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1DCB_int_010.3310And where were you born?1.4254
2DCB_se3_ag3_f_012.3292Uh, what was the name of that hospital?4.8503
4 7.4688<ts>7.5528 
6 7.6809Washington Hospital Center.8.7968 
7DCB_int_0113.0354And13.7009
9 13.9250what neighborhood did you grow up in or that you claim is your neighborhood?16.7223 
10DCB_se3_ag3_f_0118.0869Mm.18.8313
12 19.6769Well I don't know, only cause21.2736 
14 21.9819ti-22.2501 
16 22.4502there's like a bunch. But I- I would say24.5271 
18 24.6284mostly Northeast Washington at this point but that's not where I grew up.29.9268 
19DCB_int_0130.1950Okay [so let's] talk about that part.31.7576
20DCB_se3_ag3_f_0130.5751[I-]30.8793
21 32.3772Well like,33.0135
23 33.4057until I was ten I grew up in Adelphi, Maryland, sorry [I kicked you.] And then uh,37.7244 
24DCB_int_0136.3390[Mm-hm.]36.7872
25DCB_se3_ag3_f_0138.8134after that Hyattsville, which is really close, so41.7377
27 42.5684primarily Prince George's County44.5373 
29 44.6013until high school.45.9704 
30DCB_int_0148.9245And then did you come into the District at that point?50.9255
31DCB_se3_ag3_f_0151.0815Yeah uh,52.4342
33 52.7743s- what is the name of that-54.0189 
35 54.2110I don't know what the name of that neighborhood is.55.5796 
37 56.3012It was basically sixteenth street Northwest and Underwood, it was my grandma's house, so.63.3766 
39 64.5382It's kind of near Gold Coast, near um <ts> where Walter Reed67.9570 
41 68.3212was.69.1135 
42DCB_int_0173.1394And where did you go to school?73.9530
43DCB_se3_ag3_f_0174.7054Uh, for middle, high, elementary, all of the [above?]79.8570
44DCB_int_0179.5768[Whatever] you'd like to tell [me.]80.7254
45DCB_se3_ag3_f_0180.6373[Oh], okay.81.2536
46 81.7138Elementary school, well, /RD-SCHOOL-7/,85.3035
48 86.0290which was PG County.88.7423 
50 89.3666Then /RD-SCHOOL-7/,91.1314 
52 92.0290these are all small and private, FYI.94.3141 
54 94.7983Um, also in PG County.97.0514 
56 98.2171Then /RD-SCHOOL-3/,100.3756 
58 101.2145just DC.102.3075 
60 102.5877<ts>102.6997 
62 103.3800And undergrad, /RD-SCHOOL-3/,107.2067 
64 108.2755law school, /RD-SCHOOL-2/.109.7266 
65DCB_int_01112.8416And what's your current occupation?114.1376
66DCB_se3_ag3_f_01115.1719<ts>115.2560
68 115.7162Team lead116.9295 
70 117.6531um,118.6734 
72 118.8108on a document review project.121.6201 
73DCB_int_01126.9478And is that under like,128.1724
75 128.5086law?129.0848 
77 129.2449I'm assuming [since you went to law school.]130.9657 
78DCB_se3_ag3_f_01129.7691[<laugh> Yeah] yeah it's- [it's- it's] a l- it's a law [job.]133.1479
79DCB_int_01131.4111[<laugh>]131.8245
81 132.9358[Okay.]133.4372 
82 134.7767Um, what about your parents, where were they born?136.6015
83DCB_se3_ag3_f_01137.2898My dad was born in Rochester, New York but140.9539
85 141.8892he lived- he moved- his family moved here145.7285 
87 147.0448when he was maybe ten I think, so he spent most149.8661 
89 150.0754of his151.1639 
91 151.8843youth in DC.153.2809 
93 154.2294My mom was born in156.1925 
95 156.3556Baltimore, Maryland.157.8236 
97 158.5366Then159.4410 
99 160.2454in high school moved to Parkersburg, West Virginia where part of her family's from until undergrad.166.7192 
101 167.9354Well,168.2075 
103 168.2795through undergrad and then she moved into the area as an adult and has been in DC171.9475 
105 172.4174since then.173.0241 
106DCB_int_01174.0354And what did your parents do? Or what do they do?175.6442
107DCB_se3_ag3_f_01176.7567They- my dad,179.4935
109 180.3235he181.3400 
111 181.8923origin- he started as a teacher, he went to /RD-SCHOOL-3/ too for grad school.185.0697 
113 185.5272So he was- he taught187.5081 
115 187.5801then he was190.0813 
117 190.2534in DC on the radio for some years193.1559 
119 193.3280on /RD-WORK-3/.194.3045 
121 195.1128And then he went back to teaching and is now a high school administrator.198.9132 
123 199.8963And my mom201.8412 
125 203.0470she's always been administration,205.6322 
127 205.7522and /RD-SCHOOL-5/ for like208.0333 
129 208.1053thirty years and now she's209.6773 
131 209.8713at-210.6037 
133 212.2124well,212.6538 
135 212.8247yeah,213.2409 
137 213.3810so.213.7143 
139 213.9252No, she's still at /RD-SCHOOL-2/, so.215.1228 
140DCB_int_01215.4070[Still at] /RD-SCHOOL-2/.216.0536
141DCB_se3_ag3_f_01215.4430[Yeah.]215.7030
142DCB_int_01218.4576So I'm gonna put all my papers away.221.2149
143DCB_se3_ag3_f_01221.2069Does that part have to be on the website or whatever you guys are doing?224.8218
144DCB_int_01224.8978No no no no no no [no.]226.0765
145DCB_se3_ag3_f_01225.8662[Okay great.] Okay.227.0596
146DCB_int_01226.4025[No no no no no] no.227.2349
147DCB_se3_ag3_f_01227.7671Or like,228.1873
149 228.4087might be easy to229.1370 
150DCB_int_01229.2811[No, so anything] that- like I said, [anything that /idi-/]231.9901
151DCB_se3_ag3_f_01229.3091[whittle me down.]229.9053
153 231.0739[Identifying information?]232.5539 
154DCB_int_01232.2344[Yup.]232.6186
155 232.9788So like, let's say if you give a name,234.7388
157 235.0009[um],235.5609 
158DCB_se3_ag3_f_01235.0129[Mm-hm.]235.3463
159DCB_int_01235.6252we can236.0225
161 236.2295redact all that out or we just won't use that story.238.4757 
162DCB_se3_ag3_f_01238.7146Gotcha.239.1268
163DCB_int_01239.1468Yup.239.3950
165 239.5430So- and if at any point there's anything- at the end we'll also go back if you said something that you wanted taken out,244.6466 
167 244.9668we'll do that as well.245.6951 
168DCB_se3_ag3_f_01245.7191<ts> I don't s- really foresee this I just wanna make sure especially since I was talking about my parents, I was like, [oh.]250.9438
169DCB_int_01250.5666[Oh no] no no no.251.4190
170 251.4990M- [totally understand] that.252.9497
171DCB_se3_ag3_f_01251.8152[Yeah.]252.2218
172DCB_int_01253.4171Um, so let's kind of start at the beginning.255.6407
174 256.0263Um,256.5866 
176 256.7026I know you said you started out in PG. [So you were born] in DC,259.7093 
177DCB_se3_ag3_f_01258.4487[Mm-hm.]258.8929
178 259.8253[Mm-hm.]260.1815
179DCB_int_01259.9654[and] then,260.6617
180 260.8578um,261.5181
182 262.1424how were you-263.1108 
184 263.1949how did you guys get back to PG? So were your parents [living in P-]265.9315 
185DCB_se3_ag3_f_01265.3980[Oh th- they were] living in [PG County] in Adelphi.268.6007
186DCB_int_01267.1280[Okay.]267.5534
187DCB_se3_ag3_f_01268.7488I just-269.4651
189 269.5372that was the hospital.270.3638 
190DCB_int_01270.5536Oh okay, okay.271.3323
192 271.6354So tell me about your neighborhood growing up, what you remember.274.5514 
194 274.7328In Adelphi.275.4101 
195DCB_se3_ag3_f_01275.5932Uh, we lived277.1572
197 277.2992t- in Adelphi until I was nine, I mighta said ten before, but nine.281.9453 
199 282.5536And it was a really busy street, it's- it's on /RD-ADDRESS-1/ Road, the house.288.1643 
201 288.8378So,289.6193 
203 290.2877I don't really remember th- I mean I remember the house.292.5727 
205 293.0009There wasn't much neighborhood wise like,295.4806 
207 296.4637I'm-297.3802 
209 298.0245have a brother but he's so much older than me, I was raised as an only child.301.4930 
211 301.7674So302.6678 
213 303.5602I wasn't- and I was- you know, until I was nine so I wasn't- it was busy so I wasn't308.0115 
215 308.1396running the neighborhood and like hanging out with neighbors or other kids it was- if I'm home I was in the house.314.6638 
217 315.2521Um, <ts>316.1405 
219 317.1810so in term- so there's really318.8030 
221 318.8830unfortunately not that much neighborhood I can give you. Now when322.5167 
223 322.9929my parents separated and my mom and I moved to uh, Hyattsville,328.3072 
225 328.6888that was a quiet neighborhood, there were lots of kids, bike riding,333.4882 
227 334.2966tag, that kind of stuff, so.336.1935 
229 336.7857Um,337.3712 
231 337.4513but that was Hyattsville and that was when I was in like fourth grade,341.0769 
233 341.2530[so.]341.6904 
234DCB_int_01341.2530[Okay so] let's Hyattsville then, [we don't have] to-343.5541
235DCB_se3_ag3_f_01342.7337[Okay.]343.2444
236DCB_int_01343.6554there's no [need-]344.4877
237DCB_se3_ag3_f_01344.3837[There] wa- yeah I was like, there's not really much to give you there.346.4767
238 346.6407Um, <ts>347.5372
240 348.2455uh, Hyattsville what I remember was mostly-351.5282 
242 352.1325it was all- it was a black neighborhood, black kids,355.9675 
244 356.1316um, <ts>357.0440 
246 358.1445I'm358.4447 
248 358.7488trying to figure out what359.4651 
250 359.7933you guys are looking for for me to talk about, um, I primarily- I was closest to-365.3531 
252 366.2455My main friend was368.3344 
254 368.4105a girl across the street and her family we were always at each other's houses.372.7724 
256 373.4500Um,374.4100 
258 375.4469you know, I could eat dinner at her house she could eat dinner at mine, sleepovers, normal380.2731 
260 381.7031friend, you know, stuff, neighborhood stuff. Rode bikes,385.7985 
262 386.1143so a lot of bike riding.387.5270 
264 389.4171[There was-]389.7904 
265DCB_int_01389.4171[Was that because] it was off the beaten path [or just-]392.0193
266DCB_se3_ag3_f_01391.3460[<ts> Yeah it was] off of uh, Queen's Chapel.393.9153
267DCB_int_01393.9592Mm, mm-hm.394.3885
268DCB_se3_ag3_f_01394.6435And so the neighborhood was fairly low traffic, enough where my mom felt comfortable400.7275
270 401.3090with uh, me, you know, being able to ride my bike404.3864 
272 405.0788with at least one other person.406.8276 
274 407.0329So, yeah.408.0173 
276 408.3055Maybe within like-409.5461 
278 410.1984we could kind of g- /well,/411.3464 
280 412.7916yeah I'm trying to remember, I don't remember really having much of a curfew but416.3504 
282 416.7066I've never been one of those ch- children- push boundaries, so.420.0882 
284 420.7777She never really had to worry about it.422.5345 
286 423.8031Um,425.1277 
288 425.3250yeah, we didn't go too far.427.7437 
289DCB_int_01427.7081Mm.427.9641
290DCB_se3_ag3_f_01427.9262There was a park nearby so we could go to the playground over there, ride our bikes to that.432.3135
291 432.8817But that's433.3099
293 433.6421pretty much what I remember from that.435.7831 
294DCB_int_01436.2873So you stayed there until you were fourteen?438.5025
295DCB_se3_ag3_f_01438.6977Yeah.439.1057
296DCB_int_01439.3460And so before we move on to441.2228
298 441.3829when you came into DC,443.3394 
299DCB_se3_ag3_f_01443.3090Uh-huh.443.6132
300DCB_int_01443.9693tell me about444.7760
302 445.4060um, elementary s- cause you were elementary and middle school in PG?448.4674 
303DCB_se3_ag3_f_01448.7355Yeah.449.2718
304DCB_int_01449.7052Were they450.3305
306 450.4896like,450.8177 
308 451.2499memorable years? Were they kind of just453.2873 
310 453.4389run of the mill?454.3033 
311DCB_se3_ag3_f_01455.7892Uh,457.1739
313 457.5140what I remember about459.0948 
315 459.2308school at least in elementary at /RD-SCHOOL-3/ bef-461.6880 
317 461.8052that was462.2133 
319 462.7497through third grade463.9262 
321 464.5785was that it was-466.4114 
323 466.7956I don't know too much about Montessori, what I remember being told was that it's like, a very hands-on471.4289 
325 471.6470uh,472.2724 
327 472.4674type of program so I remember not having homework.474.8417 
329 475.6901Um, <ts> that was more integrated it was-479.0037 
331 479.6132I remember there being mostly white kids.481.7598 
333 482.0263I mean that's pretty much my entire educational experience, except for /RD-SCHOOL-2/.485.0731 
335 485.4519Um,486.1414 
337 486.3415<ts>486.4535 
339 488.1223and yeah, that- so that's really what I remember from New City.490.9648 
341 491.0849I liked my491.9133 
343 492.3135third grade teacher,493.4668 
345 493.7101or first through third grade teacher.495.1028 
347 496.0272Uh, small class, I feel like in third grade it was only two of us.499.9342 
349 500.2104But we were in a classroom with other grades,502.7316 
350DCB_int_01502.7595Oh, [okay.]503.4639
351DCB_se3_ag3_f_01503.2238[So we] would do- they could504.3375
352 504.5856kind of individualize what we're doing506.8186
354 507.5190within a classroom of508.9123 
356 509.3570not that many510.2334 
358 510.4295people.510.9629 
360 511.6701Um, so fourth grade was a sh- s- kind of a weird transition cause that was a much more traditional,517.2059 
362 517.9462uh,518.5585 
364 519.3749school520.1149 
366 520.2713setting.520.9596 
368 521.0557Still really small, m- uh, I feel like in fourth grade maybe there were524.2504 
370 526.1192twenty,526.8806 
372 526.9956somewhere between twenty and thirty kids in the class.529.4300 
374 530.0943Um, it was religious,532.3954 
376 533.5371but that was the first time I'd had homework and like traditional536.8518 
378 537.6110lecture and textbook type of learning.540.9858 
380 542.0103Mixed,543.1009 
382 543.3349so it was maybe fifty-ish, fifty-ish.547.3780 
384 547.8582So that was good.549.4389 
386 551.0037<ts>551.1157 
387DCB_int_01551.5011And at the Montessori school was it- it- was it mixed or was it-554.2504
388DCB_se3_ag3_f_01554.3464Montessori I feel like was mostly white, I mean that's going back to third grade so I'm like, uh, I don't remember , I don't- I remem- I mean I feel like there were some black kids there but-562.5371
390 564.3575there were s- there were some.565.6741 
392 565.7902But I feel like it was fifty, fifty.568.2713 
394 568.6755Didn't feel like much of a transition going from570.7222 
396 570.8898elementary to middle.573.1628 
397DCB_int_01573.4269Right.573.7216
398DCB_se3_ag3_f_01573.9672There was a bigger transition going from middle to high school when I went into DC,580.1272
400 580.7795cause581.6319 
402 582.1814that was a583.1099 
404 583.7702fancier,584.7266 
406 585.0107much more co- expensive school, and it was s- six out of sixty, I was590.6946 
408 590.9907one of six out of sixty.592.1673 
409DCB_int_01593.0237Gotcha.593.3970
410DCB_se3_ag3_f_01593.4919Um,594.2374
412 596.3304well you're talking about language, okay so one thing I guess I can think of was600.2815 
414 601.0658you asked about living in Hyattsville before moving to DC,606.1494 
416 606.6576where it was a bunch of kids.607.9983 
417DCB_int_01608.0063Mm-hm.608.3463
418DCB_se3_ag3_f_01608.8827That one I felt like610.0712
420 610.3674there was a little bit of teasing about612.7497 
422 613.0378how I talk.614.0503 
424 615.0347Um,615.7748 
426 616.7435I mean nothing I- I mean I was okay.618.6369 
428 618.9738I feel like I- a- I did write my uh,621.0868 
430 621.6790/RD-SCHOOL-2/-622.1473 
432 622.3033/RD-SCHOOL-3/ uh- well my college624.3135 
434 625.4460essays on that and to be honest it was kind of playing the629.0557 
436 629.2810race card a little bit but whatever it worked out, so.631.7690 
438 631.9422<ts>632.0943 
440 632.6226Uh- [<laugh>]633.6950 
441DCB_int_01633.3949[What?] <laugh> So I wanna ask you about that,635.4519
442 635.5611but I wanna go back636.4776
444 636.9578before I ask you about638.2365 
446 639.1108about the [teasing]640.3153 
447DCB_se3_ag3_f_01639.9672[I'm gonna] own that. [Huh?]641.4799
448DCB_int_01641.2810[<laugh>]645.1588
449DCB_se3_ag3_f_01642.0574[It's anonymous. Huh? <laugh>]645.6030
450DCB_int_01646.2113How was-647.1637
452 647.3570you said your third grade teacher was your favorite,649.6501 
453DCB_se3_ag3_f_01649.7261Mm-hm.650.1448
454DCB_int_01650.3504like,650.6344
456 650.9387what-651.2694 
457DCB_se3_ag3_f_01651.4149[Why?]651.8991
458DCB_int_01651.5510[who was] it or-652.6035
459DCB_se3_ag3_f_01653.0157She was just very- she was stern but in a way that was-659.0730
461 659.4091that I respected I feel like661.9291 
463 662.8707as much as I can remember feeling that way as someone who's you know, how old are you in third grade like, nine? Eight? I feel like she669.7311 
465 670.1072demanded the most and out of me, it was671.6640 
467 671.8012hard on me but672.7097 
469 672.9418if I did well she rewarded that.674.7500 
470DCB_int_01675.0588Mm.675.3014
471DCB_se3_ag3_f_01675.4269Um, I feel like I went to678.0241
473 678.9258fourth grade prepared even though I had had a681.3789 
475 681.6070totally different682.6995 
477 684.0494kind of685.2539 
479 685.3940exper- feel like ev- a lot of the kids687.0307 
481 687.3109at my middle school had gone to689.2749 
483 689.8933that same school for third grade or691.6770 
485 691.9622prior [so they] were used to homework and things like that.694.0112 
486DCB_int_01692.5588[Mm-hm.]692.7882
487DCB_se3_ag3_f_01694.3834So I feel like I was still prepared, it wasn't a difficult transition699.1668
489 699.6950having homework and writing papers and702.1054 
491 702.5696having real projects which I just never had705.3469 
493 705.5870before that, so.706.9836 
495 707.8613Mm.708.6839 
497 709.4900<ts>709.5741 
499 709.9302That's what I remember, I remember my parents also really liked her too.712.6436 
501 713.4639Um,714.0572 
503 715.1819I don't know I guess it was two third graders she really worked with me, and uh, she's the person who taught me to read so I think it was like, you spend three years with someone [especially] at that age723.7711 
504DCB_int_01722.6029[Mm.]722.7981
505DCB_se3_ag3_f_01724.1993and they really work with you725.4819
507 726.1054um,727.0307 
509 727.3059<ts>727.5020 
511 727.8262I feel like that's probably why she was my [favorite.]729.5870 
512DCB_int_01729.1468[So you had] her all first, kindergarten, first, second- or [first, sec-]732.1915
513DCB_se3_ag3_f_01731.5691[First grade], second grade, and third grade, [yeah. Mm-hm.]734.8186
514DCB_int_01733.8862[Gotcha, okay. So] they kind of followed you along the pa- I mean [well it's a small school.]737.9395
515DCB_se3_ag3_f_01736.8636[Yeah cause I think you stayed] in your s- in that s- I feel like I stayed in that same room.740.9129
516 741.3669Cause by the time we got to third grade it was only two of us.744.2014
518 744.4856And I don't know if they were- I don't know if they were phasing out746.4825 
520 746.8387that747.1893 
522 747.3069I have no idea but I know it was only two of us750.4736 
524 751.0698by the time we got to third grade and I just remember that y-754.5915 
526 754.9048they still s- had you separate by like what757.1819 
528 757.4540I'm doing758.3504 
530 759.0267mathematically is different /from/ what these kids- group of kids is- is doing.763.1545 
532 763.6621So that's how they did it from what I remember.765.5750 
533DCB_int_01765.7831And now [going back t-]766.9276
534DCB_se3_ag3_f_01766.1513[That's taking a-] a dive768.1374
535 768.3495<laugh> in the memory bank, but that's what I remember.770.6706
536DCB_int_01771.3669Now going back to772.9956
538 773.1329the whole being teased, cause I thought it was really cute how you were describing it.777.4729 
540 778.1312Why were you teased? Or what do you feel like-780.7857 
542 781.1659when you- like, what [did you write about, yeah.]783.3749 
543DCB_se3_ag3_f_01781.9502[What do I remember? Being taught] uh,783.9272
544 784.0072that784.2205
546 784.3834I talk784.8036 
548 785.0449white.785.4022 
550 785.6492And786.8265 
552 788.4105I mean I'd grown up-789.7711 
554 790.0672so like my mom, I wouldn't say my parents,792.3625 
556 792.6256I love my dad very much but he was not the activity person, like figure out the activities for me, so.797.7720 
558 798.3375Um,799.0295 
560 799.3420my mom always made sure to801.2068 
562 801.3869try to keep me balanced between,803.8149 
564 804.8457even though I-805.4420 
566 805.9422growing up I was in these white schools that I was always involved in a black activity so growing up it was very busy like,812.0571 
568 813.4469ballet class, tap class, they were at the same dance school and it was this-817.8942 
570 818.1263it was a black uh, dance school.820.4874 
572 821.0877<ts>821.1877 
574 821.3891Uh, and uh,823.4264 
576 824.1143church was black.825.9031 
578 826.3994So I always had friends, some of 'em I still keep in touch with from way back then831.7951 
580 832.3954that were833.0740 
582 833.4051outside of school and then835.7491 
584 836.0703I'd come to school but837.1676 
586 837.5910educationally I'd grown up839.0917 
588 839.6012around these white kids, so.841.8837 
590 843.7271The English was proper, I'm not saying that845.8841 
592 846.1454blacks don't-847.1227 
594 847.3740not saying blacks can't speak properly, I'm just saying that, you know when you're young you know you're in middle school, so of course you know.853.9838 
596 854.8947And I'm a little nerdy, I'm an only child, I'm a little weird, you know like all that stuff, so it makes it859.7622 
598 860.1183pretty easy861.2909 
600 861.8151to be862.5231 
602 863.3610you know the864.2037 
604 864.8697the one to be teased, especially for how I talk, so I used that. I was like, okay well,868.8916 
606 869.0449<ts>869.1409 
608 869.4971what can I use for this uh-871.2899 
610 873.4950uh, essay?874.9350 
612 875.2850You know, cause they say you have to stand out.877.2663 
614 877.3660You know, using race I'd- you know, you- you- you're the minority in881.6439 
616 882.0053a white environment, especially by the time I was in high school, diversity, diversity, diversity, that was like all they talked about. Not all they talked about, that was a big part of it.889.5020 
618 890.0583And I was like, well I'm going to use that, and <laugh>893.7240 
620 893.8653I did.894.3015 
621DCB_int_01894.7537And you got in.895.4380
622DCB_se3_ag3_f_01895.4620<ts>895.5501
624 896.2664There we go.897.0424 
626 897.3429So,897.8991 
628 898.3073that is it.899.0340 
629DCB_int_01899.1449How- how big is the gap between you and your brother?901.4660
630DCB_se3_ag3_f_01902.6346Oh, so random story there so he's fif-906.9658
632 908.3264fifty two.909.1028 
634 909.9232And I'm910.3298 
636 910.8476thirty two.911.4171 
638 912.1814Um, my mom913.6701 
640 914.3704had him when she was in high school, and she gave him up for adoption and then we found him.917.6968 
642 918.4856Which is like a random s- random aside uh, found him in two thousand when I was in-922.7075 
644 922.8676when I was eighteen so that's what I mean by like,925.0658 
646 925.3700I have a brother926.2820 
647DCB_int_01926.6546Mm.926.9106
648DCB_se3_ag3_f_01927.1388that927.3948
650 928.0992I claim and929.2130 
652 929.6012our families are pretty close now but931.7141 
654 932.2904growing up933.2789 
656 933.4029you know, I didn't even- I knew he existed, my mother told me he existed but I didn't know him, none of us did,938.4903 
658 938.6786so.939.0307 
660 939.4589That's why I say raised as an only child like, very [much-]941.7383 
661DCB_int_01941.6252[/??/]941.9453
662DCB_se3_ag3_f_01941.9813yeah, not even like, oh I have this brother, no, like-945.1068
663DCB_int_01945.1028Cause I have a older brother, we're seven- I mean uh, yeah, we're seven years apart.948.1694
664DCB_se3_ag3_f_01948.2695[Okay.]948.7855
665DCB_int_01948.3215[But]948.5816
666 948.9858it was enough949.6701
668 949.8462of a gap that he did his own things952.1152 
670 952.4794and then952.9276 
672 953.1209he left the house and I was still in school so955.3500 
674 955.7301[it felt- but you] are like, [really only child yeah, like-]959.7608 
675DCB_se3_ag3_f_01955.7341[Oh yeah, no, yeah.]956.9787
677 957.3949[Totally separate lives, yeah.]959.7795 
678DCB_int_01960.3815[So] let's talk about family a little bit, and not necessarily963.3349
679DCB_se3_ag3_f_01960.3935[<ts>]960.7469
680DCB_int_01963.7791just your brother but like you said your families are close knit, is your f- your-966.9698
682 967.2979your core unit of family, are you close knit? Do you guys have traditions?970.8036 
683DCB_se3_ag3_f_01970.9476<ts>971.0477
685 971.3958Well the only family that975.2268 
687 976.5194I'm really close with-978.9858 
689 979.5060so my mom's family I'm not that close with.983.3598 
691 983.7572There's not too many people on that side, most of them are old, like my-987.7671 
693 987.8951like my mom- like my g- like, grandparent generation so they've pretty much died at this point.992.2824 
695 992.9947And she has a sister, half sister995.6560 
697 997.7982um,998.6835 
699 998.8627<ts>999.1148 
701 999.9071who1000.4511 
703 1000.7195I know but I'm not that close with,1003.4900 
705 1003.5901not for any real reasons just their1005.4709 
707 1005.5910lives are very different.1006.6595 
709 1006.8156Um,1007.4102 
711 1007.6119<ts>1007.6840 
713 1008.3055but the family that I'm closer to is my dad's side, and he has1012.5955 
715 1013.2290a brother,1014.0876 
717 1014.5016a wife- well,1015.4540 
719 1015.6221my1015.8462 
721 1016.3944<ts>1016.4985 
723 1017.3549my h- my- his br- my dad's brother is married.1020.2105 
725 1020.6696And they have two kids, two sons, my cousins.1023.9352 
727 1024.3153So I'm closer to them.1025.4233 
729 1026.1214<ts>1026.1894 
731 1026.4736That's like the only like blood family, I would say my m-1029.2148 
733 1029.4149my mom1030.3353 
735 1030.4114has done a very good job of kind of1032.1374 
737 1032.6937making fr- like, people from Parkersburg, West Virginia like,1035.1668 
739 1035.2588where she off and on grew up,1036.8516 
741 1037.3050she's still like super close to t-1039.5020 
743 1039.8462several of those women.1041.1828 
745 1041.6390So they're1042.1152 
747 1042.2793like, my aunts I would say in terms of like1045.5220 
749 1046.3104second family, I'm probably1047.6750 
751 1048.8796<ts> as close to them1050.4876 
753 1050.8497as1051.7111 
755 1052.5265my1052.8066 
757 1053.1148dad's people.1054.0268 
759 1054.6235Put it that way, yeah.1055.5839 
760DCB_int_011056.1534I understand that, I'm very much like the adopted family cause I don't-1060.1513
762 1060.3393I don't have anybody here, I moved here.1062.1225 
764 1062.7417Um, but I have a lot of adopted family that I'm very close- so I'm closer here than I1066.8950 
765DCB_se3_ag3_f_011067.0329Yeah.1067.4782
766DCB_int_011067.5411you know to real family who I see like1069.4820
768 1070.0263once every couple [years.]1071.8311 
769DCB_se3_ag3_f_011071.6870[Right.]1072.4394
770 1072.5795So I get to see them pretty often, my f-1074.8377
772 1075.1299brother's1075.5581 
774 1075.9382family.1076.5385 
776 1076.9907They live in Maryland.1078.7334 
778 1079.2530Uh, in terms of like the people that I'm referring to like my aunts like,1082.3570 
780 1082.6946growing up we would all take vacations together.1085.4158 
782 1086.0013They still- my mom and my aunts and they still take vacations together.1089.4731 
784 1090.0432Uh, one of their daughters like, I lived with for a whi- so it's, yeah.1095.1548 
786 1095.7391Like growing up- like even now we'll1097.5599 
788 1097.8493just out of habit say, oh my cousin, even though we're not cousins cause that's how we were like1102.7395 
790 1102.8608taught to refer to each other, so.1104.6937 
792 1105.8342Uh, yeah.1106.6266 
794 1106.7946[That's basic] background there.1108.3040 
795DCB_int_011106.7986[So l-]1107.1068
796 1108.8888So let's talk about1110.0294
798 1110.1614this1110.5696 
800 1110.7577move that you said was1112.2584 
802 1112.4185drastically different.1113.4331 
804 1113.5350<clears throat>1113.9096 
806 1113.9872Went from I guess it was1115.2838 
808 1115.5491middle school-ish when you moved to DC1117.7782 
810 1118.1103proper, when [you moved to the city.]1119.7863 
811DCB_se3_ag3_f_011118.7266[Okay.]1119.6373
813 1119.7791Yeah.1120.1924 
814DCB_int_011120.2233So1120.6275
816 1120.7715what happened- what caused y'all to move to the city, and then how was that like, the first couple years what you remember maybe school or the neighborhood.1127.9649 
817DCB_se3_ag3_f_011128.5896Uh, moving to DC, I think my mom's h- I think the house that she was renting-1134.6611
819 1135.1059So we moved into a house after my parents separated and I'm pretty sure the house that we were in1139.0285 
821 1139.2690uh, the owner put up for sale.1140.5256 
823 1141.1219So we moved in with my grandmom, and she lived on Sixteenth Street, she'd had that house forever, I'm pretty sure it's the house my parents grew up in.1148.2104 
825 1148.6946My dad grew up in.1149.7399 
827 1149.9952That was the house my dad grew up in.1151.0197 
829 1151.5571Um,1152.1625 
831 1152.4335so that's why we moved to DC1153.6541 
833 1154.1623in another really busy street.1156.4994 
835 1157.1997Like, [Sixteenth, yeah.]1158.6416 
836DCB_int_011157.6212[Sixteenth Street?]1158.3598
837DCB_se3_ag3_f_011158.7137So,1159.3563
839 1160.0263it's like, right near Sixteenth and Military, to give you like a r- yeah, if you n- so,1164.0561 
841 1165.0498there again wasn't much1166.8387 
843 1166.9467neighborhood activity at that point at fourteen like if I was home, I was home. There was one of my friends from1172.9025 
845 1174.1833high school1175.1259 
847 1175.6852uh, lived right at1178.2624 
849 1178.5785Sixteenth and Military so I was over her house a lot.1181.9533 
851 1182.3775And then1183.6013 
853 1184.4345another one of my best friends- I'm still friends with these people,1187.3185 
855 1189.1579her fam- /h-/ her1190.8146 
857 1191.1388family lives in the Gold Coast area like a few blocks the other way,1194.6536 
859 1195.1459on Fourteenth, so there were at least two1198.0952 
861 1199.2770good girlfriends that I had,1201.6996 
863 1202.2454um,1202.8227 
865 1202.9267in that neighborhood but it wasn't like,1205.7520 
867 1205.8480oh, let's go meet at the- like before where it's like, oh yeah let's ride our- it's,1210.1353 
869 1210.8596I'm coming to your house and we're gonna hang out your house or we are going somewhere, like it was, you know-1216.0826 
870DCB_int_011216.3634It wasn't just hanging on the stoop.1217.6074
871DCB_se3_ag3_f_011217.7412<ts>1217.9093
873 1218.3055No.1218.7188 
875 1218.9418Absolutely not and it wasn't even like I'm walking- well, did I-1222.3874 
877 1222.7555I might've walked- did I walk to /RD-NAME-2/ house?1225.0095 
879 1226.6866I don't think so, like I remember driving those few blo- I feel like ev-1230.9898 
881 1231.4660either one of those houses involved a car.1233.3109 
883 1233.5750So,1234.5074 
885 1234.5955<laugh> whether necessary or not.1235.7760 
887 1236.1214I think I went to one1237.9226 
889 1238.6226hou- the house in the Gold Coast I think I went there once like walked because I didn't have a choice and the air conditioning in my house was broken.1245.1889 
891 1246.0032So yeah, it wasn't like a neighborhood-y1248.4518 
893 1249.4300hangout type situation.1251.3749 
895 1251.7151Which is probably not helpful for you.1253.2537 
896DCB_int_011253.7320No, [it- it-]1254.7537
897DCB_se3_ag3_f_011254.1574[Oh okay.]1254.7334
898DCB_int_011254.9378n-1255.1791
900 1255.7421Don't feel like you- I'm looking for one particular thing, it [really is about]1259.3358 
901DCB_se3_ag3_f_011258.3850<ts>1258.4290
903 1258.6835[Okay good.]1259.3542 
904DCB_int_011259.5905the [stories.]1260.4412
905DCB_se3_ag3_f_011260.2348[Okay.]1260.7471
906DCB_int_011260.8271Um,1261.3433
908 1261.4194so tell me a little bit about1263.3118 
910 1263.6416high school.1264.4350 
912 1264.6261Cause you were in high school-1265.4985 
914 1265.7906wait,1266.0347 
916 1266.2789we missed middle school.1267.2153 
917DCB_se3_ag3_f_011268.1169Middle school was when I was1269.6056
919 1269.7617in Hyattsville1270.8822 
921 1270.9983and that was a lot of bike [riding]1272.7031 
922DCB_int_011272.4309[That's] the- okay.1273.2122
923DCB_se3_ag3_f_011273.2033with a bunch of k- there were a bunch of kids in the neighborhood around my age.1276.9382
924 1277.5745And like a typical1278.9752
926 1279.5154quiet1280.1757 
928 1280.2838neighborhood-y,1281.6825 
930 1282.3940it was black,1283.1593 
932 1284.4469being teased a little for1286.2077 
934 1286.3878the way I speak which is fine.1287.8692 
936 1288.4340And then high school when I went to /RD-SCHOOL-2/, I also1292.8380 
938 1293.1094moved to Sixteenth Street1294.7662 
940 1295.4865and-1296.6611 
942 1297.0472so it wasn't bike riding and1299.1854 
944 1300.0498hanging out really in the neighborhood or anything like [that.]1302.9151 
945DCB_int_011302.6870[And how] big was /RD-SCHOOL-2/? Like-1304.3598
946DCB_se3_ag3_f_011305.2014<yawn> So /RD-SCHOOL-2/ is K through twelfth1308.5534
948 1309.4354and1310.7834 
950 1311.3375my class, which I believe was typical at least for upper school which is like high school1316.6535 
952 1317.3615sixty [kids.]1319.1322 
953DCB_int_011318.0178[Mm-hm.]1318.6245
954DCB_se3_ag3_f_011319.2744I'm not sure if the middle and l-1321.8236
956 1321.9396lower school class sizes were bigger or smaller.1324.7301 
958 1325.2944Um,1325.8851 
960 1326.2749<ts>1326.3349 
962 1326.5270and that was a school where not1328.2998 
964 1328.4811all of the kids, but I remember a large chunk and I don't remember if it was the majority or half1332.4664 
966 1333.2833or- or1333.7996 
968 1334.1757slightly less than, a lot of them had gone from at least the middle to the upper if not the lower to the middle to the upper but at least the middle.1341.6451 
970 1342.1018So there were a lot of kids who1344.3349 
972 1345.7435already knew each other by the time I got there.1347.7977 
974 1348.3460Um,1348.9060 
976 1350.7711so that was probably a big shift for me, it was a big shift for me.1355.7825 
978 1356.2749Because I was used to growing up at least at school with it being [mixed.]1360.9342 
979DCB_int_011360.8182[Mm-hm.]1361.2624
980DCB_se3_ag3_f_011361.3824And in a different1362.3069
982 1362.9872socio-economi- being surrounded by kids who were middle class like1366.8718 
984 1367.7146closer to what my parents were1370.1679 
986 1370.3330or on the same page, and then a lot of the kids there, it was mostly white and a lot of them had a lot of money.1376.4450 
988 1377.1814My parents are educated but1378.6301 
990 1379.6185they're, you know, are not writing checks for fifteen thousand dollars a year to go to anybody's high school, so.1385.3424 
992 1386.3709It was a little different. <laugh>1387.8396 
994 1388.2330And it was only six of us1389.4896 
996 1389.6136versus like, half.1390.8656 
997DCB_int_011392.2548Did you [feel like]1393.7755
998DCB_se3_ag3_f_011392.6030[If that makes sense. Ooh], sorry.1394.1390
999 1394.4879Salad in my teeth.1395.3145
1000DCB_int_011395.3735Uh-huh.1395.7762
1002 1395.9898Do you feel like1397.2904 
1004 1397.8787you had a good experience though? Did you enjoy your high school experience?1401.9098 
1006 1402.0138Or not.1402.6101 
1008 1403.0863The little side eye kind of [made me-]1404.5790 
1009DCB_se3_ag3_f_011404.3029[Uh],1405.6315
1010 1405.8328I appreciated1406.7235
1012 1407.1214it more after I left.1409.2664 
1013DCB_int_011409.3624Mm.1409.6346
1014DCB_se3_ag3_f_011409.7666I feel like I was-1411.7559
1016 1412.3690I liked-1413.3335 
1018 1413.4375when I was t-1414.2659 
1020 1414.3900that was my first choice so when I was looking at schools1417.9208 
1022 1418.5251and went to a bunch of different schools-1421.4382 
1024 1422.9031I had been at private school my whole life with the exception- I forgot there was1426.4700 
1026 1426.9743a month maybe that I was at public school, Hyattsville Middle,1430.4078 
1028 1430.4971cause that's- I was begging my mom to put me in public school and she had done some volunteer work with1434.8471 
1030 1435.4874Hyattsville Middle, so I really wanted to go, and then I got there and I was totally overwhelmed like,1440.7511 
1032 1441.2113getting lost in the- I mean this sounds terrible but it's true. Getting lost like trying to find my class.1446.1371 
1034 1446.6710Because my mom had done volunteer work they had put me in these higher level math class and I'm sitting there like I have no clue what's going on.1452.9371 
1036 1453.3353It was- I'm used to s- you know,1455.4936 
1038 1456.0818if you're stuck, like I'm used to small class sizes, people being able to work with you, I didn't have access to any of that.1460.6132 
1040 1461.1654And it was just like, okay well thank you so much for letting my have my way, can I go back? So I went right back to /RD-SCHOOL-4/.1466.2330 
1042 1466.6612That was seventh grade.1467.6136 
1044 1468.0698So at that point1469.0645 
1046 1469.6946when I went to high school I was1471.3879 
1048 1472.8173pretty much all private school and I'd had enough of my- a public school experience to know that1477.2873 
1050 1477.6795I- I-1478.2035 
1052 1478.4171I got lost, so I just said, you know let's1480.9502 
1054 1481.3144keep it to what I know.1482.1828 
1056 1482.7991And uh, I feel like I might've looked at one public school and I can't remember which one it is.1487.7198 
1058 1488.3229But it was mostly privates but1489.7315 
1060 1490.0849t- uh, /RD-SCHOOL-2/ was my top choice, I was on the waitlist.1494.0101 
1062 1494.9392I got in1496.6892 
1064 1496.8012and I l- I really was excited.1498.9022 
1066 1499.6746I liked how open the school looked, there's like bright1503.9018 
1068 1504.1059sun roof atriums, small classes, things that I had known from that1509.0574 
1070 1509.2294one1509.7457 
1072 1510.2619quick public school experience that1512.2188 
1074 1513.0152I know I like to have1514.6432 
1076 1514.7372just to be able to learn.1515.8817 
1078 1516.0098So um,1517.2824 
1080 1517.6466<ts>1517.8266 
1082 1520.0409I was excited about that, the teachers seemed nice1523.7226 
1084 1524.2108and when I started1525.9036 
1086 1526.0797I can't say they weren't nice, I just-1528.7261 
1088 1529.1223I don't think I was prepared for1531.9862 
1090 1532.9493what it was like to shift from being1535.9667 
1092 1536.1788such a minority,1537.7488 
1094 1538.3330like going from like fifty fifty,1540.5060 
1095DCB_int_011540.4700Mm.1540.7181
1096DCB_se3_ag3_f_011540.9462being around kids who you'd kind of grown up with from like1543.5634
1098 1543.6915being ten years old to like fourteen.1546.0978 
1100 1547.8707You know where1548.5133 
1102 1548.7031everyone's kind of in the same page to like1551.4375 
1104 1553.8747white, wealthier children.1556.0160 
1106 1556.5932And it wasn't that anyone was mean.1558.8102 
1108 1559.2704And then I just remember you know I'm still1561.8850 
1110 1562.4251in these activities I'm still1564.0024 
1112 1564.4540going to my church, I'm- <ts>1566.6687 
1114 1567.4834I wasn't doing dance anymore but1570.4780 
1116 1570.6941I had switched to a black swim team I feel like was like my main1574.9761 
1118 1575.7697activity1576.5821 
1120 1576.7662that point, I was terrible at that.1578.3509 
1122 1578.8671[Um, oh yeah I was t-]1580.3118 
1123DCB_int_011579.3914[<laugh>]1580.3300
1124DCB_se3_ag3_f_011580.5639that's a story. Um,1582.2899
1126 1582.7301an embarrassing one.1583.4305 
1128 1583.8827And- but I mean I still had all these friends so I was little like-1588.1171 
1130 1589.1623a little jealous I guess of1590.9472 
1132 1591.4194you know them kind of going to school and1594.5781 
1134 1595.9347being part of an experience of, you know, community and1600.7531 
1136 1601.6946you didn't really have that at /RD-SCHOOL-2/.1603.4435 
1138 1603.6075But it wasn't that it was an unpleasant atmosphere or anything like that1606.6518 
1140 1606.7702and1607.1475 
1142 1607.3704I know I got a good education, I recognized that when I was there but it was just kind of a-1611.0614 
1144 1611.4976in that sense it was kind of a drag.1613.2024 
1145DCB_int_011613.4505Hm.1613.8066
1146DCB_se3_ag3_f_011614.4149So like,1615.3469
1148 1616.9133I made friends with this one black girl,1619.0079 
1150 1621.0792and then um, that didn't really work out.1624.2139 
1152 1624.4580Um,1625.2180 
1154 1625.7466<ts>1625.8186 
1156 1625.8867she had some issues, I made friends with another one who I'm still friends with to this day so that was nice.1629.9978 
1158 1630.6141And there were a couple like, non-black kids that I am actually still friends with1635.0143 
1160 1635.6416but I just missed- I just missed being around a mixed environment.1640.0549 
1162 1640.9733Um,1641.5560 
1164 1642.1819so it wasn't anything wrong with the school, it was nothing they did it was just like1645.5594 
1166 1645.9997I'm not used to feeling1647.9796 
1168 1648.9382kind of1649.4705 
1170 1649.7626outsider-ish.1651.1232 
1171DCB_int_011651.2193Right.1651.5206
1172DCB_se3_ag3_f_011651.6355But it was cool.1652.3461
1173DCB_int_011652.7732So let me ask you two questions based on what you were just saying.1656.0824
1175 1656.5270One- the second one,1657.6555 
1177 1658.2530which I'll ask, but we can put it on the back burner.1660.4420 
1178DCB_se3_ag3_f_011660.9102[Mm-hm.]1661.2064
1179DCB_int_011661.0343[Swimming], I wanna hear about that.1662.6510
1180 1663.0952[Um-]1663.6219
1181DCB_se3_ag3_f_011663.2553[Oh yeah] cause you want stories.1664.2846
1182 1664.6332Well-1665.0654
1183DCB_int_011665.1854But just because you said it was funny.1666.7221
1184DCB_se3_ag3_f_011666.8262well,1667.4195
1186 1667.5465it wa- mm <ts> go ahead, alright.1669.8476 
1188 1670.0157We can put that [one on the back burner.]1671.5056 
1189DCB_int_011670.5011[<laugh>]1671.2415
1190 1671.6296And then the other one is church, cause I know that's a big part.1675.1393
1191DCB_se3_ag3_f_011675.1513Yeah.1675.5074
1192DCB_int_011675.5474And like you just- you've1676.6480
1194 1676.8733said over and over that that's been a big part of your1678.9863 
1196 1679.3464activities, so [what like-] what did your church mean to you1682.5199 
1197DCB_se3_ag3_f_011680.4669[Yeah.]1680.8271
1198DCB_int_011682.9213um, to your family?1684.5140
1199DCB_se3_ag3_f_011684.5340Sure.1684.9022
1201 1685.8627So I went to- well there was w-1690.8782 
1203 1691.3424When I was a kid,1692.2797 
1205 1692.7071my parents were together, it was like my grandma wanted to go to- my dad's mom1696.6101 
1207 1696.9022was a member of1698.0102 
1209 1698.3229a church1699.0469 
1211 1699.6835All Souls,1700.4319 
1213 1700.7892and I feel like that was mixed.1702.9142 
1215 1703.4665And then1704.4469 
1217 1705.2673<ts> my best girlfriend now that's how we became friends, we went to dance school together.1711.6345 
1219 1712.3290The black dance school.1713.5976 
1221 1714.1339And sleepover on a Saturday had me with her family on Sunday1719.9498 
1223 1720.5981to- at this black church, People's1723.2487 
1225 1723.4994Congregational.1724.4994 
1227 1725.4375Um,1726.0175 
1229 1726.2019and uh,1727.3824 
1231 1727.5705I just fell in love with it mainly because I feel like at1730.9572 
1233 1731.2334All Souls there weren't as many-1733.2944 
1235 1733.7786like the- the kid program it existed but it wasn't1736.5946 
1237 1738.0578that1738.3325 
1239 1738.5901big a deal.1739.2744 
1241 1739.5905And then when I went to Sunday school with my friend1743.0614 
1243 1743.4936it was just1745.1343 
1245 1747.0392a bunch of kids my age, they were engaged in what was going on so it was nice to like-1752.8385 
1247 1753.3754It felt like they had a bigger sense of- a stronger sense of community as much as I could feel that, I c- I'm sure I couldn't articulate that when I was in like third grade or whatever but I felt that.1763.1263 
1249 1763.6426And I liked it and I1765.1553 
1251 1765.5154like1765.8288 
1253 1766.1730told my mom how much I liked it and1767.9223 
1255 1768.4220she was like, alright, I'll give it a shot, and she still goes there to this day, yeah.1773.2625 
1257 1774.0418And-1774.8325 
1259 1775.2944So I'm really good friends still with1777.5034 
1261 1778.1557my friend who introduced me to the church who I went to dance school with and now m- her mother and my mother are really close now too so our families have become very close.1785.6611 
1263 1786.3300Um,1786.9823 
1265 1787.7586but I would say that that-1788.5510 
1267 1788.7831that bond was between dance and mainly church.1792.7822 
1269 1793.3784Cause all- both our families continue to attend that church1796.0797 
1271 1796.4771beyond our time at the dance school.1798.9462 
1273 1799.6986[If that makes sense.]1800.6746 
1274DCB_int_011799.7826[Are you actively] involved in church now like-1802.6678
1275DCB_se3_ag3_f_011802.6892No.1802.9945
1277 1803.5936but growing up- so to1804.9262 
1279 1805.0543t- I guess1805.5065 
1281 1806.2829talk more about that like,1807.5074 
1283 1807.9596so I liked the k- the- the youth aspect of it.1811.8106 
1285 1812.6310<ts>1812.6990 
1287 1812.8751Cause they had class every Sunday, they had a youth usher program,1817.7226 
1289 1818.0948I could tell the kids were pretty close.1820.3788 
1291 1820.9293Um,1821.5853 
1293 1821.7577<ts> I got confirmed there, I'm still friends with those people who I was confirmed with in like sixth grade.1827.9618 
1295 1828.6741It was just very1830.3909 
1297 1830.4910close knit,1831.4594 
1299 1831.5554the people there. Um,1833.3255 
1301 1835.5985it was a lot of people-1837.3594 
1303 1838.2158How do I do this? There were-1839.9298 
1305 1840.8022I hate how I sound sometimes but I'm trying to give you the real.1843.6004 
1307 1844.0449Uh, it was a lot of1845.7817 
1309 1846.5861professional1847.9027 
1311 1848.2789um, black families there.1850.4719 
1313 1851.1254So it was just very rela- it mean it was just very relatable to my life it was like a bunch of kids who were kind of in the s- a lot of them were1856.7985 
1315 1857.0814at places like Maret or uh,1859.6546 
1317 1860.0668<ts>1860.9352 
1319 1861.2113what do you call it?1861.8556 
1321 1862.0557Uh, NCS things like that, and there were also kids who were in public school so I mean you had all of that.1866.4029 
1322DCB_int_011866.3509Mm-hm.1866.6589
1323DCB_se3_ag3_f_011867.0232Just a bunch of middle class black families so that was nice.1870.4340
1325 1870.9342Um, they'd have1872.6150 
1327 1873.6847plays and you know the typical church stuff.1876.8607 
1329 1877.5625Um,1878.1468 
1331 1880.1877there was a Christmas program that1882.3731 
1333 1882.9462you know we still go to on- you know up1885.1593 
1335 1885.2713to now like, it was just that very close thing, like you knew you were gonna get the same formula every Sunday. Our family sat in the balcony, you knew what you were gonna g- like, you just always knew what you were gonna get.1896.2869 
1337 1896.9312Um, and it was- I liked that.1898.9898 
1339 1899.6616And so like, my mom became involved, I was involved up until the point where I was like, listen I'm not doing these1906.5340 
1341 1906.6621plays anymore like, I'm old.1908.0548 
1343 1908.1668Like,1908.3281 
1345 1909.1393I'm doing this.1909.9099 
1347 1910.5171I'm too old for thi- yeah I'm like,1911.7611 
1349 1912.4660fourteen and she's-1913.6420 
1351 1913.7986no I'm not do- Mom, no.1915.5280 
1353 1915.8836<laugh>1916.2276 
1355 1916.6732Like I'll still go to whatever but1918.0698 
1357 1918.5901this part of-1919.2224 
1359 1919.2864this part of the1919.8867 
1361 1920.0708chapter is-1920.7191 
1363 1920.8431is closed.1921.3954 
1365 1921.9556Um,1922.6892 
1367 1922.7652so it was like that.1923.7092 
1369 1924.0098Yeah.1924.3525 
1371 1925.4385And like so,1926.0588 
1373 1926.6830/though/ g- so, when I went to /RD-SCHOOL-2/, I still have all these [relationships] like,1931.8907 
1374DCB_int_011930.9022[Right.]1931.2595
1375DCB_se3_ag3_f_011932.5270most of- so there were two black kids who were at my middle school1937.3691
1377 1938.0387who also went to People's with me.1940.0587 
1379 1940.2850It was a guy and a girl.1941.4135 
1381 1941.8377So I maintained that friendship but most of the other kids I feel like from middle school I didn't really keep in touch with past middle school except for them who were still at my church.1950.1948 
1383 1950.7711And1951.9076 
1385 1952.6292those relationships were just really close so a lot of my1955.6932 
1387 1956.6590social weekend time throughout high school was hanging out with those people versus1963.0891 
1389 1963.3994the people that I had met at /RD-SCHOOL-2/.1965.2465 
1390DCB_int_011965.4095Right.1965.7495
1391DCB_se3_ag3_f_011966.1339Outside of like-1967.7066
1393 1969.5594yeah, kind of outside of like1971.8217 
1395 1972.1379the1972.6261 
1397 1972.7782three1973.6906 
1399 1974.0988maybe n- that's probably a lie, th- outside maybe like the f-1976.3468 
1401 1976.4971the six or seven1978.2979 
1403 1979.2064pretty much black kids1980.7591 
1405 1981.3714um,1982.0100 
1407 1982.8893not the only black kids at /RD-SCHOOL-2/ but there were about six or seven black kids at /RD-SCHOOL-2/ that I would consistently would hang out with like1989.4856 
1409 1989.9738on weekends after school.1992.1788 
1411 1993.1312And also alternatively1995.7118 
1413 1996.6501kids that I had grown up with at church.1998.6514 
1415 1999.2153[So I] always2000.4359 
1416DCB_int_011999.2433[Mm.]1999.4980
1417DCB_se3_ag3_f_012000.5199was kind of drawn to that which is w- another reason why I always felt like a little2004.7111
1419 2005.6755isolated at2006.5211 
1421 2006.6892/RD-SCHOOL-2/, which I'm sure is as much my- it's-2008.6461 
1423 2008.8662it's2009.1583 
1425 2009.7266in large part my fault.2010.9272 
1427 2012.2850I mean I could've made more of an effort but2014.0061 
1429 2014.5300you know.2014.8954 
1431 2016.1548<ts> I like what I like.2017.0335 
1432DCB_int_012018.1117So tell [me about the-]2018.9853
1433DCB_se3_ag3_f_012018.4731[I sound] racist.2019.7417
1434DCB_int_012021.2304No you don't.2022.1901
1435DCB_se3_ag3_f_012022.3309[A little bit. I sound a] little racist.2023.6675
1436DCB_int_012022.3309[You really don't.]2023.0752
1437DCB_se3_ag3_f_012023.9756And I don't even- I don't even mean like- cause I said I'm- I-2026.5661
1439 2026.6621there are other people and even in college that kind of shifted a little bit.2029.6635 
1441 2030.0997But2030.5651 
1443 2031.2254I just missed that a lot, that's what I'm used to like, that was my life. I go to a black church, I had gone to like a mixed elementary and middle2039.0345 
1445 2040.5790I ended up at this high school where it was just affluent and white and it was just- it was different, it was even different from like2047.7145 
1447 2049.7617the socio and ec- economic2051.0823 
1449 2051.5985level-2052.4199 
1451 2052.6950class level of2054.0557 
1453 2054.5611white people that I had been exposed to up in that point so it was just a little foreign to me I didn't really- yeah, it took a while for me to kind of like, adjust to that.2062.4220 
1455 2064.5550That's the best way I can explain it.2065.9316 
1457 2066.2758Hm.2066.5199 
1458DCB_int_012067.4495So-2068.2775
1459DCB_se3_ag3_f_012068.2539Hope I don't come off racist.2069.6746
1460DCB_int_012070.0027uh-2070.2829
1462 2074.3139Um,2074.9622 
1464 2075.6706so I'm gonna talk about going to /RD-SCHOOL-3/ in a moment but [let me- let's] go back to the swim te- cause I told you I was gonna [come back to it, mm-hm.]2081.9027 
1465DCB_se3_ag3_f_012078.5331[Okay.]2079.0931
1467 2080.7542[Oh yeah.]2081.9027 
1468 2081.9587No that I was just terrible at it like-2084.3440
1470 2084.8533so when I tried out for the team-2087.2506 
1472 2088.6310I've always been like an overweight child and adult.2092.8171 
1474 2093.1463So,2094.1077 
1476 2095.4234I don't really enjoy activities that make me out of breath, I never enjoyed exercise. Dance even was like, obnoxious except for tap, I liked tap I actually did well in that.2105.1743 
1478 2105.2904I got a scholarship that was exciting.2107.0912 
1480 2107.2673<ts>2107.3794 
1482 2107.8076For one2108.3558 
1484 2108.4691year.2108.7732 
1486 2109.2054Um,2109.8857 
1488 2110.7181Swimming was not like that,2111.9439 
1490 2112.1388swimming was awful.2113.1673 
1492 2113.4434So swimming was-2114.9407 
1494 2116.0458another one of my friends, I'm not really friends with her anymore but2119.2433 
1496 2119.4754um, another one of my friends who I had grown up with,2121.9451 
1498 2122.5340she was on the swim team, it was an all black team, PG County.2126.6560 
1500 2127.2294And I'm at /RD-SCHOOL-2/ at this point and2130.1948 
1502 2130.5150there's no more dance, I'm looking for something and she went from like, no lie-2135.4345 
1504 2135.6706Well how old were we? We were like fourteen, so2137.5434 
1506 2137.7475she's tall.2138.2798 
1508 2138.7052She went from over two hundred pounds to like2142.0267 
1510 2142.9151one fifty, like she had2144.5359 
1512 2144.8933went cr- she2145.8017 
1514 2146.2659metamorphosized2147.5105 
1516 2147.9587and I'm looking like,2148.8911 
1518 2149.4194that's what I'm gonna do, so, and it's a black activity, so I did that.2153.8234 
1520 2154.2749And um,2155.6995 
1522 2155.9328<ts>2156.0289 
1524 2157.2455I did lose weight but not like her.2159.1355 
1526 2159.7306And2160.8671 
1528 2161.5274I remember when I tried out2162.9238 
1530 2163.4696or they went- they wanted- not try out, they assessed me to see where I was.2167.5970 
1532 2168.0197And I got out of the pool after doing like2170.1099 
1534 2170.5260four laps or something like I almost vomited.2173.3112 
1536 2173.6755I didn't even know that s- I didn't- I had swam my whole life like, for fun, recreationally, but I didn't even know that swimming could make you out of breath until2180.5359 
1538 2180.8293that one- for that first time.2182.9892 
1540 2183.4385And I was so slow that for2186.8000 
1542 2187.3215a very long time2188.8542 
1544 2188.9783on that team I was swimming with the little kids in practice.2193.1691 
1546 2194.8142until they just said, /RD-NAME-3/ that's enough.2197.1913 
1548 2197.7315And I was like, well I don't know what you want me to do.2199.0534 
1550 2199.7577And then they gave me fins2201.9067 
1552 2202.0347which, for those who don't know, propels you.2204.8001 
1554 2205.2334And everyone else would you know, do practice without fins and2208.9151 
1556 2209.1953when I was with my age group and I would practice with fins so that I could keep up.2213.8865 
1558 2214.4549<ts>2214.5230 
1560 2215.1553And then, there would- we'd also like2217.4495 
1562 2218.3540<ts>2218.4460 
1564 2218.7381always kind of feel bad for people at a swim meet2221.6755 
1566 2222.1197where they were so slow that like, everyone else would be done and they'd get like the pity clap.2227.4450 
1568 2228.7652See I just feel like the whole set up was wrong like maybe I just shouldn't have done it because2233.0491 
1570 2234.3438the fact that I had to swim with these children2237.1558 
1572 2237.5465and then they put me in fins to keep up with my age group.2240.4399 
1574 2240.9413So then they put me in these competitions where you know I'm clearly not gonna-2244.5430 
1576 2246.4919So I remember I went to this one meet like went all the way to Atlanta2250.4109 
1578 2251.1312and one of these chicks that I was in the m-2253.4015 
1580 2253.5496in the2254.3179 
1582 2254.4140heat with2255.3864 
1584 2255.7106her brother- these were black people too,2257.4274 
1586 2257.6595her brother was2259.1894 
1588 2259.5376in the Olympics, I had no business.2262.8231 
1590 2264.0517And so like,2265.7417 
1592 2266.0818the team had like split up cause there was some kind of coup, I don't even remember all this drama but there was some kind of drama.2271.9298 
1594 2272.3620And the team had split in half and I remember2274.2628 
1596 2274.6430the one coach2275.7715 
1598 2276.0529who used to be with the team that I had stayed with, he wasn't even2279.4105 
1600 2279.4985part of my team anymore, I didn't have any beef with him,2281.2313 
1602 2281.5114like he was on the sideline like encouraging me during this2285.0943 
1604 2285.7106heat that I- that I- this competition cause it was so bad and he felt so bad for me. I mean he mighta done it anyway but2291.0758 
1606 2291.3384he was trying to get me just up and down, cause I was like about to quit while I was swimming and2295.7771 
1608 2296.1339I remember like- so you go up and back and up and back.2299.0657 
1610 2299.6875Like my last up and back2301.6857 
1612 2302.1179like I still had one more lap to go up and back and people were already finished and standing2307.7337 
1614 2308.4380in the water, waiting for me to go up2312.1517 
1616 2312.7092and back.2313.5839 
1618 2314.7021Humiliated.2315.5968 
1620 2315.8947Jumped out of the water, all kinds of pity clap, I just jumped out of the water, like ran to the bathroom, my mom's like, oh you're f-2321.9223 
1622 2322.2628Don't do this. Like I'm always been a realistic, don't- don't do this. It was terrible.2326.9582 
1624 2328.3229It was terr- what are you talking about?2330.2117 
1626 2331.0254I was so pissed. I feel like2332.5340 
1628 2332.9102I was also pissed because2333.9987 
1630 2334.5350you know I had had enough experiences swimming that I was like,2337.8398 
1632 2338.9542I could at least kind of keep up but at that point I knew at that meet that I was way out of my league and I feel like2345.3424 
1634 2345.6946part of y'all's job as2347.7412 
1636 2348.1717adults2349.1214 
1638 2350.0498let alone coaches or whatever is to like2352.7271 
1640 2353.2233recognize when people just don't need to, you know.2356.3331 
1642 2357.0983Cause I would've been fine with that.2358.3076 
1644 2359.2673<ts>2359.3193 
1646 2359.3754I was not an over-achiever when it came to swimming, that was just supposed to be something social2363.4985 
1648 2364.2348and exercise.2366.2174 
1650 2366.4931Not2367.2214 
1652 2368.1419scar me and humiliate w-2370.1788 
1654 2370.3309humiliate me and have people literally stand there waiting for me to f- it was- it was awful. That was it, that- that was my swimming story.2376.6750 
1656 2378.1877Yeah.2378.4757 
1657DCB_int_012378.4771I'm sorry that it was embarrassing but it was a great story.2381.3646
1658DCB_se3_ag3_f_012381.3184Yeah.2381.9571
1659 2382.0467It was-2382.6550
1661 2382.7911<ts> it w- it is- it's a great story now, at the time it was2385.2054 
1663 2386.0218awful.2386.3005 
1665 2387.0583And I did get to lose some weight so that was- that was nice. I didn't2389.7435 
1667 2390.0277get as slim as she did.2391.1534 
1669 2392.1899So, that's okay though.2393.3539 
1671 2393.6386Yeah.2393.8827 
1673 2393.9547It served it's purpose.2395.2793 
1674DCB_int_012397.6416Thank you for that.2398.2099
1675DCB_se3_ag3_f_012398.1779<ts> No [problem.]2399.3045
1676DCB_int_012398.6181[That was-] no, that was-2399.9847
1677DCB_se3_ag3_f_012400.2148<ts> I'm glad I'm h- I can always entertain.2402.3428
1678DCB_int_012404.7822So,2405.1728
1680 2406.1548<exhales> now let's go to /RD-SCHOOL-3/.2408.4104 
1682 2409.2054Uh,2409.8988 
1684 2410.9302now that we've graduated from high school, got over the swimming thing.2414.2622 
1685DCB_se3_ag3_f_012414.4571[Mm-hm.]2414.9424
1686DCB_int_012414.4571[So I don't] think you went to /RD-SCHOOL-3/ with a swimming scholarship2417.3184
1687DCB_se3_ag3_f_012417.4406<ts> [Absolutely not.] No no no, that was literally just for-2421.1581
1688DCB_int_012417.4579[from the sounds of it.]2418.5382
1689DCB_se3_ag3_f_012422.5121that was the purpose it served like, social,2425.1295
1691 2426.4815black2427.5526 
1693 2427.8770exercise.2429.2853 
1694DCB_int_012430.3173So how do we end up at /RD-SCHOOL-3/?2431.9752
1695DCB_se3_ag3_f_012432.1512<ts>2432.2202
1697 2432.6586Because I'd wanted to go there since I knew what New York- I'd always wanted to live in New York.2436.4746 
1699 2437.2493And2438.2503 
1701 2438.4032I remember in seventh grade I like went to visit the school, so not like on an official like,2442.4832 
1703 2442.8765that sounds crazy but2444.1985 
1705 2444.5954my godsister, who I'm still close with to this day, she lived in New Jersey2448.4088 
1707 2449.0733and2450.0062 
1709 2450.0994I would visit her and on one of those trips when I was in like, middle school2453.7007 
1711 2454.5935I went to2455.6668 
1713 2455.8440New Jersey and she2457.1556 
1715 2457.6043took me to /RD-SCHOOL-3/'s campus and I was just like,2460.7453 
1717 2461.7843this is it.2462.7300 
1719 2463.2937Um,2463.9391 
1721 2464.2256but I always knew I wanted to move to New York, I just /didn't/-2466.6102 
1723 2466.8558like growing up-2467.9051 
1725 2470.4500I didn't travel a whole lot2472.1655 
1727 2472.4692like growing up but I2473.6600 
1729 2474.0614traveled enough like2476.0908 
1731 2476.6951parents kept me2477.3854 
1733 2477.8410pretty exposed like not much internat- not-2479.8095 
1735 2480.1477huh.2480.5516 
1737 2480.9278I guess Aruba was the only international traveling I had done2483.2680 
1739 2483.3819to that point but enough around the country to kn-2486.5264 
1741 2486.9830know that I really liked New York, I felt like there was nothing else like it,2490.2138 
1743 2490.3553and I had wanted do that since I was- I remember my first trip to New York with my parents2494.5604 
1745 2494.8607in like f-2495.3819 
1747 2495.5683second grade maybe at like Christmas time and I was just like, this is it.2498.7404 
1749 2499.6734And so in seventh grade2501.5925 
1751 2502.5417I knew for sure like, okay /RD-SCHOOL-3/ is it.2504.5704 
1753 2505.3972And I went to other schools in that area2508.3795 
1755 2508.4761and always liked NYU, I didn't like Columbia, not that I would've gotten in.2511.8653 
1757 2512.5363I didn't like Barnard, not that I would've gotten in.2514.5210 
1759 2515.3943And I really liked /RD-SCHOOL-3/.2517.4110 
1761 2517.5249Fordham was cool,2518.3361 
1763 2518.4845but I really liked /RD-SCHOOL-3/.2519.5994 
1765 2519.8652So, that's how I ended up there.2521.3080 
1767 2522.2192Um,2522.7552 
1769 2523.6734I didn't get into my first choice program though.2525.8827 
1771 2526.2725But that's okay, I eventually got there.2528.0777 
1772DCB_int_012528.6724What was your first choice?2529.5940
1773DCB_se3_ag3_f_012530.2153<ts>2530.3085
1775 2530.5673Well,2530.9874 
1777 2532.0895I2532.3642 
1779 2532.5521applied for the communications program.2535.2105 
1781 2537.2715Oh I forgot in terms of my education, hm,2539.4503 
1783 2539.8154I- I also did2541.0176 
1785 2541.2523a summer between2542.7986 
1787 2544.5451<ts>2544.6073 
1789 2545.5047eleve-2546.1709 
1791 2546.3514yeah.2546.6896 
1793 2546.9244So my summer between eleventh and twelfth grade I went to Syracuse.2550.0861 
1794DCB_int_012550.1240Mm.2550.3814
1795DCB_se3_ag3_f_012550.4589I knew in high school that I wanted to major in communications so2554.0291
1797 2554.7848they had a communications high school- communications program where you could earn college credit so I did that for that summer going into my twelfth grade and I wanted it to-2562.3355 
1799 2562.5866I wanted something to put on my like, application to college.2565.9219 
1801 2566.4500So I did that2567.3509 
1803 2567.4924and-2568.4485 
1805 2568.8006so I knew I either wanted to go to Syracuse or NYU, I really wanted to go to NYU,2573.3185 
1807 2574.1344that w- I- I did early decision.2575.9011 
1809 2577.2626And Syracuse was my second choice cause Syracuse had the number one communications school I remember that.2581.3080 
1811 2581.7946Um,2582.2986 
1813 2582.4953so I like applied for that but2584.2084 
1815 2585.2094they put me in general studies program which was dubbed generally stupid people because it was the program that they put you in for two years2594.4263 
1817 2595.0762um,2595.6362 
1819 2595.9875<ts> when you've applied for2597.6753 
1821 2598.9870anything else2600.2227 
1823 2600.3272in the university2601.5871 
1825 2601.8805but they think you need a little2603.2845 
1827 2603.5200extra something.2604.6452 
1829 2605.1285Which I always thought was2607.0269 
1831 2607.2212stupid because2608.9919 
1833 2609.3750my friends who got into like college of arts and sciences, what they applied for, did not have as much homework as I did so they always kind of laughed at me about how like2617.5634 
1835 2618.3376I was in this kind of2619.5322 
1837 2619.7010almost secondary2621.2023 
1839 2621.8134situation2622.8241 
1841 2623.3080even though I had a lot more work.2625.3731 
1843 2625.7113And it didn't matter because you did2627.5166 
1845 2628.6660two years2630.0673 
1847 2630.1823um,2630.7596 
1849 2631.5595<ts>2631.6527 
1851 2632.2118in uh-2633.0195 
1853 2634.5797like taking2635.3250 
1855 2635.5220the basic like2636.7266 
1857 2636.8001col- uh,2637.7389 
1859 2637.8874what do you call that?2638.5190 
1861 2640.5037Like arts and sciences courses that2642.7508 
1863 2642.8864you would take2644.1946 
1865 2644.3292in other programs and then you2646.3563 
1867 2646.8247have to reapply for your major so I reapplied for communications and did that.2650.2145 
1869 2651.4026Um,2651.7582 
1871 2652.5210<ts> so that's it.2653.0767 
1872DCB_int_012653.1872Did you graduate2653.8645
1873DCB_se3_ag3_f_012654.1339[Mm-hm.]2654.4101
1874DCB_int_012654.2064[as a] communications major?2655.2799
1875DCB_se3_ag3_f_012655.3040Mm-hm.2655.5698
1876DCB_int_012655.8080Oh okay.2656.3493
1877DCB_se3_ag3_f_012656.4776Yeah.2656.7883
1878DCB_int_012657.2232Um,2657.9005
1880 2658.2863were you involved in anything in college like2660.3272 
1882 2660.4618majorly?2661.1246 
1884 2661.6250Besides your academics.2662.6184 
1885DCB_se3_ag3_f_012663.1990Yeah.2663.7375
1887 2663.8168Well I did2664.6383 
1889 2664.8593sort of. N-2665.5737 
1891 2665.6497uh- uh not majorly, I'd- I was part of the gospel choir,2668.7998 
1893 2669.7720I really missed singing.2671.3390 
1895 2672.2651<ts>2672.3169 
1897 2672.4032I'd done singing in the2674.0485 
1899 2674.7261high school choir- well I guess that wasn't choir, what do you call that? Maybe chorus? I feel like choir has somewhat of a religious thing, maybe not.2680.8159 
1901 2681.1507I don't- I'm not really sure but whatever the singing thing was in high school I did that, I wanted to keep doing it so I did it2686.2774 
1903 2687.1852for the gospel choir2688.4140 
1905 2689.2907um, at /RD-SCHOOL-3/.2690.6241 
1907 2691.1349And I feel like there was some kind of diversity2693.6721 
1909 2694.2621similar to like2695.7713 
1911 2696.3272black student something, that I went to meetings to2699.3440 
1913 2699.4751very occasionally.2700.6314 
1915 2701.4771I was not very involved.2702.7473 
1917 2703.3834Um,2703.9701 
1919 2705.1231<ts>2705.1921 
1921 2705.2749and I did some internships2707.3229 
1923 2708.5033and I flirted with the idea of going to film school when I was there.2713.1959 
1925 2713.3735When I had to redeclare my major again-2715.1418 
1927 2715.8252not redeclare but when I had to apply for my major after2718.8247 
1929 2718.9904general studies I2719.8119 
1931 2720.3652kind of flip flopped between do I wanna2722.1566 
1933 2722.4569do communications, stick with that or do I wanna go to film school cause they have a really good film school.2726.0328 
1935 2726.9830But I was a little too intimidated so I went- I stayed with communications.2730.5337 
1936DCB_int_012731.1043And so then how did you get to law school? Did you go to law school right after?2734.4949
1937DCB_se3_ag3_f_012734.8228No, law school was a disaster. So I went to-2738.0397
1939 2738.1684I graduated from /RD-SCHOOL-3/2739.8287 
1941 2740.4224and moved back home2741.5235 
1943 2741.9411and2743.1998 
1945 2743.8751worked for-2745.1867 
1947 2746.2325<ts>2746.3154 
1949 2746.9160so I graduated in two thousand- I worked at Howard for a second.2749.6320 
1951 2751.3524And then-2752.5432 
1953 2753.1921maybe like six months.2754.1588 
1955 2756.1425Is that right? (whispered)2756.5574 
1957 2756.9313And then from there I2758.9661 
1959 2759.3474star- I did2760.0247 
1961 2760.2034like2760.4416 
1963 2760.6660temp work, one of the temp2762.0949 
1965 2762.2054to- to hire jobs was at American Institute of Architects,2765.0187 
1967 2765.5476so I worked there as an admin assistant. That was kind of just by2768.9803 
1969 2769.1315chance.2770.1566 
1971 2771.0195And2772.2483 
1973 2773.4046it's not-2773.7766 
1975 2774.5688not her fault, I was grown up I made my own decisions but you know,2777.7685 
1977 2778.3864you need to go get a graduate degree, you need to get a graduate degree before you get married and have a family which I still don't have, so whatever. The point is2785.4046 
1979 2786.1063I was told this is what I was supposed to do.2788.3680 
1981 2789.9135It was2790.2000 
1983 2790.3691beat over my head. So, you don't wanna be like me you know, I was2794.8745 
1985 2795.7409trying to finish, I started and then I stopped and then2798.2158 
1987 2798.5861you know, I had you and yeah I was2800.9712 
1989 2801.5476trying to finish that and with you, you don't wanna do th- ugh.2804.4072 
1991 2804.9761And then my boss,2806.2935 
1993 2806.8814she said the same thing2808.2759 
1995 2808.8144So I was like, fine.2809.5930 
1997 2810.3548It was a little bitter because- this sounds terrible. (whispered)2813.1024 
1999 2813.2680I'll- I'll be quiet. Karma's awful so let me just be quiet.2816.0880 
2001 2816.5861Um,2817.3558 
2003 2817.9668<ts>2818.0496 
2005 2819.5787uh, well I was gonna say that they had some- they had- they did some downsizing,2823.6527 
2007 2824.3499but you'd get some kind of severance, and it was right when I was about to go to law school and I would never wish to be like,2830.2878 
2009 2830.4155laid off, cause unemployment sucks, been there, but I'm just saying that like you know would've been really nice. But they knew I was going to law school so they wouldn't give it to me. The point is2837.8203 
2011 2838.7557I went from- /it went to-/2840.1157 
2013 2840.3686from AIA, American Institute of Architects, I'm an assistant,2843.1300 
2015 2843.9169<ts>2843.9894 
2017 2844.6038from two thousand six maybe to two thousand nine, when I went to law school which was-2851.1147 
2019 2851.8889I don't know how I feel about that decision, so.2854.2910 
2021 2855.2991<ts>2855.3647 
2023 2856.2725Mm I didn't2858.9924 
2025 2859.0969ever think that I could do law school2861.5200 
2027 2861.6201but2862.0205 
2029 2862.1240I- after graduating and moving back home I- all these2865.7320 
2031 2866.4431kids went to law school.2867.8307 
2033 2868.4381And then I talked to some who were at Howard2871.4625 
2035 2872.4362My um- <ts>2873.9273 
2037 2873.9998and- and- and they kept telling me like,2876.3971 
2039 2876.9899/RD-NAME-3/ they are s- I- I swear there are some incredibly2880.2966 
2041 2880.4968not bright people who2881.8085 
2043 2882.0708we have gone to law school with, you'll be fine.2884.2084 
2045 2884.3637And I was like, are you sure? And they were like, yeah.2886.3967 
2047 2886.6729And at the time the economy was different cause I was2888.6368 
2049 2888.9692applying like,2890.1393 
2051 2890.8573started taking the test and all that stuff so that had to be two thousand-2894.6313 
2053 2896.3050wait a minute, I f- got my acceptance letters March two thousand nine.2901.7631 
2055 2902.3085So I had been preparing two thousand eight before the economy went to, you know-2905.5910 
2057 2906.2261So,2906.8408 
2059 2907.5802when I was applying,2908.7606 
2061 2909.2232you graduate,2910.0992 
2063 2910.4589get this good job,2911.8188 
2065 2912.2375and life is grand2913.7175 
2067 2913.8080except2914.6778 
2069 2914.7675you know once I got in it, the economy tanked and-2917.1449 
2071 2918.5343So our-2919.2943 
2073 2919.5353<ts>2919.5905 
2075 2919.9115a lot of our experiences for those who graduated in two thousand twelve when I did,2923.6995 
2077 2924.2823it wasn't as-2925.5944 
2078DCB_int_012925.7804Mm.2926.0254
2079DCB_se3_ag3_f_012926.2705yeah, wasn't as carefree as other people I had2928.9317
2081 2929.1388talked to who had graduated several years2931.0062 
2083 2931.3075in front of me.2932.1195 
2085 2932.5363<ts>2932.6433 
2087 2933.1438But I did enjoy Howard,2934.7661 
2089 2935.7705and2936.6798 
2091 2936.7621[um-]2937.3903 
2092DCB_int_012937.2419[Think] there were black people there.2938.4983
2093DCB_se3_ag3_f_012938.6433<ts>2938.7675
2095 2939.1093There were quite a few.2940.3986 
2097 2940.9973And um,2942.8972 
2099 2943.4318<ts>2943.4939 
2101 2943.5595lifelong friends who I will have2946.9421 
2103 2947.4736forever I believe.2949.2039 
2105 2949.9460Um,2950.5220 
2107 2950.8331<ts>2950.9850 
2109 2951.1403who I was just hanging out with yesterday, one of which you know.2954.5110 
2111 2955.4283So yeah I mean that part of it was good, and everyone kept telling me you can do anything with a law degree.2960.9579 
2113 2962.7365But it- my heart's never been in law, like I never wanted to practice.2965.8844 
2115 2966.9382And I mean maybe this is partly my fault too, I graduated and2970.0888 
2117 2970.3173that2970.5728 
2119 2970.8869exam has not worked out for me and2973.3903 
2121 2973.7079I don't- I don't really wanna practice so I- then I started feeling like, why do I keep taking it if this isn't what you wanna d- and it was- so it was like a whole bunch of2979.9978 
2123 2980.4224things tied up into it like- probably should've taken these off.2983.3839 
2125 2983.7912I- I2984.3179 
2127 2984.4411I w-2984.7665 
2129 2986.2187glad I got the terminal degree and2989.4150 
2131 2990.5171<ts>2990.5654 
2133 2990.6310I'm glad that it was Howard2992.4776 
2135 2992.6088and2993.7271 
2137 2993.7961it's just my heart was not2996.0960 
2139 2996.2789in law and I-2997.6922 
2141 2997.9771it's-2998.5777 
2143 2998.8642still not, so3001.2113 
2145 3001.8154that's why I made the face about law school.3003.9501 
2146DCB_int_013004.0047So [how'd /you end up-/]3005.0154
2147DCB_se3_ag3_f_013004.1255[I should've] probably gotten an MBA but you know hindsight's always twenty-twenty as they say, so here I am.3010.1145
2148 3010.3050<ts>3010.4224
2150 3011.1714Hm?3011.4199 
2151DCB_int_013011.4786How'd you end up in your job?3012.8351
2152DCB_se3_ag3_f_013013.9776<ts>3014.0742
2154 3015.0486Because this is a very typical path that you take3018.1420 
2156 3018.2794if you're looking for a job after law school. Well the- okay so document review is basically the discovery process of-3024.0891 
2158 3024.4209I don't know how familiar3025.0636 
2160 3025.6048you or the other3026.2468 
2162 3026.4722people who'd be listening to this are with document review but3028.6916 
2164 3029.0955basically discovery process, so when two parties are3031.9048 
2166 3033.0417litigating, there are all these documents that have to be reviewed whether it's privileged, confidential, things like that.3039.5825 
2168 3040.3672<ts>3040.4258 
2170 3040.4949Basically categorize for discovery so3043.0836 
2172 3043.2631they need people generally3045.2005 
2174 3045.9771lawyers or at least JDs like me to review it.3049.4150 
2176 3049.5876So,3050.0089 
2178 3050.3238that's how I ended up doing that. I actually3052.9781 
2180 3053.8410clerked for a year3054.9110 
2182 3055.6290afterwards3056.6903 
2184 3056.8622um,3057.3702 
2186 3057.6216<ts>3057.7148 
2188 3059.2232and that was an enjoyable exper- I mean you get a really3062.9616 
2190 3063.4594up close look at how the court system works3066.2897 
2192 3066.4554and- so that was good.3067.7498 
2194 3069.1349It did show me again that I really don't wanna practice, so3071.9515 
2196 3072.0792it eliminated that for good and then after that I worked for3076.0151 
2198 3076.2394DC government.3077.3821 
2200 3078.3967And that was fun.3080.1421 
2202 3081.1763Um, <ts>3082.3395 
2204 3082.4776and then my contract ended.3084.6576 
2206 3085.2942So,3086.1328 
2208 3086.9002I3087.9455 
2210 3088.5881jumped on doc review projects3090.3657 
2212 3090.4934while I was-3091.2355 
2214 3091.4184after I studied for the bar that time and I've kind of been bouncing around on projects while I look for3096.7626 
2216 3097.4288something else that3098.5678 
2218 3099.2419maybe could allow me to use my law degree but not3102.4130 
2220 3103.4150a practice.3104.4884 
2221DCB_int_013104.4722Mm-hm.3104.8795
2222DCB_se3_ag3_f_013105.0555Yeah.3105.3558
2223DCB_int_013105.9253So let's switch gears totally.3107.7547
2224DCB_se3_ag3_f_013107.9204[Okay.]3108.4589
2225DCB_int_013108.2725[Um,]3108.8050
2226 3109.5013[So these questions] are not gonna be chronologi- they're just gonna be kind of random.3112.7409
2227DCB_se3_ag3_f_013109.5082[Good.]3110.1376
2228 3112.7606Sure.3113.4096
2229DCB_int_013114.0861One of the things is3115.9461
2231 3116.4411people come from all over the country to come tour DC and see all the monuments and all of these museums and things.3123.0305 
2233 3123.4007Have you been a tourist in your own back yard?3125.5317 
2234DCB_se3_ag3_f_013127.3977<ts>3127.4736
2236 3127.5910Yeah.3127.9910 
2238 3128.6862Um,3129.6630 
2240 3131.9549<ts>3131.9929 
2242 3132.0654Not as much as I3132.9455 
2244 3133.0698as I should be, I mean growing up there was always a trip to a museum.3137.4648 
2246 3138.0032But if you ask me anything about that now I'd be like, Mm-mm-mm. (I don't know intonation)3140.6230 
2248 3141.0245Um,3141.8018 
2250 3142.6601if that makes s-3143.3405 
2252 3143.5959you know like I remember going to see the big dinosaur, so that was Natural History, I remember seeing the-3148.1911 
2254 3148.6985the diamond which was-3150.9386 
2256 3151.1216that's Natural too, isn't it?3152.3228 
2258 3153.0555I feel like I've seen a lot of these Smithsonian museums, I actually worked for the Smithsonian3157.2217 
2260 3157.8854every summer like in high school3160.0547 
2262 3160.3879at their, uh,3161.5856 
2264 3162.3035their big festival for some reason I can't remember it right now, the name of it.3165.2281 
2266 3165.3938But I worked for a festival every summer.3166.9367 
2268 3168.0239Not that that really involved touristy things so I would say that I've- I've done a lot of touristy things.3173.4855 
2270 3174.0861Uh,3174.6567 
2272 3174.9041/even/ the last few years like made it a point to go see Martin Luther King and3178.8607 
2274 3179.2715a couple weeks ago I went3181.6462 
2276 3181.7256down to the Lincoln Memorial.3184.2602 
2278 3185.4717FDR, I've s- I've seen all of them, the World War Two, the Korean.3190.2187 
2280 3191.0333So yeah I'd say I've been a t- I'd- I'd say so, I haven't seen everything.3193.6640 
2282 3193.9051But3194.1226 
2284 3194.4159I've- I've spent time doing that.3196.0786 
2285DCB_int_013196.8711Do you have a favorite?3197.7478
2286DCB_se3_ag3_f_013202.1221Hm.3202.4261
2288 3204.2310I feel like3205.8790 
2290 3206.0891I like any one that involves water, and I feel like the FDR one involves water but I- mm.3211.3425 
2292 3212.0787I know World War Two involves water.3213.6895 
2294 3214.8987<ts>3215.0057 
2296 3215.0747This is terrible.3215.7892 
2298 3215.9929But that's how I feel, I really like the water ones.3218.0708 
2300 3219.2454I would say one of my favorites3221.2335 
2302 3222.5279is also the Korean one cause it's those statues of the men,3225.9322 
2304 3226.0807but it3226.5535 
2306 3227.3371at night kind of creeps me out a little bit, it's a little eerie.3230.3011 
2308 3230.9968It's probably not the right reason to like or dislike a memorial but I- I do like that one a lot too.3236.1191 
2309DCB_int_013236.1132Kind of Thriller-esque.3237.3800
2310DCB_se3_ag3_f_013237.4248Yeah, it's different, I like that.3239.3371
2312 3239.5614<ts>3239.6857 
2314 3240.2034So those are probably my favorites.3242.7554 
2316 3243.3696I don't remember why I lied FDR that much, but I've been there a couple times I remember I really liked it.3247.3770 
2317DCB_int_013247.6048It's one of my [favorites.]3248.7835
2318DCB_se3_ag3_f_013248.0338[I'm not very good] with history, so.3250.2058
2319 3250.8573It's like aesthetic purposes as to why I would like3253.8775
2321 3254.1063all of these, [yeah.]3255.3006 
2322DCB_int_013254.9451[Mm-hm.]3255.3051
2323 3255.6630[Exactly.]3256.2878
2324DCB_se3_ag3_f_013255.6665[<ts>]3255.8011
2326 3256.2705Yeah.3256.5604 
2327DCB_int_013257.0299Um,3257.6419
2329 3258.1482so-3258.7242 
2330DCB_se3_ag3_f_013258.7108Oh and Martin Luther King3259.8464
2331 3260.1364too.3260.5817
2333 3261.5871Because-3262.1044 
2335 3262.1670well actually no I-3262.8331 
2337 3263.0575in- in seriousness I do like that one cause it's like3265.1175 
2339 3265.3666huge and in his likeness.3267.3278 
2341 3267.9978I can't3268.5058 
2343 3268.7848say I- that one's not on the list.3270.6968 
2345 3271.6600I just- my first one I j- jumped to is the water,3274.3016 
2347 3274.3913so.3274.6846 
2349 3274.8745Yeah.3275.1399 
2350DCB_int_013275.8479Understandable.3276.4899
2351DCB_se3_ag3_f_013276.5555Yeah.3276.8475
2352DCB_int_013277.3563Um,3278.2003
2354 3279.9737have you noticed3281.0299 
2356 3281.2094the changing in DC? Have you seen the neighborhoods change?3285.1585 
2357DCB_se3_ag3_f_013285.6216Yeah.3286.0669
2358DCB_int_013286.2671And what are your-3286.8711
2360 3287.4372well some people are like,3288.2587 
2361DCB_se3_ag3_f_013288.7661[Don't?]3289.0897
2362DCB_int_013288.8938[Don't] feel like it's changed.3290.1709
2363 3290.7932So, tha- I- it's always I3292.1372
2364DCB_se3_ag3_f_013292.3016<ts>3292.3637
2365DCB_int_013292.4086don't wanna presume that you3293.5712
2367 3293.6719[/do./]3294.0212 
2368DCB_se3_ag3_f_013293.7409[Do] know? Yeah, no it definitely has changed. I'm probably not-3296.7828
2369 3297.4145one, I'm not very observant but3300.0343
2371 3300.6418I mean3301.3390 
2373 3301.6359I have noticed that change.3303.2278 
2375 3303.7528Just like growing-first, kindergarten, first, second- or [f3304.6985 
2377 3305.6201/just honest/ and if- any of my friends will tell you the same thing.3308.1554 
2379 3308.5368Um,3309.2474 
2381 3309.3800<ts> my neighbor last week was like, you're not very observant, and I was like,3312.6591 
2383 3312.7833Mm. Mm-hm I tried to tell you.3314.0017 
2385 3314.4825Uh, <ts>3315.5388 
2387 3315.8149yeah so I notice that neighborhoods like where I live now Fort Totten,3319.6042 
2389 3322.6433you didn't see3324.0585 
2391 3324.4623white3324.8583 
2393 3325.8751people walking through the neighborhood the way you do now.3328.9415 
2395 3329.4510Especially- well, no.3330.7488 
2397 3330.8489Period.3331.2076 
2399 3331.4736Boom.3331.7015 
2401 3332.3203Um, and you just3333.2868 
2403 3333.4110neighborhoods that have historically f- in my experience been black,3336.8457 
2405 3337.6946you suddenly see3339.2385 
2407 3339.7976white people moving into them,3341.1162 
2409 3341.8376<ts>3341.8893 
2411 3342.2172um, like from a residential perspective like my neighborhood where I live now.3346.1704 
2413 3347.0126Uh,3347.8233 
2415 3349.6152I know down by Howard,3351.0085 
2417 3351.4559U Street in general, pretty much kind of3353.7892 
2419 3354.0826anywhere, Capitol Hill,3355.4150 
2421 3355.7532like places where you just-3356.6852 
2423 3357.9081growing up when I'm a kid you just didn't see3360.7039 
2425 3362.1477them.3362.7584 
2427 3362.9761You see them kind of like, everywhere.3365.8099 
2429 3365.8962And3366.4934 
2431 3367.4875<ts>3367.5323 
2433 3367.6083I don't mean that to be racist I just mean that like3370.4189 
2435 3370.5950you just-3371.3681 
2437 3372.4036you see f-3372.8810 
2439 3373.2596it's a different-3374.2796 
2441 3374.7725it's a different group of people. You see neighborhoods changing, you see a lot more restaurants and businesses popping up3381.3627 
2443 3381.4766where3381.8980 
2445 3382.3499they weren't before.3383.3939 
2447 3384.2656Neighborhoods where people- you know, you can walk around3386.8509 
2449 3387.7217not3387.9944 
2451 3388.3050being in fear in the night- in the darkness, um, all those things that come with gentrification so it's really different.3394.7883 
2452DCB_int_013395.3647Is that [a good-]3395.9239
2453DCB_se3_ag3_f_013395.5925[And it's also] hard not- huh?3396.8552
2454DCB_int_013397.0905Mm go ahead.3397.5519
2455DCB_se3_ag3_f_013398.0131No I was gonna say it's also like- it's interesting y- for y- for you to hear people that don't notice that. One, just3402.0550
2457 3402.3519from someone who's3402.9524 
2459 3404.0718like3404.2685 
2461 3404.7242self-admittedly not observant to also like3407.9515 
2463 3409.7153growing up here, you talk to anyone who grows up here you know that. I mean even3413.3095 
2465 3414.8765the w-3415.2578 
2467 3415.3356w- woman who I would claim is my cousin3417.6716 
2469 3418.7814who's not, uh, I- she lives in Fort Totten too,3422.3077 
2471 3422.9313and I used to live with her. She's now married, she married a white guy.3425.8962 
2473 3426.4312They have a baby.3427.1821 
2475 3427.7256And I mean she even talks about it, she's like, yeah the neighborhood's filling with a lot of-3431.6788 
2477 3431.7823the- DC is filling with a lot of families like mine, like a lot of blended families and white families, and3436.9401 
2479 3437.5373she grew up on Columbia and she's like, I3439.2631 
2481 3439.3943don't remember DC being like- it's just weird, people who grew up in this area3442.1331 
2483 3442.8987they talk about it so it's3444.4520 
2485 3444.6280interesting that people wouldn't notice at least like someone would3447.7148 
2487 3448.6467point it out to you.3449.6995 
2488DCB_int_013450.1413I think when- when they said that to me it was more so3453.6216
2490 3454.1462I guess maybe how they felt about it, not that they didn't notice [but]3457.0837 
2491DCB_se3_ag3_f_013456.9110[Oh.]3457.6773
2492DCB_int_013457.2873[they didn't] feel- like it wasn't something that affected them.3460.7158
2493DCB_se3_ag3_f_013461.0678[Okay.]3461.6201
2494DCB_int_013461.3026[Personally.]3462.0274
2495DCB_se3_ag3_f_013462.4761It feels like it doesn't affect me3464.5402
2497 3464.7518personally but in my3465.8529 
2499 3466.0392pocket book because things are more expensive, so.3470.1157 
2501 3470.6068<ts>3470.6965 
2503 3470.9244I feel like that's how it affects me.3472.5156 
2505 3472.6502Um,3473.4289 
2507 3473.9549it's also like3474.9628 
2509 3475.4012I like- and maybe this is like the t- I don't know if this is the typical gentrification conversation but3479.8652 
2511 3481.6359I like3482.7473 
2513 3483.9840what-3484.9677 
2515 3485.3405I like to see some of the changes that I see in DC I like seeing new businesses, I like that3490.4189 
2517 3490.9298I feel if I go out3492.5624 
2519 3492.7695there's so many new3493.9327 
2521 3494.1640restaurants, bars, whatever that I can3496.7537 
2523 3497.3095choose to-3499.1285 
2525 3499.2734you know cause it's so much new3501.5998 
2527 3501.7148coming into DC.3502.9746 
2529 3503.4889But it's sad, I mean you grow- like,3504.9248 
2531 3505.0871okay so growing up for me I thought all cities were like DC.3508.8987 
2533 3509.2266So I thought3510.0213 
2535 3510.8040it would be-3511.9948 
2537 3512.5205I thought other cities were mostly black, I thought3515.6270 
2539 3515.8859other cities3516.8696 
2541 3517.2458were mostly black3518.3686 
2543 3518.5067professionals.3519.8977 
2545 3520.5190And not to say that doesn't exist other places but I always thought it was in- it was t- highly cult-3524.2502 
2547 3524.4411uh, concentrated like it is here and then3526.7211 
2549 3527.0540the older3527.8583 
2551 3528.0343I get and the more I travel and3530.5543 
2553 3530.9244kind of pay attention as much as I'm capable of paying attention to things3533.6563 
2555 3534.2449outside of myself, um,3535.7394 
2557 3535.9224<ts>3535.9845 
2559 3537.4766I'm like, oh it's not like this everywhere, DC is a little unique.3541.1078 
2561 3541.7843It's very unique, so3543.4790 
2563 3545.7340it's bittersweet in the fact that3547.5634 
2565 3547.9810unfortunately3549.1250 
2567 3549.3455as3549.9470 
2569 3550.3982the city changes3551.8962 
2571 3552.8454it's bringing in a lot of stuff that's good,3555.0407 
2573 3556.7641but3557.8401 
2575 3557.9515it's-3558.7768 
2577 3559.2286I- it's- it's- it's sad to think about3561.7424 
2579 3561.8736i-3562.0358 
2581 3562.2394if it continues at this rate,3563.8721 
2583 3564.9179if all the black people move out,3566.0777 
2585 3566.5826that's obviously sad that3568.6051 
2587 3568.9608we won't be here at all3570.0382 
2589 3570.5348if things continue.3571.5116 
2591 3571.5945So.3571.9569 
2593 3572.8036I would say that part is sad.3574.2822 
2595 3575.2508And you're just- it's just- it's- it's a unique experience, now that I'm older and I'm an adult and I understand it, it's a unique experience to walk around a neighborhood and3582.0378 
2597 3582.4312you see a bunch of black people who are like-3584.1131 
2599 3584.4308I don't say black people don't do well, but just so many3587.4308 
2601 3588.3001uh,3588.7315 
2603 3588.8351families that have been there for generations or3592.0841 
2605 3592.1704you know.3592.7304 
2607 3592.9815Even if they haven't been there for generations like3594.8075 
2609 3595.7532professional, it's just3597.5146 
2611 3597.9633to think of that culture leaving the city is3600.2483 
2613 3601.2389sad.3601.6669 
2614DCB_int_013603.7320That was the question I was gonna ask you was your thoughts on that.3605.8347
2615DCB_se3_ag3_f_013605.8272Yeah,3606.3001
2616 3606.4243but3606.7563
2618 3608.0052<ts>3608.0673 
2620 3608.6689I'm- I d- I do like what-3610.9712 
2622 3612.6211I do- I d- I d- I d- in some sense like it cause it is new and the neighborhoods are changing like, I don't remember there being much to do in- in Brookland.3620.2478 
2624 3620.9244Like cause I lived in Brookland too.3622.7814 
2626 3622.9746At some um,3623.9653 
2628 3624.1033<ts>3624.2587 
2630 3624.3622like w- well my mom did when I was in college so that's where I would come home to and3628.7814 
2632 3629.2266there wasn't much happening then and now like, one of my friends just moved kind of to that area and there's all kinds of stuff to do over there now.3635.6345 
2634 3636.4451So I mean in-3636.9593 
2636 3637.6359that's nice.3638.7335 
2638 3640.6157But3641.1886 
2640 3643.5082you know.3643.8668 
2641DCB_int_013645.6112So the other question I have that's totally- this is not related to anything actually,3650.6164
2643 3651.0762how did you meet /RD-NAME-3/?3652.2816 
2644DCB_se3_ag3_f_013653.2542<ts>3653.3474
2646 3653.4372Law school.3653.8790 
2648 3654.2207We were [in the same] section.3655.0140 
2649DCB_int_013654.3967[Mm.]3654.6487
2650DCB_se3_ag3_f_013656.4204Section three, that's where3657.8045
2652 3658.4983I feel like3659.2090 
2654 3659.3543at least3659.9963 
2656 3660.2897at Howard3661.0397 
2658 3661.4633for my class, I can't speak for other classes,3663.3972 
2660 3663.9184you-3664.5190 
2662 3665.2128I uh, most-3665.9825 
2664 3666.3173most people seem to kind of- you make that foundation3668.8819 
2666 3669.3006with the people cause l-3670.2187 
2668 3670.8366law school can take a lot of your spirit and soul and3674.1046 
2670 3674.7276you really come to rely heavily3677.2526 
2672 3677.8790on3678.7710 
2674 3679.9948the-3680.1157 
2676 3680.3824the friends that you make especially early on cause it's just- it demands so much of you.3684.2276 
2677DCB_int_013684.2587Right.3684.5451
2678DCB_se3_ag3_f_013685.4115And3686.8992
2680 3687.5077so you-3688.2864 
2682 3688.4431the- lot of people I noticed in our class3690.9214 
2684 3691.1595y- the people that they made friends with early on are the people that they remain closest to3695.7375 
2686 3696.0516throughout the three years so he was in that group of people3698.8888 
2688 3699.5111in my section3700.4605 
2690 3700.8055that3701.1149 
2692 3701.8341we've just all been really close3703.2700 
2694 3703.7291since then.3704.3051 
2695DCB_int_013707.3716What's your favorite book or movie and why?3709.6518
2696DCB_se3_ag3_f_013712.7399<ts>3712.8504
2698 3713.4510So I'm a3714.2069 
2700 3714.6176little- I would call my- I guess I would say I'm a film buff so this is hard.3718.1931 
2702 3721.8844<ts>3721.9638 
2704 3722.2133I don't know.3723.0373 
2706 3724.4258I hate that question actually, that's like my least favorite question.3726.8489 
2708 3727.2355Um,3727.9569 
2710 3728.0787cause I really don't, I mean-3729.3188 
2711DCB_int_013731.9169Maybe your last one then, let's say what's the last one you watched and3735.0831
2712DCB_se3_ag3_f_013735.0866<ts>3735.1901
2713DCB_int_013735.7631tell me a [little bit about it.]3736.7744
2714DCB_se3_ag3_f_013736.1670[Okay there let's-] that's a lot easier to [do, so] I r- <laugh>3739.5560
2715DCB_int_013737.8893[Mm-hm.]3738.2200
2716DCB_se3_ag3_f_013740.3824<laugh> I would say uh,3742.3552
2718 3743.0057I really like Birdman which won the last3745.5220 
2720 3746.0545Oscars, I just thought it was different and3749.5959 
2722 3750.5451unique3751.7498 
2724 3751.8129in telling a story, I also liked that it was kind of a parody on the people who were in it too.3755.8209 
2726 3755.9204<ts>3756.0205 
2728 3756.4347Like I feel like Michael Keaton kind of played himself, I feel like what's his face who's name is escaping me kind of played himself, the other main guy in it, he's from Colu- he's from here, he's from Columbia.3764.5747 
2730 3765.4973What is your name?3766.3360 
2732 3767.1990Dude who was in-3768.4174 
2734 3769.4840oh my god.3770.2907 
2736 3771.6527For some reason his name isn't here, it has left, but I- th- he- I felt like he was kind of playing himself so I'd say that was the last movie that I really liked that I've seen.3779.4505 
2738 3780.4347I mean I really liked Straight Outta Compton too and3782.3307 
2740 3782.5412it's not a favorite.3783.2506 
2742 3783.6803It's not a favorite but that was one of the- I'm thinking of /one of-/ some of the last movies I saw.3787.0699 
2743DCB_int_013787.2148Is it good?3787.6635
2744DCB_se3_ag3_f_013787.3080[I like] that one. I liked it.3788.3928
2745 3788.6172I thought it was good.3789.1785
2747 3789.4041It was b-3789.7615 
2749 3790.2049It exceeded my expectations.3792.4589 
2750DCB_int_013792.6452I've been wanting to see it.3793.5468
2751DCB_se3_ag3_f_013793.6980Yeah it's- I thought it was worth it.3795.3040
2753 3795.5940Felt like, you know.3796.3900 
2755 3796.9746T- it gave me- I feel like that was a-3798.7005 
2757 3800.1260that w- w- I feel like N.W.A. was3803.1093 
2759 3803.4234the generation before me, I didn't grow up on them.3806.1460 
2760DCB_int_013806.1857Mm-hm.3806.7310
2761DCB_se3_ag3_f_013807.0037So it was interesti- but you know who they are.3809.6357
2762DCB_int_013809.9722Yup.3810.2138
2763DCB_se3_ag3_f_013810.6349So it was interesting seeing that story cause I didn't know it.3813.9625
2764DCB_int_013814.3464Mm.3814.6998
2766 3815.1196Have you seen War Room?3816.0349 
2767DCB_se3_ag3_f_013817.7015No, which one is that?3818.7370
2768DCB_int_013819.0624That's like the-3820.0013
2770 3820.6916think it's like a Christian movie like3822.9317 
2772 3823.5427they-3823.8064 
2774 3824.4894something about prayer3825.6321 
2776 3825.8874and like testimony like they have this whole3828.2986 
2778 3828.9283situation like3830.0190 
2780 3830.1650their marriage is on the rocks or something, I haven't seen it.3832.1966 
2781DCB_se3_ag3_f_013832.2809Who's they?3832.8469
2782DCB_int_013833.6926Some couple in the mo- I don't know- I don't- it's not [like a well] known-3836.7621
2783DCB_se3_ag3_f_013835.6393[Oh.]3836.1513
2785 3836.6724[Okay] yeah [no I have not seen] that one.3838.5671 
2786DCB_int_013837.2764[They're like- they're kind of-]3837.9806
2787DCB_se3_ag3_f_013838.7641I've gotten away from going to the movies the way I used to and I told myself I was gonna get back into it.3843.5457
2789 3844.4776Um,3845.0376 
2791 3845.3233<ts>3845.4026 
2793 3845.5304but yeah.3845.9917 
2794DCB_int_013846.7074So,3847.2182
2796 3847.5082<clears throat>3847.8495 
2798 3848.0373last two couple of things before-3850.2049 
2800 3850.5604Um,3851.1724 
2802 3852.0032unique to DC-3853.0940 
2804 3853.2873there are a few things that are unique to DC.3855.1349 
2805DCB_se3_ag3_f_013855.1315Mm-hm.3855.6261
2806DCB_int_013856.6157Go go music.3857.5117
2808 3859.0353Do you have any feeling? Can you talk about it? Do you have any experiences with it?3863.0264 
2809DCB_se3_ag3_f_013863.2577Yeah.3863.6537
2811 3864.5244Um,3865.3671 
2813 3865.6531<ts>3865.6980 
2815 3866.3963so,3867.7942 
2817 3868.7123that was one good thing was /RD-SCHOOL-2/ had a go go for homecoming every year.3873.0675 
2819 3873.6527And Junk Yard would come.3874.9091 
2821 3875.0161So-3875.6995 
2823 3876.7108You're not from DC, right?3877.7532 
2824DCB_int_013877.6707N- but I know Junk Yard.3878.8150
2825DCB_se3_ag3_f_013878.9520Okay.3879.3351
2827 3879.6354So,3880.3326 
2829 3880.6088<creak> growing up in- /?/ going to high school in DC.3883.5845 
2831 3884.8760I don't- I don't- still don't know why3887.1507 
2833 3887.3095this ha- I like- I literally to this day I would love for someone to tell me why.3891.2638 
2835 3891.6768But3892.1601 
2837 3893.2922schools like /RD-SCHOOL-2/,3894.5866 
2839 3895.0698there was one at I wanna say Sidwell,3898.3958 
2841 3899.2784there might have been one at NCS, I know what-3901.2389 
2843 3901.3666ugh, /give-/ <sigh>3902.6106 
2845 3903.4801What did- Holton I feel like had one, if not Holton then maybe it's Brother's School but all of these3908.1418 
2847 3908.6541mostly white affluent schools, at least when- you know,3912.1827 
2849 3913.2665the late nineties,3914.5506 
2851 3915.2523they would have- they would host go gos.3917.7409 
2853 3918.1551So, yeah.3919.3770 
2855 3919.6669So my school was one, so every year for homecoming we had Junk Yard.3924.0109 
2857 3924.7384And then-3925.7843 
2859 3926.1477yeah, so these bands, and like the major ones, would go to these white schools and I don't know why. I- I would love for somebody to tell me why, I don't know why.3933.3131 
2861 3933.9012Um,3934.4425 
2863 3935.0609<ts>3935.1300 
2865 3936.2587and so it would-3937.1975 
2867 3938.8243it would bring3939.9633 
2869 3940.2740a3940.7166 
2871 3941.3405different dynamic3942.8392 
2873 3943.4805to the school at least for that evening which was interesting, so I would attend those.3947.6236 
2875 3947.9639<ts>3948.0786 
2877 3948.9961and one of my friends growing up3951.1638 
2879 3951.7429um,3952.4883 
2881 3953.0880<ts> who went to my middle school with me and my church,3955.3041 
2883 3955.8174he was3956.7837 
2885 3957.0652into it like, I feel like if I remember3960.1079 
2887 3960.6590he3961.5323 
2889 3962.3145would like carry drums for like Backyard or something, I mean maybe that's not true maybe I'm exaggerating, I feel like it was some band that he really kind of like knew them and3970.8308 
2891 3970.9733maybe would like, kind of help out a little bit if I remember.3974.1535 
2893 3974.5160But he was like into it so sometimes I would go with3977.0011 
2895 3977.6754him and his friends or I feel like if you-3979.4954 
2897 3980.6332feel like at that age in high school espe- like if you hear about one3983.9152 
2899 3984.1585that's at one of those high schools that I mentioned or you just hear about one period,3987.7945 
2901 3988.2712you'd go to it. I feel like the friend that I mentioned, the guy,3991.5625 
2903 3991.9391I went with him and his friends to the Black Hole3994.5180 
2905 3994.7926at least once.3996.1689 
2907 3997.8442Which was like awful.3999.2362 
2909 3999.5379But um,4000.4624 
2911 4001.4043cause it was just like- it's one thing to go to like-4004.8696 
2913 4006.4415I'm sure I sound racist and now I sound like something else but that's fine. Um, <ts> so it's different to go to the ones that were at like the schools,4013.7136 
2915 4014.1133and then to go to that,4015.5418 
2917 4016.2682where4016.8095 
2919 4018.4937you know,4019.1712 
2921 4019.4425I got separated from them at one point which was a mistake cause I was like, I wanna go to the front, and it was just- it was just bad, you know it was just- it was different. But it w- it was alright, it was fun.4026.7285 
2923 4027.5766Yet bad.4028.1392 
2925 4028.8184Um,4029.4301 
2927 4029.9237so yeah I- I- I attended.4031.4321 
2929 4032.2211And then in college when I would come home,4034.0979 
2931 4034.8845um,4035.5205 
2933 4036.2469<ts>4036.3234 
2935 4036.8273my mostly non-high school friends would-4040.7802 
2937 4041.8959I mean I guess the black kids who went to /RD-SCHOOL-2/ would go too.4044.7036 
2939 4045.4653Yeah, I feel like-4046.2907 
2941 4048.4346yeah.4048.7891 
2943 4048.9386I went.4049.3174 
2945 4049.7484I was there.4050.3550 
2947 4050.5652Wasn't as into it as my friend who was like, carrying equipment.4053.9306 
2949 4054.6501And I wasn't into it like I wasn't going to the mall to buy the tapes.4058.2474 
2951 4058.8427But I would enjoy it when it was on the radio,4060.5736 
2953 4060.8760and I would attend them4062.5825 
2955 4063.5140when I would hear about them.4064.5719 
2957 4065.4892Um,4066.1452 
2959 4067.0150and that was something that I feel like growing up I didn't even realize that was unique to DC until4070.7281 
2961 4071.0756you meet kids who like4072.0356 
2963 4072.4763didn't really grow up here and4074.2286 
2965 4074.3879then they'd be like-4075.0865 
2967 4075.2047oh especially when I went to college,4076.5219 
2969 4076.9053I'd bring my f-4077.3606 
2971 4077.4718like, one of my friends who from college bring her home and she would come home and visit with me and she'd be like, what is this?4083.8478 
2973 4084.4450She didn't say, what is this she knew what it was cause she had family here but she would be like, every time I hear this I don't get it.4088.6957 
2975 4088.9853And I'm like,4089.9132 
2977 4090.0523what do you mean you don't get it?4090.9136 
2979 4091.1540It's music.4091.9034 
2981 4092.5478I didn't realize how unique it was until like I'm a little older.4095.2057 
2983 4096.1635But yeah.4096.5889 
2985 4096.9212It's still fun when it comes on the radio it's like nostalgic.4099.6261 
2986DCB_int_014101.3467What about mumbo sauce?4102.5880
2987DCB_se3_ag3_f_014104.4157<ts>4104.5026
2989 4105.2568I mean I've eaten it.4107.0061 
2991 4108.5006It's-4109.2220 
2993 4110.7528I mean it's something that I feel like you get on your fried chicken when I would4114.5423 
2995 4114.8273you know, uh-4115.3244 
2997 4115.4703go to carry outs and whatnot growing up.4117.6600 
2999 4117.9033Um,4118.6401 
3001 4119.6004<ts> something else I didn't really realize was unique to DC until I got older.4123.4896 
3003 4124.2404It's tasty.4125.2018 
3005 4126.4659<ts>4126.6223 
3006DCB_int_014127.9291Describe it.4128.5718
3007DCB_se3_ag3_f_014129.3506It's4130.1709
3009 4131.6804red in color,4132.8065 
3011 4134.3775sweet in taste,4135.6878 
3013 4137.5657usually some kind of uh,4139.4084 
3015 4140.4157<ts>4140.4783 
3017 4140.7389not4141.0483 
3019 4141.2603jelly but4142.6216 
3021 4143.0687almost like a sweet and sour sauce is probably the closest, uh, thing I can think of.4147.4619 
3023 4149.3259But it's just something I feel like you just-4151.1819 
3025 4151.7171it's just one of those cultural things to DC that you just grow up with that you don't even think about.4156.3442 
3026DCB_int_014157.8492It's very much unique to DC.4159.3854
3027DCB_se3_ag3_f_014159.4271Yeah I didn't know that.4160.3482
3028DCB_int_014160.4778I didn't- well I4161.4823
3030 4161.6039knew [because I didn't know what] it was.4163.3383 
3031DCB_se3_ag3_f_014162.1183[Yeah.]4162.5770
3032DCB_int_014164.5825What about the carry out?4165.7921
3033DCB_se3_ag3_f_014167.9306<ts>4168.0140
3035 4169.0567Um,4170.4296 
3037 4171.4341<ts>4171.5036 
3039 4171.6530I feel like4173.8944 
3041 4175.1297that's someth- there was-4176.9266 
3043 4177.4723they weren't really in my neighborhoods growing up,4179.9798 
3045 4180.7300but there was one across the street from my dance class, which is why I've always been fat and-4187.5781 
3047 4188.2489I shouldn't say that cause I didn't go that often but4190.1275 
3049 4190.4118you know, that's one of the reasons.4191.7985 
3051 4192.1461There was one near my church although my dance school and my church were kind of in the same neighborhood.4195.8225 
3053 4196.5404Um,4197.2844 
3055 4198.3581I remember one of my friends got robbed and I laughed at her,4201.6904 
3057 4202.5393um-4203.4046 
3059 4203.8368<ts>4203.8993 
3061 4204.7057It's not funny I just didn't really like her, but she- she got robbed.4208.2369 
3063 4208.9713Like, he didn't have a gun, he pretended to have a gun and robbed her and she was-4213.1715 
3065 4213.5244and she should have been traumatized,4216.0523 
3067 4216.6153but a bunch of us, you know, when you're young and you're mean,4219.9500 
3069 4220.7628we chuckled, not to her face.4222.3790 
3071 4222.9629Um,4223.7310 
3073 4224.0299so that's just one of the memories that I have when I think of carry outs, but I mean4227.9445 
3075 4228.9664<ts> I try not to go that often, they're not very healthy.4231.4739 
3077 4232.0527I feel like when I got older and I moved back to DC there are things that are open4235.3209 
3079 4236.0195very late at night4237.2151 
3081 4237.3924after4238.1952 
3083 4238.3064clubs and whatnot when you're inebriated.4240.5180 
3085 4241.0672I hope that doesn't make it to the final cut of this uh, video but that's4244.7548 
3087 4245.1034I feel like their4245.9132 
3089 4246.1009purpose4246.8263 
3091 4246.9594primarily in my life where4248.9718 
3093 4250.3318I would attend randomly like growing up and4254.1168 
3095 4254.9718very often4256.3343 
3097 4256.5786at three AM after being at somebody's party.4259.5690 
3098DCB_int_014260.9961Okay.4261.5081
3100 4261.7757Can you describe a carry- like, do you go in? Do you order? Do you4265.1984 
3102 4266.4539sit and eat there? Well not at three in the morning, I don't know.4268.6714 
3103DCB_se3_ag3_f_014268.8567No.4269.2606
3105 4269.8611N- no all of the above. Like I feel like4272.2079 
3107 4276.8412<ts> I feel like I've probably eaten at them maybe when I was in high school but4280.3968 
3109 4281.5205I feel like when I was older and I would go, you go, you order your meal,4285.7152 
3111 4286.8810there are a bunch of4287.9967 
3113 4289.0776graphics on the wall, pictures of the food.4291.7538 
3115 4292.8601A lot of times you would l- say, I'd like number eleven,4295.3313 
3117 4298.0492or you say, I would like the three wings,4300.5959 
3119 4301.5503mumbo sauce,4303.1129 
3121 4303.6530fries with ketchup,4304.9018 
3123 4305.0096whichever is your- you know,4306.7683 
3125 4308.4991tickles your fancy, and I would usually take it and go eat it at home.4312.5354 
3127 4314.3219Uh,4315.0472 
3129 4316.8740plus I feel like here a lot of the carry outs are also like Chinese food places4320.3655 
3131 4321.0587too, so it's4322.1049 
3133 4322.5056I feel like you can get Chinese food4323.8507 
3135 4324.2400or wings,4325.1333 
3137 4325.4703or pizza,4326.3601 
3139 4326.7146or subs and I don't know if that's unique to DC,4329.0466 
3141 4329.3467but that's kind of like how I envision it.4331.8596 
3142DCB_int_014333.0761[It is.]4333.6505
3143DCB_se3_ag3_f_014333.5731[Yeah.]4334.0144
3144DCB_int_014333.9067Mm-hm.4334.1800
3145DCB_se3_ag3_f_014334.2137[Okay.]4334.6590
3146DCB_int_014334.6724It's your one stop shop.4335.7777
3147DCB_se3_ag3_f_014335.7638It is a one [stop shop.]4337.2409
3148DCB_int_014336.5180[It's like Walmart of]4337.4773
3149 4337.9673food.4338.3636
3150DCB_se3_ag3_f_014338.7111<ts> I've never ordered a pizza from one of those places though cause4341.9723
3152 4342.3686it's not some- yeah, I would think that's not their specialty.4345.1510 
3154 4345.4097<ts>4345.5140 
3155DCB_int_014345.5175Um,4346.0666
3157 4346.2832if you could leave one piece of advice, what would it be?4348.5859 
3159 4349.9882To-4350.9495 
3161 4352.5706to anybody.4353.1208 
3163 4354.5006Young people.4355.1300 
3164DCB_se3_ag3_f_014357.7816[Mm.]4359.8576
3165DCB_int_014357.8685[Old people.]4358.4179
3166DCB_se3_ag3_f_014359.9862I would4360.4763
3168 4360.5945think that I probably wouldn't have much advice for an old person.4363.7191 
3170 4363.9241<ts>4364.0284 
3172 4364.5810[But-]4365.4098 
3173DCB_int_014365.1208[You never] know.4365.7915
3174DCB_se3_ag3_f_014365.8889Mm, it's true. I don't know.4368.0383
3176 4369.0795Uh,4370.0979 
3178 4372.9177I don't know, maybe4374.6526 
3180 4377.5135for me,4378.6002 
3182 4379.6650I guess one piece of advice is-4382.4303 
3184 4383.0617Okay.4383.4545 
3186 4383.7881I guess from someone who4385.1655 
3188 4385.9187has grown up with education being such a central part of4390.1218 
3190 4390.9073my life with parents who were involved in education and4395.1033 
3192 4397.1262have had a- have had a lot of it is, uh,4400.0929 
3194 4401.9758you don't have to-4403.1471 
3196 4403.9152especially in today's day in age, you don't have to think of that- you don't have to think of going that traditional4408.9118 
3198 4409.5781path.4410.3888 
3200 4410.4539Think about what you want,4411.9113 
3202 4412.6168and if there's an alternative route to- maybe I shouldn't say that in a university study but4416.9058 
3204 4417.1769listen, you guys take a lot of our money, okay?4418.9008 
3206 4419.5066Um,4420.2866 
3208 4420.4381<ts>4420.5111 
3210 4420.8412if there's4421.3869 
3212 4421.5294another4422.4361 
3214 4423.1595way to get there,4424.6928 
3216 4425.1625don't be afraid to think of that.4427.2212 
3218 4428.7911Save you some coins.4430.2335 
3220 4431.1868Um,4431.7846 
3222 4433.3800So that- that probably'd be the advice I'd give, think about what you really wanna do,4436.5671 
3224 4437.2424and go after that, and if it's not a traditional4440.6659 
3226 4440.9857route,4441.6964 
3228 4442.2960don't be4443.1451 
3230 4443.2529afraid of that.4444.3964