Line | Speaker | St Time | Content | En Time |
1 | DCB_int_01 | 0.5310 | And can you give me your birthday? | 2.1924 |
2 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2.6397 | Seven two zero seven eight. | 4.0319 |
3 | DCB_int_01 | 8.3695 | Oh. | 9.0568 |
5 | | 9.8843 | Your birthday's the twentieth, mine's the twenty-seventh. | 11.8963 |
6 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 12.0305 | <ts> | 12.1373 |
8 | | 12.4910 | Twenty-second? | 13.0883 |
9 | DCB_int_01 | 13.2150 | Twenty-seventh. | 13.8523 |
11 | | 14.0825 | So we're a week [apart.] | 15.1803 |
12 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 14.5663 | [You's almost-] | 15.4372 |
13 | | 15.7742 | <ts> | 15.8743 |
15 | | 16.2613 | almost a Cancer. | 17.2720 |
16 | DCB_int_01 | 17.5701 | Uh, no, a Leo, Leo's are best, Leo's are best. | 19.9391 |
17 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 19.9591 | See, I was gonna say we was still good because you was in July at least. | 22.7251 |
18 | DCB_int_01 | 22.9128 | I was gonna give you [July] but you went with the Cancer [thing.] | 25.3574 |
19 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 23.5300 | [But-] | 23.8237 |
21 | | 25.0816 | [I was like], almost a Cancer. I ain't say nothing bad though. | 27.4605 |
22 | | 28.6091 | [See.] | 29.0863 |
23 | DCB_int_01 | 28.8494 | [I-] I was trying to go with the- [You know what, we gonna] move on. | 30.8294 |
24 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 29.8537 | [See.] | 30.3870 |
25 | | 30.9881 | [<laugh>] | 32.5964 |
26 | DCB_int_01 | 31.4653 | [Um, where were you born?] | 32.8452 |
27 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 33.2570 | Um, Washington, DC. | 34.5124 |
28 | DCB_int_01 | 35.3198 | What neighborhood do you claim? | 36.5544 |
29 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 37.2317 | Wow, there's so many. So, | 38.8533 |
31 | | 39.6274 | I grew up in Capers, right off of Seventh Street. | 41.6802 |
33 | | 42.4142 | But then we also lived | 43.6187 |
35 | | 43.8957 | in Parkside, which is like Mayfair, Paradise, | 46.7785 |
37 | | 47.2998 | Kenilworth | 47.9605 |
39 | | 48.1139 | Avenue area. | 49.0393 |
41 | | 49.6254 | And we lived over here, on Fifty-Sixth and Clay | 51.8142 |
43 | | 52.0645 | as well. | 52.6150 |
45 | | 52.9762 | But pretty much | 53.7836 |
47 | | 54.0572 | every Northeast and Southeast | 56.4195 |
49 | | 56.8399 | minus Southwest, Northwest. | 58.3881 |
50 | DCB_int_01 | 59.0696 | Mkay. | 59.4789 |
52 | | 60.0772 | How many years have you lived in the District, just total? | 63.0001 |
53 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 63.4814 | Oh god. <sigh> Let me see, I'm twenty-five, no. | 66.7279 |
55 | | 67.1249 | Um, <laugh> | 67.8556 |
57 | | 68.2393 | I would probably say about, fifteen | 70.9028 |
58 | DCB_int_01 | 71.3365 | Fifteen? | 71.8003 |
59 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 71.7970 | total. | 72.4103 |
60 | | 72.9481 | Yeah. | 73.4986 |
62 | | 74.0625 | It's so hard to distinguish cause when we crossed the line into PG it was like we were still in DC. | 77.7035 |
64 | | 78.7913 | It [literally was] across the light. | 79.8023 |
65 | DCB_int_01 | 78.8847 | [Mm.] | 79.2350 |
66 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 80.3828 | [<laugh>] | 81.3371 |
67 | DCB_int_01 | 80.5496 | [We'll talk about that in a] minute. | 81.7870 |
68 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 81.9777 | <laugh> | 82.1644 |
69 | DCB_int_01 | 82.1721 | Where have- other places you lived? | 83.7035 |
70 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 83.9404 | In the world? | 84.6778 |
71 | DCB_int_01 | 85.0015 | Mm, just- | 85.5520 |
73 | | 85.7589 | yeah. | 85.9657 |
74 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 85.9591 | <ts> | 86.0325 |
75 | | 86.5897 | Dover, Delaware, | 87.9944 |
77 | | 88.7393 | I lived in Texas, | 90.2207 |
79 | | 91.0215 | Spain, | 92.1893 |
81 | | 93.5439 | um, California, | 95.2133 |
83 | | 96.9681 | South Carolina, | 98.2748 |
85 | | 100.0511 | mm, | 100.4857 |
87 | | 100.8794 | I- I'm thinking that's it. | 102.0405 |
88 | DCB_int_01 | 103.5287 | And where'd you go to school? | 105.0068 |
89 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 105.7141 | <ts> | 105.7875 |
91 | | 105.9543 | Elementary I went to /RD-SCHOOL-4/ that was right there in | 108.4643 |
93 | | 108.6878 | Parkside, Northeast. | 109.6755 |
95 | | 110.2527 | And then, um, junior high, in- in, uh, high school I was in Maryland, | 114.2040 |
97 | | 114.4710 | PG. | 114.8790 |
98 | DCB_int_01 | 115.5520 | Where? | 115.8267 |
99 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 116.1025 | <ts> | 116.1826 |
101 | | 116.3127 | Um, well, I went to three different high schools. | 118.1379 |
103 | | 118.5825 | I went to, | 119.3399 |
105 | | 119.6735 | uh, /RD-SCHOOL-3/, | 120.5811 |
107 | | 121.7022 | then I went to | 122.8066 |
109 | | 123.8376 | /RD-SCHOOL-2/ and /RD-SCHOOL-3/. | 125.1797 |
110 | DCB_int_01 | 126.4209 | Mm. | 126.8947 |
112 | | 132.1607 | What do you do now? | 132.9247 |
113 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 133.9758 | I work with the /RD-WORK-4/ as their VP of Human Resources. | 137.5701 |
114 | DCB_int_01 | 137.7803 | What did you right before you came here? | 139.3856 |
115 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 139.9758 | Um, worked with /RD-WORK-4/ | 142.3022 |
117 | | 142.7226 | as their chief HR, | 143.8270 |
119 | | 144.2908 | and, um, /RD-WORK-3/ as their VP | 146.4863 |
121 | | 146.8266 | of HR. | 147.4639 |
123 | | 148.0886 | Um, a few other, uh, civilian places. /Always/ HR capacity, and prior to that, in the military for ten years, in HR capacity. | 155.0562 |
124 | DCB_int_01 | 155.6735 | Hm. | 155.9949 |
126 | | 156.4977 | Where were your parents born? | 157.6603 |
127 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 157.7889 | <ts> | 157.8757 |
129 | | 158.3595 | Uh, my mother was born | 160.1687 |
131 | | 160.5524 | in South Carolina, raised in DC. | 162.3775 |
133 | | 163.5920 | My father was born and raised in DC. | 165.1269 |
134 | DCB_int_01 | 167.1363 | And what did your parents do? | 168.6333 |
135 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 168.9514 | <ts> | 169.0448 |
137 | | 169.5887 | My father, um, he was- | 171.4572 |
139 | | 171.7375 | he was a police officer for a short time, | 173.2264 |
141 | | 174.1573 | and then he was in the military reserves | 176.7693 |
143 | | 177.0668 | for a short time. | 177.8188 |
145 | | 178.5257 | Um, and then I'm not sure if you heard of /RD-WORK-8/ but he's owner | 181.9591 |
147 | | 182.2193 | of- part owner of /RD-WORK-8/. | 184.0244 |
149 | | 184.4757 | Have all the contracts /?/ DC, Maryland, Virginia and one of the oldest ones around. | 187.3752 |
150 | DCB_int_01 | 188.6030 | I do [know them.] | 189.3830 |
151 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 188.9734 | [My m-] | 189.2270 |
152 | | 189.5573 | yup, my mom, | 190.5057 |
154 | | 190.8294 | um, | 191.4400 |
156 | | 192.1640 | worked for the Coast Guard | 193.1283 |
158 | | 193.2784 | as civilian and military, | 194.7198 |
160 | | 195.0401 | pretty much since she was fourteen. | 196.2179 |
161 | DCB_int_01 | 196.6992 | [Wow. (whispered)] | 197.1163 |
162 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 196.8961 | [Um], retired Coast Guard, | 198.4775 |
163 | | 198.9014 | and, um, retired Coast Guard civilian as well. | 200.8766 |
164 | DCB_int_01 | 202.8794 | Hm. | 203.1541 |
166 | | 204.0372 | And | 204.9314 |
168 | | 205.5287 | so, let me ask you this. | 207.3740 |
169 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 207.4105 | Mm-hm. | 207.7408 |
170 | DCB_int_01 | 208.1420 | Thinking about- | 209.2031 |
172 | | 211.5987 | Well, let me start- | 212.1759 |
174 | | 212.3027 | let me go back. | 212.9967 |
176 | | 213.2570 | So tell me a little bit about your neighborhood, what- | 215.1330 |
178 | | 215.3232 | the neighborhood that you most connect with when you were little, and it may be two or three different ones. [So tell] me kind of about growing up, maybe your house, kind of the street you lived on. | 223.0615 |
179 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 218.9270 | [Mm-hm.] | 219.2670 |
180 | | 224.1025 | Wasn't a house. | 224.6397 |
182 | | 224.9133 | Um, <laugh> it was definitely apartment. | 226.6183 |
184 | | 227.1463 | Um, <ts> we had row house at one point on Eighteenth Place when we was in Southeast. | 230.7637 |
186 | | 231.1369 | Um, but they were always apartment buildings, always- | 233.4900 |
188 | | 233.7469 | always the PJs, the projects. | 235.3318 |
190 | | 235.8690 | Um, but I had fun. | 236.9801 |
192 | | 237.3271 | Um, | 237.8276 |
194 | | 238.3214 | growing up, | 238.8594 |
196 | | 238.9828 | it's- it's weird knowing that you survived that, | 241.0549 |
198 | | 241.4819 | because being a child, | 242.5029 |
200 | | 242.9967 | you don't really notice. | 243.9810 |
201 | DCB_int_01 | 244.3776 | [Mm-hm.] | 244.7491 |
202 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 244.6025 | [It's-] it's normal, | 245.6935 |
203 | | 246.2307 | it seems normal. You don't really | 247.7689 |
205 | | 247.9858 | realize the conditions you're in | 249.7074 |
207 | | 250.2221 | because you're just so happy. | 251.5128 |
209 | | 251.8704 | Because my parents did a really good job, they- first of all it was very rare, | 254.3061 |
211 | | 254.6931 | my parents were together | 255.6941 |
213 | | 256.1412 | married, the entire time til my father passed away, | 258.4009 |
215 | | 258.8313 | which was twenty something years into their marriage. | 261.3380 |
217 | | 261.6607 | So, | 262.0911 |
219 | | 262.7593 | that was very rare, to see like, | 264.2708 |
221 | | 264.5682 | /actually/ my dad's, uh, black and Dominican and Italian, my mom's, | 268.2146 |
223 | | 268.3422 | um, <ts> | 268.9628 |
225 | | 269.3999 | uh, | 269.8537 |
227 | | 270.0005 | Jewish and | 270.6144 |
229 | | 270.8280 | African American. | 271.4840 |
231 | | 272.4062 | You don't s- | 272.9100 |
233 | | 273.1669 | but from face value they just look African American. You don't see that | 276.5453 |
235 | | 276.7712 | a lot | 277.1273 |
237 | | 277.8223 | in this community, so. | 279.1335 |
239 | | 279.6374 | That was a rare part. So I had that, | 280.9161 |
241 | | 281.4733 | and then just a happy childhood, so if there was any struggles, | 283.9090 |
243 | | 284.4262 | we never knew. | 285.0689 |
245 | | 285.7074 | I'm the youngest of four. | 286.8052 |
247 | | 287.5534 | So we never knew. | 288.2374 |
249 | | 288.9481 | Um, | 289.5520 |
251 | | 290.4095 | so I had a lot of fun. I didn't realize I'm in the ghetto, I'm in the hood, I'm in the projects. | 293.9471 |
253 | | 294.4943 | People getting shot over there, crackhead over there. Cause the crackheads was funny, and they was nice, and we ain't know they was on crack. | 298.6325 |
255 | | 299.0396 | So, | 299.4333 |
257 | | 299.9471 | um, and that's how it should be | 301.4352 |
259 | | 301.8590 | when you grow up. So that's what I remember the most. | 303.4305 |
261 | | 303.8918 | It's not more so my neighborhood, it's the- | 305.8137 |
263 | | 306.2174 | it's the reality that my parents chose to give us of our | 309.6073 |
265 | | 309.8384 | environment, | 310.3789 |
267 | | 310.8727 | which was | 311.4133 |
269 | | 311.6034 | a good one. | 311.9794 |
271 | | 312.4309 | So, | 312.8280 |
273 | | 313.0515 | being | 313.4986 |
275 | | 314.1559 | an adult today, | 315.1736 |
277 | | 315.5072 | when I ride in that neighborhood and I know I'm like, | 317.0596 |
279 | | 317.8036 | that's where I was? (laughing) | 318.8480 |
280 | DCB_int_01 | 319.0382 | Mm. | 319.3718 |
281 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 319.3251 | Cause I know | 320.1392 |
282 | | 320.4662 | today, | 321.0956 |
284 | | 321.6507 | what that was. And, um, so they taught me | 324.3542 |
286 | | 324.5510 | how to be with my kids, if ever. | 326.0358 |
288 | | 326.4996 | Luckily they taught me enough to be like, you need to get a education so you never have to | 330.2975 |
290 | | 331.0816 | create | 331.4695 |
292 | | 331.9324 | those types of realities for your kids. | 333.4238 |
293 | DCB_int_01 | 334.3748 | So, | 335.1497 |
295 | | 336.4710 | were you- okay, so you were the youngest of four. How- [tell me about] your siblings. | 339.5673 |
296 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 338.6097 | [Mm.] | 338.8466 |
298 | | 339.5573 | <ts> | 339.6340 |
299 | | 339.9377 | I have two brothers and a sister. They're all | 341.9805 |
301 | | 342.4042 | eight, nine, and ten years apart from me. | 343.7222 |
303 | | 344.2560 | But they're all back to back. | 345.0268 |
305 | | 345.6883 | So I'm the baby. | 346.4014 |
307 | | 347.2197 | And, um, | 347.8403 |
309 | | 348.5644 | they- It's weird cause | 349.7222 |
311 | | 349.8123 | with being like now | 351.3763 |
313 | | 351.7575 | people can't even tell that we're- | 352.9862 |
315 | | 353.5567 | they never could really tell other than when I'm a baby, but | 355.9724 |
317 | | 356.4362 | they could not tell that we were so far apart. | 358.1412 |
319 | | 358.5090 | Cause I grew up really fast being with them. | 360.2507 |
320 | DCB_int_01 | 360.6445 | Right. | 360.9845 |
321 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 361.0715 | You know, always such a older | 362.4462 |
323 | | 362.7365 | mentality. | 363.3472 |
325 | | 363.9844 | <ts> Um, | 364.5424 |
327 | | 365.2097 | it was good | 365.9304 |
329 | | 366.3442 | growing up with my siblings. I never felt like I was the (laughing) youngest, I felt like | 369.2103 |
331 | | 369.7508 | I was just one of them. | 370.5549 |
332 | DCB_int_01 | 371.6435 | Do you think- | 372.6111 |
334 | | 372.9514 | Okay so when you talk about growing up really fast, what do you think | 375.1602 |
336 | | 375.3671 | that- | 375.6841 |
338 | | 376.1212 | what do you- what do you mean by that? Like what- | 377.6492 |
340 | | 377.8537 | how did that cause you to be different | 379.2310 |
341 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 379.5053 | [Mm-hm.] | 379.8757 |
342 | DCB_int_01 | 379.7288 | [from] like someone who's like- So when you were [six,] | 381.9057 |
343 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 381.4906 | [<clears throat>] | 382.3881 |
344 | DCB_int_01 | 382.2321 | [versus] when your friends were six. | 384.2207 |
345 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 384.3809 | The mentality, the conversations that I could have I couldn't have with my peer group cause they didn't understand those conversations. | 389.3532 |
347 | | 389.8303 | So my peer groups tend to be older because I can | 392.5430 |
349 | | 392.9934 | communicate | 393.5273 |
351 | | 393.9677 | with them | 394.4356 |
353 | | 394.9094 | whereas like, my six year old friends at that time, | 397.6087 |
355 | | 397.9557 | they had no idea. | 398.7765 |
357 | | 399.2036 | We're talking about earmarks and budgets cause that's what I sat and listened to my mom talk about cause she did budget analyst for (laughing) | 404.0625 |
359 | | 404.5730 | the [Coast Guard] and- and all the way through with the DOD for the President, so. | 407.5367 |
360 | DCB_int_01 | 404.6664 | [<laugh>] | 405.1317 |
361 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 407.9638 | We talking about earmarks, | 408.8980 |
363 | | 409.1816 | and budgets, and we're talking about | 410.5763 |
365 | | 410.8499 | deficits and stuff, and they're like, what is | 412.3681 |
367 | | 412.7927 | a defic- I'm like, you don't know what a deficit is? (laughing) You know, | 414.7579 |
369 | | 415.2250 | so those were my conversations at six years old. | 417.3838 |
370 | DCB_int_01 | 418.9461 | Wow. (whispered) | 419.3565 |
372 | | 420.0405 | And your | 420.4209 |
374 | | 420.5911 | brothers and sisters talk this way too? | 421.9157 |
375 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 421.9824 | They talk that way too. | 422.7365 |
377 | | 422.9100 | That's- these are the things- cause this is what we're- | 424.6225 |
379 | | 425.7569 | Outside is outside, but in the house, | 427.3718 |
381 | | 427.9824 | this is what we're hearing. We're hearing my mother, my dad was a entrepreneur. | 430.6317 |
383 | | 431.1497 | We're hearing things about that, so | 432.3041 |
385 | | 432.6678 | in my mind, | 433.3885 |
387 | | 434.0925 | I'm supposed to be entrepreneur. | 434.9334 |
389 | | 435.1903 | That's what they did, I have my own business as well. | 436.4849 |
391 | | 436.7092 | So in my mind, | 437.5701 |
393 | | 438.4910 | I'm supposed to have | 439.7656 |
395 | | 440.0692 | all these pieces of papers and accolades. And | 441.7909 |
397 | | 442.1979 | growing up it was a normal thing. Like, oh we're supposed to go to school and | 444.9014 |
399 | | 445.2951 | get this and | 445.9884 |
401 | | 446.7298 | it was just a normal | 447.8525 |
403 | | 448.0853 | thing. | 448.4924 |
405 | | 448.7226 | And I liked the fact that | 449.8904 |
407 | | 450.3942 | it was more of a mindset versus a | 452.3261 |
409 | | 452.6197 | chore or struggle. | 453.6304 |
411 | | 454.5416 | Yeah. | 454.8327 |
412 | DCB_int_01 | 455.1163 | Tell me about school then. | 456.2241 |
413 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 456.5110 | What about it? | 457.0382 |
414 | DCB_int_01 | 457.5387 | When you were in elementary school, did you- did you do well? Did you like school? Was it too [easy for] you? | 463.1016 |
415 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 462.1974 | [Mm-hm. | 462.5510 |
416 | | 463.7155 | Um, I absolutely hated elementary school, but I did very well, but I was very bored. | 467.7069 |
418 | | 468.1240 | Because, | 468.6011 |
420 | | 469.4953 | I went to school and I was not interested in | 472.4148 |
422 | | 472.8227 | any of that stuff. | 473.8103 |
424 | | 474.4509 | I wanted to talk about financials <laugh> and I wanted to talk about | 478.0344 |
426 | | 478.3722 | how to write a check. | 479.2097 |
428 | | 479.6902 | And I wanted to talk about things- I wanted to talk about | 482.1793 |
430 | | 482.4362 | technology and stuff like that. | 483.9402 |
432 | | 484.9461 | And the- | 485.5134 |
434 | | 486.2341 | the teachers weren't even talking about that. | 487.7322 |
436 | | 488.3094 | I didn't care about | 489.4294 |
438 | | 489.9585 | elementary math, I didn't care about | 491.8871 |
440 | | 492.4609 | that history, I didn't care. | 493.7522 |
442 | | 494.0725 | I just did it because I knew that's what I needed to do to get my piece of paper. | 497.1430 |
444 | | 497.5434 | And I wanted my piece of paper. That's part of my plan, so. | 500.0625 |
446 | | 500.6097 | That was my | 501.1769 |
448 | | 501.5039 | like, juvenile | 502.6425 |
450 | | 503.2898 | mentality. | 504.0472 |
452 | | 504.4643 | At the same time, a mature mentality. | 506.0470 |
453 | DCB_int_01 | 508.9161 | So- okay, so this is- so you're growing up in the eighties, right? So technology is not- | 512.8800 |
455 | | 513.0034 | when you talk about technology, | 514.1679 |
457 | | 514.4090 | what was your reality of technology when you were young? | 516.5944 |
458 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 516.5944 | Well, Microsoft was coming out, you know, the t- the- the big square TV looking computers, that was the thing. | 521.8704 |
459 | | 522.4643 | Um, | 522.8780 |
461 | | 523.2017 | you had cell phones that were coming out, they look like | 525.5973 |
463 | | 525.8442 | TVs on your hip, and pagers and stuff like that. So, | 528.5010 |
465 | | 529.3184 | that was technology to me, I wanted to know how is it that these beepers connect, and what are the frequencies and wavelengths in the | 535.2017 |
467 | | 535.6788 | air that's making that happen and stuff like that. | 538.0511 |
469 | | 538.3055 | So that was | 538.8327 |
471 | | 539.2965 | technology that kids my age weren't | 541.1516 |
473 | | 541.9057 | really paying attention to. You know, I was learning to type | 543.8184 |
475 | | 544.2388 | at eight years old. | 545.0229 |
477 | | 545.3365 | They weren't paying attention to that, and to me that was a /?/. | 547.5987 |
478 | DCB_int_01 | 549.1002 | So were your friends- Okay thinking about your like- | 551.3999 |
480 | | 551.9171 | Did you have a lot of kids in your neighborhood? | 553.1049 |
481 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 553.1550 | Mm-hm. | 553.4319 |
482 | DCB_int_01 | 554.0358 | Did y'all play together? | 554.8299 |
483 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 555.2770 | We did whenever, um, I was done | 557.5768 |
485 | | 557.9771 | playing with the friends I chose to be with. | 559.4886 |
487 | | 559.7789 | I'd be like, well, I ain't got nobody else /play/ play with y'all. | 561.2070 |
489 | | 561.7683 | Um, so. | 562.4557 |
490 | DCB_int_01 | 562.6392 | <laugh> | 562.7927 |
492 | | 563.2665 | Uh, | 563.5234 |
494 | | 563.9738 | [/yeah/] | 564.1506 |
495 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 563.9805 | [So] yeah it was [like that.] | 564.9911 |
496 | DCB_int_01 | 564.5677 | [/this/ ain't] nobody [else.] | 565.6298 |
497 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 565.5020 | [I mean], I was really grateful to have | 567.3438 |
498 | | 567.8484 | parents that really nurtured | 569.1830 |
500 | | 569.5667 | what I wanted to do. Because | 570.7412 |
502 | | 571.2918 | they had to sacrifice, they had to like, drive far to take me to be around the type of kids that | 575.6502 |
504 | | 576.2374 | could | 576.5010 |
506 | | 576.8680 | keep my interest. | 577.6855 |
508 | | 578.0291 | Because, see, | 578.6831 |
510 | | 579.4981 | <ts> kids in more affluent | 580.6834 |
512 | | 580.9528 | neighborhoods, | 581.5801 |
514 | | 582.1206 | that was a normal thing, | 583.3140 |
516 | | 583.7222 | a normal conversation, so | 585.0034 |
518 | | 585.6307 | I- they would take me to go | 587.0462 |
520 | | 587.4233 | play with those kids while they do tea time with their moms and | 589.9949 |
522 | | 590.4963 | whatever. | 590.9300 |
524 | | 591.5173 | I'm playing with these kids who | 593.0629 |
526 | | 593.4767 | aren't. No, | 594.1440 |
528 | | 594.7245 | I would say there's pros and cons to it. Some would say, | 596.6998 |
530 | | 597.1969 | oh, did you miss your childhood? I feel like I really s- I really did have | 600.0305 |
532 | | 600.3175 | a childhood. I didn't have to worry about | 602.2093 |
534 | | 602.6965 | bills and where we gonna get food, that wasn't my issue. | 605.4133 |
536 | | 605.9137 | I chose to make my childhood | 608.0058 |
538 | | 608.7966 | more intellectual. | 609.8643 |
540 | | 610.4128 | Versus playing | 611.2002 |
542 | | 611.6540 | hide and seek unless we was gonna be seeking, | 613.6969 |
544 | | 614.2031 | I don't know, the stock market or something. | 615.2708 |
546 | | 615.7012 | Like I (laughing) wasn't really | 616.8386 |
548 | | 617.1401 | interested in that. | 617.7207 |
549 | DCB_int_01 | 619.4490 | So- okay, so you were in this area, you were in Northeast. So your [parents-] so did you drive to like, Northwest or did you drive [to like], Potomac? | 626.0477 |
550 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 622.3827 | [Mm-hm.] | 622.7464 |
552 | | 625.3489 | [Mm,] | 625.6259 |
553 | DCB_int_01 | 626.2732 | Like where'd your [parents] take you to go play with your friends? | 628.6989 |
554 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 626.6969 | [yeah.] | 626.9823 |
555 | | 628.7264 | At that time it wasn't really Northwest. Northwest wasn't really that affluent | 631.2555 |
557 | | 631.6993 | back then. Northwest just started becoming affluent in I would say the past fifteen years or so. | 635.8008 |
559 | | 636.3480 | Um, | 636.8318 |
561 | | 637.0954 | it was more like, Potomac, | 638.6502 |
562 | DCB_int_01 | 638.7470 | [Mm-hm.] | 639.1807 |
563 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 639.0206 | [Cheverly], which over that [Northwest] line. | 640.5487 |
564 | DCB_int_01 | 639.9823 | [Mm-hm.] | 640.3183 |
565 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 641.0300 | Georgetown, parts of Georgetown. | 642.3146 |
567 | | 642.5915 | Anything close to the hill, | 643.5491 |
569 | | 643.8494 | cause she worked in a lot of /??/ politician, political stuff, so, | 646.5454 |
571 | | 647.2035 | stuff like that. Um, | 648.5189 |
573 | | 648.8718 | <ts> | 648.9452 |
575 | | 649.1688 | they would take me to those things, or, | 650.7236 |
577 | | 651.2074 | um, to some of those | 652.4686 |
579 | | 652.6296 | types of exhibits | 653.6406 |
581 | | 653.9976 | or whatever. | 654.5550 |
583 | | 655.1254 | Um, I liked to dream big | 656.5835 |
585 | | 656.7203 | growing up. So they would take me places that I could just sit | 659.0267 |
587 | | 659.2803 | and they would let me like, | 659.9943 |
589 | | 660.6983 | that's gonna be my house, | 661.6726 |
591 | | 662.0663 | that's gonna be my whatever (laughing). | 663.1240 |
593 | | 663.6612 | I always liked to just | 664.7656 |
595 | | 665.0334 | dream big. And they- they nurtured that | 666.4848 |
597 | | 666.8351 | growing up, so. | 667.5558 |
599 | | 667.8861 | <ts> | 667.9462 |
601 | | 668.4033 | I have no complaints at all. And so I think it made it easier | 671.4738 |
603 | | 671.8809 | for me when I- when I grew up | 673.1955 |
605 | | 673.7360 | and I wanted to get out and do things cause I knew | 675.8147 |
607 | | 676.2666 | there was a whole nother world. | 677.3136 |
609 | | 677.7340 | And but now I actually wanted to see it. | 679.0887 |
610 | DCB_int_01 | 681.7713 | Okay so at- did you ever like school then? | 684.2412 |
612 | | 684.4748 | Did you ever | 684.9986 |
613 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 685.0320 | I [didn't start] liking school til high school. | 686.2440 |
614 | DCB_int_01 | 685.1988 | [en-] | 685.3723 |
615 | | 686.5868 | So tell me about high [school.] | 687.5801 |
616 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 687.2775 | [Yeah.] | 687.5144 |
617 | | 688.1083 | Oh high school was very fun. I was pretty much in everything, I was on- | 691.1254 |
619 | | 691.4924 | well, I started debate team in eighth grade. | 692.7770 |
621 | | 693.3509 | I was on debate team, | 694.3385 |
623 | | 694.6196 | <ts> | 694.6897 |
625 | | 694.8999 | I was in ROTC | 695.9042 |
627 | | 696.0844 | the whole time. | 696.7297 |
629 | | 697.3890 | Um, drama | 698.6335 |
631 | | 699.0206 | club | 699.4926 |
632 | DCB_int_01 | 699.6479 | I can [see that.] | 700.3218 |
633 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 699.9815 | [as well.] | 700.5120 |
634 | | 701.2069 | I know. No. [<laugh>] | 702.7384 |
635 | DCB_int_01 | 702.5548 | [<laugh>] | 703.5124 |
636 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 703.4958 | Drama club, um, | 705.1507 |
637 | | 705.3809 | media team, | 706.3285 |
639 | | 706.9199 | <ts> | 707.0033 |
641 | | 707.1835 | and, um, | 708.3580 |
643 | | 709.1454 | just regular classes. | 710.2498 |
645 | | 710.5167 | I didn't do any AP classes and people were so shocked. | 713.2035 |
647 | | 713.6339 | And I felt like, | 714.4281 |
649 | | 715.0286 | <ts> I don't wanna do AP because, | 716.7803 |
651 | | 717.6045 | you know, you go through the whole class and you can make straight A's, but that one test you take at the end of the year, | 722.1531 |
653 | | 722.5902 | if you don't pass it, you fail the class. | 723.7675 |
655 | | 724.1692 | And | 724.4928 |
657 | | 724.9066 | I didn't really think, oh I won't pass it, but I'm like, <ts> | 726.8184 |
659 | | 727.1955 | what if I get sick, | 728.0963 |
661 | | 728.4133 | or I don't do- I was- I always had these what ifs. /I said no,/ | 730.6883 |
663 | | 731.1234 | I can- I can do these so called regular classes | 734.3057 |
665 | | 734.5806 | and I can do additional stuff on my own, I don't need the grade for that. | 737.0113 |
667 | | 738.1040 | Yeah. | 738.4377 |
668 | DCB_int_01 | 738.9323 | So what- okay, so you started at /RD-SCHOOL-3/. So how'd [you get- Okay], from /RD-SCHOOL-3/- | 742.2823 |
669 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 741.0844 | [Mm-hm.] | 741.5071 |
670 | DCB_int_01 | 742.7327 | Was /RD-SCHOOL-3/ because your parents wanted you to be exposed, or did y'all move over to that area? Why'd you start there and then end up /RD-SCHOOL-3/? | 748.5225 |
671 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 747.2546 | <ts> | 747.3046 |
672 | | 748.5292 | /RD-SCHOOL-3/ high school in [PG County?] | 750.1307 |
673 | DCB_int_01 | 749.5602 | [Mm-hm.] | 749.8705 |
674 | | 751.3928 | <ts> | 751.4729 |
676 | | 751.7298 | Oh, p- ah, I was [thinking-] | 753.6149 |
677 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 753.5048 | [Yeah] [no.] | 754.0216 |
678 | DCB_int_01 | 753.8452 | [Mm.] | 754.3105 |
679 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 754.1930 | [There's] no [exposure there.] | 755.0418 |
680 | DCB_int_01 | 754.8361 | [Mm.] | 755.1264 |
681 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 755.4167 | Um, | 755.7604 |
682 | DCB_int_01 | 755.7549 | <ts> | 755.8050 |
683 | | 755.8951 | [I was wrong.] | 756.4815 |
684 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 755.9009 | [Right over the Southeast line.] | 757.1455 |
685 | DCB_int_01 | 756.8185 | [Mm.] Mm-hm.] | 757.4825 |
686 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 757.6860 | Wheeler Road. | 758.0953 |
688 | | 758.5535 | Yeah, so. [<laugh>] | 759.6512 |
689 | DCB_int_01 | 759.4852 | [Wrong-] | 759.8000 |
690 | | 759.9690 | Wrong /RD-SCHOOL-3/, wrong [/RD-SCHOOL-3/.] | 761.4605 |
691 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 761.0167 | [Right, yeah no.] | 761.7901 |
692 | DCB_int_01 | 761.5739 | [My] bad. | 762.1619 |
693 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 762.2179 | Prince George's [County's.] | 763.3423 |
694 | DCB_int_01 | 763.0721 | [Mm-hm.] | 763.5425 |
695 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 763.9763 | Mm-hm. <laugh> | 765.1140 |
697 | | 765.5111 | [Uh, no we-] we just happened to move over the line, | 768.2813 |
698 | DCB_int_01 | 765.7789 | [Wrong county.] | 766.4881 |
699 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 768.4414 | Um, right off of- | 769.5392 |
701 | | 769.9095 | in Oxon Hill, right off of Wheeler Road, so | 771.7949 |
703 | | 772.4028 | right there in p- the school | 773.9910 |
705 | | 774.3981 | was right there. | 775.1354 |
707 | | 775.6326 | And then we moved again. That was a house | 777.5219 |
709 | | 777.8856 | that we- we was renting. | 778.9233 |
711 | | 779.4238 | Um, then we moved again | 780.9786 |
713 | | 781.2322 | <ts> | 781.2989 |
715 | | 781.4658 | to, um, Suitland. | 782.9172 |
716 | DCB_int_01 | 783.3918 | [Mm-hm.] | 783.7021 |
717 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 783.5219 | [Off] of, um, | 784.7873 |
718 | | 785.7941 | Silver Hill R- yeah, Silver Hill Road. | 787.5859 |
720 | | 788.0130 | Cause that's Suitland that way. So Silver Hill Road | 789.6913 |
722 | | 789.9924 | and so- so /RD-SCHOOL-2/ was the school for that. | 792.1245 |
724 | | 792.5916 | Um, | 793.0520 |
726 | | 793.8161 | and then, | 794.6636 |
728 | | 795.0907 | /RD-SCHOOL-2/ | 796.0294 |
730 | | 796.8732 | she- So the thing is, in high school, | 798.8251 |
732 | | 799.1888 | <ts> | 799.2622 |
734 | | 799.3523 | I was extremely smart, always had a four point O or better, | 802.3060 |
736 | | 803.1869 | but I was always fighting, | 804.3881 |
738 | | 805.0187 | all the times. I was always- | 806.4834 |
740 | | 806.6469 | Boys, | 807.1774 |
742 | | 807.3009 | mostly. | 807.7796 |
744 | | 808.4528 | Always fighting. (laughing) | 809.4939 |
746 | | 810.0844 | So- and this is when I first learned that | 812.2365 |
748 | | 812.5401 | <ts> educational system- | 813.7622 |
750 | | 814.3995 | the public educational system, | 815.9576 |
752 | | 816.3814 | um, really don't care about | 817.6159 |
754 | | 818.2799 | kids | 818.9205 |
756 | | 819.3685 | or what you're learning and | 820.7298 |
758 | | 820.8566 | <ts> | 820.9133 |
760 | | 821.0167 | your education, they care about their numbers. | 822.8418 |
762 | | 823.4057 | And I learned that because it would take until | 825.8457 |
764 | | 826.2960 | the very end of the year | 827.6280 |
766 | | 828.2713 | when we could freeze the grades before they would say, okay she can't come back to school. (laughing) | 832.3561 |
768 | | 832.9767 | Cause they wanna keep those numbers up cause I had good grades. | 835.3490 |
770 | | 836.0630 | But my counterparts or my ch- my other- my peers | 838.9533 |
772 | | 839.6473 | who didn't have good grades who may have been in the same level of trouble or better, | 843.6446 |
774 | | 843.9824 | oh they're gone the first | 845.1402 |
776 | | 845.7608 | little thing they do. | 846.6650 |
778 | | 847.2122 | They were suspended, in school suspension, they're | 849.1307 |
780 | | 849.6345 | expelled even. | 850.5463 |
782 | | 850.9066 | So, one particular incident in /RD-SCHOOL-2/, | 853.4291 |
784 | | 853.6560 | um, | 854.1064 |
786 | | 854.5869 | I left /RD-SCHOOL-2/, | 855.6479 |
788 | | 856.0291 | cause we moved. | 856.7698 |
790 | | 857.3604 | Uh, but in /RD-SCHOOL-2/ where I got in the most trouble. | 859.3338 |
792 | | 859.7360 | And, | 860.2532 |
794 | | 860.6169 | end of the year, same thing. I was used to it, /so many of/ the same thing. | 863.0134 |
796 | | 863.4972 | But I was leaving anyway. | 864.5382 |
798 | | 865.1755 | End of the year, | 865.8888 |
800 | | 866.2866 | there was me, my cousin who's a lawyer now (laughing) who went to Howard. [<laugh>] | 869.1602 |
801 | DCB_int_01 | 869.0801 | [<laugh>] | 869.7614 |
802 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 869.7441 | Um, | 870.0844 |
803 | | 870.2746 | it's funny. | 870.7417 |
805 | | 871.1555 | But, <laugh> | 871.4958 |
807 | | 871.7894 | um, | 872.1898 |
809 | | 872.7504 | and my other cousin, who's not a lawyer, | 874.5563 |
811 | | 874.9700 | and, | 875.3837 |
813 | | 876.0511 | <ts> um, | 876.5382 |
815 | | 876.7684 | couple of friends of ours and we all | 878.0664 |
817 | | 878.4834 | in this together, we're all in the office and | 880.3060 |
819 | | 880.6697 | we're getting suspended. | 881.5139 |
821 | | 882.1478 | And so | 883.0854 |
823 | | 883.6924 | they freeze my grades, they freeze my cousin's grades who's a lawyer. She had pretty good grades. | 887.3737 |
825 | | 887.9610 | But the other three, | 889.0821 |
827 | | 889.4391 | they didn't freeze their grades and they got kicked out. | 891.1240 |
829 | | 892.2260 | And they had to take like these summer classes and stuff. And I'm like, | 894.3440 |
831 | | 895.0754 | <ts> | 895.1421 |
833 | | 895.9129 | all five of us are involved in this thing but I'm the only one that actually physically assaulted somebody. <laugh> And | 900.5082 |
834 | DCB_int_01 | 900.8685 | [Mm.] | 901.1939 |
835 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 900.9720 | [I don't] get- and so I- This was in tenth grade. | 903.2008 |
836 | | 903.4852 | And so I'm like, | 904.1052 |
838 | | 904.2760 | <ts> | 904.3327 |
840 | | 904.9567 | you know, | 905.5539 |
842 | | 906.0144 | I'm really starting to learn that these school systems, | 908.6503 |
844 | | 909.1441 | um, at that time, I can't speak for now, it's probably worse. | 911.4838 |
846 | | 911.8809 | But | 912.1011 |
848 | | 912.5182 | they don't really care | 913.6560 |
850 | | 914.0230 | about | 914.4501 |
852 | | 915.1874 | the education, it's about the numbers. | 916.6754 |
854 | | 917.3370 | Okay? | 917.7508 |
856 | | 918.1979 | It's about how much more programs and attention and money they can get into their programs because | 922.8566 |
858 | | 923.3170 | we are producing these types of | 925.4086 |
860 | | 925.8862 | <ts> | 925.9729 |
862 | | 926.4834 | academ- academically, | 927.8122 |
864 | | 928.3761 | um, | 928.8399 |
866 | | 929.1101 | excelled | 929.9576 |
868 | | 930.2980 | children, | 930.6860 |
870 | | 931.1021 | right? | 931.3554 |
872 | | 932.5301 | So I learned that. | 933.3581 |
874 | | 933.6821 | Um, | 934.1859 |
876 | | 934.3260 | so /RD-SCHOOL-2/ kicked me out, of course | 935.7141 |
878 | | 936.6383 | at the end of the year when there was like, a week left of school. [<laugh>] | 939.4652 |
879 | DCB_int_01 | 939.1416 | [Right.] | 939.5119 |
880 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 939.8723 | And I'm done, you know, I- I done gave you good grades. | 942.2045 |
882 | | 942.3881 | So I go to p- /RD-SCHOOL-3/, | 943.8728 |
884 | | 944.2532 | and we still lived- And at this point we bought a house, | 946.7765 |
886 | | 947.2002 | our very first home, we purchased a home, so we rich now. | 950.0753 |
888 | | 950.4300 | Um, <laugh> | 951.4886 |
890 | | 951.9557 | right across from Andrews | 953.4305 |
892 | | 953.7675 | Air Force [Base.] | 954.5682 |
893 | DCB_int_01 | 954.2613 | [Mm-hm.] | 954.7351 |
894 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 955.0087 | Really nice neighborhood at the time. I would say right now it's- mm, | 957.6721 |
896 | | 957.8723 | it's teetering. | 958.4328 |
898 | | 958.9400 | Still close to the line, | 959.9243 |
900 | | 960.2513 | but | 960.5272 |
902 | | 960.8852 | very nice area. | 961.9929 |
904 | | 962.4834 | Brand new house built from the ground up, so it was a really big deal for us. Up until that point we've always lived- | 966.8485 |
906 | | 967.3723 | you know we went from PJs to | 969.1754 |
908 | | 969.5119 | renting homes | 970.5796 |
910 | | 970.9900 | to now owning | 971.8180 |
912 | | 972.2179 | a home. But it took- | 972.9419 |
914 | | 973.4024 | by this time I am sixteen. | 975.0464 |
916 | | 976.0224 | So sixteen years. | 976.7465 |
918 | | 976.9233 | /So that's why [I say/] about fifteen. <laugh> So, | 978.5787 |
919 | DCB_int_01 | 977.2636 | [Mm.] | 977.4505 |
920 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 979.0921 | um, | 979.6259 |
922 | | 980.1264 | <ts> | 980.1965 |
924 | | 980.8371 | we go- I go to /RD-SCHOOL-3/ at this time. | 982.5496 |
926 | | 982.9800 | /RD-SCHOOL-3/ was not my school. | 984.0177 |
928 | | 984.7017 | Um, | 985.2289 |
930 | | 985.5992 | Suitland | 986.2032 |
932 | | 986.4300 | was the school. | 987.0006 |
934 | | 987.5053 | My mom was like, you're not | 988.7064 |
936 | | 989.2503 | going, I need you- | 990.0707 |
938 | | 990.3580 | At this time /RD-SCHOOL-3/ is in Clinton, | 991.8995 |
940 | | 992.4567 | Maryland. And Clinton, Maryland at that time was like, | 994.4762 |
942 | | 994.6530 | very suburban. | 995.6473 |
944 | | 996.0144 | It was basically | 997.2047 |
946 | | 997.7360 | Waldorf, you know, it was really really suburban. | 999.7280 |
948 | | 1000.4662 | Super green, super, um, vanilla, you know, | 1003.3982 |
950 | | 1003.7294 | really nice. | 1004.3133 |
952 | | 1004.8471 | And that's where she wanted me. | 1006.1058 |
954 | | 1006.2994 | <ts> | 1006.3761 |
956 | | 1006.6530 | The education was there. | 1007.8810 |
958 | | 1009.1488 | Academically I fit the education. So this was another example of how they don't care. We go there, | 1013.6573 |
960 | | 1014.3280 | the principal- Um, we go there the day school starts. | 1017.0648 |
962 | | 1017.2750 | My mom goes to register me, | 1018.4628 |
964 | | 1019.0134 | the principal is- looks at my record and he sees the grades and he's like, oh you'll be great. | 1022.8371 |
966 | | 1022.9814 | I had a four point O, four point five | 1024.4395 |
968 | | 1024.6530 | really good grades the whole time. | 1025.8308 |
970 | | 1026.5949 | And so, | 1026.9686 |
972 | | 1027.3457 | on paper I'm like, | 1028.3666 |
974 | | 1028.7470 | give her a scholarship, you know, (laughing) like, give her whatever. | 1030.8666 |
976 | | 1031.4171 | And he was just so excited and | 1033.0687 |
978 | | 1033.2689 | he didn't even pay attention to the fact that I wasn't zoned | 1035.2350 |
980 | | 1035.6888 | for that school. | 1036.2226 |
982 | | 1036.6797 | I was zoned for Suitland. | 1037.7508 |
984 | | 1038.2746 | <ts> So, | 1038.8919 |
986 | | 1039.0854 | when she finally said, okay well- | 1040.4100 |
988 | | 1041.1049 | well, she's supposed to be in Suitland, | 1042.4228 |
990 | | 1042.8232 | but we- I really want her to come here, | 1044.1178 |
992 | | 1044.4248 | oh I'll make it happen. | 1045.4858 |
994 | | 1045.9829 | Well he looked over /???/ I think the form is called | 1048.3995 |
996 | | 1048.7631 | PS seventy-fours, | 1049.8575 |
998 | | 1050.3647 | I think, I can't remember. It's like your file when you bad or whatever so. (laughing) | 1053.4911 |
1000 | | 1054.0224 | <laugh> He opens the file, | 1055.6211 |
1002 | | 1056.0144 | and there's like a stack. | 1057.0354 |
1004 | | 1057.3123 | He's like- | 1057.6626 |
1006 | | 1058.0964 | uh, his whole mentality changed. | 1060.0591 |
1008 | | 1060.5930 | He- th- the- this stack- this really doesn't match this name or this person, like it's just- | 1065.0006 |
1010 | | 1065.6721 | How do you have time to get in this much trouble (laughing) like, when do you do your work? (laughing) | 1069.2355 |
1012 | | 1069.9429 | In suspension, so (laughing) | 1070.7670 |
1014 | | 1071.1140 | you (laughing) do your work, so. | 1072.3027 |
1016 | | 1072.8833 | Um, | 1073.3737 |
1018 | | 1073.6340 | at that point he didn't want me to come there and my mom was like, oh she's coming here. So she walked right over to | 1078.4962 |
1020 | | 1078.9200 | school board, | 1079.6874 |
1022 | | 1079.8642 | um, which is- I think is Upper Marlboro or whatever. | 1081.7202 |
1024 | | 1082.0697 | And, um, | 1082.7871 |
1026 | | 1082.9606 | she totally- | 1083.5845 |
1028 | | 1083.9891 | I do not- like, sh- I don't know what she said to the lady but I got approved | 1086.5616 |
1030 | | 1086.9052 | to go there. | 1087.3390 |
1032 | | 1088.3533 | I don't know what she said, [but.] | 1089.3276 |
1033 | DCB_int_01 | 1089.0014 | [<laugh>] | 1089.6187 |
1034 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1089.7622 | And I came and the next day and the principal- It's nothing the principal can do. | 1091.8776 |
1036 | | 1092.5182 | He just like- | 1093.0153 |
1038 | | 1093.7961 | But | 1094.1264 |
1040 | | 1094.8137 | I made a promise, | 1095.6751 |
1042 | | 1096.1325 | I wouldn't get in any more trouble, | 1097.3137 |
1044 | | 1097.7975 | I would just ignore p- I just had a bad temper, at the time. | 1100.1097 |
1046 | | 1100.5869 | Um, | 1101.0540 |
1048 | | 1101.5420 | words. | 1102.1492 |
1050 | | 1102.3661 | You didn't have to [touch me], just words. | 1103.7408 |
1051 | DCB_int_01 | 1102.8699 | [Mm-hm.] | 1103.2166 |
1052 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1104.3680 | Really cause /?/ | 1105.0520 |
1054 | | 1105.2389 | growing up- | 1105.7160 |
1056 | | 1105.9763 | when you grew up it's like survival when you come into [the] | 1107.9390 |
1057 | DCB_int_01 | 1107.8589 | [Mm.] | 1108.1459 |
1058 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1108.3412 | Maryland side it's like, we don't talk. Like, (laughing) | 1110.1712 |
1060 | | 1110.4314 | you know, stuff like that, so. | 1111.5625 |
1062 | | 1112.0363 | Um, | 1112.4467 |
1064 | | 1113.2784 | I did really good | 1114.3227 |
1066 | | 1114.7498 | my eleventh grade year, | 1115.8609 |
1068 | | 1116.4014 | um, up until | 1117.4724 |
1070 | | 1117.9729 | the end of the year. | 1118.9005 |
1072 | | 1119.6220 | Um, <laugh> | 1120.3961 |
1074 | | 1120.6630 | there was a gentleman | 1121.5406 |
1076 | | 1122.0477 | and I was really good friends with his brother in ROTC cause I was in ROTC, | 1125.2408 |
1078 | | 1125.5399 | Air Force ROTC. And, um, | 1127.5119 |
1080 | | 1127.7362 | <ts> | 1127.7896 |
1082 | | 1128.4369 | he- I guess he liked me, I didn't like him. | 1130.4956 |
1084 | | 1130.8359 | <laugh> And [he would,] | 1131.8202 |
1085 | DCB_int_01 | 1131.4532 | [Mm.] | 1131.8451 |
1086 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1132.5943 | uh, kind of taunt me every day. | 1134.3527 |
1088 | | 1134.8039 | And one particular day it was day before, uh, senior prom cause he was a senior. | 1137.8002 |
1090 | | 1138.2506 | I was a junior. | 1138.9380 |
1092 | | 1139.2850 | And he's sitting on his own car. | 1140.8106 |
1094 | | 1141.0927 | And at this time I have a car now so I'm like, really moving up. <laugh> | 1143.7628 |
1096 | | 1144.2732 | And, um, he says, | 1145.1274 |
1098 | | 1145.8348 | can you give me a ride? All I said was no, | 1147.5364 |
1100 | | 1147.7775 | and I just kept walking to my car. | 1149.0454 |
1102 | | 1149.5359 | And then he proceeded to call me | 1150.9806 |
1104 | | 1151.2275 | a very derogatory name, | 1152.6122 |
1106 | | 1153.1460 | right? | 1153.4330 |
1108 | | 1153.9810 | And I ignored him, and got in my car like, talking to myself like a crazy person. | 1157.8381 |
1110 | | 1158.1884 | Like, | 1158.3845 |
1112 | | 1158.5955 | just go to your car, | 1159.4864 |
1114 | | 1159.7675 | you did good all year. <laugh> | 1160.7317 |
1116 | | 1160.9453 | Really coaching myself. | 1161.9529 |
1118 | | 1162.5001 | I go to my car, I sit in my car and I'm just coaching myself. | 1164.9125 |
1120 | | 1165.3729 | And I look up, | 1165.9235 |
1122 | | 1166.7885 | he's standing in front of my car now. | 1168.0630 |
1124 | | 1168.4534 | So I ran him over | 1169.0774 |
1126 | | 1169.6646 | with the car. | 1170.0739 |
1128 | | 1170.4687 | And, um- <laugh> | 1171.3629 |
1130 | | 1171.4830 | twice. | 1171.8576 |
1132 | | 1172.6383 | And that was the only time. (laughing) | 1174.5402 |
1134 | | 1174.9272 | But luckily I was also assistant to our security team, | 1177.4430 |
1136 | | 1177.7767 | and this guy really likes me cause he was like, you have so much potential. | 1180.4935 |
1138 | | 1181.0373 | And he was like, I don't have nothing on camera. | 1182.7957 |
1140 | | 1183.1727 | I don't see no- so- (laughing) | 1184.6083 |
1142 | | 1185.3290 | But his mom was extremely livid, she wanted to press charges and everything. | 1188.2919 |
1144 | | 1188.7957 | But she, um, <ts> | 1190.2171 |
1146 | | 1190.5382 | real- when she saw- when she found out the whole story, | 1192.3099 |
1148 | | 1192.7170 | is when she really turned on her son, because she said it was really no reason for you to taunt this young lady. | 1197.0687 |
1150 | | 1197.5092 | You have your own vehicle, this would have never happened | 1199.9048 |
1152 | | 1200.1751 | had you not really instigated this. | 1201.6899 |
1154 | | 1202.0277 | It didn't really excuse me running over his legs and breaking them, it's just that | 1204.7804 |
1156 | | 1206.0083 | she said, your legs wouldn't be broken right now if you hadn't | 1208.5741 |
1158 | | 1209.0287 | taunted this young lady, so. | 1210.0597 |
1160 | | 1210.5702 | Um, | 1211.0340 |
1162 | | 1211.4677 | twelfth grade was smooth. | 1212.5571 |
1164 | | 1213.2703 | Very smooth, twelfth grade. | 1214.5549 |
1166 | | 1215.1288 | So twelfth grade was my most smooth year | 1216.8738 |
1168 | | 1217.3531 | and, um, | 1218.2941 |
1170 | | 1218.5043 | <ts> I think my most mature. | 1219.6253 |
1172 | | 1220.2626 | So, | 1220.6630 |
1174 | | 1221.0768 | I'm nothing like that obviously. | 1222.4055 |
1176 | | 1222.7125 | You- you couldn't be | 1223.5567 |
1178 | | 1223.8002 | where I am today. | 1224.5943 |
1180 | | 1225.4885 | Yeah. | 1225.7488 |
1182 | | 1225.9056 | /It was/ funny stories. <laugh> | 1227.6340 |
1183 | DCB_int_01 | 1227.5939 | How did you- okay so how'd you end up- | 1229.6167 |
1184 | | 1229.8269 | um, | 1230.4909 |
1186 | | 1231.2116 | so how- so, how'd you | 1232.7631 |
1188 | | 1232.9199 | transition from co- like, | 1234.4981 |
1190 | | 1234.7926 | from s- | 1235.1006 |
1192 | | 1235.4466 | from high school to [college] | 1237.2250 |
1193 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1237.1249 | [Uh-huh.] | 1237.3902 |
1194 | DCB_int_01 | 1237.4085 | to military? | 1238.2018 |
1195 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1238.4828 | Well, I had decided, um, | 1240.3480 |
1197 | | 1240.6858 | <ts> | 1240.7392 |
1199 | | 1240.8793 | and I was always taught from my parents, | 1242.2407 |
1201 | | 1242.7278 | you want change, you gotta change, | 1243.7555 |
1203 | | 1243.9423 | period. | 1244.3060 |
1205 | | 1244.7731 | You in control of everything, | 1246.2479 |
1207 | | 1246.7384 | uh, in your life, | 1247.7435 |
1209 | | 1248.1673 | everything, whatever. | 1249.0081 |
1211 | | 1249.4785 | You- you know, you- you wanna be a millionaire, you go hang around millionaires. | 1251.9710 |
1213 | | 1252.4281 | You know, you- | 1252.8985 |
1215 | | 1253.2722 | five dummies in the room, you the sixth dummy. | 1254.8412 |
1217 | | 1254.9914 | So, you gotta hang around what you wanna be. | 1256.9733 |
1219 | | 1257.4872 | And that's what I decided to do. I was like, you know what, I don't wanna be running people over | 1261.0481 |
1221 | | 1261.3851 | all the time they say something to me. | 1262.9433 |
1223 | | 1263.4671 | I don't wanna be pushing nobody on train tracks, you know, I don't wanna be doing stuff like that (laughing) so. | 1266.7378 |
1225 | | 1267.2216 | I started to | 1267.9757 |
1227 | | 1268.2927 | go- literally get up, | 1269.6340 |
1229 | | 1270.2245 | as a teenager, | 1271.1254 |
1231 | | 1271.6868 | like seventeen at this time, in twelfth grade, | 1273.7221 |
1233 | | 1274.3761 | drive to these super rich areas, | 1276.4448 |
1235 | | 1276.8526 | and just go hang with those people. | 1278.0939 |
1237 | | 1278.7478 | And that's when I learned the power of networking. | 1280.3015 |
1239 | | 1281.5172 | So, | 1281.8842 |
1241 | | 1282.4147 | I was like, you know what? | 1282.9386 |
1243 | | 1283.4199 | I remember being a little kid, | 1285.0172 |
1245 | | 1285.2783 | networking. Didn't know what I was doing, I was just playing. | 1287.1702 |
1247 | | 1287.8275 | But I'm networking and I'm getting with the types of people that I wanna be around. | 1291.6387 |
1249 | | 1292.0991 | And | 1292.5930 |
1251 | | 1293.2402 | these people are talking about education, | 1294.6149 |
1253 | | 1295.2263 | higher education, entrepreneurship, | 1297.3251 |
1255 | | 1297.6754 | inventions. | 1298.7064 |
1257 | | 1299.4304 | Things that you just | 1300.3980 |
1259 | | 1300.6458 | sit at home, | 1301.1930 |
1261 | | 1301.5066 | you know, to where you go work for a place it's because you just want to now cause you have to. I'm here because I want to be. I don't have to be here, I make more money in my own business. | 1308.8079 |
1263 | | 1309.6587 | I like HR, | 1310.6530 |
1265 | | 1311.0834 | period, I love it. I can't- I just can't step away from it. | 1313.6760 |
1267 | | 1314.2874 | Um, | 1314.6978 |
1269 | | 1314.9747 | and that- they taught me that. | 1316.2493 |
1271 | | 1316.7231 | Um, | 1317.0134 |
1273 | | 1317.4705 | I went to the military because I had my daughter young. | 1320.0038 |
1275 | | 1320.2273 | My oldest daughter, she's twenty. | 1321.3417 |
1277 | | 1321.9093 | I had her- her young. | 1322.6563 |
1279 | | 1323.5639 | But I said I'm not gonna let that | 1324.4748 |
1281 | | 1324.8260 | get in my way. | 1325.4599 |
1283 | | 1326.0572 | So, | 1326.5476 |
1285 | | 1326.9714 | I went to the military so that I- cause I didn't wanna depend on my parents. | 1329.5272 |
1287 | | 1329.8008 | I didn't wanna be one of those, um, people | 1331.4032 |
1289 | | 1331.9504 | that, oh well I'm gonna | 1333.0481 |
1291 | | 1333.4018 | live at home and | 1334.4195 |
1293 | | 1335.0667 | pretty much now have my parents raise me and my daughter. And | 1337.3690 |
1295 | | 1337.7368 | so I said no, | 1338.3541 |
1297 | | 1338.5568 | <ts> | 1338.6775 |
1299 | | 1339.2045 | I'm gonna go to the military, | 1340.5029 |
1301 | | 1340.9033 | start a career | 1341.7074 |
1303 | | 1342.1411 | where I can take care | 1343.1563 |
1305 | | 1343.3571 | of my daughter, everything, and get my education. | 1345.9557 |
1307 | | 1346.4562 | And that's what I did. | 1347.2136 |
1309 | | 1348.2779 | So, it was the best decision ever. | 1349.9971 |
1310 | DCB_int_01 | 1351.1115 | And so when you moved- when you went to the military you got to travel a lot, | 1354.4681 |
1311 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1354.5715 | [Mm-hm.] | 1354.8552 |
1312 | DCB_int_01 | 1354.6483 | [clearly.] | 1355.1676 |
1313 | | 1355.6301 | Um, were y- so you were separated from your daughter. | 1357.9557 |
1314 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1358.3594 | <ts> Yeah, only for like, um, | 1360.0978 |
1316 | | 1360.6525 | about eight months. | 1361.6000 |
1317 | DCB_int_01 | 1361.7802 | Oh, [okay.] | 1362.2255 |
1318 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1362.0672 | [She was] with my mom. | 1362.7545 |
1319 | | 1363.3050 | When I went through, uh, my mom and my dad | 1364.7831 |
1321 | | 1365.0601 | when I went through basic training | 1366.6016 |
1323 | | 1367.1196 | and tech school and then whatever school after that. | 1369.2316 |
1325 | | 1369.7688 | Then I got stationed in Dover, | 1370.7998 |
1327 | | 1371.2903 | which was- | 1371.7641 |
1329 | | 1372.1478 | which is specifically one of the reasons why I picked mortuary. | 1374.6844 |
1331 | | 1375.0348 | Mortuary was my original field. | 1376.5896 |
1333 | | 1377.3470 | Uh, [yeah.] | 1377.9710 |
1334 | DCB_int_01 | 1377.7708 | [Wow.] (whispered) | 1378.3268 |
1335 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1378.5824 | Well /?/ you can't make a mistake, it's quiet. | 1380.3308 |
1337 | | 1380.7712 | So, I picked mortuary | 1382.1492 |
1339 | | 1382.7364 | and- | 1383.1068 |
1340 | DCB_int_01 | 1383.1702 | And people- you know, you will never go out of business cause people always die. | 1386.1039 |
1341 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1386.0438 | They always die. | 1386.7645 |
1342 | | 1387.6620 | Mortuary and | 1388.7264 |
1344 | | 1389.1468 | being a- uh, | 1389.9943 |
1346 | | 1390.2546 | a GYN, | 1390.8760 |
1348 | | 1391.0095 | OB. | 1391.3843 |
1349 | DCB_int_01 | 1391.4365 | Yup [cause people] always will have babies. | 1393.2316 |
1350 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1391.7268 | [/Always-/] | 1392.0905 |
1351 | | 1393.2516 | Yup. | 1393.5103 |
1353 | | 1394.3260 | So, um, | 1395.3537 |
1355 | | 1395.7541 | also went into mortuary. I went in because it's quiet, | 1397.8736 |
1357 | | 1398.4509 | not cause I didn't wanna talk to anybody, but I wanted to study. | 1400.6772 |
1359 | | 1400.8766 | Cause I was like, I'm not gonna be here forever. | 1402.3413 |
1361 | | 1402.8885 | I'm'a get my degree, (laughing) | 1403.6734 |
1363 | | 1403.9237 | you know, that was my | 1404.6511 |
1365 | | 1404.7512 | plan. | 1405.2250 |
1367 | | 1405.7788 | Um, | 1406.2560 |
1369 | | 1406.4061 | and it was just to do mortuary. HR was never- | 1408.7083 |
1371 | | 1409.1855 | I had no- HR was not even | 1410.7678 |
1373 | | 1411.2884 | in my, um, path | 1412.5543 |
1375 | | 1412.8599 | at all. | 1413.2652 |
1377 | | 1413.7708 | Um, I didn't quite no what my path was gonna be other than that I'm'a just get my education and see where it takes me. | 1418.4428 |
1379 | | 1418.9733 | It just so happened that, um- And I was a true mor- like mortuary /?/. I was doing f- like forensics, working with the FBI and stuff like that, | 1425.0134 |
1381 | | 1425.4838 | um, as they come through Dover. Cause that's the main mortuary for the entire military. | 1428.6144 |
1383 | | 1429.4785 | Not just the Air Force, all the branches. | 1430.9900 |
1385 | | 1431.5472 | Um, | 1432.0677 |
1387 | | 1432.6958 | one of /our/ ladies went out | 1433.9237 |
1389 | | 1434.1472 | on maternity leave. | 1435.3072 |
1391 | | 1435.6487 | And they're like, | 1436.0357 |
1393 | | 1436.6530 | /RD-NAME-2/ we need you to come, | 1437.9676 |
1395 | | 1438.2946 | you're really good talking with the people. | 1439.6501 |
1397 | | 1440.0038 | And I was like, I don't wanna talk to these people. | 1441.1182 |
1399 | | 1441.4051 | [And they was like-] | 1441.9491 |
1400 | DCB_int_01 | 1441.6153 | [That's why I'm in] the mortuary. | 1442.5727 |
1401 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1442.9299 | Right, I was like, whatchu mean? I'm cool talking to you. | 1445.1288 |
1403 | | 1445.4666 | So they're like, no I want you to talk to the people. | 1446.9614 |
1405 | | 1447.3150 | And- but I didn't know how to take it because they said, well, | 1449.5138 |
1407 | | 1449.8175 | you're really good talking to people because you don't have any emotions. | 1452.3627 |
1409 | | 1452.8980 | I was like, | 1453.2650 |
1411 | | 1453.6354 | what are you trying to say? He was like, you don't care. I was like, I do care. (laughing) | 1455.8075 |
1413 | | 1456.2279 | They needed somebody who can talk to- | 1458.1439 |
1415 | | 1458.8780 | Because | 1459.1949 |
1417 | | 1459.3159 | when you're in the HR side of mortuary you know everything, | 1461.8208 |
1419 | | 1462.3413 | right? | 1462.6550 |
1421 | | 1463.1596 | On my side of the house you're just a number. | 1464.7445 |
1423 | | 1465.7822 | I don't know your name, | 1466.6664 |
1425 | | 1467.1702 | I don't wanna know your name. | 1468.0243 |
1427 | | 1468.3622 | I don't know where you came from, I don't know if you have kids, I don't know if you're pregnant now. | 1471.6587 |
1429 | | 1472.0524 | I don't know anything. And we kind of like it that way cause it keeps you detached. | 1474.7884 |
1431 | | 1475.8837 | Well on the HR side you know everything. | 1477.4685 |
1433 | | 1478.1725 | So you knew- you know | 1479.1301 |
1435 | | 1479.6006 | that they just joined or | 1480.9052 |
1437 | | 1481.2030 | they might've died in a car accident. You know, it's not always war. | 1483.2850 |
1439 | | 1483.6120 | It's whatever. | 1484.2540 |
1441 | | 1484.4995 | /And/ they just have that benefit cause they're military, | 1486.2679 |
1443 | | 1486.9995 | or they're military dependent. | 1488.2440 |
1445 | | 1488.5443 | <ts> | 1488.6177 |
1447 | | 1488.8412 | So, | 1489.2850 |
1449 | | 1489.8489 | they're like, we need someone who can | 1491.3370 |
1451 | | 1491.6273 | talk to the families | 1492.6349 |
1453 | | 1493.0120 | and just be | 1493.6434 |
1455 | | 1494.2573 | mundane. | 1494.8227 |
1457 | | 1495.4585 | Just be | 1495.9590 |
1459 | | 1496.1325 | morbid. And just be like, | 1497.2085 |
1461 | | 1497.5172 | <ts> | 1497.5939 |
1463 | | 1497.8075 | this is what happened, | 1498.5682 |
1465 | | 1499.1663 | blah blah blah. | 1499.7101 |
1467 | | 1500.0104 | And while the families are falling all on the floor you're just like, | 1502.0491 |
1469 | | 1503.2936 | <ts> | 1503.3904 |
1471 | | 1503.7841 | I'm gonna leave these papers here for you, (laughing) you know. | 1505.3398 |
1473 | | 1505.7335 | You have to kind of keep it | 1506.7378 |
1475 | | 1507.2617 | separate. | 1507.6120 |
1477 | | 1508.1058 | Um, I said | 1508.5763 |
1479 | | 1509.0701 | okay. | 1509.5506 |
1481 | | 1509.8075 | I said, this the HR side? Hm. | 1511.0654 |
1483 | | 1511.5633 | But- | 1511.7635 |
1485 | | 1512.1339 | so I came to HR through that door, | 1513.8289 |
1487 | | 1514.4195 | but that's the military mortuary side of it. | 1516.4881 |
1489 | | 1517.0161 | Um, | 1517.4532 |
1491 | | 1517.5967 | but then I kind of liked it and I learned | 1519.5419 |
1493 | | 1520.0491 | the vast | 1520.8232 |
1495 | | 1521.0667 | world | 1521.6640 |
1497 | | 1522.4181 | of HR. It's so broad, um, | 1524.3808 |
1499 | | 1525.1649 | it's ever changing. | 1526.3961 |
1501 | | 1527.0768 | It's never the same, mortuary's always the same. | 1529.3056 |
1503 | | 1530.1005 | Like /we-/ this- | 1530.7478 |
1505 | | 1531.5653 | people die, you try to fix 'em, you can't fix 'em. | 1533.5939 |
1507 | | 1534.3280 | Casket, no casket, it's- | 1535.4733 |
1509 | | 1536.0238 | it's always the same. | 1536.8279 |
1511 | | 1537.5286 | Um, HR is so | 1539.0100 |
1513 | | 1539.3570 | vast, you meet so many people. | 1541.0620 |
1515 | | 1541.6201 | So many personalities, | 1543.3184 |
1517 | | 1543.7688 | um, so many characters | 1545.1821 |
1519 | | 1545.7608 | all over the world. | 1546.5790 |
1521 | | 1547.1796 | Um, | 1547.7035 |
1523 | | 1547.9270 | the universal laws | 1549.0715 |
1525 | | 1549.3784 | are the same, | 1550.2526 |
1527 | | 1550.6230 | and then you have these little break out laws. And so, | 1552.2646 |
1529 | | 1552.5816 | it was just so fascinating and intriguing and /then/ so I decided to | 1555.5553 |
1531 | | 1555.8589 | run from there. | 1556.4628 |
1532 | DCB_int_01 | 1556.8899 | What's your craziest HR story | 1558.7019 |
1534 | | 1559.2263 | that you [can share?] | 1560.1344 |
1535 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1559.4966 | [Oh,] | 1559.8837 |
1536 | | 1560.6144 | well without giving out obviously any names, | 1562.3594 |
1537 | DCB_int_01 | 1562.3027 | Right. | 1562.5533 |
1538 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1562.9867 | or the company. Um, <laugh> | 1564.5882 |
1540 | | 1564.9986 | one company I work with, um, the craziest stories, | 1567.9990 |
1542 | | 1568.4695 | um, that were just so- Considering it was a Fortune five hundred company. | 1570.8785 |
1544 | | 1571.1496 | This is the only company I work with that's | 1572.5777 |
1546 | | 1573.3618 | this small, | 1573.9990 |
1548 | | 1574.3661 | which | 1574.6230 |
1550 | | 1574.9299 | I'm inviting, I'm actually ready for that (laughing) | 1576.8084 |
1552 | | 1576.9928 | cause everyone has been | 1578.0405 |
1554 | | 1578.5343 | forty-five hundred or more, | 1579.6303 |
1556 | | 1580.1525 | so. | 1580.5996 |
1557 | DCB_int_01 | 1580.6497 | Okay, well we're not that. [We won't-] we won't be that, so you're good. | 1583.7057 |
1558 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1581.7874 | [No.] | 1582.0978 |
1559 | | 1583.7202 | This [particular] company is like a hundred thousand or so. | 1586.0424 |
1560 | DCB_int_01 | 1583.9571 | [You're good.] | 1584.2240 |
1561 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1586.5896 | And | 1587.2035 |
1563 | | 1588.1878 | all of the district managers just wanna sleep with all the cashiers. | 1590.9974 |
1565 | | 1592.2293 | And I'm like, <sigh> | 1593.5539 |
1567 | | 1594.0410 | So I- I spend most of my time doing | 1595.7502 |
1569 | | 1595.8937 | investigations. | 1596.8012 |
1571 | | 1597.4151 | All the time, (laughing) constantly doing investigations. | 1600.1244 |
1573 | | 1600.6783 | And the funniest stories are like the district managers | 1603.7570 |
1575 | | 1604.2593 | treating | 1605.0701 |
1577 | | 1605.3704 | some of the cashier women | 1606.9219 |
1579 | | 1607.5533 | like their personal | 1609.0481 |
1581 | | 1609.5987 | <ts> | 1609.6821 |
1583 | | 1611.1668 | escorts, | 1611.8809 |
1585 | | 1612.2713 | but in a respectable way. | 1613.7001 |
1587 | | 1614.4542 | Um, I mean, buying them things, flowers and ugh, it's just so- | 1618.2446 |
1589 | | 1618.7117 | And I would just be sitting and- | 1619.8503 |
1591 | | 1620.0939 | and keep in mind, | 1620.9080 |
1593 | | 1621.1816 | you're- as a HR professional, | 1622.8699 |
1595 | | 1623.3170 | you work closely with your district managers, they're your- they're your business partners. Like, /RD-NAME-3/ would be a business partner to me. | 1628.1125 |
1597 | | 1628.6563 | Um, | 1629.0667 |
1599 | | 1629.4104 | so it gets weird to them | 1631.0228 |
1601 | | 1631.3565 | when it comes | 1632.2373 |
1603 | | 1632.7345 | to investigation cause though we're business partners and we're, | 1635.2503 |
1605 | | 1635.5772 | um, professional friends, | 1637.2522 |
1607 | | 1637.6968 | <ts> | 1637.7669 |
1609 | | 1638.4309 | I know how to turn it off. | 1639.4842 |
1611 | | 1639.7555 | That's where mortuary comes back in, (laughing) I turn it [off when it comes] to the investigation side. | 1642.9653 |
1612 | DCB_int_01 | 1641.3670 | [Mm.] | 1641.8575 |
1613 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1643.6401 | And they feel embarrassed because they're like, | 1645.2850 |
1615 | | 1645.4318 | god, like this- | 1646.2350 |
1617 | | 1646.6597 | It's embarrassing | 1647.4204 |
1619 | | 1647.6907 | when they know that you know | 1648.8585 |
1621 | | 1649.3665 | what they've been doing. Um, | 1650.7812 |
1623 | | 1651.0281 | <ts> | 1651.0948 |
1625 | | 1651.2383 | those stories are always the funniest because they- | 1653.3036 |
1627 | | 1653.6306 | that's when I learned that people can be very creative | 1655.7005 |
1629 | | 1656.0905 | with their stories (laughing) when they come up with things. | 1657.8656 |
1631 | | 1658.2026 | Even when you say, | 1659.0334 |
1633 | | 1659.7207 | it's on video. | 1660.7384 |
1635 | | 1661.1997 | Oh, | 1661.5333 |
1637 | | 1662.0638 | that's not me. I'm like, like Shaggy? | 1663.6988 |
1639 | | 1664.1459 | That's not you? | 1664.5396 |
1640 | DCB_int_01 | 1665.1869 | <laugh> | 1665.3403 |
1641 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1665.3165 | <laugh> They like- | 1665.8008 |
1642 | DCB_int_01 | 1665.7908 | <laugh> | 1665.9209 |
1643 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1666.2312 | I'm like, okay. | 1666.9352 |
1645 | | 1667.1529 | And so I'm like, that's- | 1667.8002 |
1647 | | 1667.9370 | that's not you. | 1668.3908 |
1649 | | 1669.2884 | No that's not- that's your twin. | 1670.4108 |
1651 | | 1671.2870 | That's your twin? | 1671.8310 |
1652 | DCB_int_01 | 1672.4990 | That you just had yesterday? | 1673.7852 |
1653 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1673.8303 | Yeah, that's wearing your clothes? | 1675.2496 |
1655 | | 1676.0257 | In our store? Putting in your code? | 1677.6673 |
1657 | | 1678.1011 | <laugh> So, | 1678.6451 |
1659 | | 1679.2289 | I mean, it- those- those pieces are | 1681.3818 |
1661 | | 1681.8022 | hilarious, and I still | 1682.8732 |
1663 | | 1683.3837 | get those stories today from the same company cause people are still there. | 1686.0605 |
1665 | | 1686.4375 | So yeah. | 1686.8122 |
1666 | DCB_int_01 | 1687.4919 | Wow. (whispered) | 1687.8422 |
1668 | | 1688.1926 | That's- | 1688.5188 |
1670 | | 1688.7931 | well, okay. | 1689.5639 |
1672 | | 1690.0610 | So how do you- | 1690.9219 |
1674 | | 1691.5633 | you- | 1691.7769 |
1676 | | 1692.0638 | So you still have your own business now? | 1693.4752 |
1677 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1693.4852 | Mm-hm. | 1693.8185 |
1678 | DCB_int_01 | 1694.0858 | So what's your business? If you don't mind me [asking.] | 1696.4297 |
1679 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1696.1511 | [We-] oh yeah no problem, we do mostly, um, <ts> | 1698.3591 |
1680 | | 1698.6778 | media | 1699.3484 |
1682 | | 1699.8122 | sponsorships, lots of sponsorships, we get a lot of sponsorship requests. | 1702.8251 |
1684 | | 1703.1463 | Uh, but more consulting. | 1704.2307 |
1686 | | 1704.5343 | Um, because I kind of got burnt out | 1705.9023 |
1688 | | 1706.3360 | with actually soliciting | 1707.4838 |
1690 | | 1707.8275 | sponsorships. | 1708.5615 |
1692 | | 1709.0220 | Um, I just didn't wanna do it anymore. | 1710.3574 |
1694 | | 1710.6844 | So- but I got really good at it. | 1712.3427 |
1696 | | 1712.7364 | So I said I'm just gonna consult people on how | 1714.9185 |
1698 | | 1715.1730 | to do it. | 1715.5596 |
1700 | | 1715.8636 | How to put your package together, what that package should look like. | 1717.9990 |
1702 | | 1718.4562 | Things like that. Um, | 1719.4338 |
1704 | | 1719.5539 | and I done have fun doing that. | 1720.9853 |
1706 | | 1721.3765 | Um, lots of business consulting | 1723.4885 |
1708 | | 1723.7922 | on both the | 1724.5496 |
1710 | | 1724.9233 | corporate and entertainment side. | 1726.1545 |
1711 | DCB_int_01 | 1727.2697 | You said we, so it's you- | 1728.9013 |
1712 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1729.1949 | <ts> I have like, four staff members. | 1730.4895 |
1713 | DCB_int_01 | 1730.5829 | Oh wow. | 1731.3603 |
1714 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1731.4638 | Yeah. | 1731.7505 |
1715 | DCB_int_01 | 1732.2245 | That's amazing. | 1732.8785 |
1717 | | 1733.1997 | And so I remember the other day we were talking just kind of in passing. You said [that one] of the things that you had to leave DC. | 1738.7851 |
1718 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1736.3460 | [Mm-hm.] | 1736.6830 |
1719 | DCB_int_01 | 1739.6734 | And it took- no, when you came back it took you a long time to appreciate it. | 1742.7164 |
1720 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1742.9700 | [Oh yeah.] | 1743.5906 |
1721 | DCB_int_01 | 1742.9733 | [Tell me about] that. | 1743.8453 |
1722 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1743.8308 | Oh my god. | 1744.3080 |
1723 | | 1744.8385 | Um, | 1745.4391 |
1725 | | 1745.8303 | <ts> | 1745.9137 |
1727 | | 1746.0638 | I left, um, traveling with the military. | 1748.2927 |
1729 | | 1748.8932 | And when I came back, | 1750.3613 |
1731 | | 1750.9160 | um, like in O six I think it was, | 1753.0348 |
1733 | | 1754.1459 | I- I- <sigh> I mean, I just was like- | 1756.4815 |
1735 | | 1757.2797 | When you've been all over the world and you've been to these places where mentality is just so different, | 1761.7841 |
1737 | | 1762.3113 | um, the mentality is more positive, people are more | 1764.8713 |
1739 | | 1765.2850 | willing to help you be better, | 1767.6807 |
1741 | | 1768.3346 | and people are willing to just be better, | 1769.7469 |
1743 | | 1770.1205 | period. | 1770.6611 |
1745 | | 1771.5853 | And you come back | 1772.7631 |
1747 | | 1773.3103 | here | 1773.8609 |
1749 | | 1774.9661 | and people are just angry, | 1776.4409 |
1751 | | 1777.0081 | um, | 1777.6020 |
1753 | | 1777.7588 | it's a crab world, everybody's pulling each other down, | 1780.4815 |
1755 | | 1781.2464 | um, | 1781.9604 |
1757 | | 1782.3007 | just a bunch of negativity basically. | 1784.0558 |
1759 | | 1784.6397 | But, | 1784.9767 |
1761 | | 1785.5105 | <ts> | 1785.5973 |
1763 | | 1785.9242 | I s- I also digress and say that's what I see, | 1789.1616 |
1765 | | 1789.6587 | because of where I came from, | 1790.9400 |
1767 | | 1791.6173 | from so long being away | 1793.1054 |
1769 | | 1793.6468 | that | 1793.9470 |
1771 | | 1794.4509 | when I compared it, | 1795.3851 |
1773 | | 1796.1425 | that's what I see is the negative stuff. | 1797.8275 |
1775 | | 1798.4055 | Um, | 1798.9294 |
1777 | | 1800.1039 | and I hated it. | 1800.7545 |
1779 | | 1801.3317 | I was like, | 1801.7955 |
1781 | | 1802.0224 | I am moving, I can't be here, | 1803.9610 |
1783 | | 1804.4381 | this is- I'm going to commit a crime, | 1806.8446 |
1785 | | 1807.1749 | and I don't wanna commit a crime (laughing) cause I don't want my kids in these schools. | 1810.2012 |
1787 | | 1810.5449 | I'm'a beat a teacher up. | 1811.4899 |
1789 | | 1811.8169 | I can't do it. (laughing) | 1812.6778 |
1791 | | 1812.8379 | So, | 1813.3166 |
1793 | | 1813.8222 | um, | 1814.3661 |
1795 | | 1814.8165 | I end up- | 1815.2603 |
1797 | | 1815.6506 | when I first came back I was | 1816.7884 |
1799 | | 1817.0228 | right over the DC line, in Suitland, Forestville [type area.] | 1820.3994 |
1800 | DCB_int_01 | 1819.7237 | [Mm-hm.] | 1820.0792 |
1801 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1821.1201 | And | 1821.6940 |
1803 | | 1821.9276 | not even six months | 1822.8752 |
1805 | | 1823.0228 | and I- I moved. | 1823.9103 |
1807 | | 1824.3441 | And, um, it was like- it was- | 1825.1782 |
1809 | | 1825.3084 | it- the rent was good, it was all, you know, utilities included. | 1827.7897 |
1811 | | 1828.2064 | Um, and it was- it was really good for me to just be there for a little bit before I purchased. | 1831.4470 |
1813 | | 1832.1410 | I couldn't even last six months. | 1833.3822 |
1815 | | 1833.8060 | And, um, | 1834.3231 |
1817 | | 1834.4833 | I moved to Waldorf | 1835.2880 |
1819 | | 1835.9322 | where it was- | 1836.7497 |
1821 | | 1837.2935 | traffic was horrible, | 1838.6181 |
1823 | | 1839.4690 | the rent was way more, at least double | 1841.4309 |
1825 | | 1841.7812 | what I was paying. | 1842.5795 |
1827 | | 1843.2902 | But | 1843.7239 |
1829 | | 1844.3479 | <ts> at that time I had my two daughters | 1845.6992 |
1831 | | 1846.3665 | and | 1847.0205 |
1833 | | 1847.7145 | <ts> it was worth it. | 1848.3985 |
1835 | | 1849.2401 | I was like, you can't really put a price tag or a convenience | 1851.8126 |
1837 | | 1851.9861 | marker | 1852.4566 |
1839 | | 1852.8803 | on safety | 1853.7777 |
1840 | DCB_int_01 | 1854.1958 | [Mm-hm.] | 1854.7771 |
1841 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1854.3059 | [and education,] | 1855.6172 |
1842 | | 1856.2111 | things of that nature. You know, I don't have to worry about being a teacher up here. | 1858.7602 |
1844 | | 1859.0972 | Things like that. | 1859.7679 |
1846 | | 1860.3760 | You know, I don't have to worry about | 1861.6505 |
1848 | | 1862.0576 | a lot of safety things. You know, you- you can't just be like you on the prairie and just be free for all. | 1866.1049 |
1850 | | 1866.5361 | But | 1866.7530 |
1852 | | 1867.1334 | you just don't have those. | 1868.0910 |
1854 | | 1868.4880 | Whereas I can go to work, | 1869.3889 |
1856 | | 1869.8460 | and not be so | 1871.2674 |
1858 | | 1871.7445 | like, oh my god, | 1872.4594 |
1860 | | 1872.8965 | what's going on? And is- is somebody breaking in my h- You know, I don't have to do all of those things. | 1876.2030 |
1862 | | 1876.6468 | Um, | 1877.0438 |
1864 | | 1877.9255 | <ts> | 1878.0023 |
1866 | | 1878.1724 | it probably was moving to that area | 1880.2211 |
1868 | | 1880.5047 | that kind of | 1881.0919 |
1870 | | 1882.5901 | allowed me to process being back home, | 1884.9165 |
1872 | | 1885.5104 | <ts> | 1885.6005 |
1874 | | 1885.6973 | um, | 1886.1844 |
1876 | | 1886.8317 | without all the distractions. And allowed me to process why some of the people | 1890.6654 |
1878 | | 1891.3069 | in this area are the way they are | 1893.0119 |
1880 | | 1893.4857 | and why they're starting- some of them were becoming a product | 1895.9280 |
1882 | | 1896.1791 | of their environment. | 1897.0766 |
1884 | | 1898.1010 | It's not necessarily their fault, | 1899.3288 |
1886 | | 1899.9795 | a lot of times it's the /upbreaking-/ | 1901.3341 |
1888 | | 1901.5844 | the upbringing | 1902.3893 |
1890 | | 1902.9532 | and the | 1903.7039 |
1892 | | 1904.2111 | disallowance | 1905.1887 |
1894 | | 1905.5824 | of the ability to imagine. | 1906.9638 |
1896 | | 1907.5010 | You know, | 1907.8980 |
1898 | | 1909.0500 | in the | 1909.7506 |
1900 | | 1910.2611 | urban areas that are just more of a struggle to be in, | 1912.4666 |
1902 | | 1913.5885 | parents are constantly telling | 1915.0266 |
1904 | | 1915.4003 | their children, | 1916.1010 |
1906 | | 1916.8083 | stop daydreaming, | 1917.7303 |
1908 | | 1918.0796 | stop- | 1918.3999 |
1910 | | 1919.0171 | you know, stop being- stop playing like it's a fairytale, when it really should be the opposite. You should | 1923.1153 |
1912 | | 1924.1596 | tell your children to daydream all the time. | 1925.8980 |
1914 | | 1926.3993 | Tell 'em to pretend | 1927.4770 |
1916 | | 1927.9475 | all the time, cause eventually it's gonna be. | 1929.7125 |
1918 | | 1930.0862 | The problem is, | 1930.8503 |
1920 | | 1931.6144 | we want to force them into another | 1934.1010 |
1922 | | 1934.3913 | mindset and so then they grow up as adults, | 1936.1100 |
1924 | | 1936.6468 | and it's even worse. | 1937.5477 |
1926 | | 1937.8421 | And I- it took me some while to not only | 1939.7239 |
1928 | | 1940.0076 | recognize but appreciate it. | 1941.2454 |
1930 | | 1941.8460 | And that's what started to slowly | 1943.3475 |
1932 | | 1943.7879 | but surely | 1944.3751 |
1934 | | 1944.9599 | change my mindset | 1946.1410 |
1936 | | 1946.4780 | up until about two years ago. | 1947.3956 |
1938 | | 1947.7426 | So, | 1948.0896 |
1940 | | 1948.4191 | /?/ in Forestville was eight years. | 1949.6845 |
1942 | | 1950.1324 | I was just like, | 1950.6763 |
1944 | | 1951.4036 | I'm not staying here. | 1952.0943 |
1946 | | 1952.4647 | It wasn't until I- I felt trapped | 1954.2698 |
1948 | | 1954.4099 | cause my | 1954.9004 |
1950 | | 1955.2807 | oldest daughter was in high school and | 1956.9932 |
1951 | DCB_int_01 | 1956.9899 | Mm. | 1957.2735 |
1952 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1957.5071 | <ts> | 1957.5805 |
1954 | | 1957.6706 | doing well. And, | 1958.6081 |
1956 | | 1959.2121 | you know, I was like, <sigh> I can't rip her from high school. (laughing) | 1961.3908 |
1958 | | 1961.8146 | So I said, well when she gets out I'm going, but then I got one four years behind her, so I'm like, dang. | 1966.0035 |
1960 | | 1966.3498 | Okay, when she get done. | 1967.2440 |
1962 | | 1967.6144 | And then I have | 1968.1316 |
1964 | | 1968.6629 | my son, so. | 1969.6439 |
1966 | | 1970.4580 | It's- it- it was a done deal that I'm not | 1972.5700 |
1968 | | 1973.2474 | going. And I have one on the way. | 1974.2083 |
1970 | | 1974.4093 | So I'm not going [anywhere.] | 1975.4503 |
1971 | DCB_int_01 | 1975.3336 | [Oh congratulations.] | 1977.6992 |
1972 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1975.8874 | [Yeah.] | 1976.2968 |
1974 | | 1976.5381 | [Thank you.] | 1977.0661 |
1976 | | 1977.6592 | Thank you. | 1978.1552 |
1977 | DCB_int_01 | 1978.7169 | Aw, happy [mommy.] | 1980.2298 |
1978 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 1979.3742 | [/So-/] | 1979.7655 |
1980 | | 1979.9514 | [Thank] you. | 1980.5687 |
1981 | | 1981.0433 | So I'm like, I'm- | 1981.6806 |
1983 | | 1982.2711 | we not going anywhere, | 1983.2888 |
1985 | | 1983.6191 | so. And I met my love, and so | 1985.3074 |
1987 | | 1985.7345 | yeah. | 1985.9839 |
1989 | | 1986.4218 | But even before all that, which I'm glad that even before all that | 1989.0552 |
1991 | | 1989.4356 | I had already | 1990.3732 |
1993 | | 1991.1773 | become comfortable | 1992.1558 |
1995 | | 1992.3893 | in a- in a positive light | 1993.8040 |
1997 | | 1994.3712 | of being back home. | 1995.1086 |
1999 | | 1995.8493 | Because | 1996.4132 |
2001 | | 1996.9204 | you really can't- | 1997.8804 |
2003 | | 1999.1300 | I don't recommend people | 2000.3846 |
2005 | | 2000.7750 | getting into something if they're not | 2001.9361 |
2007 | | 2002.1463 | sound within themselves first. | 2003.8246 |
2008 | DCB_int_01 | 2003.8780 | Mm. | 2004.2450 |
2009 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2004.4260 | So, | 2004.7830 |
2011 | | 2005.5504 | that worked out | 2006.2704 |
2013 | | 2006.8183 | really well, but it took me about a good eight years | 2008.4970 |
2015 | | 2009.1506 | before I was like, | 2009.9447 |
2017 | | 2010.6963 | this is home and- and there's so much | 2012.9940 |
2019 | | 2013.4957 | substance here. And | 2014.7435 |
2021 | | 2015.3975 | <ts> | 2015.4776 |
2023 | | 2015.5810 | I can't allow other people's disposition to determine what a- you know, how I'm feeling about where I'm from | 2020.2431 |
2025 | | 2020.9171 | and where I'm at. | 2021.5110 |
2027 | | 2021.7779 | Cause there's so- that's a small group | 2023.3636 |
2029 | | 2023.6706 | when you look at the masses. | 2024.6715 |
2031 | | 2025.2154 | There's so m- many opportunities | 2027.2515 |
2033 | | 2027.7812 | right here. | 2028.1449 |
2035 | | 2028.5928 | /Have/ remind myself people travel the world | 2030.3078 |
2037 | | 2030.4180 | to come here. | 2031.1120 |
2039 | | 2032.3331 | People travel the world, they can tell me more about my city than I can, because all I can tell them about is the bricks. | 2036.3813 |
2041 | | 2037.1120 | I can't tell them about | 2038.1363 |
2043 | | 2038.3799 | the museums and the- the other exhibits and things when I should be able to, | 2042.2578 |
2045 | | 2042.7616 | you know. | 2043.1253 |
2047 | | 2043.9394 | You know, my family in DR they're like, oh you- you go visit la casa blanca? No. | 2046.9365 |
2049 | | 2047.6038 | What do you mean? | 2048.1577 |
2051 | | 2048.5314 | They're like- (laughing) | 2048.9407 |
2053 | | 2049.3455 | I'm like, w- | 2049.8293 |
2055 | | 2050.1763 | what makes you think- But I should. | 2051.3842 |
2057 | | 2051.9122 | You know, so | 2052.4360 |
2059 | | 2052.8798 | all of these luxuries I have right here. People have spent big money to come way over here for it. | 2056.9871 |
2061 | | 2058.0823 | So. | 2058.3660 |
2062 | DCB_int_01 | 2058.9031 | So you're never a tourist in your own backyard? | 2060.6215 |
2064 | | 2061.0586 | Or you haven't been? | 2061.6859 |
2065 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2062.0963 | <sigh> Only because of work. | 2063.8256 |
2067 | | 2064.2992 | <laugh> Not because- | 2065.2468 |
2069 | | 2065.7940 | And I need to, | 2066.5848 |
2071 | | 2066.8217 | which I should, because | 2067.8660 |
2073 | | 2068.5634 | <ts> my, um, | 2069.4876 |
2075 | | 2069.7212 | fiance is from Washington state. | 2071.2368 |
2076 | DCB_int_01 | 2071.7506 | Mm. | 2071.9975 |
2077 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2072.0543 | Small, small, teeny town called Steptoe, | 2074.7302 |
2079 | | 2075.3942 | Washington. | 2076.0014 |
2081 | | 2076.4294 | And he is super white | 2077.7340 |
2083 | | 2078.3045 | and we super opposite which is so funny. | 2080.7502 |
2085 | | 2081.3241 | Um, | 2081.9714 |
2087 | | 2082.2492 | he teaches me so much because I'm like, what do you mean, | 2084.6415 |
2089 | | 2084.8651 | what is sun tea? I thought that was a brand, it's like, you actually put it in the sun and make tea, I didn't know. | 2088.7897 |
2091 | | 2089.2802 | So, | 2089.6205 |
2093 | | 2089.8307 | I'm like- he's like, how you make tea on the stove. | 2091.3655 |
2095 | | 2091.9161 | So, | 2092.2898 |
2097 | | 2092.5333 | his- um, | 2093.1473 |
2099 | | 2093.9714 | he will give me a good excuse | 2095.6238 |
2101 | | 2095.9542 | to really | 2096.6515 |
2103 | | 2097.1854 | go out | 2097.6658 |
2105 | | 2098.2331 | and tour and see things but <laugh> little will he know, I'm learning too. | 2102.0676 |
2107 | | 2102.8651 | And I'm from here. | 2103.5657 |
2109 | | 2104.2130 | But that's just- that's the luxuries that | 2106.0348 |
2111 | | 2106.8197 | we- | 2107.4337 |
2113 | | 2107.6372 | I think we take advantage of. | 2108.7483 |
2115 | | 2109.5691 | There's so much history here | 2110.7602 |
2117 | | 2111.3275 | in Maryland, Virginia, and DC. | 2113.3169 |
2119 | | 2113.8574 | So much | 2114.7816 |
2121 | | 2115.2454 | history back to the seventeen hundreds | 2117.4309 |
2123 | | 2117.7387 | that- um, and I love history, | 2119.2635 |
2125 | | 2120.0276 | that, uh, is right here in your- in our backyard, like | 2122.3765 |
2127 | | 2122.8236 | right here. | 2123.3141 |
2129 | | 2123.7954 | We got people that come from China to see this. | 2126.1477 |
2131 | | 2126.3479 | We know cause they won't get out the street. | 2127.9061 |
2132 | DCB_int_01 | 2128.9504 | Sounds like you almost hit somebody, sounds like you almost hit somebody. (whispered) | 2131.6311 |
2133 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2132.1444 | On purpose because you- why are you walking in the street (laughing) | 2134.5033 |
2135 | | 2135.3642 | like this (laughing) | 2136.3585 |
2137 | | 2136.7797 | with a camera? What are you taking pictures of the clouds for? You got clouds in China? | 2139.6558 |
2139 | | 2140.1296 | Like what y'all doing? Just crazy. (laughing) | 2142.6220 |
2141 | | 2143.3369 | So, um, but it's- it's just- | 2144.7434 |
2143 | | 2145.5124 | it's a beautiful thing, so. | 2146.9371 |
2145 | | 2147.3141 | I appreciate home | 2148.2951 |
2147 | | 2148.8030 | now. | 2149.1537 |
2149 | | 2149.6973 | Now when I go places I appreciate those places and I come back and appreciate home. | 2153.1406 |
2151 | | 2153.8379 | Period. | 2154.2353 |
2153 | | 2155.0233 | So yeah. | 2155.4103 |
2154 | DCB_int_01 | 2155.7707 | Are you still- <clears throat> so do you still live in- you live in Waldorf, now? | 2158.5520 |
2155 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2158.6001 | Uh-huh. | 2158.9441 |
2157 | | 2159.3475 | I won't leave. | 2160.1149 |
2158 | DCB_int_01 | 2160.3726 | Does mommy still live here? | 2161.4537 |
2159 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2161.7473 | Mm-hm. | 2162.0500 |
2160 | DCB_int_01 | 2162.0276 | In- in the District? | 2162.9551 |
2161 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2162.9652 | She's in Fort Washington. | 2163.9861 |
2162 | DCB_int_01 | 2164.2364 | Okay. | 2164.6924 |
2163 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2164.7602 | Uh-huh. | 2165.0539 |
2164 | DCB_int_01 | 2165.0171 | Oh, | 2165.2907 |
2165 | | 2165.4476 | she's right- she- so right over the line. | 2167.2362 |
2166 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2167.2869 | [Mm-hm.] | 2167.5871 |
2167 | DCB_int_01 | 2167.4937 | [So] y- whole [family-] | 2168.5177 |
2168 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2168.0876 | [But she closer] to- | 2168.9451 |
2169 | | 2169.0719 | to the Waldorf side because she's on two ten. | 2171.5543 |
2170 | DCB_int_01 | 2171.6119 | She's on two ten so she's down [some.] | 2173.0366 |
2171 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2172.7296 | [Yeah], she's on- but she's on /RD-ADDRESS-5/ so she's closer to | 2176.0162 |
2172 | | 2176.6067 | just keep it on two ten, two twenty-eight right there. | 2178.3184 |
2173 | DCB_int_01 | 2178.6629 | Gotcha. | 2179.0056 |
2174 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2179.0600 | Yeah. | 2179.3703 |
2175 | DCB_int_01 | 2179.3236 | Gotcha. | 2179.6929 |
2176 | | 2180.3512 | So let me ask you this, so this is just a random question cause you've done a lot of things, you've experienced a lot of things. Was there ever a time you felt like, oh my god this is it, I'm gonna die? | 2187.0285 |
2177 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2187.4089 | Mm-mm. | 2187.6892 |
2178 | DCB_int_01 | 2188.3398 | You never felt that way? You never felt like you were in danger | 2190.6629 |
2180 | | 2190.8531 | of you losing your life? | 2191.6572 |
2181 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2191.8474 | Mm-mm. | 2192.2244 |
2182 | DCB_int_01 | 2193.1186 | Hm. | 2193.4053 |
2183 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2193.4590 | No. | 2193.8293 |
2184 | DCB_int_01 | 2194.9538 | Cause you like to fight. | 2195.7111 |
2185 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2196.7663 | No, I don't even like to fight. | 2198.4446 |
2186 | DCB_int_01 | 2198.6081 | I mean, but you [will fight.] | 2199.6358 |
2187 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2199.0652 | [I had to fight] | 2200.0279 |
2188 | | 2200.8036 | growing up. But, um, | 2202.5561 |
2190 | | 2202.8831 | I just don't- | 2203.3245 |
2192 | | 2203.6472 | no. | 2203.9579 |
2194 | | 2204.8317 | I never felt like that, not even being in the military, not even being | 2207.7445 |
2196 | | 2208.2992 | in, um, war zones. | 2210.1343 |
2198 | | 2210.8884 | I just didn't feel like it. It's like, you have a job to do and get it done, get out of here. | 2213.3775 |
2200 | | 2214.0448 | Like I didn't really feel like it. | 2215.1434 |
2202 | | 2215.7173 | I mean, I had friends that felt that way. | 2217.3689 |
2204 | | 2218.2097 | And, uh, you just want them to snap out of it like (laughing) we got something to do, you know. | 2221.9775 |
2206 | | 2222.5648 | Um, | 2223.0586 |
2208 | | 2223.4523 | I'm trying to think. | 2224.0696 |
2210 | | 2224.7035 | No. | 2225.1439 |
2212 | | 2225.9214 | I've probably only been in two car accidents my entire life. | 2228.5881 |
2214 | | 2229.4923 | Never felt like it then I just wanted to be like, I hope they got insurance, but I never felt like it then. (laughing) | 2234.5881 |
2216 | | 2235.2020 | Um, I felt like | 2236.2364 |
2218 | | 2236.7435 | people around me | 2237.6711 |
2220 | | 2237.9714 | was about to die. | 2238.7230 |
2222 | | 2238.9065 | Because they sitting in a burning car | 2240.4813 |
2224 | | 2240.7816 | and didn't get out. | 2241.3922 |
2226 | | 2242.2364 | And I'm like, they gonna die. | 2243.2173 |
2228 | | 2243.6878 | So I felt like that. But I- but that was older | 2246.3779 |
2230 | | 2246.8884 | and I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that | 2249.1740 |
2232 | | 2249.3475 | <ts> I worked around a lot of dead people. | 2250.6087 |
2234 | | 2252.0342 | And I worked arou- a lot around that environment and you /?/ couldn't really have any emotion. | 2255.5777 |
2236 | | 2256.1524 | You really couldn't cause you would just go crazy. | 2258.2711 |
2238 | | 2258.9551 | And the people who did didn't last, not even a month. | 2261.3834 |
2240 | | 2261.8179 | They would go crazy, and it's understandable. | 2263.3102 |
2242 | | 2263.9275 | You see everything. It's not all pretty and clean like, | 2266.3532 |
2244 | | 2266.9204 | old people having a heart attack. It's | 2268.1282 |
2246 | | 2268.8264 | people flat like a pancake. | 2270.3712 |
2248 | | 2271.3522 | And you're expected to bring them back, | 2273.6177 |
2250 | | 2273.8379 | m- like, make 'em look good to | 2275.3202 |
2252 | | 2275.8841 | be seen with their family. And it's- then I have to be the one saying, but do you guys have a picture? | 2278.9938 |
2254 | | 2279.4876 | Cause that's what you're gonna need. | 2280.3384 |
2256 | | 2280.5628 | You gonna need a picture. | 2281.3035 |
2258 | | 2283.4123 | Yeah. | 2283.7922 |
2259 | DCB_int_01 | 2286.3518 | Like, | 2286.6362 |
2261 | | 2287.8808 | so your job, it's like you're an artist. Like, | 2289.7818 |
2263 | | 2289.9995 | I mean, but | 2290.4355 |
2265 | | 2290.8336 | a miracle- | 2291.4376 |
2267 | | 2292.2217 | [I guess I] just don't understand that wor- | 2294.1811 |
2268 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2292.2392 | [Mm.] | 2292.6963 |
2269 | DCB_int_01 | 2294.4947 | [Wow.] (whispered) | 2294.8374 |
2270 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2294.6749 | [The world.] Well we used to have a guy, he's- he's passed away now, | 2297.4476 |
2271 | | 2297.9280 | um, he was a civilian that actually ran the mortuary, Mr. /RD-NAME-3/. | 2300.7116 |
2273 | | 2301.1587 | Uh, really feisty Italian man, I loved him. | 2303.6444 |
2275 | | 2304.0590 | Um, he really- he's like such a super | 2307.3989 |
2277 | | 2307.9528 | patriot. | 2308.7068 |
2279 | | 2309.1273 | He- um, | 2309.8139 |
2281 | | 2310.4218 | you know, he's like, these are American soldiers, we need to try to | 2312.9418 |
2283 | | 2313.1286 | make them look good so their families can see them one last time. | 2316.3151 |
2285 | | 2316.8197 | So he would try everything, I mean, you could just be like, flat like a pancake and he would try | 2321.1973 |
2287 | | 2321.7912 | to do everything to work with our, | 2323.8774 |
2289 | | 2324.1077 | <ts> uh, structural department, I did reconstructions, | 2326.7169 |
2291 | | 2327.1406 | to get them back looking decent. | 2329.1033 |
2293 | | 2329.3736 | But there was lots of times we could not, like when the USS, um, | 2332.8670 |
2295 | | 2333.1373 | Cole | 2333.6678 |
2297 | | 2333.8121 | got blown up, the Navy ship. | 2335.2535 |
2299 | | 2336.0810 | Um, | 2336.4947 |
2301 | | 2336.7082 | nothing you can do with them, | 2338.1096 |
2303 | | 2338.4666 | some of them, most of them. | 2339.5977 |
2305 | | 2340.0557 | Um, lot of victims coming back from Pentagon, nine eleven, stuff like that, | 2343.9962 |
2307 | | 2344.1630 | <ts> | 2344.2397 |
2309 | | 2344.3865 | nothing you can really do with them. | 2345.5744 |
2311 | | 2346.2592 | Um, | 2346.9499 |
2313 | | 2347.4937 | so we would be like, Mr. /RD-NAME-3/, there's nothing we can do with them. | 2350.4866 |
2315 | | 2350.9304 | And he would just be so upset, but he knew that it was- | 2353.0700 |
2317 | | 2353.2735 | it was nothing you could really do. | 2354.3012 |
2319 | | 2354.8350 | So then it would be my job to | 2356.3198 |
2321 | | 2356.7302 | talk to the families. | 2357.7479 |
2323 | | 2358.0456 | <ts> | 2358.1057 |
2325 | | 2358.4961 | And, um, | 2359.6572 |
2327 | | 2360.2812 | obviously they know what happened already, | 2361.7526 |
2329 | | 2362.3432 | but to let them know that we're not gonna be able to have open casket, do you have a picture? | 2365.6845 |
2331 | | 2367.0119 | You know, and of course they're | 2368.2698 |
2333 | | 2369.1706 | boohoo crying, but | 2370.3459 |
2335 | | 2370.4727 | I just wanted to know do you have a picture. | 2371.5271 |
2337 | | 2372.0509 | Cause we need to | 2372.7283 |
2339 | | 2373.0619 | put your package together. But then y'all can go finish | 2374.7636 |
2341 | | 2375.3074 | boohoo crying | 2375.8646 |
2343 | | 2376.1082 | over there. | 2376.5175 |
2344 | DCB_int_01 | 2377.5404 | So you dealt with the families of nine eleven? | 2379.6231 |
2345 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2380.1430 | [Of every-] everything/ | 2381.0505 |
2346 | DCB_int_01 | 2380.2097 | [Like-] | 2380.4499 |
2347 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2381.8279 | Yeah. | 2382.2283 |
2349 | | 2383.5171 | Everything. | 2383.9557 |
2350 | DCB_int_01 | 2386.1596 | Wow. (whispered) | 2386.4796 |
2352 | | 2387.2407 | Y- so, clearly I'm not the one, I would not last in that [environment. Clearly] | 2391.1286 |
2353 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2389.9408 | [<laugh>] | 2390.9251 |
2354 | DCB_int_01 | 2391.5390 | I'm not th- that's not [a job for me.] | 2393.3092 |
2355 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2392.4933 | [Yeah.] | 2393.0805 |
2356 | DCB_int_01 | 2394.2258 | Um, so let me- | 2395.1868 |
2358 | | 2395.3803 | let me | 2395.7473 |
2360 | | 2396.2144 | ask about something else. So do you consider yourself a DC girl? | 2399.7178 |
2362 | | 2399.9180 | Like, | 2400.1954 |
2364 | | 2401.6606 | even before you left and you didn't- Do you consider yourself like, | 2404.2197 |
2366 | | 2404.6034 | DC girl? Like, love DC culture, a DC [girl.] | 2407.2051 |
2367 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2404.9704 | <ts> | 2405.0205 |
2369 | | 2406.8331 | [Definitely] love DC culture. | 2408.5414 |
2370 | | 2409.0452 | Even though I was like, | 2410.5100 |
2372 | | 2410.9004 | ugh, no | 2411.7746 |
2374 | | 2411.9614 | for a while. (laughing) | 2412.7063 |
2376 | | 2413.2535 | Um, but definitely. I mean, cause even when I was away, | 2416.2230 |
2378 | | 2416.5133 | where you from? DC. | 2417.4542 |
2380 | | 2417.9756 | Proudly. | 2418.6562 |
2382 | | 2419.1534 | Come back home and was like, <sigh> I need /unintelligible/ | 2421.2821 |
2384 | | 2421.5491 | or whatever, so it was just (laughing) | 2422.9104 |
2386 | | 2423.3775 | so- | 2424.0215 |
2388 | | 2424.4118 | Yeah. | 2424.8012 |
2389 | DCB_int_01 | 2425.3135 | Did you go to- did you listen to go go music? | 2426.9415 |
2390 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2427.1487 | Mm-hm. | 2427.4356 |
2391 | DCB_int_01 | 2427.7960 | What's your favorite- [did you have a] favorite band? | 2429.3942 |
2392 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2428.4032 | [I hate-] | 2428.8072 |
2394 | | 2429.3808 | No. | 2429.7612 |
2395 | | 2430.6629 | First of all, I can only listen to go go music for five minutes, and that's how long the song should be. | 2434.6268 |
2396 | DCB_int_01 | 2435.1557 | <laugh> | 2435.7208 |
2397 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2435.9080 | No longer than five minutes. | 2437.0566 |
2399 | | 2437.7173 | Okay, I would be like, | 2438.7746 |
2401 | | 2439.2388 | I'm tired. | 2439.9561 |
2403 | | 2440.4599 | Okay this has been gym | 2441.8012 |
2405 | | 2442.3960 | time, so. (laughing) | 2443.3035 |
2407 | | 2443.8274 | I like- I don't like today's go go. | 2445.5157 |
2409 | | 2446.0429 | I don't listen to today's go go at all, | 2447.6611 |
2411 | | 2448.0381 | unless it's like, | 2448.7030 |
2413 | | 2449.1033 | Rare Essence, | 2449.9775 |
2415 | | 2450.4446 | um, | 2450.9752 |
2417 | | 2451.9728 | Groovers. Groovers to me is still | 2453.8528 |
2419 | | 2455.0099 | a newer- | 2455.6839 |
2421 | | 2456.5948 | Cause Rare Essence and | 2458.1530 |
2423 | | 2458.5834 | EU, | 2459.1840 |
2425 | | 2459.7912 | and who else? | 2460.7797 |
2427 | | 2461.2835 | I'm missing one. | 2462.0348 |
2428 | DCB_int_01 | 2462.1477 | Backyard. | 2462.9730 |
2429 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2463.3956 | Backyard, Rare Essence, EU, | 2464.9471 |
2431 | | 2465.4609 | there's [one more.] | 2466.0515 |
2432 | DCB_int_01 | 2465.6878 | [North-] Northeast? | 2466.6821 |
2433 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2468.4113 | That's Groovers. | 2469.1551 |
2434 | DCB_int_01 | 2469.9127 | Oh you said Groovers, you [said Groovers.] | 2471.3408 |
2435 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2470.7602 | [Um,] | 2471.1806 |
2436 | | 2471.6111 | Those three are like, | 2472.7764 |
2438 | | 2473.2301 | the original | 2474.0643 |
2440 | | 2474.5648 | battle bands to me. | 2475.5557 |
2442 | | 2476.0929 | And then Groovers came | 2477.4643 |
2444 | | 2477.7712 | right after, and then all these | 2478.9332 |
2446 | | 2479.3936 | other ones and I'm like, I c- I quit. | 2481.1487 |
2448 | | 2481.6191 | But, um, | 2482.5167 |
2450 | | 2482.7302 | <ts> | 2482.7969 |
2452 | | 2483.4509 | yeah, I like Pleasure, the all girl band | 2485.7606 |
2454 | | 2486.3946 | when they was around. | 2487.2721 |
2456 | | 2487.6291 | You remember Pleasure? | 2488.3432 |
2457 | DCB_int_01 | 2488.5067 | Mm-mm. | 2488.9204 |
2458 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2489.1740 | Remember when- Yes cause they went on to tour with Salt-n-Pepa, they became Salt-n-Pepa's all-girl band. | 2493.5224 |
2459 | DCB_int_01 | 2494.2130 | Mm-mm. | 2495.0238 |
2461 | | 2495.7312 | Okay, I'm sor- I'm'a look- you know what, I'm gonna go back to my desk, I'm'a look 'em up. | 2498.9885 |
2462 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2499.2054 | Pleasure was DC's all-girl band. Oh my god, | 2503.0032 |
2464 | | 2503.5471 | they was some trail blazers. Then another girl band came out, we was like, sit down. | 2506.9704 |
2466 | | 2507.3742 | Pleasure was | 2508.1749 |
2468 | | 2508.5662 | the all-girl band. | 2509.3169 |
2470 | | 2509.7440 | And then they went on to- um, | 2511.3088 |
2472 | | 2511.7593 | Salt-n-Pepa picked them up. | 2512.8352 |
2474 | | 2513.1806 | And you know the, um, | 2514.0482 |
2476 | | 2514.4927 | Shake Your Thang, that was EU. | 2516.0810 |
2478 | | 2516.3712 | Um, | 2516.9451 |
2480 | | 2517.1620 | <ts> | 2517.2588 |
2482 | | 2517.7826 | <sigh> Express Yourself | 2519.1773 |
2483 | DCB_int_01 | 2519.2507 | [Mm-hm.] | 2519.6444 |
2484 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2519.4909 | [by] Salt-n-Pepa, that's Pleasure. | 2520.7016 |
2485 | DCB_int_01 | 2520.9065 | Okay. | 2521.2568 |
2486 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2521.2335 | That's what I say, we got a all-girl band, that's- | 2522.7650 |
2487 | | 2523.1387 | that's Pleasure and- playing for them. And, um, <ts> | 2525.2040 |
2489 | | 2525.5410 | it was another | 2526.4452 |
2491 | | 2526.9065 | song, but they went on to be with Salt-n-Pepa. | 2528.4502 |
2493 | | 2529.4089 | Um, and then they broke up. | 2530.4528 |
2495 | | 2531.6478 | But- um, | 2532.4027 |
2497 | | 2532.7263 | so Pleasure. | 2533.4136 |
2499 | | 2533.9809 | And- but today's go go? Mm-mm. | 2535.4590 |
2501 | | 2536.4766 | No, who did Work the Walls? Was that Rare Essence? | 2538.4652 |
2503 | | 2540.7416 | <ts> [Anyway.] | 2541.1296 |
2504 | DCB_int_01 | 2540.8450 | [I'm not a] go go connis- Did you go to go gos? | 2542.7135 |
2505 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2542.8570 | Oh yeah, I did. | 2543.7879 |
2507 | | 2544.1683 | My mother stopped letting me go, though. | 2545.2902 |
2508 | DCB_int_01 | 2545.8641 | She stopped? | 2546.3279 |
2509 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2546.9885 | I was getting in trouble, so | 2547.9528 |
2511 | | 2548.2230 | [I couldn't go.] | 2548.6564 |
2512 | DCB_int_01 | 2548.2297 | [You were getting] in trouble? | 2549.0697 |
2513 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2549.2674 | Yeah, I couldn't go no more. [<laugh>] | 2550.8164 |
2514 | DCB_int_01 | 2550.7063 | [Wow.] Did [you-] | 2551.7707 |
2515 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2551.5004 | [<sigh>] | 2551.8808 |
2516 | DCB_int_01 | 2552.0576 | did you- you repped your neighborhood? | 2553.3222 |
2517 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2553.6458 | <ts> | 2553.7392 |
2519 | | 2553.9628 | No, | 2554.1930 |
2521 | | 2554.4599 | not really. | 2554.8503 |
2522 | DCB_int_01 | 2554.9838 | Oh. | 2555.1673 |
2524 | | 2555.2440 | Cause you had a lot [of neighborhoods.] | 2556.5762 |
2525 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2555.7287 | [I was- yeah, I was like everywhere.] | 2556.9220 |
2526 | DCB_int_01 | 2557.2101 | Right. | 2557.4537 |
2527 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2557.4203 | Everybody knew our family, like all over. | 2559.4790 |
2528 | | 2559.7426 | So we were like, everywhere. | 2560.6435 |
2530 | | 2561.1706 | I didn't really get into like, rep- I couldn't. I mean, | 2563.0166 |
2532 | | 2563.3870 | /What I'm'a do/ Simple City, Simple City and Eastgate beef, but I be around both areas (laughing) | 2566.8236 |
2534 | | 2567.1640 | all the [time, so.] | 2568.0114 |
2535 | DCB_int_01 | 2567.3742 | [Mm.] | 2568.3017 |
2536 | | 2568.9932 | What- um, | 2569.7973 |
2538 | | 2570.0709 | what- um, | 2571.0416 |
2540 | | 2572.3398 | did you eat mumbo sauce? | 2573.1907 |
2541 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2573.5343 | <ts> | 2573.6010 |
2543 | | 2573.7979 | Yeah. | 2574.3251 |
2545 | | 2574.4360 | Do I eat mumbo sauce | 2575.6005 |
2546 | DCB_int_01 | 2575.6205 | Oh, currently. | 2576.1977 |
2547 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2576.3045 | is a better question, yeah. <laugh> | 2577.5958 |
2548 | DCB_int_01 | 2577.5691 | Where do you get your mumbo sauce from? | 2578.7169 |
2549 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2578.6234 | <ts> | 2578.6868 |
2550 | | 2579.0071 | Oh my gosh, so now mumbo sauce, it used to be just a DC thing, but Chicago will argue. | 2582.9351 |
2552 | | 2583.3422 | But it used to be just a DC thing. | 2584.9471 |
2554 | | 2585.1072 | <ts> | 2585.1673 |
2556 | | 2585.3675 | Um, | 2586.0181 |
2558 | | 2586.8798 | but | 2587.2768 |
2560 | | 2587.7907 | it definitely branched out into PG | 2589.3655 |
2562 | | 2589.9528 | even way back | 2590.6034 |
2564 | | 2590.8537 | when I was a little kid. | 2591.7579 |
2566 | | 2592.1925 | But now, Waldorf | 2593.2335 |
2568 | | 2594.0553 | /comes to me,/ everything's right there. | 2595.2910 |
2570 | | 2595.9528 | Um, | 2596.5133 |
2572 | | 2596.8303 | Saint Mary's by far does not have mumbo sauce. | 2599.5104 |
2574 | | 2599.9709 | Okay, [they-] | 2600.5229 |
2575 | DCB_int_01 | 2600.3145 | [Okay], mm. | 2600.9018 |
2576 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2600.8617 | I asked them for mumbo sauce, they gave me ketchup. | 2602.3364 |
2577 | DCB_int_01 | 2605.5905 | I'm sorry that you had to experience that traumatic [experience.] | 2607.8760 |
2578 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2607.7226 | [I] looked at it, I said this pretty dark. | 2609.1940 |
2579 | | 2610.0448 | <laugh> I was like, mm I don't need ketchup. | 2611.9875 |
2581 | | 2612.6782 | So yeah, they- they don't know about it. So I would say, | 2614.5734 |
2583 | | 2614.8703 | Charles County is the furthest. | 2616.5577 |
2585 | | 2617.3336 | Baltimore, | 2618.3212 |
2587 | | 2618.9084 | they don't really know what you're talking about. | 2619.8551 |
2589 | | 2620.5200 | Um, | 2621.0338 |
2591 | | 2621.3008 | we don't claim Baltimore by the way. | 2622.4670 |
2593 | | 2622.8765 | You know that | 2623.2735 |
2595 | | 2623.5071 | about us? | 2623.8974 |
2596 | DCB_int_01 | 2624.7049 | DC doesn't claim Baltimore? What you mean? | 2626.0495 |
2597 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2625.9928 | Oh, Maryland, like PG County. | 2627.8012 |
2598 | | 2628.6929 | All the counties | 2629.5972 |
2600 | | 2630.0109 | other than Baltimore don't claim Baltimore. | 2632.2731 |
2601 | DCB_int_01 | 2632.2531 | Why not? | 2632.6001 |
2602 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2632.9738 | We just don't, it's like we don't even like Bal- (laughing) <laugh> | 2635.4670 |
2604 | | 2635.8307 | I don't know, it's a thing. First of all, DC s- like, straight DC does not claim Baltimore at all. | 2639.8856 |
2606 | | 2640.4619 | Like it's like, <laugh> | 2641.3936 |
2608 | | 2641.7506 | they don't ever get along. | 2642.6448 |
2610 | | 2643.0419 | But, um, | 2643.7472 |
2612 | | 2644.4866 | <ts> I don't know, it's just a thing, like we like, mm-mm. | 2646.6654 |
2614 | | 2647.1868 | People like, | 2647.6005 |
2616 | | 2647.8040 | Baltimore, Maryland, no just Baltimore, Baltimore, we don't claim the | 2650.2731 |
2618 | | 2650.5700 | step children (laughing) <laugh> | 2651.5577 |
2620 | | 2652.3151 | at all. | 2653.0032 |
2621 | DCB_int_01 | 2652.9999 | I know. (whispered) | 2653.5504 |
2622 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2653.8941 | Mm-hm. | 2654.4513 |
2624 | | 2654.9051 | <ts> | 2654.9952 |
2626 | | 2655.4356 | So yeah, definitely eat mumbo sauce. | 2656.7369 |
2627 | DCB_int_01 | 2657.3541 | <ts> | 2657.4542 |
2629 | | 2657.8346 | Um, | 2658.7613 |
2631 | | 2659.3636 | let me talk about- So, even here, right, this neighborhood where you've grown up | 2662.8370 |
2633 | | 2663.2274 | we see condos across the street. [Shrimp Boat is not] Shrimp Boat, it's | 2667.5292 |
2634 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2665.5972 | [Mm-hm.] | 2666.2531 |
2635 | DCB_int_01 | 2667.7626 | Shrimp Boat | 2668.3632 |
2637 | | 2668.5100 | Center, or whatever it's called. | 2669.6580 |
2639 | | 2670.3051 | Let's talk about gentrification. | 2671.7440 |
2640 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2671.7973 | <ts> | 2671.8708 |
2642 | | 2672.4580 | So I often wonder, I'm like, are they like- | 2675.7345 |
2644 | | 2676.0448 | are- are they like, | 2676.9098 |
2646 | | 2677.6238 | shipping people to another planet? Like, what are we doing with the people? | 2680.5467 |
2648 | | 2681.1640 | <ts> | 2681.2274 |
2650 | | 2681.3174 | Cause even where I grew up on Seventh | 2682.9532 |
2652 | | 2683.4237 | well in Capers is the- the- | 2684.7249 |
2654 | | 2684.9218 | the, um, projects. | 2685.9027 |
2656 | | 2686.2597 | Those are not there | 2687.0872 |
2658 | | 2687.2474 | anymore. | 2687.7312 |
2660 | | 2688.2458 | They're torn down, so you know- you- you know where Seventh in Capers is? | 2690.8550 |
2662 | | 2691.4056 | Seventh and Arthur Street. So, | 2692.4766 |
2664 | | 2692.9905 | [if y-] | 2693.2774 |
2665 | DCB_int_01 | 2692.9938 | [I think so.] | 2693.4311 |
2666 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2693.6678 | if you're going down- | 2694.6254 |
2668 | | 2695.0233 | if you gonna go to, um, | 2696.4513 |
2670 | | 2697.1487 | the wharf for example, where it used to be Phillips, | 2699.4242 |
2672 | | 2700.1658 | <sigh> | 2700.5795 |
2674 | | 2700.8064 | you- you can go that way | 2702.1610 |
2676 | | 2702.3512 | to get there. | 2702.7783 |
2678 | | 2703.3489 | Um, | 2703.8894 |
2680 | | 2704.7202 | <ts> that's not there anymore. | 2705.5043 |
2682 | | 2706.0515 | There all these nice little | 2707.2101 |
2684 | | 2707.6305 | high rises. But my question is | 2709.4923 |
2686 | | 2709.9394 | Where'd you- where you put the people? | 2711.4409 |
2688 | | 2712.2725 | Because all those are rentals. | 2713.7139 |
2690 | | 2714.2878 | Like those the- they're not like- you can like, pay them, you know, | 2716.8203 |
2692 | | 2717.4209 | to be like, | 2717.8688 |
2694 | | 2718.1391 | let me pay these people for their- | 2719.5638 |
2696 | | 2719.7340 | for their property, cause that's what they | 2721.2588 |
2698 | | 2721.5424 | usually do with the houses, but. | 2722.8570 |
2700 | | 2723.9981 | People are renting there. | 2725.0901 |
2702 | | 2725.6238 | S- and most of 'em on fixed, | 2726.7479 |
2704 | | 2726.9852 | you know, income and- and government | 2728.3865 |
2706 | | 2728.7569 | support, so. | 2729.4275 |
2708 | | 2729.9622 | <ts> I'm like, what are you doing with the people? So I guess they're like- | 2732.3279 |
2710 | | 2732.6815 | they closing them down and then | 2734.1430 |
2712 | | 2734.5867 | go wherever you go, and then people start trying to filter out | 2737.0766 |
2714 | | 2737.5104 | wherever. | 2737.9942 |
2716 | | 2738.8617 | But, | 2739.1553 |
2718 | | 2739.5624 | I often wonder like, | 2740.6067 |
2720 | | 2741.5176 | as the, | 2742.3051 |
2722 | | 2743.0633 | um, | 2743.5838 |
2724 | | 2744.2278 | builders and the government, | 2745.7359 |
2726 | | 2746.3432 | mostly, | 2746.8103 |
2728 | | 2747.2974 | are making these changes, like what is their plan for the | 2750.2978 |
2730 | | 2750.6982 | people? And what is their plan to | 2752.3398 |
2732 | | 2752.7969 | save the culture | 2753.9981 |
2734 | | 2754.6195 | of this place? | 2755.2435 |
2736 | | 2756.2111 | I don't really think | 2756.9218 |
2738 | | 2758.0729 | that's a factor to them because it's more about the money. | 2760.3551 |
2740 | | 2760.9599 | It's more about making it look | 2762.2936 |
2742 | | 2762.6715 | very, uh, | 2763.6024 |
2744 | | 2764.2497 | pleasurable on the eye for their investors | 2766.6254 |
2746 | | 2766.9866 | that come in, | 2767.6572 |
2748 | | 2768.1243 | and the people they have flying in. Like, | 2769.4389 |
2750 | | 2769.5791 | The whole National Stadium area is | 2771.3386 |
2752 | | 2771.6378 | totally different, you know. | 2772.6321 |
2754 | | 2773.0533 | And I'm all for change in terms of making things better and beautifying, beautification projects, | 2777.2707 |
2756 | | 2777.8680 | But, | 2778.3051 |
2758 | | 2778.4452 | I'm like, at the expense of what? | 2779.8174 |
2760 | | 2780.6682 | So that's my- | 2781.3288 |
2762 | | 2782.2597 | my question mark. | 2783.1640 |
2763 | DCB_int_01 | 2784.4694 | Tell me about going to the Boys and Girls Club when you were younger. | 2786.6749 |
2764 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2787.5724 | Um, well, I didn't even know it was a Boys and Girls Club. We talked about that with like, some of the other people. I was like, I'm going to the ARC. | 2792.0209 |
2766 | | 2792.3112 | Like (laughing) I didn't even know | 2793.3689 |
2768 | | 2793.8393 | that that was the Boys and Girls Club. | 2795.3808 |
2770 | | 2795.7145 | Um, | 2796.2550 |
2772 | | 2796.6734 | <ts> | 2796.7623 |
2774 | | 2796.8398 | I- | 2797.1434 |
2776 | | 2797.4570 | we were just kids playing, it was somewhere to go. | 2800.0629 |
2778 | | 2800.5200 | You know, you go down Minnesota, | 2802.8698 |
2780 | | 2803.1167 | and you | 2803.7640 |
2782 | | 2804.2545 | get your sour pickle, you get your steak and cheese and your- | 2807.4943 |
2784 | | 2807.9455 | and your, um, fried rice, | 2809.8607 |
2786 | | 2810.3779 | and you eat that while you walking on the way | 2812.2864 |
2788 | | 2812.7769 | down there. | 2813.4609 |
2790 | | 2813.9981 | And you just- | 2814.9732 |
2792 | | 2815.2502 | It was just like a big social | 2817.0586 |
2794 | | 2817.5624 | whatever but you felt very safe. | 2819.1273 |
2796 | | 2819.7679 | Extremely safe. | 2820.8431 |
2798 | | 2821.5571 | But I would also have to say I felt more safe | 2823.8527 |
2800 | | 2824.8637 | in the city than I did | 2826.0815 |
2802 | | 2826.6129 | going | 2827.1702 |
2804 | | 2827.5104 | to the | 2827.8441 |
2806 | | 2828.1977 | suburban places. I don't know why, but | 2830.0896 |
2808 | | 2830.5133 | I did. | 2830.9171 |
2810 | | 2831.2707 | I felt way more safe. It was noise, it was people all the time, | 2833.8341 |
2812 | | 2834.4747 | you know. | 2834.7750 |
2814 | | 2835.2588 | That's off track. | 2835.7192 |
2816 | | 2835.9661 | But | 2836.1797 |
2818 | | 2836.6601 | the Boys and Girls- (laughing) I'll get- I'll go back to that. | 2838.4948 |
2820 | | 2839.2301 | The Boys and Girls Club then it was just | 2841.2521 |
2822 | | 2842.0696 | <ts> | 2842.1229 |
2824 | | 2842.2464 | so welcoming. So, | 2843.4476 |
2826 | | 2843.7011 | now that I'm here, | 2844.6662 |
2828 | | 2845.2034 | it makes so much more sense | 2846.7750 |
2830 | | 2847.2721 | why it was so open. | 2848.9437 |
2832 | | 2849.4409 | And, you know, it was more, um- | 2851.3035 |
2834 | | 2851.7106 | All the DC and- and PG clubs | 2853.5124 |
2836 | | 2854.0295 | are | 2854.6134 |
2838 | | 2855.0505 | grant funded pretty much. | 2856.2750 |
2840 | | 2856.6329 | Whereas like, | 2857.4082 |
2842 | | 2857.7907 | Virginia is probably program funded cause the parents have the money to really pay, | 2861.7879 |
2844 | | 2862.5862 | you know, a- a- um, membership. | 2864.4580 |
2846 | | 2865.0119 | Whereas we do not. | 2865.8894 |
2848 | | 2866.4666 | Um, but because of that, | 2868.0548 |
2850 | | 2868.4260 | there was no strings. I can only imagine if I was that age going to | 2871.7159 |
2852 | | 2872.1430 | clubs that were program funded. It's like, excuse me, | 2873.9414 |
2854 | | 2874.3318 | do you have a- | 2874.9432 |
2856 | | 2875.2168 | What are you doing here? | 2875.9288 |
2858 | | 2876.2011 | And, you know, cause they have to, cause you got people paying to be here. | 2878.6435 |
2860 | | 2879.0405 | Whereas, | 2879.6312 |
2862 | | 2880.2158 | the club was just- it was like open arms. | 2882.0776 |
2864 | | 2882.2845 | I [mean,] | 2882.8350 |
2865 | DCB_int_01 | 2882.4480 | [Mm.] | 2882.8284 |
2866 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2883.6458 | it was very | 2884.7903 |
2868 | | 2885.0772 | welcome. Even to the point I didn't even know | 2886.5920 |
2870 | | 2887.0399 | that- <laugh> /but/ I don't think they did branding very well | 2888.8450 |
2872 | | 2889.2087 | back then. (laughing) | 2889.6625 |
2874 | | 2889.8560 | But I didn't even know. | 2890.8403 |
2876 | | 2891.2007 | I thought, | 2891.6578 |
2878 | | 2891.9189 | we going to the ARC. | 2892.5928 |
2880 | | 2893.0433 | That's what it was, it was the ARC, | 2893.9175 |
2882 | | 2894.1510 | period. | 2894.5114 |
2884 | | 2895.2354 | So when I interviewed, | 2896.5100 |
2886 | | 2896.9604 | and we talked about it, even then, I said | 2898.9465 |
2888 | | 2899.1234 | <ts> | 2899.1868 |
2890 | | 2899.8207 | I was about | 2900.4747 |
2892 | | 2901.1653 | probably my mid-twenties, and that's when I- | 2902.6401 |
2894 | | 2902.9504 | I went back there for something. | 2904.4761 |
2896 | | 2904.8831 | And, um, | 2905.4503 |
2898 | | 2905.6639 | <ts> I remember saying- | 2906.4480 |
2900 | | 2906.9351 | And at that time I was like, | 2907.8026 |
2902 | | 2908.2097 | oh, Boys and Girls Club took over? <laugh> Been here the whole time. | 2911.5771 |
2904 | | 2912.0276 | Uh, but I was telling, uh, | 2913.1754 |
2906 | | 2913.6358 | /RD-NAME-3/ I was like, yeah, | 2914.6134 |
2908 | | 2914.8069 | <ts> | 2914.8770 |
2910 | | 2915.5276 | that's when I first realized it was the Boys and Girls Club. | 2917.1567 |
2912 | | 2917.9175 | All that time. | 2918.4246 |
2913 | DCB_int_01 | 2918.7950 | And didn't even know it. | 2919.6492 |
2914 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2919.7793 | Nope. | 2920.0529 |
2916 | | 2920.7402 | Didn't know it, | 2921.3875 |
2918 | | 2921.6086 | And then it's a pros and cons to that. You know, con is, oh, | 2923.9809 |
2920 | | 2924.2144 | you not branding well but that's the business side. | 2926.0264 |
2922 | | 2926.3632 | But as a kid, | 2927.0605 |
2924 | | 2927.5944 | you didn't know it because | 2928.5995 |
2926 | | 2928.7797 | there was no stipulations. There was- | 2930.3612 |
2928 | | 2930.6015 | It was very open and free and | 2932.0729 |
2930 | | 2932.4833 | you felt very welcome. It wasn't like- | 2934.0548 |
2932 | | 2935.0900 | <sigh> it wasn't controlling environments where a kid can really be a kid, basically. | 2938.9070 |
2933 | DCB_int_01 | 2939.2941 | Hm. | 2939.6478 |
2935 | | 2940.2358 | But go back to this idea of feeling safe, because that's so funny. L- like you felt safer in the city? [Like,] | 2944.5067 |
2936 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2944.4166 | [I] did. [<laugh>] | 2945.4643 |
2937 | DCB_int_01 | 2945.3108 | [Cause] the s- | 2945.5841 |
2938 | | 2945.8146 | the statistics will tell you [otherwise.] Every- every article, every report, [every census] bureau, the | 2951.1373 |
2939 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2947.0809 | [<ts>] | 2947.2015 |
2941 | | 2949.9661 | [Yeah.] | 2950.4248 |
2942 | DCB_int_01 | 2951.3541 | piece information you pull is | 2952.6362 |
2944 | | 2953.1134 | very much | 2953.7894 |
2946 | | 2953.9875 | saying something [different.] | 2954.9351 |
2947 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 2954.7483 | [Well, I] guess me working in | 2956.4499 |
2948 | | 2956.9104 | government | 2957.4709 |
2950 | | 2957.6544 | my entire life and working | 2959.0967 |
2952 | | 2959.5338 | around sensitive information, I often | 2961.7793 |
2954 | | 2962.1096 | would not- | 2962.6768 |
2956 | | 2963.7212 | I don't believe | 2964.5292 |
2958 | | 2964.8965 | what's put out in census and what's put out in statistics because | 2968.1196 |
2960 | | 2969.4142 | it's man made. So I don't- | 2970.5194 |
2962 | | 2970.8598 | Half the stuff is put out for a reason. | 2972.3512 |
2964 | | 2972.9885 | Um, /?/ | 2973.8026 |
2966 | | 2974.2998 | it's- there's always an agenda. | 2975.5105 |
2968 | | 2975.7387 | I wouldn't be surprised that's say that so people would be more- | 2978.1310 |
2970 | | 2978.7316 | more comfortable to move so we can build up. | 2980.1330 |
2972 | | 2980.8571 | Whatever. | 2981.1841 |
2974 | | 2981.3643 | But, um, | 2981.8280 |
2976 | | 2982.6755 | uh, | 2983.1360 |
2978 | | 2983.3061 | I felt more safe. | 2984.2871 |
2980 | | 2985.1110 | The statistics in my family (laughing) from real people with their mouth, | 2988.4476 |
2982 | | 2988.9322 | they felt more safe in the city. | 2990.1667 |
2984 | | 2990.6739 | When I moved to Waldorf where, | 2992.4923 |
2986 | | 2993.0529 | you know, for my kids, | 2994.0146 |
2988 | | 2994.2081 | um, | 2994.5518 |
2990 | | 2994.7353 | in theory | 2995.3559 |
2992 | | 2995.5728 | it's safer, | 2996.2868 |
2994 | | 2996.5304 | Late at night, | 2997.0643 |
2996 | | 2997.5914 | I'm constantly looking out the window, | 2998.9161 |
2998 | | 2999.3240 | checking the door. | 3000.0680 |
3000 | | 3000.4751 | Cause I don't hear anything, it's so quiet. I'm like, what's going on? (whispered) | 3002.7647 |
3002 | | 3003.1610 | What's going on around here? You know, (laughing) it's [so quiet] and | 3005.4165 |
3003 | DCB_int_01 | 3004.3222 | [Mm.] | 3004.8293 |
3004 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 3005.8178 | you hear every little thing. In the city, | 3007.4994 |
3006 | | 3008.3903 | <ts> it's noisy, it's like- | 3009.3178 |
3008 | | 3009.9818 | it's always people around and it's always | 3011.8370 |
3010 | | 3012.0246 | just busy, so, | 3013.4861 |
3012 | | 3014.4437 | I feel safe. It's like well, | 3015.5180 |
3014 | | 3015.8884 | who's gonna break in right here? People walking (laughing) they gonna see it, and | 3018.7220 |
3016 | | 3019.1324 | who's gonna do | 3019.7864 |
3018 | | 3020.0366 | whatever? You just feel- it- you just felt so much- I guess it's more eyes | 3023.1229 |
3020 | | 3023.5634 | on you, [whatever. You kind of] felt more safe. | 3025.1024 |
3021 | DCB_int_01 | 3024.0914 | [Mm.] | 3024.4867 |
3022 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 3025.3459 | Whereas in other- in- Waldorf kind of country and it's quiet and people are in their houses and | 3030.0672 |
3024 | | 3030.6019 | somebody could do something, nobody would even see it. | 3031.9966 |
3026 | | 3032.3936 | That's kind of what my- my thought pattern was. | 3033.9612 |
3028 | | 3034.5991 | But, um, | 3035.1830 |
3030 | | 3035.4132 | I would not raise my kids where I l- where I grew up. | 3037.6963 |
3032 | | 3038.1567 | So I don't feel that safe. | 3038.8687 |
3034 | | 3039.2845 | But I- I /wouldn't/ raise them (laughing) | 3040.7726 |
3036 | | 3041.2063 | where I grew up. | 3041.9704 |
3038 | | 3042.3082 | I would be one of those people that would purchase like, | 3044.3536 |
3040 | | 3044.9141 | /at the Ritz/ | 3045.6215 |
3042 | | 3046.0385 | Georgetown, or something like that. | 3047.6021 |
3044 | | 3048.1081 | Because once you have children, the mentality is just different. You want better | 3051.4146 |
3046 | | 3051.7683 | for them. | 3052.0619 |
3047 | DCB_int_01 | 3052.0185 | But even if you've seen the city changing, right, that area- So, where you've grown up, | 3055.7730 |
3048 | | 3055.9665 | I [mean, it's happening.] It's [happening.] The developers are moving. | 3058.6686 |
3049 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 3056.2168 | [Mm-hm.] | 3056.5404 |
3051 | | 3057.4046 | [Mm-hm.] | 3057.7116 |
3052 | | 3058.7259 | Mm-hm. | 3059.0228 |
3053 | DCB_int_01 | 3059.0729 | So that area's changing very [quickly. So you] still wouldn't- | 3061.5328 |
3054 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 3060.3850 | [Mm-hm.] | 3060.7220 |
3055 | DCB_int_01 | 3061.7496 | you wouldn't | 3062.3135 |
3057 | | 3062.5071 | purchase there? | 3063.0404 |
3058 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 3063.5481 | No, not until a hundred percent of the area is changing. Because if you notice, so, | 3066.6319 |
3060 | | 3067.0390 | they've changed- they're putting new condos over here, | 3069.1977 |
3062 | | 3069.3946 | but you still got all this going on up the street right here. | 3071.0896 |
3064 | | 3072.1247 | So- where you think- the people where you taking their jobs, | 3074.5704 |
3066 | | 3075.1777 | where you think they gonna come rob from? | 3076.7092 |
3068 | | 3077.7877 | So they're- wa- it's a d- it's a walk away. | 3079.7430 |
3070 | | 3080.6405 | So no. | 3080.9819 |
3072 | | 3081.5447 | I think it | 3082.0185 |
3074 | | 3082.5424 | creates more havoc because | 3084.1347 |
3076 | | 3084.5552 | you literally putting the candy | 3086.0466 |
3078 | | 3086.4737 | in front of the kids | 3087.5614 |
3080 | | 3087.9118 | right on the counter. | 3088.6691 |
3082 | | 3089.0495 | It's like r- literally around the corner. | 3091.0890 |
3084 | | 3091.5895 | So this almost goes back to | 3093.2044 |
3086 | | 3093.8717 | when my mom moved to Fort Washington, Potomac, you know, it was really estate-y type, | 3096.8154 |
3088 | | 3097.4293 | um, complex. | 3098.4805 |
3090 | | 3099.0910 | You go into the- you don't even think that it's | 3100.5924 |
3092 | | 3100.7659 | where she is cause it's so rich-y and stuff, like. | 3103.8297 |
3094 | | 3104.7840 | Soon as you turn out the neighborhood and go left or right, | 3107.0829 |
3096 | | 3107.6910 | <ts> | 3107.7911 |
3098 | | 3108.5418 | what's over there? | 3109.1711 |
3100 | | 3109.8431 | What is that neighborhood? Glass Manor | 3111.3445 |
3102 | | 3111.8851 | is right there. | 3112.8960 |
3104 | | 3113.3064 | Um, | 3113.9404 |
3106 | | 3114.5385 | this little, | 3115.3059 |
3108 | | 3116.1000 | uh, hood neighborhoods right here. It's like literally within walking distance. So I say that to say, | 3119.9237 |
3110 | | 3120.5385 | a lot of the houses, | 3121.4861 |
3112 | | 3121.9131 | thank god not hers, have always getting breaking- broken into. | 3124.2421 |
3114 | | 3125.2831 | All the time. | 3125.9637 |
3116 | | 3126.3416 | Cause it's like you | 3127.2225 |
3118 | | 3127.7363 | put these- you build up these nice rich neighborhood with these affluent people | 3131.2764 |
3120 | | 3131.7035 | are gonna be there | 3132.3007 |
3122 | | 3132.9022 | but you- | 3133.4393 |
3124 | | 3133.6529 | you leave the surrounding areas the same and then take their jobs. | 3137.0695 |
3126 | | 3137.5033 | How they gonna survive? | 3138.2507 |
3128 | | 3140.6172 | So, | 3140.8998 |
3130 | | 3141.3045 | no I wouldn't. | 3141.9218 |
3132 | | 3142.9261 | I'm just not that stupid. | 3143.6776 |
3134 | | 3144.2515 | I'd rather be in a place where everybody | 3145.9899 |
3136 | | 3146.4937 | is pretty [much] | 3147.0809 |
3137 | DCB_int_01 | 3146.9742 | [Mm.] | 3147.3675 |
3138 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 3147.5581 | the [same.] | 3148.1320 |
3139 | DCB_int_01 | 3147.8617 | [that makes] sense. | 3148.6024 |
3140 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 3148.5991 | They're- they- they don't need to steal from you. They're working class people. | 3152.1033 |
3141 | | 3152.5871 | They'll- they- No. | 3153.3178 |
3143 | | 3154.1453 | So like you not gonna go to the Hamptons and have that problem. | 3156.0572 |
3145 | | 3156.5752 | The Hamptons, | 3157.1157 |
3147 | | 3157.2925 | everything is- <laugh> | 3157.9365 |
3149 | | 3158.4937 | Yeah, there's a certain class that's over there. | 3160.2588 |
3150 | DCB_int_01 | 3160.9361 | Do you think it's a class issue or a race issue? | 3162.7754 |
3151 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 3163.2592 | Uh, both. | 3163.7671 |
3153 | | 3164.8407 | I think it's both. | 3165.3245 |
3154 | DCB_int_01 | 3165.3979 | Why? | 3165.6859 |
3155 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 3166.5123 | Um, | 3166.9561 |
3157 | | 3167.2430 | cause both of them like, kind of coexist | 3169.2525 |
3159 | | 3169.4093 | together. | 3169.8764 |
3161 | | 3170.2601 | Some of the classes think that only a particular race | 3172.6558 |
3163 | | 3172.8860 | can be one thing and vice versa. | 3174.5451 |
3165 | | 3175.0356 | Um, | 3175.5294 |
3167 | | 3175.8931 | I think when it comes to | 3177.4546 |
3169 | | 3177.8617 | the race issue, | 3178.9628 |
3171 | | 3179.5267 | the stereotype is that all white people are racist. | 3181.9632 |
3173 | | 3182.4437 | That's a stereotype which is | 3183.6849 |
3175 | | 3184.2454 | not true. I was just having this conversation with my ten year old | 3186.3917 |
3177 | | 3186.8855 | last night. | 3187.4127 |
3179 | | 3187.7930 | And these are the conversations my kids have. | 3189.2204 |
3181 | | 3189.6782 | Kind of like | 3190.0352 |
3183 | | 3190.2254 | me growing up. | 3190.8560 |
3185 | | 3191.3031 | Um, | 3191.7369 |
3187 | | 3192.1714 | <ts> the stereotype is that | 3193.2492 |
3189 | | 3194.1667 | all white people are racist, all black people are thugs and | 3197.5700 |
3191 | | 3198.0313 | angry and | 3198.9756 |
3193 | | 3199.2291 | violent. | 3199.8998 |
3195 | | 3200.5204 | Um, | 3201.2378 |
3197 | | 3201.6115 | and then you have inter racism, you have | 3203.8403 |
3199 | | 3204.4284 | race on race racism, you got black people that are, | 3207.0643 |
3201 | | 3207.5481 | you too dark, | 3208.2731 |
3203 | | 3208.5891 | you too light, | 3209.3424 |
3205 | | 3209.5567 | you too this. | 3210.2081 |
3207 | | 3210.6786 | That's the issue. And then it's- for- for my family it's on both. It's like it's Spanish people, | 3214.7893 |
3209 | | 3215.2631 | all the Dominicans | 3216.3564 |
3211 | | 3216.6286 | who- | 3217.0423 |
3213 | | 3217.2859 | I always gotta constantly tell some of | 3218.8807 |
3215 | | 3219.3212 | my cousins | 3220.3385 |
3217 | | 3220.9528 | who are like in DR. | 3222.1339 |
3219 | | 3222.4217 | <ts> | 3222.4784 |
3221 | | 3222.7787 | Um, | 3223.3126 |
3223 | | 3223.8130 | some are much older, | 3224.8674 |
3225 | | 3225.1010 | like a older | 3225.6615 |
3227 | | 3225.8617 | group. Because they went through so much their mentality is so warped. | 3228.0482 |
3229 | | 3228.4350 | I'm like, let me explain to you, you are a black person who speaks Spanish, okay? Your oppressor | 3232.5590 |
3231 | | 3233.4841 | raped our people and that's why you speak Spanish, kay? | 3235.9932 |
3233 | | 3236.7439 | Learn your history. | 3237.4580 |
3235 | | 3238.1453 | Don't think you | 3238.9294 |
3237 | | 3239.4966 | not black. Spanish is a culture, | 3241.1858 |
3239 | | 3241.9732 | okay? | 3242.3652 |
3241 | | 3242.7039 | Latino is a culture, not a race. | 3244.4156 |
3243 | | 3244.7726 | <laugh> So, | 3245.2597 |
3245 | | 3245.7669 | I'm like, | 3246.1206 |
3247 | | 3246.3917 | you are black | 3247.2024 |
3249 | | 3247.4060 | and you speak Spanish. | 3248.2068 |
3251 | | 3248.5004 | Like, that's it. | 3248.9542 |
3253 | | 3249.5481 | Um, they wanna try to separate themselves like, | 3251.7210 |
3255 | | 3251.9746 | oh no we- | 3252.6119 |
3257 | | 3252.9555 | we're not black, we Spanish. | 3254.2201 |
3259 | | 3254.6739 | <ts> | 3254.7540 |
3261 | | 3254.9477 | We need to /DNA/ on you? | 3255.8848 |
3263 | | 3256.3255 | You need DNA? | 3256.8293 |
3265 | | 3257.5033 | Like, | 3257.7936 |
3267 | | 3258.3316 | where you think you get your melanin from? | 3259.5661 |
3269 | | 3260.2835 | Where you think you get it from? Like, | 3261.2211 |
3271 | | 3261.6815 | you | 3261.9685 |
3273 | | 3262.1119 | are | 3262.3689 |
3275 | | 3262.5390 | African. | 3262.9795 |
3277 | | 3263.1730 | Okay? (laughing) | 3263.7569 |
3279 | | 3264.4817 | So, um, | 3265.4026 |
3281 | | 3265.9966 | <ts> that whole thing. | 3266.9575 |
3283 | | 3267.2878 | So I think- And then you have those classes there. | 3269.3231 |
3285 | | 3269.8678 | You know you got like, | 3270.5151 |
3287 | | 3270.8988 | oh, well you dark, so | 3272.8874 |
3289 | | 3273.2845 | you not from here. It's like, I wouldn't be considered dark in DR. | 3275.4933 |
3291 | | 3275.9412 | But like, | 3276.3817 |
3293 | | 3277.2325 | <ts> | 3277.3025 |
3295 | | 3278.4837 | I don't know who here. | 3279.2778 |
3297 | | 3279.7950 | You would be borderline. | 3280.7926 |
3299 | | 3281.3932 | I'm trying to think who here. | 3282.4987 |
3301 | | 3283.2125 | /I don't know./ | 3283.6262 |
3303 | | 3284.6639 | /RD-NAME-2/ for example. | 3285.6014 |
3304 | DCB_int_01 | 3285.9017 | Mm-hm. | 3286.1937 |
3305 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 3286.1854 | He could be like, | 3286.9528 |
3306 | | 3287.7769 | as Dominican as they come <laugh> | 3289.2392 |
3308 | | 3289.6662 | and he would be considered, | 3290.6138 |
3310 | | 3291.0876 | oh, he's dark. | 3292.0752 |
3312 | | 3292.5991 | And you have like, | 3293.2797 |
3314 | | 3293.8370 | the | 3294.5109 |
3316 | | 3295.0256 | Jessica Alba looking Dominicans, white looking Dominicans and they're like- they're like they're better. | 3298.4690 |
3318 | | 3299.1596 | [And it's like,] | 3299.5967 |
3319 | DCB_int_01 | 3299.1730 | [Mm.] | 3299.4599 |
3320 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 3300.0680 | <ts> | 3300.1781 |
3322 | | 3300.6986 | No. | 3301.0289 |
3324 | | 3301.5795 | Your skin literally does not make- (laughing) | 3303.0876 |
3326 | | 3303.6115 | You don't come off smarter, | 3304.6425 |
3328 | | 3304.9227 | you don't come off brighter, you don't come off dumber, | 3306.5121 |
3330 | | 3307.2425 | you know. | 3307.6128 |
3332 | | 3308.1400 | So- um, | 3309.0976 |
3334 | | 3309.4880 | <ts> | 3309.5581 |
3336 | | 3309.6915 | but- I'm- I'm off track but, | 3310.9694 |
3338 | | 3311.2430 | I think that the two coexist. | 3312.6452 |
3340 | | 3313.0189 | The racism, | 3313.7063 |
3342 | | 3314.0733 | and the classism, I think they both | 3315.8306 |
3344 | | 3316.0419 | coexist. | 3316.7092 |
3346 | | 3317.2797 | And | 3317.8303 |
3348 | | 3318.1714 | it is all about the upbringing, you know. | 3319.9665 |
3350 | | 3320.3869 | Some of the white people that think they're better is because they was taught they were better. Now that could be a good and a bad thing. | 3323.9738 |
3352 | | 3324.6085 | If we taught our kids they was better, | 3326.3035 |
3354 | | 3328.3922 | you know, look at- look at how much of a difference that could make. | 3330.4617 |
3355 | DCB_int_01 | 3330.5652 | Mm. | 3330.8888 |
3356 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 3331.2959 | So, | 3331.6796 |
3358 | | 3331.8431 | they was taught | 3332.6806 |
3360 | | 3332.9708 | that they were better, | 3333.7883 |
3362 | | 3334.1887 | now there's a way you teach- You don't teach your kids you're better and these people are nothing. | 3337.5379 |
3364 | | 3337.7930 | That's where the- | 3338.4403 |
3366 | | 3338.6238 | the break down is. | 3339.5180 |
3368 | | 3339.9451 | But | 3340.1520 |
3370 | | 3340.3789 | if we taught our kids | 3341.6743 |
3372 | | 3342.1014 | to be better, | 3342.7854 |
3374 | | 3343.1424 | and that they are better than, | 3344.4937 |
3376 | | 3344.9175 | not better than someone but better than | 3346.6291 |
3378 | | 3347.0362 | your stereotypes, better than | 3348.6419 |
3380 | | 3348.8755 | your environment, better than your neighborhood, better than, | 3351.4780 |
3382 | | 3352.0752 | you know, all these things around you. You are better. | 3354.1372 |
3384 | | 3354.9922 | It can- they would go so much further. That's how- what I was taught growing up. | 3357.5214 |
3386 | | 3358.1420 | So. | 3358.4690 |
3387 | DCB_int_01 | 3358.7826 | And that's why you had conversations about the stock market. | 3360.5952 |
3388 | DCB_se3_ag3_f_02 | 3361.0223 | Yes, exactly. | 3362.0967 |