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1 | DCB_int_01 | 0.3310 | And where were you born? | 1.4254 |
2 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2.3292 | Uh, what was the name of that hospital? | 4.8503 |
4 | | 7.4688 | <ts> | 7.5528 |
6 | | 7.6809 | Washington Hospital Center. | 8.7968 |
7 | DCB_int_01 | 13.0354 | And | 13.7009 |
9 | | 13.9250 | what neighborhood did you grow up in or that you claim is your neighborhood? | 16.7223 |
10 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 18.0869 | Mm. | 18.8313 |
12 | | 19.6769 | Well I don't know, only cause | 21.2736 |
14 | | 21.9819 | ti- | 22.2501 |
16 | | 22.4502 | there's like a bunch. But I- I would say | 24.5271 |
18 | | 24.6284 | mostly Northeast Washington at this point but that's not where I grew up. | 29.9268 |
19 | DCB_int_01 | 30.1950 | Okay [so let's] talk about that part. | 31.7576 |
20 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 30.5751 | [I-] | 30.8793 |
21 | | 32.3772 | Well like, | 33.0135 |
23 | | 33.4057 | until I was ten I grew up in Adelphi, Maryland, sorry [I kicked you.] And then uh, | 37.7244 |
24 | DCB_int_01 | 36.3390 | [Mm-hm.] | 36.7872 |
25 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 38.8134 | after that Hyattsville, which is really close, so | 41.7377 |
27 | | 42.5684 | primarily Prince George's County | 44.5373 |
29 | | 44.6013 | until high school. | 45.9704 |
30 | DCB_int_01 | 48.9245 | And then did you come into the District at that point? | 50.9255 |
31 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 51.0815 | Yeah uh, | 52.4342 |
33 | | 52.7743 | s- what is the name of that- | 54.0189 |
35 | | 54.2110 | I don't know what the name of that neighborhood is. | 55.5796 |
37 | | 56.3012 | It was basically sixteenth street Northwest and Underwood, it was my grandma's house, so. | 63.3766 |
39 | | 64.5382 | It's kind of near Gold Coast, near um <ts> where Walter Reed | 67.9570 |
41 | | 68.3212 | was. | 69.1135 |
42 | DCB_int_01 | 73.1394 | And where did you go to school? | 73.9530 |
43 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 74.7054 | Uh, for middle, high, elementary, all of the [above?] | 79.8570 |
44 | DCB_int_01 | 79.5768 | [Whatever] you'd like to tell [me.] | 80.7254 |
45 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 80.6373 | [Oh], okay. | 81.2536 |
46 | | 81.7138 | Elementary school, well, /RD-SCHOOL-7/, | 85.3035 |
48 | | 86.0290 | which was PG County. | 88.7423 |
50 | | 89.3666 | Then /RD-SCHOOL-7/, | 91.1314 |
52 | | 92.0290 | these are all small and private, FYI. | 94.3141 |
54 | | 94.7983 | Um, also in PG County. | 97.0514 |
56 | | 98.2171 | Then /RD-SCHOOL-3/, | 100.3756 |
58 | | 101.2145 | just DC. | 102.3075 |
60 | | 102.5877 | <ts> | 102.6997 |
62 | | 103.3800 | And undergrad, /RD-SCHOOL-3/, | 107.2067 |
64 | | 108.2755 | law school, /RD-SCHOOL-2/. | 109.7266 |
65 | DCB_int_01 | 112.8416 | And what's your current occupation? | 114.1376 |
66 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 115.1719 | <ts> | 115.2560 |
68 | | 115.7162 | Team lead | 116.9295 |
70 | | 117.6531 | um, | 118.6734 |
72 | | 118.8108 | on a document review project. | 121.6201 |
73 | DCB_int_01 | 126.9478 | And is that under like, | 128.1724 |
75 | | 128.5086 | law? | 129.0848 |
77 | | 129.2449 | I'm assuming [since you went to law school.] | 130.9657 |
78 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 129.7691 | [<laugh> Yeah] yeah it's- [it's- it's] a l- it's a law [job.] | 133.1479 |
79 | DCB_int_01 | 131.4111 | [<laugh>] | 131.8245 |
81 | | 132.9358 | [Okay.] | 133.4372 |
82 | | 134.7767 | Um, what about your parents, where were they born? | 136.6015 |
83 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 137.2898 | My dad was born in Rochester, New York but | 140.9539 |
85 | | 141.8892 | he lived- he moved- his family moved here | 145.7285 |
87 | | 147.0448 | when he was maybe ten I think, so he spent most | 149.8661 |
89 | | 150.0754 | of his | 151.1639 |
91 | | 151.8843 | youth in DC. | 153.2809 |
93 | | 154.2294 | My mom was born in | 156.1925 |
95 | | 156.3556 | Baltimore, Maryland. | 157.8236 |
97 | | 158.5366 | Then | 159.4410 |
99 | | 160.2454 | in high school moved to Parkersburg, West Virginia where part of her family's from until undergrad. | 166.7192 |
101 | | 167.9354 | Well, | 168.2075 |
103 | | 168.2795 | through undergrad and then she moved into the area as an adult and has been in DC | 171.9475 |
105 | | 172.4174 | since then. | 173.0241 |
106 | DCB_int_01 | 174.0354 | And what did your parents do? Or what do they do? | 175.6442 |
107 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 176.7567 | They- my dad, | 179.4935 |
109 | | 180.3235 | he | 181.3400 |
111 | | 181.8923 | origin- he started as a teacher, he went to /RD-SCHOOL-3/ too for grad school. | 185.0697 |
113 | | 185.5272 | So he was- he taught | 187.5081 |
115 | | 187.5801 | then he was | 190.0813 |
117 | | 190.2534 | in DC on the radio for some years | 193.1559 |
119 | | 193.3280 | on /RD-WORK-3/. | 194.3045 |
121 | | 195.1128 | And then he went back to teaching and is now a high school administrator. | 198.9132 |
123 | | 199.8963 | And my mom | 201.8412 |
125 | | 203.0470 | she's always been administration, | 205.6322 |
127 | | 205.7522 | and /RD-SCHOOL-5/ for like | 208.0333 |
129 | | 208.1053 | thirty years and now she's | 209.6773 |
131 | | 209.8713 | at- | 210.6037 |
133 | | 212.2124 | well, | 212.6538 |
135 | | 212.8247 | yeah, | 213.2409 |
137 | | 213.3810 | so. | 213.7143 |
139 | | 213.9252 | No, she's still at /RD-SCHOOL-2/, so. | 215.1228 |
140 | DCB_int_01 | 215.4070 | [Still at] /RD-SCHOOL-2/. | 216.0536 |
141 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 215.4430 | [Yeah.] | 215.7030 |
142 | DCB_int_01 | 218.4576 | So I'm gonna put all my papers away. | 221.2149 |
143 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 221.2069 | Does that part have to be on the website or whatever you guys are doing? | 224.8218 |
144 | DCB_int_01 | 224.8978 | No no no no no no [no.] | 226.0765 |
145 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 225.8662 | [Okay great.] Okay. | 227.0596 |
146 | DCB_int_01 | 226.4025 | [No no no no no] no. | 227.2349 |
147 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 227.7671 | Or like, | 228.1873 |
149 | | 228.4087 | might be easy to | 229.1370 |
150 | DCB_int_01 | 229.2811 | [No, so anything] that- like I said, [anything that /idi-/] | 231.9901 |
151 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 229.3091 | [whittle me down.] | 229.9053 |
153 | | 231.0739 | [Identifying information?] | 232.5539 |
154 | DCB_int_01 | 232.2344 | [Yup.] | 232.6186 |
155 | | 232.9788 | So like, let's say if you give a name, | 234.7388 |
157 | | 235.0009 | [um], | 235.5609 |
158 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 235.0129 | [Mm-hm.] | 235.3463 |
159 | DCB_int_01 | 235.6252 | we can | 236.0225 |
161 | | 236.2295 | redact all that out or we just won't use that story. | 238.4757 |
162 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 238.7146 | Gotcha. | 239.1268 |
163 | DCB_int_01 | 239.1468 | Yup. | 239.3950 |
165 | | 239.5430 | So- and if at any point there's anything- at the end we'll also go back if you said something that you wanted taken out, | 244.6466 |
167 | | 244.9668 | we'll do that as well. | 245.6951 |
168 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 245.7191 | <ts> I don't s- really foresee this I just wanna make sure especially since I was talking about my parents, I was like, [oh.] | 250.9438 |
169 | DCB_int_01 | 250.5666 | [Oh no] no no no. | 251.4190 |
170 | | 251.4990 | M- [totally understand] that. | 252.9497 |
171 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 251.8152 | [Yeah.] | 252.2218 |
172 | DCB_int_01 | 253.4171 | Um, so let's kind of start at the beginning. | 255.6407 |
174 | | 256.0263 | Um, | 256.5866 |
176 | | 256.7026 | I know you said you started out in PG. [So you were born] in DC, | 259.7093 |
177 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 258.4487 | [Mm-hm.] | 258.8929 |
178 | | 259.8253 | [Mm-hm.] | 260.1815 |
179 | DCB_int_01 | 259.9654 | [and] then, | 260.6617 |
180 | | 260.8578 | um, | 261.5181 |
182 | | 262.1424 | how were you- | 263.1108 |
184 | | 263.1949 | how did you guys get back to PG? So were your parents [living in P-] | 265.9315 |
185 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 265.3980 | [Oh th- they were] living in [PG County] in Adelphi. | 268.6007 |
186 | DCB_int_01 | 267.1280 | [Okay.] | 267.5534 |
187 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 268.7488 | I just- | 269.4651 |
189 | | 269.5372 | that was the hospital. | 270.3638 |
190 | DCB_int_01 | 270.5536 | Oh okay, okay. | 271.3323 |
192 | | 271.6354 | So tell me about your neighborhood growing up, what you remember. | 274.5514 |
194 | | 274.7328 | In Adelphi. | 275.4101 |
195 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 275.5932 | Uh, we lived | 277.1572 |
197 | | 277.2992 | t- in Adelphi until I was nine, I mighta said ten before, but nine. | 281.9453 |
199 | | 282.5536 | And it was a really busy street, it's- it's on /RD-ADDRESS-1/ Road, the house. | 288.1643 |
201 | | 288.8378 | So, | 289.6193 |
203 | | 290.2877 | I don't really remember th- I mean I remember the house. | 292.5727 |
205 | | 293.0009 | There wasn't much neighborhood wise like, | 295.4806 |
207 | | 296.4637 | I'm- | 297.3802 |
209 | | 298.0245 | have a brother but he's so much older than me, I was raised as an only child. | 301.4930 |
211 | | 301.7674 | So | 302.6678 |
213 | | 303.5602 | I wasn't- and I was- you know, until I was nine so I wasn't- it was busy so I wasn't | 308.0115 |
215 | | 308.1396 | running the neighborhood and like hanging out with neighbors or other kids it was- if I'm home I was in the house. | 314.6638 |
217 | | 315.2521 | Um, <ts> | 316.1405 |
219 | | 317.1810 | so in term- so there's really | 318.8030 |
221 | | 318.8830 | unfortunately not that much neighborhood I can give you. Now when | 322.5167 |
223 | | 322.9929 | my parents separated and my mom and I moved to uh, Hyattsville, | 328.3072 |
225 | | 328.6888 | that was a quiet neighborhood, there were lots of kids, bike riding, | 333.4882 |
227 | | 334.2966 | tag, that kind of stuff, so. | 336.1935 |
229 | | 336.7857 | Um, | 337.3712 |
231 | | 337.4513 | but that was Hyattsville and that was when I was in like fourth grade, | 341.0769 |
233 | | 341.2530 | [so.] | 341.6904 |
234 | DCB_int_01 | 341.2530 | [Okay so] let's Hyattsville then, [we don't have] to- | 343.5541 |
235 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 342.7337 | [Okay.] | 343.2444 |
236 | DCB_int_01 | 343.6554 | there's no [need-] | 344.4877 |
237 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 344.3837 | [There] wa- yeah I was like, there's not really much to give you there. | 346.4767 |
238 | | 346.6407 | Um, <ts> | 347.5372 |
240 | | 348.2455 | uh, Hyattsville what I remember was mostly- | 351.5282 |
242 | | 352.1325 | it was all- it was a black neighborhood, black kids, | 355.9675 |
244 | | 356.1316 | um, <ts> | 357.0440 |
246 | | 358.1445 | I'm | 358.4447 |
248 | | 358.7488 | trying to figure out what | 359.4651 |
250 | | 359.7933 | you guys are looking for for me to talk about, um, I primarily- I was closest to- | 365.3531 |
252 | | 366.2455 | My main friend was | 368.3344 |
254 | | 368.4105 | a girl across the street and her family we were always at each other's houses. | 372.7724 |
256 | | 373.4500 | Um, | 374.4100 |
258 | | 375.4469 | you know, I could eat dinner at her house she could eat dinner at mine, sleepovers, normal | 380.2731 |
260 | | 381.7031 | friend, you know, stuff, neighborhood stuff. Rode bikes, | 385.7985 |
262 | | 386.1143 | so a lot of bike riding. | 387.5270 |
264 | | 389.4171 | [There was-] | 389.7904 |
265 | DCB_int_01 | 389.4171 | [Was that because] it was off the beaten path [or just-] | 392.0193 |
266 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 391.3460 | [<ts> Yeah it was] off of uh, Queen's Chapel. | 393.9153 |
267 | DCB_int_01 | 393.9592 | Mm, mm-hm. | 394.3885 |
268 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 394.6435 | And so the neighborhood was fairly low traffic, enough where my mom felt comfortable | 400.7275 |
270 | | 401.3090 | with uh, me, you know, being able to ride my bike | 404.3864 |
272 | | 405.0788 | with at least one other person. | 406.8276 |
274 | | 407.0329 | So, yeah. | 408.0173 |
276 | | 408.3055 | Maybe within like- | 409.5461 |
278 | | 410.1984 | we could kind of g- /well,/ | 411.3464 |
280 | | 412.7916 | yeah I'm trying to remember, I don't remember really having much of a curfew but | 416.3504 |
282 | | 416.7066 | I've never been one of those ch- children- push boundaries, so. | 420.0882 |
284 | | 420.7777 | She never really had to worry about it. | 422.5345 |
286 | | 423.8031 | Um, | 425.1277 |
288 | | 425.3250 | yeah, we didn't go too far. | 427.7437 |
289 | DCB_int_01 | 427.7081 | Mm. | 427.9641 |
290 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 427.9262 | There was a park nearby so we could go to the playground over there, ride our bikes to that. | 432.3135 |
291 | | 432.8817 | But that's | 433.3099 |
293 | | 433.6421 | pretty much what I remember from that. | 435.7831 |
294 | DCB_int_01 | 436.2873 | So you stayed there until you were fourteen? | 438.5025 |
295 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 438.6977 | Yeah. | 439.1057 |
296 | DCB_int_01 | 439.3460 | And so before we move on to | 441.2228 |
298 | | 441.3829 | when you came into DC, | 443.3394 |
299 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 443.3090 | Uh-huh. | 443.6132 |
300 | DCB_int_01 | 443.9693 | tell me about | 444.7760 |
302 | | 445.4060 | um, elementary s- cause you were elementary and middle school in PG? | 448.4674 |
303 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 448.7355 | Yeah. | 449.2718 |
304 | DCB_int_01 | 449.7052 | Were they | 450.3305 |
306 | | 450.4896 | like, | 450.8177 |
308 | | 451.2499 | memorable years? Were they kind of just | 453.2873 |
310 | | 453.4389 | run of the mill? | 454.3033 |
311 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 455.7892 | Uh, | 457.1739 |
313 | | 457.5140 | what I remember about | 459.0948 |
315 | | 459.2308 | school at least in elementary at /RD-SCHOOL-3/ bef- | 461.6880 |
317 | | 461.8052 | that was | 462.2133 |
319 | | 462.7497 | through third grade | 463.9262 |
321 | | 464.5785 | was that it was- | 466.4114 |
323 | | 466.7956 | I don't know too much about Montessori, what I remember being told was that it's like, a very hands-on | 471.4289 |
325 | | 471.6470 | uh, | 472.2724 |
327 | | 472.4674 | type of program so I remember not having homework. | 474.8417 |
329 | | 475.6901 | Um, <ts> that was more integrated it was- | 479.0037 |
331 | | 479.6132 | I remember there being mostly white kids. | 481.7598 |
333 | | 482.0263 | I mean that's pretty much my entire educational experience, except for /RD-SCHOOL-2/. | 485.0731 |
335 | | 485.4519 | Um, | 486.1414 |
337 | | 486.3415 | <ts> | 486.4535 |
339 | | 488.1223 | and yeah, that- so that's really what I remember from New City. | 490.9648 |
341 | | 491.0849 | I liked my | 491.9133 |
343 | | 492.3135 | third grade teacher, | 493.4668 |
345 | | 493.7101 | or first through third grade teacher. | 495.1028 |
347 | | 496.0272 | Uh, small class, I feel like in third grade it was only two of us. | 499.9342 |
349 | | 500.2104 | But we were in a classroom with other grades, | 502.7316 |
350 | DCB_int_01 | 502.7595 | Oh, [okay.] | 503.4639 |
351 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 503.2238 | [So we] would do- they could | 504.3375 |
352 | | 504.5856 | kind of individualize what we're doing | 506.8186 |
354 | | 507.5190 | within a classroom of | 508.9123 |
356 | | 509.3570 | not that many | 510.2334 |
358 | | 510.4295 | people. | 510.9629 |
360 | | 511.6701 | Um, so fourth grade was a sh- s- kind of a weird transition cause that was a much more traditional, | 517.2059 |
362 | | 517.9462 | uh, | 518.5585 |
364 | | 519.3749 | school | 520.1149 |
366 | | 520.2713 | setting. | 520.9596 |
368 | | 521.0557 | Still really small, m- uh, I feel like in fourth grade maybe there were | 524.2504 |
370 | | 526.1192 | twenty, | 526.8806 |
372 | | 526.9956 | somewhere between twenty and thirty kids in the class. | 529.4300 |
374 | | 530.0943 | Um, it was religious, | 532.3954 |
376 | | 533.5371 | but that was the first time I'd had homework and like traditional | 536.8518 |
378 | | 537.6110 | lecture and textbook type of learning. | 540.9858 |
380 | | 542.0103 | Mixed, | 543.1009 |
382 | | 543.3349 | so it was maybe fifty-ish, fifty-ish. | 547.3780 |
384 | | 547.8582 | So that was good. | 549.4389 |
386 | | 551.0037 | <ts> | 551.1157 |
387 | DCB_int_01 | 551.5011 | And at the Montessori school was it- it- was it mixed or was it- | 554.2504 |
388 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 554.3464 | Montessori I feel like was mostly white, I mean that's going back to third grade so I'm like, uh, I don't remember , I don't- I remem- I mean I feel like there were some black kids there but- | 562.5371 |
390 | | 564.3575 | there were s- there were some. | 565.6741 |
392 | | 565.7902 | But I feel like it was fifty, fifty. | 568.2713 |
394 | | 568.6755 | Didn't feel like much of a transition going from | 570.7222 |
396 | | 570.8898 | elementary to middle. | 573.1628 |
397 | DCB_int_01 | 573.4269 | Right. | 573.7216 |
398 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 573.9672 | There was a bigger transition going from middle to high school when I went into DC, | 580.1272 |
400 | | 580.7795 | cause | 581.6319 |
402 | | 582.1814 | that was a | 583.1099 |
404 | | 583.7702 | fancier, | 584.7266 |
406 | | 585.0107 | much more co- expensive school, and it was s- six out of sixty, I was | 590.6946 |
408 | | 590.9907 | one of six out of sixty. | 592.1673 |
409 | DCB_int_01 | 593.0237 | Gotcha. | 593.3970 |
410 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 593.4919 | Um, | 594.2374 |
412 | | 596.3304 | well you're talking about language, okay so one thing I guess I can think of was | 600.2815 |
414 | | 601.0658 | you asked about living in Hyattsville before moving to DC, | 606.1494 |
416 | | 606.6576 | where it was a bunch of kids. | 607.9983 |
417 | DCB_int_01 | 608.0063 | Mm-hm. | 608.3463 |
418 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 608.8827 | That one I felt like | 610.0712 |
420 | | 610.3674 | there was a little bit of teasing about | 612.7497 |
422 | | 613.0378 | how I talk. | 614.0503 |
424 | | 615.0347 | Um, | 615.7748 |
426 | | 616.7435 | I mean nothing I- I mean I was okay. | 618.6369 |
428 | | 618.9738 | I feel like I- a- I did write my uh, | 621.0868 |
430 | | 621.6790 | /RD-SCHOOL-2/- | 622.1473 |
432 | | 622.3033 | /RD-SCHOOL-3/ uh- well my college | 624.3135 |
434 | | 625.4460 | essays on that and to be honest it was kind of playing the | 629.0557 |
436 | | 629.2810 | race card a little bit but whatever it worked out, so. | 631.7690 |
438 | | 631.9422 | <ts> | 632.0943 |
440 | | 632.6226 | Uh- [<laugh>] | 633.6950 |
441 | DCB_int_01 | 633.3949 | [What?] <laugh> So I wanna ask you about that, | 635.4519 |
442 | | 635.5611 | but I wanna go back | 636.4776 |
444 | | 636.9578 | before I ask you about | 638.2365 |
446 | | 639.1108 | about the [teasing] | 640.3153 |
447 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 639.9672 | [I'm gonna] own that. [Huh?] | 641.4799 |
448 | DCB_int_01 | 641.2810 | [<laugh>] | 645.1588 |
449 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 642.0574 | [It's anonymous. Huh? <laugh>] | 645.6030 |
450 | DCB_int_01 | 646.2113 | How was- | 647.1637 |
452 | | 647.3570 | you said your third grade teacher was your favorite, | 649.6501 |
453 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 649.7261 | Mm-hm. | 650.1448 |
454 | DCB_int_01 | 650.3504 | like, | 650.6344 |
456 | | 650.9387 | what- | 651.2694 |
457 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 651.4149 | [Why?] | 651.8991 |
458 | DCB_int_01 | 651.5510 | [who was] it or- | 652.6035 |
459 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 653.0157 | She was just very- she was stern but in a way that was- | 659.0730 |
461 | | 659.4091 | that I respected I feel like | 661.9291 |
463 | | 662.8707 | as much as I can remember feeling that way as someone who's you know, how old are you in third grade like, nine? Eight? I feel like she | 669.7311 |
465 | | 670.1072 | demanded the most and out of me, it was | 671.6640 |
467 | | 671.8012 | hard on me but | 672.7097 |
469 | | 672.9418 | if I did well she rewarded that. | 674.7500 |
470 | DCB_int_01 | 675.0588 | Mm. | 675.3014 |
471 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 675.4269 | Um, I feel like I went to | 678.0241 |
473 | | 678.9258 | fourth grade prepared even though I had had a | 681.3789 |
475 | | 681.6070 | totally different | 682.6995 |
477 | | 684.0494 | kind of | 685.2539 |
479 | | 685.3940 | exper- feel like ev- a lot of the kids | 687.0307 |
481 | | 687.3109 | at my middle school had gone to | 689.2749 |
483 | | 689.8933 | that same school for third grade or | 691.6770 |
485 | | 691.9622 | prior [so they] were used to homework and things like that. | 694.0112 |
486 | DCB_int_01 | 692.5588 | [Mm-hm.] | 692.7882 |
487 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 694.3834 | So I feel like I was still prepared, it wasn't a difficult transition | 699.1668 |
489 | | 699.6950 | having homework and writing papers and | 702.1054 |
491 | | 702.5696 | having real projects which I just never had | 705.3469 |
493 | | 705.5870 | before that, so. | 706.9836 |
495 | | 707.8613 | Mm. | 708.6839 |
497 | | 709.4900 | <ts> | 709.5741 |
499 | | 709.9302 | That's what I remember, I remember my parents also really liked her too. | 712.6436 |
501 | | 713.4639 | Um, | 714.0572 |
503 | | 715.1819 | I don't know I guess it was two third graders she really worked with me, and uh, she's the person who taught me to read so I think it was like, you spend three years with someone [especially] at that age | 723.7711 |
504 | DCB_int_01 | 722.6029 | [Mm.] | 722.7981 |
505 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 724.1993 | and they really work with you | 725.4819 |
507 | | 726.1054 | um, | 727.0307 |
509 | | 727.3059 | <ts> | 727.5020 |
511 | | 727.8262 | I feel like that's probably why she was my [favorite.] | 729.5870 |
512 | DCB_int_01 | 729.1468 | [So you had] her all first, kindergarten, first, second- or [first, sec-] | 732.1915 |
513 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 731.5691 | [First grade], second grade, and third grade, [yeah. Mm-hm.] | 734.8186 |
514 | DCB_int_01 | 733.8862 | [Gotcha, okay. So] they kind of followed you along the pa- I mean [well it's a small school.] | 737.9395 |
515 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 736.8636 | [Yeah cause I think you stayed] in your s- in that s- I feel like I stayed in that same room. | 740.9129 |
516 | | 741.3669 | Cause by the time we got to third grade it was only two of us. | 744.2014 |
518 | | 744.4856 | And I don't know if they were- I don't know if they were phasing out | 746.4825 |
520 | | 746.8387 | that | 747.1893 |
522 | | 747.3069 | I have no idea but I know it was only two of us | 750.4736 |
524 | | 751.0698 | by the time we got to third grade and I just remember that y- | 754.5915 |
526 | | 754.9048 | they still s- had you separate by like what | 757.1819 |
528 | | 757.4540 | I'm doing | 758.3504 |
530 | | 759.0267 | mathematically is different /from/ what these kids- group of kids is- is doing. | 763.1545 |
532 | | 763.6621 | So that's how they did it from what I remember. | 765.5750 |
533 | DCB_int_01 | 765.7831 | And now [going back t-] | 766.9276 |
534 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 766.1513 | [That's taking a-] a dive | 768.1374 |
535 | | 768.3495 | <laugh> in the memory bank, but that's what I remember. | 770.6706 |
536 | DCB_int_01 | 771.3669 | Now going back to | 772.9956 |
538 | | 773.1329 | the whole being teased, cause I thought it was really cute how you were describing it. | 777.4729 |
540 | | 778.1312 | Why were you teased? Or what do you feel like- | 780.7857 |
542 | | 781.1659 | when you- like, what [did you write about, yeah.] | 783.3749 |
543 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 781.9502 | [What do I remember? Being taught] uh, | 783.9272 |
544 | | 784.0072 | that | 784.2205 |
546 | | 784.3834 | I talk | 784.8036 |
548 | | 785.0449 | white. | 785.4022 |
550 | | 785.6492 | And | 786.8265 |
552 | | 788.4105 | I mean I'd grown up- | 789.7711 |
554 | | 790.0672 | so like my mom, I wouldn't say my parents, | 792.3625 |
556 | | 792.6256 | I love my dad very much but he was not the activity person, like figure out the activities for me, so. | 797.7720 |
558 | | 798.3375 | Um, | 799.0295 |
560 | | 799.3420 | my mom always made sure to | 801.2068 |
562 | | 801.3869 | try to keep me balanced between, | 803.8149 |
564 | | 804.8457 | even though I- | 805.4420 |
566 | | 805.9422 | growing up I was in these white schools that I was always involved in a black activity so growing up it was very busy like, | 812.0571 |
568 | | 813.4469 | ballet class, tap class, they were at the same dance school and it was this- | 817.8942 |
570 | | 818.1263 | it was a black uh, dance school. | 820.4874 |
572 | | 821.0877 | <ts> | 821.1877 |
574 | | 821.3891 | Uh, and uh, | 823.4264 |
576 | | 824.1143 | church was black. | 825.9031 |
578 | | 826.3994 | So I always had friends, some of 'em I still keep in touch with from way back then | 831.7951 |
580 | | 832.3954 | that were | 833.0740 |
582 | | 833.4051 | outside of school and then | 835.7491 |
584 | | 836.0703 | I'd come to school but | 837.1676 |
586 | | 837.5910 | educationally I'd grown up | 839.0917 |
588 | | 839.6012 | around these white kids, so. | 841.8837 |
590 | | 843.7271 | The English was proper, I'm not saying that | 845.8841 |
592 | | 846.1454 | blacks don't- | 847.1227 |
594 | | 847.3740 | not saying blacks can't speak properly, I'm just saying that, you know when you're young you know you're in middle school, so of course you know. | 853.9838 |
596 | | 854.8947 | And I'm a little nerdy, I'm an only child, I'm a little weird, you know like all that stuff, so it makes it | 859.7622 |
598 | | 860.1183 | pretty easy | 861.2909 |
600 | | 861.8151 | to be | 862.5231 |
602 | | 863.3610 | you know the | 864.2037 |
604 | | 864.8697 | the one to be teased, especially for how I talk, so I used that. I was like, okay well, | 868.8916 |
606 | | 869.0449 | <ts> | 869.1409 |
608 | | 869.4971 | what can I use for this uh- | 871.2899 |
610 | | 873.4950 | uh, essay? | 874.9350 |
612 | | 875.2850 | You know, cause they say you have to stand out. | 877.2663 |
614 | | 877.3660 | You know, using race I'd- you know, you- you- you're the minority in | 881.6439 |
616 | | 882.0053 | a white environment, especially by the time I was in high school, diversity, diversity, diversity, that was like all they talked about. Not all they talked about, that was a big part of it. | 889.5020 |
618 | | 890.0583 | And I was like, well I'm going to use that, and <laugh> | 893.7240 |
620 | | 893.8653 | I did. | 894.3015 |
621 | DCB_int_01 | 894.7537 | And you got in. | 895.4380 |
622 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 895.4620 | <ts> | 895.5501 |
624 | | 896.2664 | There we go. | 897.0424 |
626 | | 897.3429 | So, | 897.8991 |
628 | | 898.3073 | that is it. | 899.0340 |
629 | DCB_int_01 | 899.1449 | How- how big is the gap between you and your brother? | 901.4660 |
630 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 902.6346 | Oh, so random story there so he's fif- | 906.9658 |
632 | | 908.3264 | fifty two. | 909.1028 |
634 | | 909.9232 | And I'm | 910.3298 |
636 | | 910.8476 | thirty two. | 911.4171 |
638 | | 912.1814 | Um, my mom | 913.6701 |
640 | | 914.3704 | had him when she was in high school, and she gave him up for adoption and then we found him. | 917.6968 |
642 | | 918.4856 | Which is like a random s- random aside uh, found him in two thousand when I was in- | 922.7075 |
644 | | 922.8676 | when I was eighteen so that's what I mean by like, | 925.0658 |
646 | | 925.3700 | I have a brother | 926.2820 |
647 | DCB_int_01 | 926.6546 | Mm. | 926.9106 |
648 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 927.1388 | that | 927.3948 |
650 | | 928.0992 | I claim and | 929.2130 |
652 | | 929.6012 | our families are pretty close now but | 931.7141 |
654 | | 932.2904 | growing up | 933.2789 |
656 | | 933.4029 | you know, I didn't even- I knew he existed, my mother told me he existed but I didn't know him, none of us did, | 938.4903 |
658 | | 938.6786 | so. | 939.0307 |
660 | | 939.4589 | That's why I say raised as an only child like, very [much-] | 941.7383 |
661 | DCB_int_01 | 941.6252 | [/??/] | 941.9453 |
662 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 941.9813 | yeah, not even like, oh I have this brother, no, like- | 945.1068 |
663 | DCB_int_01 | 945.1028 | Cause I have a older brother, we're seven- I mean uh, yeah, we're seven years apart. | 948.1694 |
664 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 948.2695 | [Okay.] | 948.7855 |
665 | DCB_int_01 | 948.3215 | [But] | 948.5816 |
666 | | 948.9858 | it was enough | 949.6701 |
668 | | 949.8462 | of a gap that he did his own things | 952.1152 |
670 | | 952.4794 | and then | 952.9276 |
672 | | 953.1209 | he left the house and I was still in school so | 955.3500 |
674 | | 955.7301 | [it felt- but you] are like, [really only child yeah, like-] | 959.7608 |
675 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 955.7341 | [Oh yeah, no, yeah.] | 956.9787 |
677 | | 957.3949 | [Totally separate lives, yeah.] | 959.7795 |
678 | DCB_int_01 | 960.3815 | [So] let's talk about family a little bit, and not necessarily | 963.3349 |
679 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 960.3935 | [<ts>] | 960.7469 |
680 | DCB_int_01 | 963.7791 | just your brother but like you said your families are close knit, is your f- your- | 966.9698 |
682 | | 967.2979 | your core unit of family, are you close knit? Do you guys have traditions? | 970.8036 |
683 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 970.9476 | <ts> | 971.0477 |
685 | | 971.3958 | Well the only family that | 975.2268 |
687 | | 976.5194 | I'm really close with- | 978.9858 |
689 | | 979.5060 | so my mom's family I'm not that close with. | 983.3598 |
691 | | 983.7572 | There's not too many people on that side, most of them are old, like my- | 987.7671 |
693 | | 987.8951 | like my mom- like my g- like, grandparent generation so they've pretty much died at this point. | 992.2824 |
695 | | 992.9947 | And she has a sister, half sister | 995.6560 |
697 | | 997.7982 | um, | 998.6835 |
699 | | 998.8627 | <ts> | 999.1148 |
701 | | 999.9071 | who | 1000.4511 |
703 | | 1000.7195 | I know but I'm not that close with, | 1003.4900 |
705 | | 1003.5901 | not for any real reasons just their | 1005.4709 |
707 | | 1005.5910 | lives are very different. | 1006.6595 |
709 | | 1006.8156 | Um, | 1007.4102 |
711 | | 1007.6119 | <ts> | 1007.6840 |
713 | | 1008.3055 | but the family that I'm closer to is my dad's side, and he has | 1012.5955 |
715 | | 1013.2290 | a brother, | 1014.0876 |
717 | | 1014.5016 | a wife- well, | 1015.4540 |
719 | | 1015.6221 | my | 1015.8462 |
721 | | 1016.3944 | <ts> | 1016.4985 |
723 | | 1017.3549 | my h- my- his br- my dad's brother is married. | 1020.2105 |
725 | | 1020.6696 | And they have two kids, two sons, my cousins. | 1023.9352 |
727 | | 1024.3153 | So I'm closer to them. | 1025.4233 |
729 | | 1026.1214 | <ts> | 1026.1894 |
731 | | 1026.4736 | That's like the only like blood family, I would say my m- | 1029.2148 |
733 | | 1029.4149 | my mom | 1030.3353 |
735 | | 1030.4114 | has done a very good job of kind of | 1032.1374 |
737 | | 1032.6937 | making fr- like, people from Parkersburg, West Virginia like, | 1035.1668 |
739 | | 1035.2588 | where she off and on grew up, | 1036.8516 |
741 | | 1037.3050 | she's still like super close to t- | 1039.5020 |
743 | | 1039.8462 | several of those women. | 1041.1828 |
745 | | 1041.6390 | So they're | 1042.1152 |
747 | | 1042.2793 | like, my aunts I would say in terms of like | 1045.5220 |
749 | | 1046.3104 | second family, I'm probably | 1047.6750 |
751 | | 1048.8796 | <ts> as close to them | 1050.4876 |
753 | | 1050.8497 | as | 1051.7111 |
755 | | 1052.5265 | my | 1052.8066 |
757 | | 1053.1148 | dad's people. | 1054.0268 |
759 | | 1054.6235 | Put it that way, yeah. | 1055.5839 |
760 | DCB_int_01 | 1056.1534 | I understand that, I'm very much like the adopted family cause I don't- | 1060.1513 |
762 | | 1060.3393 | I don't have anybody here, I moved here. | 1062.1225 |
764 | | 1062.7417 | Um, but I have a lot of adopted family that I'm very close- so I'm closer here than I | 1066.8950 |
765 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1067.0329 | Yeah. | 1067.4782 |
766 | DCB_int_01 | 1067.5411 | you know to real family who I see like | 1069.4820 |
768 | | 1070.0263 | once every couple [years.] | 1071.8311 |
769 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1071.6870 | [Right.] | 1072.4394 |
770 | | 1072.5795 | So I get to see them pretty often, my f- | 1074.8377 |
772 | | 1075.1299 | brother's | 1075.5581 |
774 | | 1075.9382 | family. | 1076.5385 |
776 | | 1076.9907 | They live in Maryland. | 1078.7334 |
778 | | 1079.2530 | Uh, in terms of like the people that I'm referring to like my aunts like, | 1082.3570 |
780 | | 1082.6946 | growing up we would all take vacations together. | 1085.4158 |
782 | | 1086.0013 | They still- my mom and my aunts and they still take vacations together. | 1089.4731 |
784 | | 1090.0432 | Uh, one of their daughters like, I lived with for a whi- so it's, yeah. | 1095.1548 |
786 | | 1095.7391 | Like growing up- like even now we'll | 1097.5599 |
788 | | 1097.8493 | just out of habit say, oh my cousin, even though we're not cousins cause that's how we were like | 1102.7395 |
790 | | 1102.8608 | taught to refer to each other, so. | 1104.6937 |
792 | | 1105.8342 | Uh, yeah. | 1106.6266 |
794 | | 1106.7946 | [That's basic] background there. | 1108.3040 |
795 | DCB_int_01 | 1106.7986 | [So l-] | 1107.1068 |
796 | | 1108.8888 | So let's talk about | 1110.0294 |
798 | | 1110.1614 | this | 1110.5696 |
800 | | 1110.7577 | move that you said was | 1112.2584 |
802 | | 1112.4185 | drastically different. | 1113.4331 |
804 | | 1113.5350 | <clears throat> | 1113.9096 |
806 | | 1113.9872 | Went from I guess it was | 1115.2838 |
808 | | 1115.5491 | middle school-ish when you moved to DC | 1117.7782 |
810 | | 1118.1103 | proper, when [you moved to the city.] | 1119.7863 |
811 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1118.7266 | [Okay.] | 1119.6373 |
813 | | 1119.7791 | Yeah. | 1120.1924 |
814 | DCB_int_01 | 1120.2233 | So | 1120.6275 |
816 | | 1120.7715 | what happened- what caused y'all to move to the city, and then how was that like, the first couple years what you remember maybe school or the neighborhood. | 1127.9649 |
817 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1128.5896 | Uh, moving to DC, I think my mom's h- I think the house that she was renting- | 1134.6611 |
819 | | 1135.1059 | So we moved into a house after my parents separated and I'm pretty sure the house that we were in | 1139.0285 |
821 | | 1139.2690 | uh, the owner put up for sale. | 1140.5256 |
823 | | 1141.1219 | So we moved in with my grandmom, and she lived on Sixteenth Street, she'd had that house forever, I'm pretty sure it's the house my parents grew up in. | 1148.2104 |
825 | | 1148.6946 | My dad grew up in. | 1149.7399 |
827 | | 1149.9952 | That was the house my dad grew up in. | 1151.0197 |
829 | | 1151.5571 | Um, | 1152.1625 |
831 | | 1152.4335 | so that's why we moved to DC | 1153.6541 |
833 | | 1154.1623 | in another really busy street. | 1156.4994 |
835 | | 1157.1997 | Like, [Sixteenth, yeah.] | 1158.6416 |
836 | DCB_int_01 | 1157.6212 | [Sixteenth Street?] | 1158.3598 |
837 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1158.7137 | So, | 1159.3563 |
839 | | 1160.0263 | it's like, right near Sixteenth and Military, to give you like a r- yeah, if you n- so, | 1164.0561 |
841 | | 1165.0498 | there again wasn't much | 1166.8387 |
843 | | 1166.9467 | neighborhood activity at that point at fourteen like if I was home, I was home. There was one of my friends from | 1172.9025 |
845 | | 1174.1833 | high school | 1175.1259 |
847 | | 1175.6852 | uh, lived right at | 1178.2624 |
849 | | 1178.5785 | Sixteenth and Military so I was over her house a lot. | 1181.9533 |
851 | | 1182.3775 | And then | 1183.6013 |
853 | | 1184.4345 | another one of my best friends- I'm still friends with these people, | 1187.3185 |
855 | | 1189.1579 | her fam- /h-/ her | 1190.8146 |
857 | | 1191.1388 | family lives in the Gold Coast area like a few blocks the other way, | 1194.6536 |
859 | | 1195.1459 | on Fourteenth, so there were at least two | 1198.0952 |
861 | | 1199.2770 | good girlfriends that I had, | 1201.6996 |
863 | | 1202.2454 | um, | 1202.8227 |
865 | | 1202.9267 | in that neighborhood but it wasn't like, | 1205.7520 |
867 | | 1205.8480 | oh, let's go meet at the- like before where it's like, oh yeah let's ride our- it's, | 1210.1353 |
869 | | 1210.8596 | I'm coming to your house and we're gonna hang out your house or we are going somewhere, like it was, you know- | 1216.0826 |
870 | DCB_int_01 | 1216.3634 | It wasn't just hanging on the stoop. | 1217.6074 |
871 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1217.7412 | <ts> | 1217.9093 |
873 | | 1218.3055 | No. | 1218.7188 |
875 | | 1218.9418 | Absolutely not and it wasn't even like I'm walking- well, did I- | 1222.3874 |
877 | | 1222.7555 | I might've walked- did I walk to /RD-NAME-2/ house? | 1225.0095 |
879 | | 1226.6866 | I don't think so, like I remember driving those few blo- I feel like ev- | 1230.9898 |
881 | | 1231.4660 | either one of those houses involved a car. | 1233.3109 |
883 | | 1233.5750 | So, | 1234.5074 |
885 | | 1234.5955 | <laugh> whether necessary or not. | 1235.7760 |
887 | | 1236.1214 | I think I went to one | 1237.9226 |
889 | | 1238.6226 | hou- the house in the Gold Coast I think I went there once like walked because I didn't have a choice and the air conditioning in my house was broken. | 1245.1889 |
891 | | 1246.0032 | So yeah, it wasn't like a neighborhood-y | 1248.4518 |
893 | | 1249.4300 | hangout type situation. | 1251.3749 |
895 | | 1251.7151 | Which is probably not helpful for you. | 1253.2537 |
896 | DCB_int_01 | 1253.7320 | No, [it- it-] | 1254.7537 |
897 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1254.1574 | [Oh okay.] | 1254.7334 |
898 | DCB_int_01 | 1254.9378 | n- | 1255.1791 |
900 | | 1255.7421 | Don't feel like you- I'm looking for one particular thing, it [really is about] | 1259.3358 |
901 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1258.3850 | <ts> | 1258.4290 |
903 | | 1258.6835 | [Okay good.] | 1259.3542 |
904 | DCB_int_01 | 1259.5905 | the [stories.] | 1260.4412 |
905 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1260.2348 | [Okay.] | 1260.7471 |
906 | DCB_int_01 | 1260.8271 | Um, | 1261.3433 |
908 | | 1261.4194 | so tell me a little bit about | 1263.3118 |
910 | | 1263.6416 | high school. | 1264.4350 |
912 | | 1264.6261 | Cause you were in high school- | 1265.4985 |
914 | | 1265.7906 | wait, | 1266.0347 |
916 | | 1266.2789 | we missed middle school. | 1267.2153 |
917 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1268.1169 | Middle school was when I was | 1269.6056 |
919 | | 1269.7617 | in Hyattsville | 1270.8822 |
921 | | 1270.9983 | and that was a lot of bike [riding] | 1272.7031 |
922 | DCB_int_01 | 1272.4309 | [That's] the- okay. | 1273.2122 |
923 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1273.2033 | with a bunch of k- there were a bunch of kids in the neighborhood around my age. | 1276.9382 |
924 | | 1277.5745 | And like a typical | 1278.9752 |
926 | | 1279.5154 | quiet | 1280.1757 |
928 | | 1280.2838 | neighborhood-y, | 1281.6825 |
930 | | 1282.3940 | it was black, | 1283.1593 |
932 | | 1284.4469 | being teased a little for | 1286.2077 |
934 | | 1286.3878 | the way I speak which is fine. | 1287.8692 |
936 | | 1288.4340 | And then high school when I went to /RD-SCHOOL-2/, I also | 1292.8380 |
938 | | 1293.1094 | moved to Sixteenth Street | 1294.7662 |
940 | | 1295.4865 | and- | 1296.6611 |
942 | | 1297.0472 | so it wasn't bike riding and | 1299.1854 |
944 | | 1300.0498 | hanging out really in the neighborhood or anything like [that.] | 1302.9151 |
945 | DCB_int_01 | 1302.6870 | [And how] big was /RD-SCHOOL-2/? Like- | 1304.3598 |
946 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1305.2014 | <yawn> So /RD-SCHOOL-2/ is K through twelfth | 1308.5534 |
948 | | 1309.4354 | and | 1310.7834 |
950 | | 1311.3375 | my class, which I believe was typical at least for upper school which is like high school | 1316.6535 |
952 | | 1317.3615 | sixty [kids.] | 1319.1322 |
953 | DCB_int_01 | 1318.0178 | [Mm-hm.] | 1318.6245 |
954 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1319.2744 | I'm not sure if the middle and l- | 1321.8236 |
956 | | 1321.9396 | lower school class sizes were bigger or smaller. | 1324.7301 |
958 | | 1325.2944 | Um, | 1325.8851 |
960 | | 1326.2749 | <ts> | 1326.3349 |
962 | | 1326.5270 | and that was a school where not | 1328.2998 |
964 | | 1328.4811 | all of the kids, but I remember a large chunk and I don't remember if it was the majority or half | 1332.4664 |
966 | | 1333.2833 | or- or | 1333.7996 |
968 | | 1334.1757 | slightly less than, a lot of them had gone from at least the middle to the upper if not the lower to the middle to the upper but at least the middle. | 1341.6451 |
970 | | 1342.1018 | So there were a lot of kids who | 1344.3349 |
972 | | 1345.7435 | already knew each other by the time I got there. | 1347.7977 |
974 | | 1348.3460 | Um, | 1348.9060 |
976 | | 1350.7711 | so that was probably a big shift for me, it was a big shift for me. | 1355.7825 |
978 | | 1356.2749 | Because I was used to growing up at least at school with it being [mixed.] | 1360.9342 |
979 | DCB_int_01 | 1360.8182 | [Mm-hm.] | 1361.2624 |
980 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1361.3824 | And in a different | 1362.3069 |
982 | | 1362.9872 | socio-economi- being surrounded by kids who were middle class like | 1366.8718 |
984 | | 1367.7146 | closer to what my parents were | 1370.1679 |
986 | | 1370.3330 | or on the same page, and then a lot of the kids there, it was mostly white and a lot of them had a lot of money. | 1376.4450 |
988 | | 1377.1814 | My parents are educated but | 1378.6301 |
990 | | 1379.6185 | they're, you know, are not writing checks for fifteen thousand dollars a year to go to anybody's high school, so. | 1385.3424 |
992 | | 1386.3709 | It was a little different. <laugh> | 1387.8396 |
994 | | 1388.2330 | And it was only six of us | 1389.4896 |
996 | | 1389.6136 | versus like, half. | 1390.8656 |
997 | DCB_int_01 | 1392.2548 | Did you [feel like] | 1393.7755 |
998 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1392.6030 | [If that makes sense. Ooh], sorry. | 1394.1390 |
999 | | 1394.4879 | Salad in my teeth. | 1395.3145 |
1000 | DCB_int_01 | 1395.3735 | Uh-huh. | 1395.7762 |
1002 | | 1395.9898 | Do you feel like | 1397.2904 |
1004 | | 1397.8787 | you had a good experience though? Did you enjoy your high school experience? | 1401.9098 |
1006 | | 1402.0138 | Or not. | 1402.6101 |
1008 | | 1403.0863 | The little side eye kind of [made me-] | 1404.5790 |
1009 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1404.3029 | [Uh], | 1405.6315 |
1010 | | 1405.8328 | I appreciated | 1406.7235 |
1012 | | 1407.1214 | it more after I left. | 1409.2664 |
1013 | DCB_int_01 | 1409.3624 | Mm. | 1409.6346 |
1014 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1409.7666 | I feel like I was- | 1411.7559 |
1016 | | 1412.3690 | I liked- | 1413.3335 |
1018 | | 1413.4375 | when I was t- | 1414.2659 |
1020 | | 1414.3900 | that was my first choice so when I was looking at schools | 1417.9208 |
1022 | | 1418.5251 | and went to a bunch of different schools- | 1421.4382 |
1024 | | 1422.9031 | I had been at private school my whole life with the exception- I forgot there was | 1426.4700 |
1026 | | 1426.9743 | a month maybe that I was at public school, Hyattsville Middle, | 1430.4078 |
1028 | | 1430.4971 | cause that's- I was begging my mom to put me in public school and she had done some volunteer work with | 1434.8471 |
1030 | | 1435.4874 | Hyattsville Middle, so I really wanted to go, and then I got there and I was totally overwhelmed like, | 1440.7511 |
1032 | | 1441.2113 | getting lost in the- I mean this sounds terrible but it's true. Getting lost like trying to find my class. | 1446.1371 |
1034 | | 1446.6710 | Because my mom had done volunteer work they had put me in these higher level math class and I'm sitting there like I have no clue what's going on. | 1452.9371 |
1036 | | 1453.3353 | It was- I'm used to s- you know, | 1455.4936 |
1038 | | 1456.0818 | if you're stuck, like I'm used to small class sizes, people being able to work with you, I didn't have access to any of that. | 1460.6132 |
1040 | | 1461.1654 | And it was just like, okay well thank you so much for letting my have my way, can I go back? So I went right back to /RD-SCHOOL-4/. | 1466.2330 |
1042 | | 1466.6612 | That was seventh grade. | 1467.6136 |
1044 | | 1468.0698 | So at that point | 1469.0645 |
1046 | | 1469.6946 | when I went to high school I was | 1471.3879 |
1048 | | 1472.8173 | pretty much all private school and I'd had enough of my- a public school experience to know that | 1477.2873 |
1050 | | 1477.6795 | I- I- | 1478.2035 |
1052 | | 1478.4171 | I got lost, so I just said, you know let's | 1480.9502 |
1054 | | 1481.3144 | keep it to what I know. | 1482.1828 |
1056 | | 1482.7991 | And uh, I feel like I might've looked at one public school and I can't remember which one it is. | 1487.7198 |
1058 | | 1488.3229 | But it was mostly privates but | 1489.7315 |
1060 | | 1490.0849 | t- uh, /RD-SCHOOL-2/ was my top choice, I was on the waitlist. | 1494.0101 |
1062 | | 1494.9392 | I got in | 1496.6892 |
1064 | | 1496.8012 | and I l- I really was excited. | 1498.9022 |
1066 | | 1499.6746 | I liked how open the school looked, there's like bright | 1503.9018 |
1068 | | 1504.1059 | sun roof atriums, small classes, things that I had known from that | 1509.0574 |
1070 | | 1509.2294 | one | 1509.7457 |
1072 | | 1510.2619 | quick public school experience that | 1512.2188 |
1074 | | 1513.0152 | I know I like to have | 1514.6432 |
1076 | | 1514.7372 | just to be able to learn. | 1515.8817 |
1078 | | 1516.0098 | So um, | 1517.2824 |
1080 | | 1517.6466 | <ts> | 1517.8266 |
1082 | | 1520.0409 | I was excited about that, the teachers seemed nice | 1523.7226 |
1084 | | 1524.2108 | and when I started | 1525.9036 |
1086 | | 1526.0797 | I can't say they weren't nice, I just- | 1528.7261 |
1088 | | 1529.1223 | I don't think I was prepared for | 1531.9862 |
1090 | | 1532.9493 | what it was like to shift from being | 1535.9667 |
1092 | | 1536.1788 | such a minority, | 1537.7488 |
1094 | | 1538.3330 | like going from like fifty fifty, | 1540.5060 |
1095 | DCB_int_01 | 1540.4700 | Mm. | 1540.7181 |
1096 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1540.9462 | being around kids who you'd kind of grown up with from like | 1543.5634 |
1098 | | 1543.6915 | being ten years old to like fourteen. | 1546.0978 |
1100 | | 1547.8707 | You know where | 1548.5133 |
1102 | | 1548.7031 | everyone's kind of in the same page to like | 1551.4375 |
1104 | | 1553.8747 | white, wealthier children. | 1556.0160 |
1106 | | 1556.5932 | And it wasn't that anyone was mean. | 1558.8102 |
1108 | | 1559.2704 | And then I just remember you know I'm still | 1561.8850 |
1110 | | 1562.4251 | in these activities I'm still | 1564.0024 |
1112 | | 1564.4540 | going to my church, I'm- <ts> | 1566.6687 |
1114 | | 1567.4834 | I wasn't doing dance anymore but | 1570.4780 |
1116 | | 1570.6941 | I had switched to a black swim team I feel like was like my main | 1574.9761 |
1118 | | 1575.7697 | activity | 1576.5821 |
1120 | | 1576.7662 | that point, I was terrible at that. | 1578.3509 |
1122 | | 1578.8671 | [Um, oh yeah I was t-] | 1580.3118 |
1123 | DCB_int_01 | 1579.3914 | [<laugh>] | 1580.3300 |
1124 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1580.5639 | that's a story. Um, | 1582.2899 |
1126 | | 1582.7301 | an embarrassing one. | 1583.4305 |
1128 | | 1583.8827 | And- but I mean I still had all these friends so I was little like- | 1588.1171 |
1130 | | 1589.1623 | a little jealous I guess of | 1590.9472 |
1132 | | 1591.4194 | you know them kind of going to school and | 1594.5781 |
1134 | | 1595.9347 | being part of an experience of, you know, community and | 1600.7531 |
1136 | | 1601.6946 | you didn't really have that at /RD-SCHOOL-2/. | 1603.4435 |
1138 | | 1603.6075 | But it wasn't that it was an unpleasant atmosphere or anything like that | 1606.6518 |
1140 | | 1606.7702 | and | 1607.1475 |
1142 | | 1607.3704 | I know I got a good education, I recognized that when I was there but it was just kind of a- | 1611.0614 |
1144 | | 1611.4976 | in that sense it was kind of a drag. | 1613.2024 |
1145 | DCB_int_01 | 1613.4505 | Hm. | 1613.8066 |
1146 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1614.4149 | So like, | 1615.3469 |
1148 | | 1616.9133 | I made friends with this one black girl, | 1619.0079 |
1150 | | 1621.0792 | and then um, that didn't really work out. | 1624.2139 |
1152 | | 1624.4580 | Um, | 1625.2180 |
1154 | | 1625.7466 | <ts> | 1625.8186 |
1156 | | 1625.8867 | she had some issues, I made friends with another one who I'm still friends with to this day so that was nice. | 1629.9978 |
1158 | | 1630.6141 | And there were a couple like, non-black kids that I am actually still friends with | 1635.0143 |
1160 | | 1635.6416 | but I just missed- I just missed being around a mixed environment. | 1640.0549 |
1162 | | 1640.9733 | Um, | 1641.5560 |
1164 | | 1642.1819 | so it wasn't anything wrong with the school, it was nothing they did it was just like | 1645.5594 |
1166 | | 1645.9997 | I'm not used to feeling | 1647.9796 |
1168 | | 1648.9382 | kind of | 1649.4705 |
1170 | | 1649.7626 | outsider-ish. | 1651.1232 |
1171 | DCB_int_01 | 1651.2193 | Right. | 1651.5206 |
1172 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1651.6355 | But it was cool. | 1652.3461 |
1173 | DCB_int_01 | 1652.7732 | So let me ask you two questions based on what you were just saying. | 1656.0824 |
1175 | | 1656.5270 | One- the second one, | 1657.6555 |
1177 | | 1658.2530 | which I'll ask, but we can put it on the back burner. | 1660.4420 |
1178 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1660.9102 | [Mm-hm.] | 1661.2064 |
1179 | DCB_int_01 | 1661.0343 | [Swimming], I wanna hear about that. | 1662.6510 |
1180 | | 1663.0952 | [Um-] | 1663.6219 |
1181 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1663.2553 | [Oh yeah] cause you want stories. | 1664.2846 |
1182 | | 1664.6332 | Well- | 1665.0654 |
1183 | DCB_int_01 | 1665.1854 | But just because you said it was funny. | 1666.7221 |
1184 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1666.8262 | well, | 1667.4195 |
1186 | | 1667.5465 | it wa- mm <ts> go ahead, alright. | 1669.8476 |
1188 | | 1670.0157 | We can put that [one on the back burner.] | 1671.5056 |
1189 | DCB_int_01 | 1670.5011 | [<laugh>] | 1671.2415 |
1190 | | 1671.6296 | And then the other one is church, cause I know that's a big part. | 1675.1393 |
1191 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1675.1513 | Yeah. | 1675.5074 |
1192 | DCB_int_01 | 1675.5474 | And like you just- you've | 1676.6480 |
1194 | | 1676.8733 | said over and over that that's been a big part of your | 1678.9863 |
1196 | | 1679.3464 | activities, so [what like-] what did your church mean to you | 1682.5199 |
1197 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1680.4669 | [Yeah.] | 1680.8271 |
1198 | DCB_int_01 | 1682.9213 | um, to your family? | 1684.5140 |
1199 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1684.5340 | Sure. | 1684.9022 |
1201 | | 1685.8627 | So I went to- well there was w- | 1690.8782 |
1203 | | 1691.3424 | When I was a kid, | 1692.2797 |
1205 | | 1692.7071 | my parents were together, it was like my grandma wanted to go to- my dad's mom | 1696.6101 |
1207 | | 1696.9022 | was a member of | 1698.0102 |
1209 | | 1698.3229 | a church | 1699.0469 |
1211 | | 1699.6835 | All Souls, | 1700.4319 |
1213 | | 1700.7892 | and I feel like that was mixed. | 1702.9142 |
1215 | | 1703.4665 | And then | 1704.4469 |
1217 | | 1705.2673 | <ts> my best girlfriend now that's how we became friends, we went to dance school together. | 1711.6345 |
1219 | | 1712.3290 | The black dance school. | 1713.5976 |
1221 | | 1714.1339 | And sleepover on a Saturday had me with her family on Sunday | 1719.9498 |
1223 | | 1720.5981 | to- at this black church, People's | 1723.2487 |
1225 | | 1723.4994 | Congregational. | 1724.4994 |
1227 | | 1725.4375 | Um, | 1726.0175 |
1229 | | 1726.2019 | and uh, | 1727.3824 |
1231 | | 1727.5705 | I just fell in love with it mainly because I feel like at | 1730.9572 |
1233 | | 1731.2334 | All Souls there weren't as many- | 1733.2944 |
1235 | | 1733.7786 | like the- the kid program it existed but it wasn't | 1736.5946 |
1237 | | 1738.0578 | that | 1738.3325 |
1239 | | 1738.5901 | big a deal. | 1739.2744 |
1241 | | 1739.5905 | And then when I went to Sunday school with my friend | 1743.0614 |
1243 | | 1743.4936 | it was just | 1745.1343 |
1245 | | 1747.0392 | a bunch of kids my age, they were engaged in what was going on so it was nice to like- | 1752.8385 |
1247 | | 1753.3754 | It felt like they had a bigger sense of- a stronger sense of community as much as I could feel that, I c- I'm sure I couldn't articulate that when I was in like third grade or whatever but I felt that. | 1763.1263 |
1249 | | 1763.6426 | And I liked it and I | 1765.1553 |
1251 | | 1765.5154 | like | 1765.8288 |
1253 | | 1766.1730 | told my mom how much I liked it and | 1767.9223 |
1255 | | 1768.4220 | she was like, alright, I'll give it a shot, and she still goes there to this day, yeah. | 1773.2625 |
1257 | | 1774.0418 | And- | 1774.8325 |
1259 | | 1775.2944 | So I'm really good friends still with | 1777.5034 |
1261 | | 1778.1557 | my friend who introduced me to the church who I went to dance school with and now m- her mother and my mother are really close now too so our families have become very close. | 1785.6611 |
1263 | | 1786.3300 | Um, | 1786.9823 |
1265 | | 1787.7586 | but I would say that that- | 1788.5510 |
1267 | | 1788.7831 | that bond was between dance and mainly church. | 1792.7822 |
1269 | | 1793.3784 | Cause all- both our families continue to attend that church | 1796.0797 |
1271 | | 1796.4771 | beyond our time at the dance school. | 1798.9462 |
1273 | | 1799.6986 | [If that makes sense.] | 1800.6746 |
1274 | DCB_int_01 | 1799.7826 | [Are you actively] involved in church now like- | 1802.6678 |
1275 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1802.6892 | No. | 1802.9945 |
1277 | | 1803.5936 | but growing up- so to | 1804.9262 |
1279 | | 1805.0543 | t- I guess | 1805.5065 |
1281 | | 1806.2829 | talk more about that like, | 1807.5074 |
1283 | | 1807.9596 | so I liked the k- the- the youth aspect of it. | 1811.8106 |
1285 | | 1812.6310 | <ts> | 1812.6990 |
1287 | | 1812.8751 | Cause they had class every Sunday, they had a youth usher program, | 1817.7226 |
1289 | | 1818.0948 | I could tell the kids were pretty close. | 1820.3788 |
1291 | | 1820.9293 | Um, | 1821.5853 |
1293 | | 1821.7577 | <ts> I got confirmed there, I'm still friends with those people who I was confirmed with in like sixth grade. | 1827.9618 |
1295 | | 1828.6741 | It was just very | 1830.3909 |
1297 | | 1830.4910 | close knit, | 1831.4594 |
1299 | | 1831.5554 | the people there. Um, | 1833.3255 |
1301 | | 1835.5985 | it was a lot of people- | 1837.3594 |
1303 | | 1838.2158 | How do I do this? There were- | 1839.9298 |
1305 | | 1840.8022 | I hate how I sound sometimes but I'm trying to give you the real. | 1843.6004 |
1307 | | 1844.0449 | Uh, it was a lot of | 1845.7817 |
1309 | | 1846.5861 | professional | 1847.9027 |
1311 | | 1848.2789 | um, black families there. | 1850.4719 |
1313 | | 1851.1254 | So it was just very rela- it mean it was just very relatable to my life it was like a bunch of kids who were kind of in the s- a lot of them were | 1856.7985 |
1315 | | 1857.0814 | at places like Maret or uh, | 1859.6546 |
1317 | | 1860.0668 | <ts> | 1860.9352 |
1319 | | 1861.2113 | what do you call it? | 1861.8556 |
1321 | | 1862.0557 | Uh, NCS things like that, and there were also kids who were in public school so I mean you had all of that. | 1866.4029 |
1322 | DCB_int_01 | 1866.3509 | Mm-hm. | 1866.6589 |
1323 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1867.0232 | Just a bunch of middle class black families so that was nice. | 1870.4340 |
1325 | | 1870.9342 | Um, they'd have | 1872.6150 |
1327 | | 1873.6847 | plays and you know the typical church stuff. | 1876.8607 |
1329 | | 1877.5625 | Um, | 1878.1468 |
1331 | | 1880.1877 | there was a Christmas program that | 1882.3731 |
1333 | | 1882.9462 | you know we still go to on- you know up | 1885.1593 |
1335 | | 1885.2713 | to now like, it was just that very close thing, like you knew you were gonna get the same formula every Sunday. Our family sat in the balcony, you knew what you were gonna g- like, you just always knew what you were gonna get. | 1896.2869 |
1337 | | 1896.9312 | Um, and it was- I liked that. | 1898.9898 |
1339 | | 1899.6616 | And so like, my mom became involved, I was involved up until the point where I was like, listen I'm not doing these | 1906.5340 |
1341 | | 1906.6621 | plays anymore like, I'm old. | 1908.0548 |
1343 | | 1908.1668 | Like, | 1908.3281 |
1345 | | 1909.1393 | I'm doing this. | 1909.9099 |
1347 | | 1910.5171 | I'm too old for thi- yeah I'm like, | 1911.7611 |
1349 | | 1912.4660 | fourteen and she's- | 1913.6420 |
1351 | | 1913.7986 | no I'm not do- Mom, no. | 1915.5280 |
1353 | | 1915.8836 | <laugh> | 1916.2276 |
1355 | | 1916.6732 | Like I'll still go to whatever but | 1918.0698 |
1357 | | 1918.5901 | this part of- | 1919.2224 |
1359 | | 1919.2864 | this part of the | 1919.8867 |
1361 | | 1920.0708 | chapter is- | 1920.7191 |
1363 | | 1920.8431 | is closed. | 1921.3954 |
1365 | | 1921.9556 | Um, | 1922.6892 |
1367 | | 1922.7652 | so it was like that. | 1923.7092 |
1369 | | 1924.0098 | Yeah. | 1924.3525 |
1371 | | 1925.4385 | And like so, | 1926.0588 |
1373 | | 1926.6830 | /though/ g- so, when I went to /RD-SCHOOL-2/, I still have all these [relationships] like, | 1931.8907 |
1374 | DCB_int_01 | 1930.9022 | [Right.] | 1931.2595 |
1375 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1932.5270 | most of- so there were two black kids who were at my middle school | 1937.3691 |
1377 | | 1938.0387 | who also went to People's with me. | 1940.0587 |
1379 | | 1940.2850 | It was a guy and a girl. | 1941.4135 |
1381 | | 1941.8377 | So I maintained that friendship but most of the other kids I feel like from middle school I didn't really keep in touch with past middle school except for them who were still at my church. | 1950.1948 |
1383 | | 1950.7711 | And | 1951.9076 |
1385 | | 1952.6292 | those relationships were just really close so a lot of my | 1955.6932 |
1387 | | 1956.6590 | social weekend time throughout high school was hanging out with those people versus | 1963.0891 |
1389 | | 1963.3994 | the people that I had met at /RD-SCHOOL-2/. | 1965.2465 |
1390 | DCB_int_01 | 1965.4095 | Right. | 1965.7495 |
1391 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 1966.1339 | Outside of like- | 1967.7066 |
1393 | | 1969.5594 | yeah, kind of outside of like | 1971.8217 |
1395 | | 1972.1379 | the | 1972.6261 |
1397 | | 1972.7782 | three | 1973.6906 |
1399 | | 1974.0988 | maybe n- that's probably a lie, th- outside maybe like the f- | 1976.3468 |
1401 | | 1976.4971 | the six or seven | 1978.2979 |
1403 | | 1979.2064 | pretty much black kids | 1980.7591 |
1405 | | 1981.3714 | um, | 1982.0100 |
1407 | | 1982.8893 | not the only black kids at /RD-SCHOOL-2/ but there were about six or seven black kids at /RD-SCHOOL-2/ that I would consistently would hang out with like | 1989.4856 |
1409 | | 1989.9738 | on weekends after school. | 1992.1788 |
1411 | | 1993.1312 | And also alternatively | 1995.7118 |
1413 | | 1996.6501 | kids that I had grown up with at church. | 1998.6514 |
1415 | | 1999.2153 | [So I] always | 2000.4359 |
1416 | DCB_int_01 | 1999.2433 | [Mm.] | 1999.4980 |
1417 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2000.5199 | was kind of drawn to that which is w- another reason why I always felt like a little | 2004.7111 |
1419 | | 2005.6755 | isolated at | 2006.5211 |
1421 | | 2006.6892 | /RD-SCHOOL-2/, which I'm sure is as much my- it's- | 2008.6461 |
1423 | | 2008.8662 | it's | 2009.1583 |
1425 | | 2009.7266 | in large part my fault. | 2010.9272 |
1427 | | 2012.2850 | I mean I could've made more of an effort but | 2014.0061 |
1429 | | 2014.5300 | you know. | 2014.8954 |
1431 | | 2016.1548 | <ts> I like what I like. | 2017.0335 |
1432 | DCB_int_01 | 2018.1117 | So tell [me about the-] | 2018.9853 |
1433 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2018.4731 | [I sound] racist. | 2019.7417 |
1434 | DCB_int_01 | 2021.2304 | No you don't. | 2022.1901 |
1435 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2022.3309 | [A little bit. I sound a] little racist. | 2023.6675 |
1436 | DCB_int_01 | 2022.3309 | [You really don't.] | 2023.0752 |
1437 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2023.9756 | And I don't even- I don't even mean like- cause I said I'm- I- | 2026.5661 |
1439 | | 2026.6621 | there are other people and even in college that kind of shifted a little bit. | 2029.6635 |
1441 | | 2030.0997 | But | 2030.5651 |
1443 | | 2031.2254 | I just missed that a lot, that's what I'm used to like, that was my life. I go to a black church, I had gone to like a mixed elementary and middle | 2039.0345 |
1445 | | 2040.5790 | I ended up at this high school where it was just affluent and white and it was just- it was different, it was even different from like | 2047.7145 |
1447 | | 2049.7617 | the socio and ec- economic | 2051.0823 |
1449 | | 2051.5985 | level- | 2052.4199 |
1451 | | 2052.6950 | class level of | 2054.0557 |
1453 | | 2054.5611 | white people that I had been exposed to up in that point so it was just a little foreign to me I didn't really- yeah, it took a while for me to kind of like, adjust to that. | 2062.4220 |
1455 | | 2064.5550 | That's the best way I can explain it. | 2065.9316 |
1457 | | 2066.2758 | Hm. | 2066.5199 |
1458 | DCB_int_01 | 2067.4495 | So- | 2068.2775 |
1459 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2068.2539 | Hope I don't come off racist. | 2069.6746 |
1460 | DCB_int_01 | 2070.0027 | uh- | 2070.2829 |
1462 | | 2074.3139 | Um, | 2074.9622 |
1464 | | 2075.6706 | so I'm gonna talk about going to /RD-SCHOOL-3/ in a moment but [let me- let's] go back to the swim te- cause I told you I was gonna [come back to it, mm-hm.] | 2081.9027 |
1465 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2078.5331 | [Okay.] | 2079.0931 |
1467 | | 2080.7542 | [Oh yeah.] | 2081.9027 |
1468 | | 2081.9587 | No that I was just terrible at it like- | 2084.3440 |
1470 | | 2084.8533 | so when I tried out for the team- | 2087.2506 |
1472 | | 2088.6310 | I've always been like an overweight child and adult. | 2092.8171 |
1474 | | 2093.1463 | So, | 2094.1077 |
1476 | | 2095.4234 | I don't really enjoy activities that make me out of breath, I never enjoyed exercise. Dance even was like, obnoxious except for tap, I liked tap I actually did well in that. | 2105.1743 |
1478 | | 2105.2904 | I got a scholarship that was exciting. | 2107.0912 |
1480 | | 2107.2673 | <ts> | 2107.3794 |
1482 | | 2107.8076 | For one | 2108.3558 |
1484 | | 2108.4691 | year. | 2108.7732 |
1486 | | 2109.2054 | Um, | 2109.8857 |
1488 | | 2110.7181 | Swimming was not like that, | 2111.9439 |
1490 | | 2112.1388 | swimming was awful. | 2113.1673 |
1492 | | 2113.4434 | So swimming was- | 2114.9407 |
1494 | | 2116.0458 | another one of my friends, I'm not really friends with her anymore but | 2119.2433 |
1496 | | 2119.4754 | um, another one of my friends who I had grown up with, | 2121.9451 |
1498 | | 2122.5340 | she was on the swim team, it was an all black team, PG County. | 2126.6560 |
1500 | | 2127.2294 | And I'm at /RD-SCHOOL-2/ at this point and | 2130.1948 |
1502 | | 2130.5150 | there's no more dance, I'm looking for something and she went from like, no lie- | 2135.4345 |
1504 | | 2135.6706 | Well how old were we? We were like fourteen, so | 2137.5434 |
1506 | | 2137.7475 | she's tall. | 2138.2798 |
1508 | | 2138.7052 | She went from over two hundred pounds to like | 2142.0267 |
1510 | | 2142.9151 | one fifty, like she had | 2144.5359 |
1512 | | 2144.8933 | went cr- she | 2145.8017 |
1514 | | 2146.2659 | metamorphosized | 2147.5105 |
1516 | | 2147.9587 | and I'm looking like, | 2148.8911 |
1518 | | 2149.4194 | that's what I'm gonna do, so, and it's a black activity, so I did that. | 2153.8234 |
1520 | | 2154.2749 | And um, | 2155.6995 |
1522 | | 2155.9328 | <ts> | 2156.0289 |
1524 | | 2157.2455 | I did lose weight but not like her. | 2159.1355 |
1526 | | 2159.7306 | And | 2160.8671 |
1528 | | 2161.5274 | I remember when I tried out | 2162.9238 |
1530 | | 2163.4696 | or they went- they wanted- not try out, they assessed me to see where I was. | 2167.5970 |
1532 | | 2168.0197 | And I got out of the pool after doing like | 2170.1099 |
1534 | | 2170.5260 | four laps or something like I almost vomited. | 2173.3112 |
1536 | | 2173.6755 | I didn't even know that s- I didn't- I had swam my whole life like, for fun, recreationally, but I didn't even know that swimming could make you out of breath until | 2180.5359 |
1538 | | 2180.8293 | that one- for that first time. | 2182.9892 |
1540 | | 2183.4385 | And I was so slow that for | 2186.8000 |
1542 | | 2187.3215 | a very long time | 2188.8542 |
1544 | | 2188.9783 | on that team I was swimming with the little kids in practice. | 2193.1691 |
1546 | | 2194.8142 | until they just said, /RD-NAME-3/ that's enough. | 2197.1913 |
1548 | | 2197.7315 | And I was like, well I don't know what you want me to do. | 2199.0534 |
1550 | | 2199.7577 | And then they gave me fins | 2201.9067 |
1552 | | 2202.0347 | which, for those who don't know, propels you. | 2204.8001 |
1554 | | 2205.2334 | And everyone else would you know, do practice without fins and | 2208.9151 |
1556 | | 2209.1953 | when I was with my age group and I would practice with fins so that I could keep up. | 2213.8865 |
1558 | | 2214.4549 | <ts> | 2214.5230 |
1560 | | 2215.1553 | And then, there would- we'd also like | 2217.4495 |
1562 | | 2218.3540 | <ts> | 2218.4460 |
1564 | | 2218.7381 | always kind of feel bad for people at a swim meet | 2221.6755 |
1566 | | 2222.1197 | where they were so slow that like, everyone else would be done and they'd get like the pity clap. | 2227.4450 |
1568 | | 2228.7652 | See I just feel like the whole set up was wrong like maybe I just shouldn't have done it because | 2233.0491 |
1570 | | 2234.3438 | the fact that I had to swim with these children | 2237.1558 |
1572 | | 2237.5465 | and then they put me in fins to keep up with my age group. | 2240.4399 |
1574 | | 2240.9413 | So then they put me in these competitions where you know I'm clearly not gonna- | 2244.5430 |
1576 | | 2246.4919 | So I remember I went to this one meet like went all the way to Atlanta | 2250.4109 |
1578 | | 2251.1312 | and one of these chicks that I was in the m- | 2253.4015 |
1580 | | 2253.5496 | in the | 2254.3179 |
1582 | | 2254.4140 | heat with | 2255.3864 |
1584 | | 2255.7106 | her brother- these were black people too, | 2257.4274 |
1586 | | 2257.6595 | her brother was | 2259.1894 |
1588 | | 2259.5376 | in the Olympics, I had no business. | 2262.8231 |
1590 | | 2264.0517 | And so like, | 2265.7417 |
1592 | | 2266.0818 | the team had like split up cause there was some kind of coup, I don't even remember all this drama but there was some kind of drama. | 2271.9298 |
1594 | | 2272.3620 | And the team had split in half and I remember | 2274.2628 |
1596 | | 2274.6430 | the one coach | 2275.7715 |
1598 | | 2276.0529 | who used to be with the team that I had stayed with, he wasn't even | 2279.4105 |
1600 | | 2279.4985 | part of my team anymore, I didn't have any beef with him, | 2281.2313 |
1602 | | 2281.5114 | like he was on the sideline like encouraging me during this | 2285.0943 |
1604 | | 2285.7106 | heat that I- that I- this competition cause it was so bad and he felt so bad for me. I mean he mighta done it anyway but | 2291.0758 |
1606 | | 2291.3384 | he was trying to get me just up and down, cause I was like about to quit while I was swimming and | 2295.7771 |
1608 | | 2296.1339 | I remember like- so you go up and back and up and back. | 2299.0657 |
1610 | | 2299.6875 | Like my last up and back | 2301.6857 |
1612 | | 2302.1179 | like I still had one more lap to go up and back and people were already finished and standing | 2307.7337 |
1614 | | 2308.4380 | in the water, waiting for me to go up | 2312.1517 |
1616 | | 2312.7092 | and back. | 2313.5839 |
1618 | | 2314.7021 | Humiliated. | 2315.5968 |
1620 | | 2315.8947 | Jumped out of the water, all kinds of pity clap, I just jumped out of the water, like ran to the bathroom, my mom's like, oh you're f- | 2321.9223 |
1622 | | 2322.2628 | Don't do this. Like I'm always been a realistic, don't- don't do this. It was terrible. | 2326.9582 |
1624 | | 2328.3229 | It was terr- what are you talking about? | 2330.2117 |
1626 | | 2331.0254 | I was so pissed. I feel like | 2332.5340 |
1628 | | 2332.9102 | I was also pissed because | 2333.9987 |
1630 | | 2334.5350 | you know I had had enough experiences swimming that I was like, | 2337.8398 |
1632 | | 2338.9542 | I could at least kind of keep up but at that point I knew at that meet that I was way out of my league and I feel like | 2345.3424 |
1634 | | 2345.6946 | part of y'all's job as | 2347.7412 |
1636 | | 2348.1717 | adults | 2349.1214 |
1638 | | 2350.0498 | let alone coaches or whatever is to like | 2352.7271 |
1640 | | 2353.2233 | recognize when people just don't need to, you know. | 2356.3331 |
1642 | | 2357.0983 | Cause I would've been fine with that. | 2358.3076 |
1644 | | 2359.2673 | <ts> | 2359.3193 |
1646 | | 2359.3754 | I was not an over-achiever when it came to swimming, that was just supposed to be something social | 2363.4985 |
1648 | | 2364.2348 | and exercise. | 2366.2174 |
1650 | | 2366.4931 | Not | 2367.2214 |
1652 | | 2368.1419 | scar me and humiliate w- | 2370.1788 |
1654 | | 2370.3309 | humiliate me and have people literally stand there waiting for me to f- it was- it was awful. That was it, that- that was my swimming story. | 2376.6750 |
1656 | | 2378.1877 | Yeah. | 2378.4757 |
1657 | DCB_int_01 | 2378.4771 | I'm sorry that it was embarrassing but it was a great story. | 2381.3646 |
1658 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2381.3184 | Yeah. | 2381.9571 |
1659 | | 2382.0467 | It was- | 2382.6550 |
1661 | | 2382.7911 | <ts> it w- it is- it's a great story now, at the time it was | 2385.2054 |
1663 | | 2386.0218 | awful. | 2386.3005 |
1665 | | 2387.0583 | And I did get to lose some weight so that was- that was nice. I didn't | 2389.7435 |
1667 | | 2390.0277 | get as slim as she did. | 2391.1534 |
1669 | | 2392.1899 | So, that's okay though. | 2393.3539 |
1671 | | 2393.6386 | Yeah. | 2393.8827 |
1673 | | 2393.9547 | It served it's purpose. | 2395.2793 |
1674 | DCB_int_01 | 2397.6416 | Thank you for that. | 2398.2099 |
1675 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2398.1779 | <ts> No [problem.] | 2399.3045 |
1676 | DCB_int_01 | 2398.6181 | [That was-] no, that was- | 2399.9847 |
1677 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2400.2148 | <ts> I'm glad I'm h- I can always entertain. | 2402.3428 |
1678 | DCB_int_01 | 2404.7822 | So, | 2405.1728 |
1680 | | 2406.1548 | <exhales> now let's go to /RD-SCHOOL-3/. | 2408.4104 |
1682 | | 2409.2054 | Uh, | 2409.8988 |
1684 | | 2410.9302 | now that we've graduated from high school, got over the swimming thing. | 2414.2622 |
1685 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2414.4571 | [Mm-hm.] | 2414.9424 |
1686 | DCB_int_01 | 2414.4571 | [So I don't] think you went to /RD-SCHOOL-3/ with a swimming scholarship | 2417.3184 |
1687 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2417.4406 | <ts> [Absolutely not.] No no no, that was literally just for- | 2421.1581 |
1688 | DCB_int_01 | 2417.4579 | [from the sounds of it.] | 2418.5382 |
1689 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2422.5121 | that was the purpose it served like, social, | 2425.1295 |
1691 | | 2426.4815 | black | 2427.5526 |
1693 | | 2427.8770 | exercise. | 2429.2853 |
1694 | DCB_int_01 | 2430.3173 | So how do we end up at /RD-SCHOOL-3/? | 2431.9752 |
1695 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2432.1512 | <ts> | 2432.2202 |
1697 | | 2432.6586 | Because I'd wanted to go there since I knew what New York- I'd always wanted to live in New York. | 2436.4746 |
1699 | | 2437.2493 | And | 2438.2503 |
1701 | | 2438.4032 | I remember in seventh grade I like went to visit the school, so not like on an official like, | 2442.4832 |
1703 | | 2442.8765 | that sounds crazy but | 2444.1985 |
1705 | | 2444.5954 | my godsister, who I'm still close with to this day, she lived in New Jersey | 2448.4088 |
1707 | | 2449.0733 | and | 2450.0062 |
1709 | | 2450.0994 | I would visit her and on one of those trips when I was in like, middle school | 2453.7007 |
1711 | | 2454.5935 | I went to | 2455.6668 |
1713 | | 2455.8440 | New Jersey and she | 2457.1556 |
1715 | | 2457.6043 | took me to /RD-SCHOOL-3/'s campus and I was just like, | 2460.7453 |
1717 | | 2461.7843 | this is it. | 2462.7300 |
1719 | | 2463.2937 | Um, | 2463.9391 |
1721 | | 2464.2256 | but I always knew I wanted to move to New York, I just /didn't/- | 2466.6102 |
1723 | | 2466.8558 | like growing up- | 2467.9051 |
1725 | | 2470.4500 | I didn't travel a whole lot | 2472.1655 |
1727 | | 2472.4692 | like growing up but I | 2473.6600 |
1729 | | 2474.0614 | traveled enough like | 2476.0908 |
1731 | | 2476.6951 | parents kept me | 2477.3854 |
1733 | | 2477.8410 | pretty exposed like not much internat- not- | 2479.8095 |
1735 | | 2480.1477 | huh. | 2480.5516 |
1737 | | 2480.9278 | I guess Aruba was the only international traveling I had done | 2483.2680 |
1739 | | 2483.3819 | to that point but enough around the country to kn- | 2486.5264 |
1741 | | 2486.9830 | know that I really liked New York, I felt like there was nothing else like it, | 2490.2138 |
1743 | | 2490.3553 | and I had wanted do that since I was- I remember my first trip to New York with my parents | 2494.5604 |
1745 | | 2494.8607 | in like f- | 2495.3819 |
1747 | | 2495.5683 | second grade maybe at like Christmas time and I was just like, this is it. | 2498.7404 |
1749 | | 2499.6734 | And so in seventh grade | 2501.5925 |
1751 | | 2502.5417 | I knew for sure like, okay /RD-SCHOOL-3/ is it. | 2504.5704 |
1753 | | 2505.3972 | And I went to other schools in that area | 2508.3795 |
1755 | | 2508.4761 | and always liked NYU, I didn't like Columbia, not that I would've gotten in. | 2511.8653 |
1757 | | 2512.5363 | I didn't like Barnard, not that I would've gotten in. | 2514.5210 |
1759 | | 2515.3943 | And I really liked /RD-SCHOOL-3/. | 2517.4110 |
1761 | | 2517.5249 | Fordham was cool, | 2518.3361 |
1763 | | 2518.4845 | but I really liked /RD-SCHOOL-3/. | 2519.5994 |
1765 | | 2519.8652 | So, that's how I ended up there. | 2521.3080 |
1767 | | 2522.2192 | Um, | 2522.7552 |
1769 | | 2523.6734 | I didn't get into my first choice program though. | 2525.8827 |
1771 | | 2526.2725 | But that's okay, I eventually got there. | 2528.0777 |
1772 | DCB_int_01 | 2528.6724 | What was your first choice? | 2529.5940 |
1773 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2530.2153 | <ts> | 2530.3085 |
1775 | | 2530.5673 | Well, | 2530.9874 |
1777 | | 2532.0895 | I | 2532.3642 |
1779 | | 2532.5521 | applied for the communications program. | 2535.2105 |
1781 | | 2537.2715 | Oh I forgot in terms of my education, hm, | 2539.4503 |
1783 | | 2539.8154 | I- I also did | 2541.0176 |
1785 | | 2541.2523 | a summer between | 2542.7986 |
1787 | | 2544.5451 | <ts> | 2544.6073 |
1789 | | 2545.5047 | eleve- | 2546.1709 |
1791 | | 2546.3514 | yeah. | 2546.6896 |
1793 | | 2546.9244 | So my summer between eleventh and twelfth grade I went to Syracuse. | 2550.0861 |
1794 | DCB_int_01 | 2550.1240 | Mm. | 2550.3814 |
1795 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2550.4589 | I knew in high school that I wanted to major in communications so | 2554.0291 |
1797 | | 2554.7848 | they had a communications high school- communications program where you could earn college credit so I did that for that summer going into my twelfth grade and I wanted it to- | 2562.3355 |
1799 | | 2562.5866 | I wanted something to put on my like, application to college. | 2565.9219 |
1801 | | 2566.4500 | So I did that | 2567.3509 |
1803 | | 2567.4924 | and- | 2568.4485 |
1805 | | 2568.8006 | so I knew I either wanted to go to Syracuse or NYU, I really wanted to go to NYU, | 2573.3185 |
1807 | | 2574.1344 | that w- I- I did early decision. | 2575.9011 |
1809 | | 2577.2626 | And Syracuse was my second choice cause Syracuse had the number one communications school I remember that. | 2581.3080 |
1811 | | 2581.7946 | Um, | 2582.2986 |
1813 | | 2582.4953 | so I like applied for that but | 2584.2084 |
1815 | | 2585.2094 | they put me in general studies program which was dubbed generally stupid people because it was the program that they put you in for two years | 2594.4263 |
1817 | | 2595.0762 | um, | 2595.6362 |
1819 | | 2595.9875 | <ts> when you've applied for | 2597.6753 |
1821 | | 2598.9870 | anything else | 2600.2227 |
1823 | | 2600.3272 | in the university | 2601.5871 |
1825 | | 2601.8805 | but they think you need a little | 2603.2845 |
1827 | | 2603.5200 | extra something. | 2604.6452 |
1829 | | 2605.1285 | Which I always thought was | 2607.0269 |
1831 | | 2607.2212 | stupid because | 2608.9919 |
1833 | | 2609.3750 | my friends who got into like college of arts and sciences, what they applied for, did not have as much homework as I did so they always kind of laughed at me about how like | 2617.5634 |
1835 | | 2618.3376 | I was in this kind of | 2619.5322 |
1837 | | 2619.7010 | almost secondary | 2621.2023 |
1839 | | 2621.8134 | situation | 2622.8241 |
1841 | | 2623.3080 | even though I had a lot more work. | 2625.3731 |
1843 | | 2625.7113 | And it didn't matter because you did | 2627.5166 |
1845 | | 2628.6660 | two years | 2630.0673 |
1847 | | 2630.1823 | um, | 2630.7596 |
1849 | | 2631.5595 | <ts> | 2631.6527 |
1851 | | 2632.2118 | in uh- | 2633.0195 |
1853 | | 2634.5797 | like taking | 2635.3250 |
1855 | | 2635.5220 | the basic like | 2636.7266 |
1857 | | 2636.8001 | col- uh, | 2637.7389 |
1859 | | 2637.8874 | what do you call that? | 2638.5190 |
1861 | | 2640.5037 | Like arts and sciences courses that | 2642.7508 |
1863 | | 2642.8864 | you would take | 2644.1946 |
1865 | | 2644.3292 | in other programs and then you | 2646.3563 |
1867 | | 2646.8247 | have to reapply for your major so I reapplied for communications and did that. | 2650.2145 |
1869 | | 2651.4026 | Um, | 2651.7582 |
1871 | | 2652.5210 | <ts> so that's it. | 2653.0767 |
1872 | DCB_int_01 | 2653.1872 | Did you graduate | 2653.8645 |
1873 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2654.1339 | [Mm-hm.] | 2654.4101 |
1874 | DCB_int_01 | 2654.2064 | [as a] communications major? | 2655.2799 |
1875 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2655.3040 | Mm-hm. | 2655.5698 |
1876 | DCB_int_01 | 2655.8080 | Oh okay. | 2656.3493 |
1877 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2656.4776 | Yeah. | 2656.7883 |
1878 | DCB_int_01 | 2657.2232 | Um, | 2657.9005 |
1880 | | 2658.2863 | were you involved in anything in college like | 2660.3272 |
1882 | | 2660.4618 | majorly? | 2661.1246 |
1884 | | 2661.6250 | Besides your academics. | 2662.6184 |
1885 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2663.1990 | Yeah. | 2663.7375 |
1887 | | 2663.8168 | Well I did | 2664.6383 |
1889 | | 2664.8593 | sort of. N- | 2665.5737 |
1891 | | 2665.6497 | uh- uh not majorly, I'd- I was part of the gospel choir, | 2668.7998 |
1893 | | 2669.7720 | I really missed singing. | 2671.3390 |
1895 | | 2672.2651 | <ts> | 2672.3169 |
1897 | | 2672.4032 | I'd done singing in the | 2674.0485 |
1899 | | 2674.7261 | high school choir- well I guess that wasn't choir, what do you call that? Maybe chorus? I feel like choir has somewhat of a religious thing, maybe not. | 2680.8159 |
1901 | | 2681.1507 | I don't- I'm not really sure but whatever the singing thing was in high school I did that, I wanted to keep doing it so I did it | 2686.2774 |
1903 | | 2687.1852 | for the gospel choir | 2688.4140 |
1905 | | 2689.2907 | um, at /RD-SCHOOL-3/. | 2690.6241 |
1907 | | 2691.1349 | And I feel like there was some kind of diversity | 2693.6721 |
1909 | | 2694.2621 | similar to like | 2695.7713 |
1911 | | 2696.3272 | black student something, that I went to meetings to | 2699.3440 |
1913 | | 2699.4751 | very occasionally. | 2700.6314 |
1915 | | 2701.4771 | I was not very involved. | 2702.7473 |
1917 | | 2703.3834 | Um, | 2703.9701 |
1919 | | 2705.1231 | <ts> | 2705.1921 |
1921 | | 2705.2749 | and I did some internships | 2707.3229 |
1923 | | 2708.5033 | and I flirted with the idea of going to film school when I was there. | 2713.1959 |
1925 | | 2713.3735 | When I had to redeclare my major again- | 2715.1418 |
1927 | | 2715.8252 | not redeclare but when I had to apply for my major after | 2718.8247 |
1929 | | 2718.9904 | general studies I | 2719.8119 |
1931 | | 2720.3652 | kind of flip flopped between do I wanna | 2722.1566 |
1933 | | 2722.4569 | do communications, stick with that or do I wanna go to film school cause they have a really good film school. | 2726.0328 |
1935 | | 2726.9830 | But I was a little too intimidated so I went- I stayed with communications. | 2730.5337 |
1936 | DCB_int_01 | 2731.1043 | And so then how did you get to law school? Did you go to law school right after? | 2734.4949 |
1937 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2734.8228 | No, law school was a disaster. So I went to- | 2738.0397 |
1939 | | 2738.1684 | I graduated from /RD-SCHOOL-3/ | 2739.8287 |
1941 | | 2740.4224 | and moved back home | 2741.5235 |
1943 | | 2741.9411 | and | 2743.1998 |
1945 | | 2743.8751 | worked for- | 2745.1867 |
1947 | | 2746.2325 | <ts> | 2746.3154 |
1949 | | 2746.9160 | so I graduated in two thousand- I worked at Howard for a second. | 2749.6320 |
1951 | | 2751.3524 | And then- | 2752.5432 |
1953 | | 2753.1921 | maybe like six months. | 2754.1588 |
1955 | | 2756.1425 | Is that right? (whispered) | 2756.5574 |
1957 | | 2756.9313 | And then from there I | 2758.9661 |
1959 | | 2759.3474 | star- I did | 2760.0247 |
1961 | | 2760.2034 | like | 2760.4416 |
1963 | | 2760.6660 | temp work, one of the temp | 2762.0949 |
1965 | | 2762.2054 | to- to hire jobs was at American Institute of Architects, | 2765.0187 |
1967 | | 2765.5476 | so I worked there as an admin assistant. That was kind of just by | 2768.9803 |
1969 | | 2769.1315 | chance. | 2770.1566 |
1971 | | 2771.0195 | And | 2772.2483 |
1973 | | 2773.4046 | it's not- | 2773.7766 |
1975 | | 2774.5688 | not her fault, I was grown up I made my own decisions but you know, | 2777.7685 |
1977 | | 2778.3864 | you need to go get a graduate degree, you need to get a graduate degree before you get married and have a family which I still don't have, so whatever. The point is | 2785.4046 |
1979 | | 2786.1063 | I was told this is what I was supposed to do. | 2788.3680 |
1981 | | 2789.9135 | It was | 2790.2000 |
1983 | | 2790.3691 | beat over my head. So, you don't wanna be like me you know, I was | 2794.8745 |
1985 | | 2795.7409 | trying to finish, I started and then I stopped and then | 2798.2158 |
1987 | | 2798.5861 | you know, I had you and yeah I was | 2800.9712 |
1989 | | 2801.5476 | trying to finish that and with you, you don't wanna do th- ugh. | 2804.4072 |
1991 | | 2804.9761 | And then my boss, | 2806.2935 |
1993 | | 2806.8814 | she said the same thing | 2808.2759 |
1995 | | 2808.8144 | So I was like, fine. | 2809.5930 |
1997 | | 2810.3548 | It was a little bitter because- this sounds terrible. (whispered) | 2813.1024 |
1999 | | 2813.2680 | I'll- I'll be quiet. Karma's awful so let me just be quiet. | 2816.0880 |
2001 | | 2816.5861 | Um, | 2817.3558 |
2003 | | 2817.9668 | <ts> | 2818.0496 |
2005 | | 2819.5787 | uh, well I was gonna say that they had some- they had- they did some downsizing, | 2823.6527 |
2007 | | 2824.3499 | but you'd get some kind of severance, and it was right when I was about to go to law school and I would never wish to be like, | 2830.2878 |
2009 | | 2830.4155 | laid off, cause unemployment sucks, been there, but I'm just saying that like you know would've been really nice. But they knew I was going to law school so they wouldn't give it to me. The point is | 2837.8203 |
2011 | | 2838.7557 | I went from- /it went to-/ | 2840.1157 |
2013 | | 2840.3686 | from AIA, American Institute of Architects, I'm an assistant, | 2843.1300 |
2015 | | 2843.9169 | <ts> | 2843.9894 |
2017 | | 2844.6038 | from two thousand six maybe to two thousand nine, when I went to law school which was- | 2851.1147 |
2019 | | 2851.8889 | I don't know how I feel about that decision, so. | 2854.2910 |
2021 | | 2855.2991 | <ts> | 2855.3647 |
2023 | | 2856.2725 | Mm I didn't | 2858.9924 |
2025 | | 2859.0969 | ever think that I could do law school | 2861.5200 |
2027 | | 2861.6201 | but | 2862.0205 |
2029 | | 2862.1240 | I- after graduating and moving back home I- all these | 2865.7320 |
2031 | | 2866.4431 | kids went to law school. | 2867.8307 |
2033 | | 2868.4381 | And then I talked to some who were at Howard | 2871.4625 |
2035 | | 2872.4362 | My um- <ts> | 2873.9273 |
2037 | | 2873.9998 | and- and- and they kept telling me like, | 2876.3971 |
2039 | | 2876.9899 | /RD-NAME-3/ they are s- I- I swear there are some incredibly | 2880.2966 |
2041 | | 2880.4968 | not bright people who | 2881.8085 |
2043 | | 2882.0708 | we have gone to law school with, you'll be fine. | 2884.2084 |
2045 | | 2884.3637 | And I was like, are you sure? And they were like, yeah. | 2886.3967 |
2047 | | 2886.6729 | And at the time the economy was different cause I was | 2888.6368 |
2049 | | 2888.9692 | applying like, | 2890.1393 |
2051 | | 2890.8573 | started taking the test and all that stuff so that had to be two thousand- | 2894.6313 |
2053 | | 2896.3050 | wait a minute, I f- got my acceptance letters March two thousand nine. | 2901.7631 |
2055 | | 2902.3085 | So I had been preparing two thousand eight before the economy went to, you know- | 2905.5910 |
2057 | | 2906.2261 | So, | 2906.8408 |
2059 | | 2907.5802 | when I was applying, | 2908.7606 |
2061 | | 2909.2232 | you graduate, | 2910.0992 |
2063 | | 2910.4589 | get this good job, | 2911.8188 |
2065 | | 2912.2375 | and life is grand | 2913.7175 |
2067 | | 2913.8080 | except | 2914.6778 |
2069 | | 2914.7675 | you know once I got in it, the economy tanked and- | 2917.1449 |
2071 | | 2918.5343 | So our- | 2919.2943 |
2073 | | 2919.5353 | <ts> | 2919.5905 |
2075 | | 2919.9115 | a lot of our experiences for those who graduated in two thousand twelve when I did, | 2923.6995 |
2077 | | 2924.2823 | it wasn't as- | 2925.5944 |
2078 | DCB_int_01 | 2925.7804 | Mm. | 2926.0254 |
2079 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2926.2705 | yeah, wasn't as carefree as other people I had | 2928.9317 |
2081 | | 2929.1388 | talked to who had graduated several years | 2931.0062 |
2083 | | 2931.3075 | in front of me. | 2932.1195 |
2085 | | 2932.5363 | <ts> | 2932.6433 |
2087 | | 2933.1438 | But I did enjoy Howard, | 2934.7661 |
2089 | | 2935.7705 | and | 2936.6798 |
2091 | | 2936.7621 | [um-] | 2937.3903 |
2092 | DCB_int_01 | 2937.2419 | [Think] there were black people there. | 2938.4983 |
2093 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 2938.6433 | <ts> | 2938.7675 |
2095 | | 2939.1093 | There were quite a few. | 2940.3986 |
2097 | | 2940.9973 | And um, | 2942.8972 |
2099 | | 2943.4318 | <ts> | 2943.4939 |
2101 | | 2943.5595 | lifelong friends who I will have | 2946.9421 |
2103 | | 2947.4736 | forever I believe. | 2949.2039 |
2105 | | 2949.9460 | Um, | 2950.5220 |
2107 | | 2950.8331 | <ts> | 2950.9850 |
2109 | | 2951.1403 | who I was just hanging out with yesterday, one of which you know. | 2954.5110 |
2111 | | 2955.4283 | So yeah I mean that part of it was good, and everyone kept telling me you can do anything with a law degree. | 2960.9579 |
2113 | | 2962.7365 | But it- my heart's never been in law, like I never wanted to practice. | 2965.8844 |
2115 | | 2966.9382 | And I mean maybe this is partly my fault too, I graduated and | 2970.0888 |
2117 | | 2970.3173 | that | 2970.5728 |
2119 | | 2970.8869 | exam has not worked out for me and | 2973.3903 |
2121 | | 2973.7079 | I don't- I don't really wanna practice so I- then I started feeling like, why do I keep taking it if this isn't what you wanna d- and it was- so it was like a whole bunch of | 2979.9978 |
2123 | | 2980.4224 | things tied up into it like- probably should've taken these off. | 2983.3839 |
2125 | | 2983.7912 | I- I | 2984.3179 |
2127 | | 2984.4411 | I w- | 2984.7665 |
2129 | | 2986.2187 | glad I got the terminal degree and | 2989.4150 |
2131 | | 2990.5171 | <ts> | 2990.5654 |
2133 | | 2990.6310 | I'm glad that it was Howard | 2992.4776 |
2135 | | 2992.6088 | and | 2993.7271 |
2137 | | 2993.7961 | it's just my heart was not | 2996.0960 |
2139 | | 2996.2789 | in law and I- | 2997.6922 |
2141 | | 2997.9771 | it's- | 2998.5777 |
2143 | | 2998.8642 | still not, so | 3001.2113 |
2145 | | 3001.8154 | that's why I made the face about law school. | 3003.9501 |
2146 | DCB_int_01 | 3004.0047 | So [how'd /you end up-/] | 3005.0154 |
2147 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3004.1255 | [I should've] probably gotten an MBA but you know hindsight's always twenty-twenty as they say, so here I am. | 3010.1145 |
2148 | | 3010.3050 | <ts> | 3010.4224 |
2150 | | 3011.1714 | Hm? | 3011.4199 |
2151 | DCB_int_01 | 3011.4786 | How'd you end up in your job? | 3012.8351 |
2152 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3013.9776 | <ts> | 3014.0742 |
2154 | | 3015.0486 | Because this is a very typical path that you take | 3018.1420 |
2156 | | 3018.2794 | if you're looking for a job after law school. Well the- okay so document review is basically the discovery process of- | 3024.0891 |
2158 | | 3024.4209 | I don't know how familiar | 3025.0636 |
2160 | | 3025.6048 | you or the other | 3026.2468 |
2162 | | 3026.4722 | people who'd be listening to this are with document review but | 3028.6916 |
2164 | | 3029.0955 | basically discovery process, so when two parties are | 3031.9048 |
2166 | | 3033.0417 | litigating, there are all these documents that have to be reviewed whether it's privileged, confidential, things like that. | 3039.5825 |
2168 | | 3040.3672 | <ts> | 3040.4258 |
2170 | | 3040.4949 | Basically categorize for discovery so | 3043.0836 |
2172 | | 3043.2631 | they need people generally | 3045.2005 |
2174 | | 3045.9771 | lawyers or at least JDs like me to review it. | 3049.4150 |
2176 | | 3049.5876 | So, | 3050.0089 |
2178 | | 3050.3238 | that's how I ended up doing that. I actually | 3052.9781 |
2180 | | 3053.8410 | clerked for a year | 3054.9110 |
2182 | | 3055.6290 | afterwards | 3056.6903 |
2184 | | 3056.8622 | um, | 3057.3702 |
2186 | | 3057.6216 | <ts> | 3057.7148 |
2188 | | 3059.2232 | and that was an enjoyable exper- I mean you get a really | 3062.9616 |
2190 | | 3063.4594 | up close look at how the court system works | 3066.2897 |
2192 | | 3066.4554 | and- so that was good. | 3067.7498 |
2194 | | 3069.1349 | It did show me again that I really don't wanna practice, so | 3071.9515 |
2196 | | 3072.0792 | it eliminated that for good and then after that I worked for | 3076.0151 |
2198 | | 3076.2394 | DC government. | 3077.3821 |
2200 | | 3078.3967 | And that was fun. | 3080.1421 |
2202 | | 3081.1763 | Um, <ts> | 3082.3395 |
2204 | | 3082.4776 | and then my contract ended. | 3084.6576 |
2206 | | 3085.2942 | So, | 3086.1328 |
2208 | | 3086.9002 | I | 3087.9455 |
2210 | | 3088.5881 | jumped on doc review projects | 3090.3657 |
2212 | | 3090.4934 | while I was- | 3091.2355 |
2214 | | 3091.4184 | after I studied for the bar that time and I've kind of been bouncing around on projects while I look for | 3096.7626 |
2216 | | 3097.4288 | something else that | 3098.5678 |
2218 | | 3099.2419 | maybe could allow me to use my law degree but not | 3102.4130 |
2220 | | 3103.4150 | a practice. | 3104.4884 |
2221 | DCB_int_01 | 3104.4722 | Mm-hm. | 3104.8795 |
2222 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3105.0555 | Yeah. | 3105.3558 |
2223 | DCB_int_01 | 3105.9253 | So let's switch gears totally. | 3107.7547 |
2224 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3107.9204 | [Okay.] | 3108.4589 |
2225 | DCB_int_01 | 3108.2725 | [Um,] | 3108.8050 |
2226 | | 3109.5013 | [So these questions] are not gonna be chronologi- they're just gonna be kind of random. | 3112.7409 |
2227 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3109.5082 | [Good.] | 3110.1376 |
2228 | | 3112.7606 | Sure. | 3113.4096 |
2229 | DCB_int_01 | 3114.0861 | One of the things is | 3115.9461 |
2231 | | 3116.4411 | people come from all over the country to come tour DC and see all the monuments and all of these museums and things. | 3123.0305 |
2233 | | 3123.4007 | Have you been a tourist in your own back yard? | 3125.5317 |
2234 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3127.3977 | <ts> | 3127.4736 |
2236 | | 3127.5910 | Yeah. | 3127.9910 |
2238 | | 3128.6862 | Um, | 3129.6630 |
2240 | | 3131.9549 | <ts> | 3131.9929 |
2242 | | 3132.0654 | Not as much as I | 3132.9455 |
2244 | | 3133.0698 | as I should be, I mean growing up there was always a trip to a museum. | 3137.4648 |
2246 | | 3138.0032 | But if you ask me anything about that now I'd be like, Mm-mm-mm. (I don't know intonation) | 3140.6230 |
2248 | | 3141.0245 | Um, | 3141.8018 |
2250 | | 3142.6601 | if that makes s- | 3143.3405 |
2252 | | 3143.5959 | you know like I remember going to see the big dinosaur, so that was Natural History, I remember seeing the- | 3148.1911 |
2254 | | 3148.6985 | the diamond which was- | 3150.9386 |
2256 | | 3151.1216 | that's Natural too, isn't it? | 3152.3228 |
2258 | | 3153.0555 | I feel like I've seen a lot of these Smithsonian museums, I actually worked for the Smithsonian | 3157.2217 |
2260 | | 3157.8854 | every summer like in high school | 3160.0547 |
2262 | | 3160.3879 | at their, uh, | 3161.5856 |
2264 | | 3162.3035 | their big festival for some reason I can't remember it right now, the name of it. | 3165.2281 |
2266 | | 3165.3938 | But I worked for a festival every summer. | 3166.9367 |
2268 | | 3168.0239 | Not that that really involved touristy things so I would say that I've- I've done a lot of touristy things. | 3173.4855 |
2270 | | 3174.0861 | Uh, | 3174.6567 |
2272 | | 3174.9041 | /even/ the last few years like made it a point to go see Martin Luther King and | 3178.8607 |
2274 | | 3179.2715 | a couple weeks ago I went | 3181.6462 |
2276 | | 3181.7256 | down to the Lincoln Memorial. | 3184.2602 |
2278 | | 3185.4717 | FDR, I've s- I've seen all of them, the World War Two, the Korean. | 3190.2187 |
2280 | | 3191.0333 | So yeah I'd say I've been a t- I'd- I'd say so, I haven't seen everything. | 3193.6640 |
2282 | | 3193.9051 | But | 3194.1226 |
2284 | | 3194.4159 | I've- I've spent time doing that. | 3196.0786 |
2285 | DCB_int_01 | 3196.8711 | Do you have a favorite? | 3197.7478 |
2286 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3202.1221 | Hm. | 3202.4261 |
2288 | | 3204.2310 | I feel like | 3205.8790 |
2290 | | 3206.0891 | I like any one that involves water, and I feel like the FDR one involves water but I- mm. | 3211.3425 |
2292 | | 3212.0787 | I know World War Two involves water. | 3213.6895 |
2294 | | 3214.8987 | <ts> | 3215.0057 |
2296 | | 3215.0747 | This is terrible. | 3215.7892 |
2298 | | 3215.9929 | But that's how I feel, I really like the water ones. | 3218.0708 |
2300 | | 3219.2454 | I would say one of my favorites | 3221.2335 |
2302 | | 3222.5279 | is also the Korean one cause it's those statues of the men, | 3225.9322 |
2304 | | 3226.0807 | but it | 3226.5535 |
2306 | | 3227.3371 | at night kind of creeps me out a little bit, it's a little eerie. | 3230.3011 |
2308 | | 3230.9968 | It's probably not the right reason to like or dislike a memorial but I- I do like that one a lot too. | 3236.1191 |
2309 | DCB_int_01 | 3236.1132 | Kind of Thriller-esque. | 3237.3800 |
2310 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3237.4248 | Yeah, it's different, I like that. | 3239.3371 |
2312 | | 3239.5614 | <ts> | 3239.6857 |
2314 | | 3240.2034 | So those are probably my favorites. | 3242.7554 |
2316 | | 3243.3696 | I don't remember why I lied FDR that much, but I've been there a couple times I remember I really liked it. | 3247.3770 |
2317 | DCB_int_01 | 3247.6048 | It's one of my [favorites.] | 3248.7835 |
2318 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3248.0338 | [I'm not very good] with history, so. | 3250.2058 |
2319 | | 3250.8573 | It's like aesthetic purposes as to why I would like | 3253.8775 |
2321 | | 3254.1063 | all of these, [yeah.] | 3255.3006 |
2322 | DCB_int_01 | 3254.9451 | [Mm-hm.] | 3255.3051 |
2323 | | 3255.6630 | [Exactly.] | 3256.2878 |
2324 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3255.6665 | [<ts>] | 3255.8011 |
2326 | | 3256.2705 | Yeah. | 3256.5604 |
2327 | DCB_int_01 | 3257.0299 | Um, | 3257.6419 |
2329 | | 3258.1482 | so- | 3258.7242 |
2330 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3258.7108 | Oh and Martin Luther King | 3259.8464 |
2331 | | 3260.1364 | too. | 3260.5817 |
2333 | | 3261.5871 | Because- | 3262.1044 |
2335 | | 3262.1670 | well actually no I- | 3262.8331 |
2337 | | 3263.0575 | in- in seriousness I do like that one cause it's like | 3265.1175 |
2339 | | 3265.3666 | huge and in his likeness. | 3267.3278 |
2341 | | 3267.9978 | I can't | 3268.5058 |
2343 | | 3268.7848 | say I- that one's not on the list. | 3270.6968 |
2345 | | 3271.6600 | I just- my first one I j- jumped to is the water, | 3274.3016 |
2347 | | 3274.3913 | so. | 3274.6846 |
2349 | | 3274.8745 | Yeah. | 3275.1399 |
2350 | DCB_int_01 | 3275.8479 | Understandable. | 3276.4899 |
2351 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3276.5555 | Yeah. | 3276.8475 |
2352 | DCB_int_01 | 3277.3563 | Um, | 3278.2003 |
2354 | | 3279.9737 | have you noticed | 3281.0299 |
2356 | | 3281.2094 | the changing in DC? Have you seen the neighborhoods change? | 3285.1585 |
2357 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3285.6216 | Yeah. | 3286.0669 |
2358 | DCB_int_01 | 3286.2671 | And what are your- | 3286.8711 |
2360 | | 3287.4372 | well some people are like, | 3288.2587 |
2361 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3288.7661 | [Don't?] | 3289.0897 |
2362 | DCB_int_01 | 3288.8938 | [Don't] feel like it's changed. | 3290.1709 |
2363 | | 3290.7932 | So, tha- I- it's always I | 3292.1372 |
2364 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3292.3016 | <ts> | 3292.3637 |
2365 | DCB_int_01 | 3292.4086 | don't wanna presume that you | 3293.5712 |
2367 | | 3293.6719 | [/do./] | 3294.0212 |
2368 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3293.7409 | [Do] know? Yeah, no it definitely has changed. I'm probably not- | 3296.7828 |
2369 | | 3297.4145 | one, I'm not very observant but | 3300.0343 |
2371 | | 3300.6418 | I mean | 3301.3390 |
2373 | | 3301.6359 | I have noticed that change. | 3303.2278 |
2375 | | 3303.7528 | Just like growing-first, kindergarten, first, second- or [f | 3304.6985 |
2377 | | 3305.6201 | /just honest/ and if- any of my friends will tell you the same thing. | 3308.1554 |
2379 | | 3308.5368 | Um, | 3309.2474 |
2381 | | 3309.3800 | <ts> my neighbor last week was like, you're not very observant, and I was like, | 3312.6591 |
2383 | | 3312.7833 | Mm. Mm-hm I tried to tell you. | 3314.0017 |
2385 | | 3314.4825 | Uh, <ts> | 3315.5388 |
2387 | | 3315.8149 | yeah so I notice that neighborhoods like where I live now Fort Totten, | 3319.6042 |
2389 | | 3322.6433 | you didn't see | 3324.0585 |
2391 | | 3324.4623 | white | 3324.8583 |
2393 | | 3325.8751 | people walking through the neighborhood the way you do now. | 3328.9415 |
2395 | | 3329.4510 | Especially- well, no. | 3330.7488 |
2397 | | 3330.8489 | Period. | 3331.2076 |
2399 | | 3331.4736 | Boom. | 3331.7015 |
2401 | | 3332.3203 | Um, and you just | 3333.2868 |
2403 | | 3333.4110 | neighborhoods that have historically f- in my experience been black, | 3336.8457 |
2405 | | 3337.6946 | you suddenly see | 3339.2385 |
2407 | | 3339.7976 | white people moving into them, | 3341.1162 |
2409 | | 3341.8376 | <ts> | 3341.8893 |
2411 | | 3342.2172 | um, like from a residential perspective like my neighborhood where I live now. | 3346.1704 |
2413 | | 3347.0126 | Uh, | 3347.8233 |
2415 | | 3349.6152 | I know down by Howard, | 3351.0085 |
2417 | | 3351.4559 | U Street in general, pretty much kind of | 3353.7892 |
2419 | | 3354.0826 | anywhere, Capitol Hill, | 3355.4150 |
2421 | | 3355.7532 | like places where you just- | 3356.6852 |
2423 | | 3357.9081 | growing up when I'm a kid you just didn't see | 3360.7039 |
2425 | | 3362.1477 | them. | 3362.7584 |
2427 | | 3362.9761 | You see them kind of like, everywhere. | 3365.8099 |
2429 | | 3365.8962 | And | 3366.4934 |
2431 | | 3367.4875 | <ts> | 3367.5323 |
2433 | | 3367.6083 | I don't mean that to be racist I just mean that like | 3370.4189 |
2435 | | 3370.5950 | you just- | 3371.3681 |
2437 | | 3372.4036 | you see f- | 3372.8810 |
2439 | | 3373.2596 | it's a different- | 3374.2796 |
2441 | | 3374.7725 | it's a different group of people. You see neighborhoods changing, you see a lot more restaurants and businesses popping up | 3381.3627 |
2443 | | 3381.4766 | where | 3381.8980 |
2445 | | 3382.3499 | they weren't before. | 3383.3939 |
2447 | | 3384.2656 | Neighborhoods where people- you know, you can walk around | 3386.8509 |
2449 | | 3387.7217 | not | 3387.9944 |
2451 | | 3388.3050 | being in fear in the night- in the darkness, um, all those things that come with gentrification so it's really different. | 3394.7883 |
2452 | DCB_int_01 | 3395.3647 | Is that [a good-] | 3395.9239 |
2453 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3395.5925 | [And it's also] hard not- huh? | 3396.8552 |
2454 | DCB_int_01 | 3397.0905 | Mm go ahead. | 3397.5519 |
2455 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3398.0131 | No I was gonna say it's also like- it's interesting y- for y- for you to hear people that don't notice that. One, just | 3402.0550 |
2457 | | 3402.3519 | from someone who's | 3402.9524 |
2459 | | 3404.0718 | like | 3404.2685 |
2461 | | 3404.7242 | self-admittedly not observant to also like | 3407.9515 |
2463 | | 3409.7153 | growing up here, you talk to anyone who grows up here you know that. I mean even | 3413.3095 |
2465 | | 3414.8765 | the w- | 3415.2578 |
2467 | | 3415.3356 | w- woman who I would claim is my cousin | 3417.6716 |
2469 | | 3418.7814 | who's not, uh, I- she lives in Fort Totten too, | 3422.3077 |
2471 | | 3422.9313 | and I used to live with her. She's now married, she married a white guy. | 3425.8962 |
2473 | | 3426.4312 | They have a baby. | 3427.1821 |
2475 | | 3427.7256 | And I mean she even talks about it, she's like, yeah the neighborhood's filling with a lot of- | 3431.6788 |
2477 | | 3431.7823 | the- DC is filling with a lot of families like mine, like a lot of blended families and white families, and | 3436.9401 |
2479 | | 3437.5373 | she grew up on Columbia and she's like, I | 3439.2631 |
2481 | | 3439.3943 | don't remember DC being like- it's just weird, people who grew up in this area | 3442.1331 |
2483 | | 3442.8987 | they talk about it so it's | 3444.4520 |
2485 | | 3444.6280 | interesting that people wouldn't notice at least like someone would | 3447.7148 |
2487 | | 3448.6467 | point it out to you. | 3449.6995 |
2488 | DCB_int_01 | 3450.1413 | I think when- when they said that to me it was more so | 3453.6216 |
2490 | | 3454.1462 | I guess maybe how they felt about it, not that they didn't notice [but] | 3457.0837 |
2491 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3456.9110 | [Oh.] | 3457.6773 |
2492 | DCB_int_01 | 3457.2873 | [they didn't] feel- like it wasn't something that affected them. | 3460.7158 |
2493 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3461.0678 | [Okay.] | 3461.6201 |
2494 | DCB_int_01 | 3461.3026 | [Personally.] | 3462.0274 |
2495 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3462.4761 | It feels like it doesn't affect me | 3464.5402 |
2497 | | 3464.7518 | personally but in my | 3465.8529 |
2499 | | 3466.0392 | pocket book because things are more expensive, so. | 3470.1157 |
2501 | | 3470.6068 | <ts> | 3470.6965 |
2503 | | 3470.9244 | I feel like that's how it affects me. | 3472.5156 |
2505 | | 3472.6502 | Um, | 3473.4289 |
2507 | | 3473.9549 | it's also like | 3474.9628 |
2509 | | 3475.4012 | I like- and maybe this is like the t- I don't know if this is the typical gentrification conversation but | 3479.8652 |
2511 | | 3481.6359 | I like | 3482.7473 |
2513 | | 3483.9840 | what- | 3484.9677 |
2515 | | 3485.3405 | I like to see some of the changes that I see in DC I like seeing new businesses, I like that | 3490.4189 |
2517 | | 3490.9298 | I feel if I go out | 3492.5624 |
2519 | | 3492.7695 | there's so many new | 3493.9327 |
2521 | | 3494.1640 | restaurants, bars, whatever that I can | 3496.7537 |
2523 | | 3497.3095 | choose to- | 3499.1285 |
2525 | | 3499.2734 | you know cause it's so much new | 3501.5998 |
2527 | | 3501.7148 | coming into DC. | 3502.9746 |
2529 | | 3503.4889 | But it's sad, I mean you grow- like, | 3504.9248 |
2531 | | 3505.0871 | okay so growing up for me I thought all cities were like DC. | 3508.8987 |
2533 | | 3509.2266 | So I thought | 3510.0213 |
2535 | | 3510.8040 | it would be- | 3511.9948 |
2537 | | 3512.5205 | I thought other cities were mostly black, I thought | 3515.6270 |
2539 | | 3515.8859 | other cities | 3516.8696 |
2541 | | 3517.2458 | were mostly black | 3518.3686 |
2543 | | 3518.5067 | professionals. | 3519.8977 |
2545 | | 3520.5190 | And not to say that doesn't exist other places but I always thought it was in- it was t- highly cult- | 3524.2502 |
2547 | | 3524.4411 | uh, concentrated like it is here and then | 3526.7211 |
2549 | | 3527.0540 | the older | 3527.8583 |
2551 | | 3528.0343 | I get and the more I travel and | 3530.5543 |
2553 | | 3530.9244 | kind of pay attention as much as I'm capable of paying attention to things | 3533.6563 |
2555 | | 3534.2449 | outside of myself, um, | 3535.7394 |
2557 | | 3535.9224 | <ts> | 3535.9845 |
2559 | | 3537.4766 | I'm like, oh it's not like this everywhere, DC is a little unique. | 3541.1078 |
2561 | | 3541.7843 | It's very unique, so | 3543.4790 |
2563 | | 3545.7340 | it's bittersweet in the fact that | 3547.5634 |
2565 | | 3547.9810 | unfortunately | 3549.1250 |
2567 | | 3549.3455 | as | 3549.9470 |
2569 | | 3550.3982 | the city changes | 3551.8962 |
2571 | | 3552.8454 | it's bringing in a lot of stuff that's good, | 3555.0407 |
2573 | | 3556.7641 | but | 3557.8401 |
2575 | | 3557.9515 | it's- | 3558.7768 |
2577 | | 3559.2286 | I- it's- it's- it's sad to think about | 3561.7424 |
2579 | | 3561.8736 | i- | 3562.0358 |
2581 | | 3562.2394 | if it continues at this rate, | 3563.8721 |
2583 | | 3564.9179 | if all the black people move out, | 3566.0777 |
2585 | | 3566.5826 | that's obviously sad that | 3568.6051 |
2587 | | 3568.9608 | we won't be here at all | 3570.0382 |
2589 | | 3570.5348 | if things continue. | 3571.5116 |
2591 | | 3571.5945 | So. | 3571.9569 |
2593 | | 3572.8036 | I would say that part is sad. | 3574.2822 |
2595 | | 3575.2508 | And you're just- it's just- it's- it's a unique experience, now that I'm older and I'm an adult and I understand it, it's a unique experience to walk around a neighborhood and | 3582.0378 |
2597 | | 3582.4312 | you see a bunch of black people who are like- | 3584.1131 |
2599 | | 3584.4308 | I don't say black people don't do well, but just so many | 3587.4308 |
2601 | | 3588.3001 | uh, | 3588.7315 |
2603 | | 3588.8351 | families that have been there for generations or | 3592.0841 |
2605 | | 3592.1704 | you know. | 3592.7304 |
2607 | | 3592.9815 | Even if they haven't been there for generations like | 3594.8075 |
2609 | | 3595.7532 | professional, it's just | 3597.5146 |
2611 | | 3597.9633 | to think of that culture leaving the city is | 3600.2483 |
2613 | | 3601.2389 | sad. | 3601.6669 |
2614 | DCB_int_01 | 3603.7320 | That was the question I was gonna ask you was your thoughts on that. | 3605.8347 |
2615 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3605.8272 | Yeah, | 3606.3001 |
2616 | | 3606.4243 | but | 3606.7563 |
2618 | | 3608.0052 | <ts> | 3608.0673 |
2620 | | 3608.6689 | I'm- I d- I do like what- | 3610.9712 |
2622 | | 3612.6211 | I do- I d- I d- I d- in some sense like it cause it is new and the neighborhoods are changing like, I don't remember there being much to do in- in Brookland. | 3620.2478 |
2624 | | 3620.9244 | Like cause I lived in Brookland too. | 3622.7814 |
2626 | | 3622.9746 | At some um, | 3623.9653 |
2628 | | 3624.1033 | <ts> | 3624.2587 |
2630 | | 3624.3622 | like w- well my mom did when I was in college so that's where I would come home to and | 3628.7814 |
2632 | | 3629.2266 | there wasn't much happening then and now like, one of my friends just moved kind of to that area and there's all kinds of stuff to do over there now. | 3635.6345 |
2634 | | 3636.4451 | So I mean in- | 3636.9593 |
2636 | | 3637.6359 | that's nice. | 3638.7335 |
2638 | | 3640.6157 | But | 3641.1886 |
2640 | | 3643.5082 | you know. | 3643.8668 |
2641 | DCB_int_01 | 3645.6112 | So the other question I have that's totally- this is not related to anything actually, | 3650.6164 |
2643 | | 3651.0762 | how did you meet /RD-NAME-3/? | 3652.2816 |
2644 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3653.2542 | <ts> | 3653.3474 |
2646 | | 3653.4372 | Law school. | 3653.8790 |
2648 | | 3654.2207 | We were [in the same] section. | 3655.0140 |
2649 | DCB_int_01 | 3654.3967 | [Mm.] | 3654.6487 |
2650 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3656.4204 | Section three, that's where | 3657.8045 |
2652 | | 3658.4983 | I feel like | 3659.2090 |
2654 | | 3659.3543 | at least | 3659.9963 |
2656 | | 3660.2897 | at Howard | 3661.0397 |
2658 | | 3661.4633 | for my class, I can't speak for other classes, | 3663.3972 |
2660 | | 3663.9184 | you- | 3664.5190 |
2662 | | 3665.2128 | I uh, most- | 3665.9825 |
2664 | | 3666.3173 | most people seem to kind of- you make that foundation | 3668.8819 |
2666 | | 3669.3006 | with the people cause l- | 3670.2187 |
2668 | | 3670.8366 | law school can take a lot of your spirit and soul and | 3674.1046 |
2670 | | 3674.7276 | you really come to rely heavily | 3677.2526 |
2672 | | 3677.8790 | on | 3678.7710 |
2674 | | 3679.9948 | the- | 3680.1157 |
2676 | | 3680.3824 | the friends that you make especially early on cause it's just- it demands so much of you. | 3684.2276 |
2677 | DCB_int_01 | 3684.2587 | Right. | 3684.5451 |
2678 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3685.4115 | And | 3686.8992 |
2680 | | 3687.5077 | so you- | 3688.2864 |
2682 | | 3688.4431 | the- lot of people I noticed in our class | 3690.9214 |
2684 | | 3691.1595 | y- the people that they made friends with early on are the people that they remain closest to | 3695.7375 |
2686 | | 3696.0516 | throughout the three years so he was in that group of people | 3698.8888 |
2688 | | 3699.5111 | in my section | 3700.4605 |
2690 | | 3700.8055 | that | 3701.1149 |
2692 | | 3701.8341 | we've just all been really close | 3703.2700 |
2694 | | 3703.7291 | since then. | 3704.3051 |
2695 | DCB_int_01 | 3707.3716 | What's your favorite book or movie and why? | 3709.6518 |
2696 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3712.7399 | <ts> | 3712.8504 |
2698 | | 3713.4510 | So I'm a | 3714.2069 |
2700 | | 3714.6176 | little- I would call my- I guess I would say I'm a film buff so this is hard. | 3718.1931 |
2702 | | 3721.8844 | <ts> | 3721.9638 |
2704 | | 3722.2133 | I don't know. | 3723.0373 |
2706 | | 3724.4258 | I hate that question actually, that's like my least favorite question. | 3726.8489 |
2708 | | 3727.2355 | Um, | 3727.9569 |
2710 | | 3728.0787 | cause I really don't, I mean- | 3729.3188 |
2711 | DCB_int_01 | 3731.9169 | Maybe your last one then, let's say what's the last one you watched and | 3735.0831 |
2712 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3735.0866 | <ts> | 3735.1901 |
2713 | DCB_int_01 | 3735.7631 | tell me a [little bit about it.] | 3736.7744 |
2714 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3736.1670 | [Okay there let's-] that's a lot easier to [do, so] I r- <laugh> | 3739.5560 |
2715 | DCB_int_01 | 3737.8893 | [Mm-hm.] | 3738.2200 |
2716 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3740.3824 | <laugh> I would say uh, | 3742.3552 |
2718 | | 3743.0057 | I really like Birdman which won the last | 3745.5220 |
2720 | | 3746.0545 | Oscars, I just thought it was different and | 3749.5959 |
2722 | | 3750.5451 | unique | 3751.7498 |
2724 | | 3751.8129 | in telling a story, I also liked that it was kind of a parody on the people who were in it too. | 3755.8209 |
2726 | | 3755.9204 | <ts> | 3756.0205 |
2728 | | 3756.4347 | Like I feel like Michael Keaton kind of played himself, I feel like what's his face who's name is escaping me kind of played himself, the other main guy in it, he's from Colu- he's from here, he's from Columbia. | 3764.5747 |
2730 | | 3765.4973 | What is your name? | 3766.3360 |
2732 | | 3767.1990 | Dude who was in- | 3768.4174 |
2734 | | 3769.4840 | oh my god. | 3770.2907 |
2736 | | 3771.6527 | For some reason his name isn't here, it has left, but I- th- he- I felt like he was kind of playing himself so I'd say that was the last movie that I really liked that I've seen. | 3779.4505 |
2738 | | 3780.4347 | I mean I really liked Straight Outta Compton too and | 3782.3307 |
2740 | | 3782.5412 | it's not a favorite. | 3783.2506 |
2742 | | 3783.6803 | It's not a favorite but that was one of the- I'm thinking of /one of-/ some of the last movies I saw. | 3787.0699 |
2743 | DCB_int_01 | 3787.2148 | Is it good? | 3787.6635 |
2744 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3787.3080 | [I like] that one. I liked it. | 3788.3928 |
2745 | | 3788.6172 | I thought it was good. | 3789.1785 |
2747 | | 3789.4041 | It was b- | 3789.7615 |
2749 | | 3790.2049 | It exceeded my expectations. | 3792.4589 |
2750 | DCB_int_01 | 3792.6452 | I've been wanting to see it. | 3793.5468 |
2751 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3793.6980 | Yeah it's- I thought it was worth it. | 3795.3040 |
2753 | | 3795.5940 | Felt like, you know. | 3796.3900 |
2755 | | 3796.9746 | T- it gave me- I feel like that was a- | 3798.7005 |
2757 | | 3800.1260 | that w- w- I feel like N.W.A. was | 3803.1093 |
2759 | | 3803.4234 | the generation before me, I didn't grow up on them. | 3806.1460 |
2760 | DCB_int_01 | 3806.1857 | Mm-hm. | 3806.7310 |
2761 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3807.0037 | So it was interesti- but you know who they are. | 3809.6357 |
2762 | DCB_int_01 | 3809.9722 | Yup. | 3810.2138 |
2763 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3810.6349 | So it was interesting seeing that story cause I didn't know it. | 3813.9625 |
2764 | DCB_int_01 | 3814.3464 | Mm. | 3814.6998 |
2766 | | 3815.1196 | Have you seen War Room? | 3816.0349 |
2767 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3817.7015 | No, which one is that? | 3818.7370 |
2768 | DCB_int_01 | 3819.0624 | That's like the- | 3820.0013 |
2770 | | 3820.6916 | think it's like a Christian movie like | 3822.9317 |
2772 | | 3823.5427 | they- | 3823.8064 |
2774 | | 3824.4894 | something about prayer | 3825.6321 |
2776 | | 3825.8874 | and like testimony like they have this whole | 3828.2986 |
2778 | | 3828.9283 | situation like | 3830.0190 |
2780 | | 3830.1650 | their marriage is on the rocks or something, I haven't seen it. | 3832.1966 |
2781 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3832.2809 | Who's they? | 3832.8469 |
2782 | DCB_int_01 | 3833.6926 | Some couple in the mo- I don't know- I don't- it's not [like a well] known- | 3836.7621 |
2783 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3835.6393 | [Oh.] | 3836.1513 |
2785 | | 3836.6724 | [Okay] yeah [no I have not seen] that one. | 3838.5671 |
2786 | DCB_int_01 | 3837.2764 | [They're like- they're kind of-] | 3837.9806 |
2787 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3838.7641 | I've gotten away from going to the movies the way I used to and I told myself I was gonna get back into it. | 3843.5457 |
2789 | | 3844.4776 | Um, | 3845.0376 |
2791 | | 3845.3233 | <ts> | 3845.4026 |
2793 | | 3845.5304 | but yeah. | 3845.9917 |
2794 | DCB_int_01 | 3846.7074 | So, | 3847.2182 |
2796 | | 3847.5082 | <clears throat> | 3847.8495 |
2798 | | 3848.0373 | last two couple of things before- | 3850.2049 |
2800 | | 3850.5604 | Um, | 3851.1724 |
2802 | | 3852.0032 | unique to DC- | 3853.0940 |
2804 | | 3853.2873 | there are a few things that are unique to DC. | 3855.1349 |
2805 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3855.1315 | Mm-hm. | 3855.6261 |
2806 | DCB_int_01 | 3856.6157 | Go go music. | 3857.5117 |
2808 | | 3859.0353 | Do you have any feeling? Can you talk about it? Do you have any experiences with it? | 3863.0264 |
2809 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3863.2577 | Yeah. | 3863.6537 |
2811 | | 3864.5244 | Um, | 3865.3671 |
2813 | | 3865.6531 | <ts> | 3865.6980 |
2815 | | 3866.3963 | so, | 3867.7942 |
2817 | | 3868.7123 | that was one good thing was /RD-SCHOOL-2/ had a go go for homecoming every year. | 3873.0675 |
2819 | | 3873.6527 | And Junk Yard would come. | 3874.9091 |
2821 | | 3875.0161 | So- | 3875.6995 |
2823 | | 3876.7108 | You're not from DC, right? | 3877.7532 |
2824 | DCB_int_01 | 3877.6707 | N- but I know Junk Yard. | 3878.8150 |
2825 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 3878.9520 | Okay. | 3879.3351 |
2827 | | 3879.6354 | So, | 3880.3326 |
2829 | | 3880.6088 | <creak> growing up in- /?/ going to high school in DC. | 3883.5845 |
2831 | | 3884.8760 | I don't- I don't- still don't know why | 3887.1507 |
2833 | | 3887.3095 | this ha- I like- I literally to this day I would love for someone to tell me why. | 3891.2638 |
2835 | | 3891.6768 | But | 3892.1601 |
2837 | | 3893.2922 | schools like /RD-SCHOOL-2/, | 3894.5866 |
2839 | | 3895.0698 | there was one at I wanna say Sidwell, | 3898.3958 |
2841 | | 3899.2784 | there might have been one at NCS, I know what- | 3901.2389 |
2843 | | 3901.3666 | ugh, /give-/ <sigh> | 3902.6106 |
2845 | | 3903.4801 | What did- Holton I feel like had one, if not Holton then maybe it's Brother's School but all of these | 3908.1418 |
2847 | | 3908.6541 | mostly white affluent schools, at least when- you know, | 3912.1827 |
2849 | | 3913.2665 | the late nineties, | 3914.5506 |
2851 | | 3915.2523 | they would have- they would host go gos. | 3917.7409 |
2853 | | 3918.1551 | So, yeah. | 3919.3770 |
2855 | | 3919.6669 | So my school was one, so every year for homecoming we had Junk Yard. | 3924.0109 |
2857 | | 3924.7384 | And then- | 3925.7843 |
2859 | | 3926.1477 | yeah, so these bands, and like the major ones, would go to these white schools and I don't know why. I- I would love for somebody to tell me why, I don't know why. | 3933.3131 |
2861 | | 3933.9012 | Um, | 3934.4425 |
2863 | | 3935.0609 | <ts> | 3935.1300 |
2865 | | 3936.2587 | and so it would- | 3937.1975 |
2867 | | 3938.8243 | it would bring | 3939.9633 |
2869 | | 3940.2740 | a | 3940.7166 |
2871 | | 3941.3405 | different dynamic | 3942.8392 |
2873 | | 3943.4805 | to the school at least for that evening which was interesting, so I would attend those. | 3947.6236 |
2875 | | 3947.9639 | <ts> | 3948.0786 |
2877 | | 3948.9961 | and one of my friends growing up | 3951.1638 |
2879 | | 3951.7429 | um, | 3952.4883 |
2881 | | 3953.0880 | <ts> who went to my middle school with me and my church, | 3955.3041 |
2883 | | 3955.8174 | he was | 3956.7837 |
2885 | | 3957.0652 | into it like, I feel like if I remember | 3960.1079 |
2887 | | 3960.6590 | he | 3961.5323 |
2889 | | 3962.3145 | would like carry drums for like Backyard or something, I mean maybe that's not true maybe I'm exaggerating, I feel like it was some band that he really kind of like knew them and | 3970.8308 |
2891 | | 3970.9733 | maybe would like, kind of help out a little bit if I remember. | 3974.1535 |
2893 | | 3974.5160 | But he was like into it so sometimes I would go with | 3977.0011 |
2895 | | 3977.6754 | him and his friends or I feel like if you- | 3979.4954 |
2897 | | 3980.6332 | feel like at that age in high school espe- like if you hear about one | 3983.9152 |
2899 | | 3984.1585 | that's at one of those high schools that I mentioned or you just hear about one period, | 3987.7945 |
2901 | | 3988.2712 | you'd go to it. I feel like the friend that I mentioned, the guy, | 3991.5625 |
2903 | | 3991.9391 | I went with him and his friends to the Black Hole | 3994.5180 |
2905 | | 3994.7926 | at least once. | 3996.1689 |
2907 | | 3997.8442 | Which was like awful. | 3999.2362 |
2909 | | 3999.5379 | But um, | 4000.4624 |
2911 | | 4001.4043 | cause it was just like- it's one thing to go to like- | 4004.8696 |
2913 | | 4006.4415 | I'm sure I sound racist and now I sound like something else but that's fine. Um, <ts> so it's different to go to the ones that were at like the schools, | 4013.7136 |
2915 | | 4014.1133 | and then to go to that, | 4015.5418 |
2917 | | 4016.2682 | where | 4016.8095 |
2919 | | 4018.4937 | you know, | 4019.1712 |
2921 | | 4019.4425 | I got separated from them at one point which was a mistake cause I was like, I wanna go to the front, and it was just- it was just bad, you know it was just- it was different. But it w- it was alright, it was fun. | 4026.7285 |
2923 | | 4027.5766 | Yet bad. | 4028.1392 |
2925 | | 4028.8184 | Um, | 4029.4301 |
2927 | | 4029.9237 | so yeah I- I- I attended. | 4031.4321 |
2929 | | 4032.2211 | And then in college when I would come home, | 4034.0979 |
2931 | | 4034.8845 | um, | 4035.5205 |
2933 | | 4036.2469 | <ts> | 4036.3234 |
2935 | | 4036.8273 | my mostly non-high school friends would- | 4040.7802 |
2937 | | 4041.8959 | I mean I guess the black kids who went to /RD-SCHOOL-2/ would go too. | 4044.7036 |
2939 | | 4045.4653 | Yeah, I feel like- | 4046.2907 |
2941 | | 4048.4346 | yeah. | 4048.7891 |
2943 | | 4048.9386 | I went. | 4049.3174 |
2945 | | 4049.7484 | I was there. | 4050.3550 |
2947 | | 4050.5652 | Wasn't as into it as my friend who was like, carrying equipment. | 4053.9306 |
2949 | | 4054.6501 | And I wasn't into it like I wasn't going to the mall to buy the tapes. | 4058.2474 |
2951 | | 4058.8427 | But I would enjoy it when it was on the radio, | 4060.5736 |
2953 | | 4060.8760 | and I would attend them | 4062.5825 |
2955 | | 4063.5140 | when I would hear about them. | 4064.5719 |
2957 | | 4065.4892 | Um, | 4066.1452 |
2959 | | 4067.0150 | and that was something that I feel like growing up I didn't even realize that was unique to DC until | 4070.7281 |
2961 | | 4071.0756 | you meet kids who like | 4072.0356 |
2963 | | 4072.4763 | didn't really grow up here and | 4074.2286 |
2965 | | 4074.3879 | then they'd be like- | 4075.0865 |
2967 | | 4075.2047 | oh especially when I went to college, | 4076.5219 |
2969 | | 4076.9053 | I'd bring my f- | 4077.3606 |
2971 | | 4077.4718 | like, one of my friends who from college bring her home and she would come home and visit with me and she'd be like, what is this? | 4083.8478 |
2973 | | 4084.4450 | She didn't say, what is this she knew what it was cause she had family here but she would be like, every time I hear this I don't get it. | 4088.6957 |
2975 | | 4088.9853 | And I'm like, | 4089.9132 |
2977 | | 4090.0523 | what do you mean you don't get it? | 4090.9136 |
2979 | | 4091.1540 | It's music. | 4091.9034 |
2981 | | 4092.5478 | I didn't realize how unique it was until like I'm a little older. | 4095.2057 |
2983 | | 4096.1635 | But yeah. | 4096.5889 |
2985 | | 4096.9212 | It's still fun when it comes on the radio it's like nostalgic. | 4099.6261 |
2986 | DCB_int_01 | 4101.3467 | What about mumbo sauce? | 4102.5880 |
2987 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 4104.4157 | <ts> | 4104.5026 |
2989 | | 4105.2568 | I mean I've eaten it. | 4107.0061 |
2991 | | 4108.5006 | It's- | 4109.2220 |
2993 | | 4110.7528 | I mean it's something that I feel like you get on your fried chicken when I would | 4114.5423 |
2995 | | 4114.8273 | you know, uh- | 4115.3244 |
2997 | | 4115.4703 | go to carry outs and whatnot growing up. | 4117.6600 |
2999 | | 4117.9033 | Um, | 4118.6401 |
3001 | | 4119.6004 | <ts> something else I didn't really realize was unique to DC until I got older. | 4123.4896 |
3003 | | 4124.2404 | It's tasty. | 4125.2018 |
3005 | | 4126.4659 | <ts> | 4126.6223 |
3006 | DCB_int_01 | 4127.9291 | Describe it. | 4128.5718 |
3007 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 4129.3506 | It's | 4130.1709 |
3009 | | 4131.6804 | red in color, | 4132.8065 |
3011 | | 4134.3775 | sweet in taste, | 4135.6878 |
3013 | | 4137.5657 | usually some kind of uh, | 4139.4084 |
3015 | | 4140.4157 | <ts> | 4140.4783 |
3017 | | 4140.7389 | not | 4141.0483 |
3019 | | 4141.2603 | jelly but | 4142.6216 |
3021 | | 4143.0687 | almost like a sweet and sour sauce is probably the closest, uh, thing I can think of. | 4147.4619 |
3023 | | 4149.3259 | But it's just something I feel like you just- | 4151.1819 |
3025 | | 4151.7171 | it's just one of those cultural things to DC that you just grow up with that you don't even think about. | 4156.3442 |
3026 | DCB_int_01 | 4157.8492 | It's very much unique to DC. | 4159.3854 |
3027 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 4159.4271 | Yeah I didn't know that. | 4160.3482 |
3028 | DCB_int_01 | 4160.4778 | I didn't- well I | 4161.4823 |
3030 | | 4161.6039 | knew [because I didn't know what] it was. | 4163.3383 |
3031 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 4162.1183 | [Yeah.] | 4162.5770 |
3032 | DCB_int_01 | 4164.5825 | What about the carry out? | 4165.7921 |
3033 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 4167.9306 | <ts> | 4168.0140 |
3035 | | 4169.0567 | Um, | 4170.4296 |
3037 | | 4171.4341 | <ts> | 4171.5036 |
3039 | | 4171.6530 | I feel like | 4173.8944 |
3041 | | 4175.1297 | that's someth- there was- | 4176.9266 |
3043 | | 4177.4723 | they weren't really in my neighborhoods growing up, | 4179.9798 |
3045 | | 4180.7300 | but there was one across the street from my dance class, which is why I've always been fat and- | 4187.5781 |
3047 | | 4188.2489 | I shouldn't say that cause I didn't go that often but | 4190.1275 |
3049 | | 4190.4118 | you know, that's one of the reasons. | 4191.7985 |
3051 | | 4192.1461 | There was one near my church although my dance school and my church were kind of in the same neighborhood. | 4195.8225 |
3053 | | 4196.5404 | Um, | 4197.2844 |
3055 | | 4198.3581 | I remember one of my friends got robbed and I laughed at her, | 4201.6904 |
3057 | | 4202.5393 | um- | 4203.4046 |
3059 | | 4203.8368 | <ts> | 4203.8993 |
3061 | | 4204.7057 | It's not funny I just didn't really like her, but she- she got robbed. | 4208.2369 |
3063 | | 4208.9713 | Like, he didn't have a gun, he pretended to have a gun and robbed her and she was- | 4213.1715 |
3065 | | 4213.5244 | and she should have been traumatized, | 4216.0523 |
3067 | | 4216.6153 | but a bunch of us, you know, when you're young and you're mean, | 4219.9500 |
3069 | | 4220.7628 | we chuckled, not to her face. | 4222.3790 |
3071 | | 4222.9629 | Um, | 4223.7310 |
3073 | | 4224.0299 | so that's just one of the memories that I have when I think of carry outs, but I mean | 4227.9445 |
3075 | | 4228.9664 | <ts> I try not to go that often, they're not very healthy. | 4231.4739 |
3077 | | 4232.0527 | I feel like when I got older and I moved back to DC there are things that are open | 4235.3209 |
3079 | | 4236.0195 | very late at night | 4237.2151 |
3081 | | 4237.3924 | after | 4238.1952 |
3083 | | 4238.3064 | clubs and whatnot when you're inebriated. | 4240.5180 |
3085 | | 4241.0672 | I hope that doesn't make it to the final cut of this uh, video but that's | 4244.7548 |
3087 | | 4245.1034 | I feel like their | 4245.9132 |
3089 | | 4246.1009 | purpose | 4246.8263 |
3091 | | 4246.9594 | primarily in my life where | 4248.9718 |
3093 | | 4250.3318 | I would attend randomly like growing up and | 4254.1168 |
3095 | | 4254.9718 | very often | 4256.3343 |
3097 | | 4256.5786 | at three AM after being at somebody's party. | 4259.5690 |
3098 | DCB_int_01 | 4260.9961 | Okay. | 4261.5081 |
3100 | | 4261.7757 | Can you describe a carry- like, do you go in? Do you order? Do you | 4265.1984 |
3102 | | 4266.4539 | sit and eat there? Well not at three in the morning, I don't know. | 4268.6714 |
3103 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 4268.8567 | No. | 4269.2606 |
3105 | | 4269.8611 | N- no all of the above. Like I feel like | 4272.2079 |
3107 | | 4276.8412 | <ts> I feel like I've probably eaten at them maybe when I was in high school but | 4280.3968 |
3109 | | 4281.5205 | I feel like when I was older and I would go, you go, you order your meal, | 4285.7152 |
3111 | | 4286.8810 | there are a bunch of | 4287.9967 |
3113 | | 4289.0776 | graphics on the wall, pictures of the food. | 4291.7538 |
3115 | | 4292.8601 | A lot of times you would l- say, I'd like number eleven, | 4295.3313 |
3117 | | 4298.0492 | or you say, I would like the three wings, | 4300.5959 |
3119 | | 4301.5503 | mumbo sauce, | 4303.1129 |
3121 | | 4303.6530 | fries with ketchup, | 4304.9018 |
3123 | | 4305.0096 | whichever is your- you know, | 4306.7683 |
3125 | | 4308.4991 | tickles your fancy, and I would usually take it and go eat it at home. | 4312.5354 |
3127 | | 4314.3219 | Uh, | 4315.0472 |
3129 | | 4316.8740 | plus I feel like here a lot of the carry outs are also like Chinese food places | 4320.3655 |
3131 | | 4321.0587 | too, so it's | 4322.1049 |
3133 | | 4322.5056 | I feel like you can get Chinese food | 4323.8507 |
3135 | | 4324.2400 | or wings, | 4325.1333 |
3137 | | 4325.4703 | or pizza, | 4326.3601 |
3139 | | 4326.7146 | or subs and I don't know if that's unique to DC, | 4329.0466 |
3141 | | 4329.3467 | but that's kind of like how I envision it. | 4331.8596 |
3142 | DCB_int_01 | 4333.0761 | [It is.] | 4333.6505 |
3143 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 4333.5731 | [Yeah.] | 4334.0144 |
3144 | DCB_int_01 | 4333.9067 | Mm-hm. | 4334.1800 |
3145 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 4334.2137 | [Okay.] | 4334.6590 |
3146 | DCB_int_01 | 4334.6724 | It's your one stop shop. | 4335.7777 |
3147 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 4335.7638 | It is a one [stop shop.] | 4337.2409 |
3148 | DCB_int_01 | 4336.5180 | [It's like Walmart of] | 4337.4773 |
3149 | | 4337.9673 | food. | 4338.3636 |
3150 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 4338.7111 | <ts> I've never ordered a pizza from one of those places though cause | 4341.9723 |
3152 | | 4342.3686 | it's not some- yeah, I would think that's not their specialty. | 4345.1510 |
3154 | | 4345.4097 | <ts> | 4345.5140 |
3155 | DCB_int_01 | 4345.5175 | Um, | 4346.0666 |
3157 | | 4346.2832 | if you could leave one piece of advice, what would it be? | 4348.5859 |
3159 | | 4349.9882 | To- | 4350.9495 |
3161 | | 4352.5706 | to anybody. | 4353.1208 |
3163 | | 4354.5006 | Young people. | 4355.1300 |
3164 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 4357.7816 | [Mm.] | 4359.8576 |
3165 | DCB_int_01 | 4357.8685 | [Old people.] | 4358.4179 |
3166 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 4359.9862 | I would | 4360.4763 |
3168 | | 4360.5945 | think that I probably wouldn't have much advice for an old person. | 4363.7191 |
3170 | | 4363.9241 | <ts> | 4364.0284 |
3172 | | 4364.5810 | [But-] | 4365.4098 |
3173 | DCB_int_01 | 4365.1208 | [You never] know. | 4365.7915 |
3174 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_01 | 4365.8889 | Mm, it's true. I don't know. | 4368.0383 |
3176 | | 4369.0795 | Uh, | 4370.0979 |
3178 | | 4372.9177 | I don't know, maybe | 4374.6526 |
3180 | | 4377.5135 | for me, | 4378.6002 |
3182 | | 4379.6650 | I guess one piece of advice is- | 4382.4303 |
3184 | | 4383.0617 | Okay. | 4383.4545 |
3186 | | 4383.7881 | I guess from someone who | 4385.1655 |
3188 | | 4385.9187 | has grown up with education being such a central part of | 4390.1218 |
3190 | | 4390.9073 | my life with parents who were involved in education and | 4395.1033 |
3192 | | 4397.1262 | have had a- have had a lot of it is, uh, | 4400.0929 |
3194 | | 4401.9758 | you don't have to- | 4403.1471 |
3196 | | 4403.9152 | especially in today's day in age, you don't have to think of that- you don't have to think of going that traditional | 4408.9118 |
3198 | | 4409.5781 | path. | 4410.3888 |
3200 | | 4410.4539 | Think about what you want, | 4411.9113 |
3202 | | 4412.6168 | and if there's an alternative route to- maybe I shouldn't say that in a university study but | 4416.9058 |
3204 | | 4417.1769 | listen, you guys take a lot of our money, okay? | 4418.9008 |
3206 | | 4419.5066 | Um, | 4420.2866 |
3208 | | 4420.4381 | <ts> | 4420.5111 |
3210 | | 4420.8412 | if there's | 4421.3869 |
3212 | | 4421.5294 | another | 4422.4361 |
3214 | | 4423.1595 | way to get there, | 4424.6928 |
3216 | | 4425.1625 | don't be afraid to think of that. | 4427.2212 |
3218 | | 4428.7911 | Save you some coins. | 4430.2335 |
3220 | | 4431.1868 | Um, | 4431.7846 |
3222 | | 4433.3800 | So that- that probably'd be the advice I'd give, think about what you really wanna do, | 4436.5671 |
3224 | | 4437.2424 | and go after that, and if it's not a traditional | 4440.6659 |
3226 | | 4440.9857 | route, | 4441.6964 |
3228 | | 4442.2960 | don't be | 4443.1451 |
3230 | | 4443.2529 | afraid of that. | 4444.3964 |