645
1338	DCB_int_01	1988.6663	Oh, okay.	1989.2383
1339	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	1989.9179	But I- I plan to start back talking to /RD-NAME-2/ though, I need- I need to do better with that.	1993.9770
1341		1995.1147	It just- I don't know, when life-	1996.9716
1343		1997.2562	I'm one of those people when life does hit, like I'm not gonna be sad or none of that but I'm more of a like- I just	2001.5675
1345		2001.6770	distance myself from everybody.	2003.1639
1347		2003.7985	So.	2004.1972
1349		2005.0640	I just have to stop doing that.	2006.1454
1351		2006.8138	You won't see me sad or crying all that, I'm just like, hey.	2009.5444
1353		2009.7701	You see me now then you won't see me again 'til like six months later.	2012.2183
1355		2013.1657	So.	2013.4844
1357		2013.7440	[<laugh>]	2014.4161
1358	DCB_int_01	2014.2659	[Is] that your- that's the way you cope, you just [kind of-]	2016.0991
1359	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2015.6816	[Yeah], I just- yeah.	2017.2882
1360	DCB_int_01	2018.1899	So tell me about	2019.3513
1362		2019.5766	<clears throat> some times with your-	2021.3900
1364		2021.6531	your- your little boy, I see the Disney World [picture on] the table.	2025.4656
1365	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2024.0124	[<laugh>]	2024.7057
1366	DCB_int_01	2025.5857	How was that experience?	2027.0014
1367	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2026.9938	It was amazing because, um, I've never had those experience as a child like,	2031.8952
1368		2032.3571	my mom say I went	2033.5745
1370		2033.6788	to Disney World but it-	2035.2334
1372		2035.9292	I don't remember, I don't have pictures of that. So I can't [say like-]	2038.7905
1373	DCB_int_01	2038.1935	[Show me the pictures.]	2039.1472
1374	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2039.3312	Yeah I don't- I can't say like I have, so to be able to take my kids there was amazing.	2044.6396
1376		2044.8785	Also to take him there.	2046.1739
1378		2046.4556	Although he-	2047.2152
1380		2047.6095	he financed some and I financed some but it's like he had never been anywhere like ever	2051.7099
1382		2051.8350	in his life so it was like,	2053.1417
1384		2053.6148	oh let's go to Disney. And all three of their birthdays are in October.	2056.3209
1386		2056.8817	So it was just like, okay this y'all birthday gift, we're going to go to Disney World, stuff like that. So it was just amazing like to see him, his mom called me and was like,	2063.0935
1388		2063.3650	I'm so glad you was able to take him, my kids was like, this is amazing, their first time on a plane.	2068.0700
1390		2068.4268	I was like, I wanna give my kids the life, like, I feel- <laugh>	2071.6872
1392		2071.9801	I feel great.	2072.9299
1394		2073.4258	And so, um,	2074.6658
1396		2075.6649	yeah that was-	2076.1906
1398		2076.3333	th-	2076.5398
1400		2076.6750	I don't know, Disney World was amazing.	2078.1699
1402		2078.2934	It was just like,	2079.0556
1404		2080.2208	my kids' expectations now is just like,	2082.4362
1406		2083.0145	through the roof. Like, I'm like, /oh my god/, I don't make that much money, like, we can't do all that,	2088.1187
1408		2088.2726	so.	2088.6766
1410		2089.3841	Yeah.	2089.8548
1412		2090.4805	Now- now though,	2091.8323
1414		2092.4793	although I took a lot of trips with my friends which I- I'm- I'm now ready to take my mom on trips.	2097.3045
1416		2097.6005	Cause she ain't really been no where.	2099.2125
1417	DCB_int_01	2099.4693	Your [m- so she's] better now?	2100.8472
1418	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2099.5774	[So.]	2100.2054
1419		2101.0073	<ts> She's better but she's not like	2103.1002
1421		2103.6765	the mother I remember. She's- she's able to do things on her own but it's like she's not the same.	2108.4279
1422	DCB_int_01	2109.1002	[Mm.]	2109.4844
1423	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2109.3203	[Yeah] and so it's like	2110.7963
1424		2111.2652	I really only had a mother up until seventeen.	2113.4315
1426		2113.7916	That's what I feel like.	2114.6276
1428		2114.9322	So.	2115.3043
1429	DCB_int_01	2116.8971	But	2117.2492
1431		2117.4173	you're getting back to that relationship and- and [just-]	2119.8925
1432	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2119.7196	[The relationship] never went anywhere but [it's like]	2122.1567
1433	DCB_int_01	2121.3483	[Oh okay.]	2121.8257
1434	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2122.6610	I can't go to my mother, like I talk to my m- mother but you can't- I can't go to-	2126.2238
1436		2126.5360	It's-	2126.8120
1438		2126.9922	it's hard to explain like I can't go to my mother and be like,	2129.6229
1440		2130.0176	ma help me, I- it-	2131.6516
1442		2132.4719	I can't- you remember how my mom used to be and it's just- it's just-	2135.4578
1443	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2135.8135	You like the mother.	2136.7921
1444	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2136.7921	I'm like the mother, like yeah [it's just like] she comes to me more than I can come to her and it's just like, even if I come to her it's just not-	2143.2314
1445	DCB_int_01	2138.4519	[Mm-hm.]	2139.0306
1446	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2143.4515	and although she would love love love love love to help me it's just like she's not in a place where-	2147.5300
1448		2147.8535	And it's not even just financially it's just anything like,	2150.5560
1450		2150.6840	she's not in a place to	2151.6645
1452		2151.8686	do that.	2152.3859
1453	DCB_int_01	2152.9451	How about you and your siblings, are y'all close?	2154.6064
1454	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2155.2514	Uh, we're getting closer	2156.7961
1456		2157.3163	now, [yeah.]	2158.2248
1457	DCB_int_01	2157.7405	[Mm.]	2158.1647
1458		2159.4653	So what do you like to- to do besides- okay, so I know you like to kind of hang out with your [girls],	2166.1712
1459	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2165.6094	[Mm-hm.	2166.0894
1460	DCB_int_01	2166.4338	um, and that may be your thing, what's- is that your favorite thing to do?	2169.8406
1461	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2170.6249	Not hang out, it was- it's more traveling with them.	2173.5378
1462	DCB_int_01	2173.8877	Mkay.	2174.3159
1463	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2174.2799	Like I'm not- I mean hanging out is fun but I'm more of like I wanna see new things, I wanna do new things and stuff like that,	2179.8181
1464		2180.0144	and /RD-NAME-3/ is actually one of the people- well is the person who introduced me to traveling, so.	2184.2658
1466		2184.4950	I'm more of like I just wanna get up and go,	2186.4050
1468		2186.7201	like-	2187.0987
1469	DCB_int_01	2187.0842	So where's been your best trip?	2188.4016
1470	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2190.4430	See I w- <laugh>	2191.9357
1472		2192.1918	/RD-NAME-3/ probably don't understand this but I'm one of them people like,	2195.0251
1474		2195.3613	I'm a daredevil.	2196.4110
1476		2196.5631	Like so, if I'm doing something and it's half- it's like near	2200.6289
1478		2201.6654	death experience and then we make it through it,	2204.0758
1480		2204.7601	oh my god like that was the best time of my life [like, it's- <laugh> like-]	2209.7602
1481	DCB_int_01	2207.2972	[<laugh>]	2208.5399
1482	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2207.8895	[Wow.]	2208.9549
1483	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2208.2589	[She's crazy.]	2209.0673
1484	DCB_int_01	2209.2234	[I love it.]	2209.9887
1485	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2209.8396	[/inaudible/ I ain't do nothing/ I'm [scary.]	2212.5756
1486	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2210.1838	[Right?]	2210.6905
1487	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2210.2078	[/inaudible/]	2211.9326
1488	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2211.2363	[My- <laugh>]	2211.8326
1489		2212.5289	Huh.	2212.9556
1490		2213.1892	[So the be- and it didn't happen to me] but I was able to witness was- having to /call to Maryland/ because /RD-NAME-3/ almost died. <laugh>	2220.0216
1491	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2213.2052	[/inaudible/]	2215.2445
1493		2219.7575	[Oh. <laugh>]	2221.7996
1494	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2220.3950	[<laugh>]	2220.7483
1495		2222.1198	[<laugh>]	2223.3584
1496	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2222.1278	[Hey,]	2222.7825
1498		2222.9602	[we're] on a banana boat.	2224.3288
1499	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2224.2768	<laugh>	2224.9141
1500	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2224.9611	Wait, whatchu talking about?	2225.9930
1501	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2225.9783	[<laugh>]	2226.7579
1502	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2226.3457	[<laugh>]	2228.8161
1503	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2227.7956	[Oh yeah, /RD-NAME-3/ almost died.]	2229.1963
1504	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2229.2283	<laugh>	2229.6725
1505	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2229.5204	[<laugh>]	2230.2127
1506	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2229.6085	[I was scared] but /RD-NAME-3/ almost died.	2231.3871
1507	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2231.3133	<laugh>	2231.9306
1508		2233.0513	[So- <laugh>]	2233.7396
1509	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2233.0553	[So we almost] died in the [/banana boat/.]	2235.4967
1510	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2234.5840	[/RD-NAME-3/ went like this.]	2235.8293
1511	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2235.3884	[Yes like] it was- okay so we're on a banana boat,	2238.0656
1512		2238.3870	and this guy like,	2239.8975
1514		2240.2598	he's like a big guy he- [you know how the banana boat-]	2242.3848
1515	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2241.5204	[/You mean/ big girl?]	2242.5351
1516	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2242.3408	[No] but- but look how this girl sit.	2244.1204
1517	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2244.2297	[<laugh> So you know how the banana boat is]	2246.3879
1518	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2244.2297	[/Yeah, really not scared/.]	2245.7436
1519	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2245.7316	[This chair looks scary like it's gonna break.]	2247.5644
1520	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2246.5880	[she was in the-]	2247.3786
1521		2247.6445	she was in the back of the m- he was in the back of the banana boat so as we went over waves,	2251.5475
1523		2251.7436	like he like went like all the way up and like all the way down so it made the banana boat tip-	2255.5956
1525		2255.7214	tip [over.]	2256.6081
1526	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2256.2697	[We flipped] over so many [times.]	2257.8817
1527	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2257.3394	[And so all] of us	2258.4477
1528		2258.8361	landed in the water, it was like in the middle of the ocean,	2261.0828
1530		2261.2092	sea [whatever it is.]	2262.2399
1531	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2261.6881	[/??/.]	2262.2307
1532	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2262.4601	And we were in the middle of it so I didn't know what was in the water, I just knew we had to get back on this boat,	2266.4846
1534		2266.6812	and I knew the only way to get back on it is you had to be calm.	2269.2434
1536		2269.5055	You know what I'm saying, flip the boat over- <laugh>	2271.5778
1538		2272.1923	flip the boat over and just bounce back on it.	2274.2350
1540		2274.6809	So everyone was able to do that except this one. <laugh>	2277.8883
1541	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2276.6050	[<laugh>]	2278.3136
1542		2278.6335	[We had /inaudible/]	2281.6161
1543	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2278.8505	/?/	2279.2151
1545		2279.5938	[She was like, I'm drowning. <laugh>]	2281.9477
1546		2282.6290	My life jacket-	2283.7557
1548		2285.9033	And so it was just like,	2287.1473
1550		2287.5087	I was trying so hard to save her	2289.8729
1552		2290.1155	but it was like, I- I can't save you until you wanna save yourself, like,	2293.4982
1554		2293.7717	<laugh> just-	2294.7835
1555	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2295.0622	How many times did we get on and get off, three times?	2297.3369
1556	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2297.8239	And I- I [tried to get off, I tried /inaudible/]	2300.3220
1557	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2298.6240	[We flipped over- one time we flipped] all [the way over.]	2301.7080
1558	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2300.8246	[It just- it just] wasn't working for her and this is- after a while I was just like,	2304.0219
1559		2305.4239	this is it for you.	2306.4976
1561		2306.7763	Like, [<laugh>]	2309.0182
1562	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2307.1960	[Didn't they pull you back- they pulled her] back in.	2309.5587
1563	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2307.4490	[<laugh>]	2308.9821
1564	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2309.9732	<laugh>	2310.5772
1565	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2310.7681	Oh that thing was terrible, /unintelligible/.	2312.7798
1566	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2312.7826	I can't- I was- my life jacket wasn't working.	2315.0641
1567	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2316.1588	[/RD-NAME-3/]	2316.7348
1568	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2316.3549	[<laugh>]	2317.3099
1569	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2316.6543	[No it was over] my head.	2318.2545
1570	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2318.2649	[<laugh>]	2319.6342
1571	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2318.2700	[<laugh>]	2319.3282
1572	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2320.3245	<laugh>	2321.1005
1574		2321.2795	I'm just terrified, I'm just done, like- (laughing)	2323.4542
1576		2323.6762	/unintelligible/	2325.8391
1577	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2323.9136	[/RD-NAME-3/ was- the life jacket was like] this and /RD-NAME-3/ head was like [this. <laugh>]	2328.9827
1578	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2327.4651	[Yeah so I'm like /a holder] on/ as opposed to trying to get on then someone was like, I hold on like-	2332.3808
1579	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2332.7680	No but it was [/really bad/]	2334.0707
1580	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2333.4287	[But if I didn't have y'all] I woulda been [dead.]	2334.9754
1581	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2334.4973	[like] we had our- the person who drives the banana boat but then he had to call someone else	2339.2220
1582	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2339.1136	[<laugh>]	2340.5280
1583	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2339.5782	[over there like with] their little jet ski thing like they both trying to get her, I mean it just-	2343.5915
1584		2343.9503	it was just not working like it was just- <laugh>	2346.4488
1585	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2347.0130	And [everybody else on] there.	2348.2917
1586	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2347.2866	[And she's like-]	2347.9158
1587		2348.3448	[And once again like I'm saying] we're out of the country we don't know what's in this water so I didn't know if a shark was gonna come and eat her up or none of that [so it was just like,]	2355.2935
1588	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2348.5358	[Everybody else on.]	2349.4185
1590		2354.2465	[<laugh>]	2355.6612
1591	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2355.6351	you need to get back on the boat. But like once she was saved and stuff like that,	2358.7561
1592		2359.4498	<laugh>	2360.6680
1593	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2361.1687	You said once she was saved.	2362.9160
1594	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2362.9357	it was-	2363.5250
1596		2363.7823	it was fun but it was like that was- [I- I loved it though.]	2366.7254
1597	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2365.5322	[/inaudible/]	2367.5802
1598	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2367.1943	[I loved] that. And then like this- <laugh>	2369.7955
1599	DCB_int_01	2369.9472	Her [favorite moment was your near death experience.]	2372.1824
1600	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2370.0763	[/inaudible/]	2371.1390
1601	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2371.1706	[<laugh> Yes it was.]	2373.0988
1602	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2372.3424	[What <laugh>] /that's some messed up stuff./	2375.1439
1603	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2375.3931	[And-]	2375.8705
1604	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2375.3931	[Hey that] thing was funny, I forgot all about that honestly.	2378.7069
1605	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2379.0132	[Um],	2379.8359
1606	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2379.2920	[That thing was] funny.	2380.3389
1607	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2380.7993	that was a good trip, um,	2382.4300
1609		2382.6421	Disney World was good but it's just like that was more for my kids so I didn't do anything for myself, so.	2386.9943
1611		2388.2031	All the trips so I think, uh, /??/ was amazing,	2391.3055
1613		2391.9920	and [Miami.]	2393.2789
1614	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2392.6337	[/inaudible/]	2393.5473
1615	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2393.6048	<ts>	2393.7442
1617		2394.3526	Miami [was amazing.]	2395.4819
1618	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2394.7759	[Oh yeah, I had a ball in Miami too, I forgot about Miami.]	2397.7649
1619	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2395.6431	[/inaudible/]	2397.3871
1620	DCB_int_01	2396.5361	[So where's your next- what's] your next goal tri- like, where-	2399.8818
1621		2400.0979	She wants to go to [Fiji.]	2401.2925
1622	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2400.8118	[For what? /inaudible/]	2402.2572
1623	DCB_int_01	2401.6274	[What about you?]	2402.3207
1624	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2402.5256	Um,	2403.1909
1626		2403.3670	Bali and, um, Jerusalem. I know this is crazy but yeah.	2407.1523
1627	DCB_int_01	2407.7443	No [why is that crazy?]	2408.8030
1628	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2407.9524	[/inaudible/]	2409.3671
1629	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2408.7577	[I just wanna] see like where, uh, Jesus was like	2411.8600
1630		2412.1252	buried at and	2413.1247
1632		2413.6151	the tomb [he was in, like I wanna see] all that stuff.	2415.8915
1633	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2414.2035	[/inaudible/]	2415.2035
1634	DCB_int_01	2415.8399	My friend just came back.	2416.8171
1635	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2416.8481	Really?	2417.3334
1636	DCB_int_01	2417.2971	She did it [for uh,]	2419.2484
1637	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2417.8650	[My coworkers /unintelligible/.]	2420.6013
1638	DCB_int_01	2420.4459	like, I think she [w- /did they/ go like-]	2423.0254
1639	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2421.8707	[Oh yeah /RD-NAME-2/ what did /RD-NAME-2/ wants to go with.]	2423.9370
1640	DCB_int_01	2423.7393	[/?/]	2424.6649
1641	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2423.9370	[Oh thank god] at least I won't be there [by myself.]	2426.3037
1642	DCB_int_01	2425.4133	[December?]	2426.1294
1643	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2425.5579	[/Y'all/.]	2426.2651
1644	DCB_int_01	2426.8535	[She did it in December.]	2427.7149
1645	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2426.9361	[Sorry.]	2427.5349
1646	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2427.9066	[Mm-hm.]	2428.4306
1647	DCB_int_01	2428.1544	[Mm-hm.]	2428.6157
1648	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2428.7531	Did [she say it] was nice?	2429.7029
1649	DCB_int_01	2428.8564	[She-]	2429.1777
1651		2429.6926	She loved it.	2430.3700
1652	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2430.3533	Yeah I want- I wanna- I wanna see all that.	2432.6265
1653	DCB_int_01	2433.2611	She got baptized in the river, she loved it- in the Jor- she loved it, she s-	2437.2255
1655		2437.3907	she said it was probably one of the best thing-	2439.7648
1657		2439.9113	cause she's also in a different like- like right now she's trying to figure out like	2442.8691
1659		2443.1634	if she's gonna switch jobs, [and she just] moved to a new house and	2446.2502
1660	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2444.4022	[Uh-huh.]	2445.0489
1661	DCB_int_01	2446.5047	all this stuff so her life was kind of just all over the place so [she said it was really]	2449.6202
1662	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2448.7554	[Wow.]	2449.5628
1663	DCB_int_01	2449.8342	[calming for her.]	2450.9955
1664	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2449.8600	[That's why I need to do that.]	2451.0507
1665	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2451.1299	I heard it's expensive though.	2452.4619
1666	DCB_int_01	2452.7507	Yeah but she said it's worth it, [she said it was] really worth it	2455.9992
1667	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2454.1047	[Yeah.]	2454.7341
1668		2456.1385	[I-]	2456.3863
1669	DCB_int_01	2456.1385	[more] so like, [emotionally and spiritually]	2458.7712
1670	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2457.5426	[Uh-huh.]	2458.2213
1671	DCB_int_01	2459.0551	than, you know-	2460.0977
1672	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2460.2836	Yeah I really- [I really wanna go there.]	2461.9303
1673	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2460.9650	[You should go.] I need [to go] there right [now.]	2463.7450
1674	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2462.1900	[Like-]	2462.3846
1676		2462.9333	[I really wanna go] there.	2464.0799
1677	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2464.0276	I got [a lot of life changes] I [need to go there right] now.	2466.5774
1678	DCB_int_01	2464.2496	[I mean]	2464.9429
1680		2465.3439	[Fiji.]	2465.9839
1681	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2467.1506	Yeah but I could go to /inaudible/ I'm calling Ru I need to go to Ru.	2472.1438
1682	DCB_int_01	2472.0509	You need to go to Ru?	2472.9749
1683	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2472.9594	[Yeah, that's /inaudible/]	2474.9984
1684	DCB_int_01	2473.4808	[Okay.]	2474.0101
1686		2474.7609	[And where-] where did Bali come from?	2476.4543
1687	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2476.8567	Um, just because I had seen somebody else go there.	2479.1853
1689		2479.3309	And I was like, <laugh> the pictures	2481.4359
1690	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2479.3618	[<laugh>]	2482.4892
1691	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2482.0667	[/from there-/]	2482.9133
1692	DCB_int_01	2482.1493	[And the pictures look good?]	2483.0911
1693	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2483.2798	[Yeah.]	2483.9678
1694	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2483.5740	[This girl] is [crazy talking about she seen somebody else] go there.	2486.3741
1695	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2484.3403	[And it's like um-]	2485.7599
1697		2486.1986	[Right now though]	2487.3786
1698	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2486.6116	[/inaudible/]	2487.6079
1699	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2487.6801	I'm- I'm- I wanna go on trips like inside the United States cause I do wanna be able to take my mom	2492.0487
1701		2492.8024	p- like I don't know if she can go out of the country.	2494.6008
1702	DCB_int_01	2494.7536	[Mm-hm.]	2495.1614
1703	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2494.9136	[Know] what I'm saying, like I don't know if she can do that.	2496.4234
1704		2496.6997	Right now it's just like, okay let's- let's experience this, let's go here, let's do that, because she's-	2500.6023
1706		2500.8257	she's so like cooped up in the house all the time it's like that's- you're not living that's just existing like, [you need to] get out and do some things, so.	2507.5010
1707	DCB_int_01	2505.2562	[Mm-hm.]	2505.8669
1708	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2507.9404	And then because of her- I was having this conversation with	2510.6195
1710		2511.0686	them two and /RD-NAME-2/,	2512.3406
1712		2512.5000	that's the reason why I can't have boundaries with men like the moment a man try to like give me boundaries and restrictions,	2517.7188
1714		2518.0440	it doesn't work for me because I seen my mom succeed more without a man,	2522.6759
1716		2523.1404	then when she was with a man it-	2525.5098
1718		2525.8608	it- everything started being taken away from her.	2528.0555
1720		2528.4434	So I'm just one of those people like,	2530.0701
1722		2531.1482	y- you're in my life but	2532.6504
1724		2533.2079	you're not my life like, I'm	2534.8081
1726		2535.0352	in control of my life, you know what I'm saying. So,	2537.3597
1728		2537.6126	yeah.	2538.0059
1730		2538.3559	So- but it- that might be a reason why all my relationships is like- because I'm not the, um,	2542.9810
1731	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2543.5747	Submissive [type?]	2544.4497
1732	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2544.1941	[submissive] female because it's like I've seen how men can take a woman that's on her A game	2549.1906
1733		2549.4248	and then	2549.9668
1735		2550.2042	just	2550.6496
1737		2550.9734	tear it all down.	2551.8509
1739		2552.0641	Like so, it's just like mm-mm.	2553.4940
1740	DCB_int_01	2555.5020	I appreciate [that.]	2556.6420
1741	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2556.3898	[<laugh>]	2556.9472
1742	DCB_int_01	2557.0196	I appreciate that.	2557.8983
1744		2558.2120	So, <clears throat>	2559.3840
1746		2561.0888	what's the one thing- you said you like to do the daredevil type stuff and you [enjoyed /RD-NAME-3/ almost dying.]	2566.5037
1747	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2564.9190	[Mm-hm.]	2565.4537
1749		2565.6572	[<laugh>]	2567.6394
1750	DCB_int_01	2567.1505	[What's something] that you wanna do like that's a- that you haven't done that you think, oh I've gotta do that before I-	2572.4364
1751	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2572.3951	Jump out a plane.	2573.4991
1752	DCB_int_01	2573.6701	Yeah. (whispered)	2574.4702
1753	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2574.4547	Um,	2575.1206
1754		2575.3442	I- I'm just strange like when I s- <laugh>	2578.0697
1756		2578.4104	I'm just strange like I wanna run like from a herd of animals, like-	2582.0412
1757	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2582.3573	[<laugh>]	2583.7371
1758	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2582.3799	[<laugh>]	2583.3399
1759	DCB_int_01	2582.8306	[I was- I was] with you	2584.6486
1760	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2584.5960	[like-]	2585.0709
1761	DCB_int_01	2585.1019	[um,]	2585.6459
1762	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2585.1741	[Until you said /herd of animals/.]	2586.7207
1763	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2585.9071	[No like I wanna- <laugh> like-	2588.1681
1764	DCB_int_01	2585.9742	[the herd of animals.]	2587.1196
1765	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2586.7124	[You lost me at that.]	2588.2897
1766	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2588.6843	No, really like I was talking to /RD-NAME-2/'s mom and his sister	2592.5003
1768		2592.8825	and I was like, you know what would be like the perfect labor,	2595.1985
1770		2595.6442	like if I'm driving	2597.0898
1772		2597.3860	and then it's like, oh my god it's time, and I gotta pull over on the side of the road.	2600.7606
1774		2601.0540	And people are stopping their cars and like coming to help me push out the baby like-	2604.4715
1776		2605.1682	<laugh> like-	2606.7269
1777	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2606.7218	Seriously?	2607.3361
1778	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2607.3397	I was just telling- she was [like you /?/-]	2609.1541
1779	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2608.4933	[You just wanna] have a labor- a delivery in the car?	2610.9468
1780	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2611.5896	Because I've experienced like going to the hospital but [just like-]	2614.3290
1781	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2613.7636	[/unintelligible/]	2614.6538
1782	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2614.6076	I want [like-]	2615.2956
1783	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2615.1110	[Maybe] you should have a t- tub [birth.]	2617.0825
1784	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2616.8253	[I want-] that's [not- that's not] great. Like I want a like amazing story to [tell like-]	2621.4005
1785	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2617.7004	[A water birth.]	2618.4790
1787		2620.8826	[That is amazing] story to tell, it's calm, it's peaceful, it's you and your mate, he's hoping the baby come [out.]	2626.5755
1788	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2626.3826	[No.]	2626.9266
1789	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2626.8717	She just /?/, look how she's sitting [ she could /inaudible/ her chair.]	2629.4396
1790	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2628.3467	[<laugh>]	2630.4397
1791		2630.9933	No it's just no.	2632.0254
1793		2632.2326	No, [mm-mm.]	2632.9566
1794	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2632.7540	[I always] wanted to experience a real birth, I didn't have a	2635.7468
1795		2636.0111	real labor.	2636.5817
1797		2636.9933	I mean not- I mean not that it was fake but	2639.7253
1799		2640.1217	I had C-sections, always wanted to push a [baby.]	2642.3361
1800	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2642.1790	[I don't] know it- I'm just one of those people who's just like you really really only get one life to live.	2646.4182
1801		2646.8575	And like I don't wanna do everything traditionally, I don't wanna do	2649.8933
1803		2650.2040	everything the way that it's supposed to do, I wanna like	2652.7062
1805		2652.9825	take some different routes and just	2654.3397
1807		2654.6861	see where it takes me,	2655.5754
1809		2655.7969	/like/ so.	2656.4355
1810	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2656.6395	It's a good way to think.	2657.5896
1811	DCB_int_01	2657.4967	So that-	2658.3740
1812	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2658.6825	Jumping out there on that faith.	2659.9278
1813	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2659.8968	[<laugh>]	2660.8315
1814	DCB_int_01	2660.2075	[Mm jumping] right out.	2661.4342
1815	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2661.3433	[She- she died on that faith] she almost drowned on that [faith honey.]	2664.4896
1816	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2661.3790	[<laugh>]	2661.8326
1817	DCB_int_01	2661.8540	[/?/]	2662.5300
1818	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2663.7682	[<laugh>]	2665.2253
1819	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2664.6075	[Drowned like /RD-NAME-3/]	2665.6504
1820	DCB_int_01	2665.3218	[<laugh>]	2667.7364
1821	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2666.0501	[Mm.]	2666.3204
1822	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2666.6540	[<laugh>]	2667.9646
1823	DCB_int_01	2667.8862	[So has there ever been a time] like, not-	2670.3825
1824	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2667.9719	[/unintelligible/]	2669.3824
1825	DCB_int_01	2670.5682	<clears throat> and it could be your daredevil time or it could be just walking down the [street where you felt like oh my god],	2675.4969
1826	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2673.9112	[Mm-hm.]	2674.3597
1827	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2674.3362	[Is this the /?/]	2675.1862
1828		2675.6041	[Which one?]	2676.2014
1829	DCB_int_01	2675.6539	[I'm about to die.]	2676.5152
1830	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2676.5682	This white [one?]	2677.1909
1831	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2677.0325	[Um], I'm about to die?	2678.3925
1832	DCB_int_01	2678.3932	Mm-hm.	2678.7306
1833	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2679.6790	Uh, both, you could say both.	2681.3310
1834	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2681.3789	Oh my god, she gonna be so [thankful.]	2683.3218
1835	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2682.9289	[Um-]	2683.7742
1836	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2683.5718	/inaudible/	2684.8111
1837	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2684.7968	/inaudible/	2686.1608
1838	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2686.2326	My mother.	2686.8219
1839	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2687.4967	Uh, /? was/ there a time when I was like, I'm about to die.	2690.5897
1840	DCB_int_01	2690.8540	And you just didn't feel- either you didn't feel safe or you felt uncomfortable or you felt	2695.3462
1842		2696.0611	in danger.	2696.9011
1843	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2698.4576	No but I think the scariest time was-	2701.6102
1845		2702.4540	/??/	2702.9460
1847		2703.1004	<sigh>	2703.4504
1849		2703.8826	E- even when I know I c- there's a possibility I'm about to die I'm never like, oh I'm about to die, but I think the scariest time probably-	2709.7141
1851		2709.9576	I'm probably probably telling too much but	2711.1074
1853		2711.4253	when I used to-	2712.2066
1855		2712.4932	to go with /RD-NAME-2/ to wherever he used to go.	2714.8683
1857		2715.3933	And it's just like, you just see some things and was like, I could really die right here, somebody could really just come in here and shoot this place up and I'm just right here chilling so I think-	2722.1042
1859		2722.5397	<laugh> I think that's the w- like the scariest moments for me.	2725.3968
1860	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2725.6289	[But you enjoyed] it.	2726.4369
1861	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2725.7075	[But it was-]	2726.0968
1863		2726.4004	I didn't- /?/	2727.1968
1864		2727.5040	Yeah, I just said that but I [like /it/]	2729.2541
1865	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2728.9255	[Oh I] missed it.	2729.5641
1866	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2729.5431	It was like I enjoy like the- the- the r- the risk of it like-	2733.2004
1867	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2733.5219	[/inaudible/]	2735.6164
1868	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2733.5361	[You're crazy.]	2734.3826
1869	DCB_int_01	2734.3969	[So you're a thrill seeker.]	2735.6326
1870	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2735.4967	[Yeah, like- <laugh>]	2737.5646
1871	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2737.2611	[So if somebody] come in here stick up this joint you'll be thrilled.	2739.9771
1872	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2740.4326	But it's like, I'm one of those people like, if somebody was, I know exactly what I'd do. Not saying that I'm gonna make it out of here but I know exactly what I'm gonna do. I'm not gonna be the one like,	2748.8590
1874		2749.2943	stuck in shock like I know exactly what I would do like to try to get out that situation.	2753.0555
1875	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2753.0610	Oh I'm the scariest person [/inaudible/]	2755.2182
1876	DCB_int_01	2754.3503	[Me too, like I don't even like to get stopped for a traffic ticket.]	2758.0826
1877	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2755.1396	[/inaudible/]	2757.6099
1878	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2757.5611	[<laugh>]	2759.0112
1879	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2758.7612	[Right.] Chest hurting.	2760.3185
1880	DCB_int_01	2760.4003	Like I get upset when they send the little thing in my mail like, um,	2763.5004
1882		2764.0504	you were going [fifty-seven and it was a forty-five.]	2766.9039
1883	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2764.8288	[<laugh>]	2766.1753
1884	DCB_int_01	2767.2361	Like, [damn.]	2768.3627
1885	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2767.7718	/??/ I remember that time we went to Busch Gardens y'all talked me into that ride, I don't do [roller coasters.]	2772.8456
1886	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2772.1967	[Mm-mm.]	2772.7528
1887	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2772.9825	Period.	2773.6078
1888	DCB_int_01	2774.0504	You a [roller coaster?]	2774.9290
1889	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2774.2218	[I got on that roller coaster I almost died.]	2776.2658
1890	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2774.9147	[Mm-hm.]	2775.3317
1891	DCB_int_01	2775.3969	[Oh.]	2775.7889
1892	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2775.9397	[Yeah.]	2776.3477
1893	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2776.2862	Then when we got pulled over he thought we was prostitutes.	2778.3736
1894	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2778.3110	Yeah. [The only thing I- I'm-	2779.9539
1895	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2778.6289	[<laugh> Wait a minute I missed that one.]	2782.3290
1896	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2780.5397	[the only thing I'm afraid of is dying itself.]	2783.6483
1897	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2782.5005	[It was good.]	2783.1617
1898	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2783.2255	[/??/]	2784.0001
1899	DCB_int_01	2783.9682	[Why?]	2784.3775
1900	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2784.6468	I don't know.	2785.2174
1902		2785.4896	Because I think it's the unknown that's the only thing that you can't go and [/aks somebody like, how was your experience?] so I think-	2791.0851
1903	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2788.4864	[Oh yeah.]	2790.0829
1904	DCB_int_01	2791.3113	[No you can't go] they-	2792.5903
1905	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2791.4292	[Like no.]	2792.2685
1906		2792.8042	So,	2793.2935
1908		2793.8221	that's the only thing.	2794.9507
1910		2795.3972	It's-	2795.7222
1912		2795.8258	it's just so like-	2797.2578
1914		2797.4613	No one- I mean,	2798.3720
1916		2798.6042	like I said I was in church, you know heaven and hell and stuff but no one-	2801.4420
1918		2802.0258	I don't have no one that can verify for me and tell me like this is-	2805.3721
1920		2805.4900	this what happens. Like, so th-	2807.2650
1922		2807.4936	it's just the unknown of it like, that's it.	2809.5365
1924		2810.8292	And then- and if-	2812.1186
1926		2812.3257	it's-	2812.6686
1928		2812.7722	it's not just that it's like dying young.	2815.1433
1930		2815.2687	Like if [I'm-]	2815.9487
1931	DCB_int_01	2815.6937	[Mm.]	2816.2870
1932	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2816.7578	if I'm older and like did everything that I wanted to do in life, nothing is-	2820.8972
1934		2821.2044	all the-	2821.7111
1936		2822.3185	nothing I feel is incomplete then I'm- I'm okay, you know, that's my time, but like,	2826.6851
1938		2826.9865	/RD-NAME-2/'s case, I just feel like that was just so unfair like she had so many things she wanted to do.	2831.5543
1940		2831.8293	And it's like, she wasn't a bad person, why was that taken away from her?	2834.6985
1942		2835.0292	And stuff like that and it's like, you have all these cruel people, not- and I don't wish death on anyone but it's just like-	2839.6958
1944		2840.4899	She was- she was like the opposite of me.	2842.7859
1946		2842.9936	Like she was the- the one that was like, so cautious about life, it's like we-	2846.3536
1948		2846.5471	let's go do this, she's like, no, that doesn't even make sense like, why would we do this?	2849.7936
1950		2850.0293	Like, you guys this could happen, this could happen, it's like, shut up /RD-NAME-2/ like let's just do it, like-	2854.5487
1952		2855.0793	<laugh> so it was just like, yeah.	2857.0380
1953	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2857.2687	Well y'all /had/ y'all daredevil time /I watch./	2859.5507
1954	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2859.4543	[<laugh>]	2861.9758
1955	DCB_int_01	2860.0507	[<laugh>]	2861.5134
1956	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2861.0686	[/inaudible/]	2862.7347
1957	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2861.0865	[I ain't- I'm too- I'm too old] to be dare-deviling I'm finna die [/inaudible/]	2864.9332
1958	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2864.5007	[<laugh>]	2865.3793
1959	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2865.9043	Mm-mm.	2866.6043
1961		2866.8507	What did you say? Oh /RD-NAME-2/ get on what? Oh no ma'am I walk through the whole theme park don't get on nothing.	2871.7454
1962	DCB_int_01	2872.6329	[Unless we have a little] funnel cake.	2874.0462
1963	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2872.6329	[/inaudible/]	2873.3582
1964		2874.8615	Yeah.	2875.3544
1965	DCB_int_01	2875.8756	Well thank you it was so nice to meet [you.]	2877.6396
1966	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2877.2900	[Oh] interesting interview, thank you. Uh, I'll see you girls later.	2881.3698
1967		2882.2042	I guess I got	2882.8749
1969		2883.4293	wedding dates for me and /RD-NAME-2/.	2885.4759
1970	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2885.5936	Girl bye.	2886.8044
1971	DCB_se1_ag2_f_04	2886.8651	Bye.	2887.5677
1972	DCB_int_01	2891.4186	Oh /?/ I'm t- I'm locking your door, [/nodding/.]	2894.0937
1973	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2893.3937	[No that's fine. (laughing)]	2894.4377
1974	DCB_int_01	2894.2971	[I'm-] you know it's just habit.	2895.4931
1975	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2895.3007	[It's a h- <laugh>]	2896.2380
1976	DCB_int_01	2895.7578	[Habit] just- /unintelligible/	2897.1650
1977		2897.5865	Um,	2898.1758
1979		2898.4115	so	2898.8328
1981		2900.0723	let me ask you [this- Oh, mm-hm.]	2901.8056
1982	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2900.5614	[But there are things I would] not try.	2902.2793
1983	DCB_int_01	2902.4686	Okay, like what?	2903.3939
1984	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2903.6793	I would not get my palms read,	2906.0830
1986		2906.2792	I would not like	2907.4900
1988		2909.1007	talk to a-	2910.0329
1990		2910.6472	a-	2910.8872
1992		2911.0972	a ca- a tarot card re- so anything like that I will not do.	2913.7342
1994		2914.5364	Only because my mom say you kn-	2916.8365
1996		2917.2008	those spirits linger on to you and stuff like that I wouldn't do that	2921.1650
1998		2921.5650	type of stuff.	2922.1329
1999	DCB_int_01	2922.4901	You'll jump out of a plane and [jump off a bridge] but you [ain't gonna get your palm read?]	2925.8971
2000	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2923.5292	[Yeah.]	2924.0614
2002		2924.4149	[I know it's weird like I would not-] I would not.	2926.5007
2003		2926.7579	I wouldn't.	2927.3512
2005		2927.6615	Like,	2927.9008
2007		2928.1722	I don't mess with spirits and stuff like that like, no.	2930.6435
2009		2931.4043	I need to see what's coming at me.	2932.8865
2011		2933.4293	Like spirits they just on you and you just- no, I c- I can't do that.	2936.8971
2012	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	2936.9150	Talking about, you /??/	2937.9936
2013	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2938.1543	Yeah.	2938.7663
2015		2939.2079	<laugh>	2940.4789
2017		2941.3080	So that's the o- that's- that's the only thing like I don't need no one to tell me my future or when I wanna die, stuff like that. I don't-	2946.6258
2019		2946.8079	mm-mm.	2947.2399
2021		2947.7113	So that's the only thing I won't try.	2948.8612
2023		2950.0043	But other than that yeah, I'm down for whatever.	2952.1789
2024	DCB_int_01	2953.0080	Have you ever been scuba diving?	2954.1933
2025	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2954.5221	Um, nope.	2955.3421
2027		2955.6043	Cause I'm on- I'm- oh, that's another thing.	2957.5079
2028	DCB_int_01	2958.0794	[Water.]	2958.5079
2029	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2958.2544	[You might] could say I'm a scaredy cat but I like to do it with someone.	2961.2432
2030	DCB_int_01	2961.6078	Oh I'll do it with you.	2962.6329
2031	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2962.6686	Oh, [see?]	2963.5865
2032	DCB_int_01	2963.1507	[I went] scuba diving in Cozumel, [it was the best.]	2966.1603
2033	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2964.9758	[/unintelligible/] I have to have at least one person to do it with [me.]	2968.6829
2034	DCB_int_01	2968.5257	[It] was the [best.]	2969.5115
2035	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2969.1543	[No one] would do skydiving with me.	2970.7503
2036	DCB_int_01	2971.4151	I wanna do [skydiving.]	2972.4149
2037	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2972.1328	[You wanna] do skydiving?	2973.4715
2038	DCB_int_01	2973.4471	Mm-hm I-	2974.2650
2039	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2974.0400	[No] for [real?]	2975.0307
2040	DCB_int_01	2974.8114	[I did] parasailing	2976.3035
2041		2976.6472	one day and then we did scuba diving [the n-]	2978.6491
2042	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2978.4042	[You just] said you were scared, you get scared of stuff.	2980.4856
2043		2981.1222	[You w-] you wanna go [skydiving.]	2982.7648
2044	DCB_int_01	2981.1293	[Uh,]	2981.4222
2046		2981.9365	[but that's like getting] in trouble kind of stuff.	2983.6687
2047	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2983.6365	Oh [<laugh> I see, okay.]	2985.9436
2048	DCB_int_01	2984.9114	[No no no. Like I wouldn't do] like	2986.3793
2049		2986.8150	[daredevil-y.]	2987.6564
2050	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2987.1472	[Oh my god.]	2988.0765
2051	DCB_int_01	2987.8543	[But scuba] diving changed my life like that was like a pivotal moment in my life. Yes, oh I loved [it.]	2992.9629
2052	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	2992.7329	[Oh] my god.	2993.8435
2053	DCB_int_01	2994.0829	It is like-	2994.9082
2055		2995.9113	there- like, so where- okay so where I'm sitting and like where the balloon is	2999.1434
2057		2999.4222	there were like two barracudas there.	3001.1222
2058	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3001.2758	Did you do it with someone?	3002.2358
2059	DCB_int_01	3002.4435	I did it with my best friend.	3003.3935
2060	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3003.3471	See.	3003.7988
2061		3004.8114	You wanna go scuba diving?	3005.6048
2062	DCB_int_01	3006.3901	She [don't even-]	3006.9114
2063	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3006.5151	[<laugh>]	3007.8471
2064	DCB_int_01	3007.2758	[She don't even want] to get out the boat.	3008.6611
2065	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3009.6007	She don't need to get out the boat.	3011.2127
2066	DCB_int_01	3010.7936	[The boat. She] need to stay-	3011.7696
2067	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3011.7758	[<laugh>]	3013.8544
2068	DCB_int_01	3011.9829	[she need to stay in the boat.]	3013.2429
2069		3014.1828	So let's talk a little about DC, have you seen the city	3017.6829
2071		3018.2651	change? Do you feel like it's changing?	3020.3437
2073		3020.5435	Or do you feel like it's the same as you remember as a child?	3023.1293
2074	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3023.6650	Um, it's changed.	3024.8290
2076		3025.7651	No, I'm not gonna say it's changed cause it mighta been the same but because I'm older I'm allowed to see more things.	3031.3508
2078		3031.6580	And like once I got thinking I was just protected from everything, but-	3034.5507
2080		3035.0615	Um,	3035.7721
2082		3036.8865	I think	3037.8252
2084		3039.0078	I don't like DC no more though because it's like now we're always attached to such negative things, like,	3044.2340
2086		3044.7185	it's like rare you hear DC as something positive beside	3047.2793
2088		3047.4079	the President, it's just like we're always attached to something negative.	3049.8880
2090		3050.1685	And it makes people look at us like we're just a group of	3052.6614
2092		3053.8365	people that's here to	3054.7901
2094		3054.9544	destroy.	3055.7830
2096		3055.9363	And that's the [only thing I don't like.]	3057.2793
2097	DCB_int_01	3056.5435	[Mm.]	3057.2293
2098	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3058.0864	So.	3058.4227
2100		3059.2222	So it's like,	3059.7795
2102		3059.9758	now people like, I gotta get out of DC because DC is so horrible, let's move to Virginia, Maryland, stuff like that because it's like DC now has this	3066.2878
2104		3066.5901	negative	3067.2794
2106		3067.5042	thing now s- that's the only thing.	3069.3221
2107	DCB_int_01	3070.3507	Um,	3070.9400
2109		3071.6936	what about- so you guys hang out on H Street a lot, do you remember when H street was like-	3075.3614
2111		3075.7257	do y- have you seen- do you remember it changing over the last few years?	3078.8222
2112	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3078.7865	Yeah, yeah.	3080.0687
2113		3080.5971	It's- uh- mm, I like how it's changing now though, I like how it's changing because it's like a- it's a mixture of people now.	3086.3401
2114	DCB_int_01	3086.3864	Mm-hm.	3086.7614
2115	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3086.7614	It's like it's so diverse now.	3088.0720
2116		3088.6579	And I like that.	3089.6436
2117	DCB_int_01	3090.1686	What's your favorite place to hang out?	3091.5937
2119		3092.0330	[Not necessarily H Street], anywhere	3093.3328
2120	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3092.0899	[Um-]	3092.7846
2121	DCB_int_01	3093.8650	in the city.	3094.3570
2122	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3096.0972	I don't have a favorite place in DC though.	3097.8151
2124		3099.8221	But it- I can name some places I like to go. [I like-]	3102.8294
2125	DCB_int_01	3102.3579	[Okay.]	3102.8151
2126	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3103.1687	I like um, U Street.	3104.5553
2127	DCB_int_01	3104.7578	Mm-hm.	3105.1045
2128	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3105.0864	Um,	3105.7744
2129		3106.8686	no then I would say U Street probably is my favorite there now.	3109.1044
2131		3110.1401	[Yeah.]	3110.4864
2132	DCB_int_01	3110.3864	[Any] particular places on the U [Street?]	3111.9784
2133	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3111.7686	[No.]	3112.2186
2134		3112.6150	I like going with /RD-NAME-3/ where they- when I used to go with like to happy hour and stuff like that but, no.	3117.0292
2135	DCB_int_01	3117.4614	No?	3117.7686
2136	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3117.7436	That's it, yeah.	3118.5742
2137	DCB_int_01	3118.6364	What's your favorite restaurant or favorite rest- or	3120.7972
2139		3121.3401	places that you really like as far as food.	3123.4543
2140	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3123.6257	I'm strange because I try my hardest to stay out of DC.	3127.1382
2141	DCB_int_01	3127.8187	Really?	3128.3435
2142	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3128.3256	Yeah.	3128.9435
2143	DCB_int_01	3129.0328	Why?	3129.4793
2144	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3130.6579	I don't know so I'm more of a like, okay here's this restaurant in Virginia oh here's this restaurant in-	3134.9114
2146		3135.0328	No, I'm-	3135.7507
2148		3136.3579	DC is just like, mm	3137.7151
2150		3138.3436	nah.	3138.8823
2152		3139.1437	Cause it's like you- you just gotta be careful in DC it's like you always run into either-	3142.5400
2154		3142.6900	that's why I don't like go gos.	3143.9180
2156		3144.6579	I used to like go go, I no longer h- like go go cause it's not- it's- it's- it's attached to so much negative things.	3149.5472
2158		3149.8151	Like people done got killed at go gos,	3151.5991
2160		3151.9401	you know, it's just like no I'm-	3153.4150
2162		3153.8293	go go's just not my thing, I'm not going to no go gos, I'm not- I'm not, so it was just like	3157.8008
2164		3158.0508	th-	3158.3044
2166		3158.8971	j- just because what DC is attached to I'm just like, okay let's try this,	3162.1670
2168		3162.2972	this is a nice restaurant over here.	3163.7187
2170		3163.9578	We don't have to worry about no girls starting some stuff, or talking trash or being ratchet, and things like that so it's just like I try to	3169.7723
2172		3170.5399	move out a little bit.	3171.3799
2173	DCB_int_01	3171.8757	Mm.	3172.2637
2175		3174.6722	So where do you go [now?]	3175.8042
2176	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3175.4151	[My favorite] restaurant in DC- um, oh.	3177.5971
2177		3177.8221	I- I still wanna answer the question.	3179.3848
2178	DCB_int_01	3179.4329	B- oh, go [ahead yeah.]	3180.6609
2179	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3179.9829	[Um-]	3180.6936
2180		3183.3721	uh, sh-	3184.2508
2182		3184.8043	what were some places we been in DC?	3186.2829
2183	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3188.1506	/??/ I don't know.	3189.2015
2184	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3189.2042	I like Sticky Rice, that ain't- that ain't my favorite restaurant [but I- I like Sticky Rice.]	3192.7687
2185	DCB_int_01	3191.3365	[Oh I like them too, yeah. /I must/ wanna] go there [today.]	3195.4871
2186	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3193.1258	[I like, um,]	3194.5007
2188		3194.8685	[H & Pizza] on H Street, [um, I-] I mean, I [like uh-]	3198.0615
2189	DCB_int_01	3196.3436	[Mm-hm.]	3197.0529
2190	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3197.6865	[You like the] Ha- you went to the Hamil- did you take /RD-NAME-1/ to the Hamilton?]	3200.4328
2191	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3200.4006	N-	3200.5864
2192		3200.8114	[I- I-]	3201.5471
2193	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3201.1971	[You have-] you have /???/	3202.5864
2194	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3202.5829	I went with /RD-NAME-2/ I just- <laugh>	3204.2508
2195		3204.6187	The price of the Ha- the prices of the Hamilton for their food, no. That's- that's ridiculous.	3208.8686
2197		3209.6936	That's what DC is too now son, you just-	3211.4973
2199		3211.7758	[you pay all this] money and it's just like, wh- what is this?	3214.5864
2200	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3211.8332	[<laugh>]	3212.5245
2201	DCB_int_01	3215.0186	[Mm-hm.]	3215.6253
2202	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3215.0257	[So no], no.	3216.1329
2203	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3216.3401	<ts> [I would have] said Antonios.	3217.9544
2204	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3216.4329	[But-]	3216.7263
2205		3218.5578	There was a- oh, that was in DC but that was like a small- I like places like that in [DC.]	3222.7579
2206	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3222.4508	[Yeah like the- /inaudible/]	3224.6828
2207	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3223.3258	[The small little-]	3224.6351
2208		3224.8042	small little hole in the wall places [I like.]	3226.7722
2209	DCB_int_01	3226.3400	[Oh that's why] you like [Sticky Rice.]	3227.8360
2210	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3227.3293	[Yeah. Yeah I like- yup.]	3229.0115
2211	DCB_int_01	3228.0758	[Cause it's little.]	3229.0012
2212	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3228.5222	[/?/] Yup [/inaudible/]	3230.2864
2213	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3229.6865	[No I like /?/-] I like little places like that [in DC.]	3232.1543
2214	DCB_int_01	3231.7971	[Have you been] to Boundary?	3232.7545
2215	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3233.4615	Boundary [no.]	3234.2222
2216	DCB_int_01	3233.9972	[I just] went there yesterday. It's- it's- it's, um, it's pretty- [it's] cute.	3238.2221
2217	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3237.5721	[What-]	3237.8855
2218		3238.2257	what kind of food do they sell?	3239.3857
2219	DCB_int_01	3240.7437	<ts> It's kind of like a wine and cheese type thing but [like I had a] cheesesteak and then the lady I was with she had a quiche.	3246.5552
2220	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3243.1471	[Mm.]	3243.6114
2221	DCB_int_01	3246.9437	Um, so it was just kind of like [American-y.]	3249.9936
2222	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3249.4650	[Where is it?]	3249.9810
2223	DCB_int_01	3250.7007	Four- I think it's-	3251.7079
2225		3251.9115	the address was four fourteen.	3253.6248
2226	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3253.8616	In Northwest?	3254.6549
2227	DCB_int_01	3255.2971	Uh-huh it's on that- it's on the-	3256.7864
2229		3257.1115	is it Northwest side? It's on the Northeast side.	3259.0728
2230	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3259.3115	I have to say that you and Denise be knowing all the places. I'm like, nigga, how you /gonna get to/ know all the places to go, what's the place we went to for /RD-NAME-3/ baby shower?	3266.0822
2231	DCB_int_01	3266.4257	Oh Gordon Biersch? But that's a chain.	3268.3293
2233		3268.8257	[Oh for the baby shower?]	3270.0657
2234	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3268.8472	[Yeah, I like that too.]	3269.8329
2235		3270.1794	Wait not the baby shower [for the /inaudible/]	3272.2901
2236	DCB_int_01	3271.0615	[For the saying goodbye?]	3272.1709
2237		3272.4185	Yeah that's [Gord-]	3273.2650
2238	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3272.9435	[/unintelligible/]	3275.2929
2239	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3274.1507	[How long you been in DC?]	3275.2617
2240	DCB_int_01	3275.8115	So,	3276.7035
2242		3276.9544	I moved back in two thousand, um,	3279.8685
2244		3280.5543	<ts> at the end of two thousand twelve so almost four years but I went to college here.	3284.4971
2246		3285.0935	And I went to get my- so I was here [five years]	3287.6972
2247	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3286.4722	[/inaudible/]	3287.7263
2248	DCB_int_01	3287.9293	before I left.	3289.1508
2249	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3289.3080	But I find the people that like-	3291.0864
2251		3291.8543	but you've been here for a while.	3292.8263
2253		3293.1043	I find people that move here	3295.0794
2254	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3295.1580	Love it better?	3295.7899
2255	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3296.1471	They- no, not only love it but they experience more than the people [who actually- /actually/ live here, so.]	3301.3258
2256	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3299.1686	[Yeah, that's true.]	3300.3166
2258		3300.6115	[That's true.]	3301.1022
2259	DCB_int_01	3301.3115	So have you been a tourist in your own city?	3303.2422
2260	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3303.5007	Yeah but only on field trips.	3304.9115
2261	DCB_int_01	3304.9150	Mm-hm, [exactly. But people who] fly from [California-]	3308.2971
2262	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3305.7722	[Yeah, so.]	3306.6865
2264		3307.5973	[They actually fly just to see those-] yeah. But only on field trips and so I-	3312.2686
2265	DCB_int_01	3308.8400	[Just to come-]	3309.5721
2266	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3312.5579	I've never- no, except the Martin Luther King, I did- I did take my time out to go see that but everything else, no.	3317.7543
2268		3318.1436	[Only] when my school took me.	3319.4356
2269	DCB_int_01	3318.1722	[Are y-]	3318.4829
2270		3319.6508	Are you going to the African American Museum when it opens up?	3322.7842
2271	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3323.5222	Um, no. But now that you say that, yeah. I need to go I guess. <laugh>	3328.5579
2272	DCB_int_01	3328.7222	You need to-	3329.1829
2273	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3329.0329	[<laugh>]	3329.9758
2274	DCB_int_01	3329.6650	[I'm] going, I'm gonna take- I- so I teach as well, I'm gonna take my class there, [um,]	3333.9007
2275	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3333.1792	[Mm.]	3333.8699
2276	DCB_int_01	3334.2293	but I'm r- I hear it's	3335.4008
2278		3335.5972	going to be something.	3336.6639
2279	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3337.1292	So my sons like	3338.5435
2281		3338.8864	they aks me all the time, like, mom why you don't take us to like	3342.1877
2283		3342.5294	to Monument? Or why [you don't take us-]	3344.2651
2284	DCB_se2_ag2_f_01	3343.5044	[Well /rough/ kids are like] that, /like/ her kids /??/ they into	3346.5650
2285		3346.9722	that type of [stuff.]	3347.8365
2286	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3347.7258	So-	3348.3401
2287		3348.5901	so I think I- I do need to get more in-	3350.2701
2289		3350.4828	into that.	3351.0900
2291		3351.3221	Like I've never been to the White House and I feel like I need to take my kids like to- the White House.	3355.4973
2293		3355.6223	Like they'll be like, where's the White House? I'm- I know where it is, I'm like, oh it's over there and it's just like-	3359.7829
2295		3360.4365	Yeah they wanna actually like, Mommy I really wanna like see it like up- but no.	3364.8972
2297		3365.5936	So I'm- I'm- I'm'a get better with that.	3367.1937
2299		3367.6651	We been to like the Air and Space Museum,	3369.6355
2301		3369.9686	and like,	3370.6792
2303		3371.2543	um, stuff like- but not like the main monuments. We went to the, um, World War Two [memorial.]	3376.6900
2304	DCB_int_01	3376.1436	[Mm-hm.]	3376.6132
2305	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3377.2507	Um,	3377.8881
2307		3378.1044	and I think I only went to the World War Two memorial with them is because it was a project <laugh> at school. <laugh>	3382.7472
2308	DCB_int_01	3383.3686	And you had to-	3383.8433
2309	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3383.8686	Yeah I could go, so.	3385.2293
2311		3385.4473	And that was it.	3386.0032
2312	DCB_int_01	3386.4114	One of the things that I tell people to do,	3388.2900
2314		3388.4686	and I know it sounds silly but like, do one of the little tourist things, like one of the little	3393.2303
2316		3393.4293	get on the bus	3394.2614
2318		3394.4864	and they do the [tour. I think it-]	3395.8865
2319	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3395.0722	[Oh, I never done] that either.	3396.6651
2320	DCB_int_01	3396.7187	I, uh, actually wanted to be a tour guide when I was-	3398.8364
2321	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3398.8757	[<laugh>]	3399.3530
2322	DCB_int_01	3399.0792	[I don't] know that was just this	3400.2752
2323		3400.4900	crazy part of my- but I- they're really interesting they have some interesting stories.	3403.8116
2325		3403.9580	And if nothing else it just gives you a very different [perspective of] like, where you live, right?	3408.6187
2326	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3406.4079	[Mm-hm.]	3407.0345
2327		3408.6401	[Wow.]	3409.1758
2328	DCB_int_01	3409.0722	[Cause] you live [outside of-]	3410.5602
2329	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3409.9863	[So you did the-] the big red bus that [rides around?]	3412.8579
2330	DCB_int_01	3412.2150	[I did that one] before, I've done the one- the little duck boat where [you g- where it goes] down Potomac.	3417.2364
2331	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3415.6115	[Oh.]	3416.3759
2332	DCB_int_01	3417.7114	Um, I've done the night- the night one is the best, [I think that's] the prettiest one.	3422.2605
2333	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3420.9008	[Mm-hm.]	3421.4223
2334	DCB_int_01	3422.5757	Um, I haven't done the dinner cruise but I've done the lunch cruise,	3425.8258
2336		3426.2686	um, from Southwest off the, um,	3428.7819
2338		3428.9650	[marina-]	3429.4916
2339	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3429.0328	[Waterfront?]	3429.5078
2340	DCB_int_01	3429.8364	Waterfront, mm-hm.	3430.9511
2341	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3431.0007	Oh speaking of that, that is my f- favorite restaurant in DC.	3433.6021
2343		3433.8187	I only been like three times though, Nick's Riverside Grill.	3436.0814
2345		3436.4436	It's down like the- in the Waterfront like-	3438.4365
2347		3438.9544	I don't even know why they call it the Waterfront, but it's like the Georgetown Waterfront, it's like in the back of Georgetown.	3443.6792
2348	DCB_int_01	3443.7972	Oh [okay.]	3444.3901
2349	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3444.1829	[Yeah.]	3444.7437
2350	DCB_int_01	3444.8579	[N- in Northwest?]	3446.0633
2351	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3444.9830	[So-]	3445.6056
2353		3445.9863	[In Northwest.]	3446.7649
2354	DCB_int_01	3446.6578	[Uh-huh.]	3447.0605
2355	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3447.1757	Where- where they sometimes do like the pirate ships on Halloween for the little kids. Um,	3451.6685
2357		3451.7685	I can't think of the name of it, but they also do it for adult- I took my kids on there cause it was like groupon deal.	3455.6543
2358	DCB_int_01	3456.0508	[Mm-hm.]	3456.4228
2359	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3456.1115	[And so] we hop on it, the little pirate ship and then you get off and it's like all these restaurants around there.	3460.5364
2360		3460.6936	But Nick's Riverside Grill is like really nice because in the winter time they have the like the ice skating rink	3465.0792
2362		3465.4364	[and stuff like that. Yeah], and then like during this time the ice skating rink is around, so it's just like this big water-	3470.3651
2363	DCB_int_01	3465.4578	[I've never been there.]	3466.7965
2364	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3471.0542	this big water pond and stuff but it's like the scenery is very pretty but the food is also really good.	3475.5916
2366		3475.8721	And I thought the food would be expensive because where it's at but no it was like	3479.3037
2368		3479.4186	the prices are amazing like-	3481.0044
2369	DCB_int_01	3480.9830	Nick's Riverside [Grill.]	3482.4841
2370	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3482.1114	[Grill] yeah, Nick's Riverside Grill.	3483.6400
2371	DCB_int_01	3483.6757	In Georgetown.	3484.5024
2372	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3484.5579	In-	3484.8979
2374		3485.0722	in Georgetown Water- like all the way in the back of Georgetown.	3487.3228
2375	DCB_int_01	3488.4757	Okay I'll look it up. [Cause I'm in] Georgetown a lot,	3490.5364
2376	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3489.2435	[Yeah.]	3489.7078
2377		3490.6507	[Yeah it's in the back of-] yeah in the back. But it's um- I- I've taken him,	3494.7672
2378	DCB_int_01	3490.6757	[ob- obviously, so.]	3491.7851
2379	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3495.1614	and then I went with my cousin. But it's- it's- it's amazing like you- and it's not just Nick's Riverside Grill either, it's like	3501.1370
2381		3501.3900	when you go it's like a whole circle	3502.9615
2383		3503.3579	full of like, restaura- I- but I've only tried Nick's Riverside Grill.	3506.5232
2384	DCB_int_01	3506.7435	Oh, okay, so it's like- it's not- okay I thought the whole thing was called Nick's Riverside [Grill so Nick's is] just one [/in there by itself/]	3512.4759
2385	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3510.1365	Uh-uh, but that-	3510.9151
2387		3511.4899	[it's that restaurant] yeah, it's that restaurant.	3513.9654
2388	DCB_int_01	3514.0900	[Oh okay.]	3515.0167
2389	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3514.4257	[But there- but] it's like a circle of restaurants but I like Nick's Riverside Grill.	3518.3937
2390	DCB_int_01	3518.8614	[Oh okay, alright I'm'a] have to go over [there cause I don't eat] a lot over there [actually.]	3522.8830
2391	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3519.1721	[Yeah, mm-hm.]	3520.3079
2393		3521.0507	[Yeah, you'll-]	3521.7222
2395		3522.6687	[No] you'll like it because n- i-	3524.2506
2396		3524.5435	The reason I like Nick's Riverside Grill because you have the option to eat outside and inside, [always ask] for outside	3529.2712
2397	DCB_int_01	3528.4176	[Mm-hm.]	3528.6708
2398	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3529.3794	cause I like /how it look/.	3530.3527
2400		3530.6185	But you- you'll really like it.	3532.2150
2401	DCB_int_01	3532.6079	Okay, and it's not expensive?	3534.0472
2402	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3534.0329	No like, I don't know what type of food you like but I like their crab cakes.	3537.2793
2403		3537.5864	[/inaudible/]	3538.1147
2404	DCB_int_01	3537.6114	[Oh I'm allergic] to [crab.]	3539.0186
2405	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3538.9400	[But] they have everything, [they have like] wings, they have french fries, [everything] but	3542.6757
2406	DCB_int_01	3539.9472	[Okay.]	3540.3472
2408		3541.8473	[Okay.]	3542.2526
2409	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3542.8792	that's why I go because of- they have crab cakes that are amazing it's not like ridiculous prices.	3546.7579
2411		3547.2580	So that's why I like it.	3548.1899
2412	DCB_int_01	3548.8935	Do you eat mumbo sauce?	3549.8639
2413	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3550.0114	I do eat mumbo sauce. <laugh>	3551.7508
2415		3552.1686	<laugh>	3552.6646
2417		3553.0937	But I totally agree with you when you say it depends where you go.	3556.0043
2419		3556.2150	And I like Danny's.	3557.1923
2420	DCB_int_01	3557.6079	Danny's?	3558.2258
2421	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3558.1936	Mm-hm.	3558.6008
2422	DCB_int_01	3558.5758	Where's Danny's?	3559.4935
2423	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3559.5685	There's multiple Danny's but I always go to- you know where Iverson Mall is?	3562.7165
2424	DCB_int_01	3562.7543	Mm-hm.	3563.0983
2425	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3563.2257	And I think it's t-	3564.1901
2427		3564.3294	um, considered Temple Hills?	3565.7544
2428	DCB_int_01	3566.0651	Mm-hm.	3566.5078
2429	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3566.6971	That Danny's is	3567.9309
2431		3568.0864	the one, like	3569.1744
2433		3569.3829	that's the one. And they're now stingy with their mu- you can- now people are like really stingy with their mumbo sauce.	3573.7263
2435		3574.0900	You only get like, this much and if you want-	3575.9132
2437		3576.1044	they put them in this little tube and then they put that on your food, and if you want extra mumbo sauce they charge you per tube and put it like- it's- it's ridiculous now with the mumbo sauce.	3583.1459
2439		3583.6901	<laugh>	3584.9101
2441		3586.1543	But yeah.	3586.7316
2442	DCB_int_01	3586.8186	I've ne- okay so I'm'a have to go over there, I was just thinking like what am I gonna eat today, that might be-	3591.3078
2443	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3591.3900	And /RD-NAME-3/ got me on to Danny's too, like-	3593.4033
2444	DCB_int_01	3593.7579	I'm- I've only tried- I've tried a few different- I've tried Eddie's-	3596.6113
2445	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3597.0400	Eddie's. Oh Eddie Leonard's?	3598.2703
2447		3598.3686	But it's a lot of 'em.	3599.4008
2448	DCB_int_01	3599.6186	The one,	3600.3440
2450		3600.4829	um, that's up the street from- So I work in the same building she works [in, I work] on the other side [so the] one right up, uh, I think Marlboro Pike.	3607.0002
2451	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3603.2614	[Uh-huh.]	3603.7757
2453		3604.5614	[Uh-huh.]	3604.9868
2454		3607.0437	Marlboro Pike, okay cause it's one right here on Alabama Avenue too.	3609.8328
2455	DCB_int_01	3610.0650	Oh no I ain't- not over [here. I- I'm not usually-] oh we have a club over here [but I'm not usually] over in [Southeast.]	3614.8542
2456	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3610.9400	[<laugh>]	3611.9436
2458		3613.2008	[Mm-hm.]	3613.6075
2460		3614.7185	[Right.]	3615.2639
2461	DCB_int_01	3615.4543	Um,	3616.2364
2463		3616.3829	<clears throat> cause I live in Silver Spring, so I have-	3618.3044
2465		3618.4329	When I come into DC if I'm not in Georgetown	3620.6221
2467		3621.1400	or Northeast	3622.4793
2469		3622.5793	I'm usually not-	3623.4180
2470	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3623.6793	You travel from Silver Spring to DC every day?	3625.7567
2471	DCB_int_01	3626.0687	Mm-hm.	3626.3780
2472	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3626.5864	/Wow/.	3627.1292
2473	DCB_int_01	3627.5078	But it's actually not	3628.5614
2475		3629.5472	that	3630.0043
2477		3630.2686	ba-	3630.4258
2478	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3630.6615	When [we go to /RD-NAME-3/'s house- oh well when we go to] /RD-NAME-3/'s it felt like we ran forever.	3634.9865
2479	DCB_int_01	3630.8044	[But I have no desire to live in-]	3633.1361
2481		3634.9615	But she's past me.	3636.0186
2482	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3635.9758	Oh okay [/??/]	3637.0991
2483	DCB_int_01	3636.6365	[Uh],	3637.1687
2484		3638.2685	so she is still like, four or five miles past where I am.	3641.8321
2485	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3641.9079	Oh okay.	3642.5251
2486	DCB_int_01	3642.5251	But still I mean it still- it is a long way. [I mean it's like] eighteen miles but in DC eighteen miles could be like a [hour.]	3647.9983
2487	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3644.2504	[Yeah.]	3644.9744
2489		3647.6668	[<laugh>]	3649.1847
2490	DCB_int_01	3648.7372	[Or it could be] like twenty minutes, you know what I mean, just depending on traffic. Traffic is the worst.	3652.7119
2491		3653.4044	Um, so d- mm. A- speaking of traffic do you- do you drive everywhere, do you take public [transportation?]	3658.2080
2492	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3657.9952	[Um], I drive to work	3659.6566
2493		3659.9148	but catch the train back	3661.2055
2495		3661.4565	home.	3661.9525
2496	DCB_int_01	3662.4024	Why?	3662.7597
2497	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3663.2755	Um, because I get a ride in the morning [and] then in the evenings he pick up the boys, but I wouldn't even aks him to pick me up in the evening because of the traffic, /exactly./	3671.3728
2498	DCB_int_01	3665.2367	[Mm-hm.]	3665.5913
2499	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3671.6950	I leave out at six o'clock in the morning so it's like the like traffic is	3674.1042
2501		3674.5880	just-	3674.8618
2503		3675.1805	[cause no one's really out] there so- but in the evenings absolutely not, I would never.	3678.4999
2504	DCB_int_01	3675.2498	[No traffic /?/]	3676.0432
2505		3678.6418	Do you like public transportation?	3679.9191
2506	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3680.4886	Um, I like the subway, not the bus.	3682.8412
2507	DCB_int_01	3683.7003	What line do you ride?	3684.7259
2508	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3684.8264	The green line. The green line and the blue line.	3687.4099
2509	DCB_int_01	3687.9448	Oh okay. [Cause-]	3688.7764
2510	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3688.4438	[Both are] dangerous.	3689.3011
2511		3689.5248	[<laugh>]	3690.2210
2512	DCB_int_01	3689.9508	[But the] red line I think is the worst.	3691.6148
2513	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3691.7491	Red line, yeah but far as like violence,	3694.8328
2514	DCB_int_01	3694.8709	Oh, mm.	3695.9137
2515	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3695.9622	the green line.	3696.9515
2516	DCB_int_01	3697.0640	Really?	3697.4867
2517	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3697.4659	Yeah.	3698.0846
2518	DCB_int_01	3698.9697	Is it a certain part? Like is it one [end versus the other?]	3701.4207
2519	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3700.5774	[Um, I would] say, if you- if you're traveling to Greenbelt way, you're more safer but if you traveling to the Branch Avenue way, yeah you might-	3708.0703
2520		3708.4770	that's the mo- that's the- yeah.	3710.2121
2522		3710.3099	You-	3710.5386
2524		3710.7742	you going through some things.	3711.8369
2525	DCB_int_01	3711.8830	At what point does it change, like you know how you can like- [okay well once you get to this stop-]	3715.5824
2526	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3714.0553	[No you- After Gallery Place-]	3715.8716
2527	DCB_int_01	3715.9055	After Gallery [Place?]	3716.9242
2528	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3716.4772	[After Gallery] Place going towards Branch Avenue.	3718.3586
2529		3718.9752	But then it stops so it's like from	3720.9433
2531		3721.3937	Gallery Place to-	3722.9111
2533		3724.2731	I would say Gallery Place to Congress Heights.	3725.7531
2534	DCB_int_01	3725.9915	Mm-hm.	3726.2848
2535	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3726.3137	No no no to Suitland.	3727.5125
2537		3727.6200	Suitland's bad too so Gallery Place to Suitland.	3729.6285
2539		3729.9863	But Naylor Road and Branch Avenue are- are kind of good stations but	3733.6903
2541		3733.8462	I guess from Gallery Place to	3735.3361
2543		3735.8420	Suitland, yes. That's- the- those the ones I feel like it need to be a police officer on every car.	3740.3219
2545		3741.3579	<laugh> Like,	3742.5832
2547		3742.8684	seriously.	3743.4158
2549		3743.6272	[Like-]	3744.1157
2550	DCB_int_01	3743.7069	[It's really] that bad?	3744.8330
2551	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3744.8676	Yeah because you- you know Anacostia?	3746.5100
2552	DCB_int_01	3746.6312	Mm-hm.	3747.0219
2553	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3747.3658	It's going through Anacostia and Congress Heights and yeah those aren't like nice-	3751.6863
2555		3752.0501	those are pretty rough <laugh> yeah, so-	3753.9870
2557		3754.2536	So I- my stop is Congress Heights.	3756.1455
2559		3756.8488	[So] he'll pick me up from the station and then yeah, so	3760.0123
2560	DCB_int_01	3756.9251	[Mm.]	3757.2691
2561		3760.3135	How do you feel like this neighborhood- is it safe around these parts? It seems really quiet.	3764.1561
2562	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3764.8941	Um,	3765.7478
2564		3766.4705	I'm just one of those people like I don't mess with nobody so I- I- it- it's w- it's what you make it like I don't m- b- I- it- I'm cool with it.	3773.5906
2565	DCB_int_01	3773.9129	Mm-hm.	3774.2883
2566	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3774.5261	I been in this area all my life.	3776.3025
2568		3776.5183	Like /at the map/, before moving here I was in my old apartment for about six years.	3780.1564
2570		3780.5237	That was like right down the street, like	3782.0725
2572		3782.4222	that was a really bad area but it was like I didn't mess with nobody, nobody messed with me, so.	3786.4883
2574		3786.9959	That was that.	3787.4498
2575	DCB_int_01	3787.4567	Do you see your neighborhood changing like rent going up, different [people moving in?]	3791.4620
2576	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3790.5645	[Yeah.]	3791.3272
2577		3791.5209	[Yeah.]	3792.2315
2578	DCB_int_01	3791.6179	[How does that make you] feel?	3792.7697
2579	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3792.9449	I like it.	3793.7419
2580	DCB_int_01	3794.0745	[Really?]	3794.4624
2581	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3794.2649	[I like] it because I- like I said, it was always so much negative things now people seeing like if it- d-	3798.8195
2582		3799.1954	it's n-	3799.6112
2584		3800.5259	The news only	3801.6622
2586		3801.8770	tell you what they wanna tell you, you know what I'm saying, so.	3804.0184
2588		3804.8187	Until you actually experience it for yourself you will never know like, the real DC, so.	3808.6322
2589	DCB_int_01	3809.1739	Hm.	3809.6096
2590	DCB_se1_ag2_f_02	3809.6729	<laugh>	3810.1510