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1DCB_int_010.5310And can you give me your birthday?2.1924
2DCB_se3_ag3_f_022.6397Seven two zero seven eight.4.0319
3DCB_int_018.3695Oh.9.0568
5 9.8843Your birthday's the twentieth, mine's the twenty-seventh.11.8963 
6DCB_se3_ag3_f_0212.0305<ts>12.1373
8 12.4910Twenty-second?13.0883 
9DCB_int_0113.2150Twenty-seventh.13.8523
11 14.0825So we're a week [apart.]15.1803 
12DCB_se3_ag3_f_0214.5663[You's almost-]15.4372
13 15.7742<ts>15.8743
15 16.2613almost a Cancer.17.2720 
16DCB_int_0117.5701Uh, no, a Leo, Leo's are best, Leo's are best.19.9391
17DCB_se3_ag3_f_0219.9591See, I was gonna say we was still good because you was in July at least.22.7251
18DCB_int_0122.9128I was gonna give you [July] but you went with the Cancer [thing.]25.3574
19DCB_se3_ag3_f_0223.5300[But-]23.8237
21 25.0816[I was like], almost a Cancer. I ain't say nothing bad though.27.4605 
22 28.6091[See.]29.0863
23DCB_int_0128.8494[I-] I was trying to go with the- [You know what, we gonna] move on.30.8294
24DCB_se3_ag3_f_0229.8537[See.]30.3870
25 30.9881[<laugh>]32.5964
26DCB_int_0131.4653[Um, where were you born?]32.8452
27DCB_se3_ag3_f_0233.2570Um, Washington, DC.34.5124
28DCB_int_0135.3198What neighborhood do you claim?36.5544
29DCB_se3_ag3_f_0237.2317Wow, there's so many. So,38.8533
31 39.6274I grew up in Capers, right off of Seventh Street.41.6802 
33 42.4142But then we also lived43.6187 
35 43.8957in Parkside, which is like Mayfair, Paradise,46.7785 
37 47.2998Kenilworth47.9605 
39 48.1139Avenue area.49.0393 
41 49.6254And we lived over here, on Fifty-Sixth and Clay51.8142 
43 52.0645as well.52.6150 
45 52.9762But pretty much53.7836 
47 54.0572every Northeast and Southeast56.4195 
49 56.8399minus Southwest, Northwest.58.3881 
50DCB_int_0159.0696Mkay.59.4789
52 60.0772How many years have you lived in the District, just total?63.0001 
53DCB_se3_ag3_f_0263.4814Oh god. <sigh> Let me see, I'm twenty-five, no.66.7279
55 67.1249Um, <laugh>67.8556 
57 68.2393I would probably say about, fifteen70.9028 
58DCB_int_0171.3365Fifteen?71.8003
59DCB_se3_ag3_f_0271.7970total.72.4103
60 72.9481Yeah.73.4986
62 74.0625It's so hard to distinguish cause when we crossed the line into PG it was like we were still in DC.77.7035 
64 78.7913It [literally was] across the light.79.8023 
65DCB_int_0178.8847[Mm.]79.2350
66DCB_se3_ag3_f_0280.3828[<laugh>]81.3371
67DCB_int_0180.5496[We'll talk about that in a] minute.81.7870
68DCB_se3_ag3_f_0281.9777<laugh>82.1644
69DCB_int_0182.1721Where have- other places you lived?83.7035
70DCB_se3_ag3_f_0283.9404In the world?84.6778
71DCB_int_0185.0015Mm, just-85.5520
73 85.7589yeah.85.9657 
74DCB_se3_ag3_f_0285.9591<ts>86.0325
75 86.5897Dover, Delaware,87.9944
77 88.7393I lived in Texas,90.2207 
79 91.0215Spain,92.1893 
81 93.5439um, California,95.2133 
83 96.9681South Carolina,98.2748 
85 100.0511mm,100.4857 
87 100.8794I- I'm thinking that's it.102.0405 
88DCB_int_01103.5287And where'd you go to school?105.0068
89DCB_se3_ag3_f_02105.7141<ts>105.7875
91 105.9543Elementary I went to /RD-SCHOOL-4/ that was right there in108.4643 
93 108.6878Parkside, Northeast.109.6755 
95 110.2527And then, um, junior high, in- in, uh, high school I was in Maryland,114.2040 
97 114.4710PG.114.8790 
98DCB_int_01115.5520Where?115.8267
99DCB_se3_ag3_f_02116.1025<ts>116.1826
101 116.3127Um, well, I went to three different high schools.118.1379 
103 118.5825I went to,119.3399 
105 119.6735uh, /RD-SCHOOL-3/,120.5811 
107 121.7022then I went to122.8066 
109 123.8376/RD-SCHOOL-2/ and /RD-SCHOOL-3/.125.1797 
110DCB_int_01126.4209Mm.126.8947
112 132.1607What do you do now?132.9247 
113DCB_se3_ag3_f_02133.9758I work with the /RD-WORK-4/ as their VP of Human Resources.137.5701
114DCB_int_01137.7803What did you right before you came here?139.3856
115DCB_se3_ag3_f_02139.9758Um, worked with /RD-WORK-4/142.3022
117 142.7226as their chief HR,143.8270 
119 144.2908and, um, /RD-WORK-3/ as their VP146.4863 
121 146.8266of HR.147.4639 
123 148.0886Um, a few other, uh, civilian places. /Always/ HR capacity, and prior to that, in the military for ten years, in HR capacity.155.0562 
124DCB_int_01155.6735Hm.155.9949
126 156.4977Where were your parents born?157.6603 
127DCB_se3_ag3_f_02157.7889<ts>157.8757
129 158.3595Uh, my mother was born160.1687 
131 160.5524in South Carolina, raised in DC.162.3775 
133 163.5920My father was born and raised in DC.165.1269 
134DCB_int_01167.1363And what did your parents do?168.6333
135DCB_se3_ag3_f_02168.9514<ts>169.0448
137 169.5887My father, um, he was-171.4572 
139 171.7375he was a police officer for a short time,173.2264 
141 174.1573and then he was in the military reserves176.7693 
143 177.0668for a short time.177.8188 
145 178.5257Um, and then I'm not sure if you heard of /RD-WORK-8/ but he's owner181.9591 
147 182.2193of- part owner of /RD-WORK-8/.184.0244 
149 184.4757Have all the contracts /?/ DC, Maryland, Virginia and one of the oldest ones around.187.3752 
150DCB_int_01188.6030I do [know them.]189.3830
151DCB_se3_ag3_f_02188.9734[My m-]189.2270
152 189.5573yup, my mom,190.5057
154 190.8294um,191.4400 
156 192.1640worked for the Coast Guard193.1283 
158 193.2784as civilian and military,194.7198 
160 195.0401pretty much since she was fourteen.196.2179 
161DCB_int_01196.6992[Wow. (whispered)]197.1163
162DCB_se3_ag3_f_02196.8961[Um], retired Coast Guard,198.4775
163 198.9014and, um, retired Coast Guard civilian as well.200.8766
164DCB_int_01202.8794Hm.203.1541
166 204.0372And204.9314 
168 205.5287so, let me ask you this.207.3740 
169DCB_se3_ag3_f_02207.4105Mm-hm.207.7408
170DCB_int_01208.1420Thinking about-209.2031
172 211.5987Well, let me start-212.1759 
174 212.3027let me go back.212.9967 
176 213.2570So tell me a little bit about your neighborhood, what-215.1330 
178 215.3232the neighborhood that you most connect with when you were little, and it may be two or three different ones. [So tell] me kind of about growing up, maybe your house, kind of the street you lived on.223.0615 
179DCB_se3_ag3_f_02218.9270[Mm-hm.]219.2670
180 224.1025Wasn't a house.224.6397
182 224.9133Um, <laugh> it was definitely apartment.226.6183 
184 227.1463Um, <ts> we had row house at one point on Eighteenth Place when we was in Southeast.230.7637 
186 231.1369Um, but they were always apartment buildings, always-233.4900 
188 233.7469always the PJs, the projects.235.3318 
190 235.8690Um, but I had fun.236.9801 
192 237.3271Um,237.8276 
194 238.3214growing up,238.8594 
196 238.9828it's- it's weird knowing that you survived that,241.0549 
198 241.4819because being a child,242.5029 
200 242.9967you don't really notice.243.9810 
201DCB_int_01244.3776[Mm-hm.]244.7491
202DCB_se3_ag3_f_02244.6025[It's-] it's normal,245.6935
203 246.2307it seems normal. You don't really247.7689
205 247.9858realize the conditions you're in249.7074 
207 250.2221because you're just so happy.251.5128 
209 251.8704Because my parents did a really good job, they- first of all it was very rare,254.3061 
211 254.6931my parents were together255.6941 
213 256.1412married, the entire time til my father passed away,258.4009 
215 258.8313which was twenty something years into their marriage.261.3380 
217 261.6607So,262.0911 
219 262.7593that was very rare, to see like,264.2708 
221 264.5682/actually/ my dad's, uh, black and Dominican and Italian, my mom's,268.2146 
223 268.3422um, <ts>268.9628 
225 269.3999uh,269.8537 
227 270.0005Jewish and270.6144 
229 270.8280African American.271.4840 
231 272.4062You don't s-272.9100 
233 273.1669but from face value they just look African American. You don't see that276.5453 
235 276.7712a lot277.1273 
237 277.8223in this community, so.279.1335 
239 279.6374That was a rare part. So I had that,280.9161 
241 281.4733and then just a happy childhood, so if there was any struggles,283.9090 
243 284.4262we never knew.285.0689 
245 285.7074I'm the youngest of four.286.8052 
247 287.5534So we never knew.288.2374 
249 288.9481Um,289.5520 
251 290.4095so I had a lot of fun. I didn't realize I'm in the ghetto, I'm in the hood, I'm in the projects.293.9471 
253 294.4943People getting shot over there, crackhead over there. Cause the crackheads was funny, and they was nice, and we ain't know they was on crack.298.6325 
255 299.0396So,299.4333 
257 299.9471um, and that's how it should be301.4352 
259 301.8590when you grow up. So that's what I remember the most.303.4305 
261 303.8918It's not more so my neighborhood, it's the-305.8137 
263 306.2174it's the reality that my parents chose to give us of our309.6073 
265 309.8384environment,310.3789 
267 310.8727which was311.4133 
269 311.6034a good one.311.9794 
271 312.4309So,312.8280 
273 313.0515being313.4986 
275 314.1559an adult today,315.1736 
277 315.5072when I ride in that neighborhood and I know I'm like,317.0596 
279 317.8036that's where I was? (laughing)318.8480 
280DCB_int_01319.0382Mm.319.3718
281DCB_se3_ag3_f_02319.3251Cause I know320.1392
282 320.4662today,321.0956
284 321.6507what that was. And, um, so they taught me324.3542 
286 324.5510how to be with my kids, if ever.326.0358 
288 326.4996Luckily they taught me enough to be like, you need to get a education so you never have to330.2975 
290 331.0816create331.4695 
292 331.9324those types of realities for your kids.333.4238 
293DCB_int_01334.3748So,335.1497
295 336.4710were you- okay, so you were the youngest of four. How- [tell me about] your siblings.339.5673 
296DCB_se3_ag3_f_02338.6097[Mm.]338.8466
298 339.5573<ts>339.6340 
299 339.9377I have two brothers and a sister. They're all341.9805
301 342.4042eight, nine, and ten years apart from me.343.7222 
303 344.2560But they're all back to back.345.0268 
305 345.6883So I'm the baby.346.4014 
307 347.2197And, um,347.8403 
309 348.5644they- It's weird cause349.7222 
311 349.8123with being like now351.3763 
313 351.7575people can't even tell that we're-352.9862 
315 353.5567they never could really tell other than when I'm a baby, but355.9724 
317 356.4362they could not tell that we were so far apart.358.1412 
319 358.5090Cause I grew up really fast being with them.360.2507 
320DCB_int_01360.6445Right.360.9845
321DCB_se3_ag3_f_02361.0715You know, always such a older362.4462
323 362.7365mentality.363.3472 
325 363.9844<ts> Um,364.5424 
327 365.2097it was good365.9304 
329 366.3442growing up with my siblings. I never felt like I was the (laughing) youngest, I felt like369.2103 
331 369.7508I was just one of them.370.5549 
332DCB_int_01371.6435Do you think-372.6111
334 372.9514Okay so when you talk about growing up really fast, what do you think375.1602 
336 375.3671that-375.6841 
338 376.1212what do you- what do you mean by that? Like what-377.6492 
340 377.8537how did that cause you to be different379.2310 
341DCB_se3_ag3_f_02379.5053[Mm-hm.]379.8757
342DCB_int_01379.7288[from] like someone who's like- So when you were [six,]381.9057
343DCB_se3_ag3_f_02381.4906[<clears throat>]382.3881
344DCB_int_01382.2321[versus] when your friends were six.384.2207
345DCB_se3_ag3_f_02384.3809The mentality, the conversations that I could have I couldn't have with my peer group cause they didn't understand those conversations.389.3532
347 389.8303So my peer groups tend to be older because I can392.5430 
349 392.9934communicate393.5273 
351 393.9677with them394.4356 
353 394.9094whereas like, my six year old friends at that time,397.6087 
355 397.9557they had no idea.398.7765 
357 399.2036We're talking about earmarks and budgets cause that's what I sat and listened to my mom talk about cause she did budget analyst for (laughing)404.0625 
359 404.5730the [Coast Guard] and- and all the way through with the DOD for the President, so.407.5367 
360DCB_int_01404.6664[<laugh>]405.1317
361DCB_se3_ag3_f_02407.9638We talking about earmarks,408.8980
363 409.1816and budgets, and we're talking about410.5763 
365 410.8499deficits and stuff, and they're like, what is412.3681 
367 412.7927a defic- I'm like, you don't know what a deficit is? (laughing) You know,414.7579 
369 415.2250so those were my conversations at six years old.417.3838 
370DCB_int_01418.9461Wow. (whispered)419.3565
372 420.0405And your420.4209 
374 420.5911brothers and sisters talk this way too?421.9157 
375DCB_se3_ag3_f_02421.9824They talk that way too.422.7365
377 422.9100That's- these are the things- cause this is what we're-424.6225 
379 425.7569Outside is outside, but in the house,427.3718 
381 427.9824this is what we're hearing. We're hearing my mother, my dad was a entrepreneur.430.6317 
383 431.1497We're hearing things about that, so432.3041 
385 432.6678in my mind,433.3885 
387 434.0925I'm supposed to be entrepreneur.434.9334 
389 435.1903That's what they did, I have my own business as well.436.4849 
391 436.7092So in my mind,437.5701 
393 438.4910I'm supposed to have439.7656 
395 440.0692all these pieces of papers and accolades. And441.7909 
397 442.1979growing up it was a normal thing. Like, oh we're supposed to go to school and444.9014 
399 445.2951get this and445.9884 
401 446.7298it was just a normal447.8525 
403 448.0853thing.448.4924 
405 448.7226And I liked the fact that449.8904 
407 450.3942it was more of a mindset versus a452.3261 
409 452.6197chore or struggle.453.6304 
411 454.5416Yeah.454.8327 
412DCB_int_01455.1163Tell me about school then.456.2241
413DCB_se3_ag3_f_02456.5110What about it?457.0382
414DCB_int_01457.5387When you were in elementary school, did you- did you do well? Did you like school? Was it too [easy for] you?463.1016
415DCB_se3_ag3_f_02462.1974[Mm-hm.462.5510
416 463.7155Um, I absolutely hated elementary school, but I did very well, but I was very bored.467.7069
418 468.1240Because,468.6011 
420 469.4953I went to school and I was not interested in472.4148 
422 472.8227any of that stuff.473.8103 
424 474.4509I wanted to talk about financials <laugh> and I wanted to talk about478.0344 
426 478.3722how to write a check.479.2097 
428 479.6902And I wanted to talk about things- I wanted to talk about482.1793 
430 482.4362technology and stuff like that.483.9402 
432 484.9461And the-485.5134 
434 486.2341the teachers weren't even talking about that.487.7322 
436 488.3094I didn't care about489.4294 
438 489.9585elementary math, I didn't care about491.8871 
440 492.4609that history, I didn't care.493.7522 
442 494.0725I just did it because I knew that's what I needed to do to get my piece of paper.497.1430 
444 497.5434And I wanted my piece of paper. That's part of my plan, so.500.0625 
446 500.6097That was my501.1769 
448 501.5039like, juvenile502.6425 
450 503.2898mentality.504.0472 
452 504.4643At the same time, a mature mentality.506.0470 
453DCB_int_01508.9161So- okay, so this is- so you're growing up in the eighties, right? So technology is not-512.8800
455 513.0034when you talk about technology,514.1679 
457 514.4090what was your reality of technology when you were young?516.5944 
458DCB_se3_ag3_f_02516.5944Well, Microsoft was coming out, you know, the t- the- the big square TV looking computers, that was the thing.521.8704
459 522.4643Um,522.8780
461 523.2017you had cell phones that were coming out, they look like525.5973 
463 525.8442TVs on your hip, and pagers and stuff like that. So,528.5010 
465 529.3184that was technology to me, I wanted to know how is it that these beepers connect, and what are the frequencies and wavelengths in the535.2017 
467 535.6788air that's making that happen and stuff like that.538.0511 
469 538.3055So that was538.8327 
471 539.2965technology that kids my age weren't541.1516 
473 541.9057really paying attention to. You know, I was learning to type543.8184 
475 544.2388at eight years old.545.0229 
477 545.3365They weren't paying attention to that, and to me that was a /?/.547.5987 
478DCB_int_01549.1002So were your friends- Okay thinking about your like-551.3999
480 551.9171Did you have a lot of kids in your neighborhood?553.1049 
481DCB_se3_ag3_f_02553.1550Mm-hm.553.4319
482DCB_int_01554.0358Did y'all play together?554.8299
483DCB_se3_ag3_f_02555.2770We did whenever, um, I was done557.5768
485 557.9771playing with the friends I chose to be with.559.4886 
487 559.7789I'd be like, well, I ain't got nobody else /play/ play with y'all.561.2070 
489 561.7683Um, so.562.4557 
490DCB_int_01562.6392<laugh>562.7927
492 563.2665Uh,563.5234 
494 563.9738[/yeah/]564.1506 
495DCB_se3_ag3_f_02563.9805[So] yeah it was [like that.]564.9911
496DCB_int_01564.5677[/this/ ain't] nobody [else.]565.6298
497DCB_se3_ag3_f_02565.5020[I mean], I was really grateful to have567.3438
498 567.8484parents that really nurtured569.1830
500 569.5667what I wanted to do. Because570.7412 
502 571.2918they had to sacrifice, they had to like, drive far to take me to be around the type of kids that575.6502 
504 576.2374could576.5010 
506 576.8680keep my interest.577.6855 
508 578.0291Because, see,578.6831 
510 579.4981<ts> kids in more affluent580.6834 
512 580.9528neighborhoods,581.5801 
514 582.1206that was a normal thing,583.3140 
516 583.7222a normal conversation, so585.0034 
518 585.6307I- they would take me to go587.0462 
520 587.4233play with those kids while they do tea time with their moms and589.9949 
522 590.4963whatever.590.9300 
524 591.5173I'm playing with these kids who593.0629 
526 593.4767aren't. No,594.1440 
528 594.7245I would say there's pros and cons to it. Some would say,596.6998 
530 597.1969oh, did you miss your childhood? I feel like I really s- I really did have600.0305 
532 600.3175a childhood. I didn't have to worry about602.2093 
534 602.6965bills and where we gonna get food, that wasn't my issue.605.4133 
536 605.9137I chose to make my childhood608.0058 
538 608.7966more intellectual.609.8643 
540 610.4128Versus playing611.2002 
542 611.6540hide and seek unless we was gonna be seeking,613.6969 
544 614.2031I don't know, the stock market or something.615.2708 
546 615.7012Like I (laughing) wasn't really616.8386 
548 617.1401interested in that.617.7207 
549DCB_int_01619.4490So- okay, so you were in this area, you were in Northeast. So your [parents-] so did you drive to like, Northwest or did you drive [to like], Potomac?626.0477
550DCB_se3_ag3_f_02622.3827[Mm-hm.]622.7464
552 625.3489[Mm,]625.6259 
553DCB_int_01626.2732Like where'd your [parents] take you to go play with your friends?628.6989
554DCB_se3_ag3_f_02626.6969[yeah.]626.9823
555 628.7264At that time it wasn't really Northwest. Northwest wasn't really that affluent631.2555
557 631.6993back then. Northwest just started becoming affluent in I would say the past fifteen years or so.635.8008 
559 636.3480Um,636.8318 
561 637.0954it was more like, Potomac,638.6502 
562DCB_int_01638.7470[Mm-hm.]639.1807
563DCB_se3_ag3_f_02639.0206[Cheverly], which over that [Northwest] line.640.5487
564DCB_int_01639.9823[Mm-hm.]640.3183
565DCB_se3_ag3_f_02641.0300Georgetown, parts of Georgetown.642.3146
567 642.5915Anything close to the hill,643.5491 
569 643.8494cause she worked in a lot of /??/ politician, political stuff, so,646.5454 
571 647.2035stuff like that. Um,648.5189 
573 648.8718<ts>648.9452 
575 649.1688they would take me to those things, or,650.7236 
577 651.2074um, to some of those652.4686 
579 652.6296types of exhibits653.6406 
581 653.9976or whatever.654.5550 
583 655.1254Um, I liked to dream big656.5835 
585 656.7203growing up. So they would take me places that I could just sit659.0267 
587 659.2803and they would let me like,659.9943 
589 660.6983that's gonna be my house,661.6726 
591 662.0663that's gonna be my whatever (laughing).663.1240 
593 663.6612I always liked to just664.7656 
595 665.0334dream big. And they- they nurtured that666.4848 
597 666.8351growing up, so.667.5558 
599 667.8861<ts>667.9462 
601 668.4033I have no complaints at all. And so I think it made it easier671.4738 
603 671.8809for me when I- when I grew up673.1955 
605 673.7360and I wanted to get out and do things cause I knew675.8147 
607 676.2666there was a whole nother world.677.3136 
609 677.7340And but now I actually wanted to see it.679.0887 
610DCB_int_01681.7713Okay so at- did you ever like school then?684.2412
612 684.4748Did you ever684.9986 
613DCB_se3_ag3_f_02685.0320I [didn't start] liking school til high school.686.2440
614DCB_int_01685.1988[en-]685.3723
615 686.5868So tell me about high [school.]687.5801
616DCB_se3_ag3_f_02687.2775[Yeah.]687.5144
617 688.1083Oh high school was very fun. I was pretty much in everything, I was on-691.1254
619 691.4924well, I started debate team in eighth grade.692.7770 
621 693.3509I was on debate team,694.3385 
623 694.6196<ts>694.6897 
625 694.8999I was in ROTC695.9042 
627 696.0844the whole time.696.7297 
629 697.3890Um, drama698.6335 
631 699.0206club699.4926 
632DCB_int_01699.6479I can [see that.]700.3218
633DCB_se3_ag3_f_02699.9815[as well.]700.5120
634 701.2069I know. No. [<laugh>]702.7384
635DCB_int_01702.5548[<laugh>]703.5124
636DCB_se3_ag3_f_02703.4958Drama club, um,705.1507
637 705.3809media team,706.3285
639 706.9199<ts>707.0033 
641 707.1835and, um,708.3580 
643 709.1454just regular classes.710.2498 
645 710.5167I didn't do any AP classes and people were so shocked.713.2035 
647 713.6339And I felt like,714.4281 
649 715.0286<ts> I don't wanna do AP because,716.7803 
651 717.6045you know, you go through the whole class and you can make straight A's, but that one test you take at the end of the year,722.1531 
653 722.5902if you don't pass it, you fail the class.723.7675 
655 724.1692And724.4928 
657 724.9066I didn't really think, oh I won't pass it, but I'm like, <ts>726.8184 
659 727.1955what if I get sick,728.0963 
661 728.4133or I don't do- I was- I always had these what ifs. /I said no,/730.6883 
663 731.1234I can- I can do these so called regular classes734.3057 
665 734.5806and I can do additional stuff on my own, I don't need the grade for that.737.0113 
667 738.1040Yeah.738.4377 
668DCB_int_01738.9323So what- okay, so you started at /RD-SCHOOL-3/. So how'd [you get- Okay], from /RD-SCHOOL-3/-742.2823
669DCB_se3_ag3_f_02741.0844[Mm-hm.]741.5071
670DCB_int_01742.7327Was /RD-SCHOOL-3/ because your parents wanted you to be exposed, or did y'all move over to that area? Why'd you start there and then end up /RD-SCHOOL-3/?748.5225
671DCB_se3_ag3_f_02747.2546<ts>747.3046
672 748.5292/RD-SCHOOL-3/ high school in [PG County?]750.1307
673DCB_int_01749.5602[Mm-hm.]749.8705
674 751.3928<ts>751.4729
676 751.7298Oh, p- ah, I was [thinking-]753.6149 
677DCB_se3_ag3_f_02753.5048[Yeah] [no.]754.0216
678DCB_int_01753.8452[Mm.]754.3105
679DCB_se3_ag3_f_02754.1930[There's] no [exposure there.]755.0418
680DCB_int_01754.8361[Mm.]755.1264
681DCB_se3_ag3_f_02755.4167Um,755.7604
682DCB_int_01755.7549<ts>755.8050
683 755.8951[I was wrong.]756.4815
684DCB_se3_ag3_f_02755.9009[Right over the Southeast line.]757.1455
685DCB_int_01756.8185[Mm.] Mm-hm.]757.4825
686DCB_se3_ag3_f_02757.6860Wheeler Road.758.0953
688 758.5535Yeah, so. [<laugh>]759.6512 
689DCB_int_01759.4852[Wrong-]759.8000
690 759.9690Wrong /RD-SCHOOL-3/, wrong [/RD-SCHOOL-3/.]761.4605
691DCB_se3_ag3_f_02761.0167[Right, yeah no.]761.7901
692DCB_int_01761.5739[My] bad.762.1619
693DCB_se3_ag3_f_02762.2179Prince George's [County's.]763.3423
694DCB_int_01763.0721[Mm-hm.]763.5425
695DCB_se3_ag3_f_02763.9763Mm-hm. <laugh>765.1140
697 765.5111[Uh, no we-] we just happened to move over the line,768.2813 
698DCB_int_01765.7789[Wrong county.]766.4881
699DCB_se3_ag3_f_02768.4414Um, right off of-769.5392
701 769.9095in Oxon Hill, right off of Wheeler Road, so771.7949 
703 772.4028right there in p- the school773.9910 
705 774.3981was right there.775.1354 
707 775.6326And then we moved again. That was a house777.5219 
709 777.8856that we- we was renting.778.9233 
711 779.4238Um, then we moved again780.9786 
713 781.2322<ts>781.2989 
715 781.4658to, um, Suitland.782.9172 
716DCB_int_01783.3918[Mm-hm.]783.7021
717DCB_se3_ag3_f_02783.5219[Off] of, um,784.7873
718 785.7941Silver Hill R- yeah, Silver Hill Road.787.5859
720 788.0130Cause that's Suitland that way. So Silver Hill Road789.6913 
722 789.9924and so- so /RD-SCHOOL-2/ was the school for that.792.1245 
724 792.5916Um,793.0520 
726 793.8161and then,794.6636 
728 795.0907/RD-SCHOOL-2/796.0294 
730 796.8732she- So the thing is, in high school,798.8251 
732 799.1888<ts>799.2622 
734 799.3523I was extremely smart, always had a four point O or better,802.3060 
736 803.1869but I was always fighting,804.3881 
738 805.0187all the times. I was always-806.4834 
740 806.6469Boys,807.1774 
742 807.3009mostly.807.7796 
744 808.4528Always fighting. (laughing)809.4939 
746 810.0844So- and this is when I first learned that812.2365 
748 812.5401<ts> educational system-813.7622 
750 814.3995the public educational system,815.9576 
752 816.3814um, really don't care about817.6159 
754 818.2799kids818.9205 
756 819.3685or what you're learning and820.7298 
758 820.8566<ts>820.9133 
760 821.0167your education, they care about their numbers.822.8418 
762 823.4057And I learned that because it would take until825.8457 
764 826.2960the very end of the year827.6280 
766 828.2713when we could freeze the grades before they would say, okay she can't come back to school. (laughing)832.3561 
768 832.9767Cause they wanna keep those numbers up cause I had good grades.835.3490 
770 836.0630But my counterparts or my ch- my other- my peers838.9533 
772 839.6473who didn't have good grades who may have been in the same level of trouble or better,843.6446 
774 843.9824oh they're gone the first845.1402 
776 845.7608little thing they do.846.6650 
778 847.2122They were suspended, in school suspension, they're849.1307 
780 849.6345expelled even.850.5463 
782 850.9066So, one particular incident in /RD-SCHOOL-2/,853.4291 
784 853.6560um,854.1064 
786 854.5869I left /RD-SCHOOL-2/,855.6479 
788 856.0291cause we moved.856.7698 
790 857.3604Uh, but in /RD-SCHOOL-2/ where I got in the most trouble.859.3338 
792 859.7360And,860.2532 
794 860.6169end of the year, same thing. I was used to it, /so many of/ the same thing.863.0134 
796 863.4972But I was leaving anyway.864.5382 
798 865.1755End of the year,865.8888 
800 866.2866there was me, my cousin who's a lawyer now (laughing) who went to Howard. [<laugh>]869.1602 
801DCB_int_01869.0801[<laugh>]869.7614
802DCB_se3_ag3_f_02869.7441Um,870.0844
803 870.2746it's funny.870.7417
805 871.1555But, <laugh>871.4958 
807 871.7894um,872.1898 
809 872.7504and my other cousin, who's not a lawyer,874.5563 
811 874.9700and,875.3837 
813 876.0511<ts> um,876.5382 
815 876.7684couple of friends of ours and we all878.0664 
817 878.4834in this together, we're all in the office and880.3060 
819 880.6697we're getting suspended.881.5139 
821 882.1478And so883.0854 
823 883.6924they freeze my grades, they freeze my cousin's grades who's a lawyer. She had pretty good grades.887.3737 
825 887.9610But the other three,889.0821 
827 889.4391they didn't freeze their grades and they got kicked out.891.1240 
829 892.2260And they had to take like these summer classes and stuff. And I'm like,894.3440 
831 895.0754<ts>895.1421 
833 895.9129all five of us are involved in this thing but I'm the only one that actually physically assaulted somebody. <laugh> And900.5082 
834DCB_int_01900.8685[Mm.]901.1939
835DCB_se3_ag3_f_02900.9720[I don't] get- and so I- This was in tenth grade.903.2008
836 903.4852And so I'm like,904.1052
838 904.2760<ts>904.3327 
840 904.9567you know,905.5539 
842 906.0144I'm really starting to learn that these school systems,908.6503 
844 909.1441um, at that time, I can't speak for now, it's probably worse.911.4838 
846 911.8809But912.1011 
848 912.5182they don't really care913.6560 
850 914.0230about914.4501 
852 915.1874the education, it's about the numbers.916.6754 
854 917.3370Okay?917.7508 
856 918.1979It's about how much more programs and attention and money they can get into their programs because922.8566 
858 923.3170we are producing these types of925.4086 
860 925.8862<ts>925.9729 
862 926.4834academ- academically,927.8122 
864 928.3761um,928.8399 
866 929.1101excelled929.9576 
868 930.2980children,930.6860 
870 931.1021right?931.3554 
872 932.5301So I learned that.933.3581 
874 933.6821Um,934.1859 
876 934.3260so /RD-SCHOOL-2/ kicked me out, of course935.7141 
878 936.6383at the end of the year when there was like, a week left of school. [<laugh>]939.4652 
879DCB_int_01939.1416[Right.]939.5119
880DCB_se3_ag3_f_02939.8723And I'm done, you know, I- I done gave you good grades.942.2045
882 942.3881So I go to p- /RD-SCHOOL-3/,943.8728 
884 944.2532and we still lived- And at this point we bought a house,946.7765 
886 947.2002our very first home, we purchased a home, so we rich now.950.0753 
888 950.4300Um, <laugh>951.4886 
890 951.9557right across from Andrews953.4305 
892 953.7675Air Force [Base.]954.5682 
893DCB_int_01954.2613[Mm-hm.]954.7351
894DCB_se3_ag3_f_02955.0087Really nice neighborhood at the time. I would say right now it's- mm,957.6721
896 957.8723it's teetering.958.4328 
898 958.9400Still close to the line,959.9243 
900 960.2513but960.5272 
902 960.8852very nice area.961.9929 
904 962.4834Brand new house built from the ground up, so it was a really big deal for us. Up until that point we've always lived-966.8485 
906 967.3723you know we went from PJs to969.1754 
908 969.5119renting homes970.5796 
910 970.9900to now owning971.8180 
912 972.2179a home. But it took-972.9419 
914 973.4024by this time I am sixteen.975.0464 
916 976.0224So sixteen years.976.7465 
918 976.9233/So that's why [I say/] about fifteen. <laugh> So,978.5787 
919DCB_int_01977.2636[Mm.]977.4505
920DCB_se3_ag3_f_02979.0921um,979.6259
922 980.1264<ts>980.1965 
924 980.8371we go- I go to /RD-SCHOOL-3/ at this time.982.5496 
926 982.9800/RD-SCHOOL-3/ was not my school.984.0177 
928 984.7017Um,985.2289 
930 985.5992Suitland986.2032 
932 986.4300was the school.987.0006 
934 987.5053My mom was like, you're not988.7064 
936 989.2503going, I need you-990.0707 
938 990.3580At this time /RD-SCHOOL-3/ is in Clinton,991.8995 
940 992.4567Maryland. And Clinton, Maryland at that time was like,994.4762 
942 994.6530very suburban.995.6473 
944 996.0144It was basically997.2047 
946 997.7360Waldorf, you know, it was really really suburban.999.7280 
948 1000.4662Super green, super, um, vanilla, you know,1003.3982 
950 1003.7294really nice.1004.3133 
952 1004.8471And that's where she wanted me.1006.1058 
954 1006.2994<ts>1006.3761 
956 1006.6530The education was there.1007.8810 
958 1009.1488Academically I fit the education. So this was another example of how they don't care. We go there,1013.6573 
960 1014.3280the principal- Um, we go there the day school starts.1017.0648 
962 1017.2750My mom goes to register me,1018.4628 
964 1019.0134the principal is- looks at my record and he sees the grades and he's like, oh you'll be great.1022.8371 
966 1022.9814I had a four point O, four point five1024.4395 
968 1024.6530really good grades the whole time.1025.8308 
970 1026.5949And so,1026.9686 
972 1027.3457on paper I'm like,1028.3666 
974 1028.7470give her a scholarship, you know, (laughing) like, give her whatever.1030.8666 
976 1031.4171And he was just so excited and1033.0687 
978 1033.2689he didn't even pay attention to the fact that I wasn't zoned1035.2350 
980 1035.6888for that school.1036.2226 
982 1036.6797I was zoned for Suitland.1037.7508 
984 1038.2746<ts> So,1038.8919 
986 1039.0854when she finally said, okay well-1040.4100 
988 1041.1049well, she's supposed to be in Suitland,1042.4228 
990 1042.8232but we- I really want her to come here,1044.1178 
992 1044.4248oh I'll make it happen.1045.4858 
994 1045.9829Well he looked over /???/ I think the form is called1048.3995 
996 1048.7631PS seventy-fours,1049.8575 
998 1050.3647I think, I can't remember. It's like your file when you bad or whatever so. (laughing)1053.4911 
1000 1054.0224<laugh> He opens the file,1055.6211 
1002 1056.0144and there's like a stack.1057.0354 
1004 1057.3123He's like-1057.6626 
1006 1058.0964uh, his whole mentality changed.1060.0591 
1008 1060.5930He- th- the- this stack- this really doesn't match this name or this person, like it's just-1065.0006 
1010 1065.6721How do you have time to get in this much trouble (laughing) like, when do you do your work? (laughing)1069.2355 
1012 1069.9429In suspension, so (laughing)1070.7670 
1014 1071.1140you (laughing) do your work, so.1072.3027 
1016 1072.8833Um,1073.3737 
1018 1073.6340at that point he didn't want me to come there and my mom was like, oh she's coming here. So she walked right over to1078.4962 
1020 1078.9200school board,1079.6874 
1022 1079.8642um, which is- I think is Upper Marlboro or whatever.1081.7202 
1024 1082.0697And, um,1082.7871 
1026 1082.9606she totally-1083.5845 
1028 1083.9891I do not- like, sh- I don't know what she said to the lady but I got approved1086.5616 
1030 1086.9052to go there.1087.3390 
1032 1088.3533I don't know what she said, [but.]1089.3276 
1033DCB_int_011089.0014[<laugh>]1089.6187
1034DCB_se3_ag3_f_021089.7622And I came and the next day and the principal- It's nothing the principal can do.1091.8776
1036 1092.5182He just like-1093.0153 
1038 1093.7961But1094.1264 
1040 1094.8137I made a promise,1095.6751 
1042 1096.1325I wouldn't get in any more trouble,1097.3137 
1044 1097.7975I would just ignore p- I just had a bad temper, at the time.1100.1097 
1046 1100.5869Um,1101.0540 
1048 1101.5420words.1102.1492 
1050 1102.3661You didn't have to [touch me], just words.1103.7408 
1051DCB_int_011102.8699[Mm-hm.]1103.2166
1052DCB_se3_ag3_f_021104.3680Really cause /?/1105.0520
1054 1105.2389growing up-1105.7160 
1056 1105.9763when you grew up it's like survival when you come into [the]1107.9390 
1057DCB_int_011107.8589[Mm.]1108.1459
1058DCB_se3_ag3_f_021108.3412Maryland side it's like, we don't talk. Like, (laughing)1110.1712
1060 1110.4314you know, stuff like that, so.1111.5625 
1062 1112.0363Um,1112.4467 
1064 1113.2784I did really good1114.3227 
1066 1114.7498my eleventh grade year,1115.8609 
1068 1116.4014um, up until1117.4724 
1070 1117.9729the end of the year.1118.9005 
1072 1119.6220Um, <laugh>1120.3961 
1074 1120.6630there was a gentleman1121.5406 
1076 1122.0477and I was really good friends with his brother in ROTC cause I was in ROTC,1125.2408 
1078 1125.5399Air Force ROTC. And, um,1127.5119 
1080 1127.7362<ts>1127.7896 
1082 1128.4369he- I guess he liked me, I didn't like him.1130.4956 
1084 1130.8359<laugh> And [he would,]1131.8202 
1085DCB_int_011131.4532[Mm.]1131.8451
1086DCB_se3_ag3_f_021132.5943uh, kind of taunt me every day.1134.3527
1088 1134.8039And one particular day it was day before, uh, senior prom cause he was a senior.1137.8002 
1090 1138.2506I was a junior.1138.9380 
1092 1139.2850And he's sitting on his own car.1140.8106 
1094 1141.0927And at this time I have a car now so I'm like, really moving up. <laugh>1143.7628 
1096 1144.2732And, um, he says,1145.1274 
1098 1145.8348can you give me a ride? All I said was no,1147.5364 
1100 1147.7775and I just kept walking to my car.1149.0454 
1102 1149.5359And then he proceeded to call me1150.9806 
1104 1151.2275a very derogatory name,1152.6122 
1106 1153.1460right?1153.4330 
1108 1153.9810And I ignored him, and got in my car like, talking to myself like a crazy person.1157.8381 
1110 1158.1884Like,1158.3845 
1112 1158.5955just go to your car,1159.4864 
1114 1159.7675you did good all year. <laugh>1160.7317 
1116 1160.9453Really coaching myself.1161.9529 
1118 1162.5001I go to my car, I sit in my car and I'm just coaching myself.1164.9125 
1120 1165.3729And I look up,1165.9235 
1122 1166.7885he's standing in front of my car now.1168.0630 
1124 1168.4534So I ran him over1169.0774 
1126 1169.6646with the car.1170.0739 
1128 1170.4687And, um- <laugh>1171.3629 
1130 1171.4830twice.1171.8576 
1132 1172.6383And that was the only time. (laughing)1174.5402 
1134 1174.9272But luckily I was also assistant to our security team,1177.4430 
1136 1177.7767and this guy really likes me cause he was like, you have so much potential.1180.4935 
1138 1181.0373And he was like, I don't have nothing on camera.1182.7957 
1140 1183.1727I don't see no- so- (laughing)1184.6083 
1142 1185.3290But his mom was extremely livid, she wanted to press charges and everything.1188.2919 
1144 1188.7957But she, um, <ts>1190.2171 
1146 1190.5382real- when she saw- when she found out the whole story,1192.3099 
1148 1192.7170is when she really turned on her son, because she said it was really no reason for you to taunt this young lady.1197.0687 
1150 1197.5092You have your own vehicle, this would have never happened1199.9048 
1152 1200.1751had you not really instigated this.1201.6899 
1154 1202.0277It didn't really excuse me running over his legs and breaking them, it's just that1204.7804 
1156 1206.0083she said, your legs wouldn't be broken right now if you hadn't1208.5741 
1158 1209.0287taunted this young lady, so.1210.0597 
1160 1210.5702Um,1211.0340 
1162 1211.4677twelfth grade was smooth.1212.5571 
1164 1213.2703Very smooth, twelfth grade.1214.5549 
1166 1215.1288So twelfth grade was my most smooth year1216.8738 
1168 1217.3531and, um,1218.2941 
1170 1218.5043<ts> I think my most mature.1219.6253 
1172 1220.2626So,1220.6630 
1174 1221.0768I'm nothing like that obviously.1222.4055 
1176 1222.7125You- you couldn't be1223.5567 
1178 1223.8002where I am today.1224.5943 
1180 1225.4885Yeah.1225.7488 
1182 1225.9056/It was/ funny stories. <laugh>1227.6340 
1183DCB_int_011227.5939How did you- okay so how'd you end up-1229.6167
1184 1229.8269um,1230.4909
1186 1231.2116so how- so, how'd you1232.7631 
1188 1232.9199transition from co- like,1234.4981 
1190 1234.7926from s-1235.1006 
1192 1235.4466from high school to [college]1237.2250 
1193DCB_se3_ag3_f_021237.1249[Uh-huh.]1237.3902
1194DCB_int_011237.4085to military?1238.2018
1195DCB_se3_ag3_f_021238.4828Well, I had decided, um,1240.3480
1197 1240.6858<ts>1240.7392 
1199 1240.8793and I was always taught from my parents,1242.2407 
1201 1242.7278you want change, you gotta change,1243.7555 
1203 1243.9423period.1244.3060 
1205 1244.7731You in control of everything,1246.2479 
1207 1246.7384uh, in your life,1247.7435 
1209 1248.1673everything, whatever.1249.0081 
1211 1249.4785You- you know, you- you wanna be a millionaire, you go hang around millionaires.1251.9710 
1213 1252.4281You know, you-1252.8985 
1215 1253.2722five dummies in the room, you the sixth dummy.1254.8412 
1217 1254.9914So, you gotta hang around what you wanna be.1256.9733 
1219 1257.4872And that's what I decided to do. I was like, you know what, I don't wanna be running people over1261.0481 
1221 1261.3851all the time they say something to me.1262.9433 
1223 1263.4671I don't wanna be pushing nobody on train tracks, you know, I don't wanna be doing stuff like that (laughing) so.1266.7378 
1225 1267.2216I started to1267.9757 
1227 1268.2927go- literally get up,1269.6340 
1229 1270.2245as a teenager,1271.1254 
1231 1271.6868like seventeen at this time, in twelfth grade,1273.7221 
1233 1274.3761drive to these super rich areas,1276.4448 
1235 1276.8526and just go hang with those people.1278.0939 
1237 1278.7478And that's when I learned the power of networking.1280.3015 
1239 1281.5172So,1281.8842 
1241 1282.4147I was like, you know what?1282.9386 
1243 1283.4199I remember being a little kid,1285.0172 
1245 1285.2783networking. Didn't know what I was doing, I was just playing.1287.1702 
1247 1287.8275But I'm networking and I'm getting with the types of people that I wanna be around.1291.6387 
1249 1292.0991And1292.5930 
1251 1293.2402these people are talking about education,1294.6149 
1253 1295.2263higher education, entrepreneurship,1297.3251 
1255 1297.6754inventions.1298.7064 
1257 1299.4304Things that you just1300.3980 
1259 1300.6458sit at home,1301.1930 
1261 1301.5066you know, to where you go work for a place it's because you just want to now cause you have to. I'm here because I want to be. I don't have to be here, I make more money in my own business.1308.8079 
1263 1309.6587I like HR,1310.6530 
1265 1311.0834period, I love it. I can't- I just can't step away from it.1313.6760 
1267 1314.2874Um,1314.6978 
1269 1314.9747and that- they taught me that.1316.2493 
1271 1316.7231Um,1317.0134 
1273 1317.4705I went to the military because I had my daughter young.1320.0038 
1275 1320.2273My oldest daughter, she's twenty.1321.3417 
1277 1321.9093I had her- her young.1322.6563 
1279 1323.5639But I said I'm not gonna let that1324.4748 
1281 1324.8260get in my way.1325.4599 
1283 1326.0572So,1326.5476 
1285 1326.9714I went to the military so that I- cause I didn't wanna depend on my parents.1329.5272 
1287 1329.8008I didn't wanna be one of those, um, people1331.4032 
1289 1331.9504that, oh well I'm gonna1333.0481 
1291 1333.4018live at home and1334.4195 
1293 1335.0667pretty much now have my parents raise me and my daughter. And1337.3690 
1295 1337.7368so I said no,1338.3541 
1297 1338.5568<ts>1338.6775 
1299 1339.2045I'm gonna go to the military,1340.5029 
1301 1340.9033start a career1341.7074 
1303 1342.1411where I can take care1343.1563 
1305 1343.3571of my daughter, everything, and get my education.1345.9557 
1307 1346.4562And that's what I did.1347.2136 
1309 1348.2779So, it was the best decision ever.1349.9971 
1310DCB_int_011351.1115And so when you moved- when you went to the military you got to travel a lot,1354.4681
1311DCB_se3_ag3_f_021354.5715[Mm-hm.]1354.8552
1312DCB_int_011354.6483[clearly.]1355.1676
1313 1355.6301Um, were y- so you were separated from your daughter.1357.9557
1314DCB_se3_ag3_f_021358.3594<ts> Yeah, only for like, um,1360.0978
1316 1360.6525about eight months.1361.6000 
1317DCB_int_011361.7802Oh, [okay.]1362.2255
1318DCB_se3_ag3_f_021362.0672[She was] with my mom.1362.7545
1319 1363.3050When I went through, uh, my mom and my dad1364.7831
1321 1365.0601when I went through basic training1366.6016 
1323 1367.1196and tech school and then whatever school after that.1369.2316 
1325 1369.7688Then I got stationed in Dover,1370.7998 
1327 1371.2903which was-1371.7641 
1329 1372.1478which is specifically one of the reasons why I picked mortuary.1374.6844 
1331 1375.0348Mortuary was my original field.1376.5896 
1333 1377.3470Uh, [yeah.]1377.9710 
1334DCB_int_011377.7708[Wow.] (whispered)1378.3268
1335DCB_se3_ag3_f_021378.5824Well /?/ you can't make a mistake, it's quiet.1380.3308
1337 1380.7712So, I picked mortuary1382.1492 
1339 1382.7364and-1383.1068 
1340DCB_int_011383.1702And people- you know, you will never go out of business cause people always die.1386.1039
1341DCB_se3_ag3_f_021386.0438They always die.1386.7645
1342 1387.6620Mortuary and1388.7264
1344 1389.1468being a- uh,1389.9943 
1346 1390.2546a GYN,1390.8760 
1348 1391.0095OB.1391.3843 
1349DCB_int_011391.4365Yup [cause people] always will have babies.1393.2316
1350DCB_se3_ag3_f_021391.7268[/Always-/]1392.0905
1351 1393.2516Yup.1393.5103
1353 1394.3260So, um,1395.3537 
1355 1395.7541also went into mortuary. I went in because it's quiet,1397.8736 
1357 1398.4509not cause I didn't wanna talk to anybody, but I wanted to study.1400.6772 
1359 1400.8766Cause I was like, I'm not gonna be here forever.1402.3413 
1361 1402.8885I'm'a get my degree, (laughing)1403.6734 
1363 1403.9237you know, that was my1404.6511 
1365 1404.7512plan.1405.2250 
1367 1405.7788Um,1406.2560 
1369 1406.4061and it was just to do mortuary. HR was never-1408.7083 
1371 1409.1855I had no- HR was not even1410.7678 
1373 1411.2884in my, um, path1412.5543 
1375 1412.8599at all.1413.2652 
1377 1413.7708Um, I didn't quite no what my path was gonna be other than that I'm'a just get my education and see where it takes me.1418.4428 
1379 1418.9733It just so happened that, um- And I was a true mor- like mortuary /?/. I was doing f- like forensics, working with the FBI and stuff like that,1425.0134 
1381 1425.4838um, as they come through Dover. Cause that's the main mortuary for the entire military.1428.6144 
1383 1429.4785Not just the Air Force, all the branches.1430.9900 
1385 1431.5472Um,1432.0677 
1387 1432.6958one of /our/ ladies went out1433.9237 
1389 1434.1472on maternity leave.1435.3072 
1391 1435.6487And they're like,1436.0357 
1393 1436.6530/RD-NAME-2/ we need you to come,1437.9676 
1395 1438.2946you're really good talking with the people.1439.6501 
1397 1440.0038And I was like, I don't wanna talk to these people.1441.1182 
1399 1441.4051[And they was like-]1441.9491 
1400DCB_int_011441.6153[That's why I'm in] the mortuary.1442.5727
1401DCB_se3_ag3_f_021442.9299Right, I was like, whatchu mean? I'm cool talking to you.1445.1288
1403 1445.4666So they're like, no I want you to talk to the people.1446.9614 
1405 1447.3150And- but I didn't know how to take it because they said, well,1449.5138 
1407 1449.8175you're really good talking to people because you don't have any emotions.1452.3627 
1409 1452.8980I was like,1453.2650 
1411 1453.6354what are you trying to say? He was like, you don't care. I was like, I do care. (laughing)1455.8075 
1413 1456.2279They needed somebody who can talk to-1458.1439 
1415 1458.8780Because1459.1949 
1417 1459.3159when you're in the HR side of mortuary you know everything,1461.8208 
1419 1462.3413right?1462.6550 
1421 1463.1596On my side of the house you're just a number.1464.7445 
1423 1465.7822I don't know your name,1466.6664 
1425 1467.1702I don't wanna know your name.1468.0243 
1427 1468.3622I don't know where you came from, I don't know if you have kids, I don't know if you're pregnant now.1471.6587 
1429 1472.0524I don't know anything. And we kind of like it that way cause it keeps you detached.1474.7884 
1431 1475.8837Well on the HR side you know everything.1477.4685 
1433 1478.1725So you knew- you know1479.1301 
1435 1479.6006that they just joined or1480.9052 
1437 1481.2030they might've died in a car accident. You know, it's not always war.1483.2850 
1439 1483.6120It's whatever.1484.2540 
1441 1484.4995/And/ they just have that benefit cause they're military,1486.2679 
1443 1486.9995or they're military dependent.1488.2440 
1445 1488.5443<ts>1488.6177 
1447 1488.8412So,1489.2850 
1449 1489.8489they're like, we need someone who can1491.3370 
1451 1491.6273talk to the families1492.6349 
1453 1493.0120and just be1493.6434 
1455 1494.2573mundane.1494.8227 
1457 1495.4585Just be1495.9590 
1459 1496.1325morbid. And just be like,1497.2085 
1461 1497.5172<ts>1497.5939 
1463 1497.8075this is what happened,1498.5682 
1465 1499.1663blah blah blah.1499.7101 
1467 1500.0104And while the families are falling all on the floor you're just like,1502.0491 
1469 1503.2936<ts>1503.3904 
1471 1503.7841I'm gonna leave these papers here for you, (laughing) you know.1505.3398 
1473 1505.7335You have to kind of keep it1506.7378 
1475 1507.2617separate.1507.6120 
1477 1508.1058Um, I said1508.5763 
1479 1509.0701okay.1509.5506 
1481 1509.8075I said, this the HR side? Hm.1511.0654 
1483 1511.5633But-1511.7635 
1485 1512.1339so I came to HR through that door,1513.8289 
1487 1514.4195but that's the military mortuary side of it.1516.4881 
1489 1517.0161Um,1517.4532 
1491 1517.5967but then I kind of liked it and I learned1519.5419 
1493 1520.0491the vast1520.8232 
1495 1521.0667world1521.6640 
1497 1522.4181of HR. It's so broad, um,1524.3808 
1499 1525.1649it's ever changing.1526.3961 
1501 1527.0768It's never the same, mortuary's always the same.1529.3056 
1503 1530.1005Like /we-/ this-1530.7478 
1505 1531.5653people die, you try to fix 'em, you can't fix 'em.1533.5939 
1507 1534.3280Casket, no casket, it's-1535.4733 
1509 1536.0238it's always the same.1536.8279 
1511 1537.5286Um, HR is so1539.0100 
1513 1539.3570vast, you meet so many people.1541.0620 
1515 1541.6201So many personalities,1543.3184 
1517 1543.7688um, so many characters1545.1821 
1519 1545.7608all over the world.1546.5790 
1521 1547.1796Um,1547.7035 
1523 1547.9270the universal laws1549.0715 
1525 1549.3784are the same,1550.2526 
1527 1550.6230and then you have these little break out laws. And so,1552.2646 
1529 1552.5816it was just so fascinating and intriguing and /then/ so I decided to1555.5553 
1531 1555.8589run from there.1556.4628 
1532DCB_int_011556.8899What's your craziest HR story1558.7019
1534 1559.2263that you [can share?]1560.1344 
1535DCB_se3_ag3_f_021559.4966[Oh,]1559.8837
1536 1560.6144well without giving out obviously any names,1562.3594
1537DCB_int_011562.3027Right.1562.5533
1538DCB_se3_ag3_f_021562.9867or the company. Um, <laugh>1564.5882
1540 1564.9986one company I work with, um, the craziest stories,1567.9990 
1542 1568.4695um, that were just so- Considering it was a Fortune five hundred company.1570.8785 
1544 1571.1496This is the only company I work with that's1572.5777 
1546 1573.3618this small,1573.9990 
1548 1574.3661which1574.6230 
1550 1574.9299I'm inviting, I'm actually ready for that (laughing)1576.8084 
1552 1576.9928cause everyone has been1578.0405 
1554 1578.5343forty-five hundred or more,1579.6303 
1556 1580.1525so.1580.5996 
1557DCB_int_011580.6497Okay, well we're not that. [We won't-] we won't be that, so you're good.1583.7057
1558DCB_se3_ag3_f_021581.7874[No.]1582.0978
1559 1583.7202This [particular] company is like a hundred thousand or so.1586.0424
1560DCB_int_011583.9571[You're good.]1584.2240
1561DCB_se3_ag3_f_021586.5896And1587.2035
1563 1588.1878all of the district managers just wanna sleep with all the cashiers.1590.9974 
1565 1592.2293And I'm like, <sigh>1593.5539 
1567 1594.0410So I- I spend most of my time doing1595.7502 
1569 1595.8937investigations.1596.8012 
1571 1597.4151All the time, (laughing) constantly doing investigations.1600.1244 
1573 1600.6783And the funniest stories are like the district managers1603.7570 
1575 1604.2593treating1605.0701 
1577 1605.3704some of the cashier women1606.9219 
1579 1607.5533like their personal1609.0481 
1581 1609.5987<ts>1609.6821 
1583 1611.1668escorts,1611.8809 
1585 1612.2713but in a respectable way.1613.7001 
1587 1614.4542Um, I mean, buying them things, flowers and ugh, it's just so-1618.2446 
1589 1618.7117And I would just be sitting and-1619.8503 
1591 1620.0939and keep in mind,1620.9080 
1593 1621.1816you're- as a HR professional,1622.8699 
1595 1623.3170you work closely with your district managers, they're your- they're your business partners. Like, /RD-NAME-3/ would be a business partner to me.1628.1125 
1597 1628.6563Um,1629.0667 
1599 1629.4104so it gets weird to them1631.0228 
1601 1631.3565when it comes1632.2373 
1603 1632.7345to investigation cause though we're business partners and we're,1635.2503 
1605 1635.5772um, professional friends,1637.2522 
1607 1637.6968<ts>1637.7669 
1609 1638.4309I know how to turn it off.1639.4842 
1611 1639.7555That's where mortuary comes back in, (laughing) I turn it [off when it comes] to the investigation side.1642.9653 
1612DCB_int_011641.3670[Mm.]1641.8575
1613DCB_se3_ag3_f_021643.6401And they feel embarrassed because they're like,1645.2850
1615 1645.4318god, like this-1646.2350 
1617 1646.6597It's embarrassing1647.4204 
1619 1647.6907when they know that you know1648.8585 
1621 1649.3665what they've been doing. Um,1650.7812 
1623 1651.0281<ts>1651.0948 
1625 1651.2383those stories are always the funniest because they-1653.3036 
1627 1653.6306that's when I learned that people can be very creative1655.7005 
1629 1656.0905with their stories (laughing) when they come up with things.1657.8656 
1631 1658.2026Even when you say,1659.0334 
1633 1659.7207it's on video.1660.7384 
1635 1661.1997Oh,1661.5333 
1637 1662.0638that's not me. I'm like, like Shaggy?1663.6988 
1639 1664.1459That's not you?1664.5396 
1640DCB_int_011665.1869<laugh>1665.3403
1641DCB_se3_ag3_f_021665.3165<laugh> They like-1665.8008
1642DCB_int_011665.7908<laugh>1665.9209
1643DCB_se3_ag3_f_021666.2312I'm like, okay.1666.9352
1645 1667.1529And so I'm like, that's-1667.8002 
1647 1667.9370that's not you.1668.3908 
1649 1669.2884No that's not- that's your twin.1670.4108 
1651 1671.2870That's your twin?1671.8310 
1652DCB_int_011672.4990That you just had yesterday?1673.7852
1653DCB_se3_ag3_f_021673.8303Yeah, that's wearing your clothes?1675.2496
1655 1676.0257In our store? Putting in your code?1677.6673 
1657 1678.1011<laugh> So,1678.6451 
1659 1679.2289I mean, it- those- those pieces are1681.3818 
1661 1681.8022hilarious, and I still1682.8732 
1663 1683.3837get those stories today from the same company cause people are still there.1686.0605 
1665 1686.4375So yeah.1686.8122 
1666DCB_int_011687.4919Wow. (whispered)1687.8422
1668 1688.1926That's-1688.5188 
1670 1688.7931well, okay.1689.5639 
1672 1690.0610So how do you-1690.9219 
1674 1691.5633you-1691.7769 
1676 1692.0638So you still have your own business now?1693.4752 
1677DCB_se3_ag3_f_021693.4852Mm-hm.1693.8185
1678DCB_int_011694.0858So what's your business? If you don't mind me [asking.]1696.4297
1679DCB_se3_ag3_f_021696.1511[We-] oh yeah no problem, we do mostly, um, <ts>1698.3591
1680 1698.6778media1699.3484
1682 1699.8122sponsorships, lots of sponsorships, we get a lot of sponsorship requests.1702.8251 
1684 1703.1463Uh, but more consulting.1704.2307 
1686 1704.5343Um, because I kind of got burnt out1705.9023 
1688 1706.3360with actually soliciting1707.4838 
1690 1707.8275sponsorships.1708.5615 
1692 1709.0220Um, I just didn't wanna do it anymore.1710.3574 
1694 1710.6844So- but I got really good at it.1712.3427 
1696 1712.7364So I said I'm just gonna consult people on how1714.9185 
1698 1715.1730to do it.1715.5596 
1700 1715.8636How to put your package together, what that package should look like.1717.9990 
1702 1718.4562Things like that. Um,1719.4338 
1704 1719.5539and I done have fun doing that.1720.9853 
1706 1721.3765Um, lots of business consulting1723.4885 
1708 1723.7922on both the1724.5496 
1710 1724.9233corporate and entertainment side.1726.1545 
1711DCB_int_011727.2697You said we, so it's you-1728.9013
1712DCB_se3_ag3_f_021729.1949<ts> I have like, four staff members.1730.4895
1713DCB_int_011730.5829Oh wow.1731.3603
1714DCB_se3_ag3_f_021731.4638Yeah.1731.7505
1715DCB_int_011732.2245That's amazing.1732.8785
1717 1733.1997And so I remember the other day we were talking just kind of in passing. You said [that one] of the things that you had to leave DC.1738.7851 
1718DCB_se3_ag3_f_021736.3460[Mm-hm.]1736.6830
1719DCB_int_011739.6734And it took- no, when you came back it took you a long time to appreciate it.1742.7164
1720DCB_se3_ag3_f_021742.9700[Oh yeah.]1743.5906
1721DCB_int_011742.9733[Tell me about] that.1743.8453
1722DCB_se3_ag3_f_021743.8308Oh my god.1744.3080
1723 1744.8385Um,1745.4391
1725 1745.8303<ts>1745.9137 
1727 1746.0638I left, um, traveling with the military.1748.2927 
1729 1748.8932And when I came back,1750.3613 
1731 1750.9160um, like in O six I think it was,1753.0348 
1733 1754.1459I- I- <sigh> I mean, I just was like-1756.4815 
1735 1757.2797When you've been all over the world and you've been to these places where mentality is just so different,1761.7841 
1737 1762.3113um, the mentality is more positive, people are more1764.8713 
1739 1765.2850willing to help you be better,1767.6807 
1741 1768.3346and people are willing to just be better,1769.7469 
1743 1770.1205period.1770.6611 
1745 1771.5853And you come back1772.7631 
1747 1773.3103here1773.8609 
1749 1774.9661and people are just angry,1776.4409 
1751 1777.0081um,1777.6020 
1753 1777.7588it's a crab world, everybody's pulling each other down,1780.4815 
1755 1781.2464um,1781.9604 
1757 1782.3007just a bunch of negativity basically.1784.0558 
1759 1784.6397But,1784.9767 
1761 1785.5105<ts>1785.5973 
1763 1785.9242I s- I also digress and say that's what I see,1789.1616 
1765 1789.6587because of where I came from,1790.9400 
1767 1791.6173from so long being away1793.1054 
1769 1793.6468that1793.9470 
1771 1794.4509when I compared it,1795.3851 
1773 1796.1425that's what I see is the negative stuff.1797.8275 
1775 1798.4055Um,1798.9294 
1777 1800.1039and I hated it.1800.7545 
1779 1801.3317I was like,1801.7955 
1781 1802.0224I am moving, I can't be here,1803.9610 
1783 1804.4381this is- I'm going to commit a crime,1806.8446 
1785 1807.1749and I don't wanna commit a crime (laughing) cause I don't want my kids in these schools.1810.2012 
1787 1810.5449I'm'a beat a teacher up.1811.4899 
1789 1811.8169I can't do it. (laughing)1812.6778 
1791 1812.8379So,1813.3166 
1793 1813.8222um,1814.3661 
1795 1814.8165I end up-1815.2603 
1797 1815.6506when I first came back I was1816.7884 
1799 1817.0228right over the DC line, in Suitland, Forestville [type area.]1820.3994 
1800DCB_int_011819.7237[Mm-hm.]1820.0792
1801DCB_se3_ag3_f_021821.1201And1821.6940
1803 1821.9276not even six months1822.8752 
1805 1823.0228and I- I moved.1823.9103 
1807 1824.3441And, um, it was like- it was-1825.1782 
1809 1825.3084it- the rent was good, it was all, you know, utilities included.1827.7897 
1811 1828.2064Um, and it was- it was really good for me to just be there for a little bit before I purchased.1831.4470 
1813 1832.1410I couldn't even last six months.1833.3822 
1815 1833.8060And, um,1834.3231 
1817 1834.4833I moved to Waldorf1835.2880 
1819 1835.9322where it was-1836.7497 
1821 1837.2935traffic was horrible,1838.6181 
1823 1839.4690the rent was way more, at least double1841.4309 
1825 1841.7812what I was paying.1842.5795 
1827 1843.2902But1843.7239 
1829 1844.3479<ts> at that time I had my two daughters1845.6992 
1831 1846.3665and1847.0205 
1833 1847.7145<ts> it was worth it.1848.3985 
1835 1849.2401I was like, you can't really put a price tag or a convenience1851.8126 
1837 1851.9861marker1852.4566 
1839 1852.8803on safety1853.7777 
1840DCB_int_011854.1958[Mm-hm.]1854.7771
1841DCB_se3_ag3_f_021854.3059[and education,]1855.6172
1842 1856.2111things of that nature. You know, I don't have to worry about being a teacher up here.1858.7602
1844 1859.0972Things like that.1859.7679 
1846 1860.3760You know, I don't have to worry about1861.6505 
1848 1862.0576a lot of safety things. You know, you- you can't just be like you on the prairie and just be free for all.1866.1049 
1850 1866.5361But1866.7530 
1852 1867.1334you just don't have those.1868.0910 
1854 1868.4880Whereas I can go to work,1869.3889 
1856 1869.8460and not be so1871.2674 
1858 1871.7445like, oh my god,1872.4594 
1860 1872.8965what's going on? And is- is somebody breaking in my h- You know, I don't have to do all of those things.1876.2030 
1862 1876.6468Um,1877.0438 
1864 1877.9255<ts>1878.0023 
1866 1878.1724it probably was moving to that area1880.2211 
1868 1880.5047that kind of1881.0919 
1870 1882.5901allowed me to process being back home,1884.9165 
1872 1885.5104<ts>1885.6005 
1874 1885.6973um,1886.1844 
1876 1886.8317without all the distractions. And allowed me to process why some of the people1890.6654 
1878 1891.3069in this area are the way they are1893.0119 
1880 1893.4857and why they're starting- some of them were becoming a product1895.9280 
1882 1896.1791of their environment.1897.0766 
1884 1898.1010It's not necessarily their fault,1899.3288 
1886 1899.9795a lot of times it's the /upbreaking-/1901.3341 
1888 1901.5844the upbringing1902.3893 
1890 1902.9532and the1903.7039 
1892 1904.2111disallowance1905.1887 
1894 1905.5824of the ability to imagine.1906.9638 
1896 1907.5010You know,1907.8980 
1898 1909.0500in the1909.7506 
1900 1910.2611urban areas that are just more of a struggle to be in,1912.4666 
1902 1913.5885parents are constantly telling1915.0266 
1904 1915.4003their children,1916.1010 
1906 1916.8083stop daydreaming,1917.7303 
1908 1918.0796stop-1918.3999 
1910 1919.0171you know, stop being- stop playing like it's a fairytale, when it really should be the opposite. You should1923.1153 
1912 1924.1596tell your children to daydream all the time.1925.8980 
1914 1926.3993Tell 'em to pretend1927.4770 
1916 1927.9475all the time, cause eventually it's gonna be.1929.7125 
1918 1930.0862The problem is,1930.8503 
1920 1931.6144we want to force them into another1934.1010 
1922 1934.3913mindset and so then they grow up as adults,1936.1100 
1924 1936.6468and it's even worse.1937.5477 
1926 1937.8421And I- it took me some while to not only1939.7239 
1928 1940.0076recognize but appreciate it.1941.2454 
1930 1941.8460And that's what started to slowly1943.3475 
1932 1943.7879but surely1944.3751 
1934 1944.9599change my mindset1946.1410 
1936 1946.4780up until about two years ago.1947.3956 
1938 1947.7426So,1948.0896 
1940 1948.4191/?/ in Forestville was eight years.1949.6845 
1942 1950.1324I was just like,1950.6763 
1944 1951.4036I'm not staying here.1952.0943 
1946 1952.4647It wasn't until I- I felt trapped1954.2698 
1948 1954.4099cause my1954.9004 
1950 1955.2807oldest daughter was in high school and1956.9932 
1951DCB_int_011956.9899Mm.1957.2735
1952DCB_se3_ag3_f_021957.5071<ts>1957.5805
1954 1957.6706doing well. And,1958.6081 
1956 1959.2121you know, I was like, <sigh> I can't rip her from high school. (laughing)1961.3908 
1958 1961.8146So I said, well when she gets out I'm going, but then I got one four years behind her, so I'm like, dang.1966.0035 
1960 1966.3498Okay, when she get done.1967.2440 
1962 1967.6144And then I have1968.1316 
1964 1968.6629my son, so.1969.6439 
1966 1970.4580It's- it- it was a done deal that I'm not1972.5700 
1968 1973.2474going. And I have one on the way.1974.2083 
1970 1974.4093So I'm not going [anywhere.]1975.4503 
1971DCB_int_011975.3336[Oh congratulations.]1977.6992
1972DCB_se3_ag3_f_021975.8874[Yeah.]1976.2968
1974 1976.5381[Thank you.]1977.0661 
1976 1977.6592Thank you.1978.1552 
1977DCB_int_011978.7169Aw, happy [mommy.]1980.2298
1978DCB_se3_ag3_f_021979.3742[/So-/]1979.7655
1980 1979.9514[Thank] you.1980.5687 
1981 1981.0433So I'm like, I'm-1981.6806
1983 1982.2711we not going anywhere,1983.2888 
1985 1983.6191so. And I met my love, and so1985.3074 
1987 1985.7345yeah.1985.9839 
1989 1986.4218But even before all that, which I'm glad that even before all that1989.0552 
1991 1989.4356I had already1990.3732 
1993 1991.1773become comfortable1992.1558 
1995 1992.3893in a- in a positive light1993.8040 
1997 1994.3712of being back home.1995.1086 
1999 1995.8493Because1996.4132 
2001 1996.9204you really can't-1997.8804 
2003 1999.1300I don't recommend people2000.3846 
2005 2000.7750getting into something if they're not2001.9361 
2007 2002.1463sound within themselves first.2003.8246 
2008DCB_int_012003.8780Mm.2004.2450
2009DCB_se3_ag3_f_022004.4260So,2004.7830
2011 2005.5504that worked out2006.2704 
2013 2006.8183really well, but it took me about a good eight years2008.4970 
2015 2009.1506before I was like,2009.9447 
2017 2010.6963this is home and- and there's so much2012.9940 
2019 2013.4957substance here. And2014.7435 
2021 2015.3975<ts>2015.4776 
2023 2015.5810I can't allow other people's disposition to determine what a- you know, how I'm feeling about where I'm from2020.2431 
2025 2020.9171and where I'm at.2021.5110 
2027 2021.7779Cause there's so- that's a small group2023.3636 
2029 2023.6706when you look at the masses.2024.6715 
2031 2025.2154There's so m- many opportunities2027.2515 
2033 2027.7812right here.2028.1449 
2035 2028.5928/Have/ remind myself people travel the world2030.3078 
2037 2030.4180to come here.2031.1120 
2039 2032.3331People travel the world, they can tell me more about my city than I can, because all I can tell them about is the bricks.2036.3813 
2041 2037.1120I can't tell them about2038.1363 
2043 2038.3799the museums and the- the other exhibits and things when I should be able to,2042.2578 
2045 2042.7616you know.2043.1253 
2047 2043.9394You know, my family in DR they're like, oh you- you go visit la casa blanca? No.2046.9365 
2049 2047.6038What do you mean?2048.1577 
2051 2048.5314They're like- (laughing)2048.9407 
2053 2049.3455I'm like, w-2049.8293 
2055 2050.1763what makes you think- But I should.2051.3842 
2057 2051.9122You know, so2052.4360 
2059 2052.8798all of these luxuries I have right here. People have spent big money to come way over here for it.2056.9871 
2061 2058.0823So.2058.3660 
2062DCB_int_012058.9031So you're never a tourist in your own backyard?2060.6215
2064 2061.0586Or you haven't been?2061.6859 
2065DCB_se3_ag3_f_022062.0963<sigh> Only because of work.2063.8256
2067 2064.2992<laugh> Not because-2065.2468 
2069 2065.7940And I need to,2066.5848 
2071 2066.8217which I should, because2067.8660 
2073 2068.5634<ts> my, um,2069.4876 
2075 2069.7212fiance is from Washington state.2071.2368 
2076DCB_int_012071.7506Mm.2071.9975
2077DCB_se3_ag3_f_022072.0543Small, small, teeny town called Steptoe,2074.7302
2079 2075.3942Washington.2076.0014 
2081 2076.4294And he is super white2077.7340 
2083 2078.3045and we super opposite which is so funny.2080.7502 
2085 2081.3241Um,2081.9714 
2087 2082.2492he teaches me so much because I'm like, what do you mean,2084.6415 
2089 2084.8651what is sun tea? I thought that was a brand, it's like, you actually put it in the sun and make tea, I didn't know.2088.7897 
2091 2089.2802So,2089.6205 
2093 2089.8307I'm like- he's like, how you make tea on the stove.2091.3655 
2095 2091.9161So,2092.2898 
2097 2092.5333his- um,2093.1473 
2099 2093.9714he will give me a good excuse2095.6238 
2101 2095.9542to really2096.6515 
2103 2097.1854go out2097.6658 
2105 2098.2331and tour and see things but <laugh> little will he know, I'm learning too.2102.0676 
2107 2102.8651And I'm from here.2103.5657 
2109 2104.2130But that's just- that's the luxuries that2106.0348 
2111 2106.8197we-2107.4337 
2113 2107.6372I think we take advantage of.2108.7483 
2115 2109.5691There's so much history here2110.7602 
2117 2111.3275in Maryland, Virginia, and DC.2113.3169 
2119 2113.8574So much2114.7816 
2121 2115.2454history back to the seventeen hundreds2117.4309 
2123 2117.7387that- um, and I love history,2119.2635 
2125 2120.0276that, uh, is right here in your- in our backyard, like2122.3765 
2127 2122.8236right here.2123.3141 
2129 2123.7954We got people that come from China to see this.2126.1477 
2131 2126.3479We know cause they won't get out the street.2127.9061 
2132DCB_int_012128.9504Sounds like you almost hit somebody, sounds like you almost hit somebody. (whispered)2131.6311
2133DCB_se3_ag3_f_022132.1444On purpose because you- why are you walking in the street (laughing)2134.5033
2135 2135.3642like this (laughing)2136.3585 
2137 2136.7797with a camera? What are you taking pictures of the clouds for? You got clouds in China?2139.6558 
2139 2140.1296Like what y'all doing? Just crazy. (laughing)2142.6220 
2141 2143.3369So, um, but it's- it's just-2144.7434 
2143 2145.5124it's a beautiful thing, so.2146.9371 
2145 2147.3141I appreciate home2148.2951 
2147 2148.8030now.2149.1537 
2149 2149.6973Now when I go places I appreciate those places and I come back and appreciate home.2153.1406 
2151 2153.8379Period.2154.2353 
2153 2155.0233So yeah.2155.4103 
2154DCB_int_012155.7707Are you still- <clears throat> so do you still live in- you live in Waldorf, now?2158.5520
2155DCB_se3_ag3_f_022158.6001Uh-huh.2158.9441
2157 2159.3475I won't leave.2160.1149 
2158DCB_int_012160.3726Does mommy still live here?2161.4537
2159DCB_se3_ag3_f_022161.7473Mm-hm.2162.0500
2160DCB_int_012162.0276In- in the District?2162.9551
2161DCB_se3_ag3_f_022162.9652She's in Fort Washington.2163.9861
2162DCB_int_012164.2364Okay.2164.6924
2163DCB_se3_ag3_f_022164.7602Uh-huh.2165.0539
2164DCB_int_012165.0171Oh,2165.2907
2165 2165.4476she's right- she- so right over the line.2167.2362
2166DCB_se3_ag3_f_022167.2869[Mm-hm.]2167.5871
2167DCB_int_012167.4937[So] y- whole [family-]2168.5177
2168DCB_se3_ag3_f_022168.0876[But she closer] to-2168.9451
2169 2169.0719to the Waldorf side because she's on two ten.2171.5543
2170DCB_int_012171.6119She's on two ten so she's down [some.]2173.0366
2171DCB_se3_ag3_f_022172.7296[Yeah], she's on- but she's on /RD-ADDRESS-5/ so she's closer to2176.0162
2172 2176.6067just keep it on two ten, two twenty-eight right there.2178.3184
2173DCB_int_012178.6629Gotcha.2179.0056
2174DCB_se3_ag3_f_022179.0600Yeah.2179.3703
2175DCB_int_012179.3236Gotcha.2179.6929
2176 2180.3512So let me ask you this, so this is just a random question cause you've done a lot of things, you've experienced a lot of things. Was there ever a time you felt like, oh my god this is it, I'm gonna die?2187.0285
2177DCB_se3_ag3_f_022187.4089Mm-mm.2187.6892
2178DCB_int_012188.3398You never felt that way? You never felt like you were in danger2190.6629
2180 2190.8531of you losing your life?2191.6572 
2181DCB_se3_ag3_f_022191.8474Mm-mm.2192.2244
2182DCB_int_012193.1186Hm.2193.4053
2183DCB_se3_ag3_f_022193.4590No.2193.8293
2184DCB_int_012194.9538Cause you like to fight.2195.7111
2185DCB_se3_ag3_f_022196.7663No, I don't even like to fight.2198.4446
2186DCB_int_012198.6081I mean, but you [will fight.]2199.6358
2187DCB_se3_ag3_f_022199.0652[I had to fight]2200.0279
2188 2200.8036growing up. But, um,2202.5561
2190 2202.8831I just don't-2203.3245 
2192 2203.6472no.2203.9579 
2194 2204.8317I never felt like that, not even being in the military, not even being2207.7445 
2196 2208.2992in, um, war zones.2210.1343 
2198 2210.8884I just didn't feel like it. It's like, you have a job to do and get it done, get out of here.2213.3775 
2200 2214.0448Like I didn't really feel like it.2215.1434 
2202 2215.7173I mean, I had friends that felt that way.2217.3689 
2204 2218.2097And, uh, you just want them to snap out of it like (laughing) we got something to do, you know.2221.9775 
2206 2222.5648Um,2223.0586 
2208 2223.4523I'm trying to think.2224.0696 
2210 2224.7035No.2225.1439 
2212 2225.9214I've probably only been in two car accidents my entire life.2228.5881 
2214 2229.4923Never felt like it then I just wanted to be like, I hope they got insurance, but I never felt like it then. (laughing)2234.5881 
2216 2235.2020Um, I felt like2236.2364 
2218 2236.7435people around me2237.6711 
2220 2237.9714was about to die.2238.7230 
2222 2238.9065Because they sitting in a burning car2240.4813 
2224 2240.7816and didn't get out.2241.3922 
2226 2242.2364And I'm like, they gonna die.2243.2173 
2228 2243.6878So I felt like that. But I- but that was older2246.3779 
2230 2246.8884and I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that2249.1740 
2232 2249.3475<ts> I worked around a lot of dead people.2250.6087 
2234 2252.0342And I worked arou- a lot around that environment and you /?/ couldn't really have any emotion.2255.5777 
2236 2256.1524You really couldn't cause you would just go crazy.2258.2711 
2238 2258.9551And the people who did didn't last, not even a month.2261.3834 
2240 2261.8179They would go crazy, and it's understandable.2263.3102 
2242 2263.9275You see everything. It's not all pretty and clean like,2266.3532 
2244 2266.9204old people having a heart attack. It's2268.1282 
2246 2268.8264people flat like a pancake.2270.3712 
2248 2271.3522And you're expected to bring them back,2273.6177 
2250 2273.8379m- like, make 'em look good to2275.3202 
2252 2275.8841be seen with their family. And it's- then I have to be the one saying, but do you guys have a picture?2278.9938 
2254 2279.4876Cause that's what you're gonna need.2280.3384 
2256 2280.5628You gonna need a picture.2281.3035 
2258 2283.4123Yeah.2283.7922 
2259DCB_int_012286.3518Like,2286.6362
2261 2287.8808so your job, it's like you're an artist. Like,2289.7818 
2263 2289.9995I mean, but2290.4355 
2265 2290.8336a miracle-2291.4376 
2267 2292.2217[I guess I] just don't understand that wor-2294.1811 
2268DCB_se3_ag3_f_022292.2392[Mm.]2292.6963
2269DCB_int_012294.4947[Wow.] (whispered)2294.8374
2270DCB_se3_ag3_f_022294.6749[The world.] Well we used to have a guy, he's- he's passed away now,2297.4476
2271 2297.9280um, he was a civilian that actually ran the mortuary, Mr. /RD-NAME-3/.2300.7116
2273 2301.1587Uh, really feisty Italian man, I loved him.2303.6444 
2275 2304.0590Um, he really- he's like such a super2307.3989 
2277 2307.9528patriot.2308.7068 
2279 2309.1273He- um,2309.8139 
2281 2310.4218you know, he's like, these are American soldiers, we need to try to2312.9418 
2283 2313.1286make them look good so their families can see them one last time.2316.3151 
2285 2316.8197So he would try everything, I mean, you could just be like, flat like a pancake and he would try2321.1973 
2287 2321.7912to do everything to work with our,2323.8774 
2289 2324.1077<ts> uh, structural department, I did reconstructions,2326.7169 
2291 2327.1406to get them back looking decent.2329.1033 
2293 2329.3736But there was lots of times we could not, like when the USS, um,2332.8670 
2295 2333.1373Cole2333.6678 
2297 2333.8121got blown up, the Navy ship.2335.2535 
2299 2336.0810Um,2336.4947 
2301 2336.7082nothing you can do with them,2338.1096 
2303 2338.4666some of them, most of them.2339.5977 
2305 2340.0557Um, lot of victims coming back from Pentagon, nine eleven, stuff like that,2343.9962 
2307 2344.1630<ts>2344.2397 
2309 2344.3865nothing you can really do with them.2345.5744 
2311 2346.2592Um,2346.9499 
2313 2347.4937so we would be like, Mr. /RD-NAME-3/, there's nothing we can do with them.2350.4866 
2315 2350.9304And he would just be so upset, but he knew that it was-2353.0700 
2317 2353.2735it was nothing you could really do.2354.3012 
2319 2354.8350So then it would be my job to2356.3198 
2321 2356.7302talk to the families.2357.7479 
2323 2358.0456<ts>2358.1057 
2325 2358.4961And, um,2359.6572 
2327 2360.2812obviously they know what happened already,2361.7526 
2329 2362.3432but to let them know that we're not gonna be able to have open casket, do you have a picture?2365.6845 
2331 2367.0119You know, and of course they're2368.2698 
2333 2369.1706boohoo crying, but2370.3459 
2335 2370.4727I just wanted to know do you have a picture.2371.5271 
2337 2372.0509Cause we need to2372.7283 
2339 2373.0619put your package together. But then y'all can go finish2374.7636 
2341 2375.3074boohoo crying2375.8646 
2343 2376.1082over there.2376.5175 
2344DCB_int_012377.5404So you dealt with the families of nine eleven?2379.6231
2345DCB_se3_ag3_f_022380.1430[Of every-] everything/2381.0505
2346DCB_int_012380.2097[Like-]2380.4499
2347DCB_se3_ag3_f_022381.8279Yeah.2382.2283
2349 2383.5171Everything.2383.9557 
2350DCB_int_012386.1596Wow. (whispered)2386.4796
2352 2387.2407Y- so, clearly I'm not the one, I would not last in that [environment. Clearly]2391.1286 
2353DCB_se3_ag3_f_022389.9408[<laugh>]2390.9251
2354DCB_int_012391.5390I'm not th- that's not [a job for me.]2393.3092
2355DCB_se3_ag3_f_022392.4933[Yeah.]2393.0805
2356DCB_int_012394.2258Um, so let me-2395.1868
2358 2395.3803let me2395.7473 
2360 2396.2144ask about something else. So do you consider yourself a DC girl?2399.7178 
2362 2399.9180Like,2400.1954 
2364 2401.6606even before you left and you didn't- Do you consider yourself like,2404.2197 
2366 2404.6034DC girl? Like, love DC culture, a DC [girl.]2407.2051 
2367DCB_se3_ag3_f_022404.9704<ts>2405.0205
2369 2406.8331[Definitely] love DC culture.2408.5414 
2370 2409.0452Even though I was like,2410.5100
2372 2410.9004ugh, no2411.7746 
2374 2411.9614for a while. (laughing)2412.7063 
2376 2413.2535Um, but definitely. I mean, cause even when I was away,2416.2230 
2378 2416.5133where you from? DC.2417.4542 
2380 2417.9756Proudly.2418.6562 
2382 2419.1534Come back home and was like, <sigh> I need /unintelligible/2421.2821 
2384 2421.5491or whatever, so it was just (laughing)2422.9104 
2386 2423.3775so-2424.0215 
2388 2424.4118Yeah.2424.8012 
2389DCB_int_012425.3135Did you go to- did you listen to go go music?2426.9415
2390DCB_se3_ag3_f_022427.1487Mm-hm.2427.4356
2391DCB_int_012427.7960What's your favorite- [did you have a] favorite band?2429.3942
2392DCB_se3_ag3_f_022428.4032[I hate-]2428.8072
2394 2429.3808No.2429.7612 
2395 2430.6629First of all, I can only listen to go go music for five minutes, and that's how long the song should be.2434.6268
2396DCB_int_012435.1557<laugh>2435.7208
2397DCB_se3_ag3_f_022435.9080No longer than five minutes.2437.0566
2399 2437.7173Okay, I would be like,2438.7746 
2401 2439.2388I'm tired.2439.9561 
2403 2440.4599Okay this has been gym2441.8012 
2405 2442.3960time, so. (laughing)2443.3035 
2407 2443.8274I like- I don't like today's go go.2445.5157 
2409 2446.0429I don't listen to today's go go at all,2447.6611 
2411 2448.0381unless it's like,2448.7030 
2413 2449.1033Rare Essence,2449.9775 
2415 2450.4446um,2450.9752 
2417 2451.9728Groovers. Groovers to me is still2453.8528 
2419 2455.0099a newer-2455.6839 
2421 2456.5948Cause Rare Essence and2458.1530 
2423 2458.5834EU,2459.1840 
2425 2459.7912and who else?2460.7797 
2427 2461.2835I'm missing one.2462.0348 
2428DCB_int_012462.1477Backyard.2462.9730
2429DCB_se3_ag3_f_022463.3956Backyard, Rare Essence, EU,2464.9471
2431 2465.4609there's [one more.]2466.0515 
2432DCB_int_012465.6878[North-] Northeast?2466.6821
2433DCB_se3_ag3_f_022468.4113That's Groovers.2469.1551
2434DCB_int_012469.9127Oh you said Groovers, you [said Groovers.]2471.3408
2435DCB_se3_ag3_f_022470.7602[Um,]2471.1806
2436 2471.6111Those three are like,2472.7764
2438 2473.2301the original2474.0643 
2440 2474.5648battle bands to me.2475.5557 
2442 2476.0929And then Groovers came2477.4643 
2444 2477.7712right after, and then all these2478.9332 
2446 2479.3936other ones and I'm like, I c- I quit.2481.1487 
2448 2481.6191But, um,2482.5167 
2450 2482.7302<ts>2482.7969 
2452 2483.4509yeah, I like Pleasure, the all girl band2485.7606 
2454 2486.3946when they was around.2487.2721 
2456 2487.6291You remember Pleasure?2488.3432 
2457DCB_int_012488.5067Mm-mm.2488.9204
2458DCB_se3_ag3_f_022489.1740Remember when- Yes cause they went on to tour with Salt-n-Pepa, they became Salt-n-Pepa's all-girl band.2493.5224
2459DCB_int_012494.2130Mm-mm.2495.0238
2461 2495.7312Okay, I'm sor- I'm'a look- you know what, I'm gonna go back to my desk, I'm'a look 'em up.2498.9885 
2462DCB_se3_ag3_f_022499.2054Pleasure was DC's all-girl band. Oh my god,2503.0032
2464 2503.5471they was some trail blazers. Then another girl band came out, we was like, sit down.2506.9704 
2466 2507.3742Pleasure was2508.1749 
2468 2508.5662the all-girl band.2509.3169 
2470 2509.7440And then they went on to- um,2511.3088 
2472 2511.7593Salt-n-Pepa picked them up.2512.8352 
2474 2513.1806And you know the, um,2514.0482 
2476 2514.4927Shake Your Thang, that was EU.2516.0810 
2478 2516.3712Um,2516.9451 
2480 2517.1620<ts>2517.2588 
2482 2517.7826<sigh> Express Yourself2519.1773 
2483DCB_int_012519.2507[Mm-hm.]2519.6444
2484DCB_se3_ag3_f_022519.4909[by] Salt-n-Pepa, that's Pleasure.2520.7016
2485DCB_int_012520.9065Okay.2521.2568
2486DCB_se3_ag3_f_022521.2335That's what I say, we got a all-girl band, that's-2522.7650
2487 2523.1387that's Pleasure and- playing for them. And, um, <ts>2525.2040
2489 2525.5410it was another2526.4452 
2491 2526.9065song, but they went on to be with Salt-n-Pepa.2528.4502 
2493 2529.4089Um, and then they broke up.2530.4528 
2495 2531.6478But- um,2532.4027 
2497 2532.7263so Pleasure.2533.4136 
2499 2533.9809And- but today's go go? Mm-mm.2535.4590 
2501 2536.4766No, who did Work the Walls? Was that Rare Essence?2538.4652 
2503 2540.7416<ts> [Anyway.]2541.1296 
2504DCB_int_012540.8450[I'm not a] go go connis- Did you go to go gos?2542.7135
2505DCB_se3_ag3_f_022542.8570Oh yeah, I did.2543.7879
2507 2544.1683My mother stopped letting me go, though.2545.2902 
2508DCB_int_012545.8641She stopped?2546.3279
2509DCB_se3_ag3_f_022546.9885I was getting in trouble, so2547.9528
2511 2548.2230[I couldn't go.]2548.6564 
2512DCB_int_012548.2297[You were getting] in trouble?2549.0697
2513DCB_se3_ag3_f_022549.2674Yeah, I couldn't go no more. [<laugh>]2550.8164
2514DCB_int_012550.7063[Wow.] Did [you-]2551.7707
2515DCB_se3_ag3_f_022551.5004[<sigh>]2551.8808
2516DCB_int_012552.0576did you- you repped your neighborhood?2553.3222
2517DCB_se3_ag3_f_022553.6458<ts>2553.7392
2519 2553.9628No,2554.1930 
2521 2554.4599not really.2554.8503 
2522DCB_int_012554.9838Oh.2555.1673
2524 2555.2440Cause you had a lot [of neighborhoods.]2556.5762 
2525DCB_se3_ag3_f_022555.7287[I was- yeah, I was like everywhere.]2556.9220
2526DCB_int_012557.2101Right.2557.4537
2527DCB_se3_ag3_f_022557.4203Everybody knew our family, like all over.2559.4790
2528 2559.7426So we were like, everywhere.2560.6435
2530 2561.1706I didn't really get into like, rep- I couldn't. I mean,2563.0166 
2532 2563.3870/What I'm'a do/ Simple City, Simple City and Eastgate beef, but I be around both areas (laughing)2566.8236 
2534 2567.1640all the [time, so.]2568.0114 
2535DCB_int_012567.3742[Mm.]2568.3017
2536 2568.9932What- um,2569.7973
2538 2570.0709what- um,2571.0416 
2540 2572.3398did you eat mumbo sauce?2573.1907 
2541DCB_se3_ag3_f_022573.5343<ts>2573.6010
2543 2573.7979Yeah.2574.3251 
2545 2574.4360Do I eat mumbo sauce2575.6005 
2546DCB_int_012575.6205Oh, currently.2576.1977
2547DCB_se3_ag3_f_022576.3045is a better question, yeah. <laugh>2577.5958
2548DCB_int_012577.5691Where do you get your mumbo sauce from?2578.7169
2549DCB_se3_ag3_f_022578.6234<ts>2578.6868
2550 2579.0071Oh my gosh, so now mumbo sauce, it used to be just a DC thing, but Chicago will argue.2582.9351
2552 2583.3422But it used to be just a DC thing.2584.9471 
2554 2585.1072<ts>2585.1673 
2556 2585.3675Um,2586.0181 
2558 2586.8798but2587.2768 
2560 2587.7907it definitely branched out into PG2589.3655 
2562 2589.9528even way back2590.6034 
2564 2590.8537when I was a little kid.2591.7579 
2566 2592.1925But now, Waldorf2593.2335 
2568 2594.0553/comes to me,/ everything's right there.2595.2910 
2570 2595.9528Um,2596.5133 
2572 2596.8303Saint Mary's by far does not have mumbo sauce.2599.5104 
2574 2599.9709Okay, [they-]2600.5229 
2575DCB_int_012600.3145[Okay], mm.2600.9018
2576DCB_se3_ag3_f_022600.8617I asked them for mumbo sauce, they gave me ketchup.2602.3364
2577DCB_int_012605.5905I'm sorry that you had to experience that traumatic [experience.]2607.8760
2578DCB_se3_ag3_f_022607.7226[I] looked at it, I said this pretty dark.2609.1940
2579 2610.0448<laugh> I was like, mm I don't need ketchup.2611.9875
2581 2612.6782So yeah, they- they don't know about it. So I would say,2614.5734 
2583 2614.8703Charles County is the furthest.2616.5577 
2585 2617.3336Baltimore,2618.3212 
2587 2618.9084they don't really know what you're talking about.2619.8551 
2589 2620.5200Um,2621.0338 
2591 2621.3008we don't claim Baltimore by the way.2622.4670 
2593 2622.8765You know that2623.2735 
2595 2623.5071about us?2623.8974 
2596DCB_int_012624.7049DC doesn't claim Baltimore? What you mean?2626.0495
2597DCB_se3_ag3_f_022625.9928Oh, Maryland, like PG County.2627.8012
2598 2628.6929All the counties2629.5972
2600 2630.0109other than Baltimore don't claim Baltimore.2632.2731 
2601DCB_int_012632.2531Why not?2632.6001
2602DCB_se3_ag3_f_022632.9738We just don't, it's like we don't even like Bal- (laughing) <laugh>2635.4670
2604 2635.8307I don't know, it's a thing. First of all, DC s- like, straight DC does not claim Baltimore at all.2639.8856 
2606 2640.4619Like it's like, <laugh>2641.3936 
2608 2641.7506they don't ever get along.2642.6448 
2610 2643.0419But, um,2643.7472 
2612 2644.4866<ts> I don't know, it's just a thing, like we like, mm-mm.2646.6654 
2614 2647.1868People like,2647.6005 
2616 2647.8040Baltimore, Maryland, no just Baltimore, Baltimore, we don't claim the2650.2731 
2618 2650.5700step children (laughing) <laugh>2651.5577 
2620 2652.3151at all.2653.0032 
2621DCB_int_012652.9999I know. (whispered)2653.5504
2622DCB_se3_ag3_f_022653.8941Mm-hm.2654.4513
2624 2654.9051<ts>2654.9952 
2626 2655.4356So yeah, definitely eat mumbo sauce.2656.7369 
2627DCB_int_012657.3541<ts>2657.4542
2629 2657.8346Um,2658.7613 
2631 2659.3636let me talk about- So, even here, right, this neighborhood where you've grown up2662.8370 
2633 2663.2274we see condos across the street. [Shrimp Boat is not] Shrimp Boat, it's2667.5292 
2634DCB_se3_ag3_f_022665.5972[Mm-hm.]2666.2531
2635DCB_int_012667.7626Shrimp Boat2668.3632
2637 2668.5100Center, or whatever it's called.2669.6580 
2639 2670.3051Let's talk about gentrification.2671.7440 
2640DCB_se3_ag3_f_022671.7973<ts>2671.8708
2642 2672.4580So I often wonder, I'm like, are they like-2675.7345 
2644 2676.0448are- are they like,2676.9098 
2646 2677.6238shipping people to another planet? Like, what are we doing with the people?2680.5467 
2648 2681.1640<ts>2681.2274 
2650 2681.3174Cause even where I grew up on Seventh2682.9532 
2652 2683.4237well in Capers is the- the-2684.7249 
2654 2684.9218the, um, projects.2685.9027 
2656 2686.2597Those are not there2687.0872 
2658 2687.2474anymore.2687.7312 
2660 2688.2458They're torn down, so you know- you- you know where Seventh in Capers is?2690.8550 
2662 2691.4056Seventh and Arthur Street. So,2692.4766 
2664 2692.9905[if y-]2693.2774 
2665DCB_int_012692.9938[I think so.]2693.4311
2666DCB_se3_ag3_f_022693.6678if you're going down-2694.6254
2668 2695.0233if you gonna go to, um,2696.4513 
2670 2697.1487the wharf for example, where it used to be Phillips,2699.4242 
2672 2700.1658<sigh>2700.5795 
2674 2700.8064you- you can go that way2702.1610 
2676 2702.3512to get there.2702.7783 
2678 2703.3489Um,2703.8894 
2680 2704.7202<ts> that's not there anymore.2705.5043 
2682 2706.0515There all these nice little2707.2101 
2684 2707.6305high rises. But my question is2709.4923 
2686 2709.9394Where'd you- where you put the people?2711.4409 
2688 2712.2725Because all those are rentals.2713.7139 
2690 2714.2878Like those the- they're not like- you can like, pay them, you know,2716.8203 
2692 2717.4209to be like,2717.8688 
2694 2718.1391let me pay these people for their-2719.5638 
2696 2719.7340for their property, cause that's what they2721.2588 
2698 2721.5424usually do with the houses, but.2722.8570 
2700 2723.9981People are renting there.2725.0901 
2702 2725.6238S- and most of 'em on fixed,2726.7479 
2704 2726.9852you know, income and- and government2728.3865 
2706 2728.7569support, so.2729.4275 
2708 2729.9622<ts> I'm like, what are you doing with the people? So I guess they're like-2732.3279 
2710 2732.6815they closing them down and then2734.1430 
2712 2734.5867go wherever you go, and then people start trying to filter out2737.0766 
2714 2737.5104wherever.2737.9942 
2716 2738.8617But,2739.1553 
2718 2739.5624I often wonder like,2740.6067 
2720 2741.5176as the,2742.3051 
2722 2743.0633um,2743.5838 
2724 2744.2278builders and the government,2745.7359 
2726 2746.3432mostly,2746.8103 
2728 2747.2974are making these changes, like what is their plan for the2750.2978 
2730 2750.6982people? And what is their plan to2752.3398 
2732 2752.7969save the culture2753.9981 
2734 2754.6195of this place?2755.2435 
2736 2756.2111I don't really think2756.9218 
2738 2758.0729that's a factor to them because it's more about the money.2760.3551 
2740 2760.9599It's more about making it look2762.2936 
2742 2762.6715very, uh,2763.6024 
2744 2764.2497pleasurable on the eye for their investors2766.6254 
2746 2766.9866that come in,2767.6572 
2748 2768.1243and the people they have flying in. Like,2769.4389 
2750 2769.5791The whole National Stadium area is2771.3386 
2752 2771.6378totally different, you know.2772.6321 
2754 2773.0533And I'm all for change in terms of making things better and beautifying, beautification projects,2777.2707 
2756 2777.8680But,2778.3051 
2758 2778.4452I'm like, at the expense of what?2779.8174 
2760 2780.6682So that's my-2781.3288 
2762 2782.2597my question mark.2783.1640 
2763DCB_int_012784.4694Tell me about going to the Boys and Girls Club when you were younger.2786.6749
2764DCB_se3_ag3_f_022787.5724Um, well, I didn't even know it was a Boys and Girls Club. We talked about that with like, some of the other people. I was like, I'm going to the ARC.2792.0209
2766 2792.3112Like (laughing) I didn't even know2793.3689 
2768 2793.8393that that was the Boys and Girls Club.2795.3808 
2770 2795.7145Um,2796.2550 
2772 2796.6734<ts>2796.7623 
2774 2796.8398I-2797.1434 
2776 2797.4570we were just kids playing, it was somewhere to go.2800.0629 
2778 2800.5200You know, you go down Minnesota,2802.8698 
2780 2803.1167and you2803.7640 
2782 2804.2545get your sour pickle, you get your steak and cheese and your-2807.4943 
2784 2807.9455and your, um, fried rice,2809.8607 
2786 2810.3779and you eat that while you walking on the way2812.2864 
2788 2812.7769down there.2813.4609 
2790 2813.9981And you just-2814.9732 
2792 2815.2502It was just like a big social2817.0586 
2794 2817.5624whatever but you felt very safe.2819.1273 
2796 2819.7679Extremely safe.2820.8431 
2798 2821.5571But I would also have to say I felt more safe2823.8527 
2800 2824.8637in the city than I did2826.0815 
2802 2826.6129going2827.1702 
2804 2827.5104to the2827.8441 
2806 2828.1977suburban places. I don't know why, but2830.0896 
2808 2830.5133I did.2830.9171 
2810 2831.2707I felt way more safe. It was noise, it was people all the time,2833.8341 
2812 2834.4747you know.2834.7750 
2814 2835.2588That's off track.2835.7192 
2816 2835.9661But2836.1797 
2818 2836.6601the Boys and Girls- (laughing) I'll get- I'll go back to that.2838.4948 
2820 2839.2301The Boys and Girls Club then it was just2841.2521 
2822 2842.0696<ts>2842.1229 
2824 2842.2464so welcoming. So,2843.4476 
2826 2843.7011now that I'm here,2844.6662 
2828 2845.2034it makes so much more sense2846.7750 
2830 2847.2721why it was so open.2848.9437 
2832 2849.4409And, you know, it was more, um-2851.3035 
2834 2851.7106All the DC and- and PG clubs2853.5124 
2836 2854.0295are2854.6134 
2838 2855.0505grant funded pretty much.2856.2750 
2840 2856.6329Whereas like,2857.4082 
2842 2857.7907Virginia is probably program funded cause the parents have the money to really pay,2861.7879 
2844 2862.5862you know, a- a- um, membership.2864.4580 
2846 2865.0119Whereas we do not.2865.8894 
2848 2866.4666Um, but because of that,2868.0548 
2850 2868.4260there was no strings. I can only imagine if I was that age going to2871.7159 
2852 2872.1430clubs that were program funded. It's like, excuse me,2873.9414 
2854 2874.3318do you have a-2874.9432 
2856 2875.2168What are you doing here?2875.9288 
2858 2876.2011And, you know, cause they have to, cause you got people paying to be here.2878.6435 
2860 2879.0405Whereas,2879.6312 
2862 2880.2158the club was just- it was like open arms.2882.0776 
2864 2882.2845I [mean,]2882.8350 
2865DCB_int_012882.4480[Mm.]2882.8284
2866DCB_se3_ag3_f_022883.6458it was very2884.7903
2868 2885.0772welcome. Even to the point I didn't even know2886.5920 
2870 2887.0399that- <laugh> /but/ I don't think they did branding very well2888.8450 
2872 2889.2087back then. (laughing)2889.6625 
2874 2889.8560But I didn't even know.2890.8403 
2876 2891.2007I thought,2891.6578 
2878 2891.9189we going to the ARC.2892.5928 
2880 2893.0433That's what it was, it was the ARC,2893.9175 
2882 2894.1510period.2894.5114 
2884 2895.2354So when I interviewed,2896.5100 
2886 2896.9604and we talked about it, even then, I said2898.9465 
2888 2899.1234<ts>2899.1868 
2890 2899.8207I was about2900.4747 
2892 2901.1653probably my mid-twenties, and that's when I-2902.6401 
2894 2902.9504I went back there for something.2904.4761 
2896 2904.8831And, um,2905.4503 
2898 2905.6639<ts> I remember saying-2906.4480 
2900 2906.9351And at that time I was like,2907.8026 
2902 2908.2097oh, Boys and Girls Club took over? <laugh> Been here the whole time.2911.5771 
2904 2912.0276Uh, but I was telling, uh,2913.1754 
2906 2913.6358/RD-NAME-3/ I was like, yeah,2914.6134 
2908 2914.8069<ts>2914.8770 
2910 2915.5276that's when I first realized it was the Boys and Girls Club.2917.1567 
2912 2917.9175All that time.2918.4246 
2913DCB_int_012918.7950And didn't even know it.2919.6492
2914DCB_se3_ag3_f_022919.7793Nope.2920.0529
2916 2920.7402Didn't know it,2921.3875 
2918 2921.6086And then it's a pros and cons to that. You know, con is, oh,2923.9809 
2920 2924.2144you not branding well but that's the business side.2926.0264 
2922 2926.3632But as a kid,2927.0605 
2924 2927.5944you didn't know it because2928.5995 
2926 2928.7797there was no stipulations. There was-2930.3612 
2928 2930.6015It was very open and free and2932.0729 
2930 2932.4833you felt very welcome. It wasn't like-2934.0548 
2932 2935.0900<sigh> it wasn't controlling environments where a kid can really be a kid, basically.2938.9070 
2933DCB_int_012939.2941Hm.2939.6478
2935 2940.2358But go back to this idea of feeling safe, because that's so funny. L- like you felt safer in the city? [Like,]2944.5067 
2936DCB_se3_ag3_f_022944.4166[I] did. [<laugh>]2945.4643
2937DCB_int_012945.3108[Cause] the s-2945.5841
2938 2945.8146the statistics will tell you [otherwise.] Every- every article, every report, [every census] bureau, the2951.1373
2939DCB_se3_ag3_f_022947.0809[<ts>]2947.2015
2941 2949.9661[Yeah.]2950.4248 
2942DCB_int_012951.3541piece information you pull is2952.6362
2944 2953.1134very much2953.7894 
2946 2953.9875saying something [different.]2954.9351 
2947DCB_se3_ag3_f_022954.7483[Well, I] guess me working in2956.4499
2948 2956.9104government2957.4709
2950 2957.6544my entire life and working2959.0967 
2952 2959.5338around sensitive information, I often2961.7793 
2954 2962.1096would not-2962.6768 
2956 2963.7212I don't believe2964.5292 
2958 2964.8965what's put out in census and what's put out in statistics because2968.1196 
2960 2969.4142it's man made. So I don't-2970.5194 
2962 2970.8598Half the stuff is put out for a reason.2972.3512 
2964 2972.9885Um, /?/2973.8026 
2966 2974.2998it's- there's always an agenda.2975.5105 
2968 2975.7387I wouldn't be surprised that's say that so people would be more-2978.1310 
2970 2978.7316more comfortable to move so we can build up.2980.1330 
2972 2980.8571Whatever.2981.1841 
2974 2981.3643But, um,2981.8280 
2976 2982.6755uh,2983.1360 
2978 2983.3061I felt more safe.2984.2871 
2980 2985.1110The statistics in my family (laughing) from real people with their mouth,2988.4476 
2982 2988.9322they felt more safe in the city.2990.1667 
2984 2990.6739When I moved to Waldorf where,2992.4923 
2986 2993.0529you know, for my kids,2994.0146 
2988 2994.2081um,2994.5518 
2990 2994.7353in theory2995.3559 
2992 2995.5728it's safer,2996.2868 
2994 2996.5304Late at night,2997.0643 
2996 2997.5914I'm constantly looking out the window,2998.9161 
2998 2999.3240checking the door.3000.0680 
3000 3000.4751Cause I don't hear anything, it's so quiet. I'm like, what's going on? (whispered)3002.7647 
3002 3003.1610What's going on around here? You know, (laughing) it's [so quiet] and3005.4165 
3003DCB_int_013004.3222[Mm.]3004.8293
3004DCB_se3_ag3_f_023005.8178you hear every little thing. In the city,3007.4994
3006 3008.3903<ts> it's noisy, it's like-3009.3178 
3008 3009.9818it's always people around and it's always3011.8370 
3010 3012.0246just busy, so,3013.4861 
3012 3014.4437I feel safe. It's like well,3015.5180 
3014 3015.8884who's gonna break in right here? People walking (laughing) they gonna see it, and3018.7220 
3016 3019.1324who's gonna do3019.7864 
3018 3020.0366whatever? You just feel- it- you just felt so much- I guess it's more eyes3023.1229 
3020 3023.5634on you, [whatever. You kind of] felt more safe.3025.1024 
3021DCB_int_013024.0914[Mm.]3024.4867
3022DCB_se3_ag3_f_023025.3459Whereas in other- in- Waldorf kind of country and it's quiet and people are in their houses and3030.0672
3024 3030.6019somebody could do something, nobody would even see it.3031.9966 
3026 3032.3936That's kind of what my- my thought pattern was.3033.9612 
3028 3034.5991But, um,3035.1830 
3030 3035.4132I would not raise my kids where I l- where I grew up.3037.6963 
3032 3038.1567So I don't feel that safe.3038.8687 
3034 3039.2845But I- I /wouldn't/ raise them (laughing)3040.7726 
3036 3041.2063where I grew up.3041.9704 
3038 3042.3082I would be one of those people that would purchase like,3044.3536 
3040 3044.9141/at the Ritz/3045.6215 
3042 3046.0385Georgetown, or something like that.3047.6021 
3044 3048.1081Because once you have children, the mentality is just different. You want better3051.4146 
3046 3051.7683for them.3052.0619 
3047DCB_int_013052.0185But even if you've seen the city changing, right, that area- So, where you've grown up,3055.7730
3048 3055.9665I [mean, it's happening.] It's [happening.] The developers are moving.3058.6686
3049DCB_se3_ag3_f_023056.2168[Mm-hm.]3056.5404
3051 3057.4046[Mm-hm.]3057.7116 
3052 3058.7259Mm-hm.3059.0228
3053DCB_int_013059.0729So that area's changing very [quickly. So you] still wouldn't-3061.5328
3054DCB_se3_ag3_f_023060.3850[Mm-hm.]3060.7220
3055DCB_int_013061.7496you wouldn't3062.3135
3057 3062.5071purchase there?3063.0404 
3058DCB_se3_ag3_f_023063.5481No, not until a hundred percent of the area is changing. Because if you notice, so,3066.6319
3060 3067.0390they've changed- they're putting new condos over here,3069.1977 
3062 3069.3946but you still got all this going on up the street right here.3071.0896 
3064 3072.1247So- where you think- the people where you taking their jobs,3074.5704 
3066 3075.1777where you think they gonna come rob from?3076.7092 
3068 3077.7877So they're- wa- it's a d- it's a walk away.3079.7430 
3070 3080.6405So no.3080.9819 
3072 3081.5447I think it3082.0185 
3074 3082.5424creates more havoc because3084.1347 
3076 3084.5552you literally putting the candy3086.0466 
3078 3086.4737in front of the kids3087.5614 
3080 3087.9118right on the counter.3088.6691 
3082 3089.0495It's like r- literally around the corner.3091.0890 
3084 3091.5895So this almost goes back to3093.2044 
3086 3093.8717when my mom moved to Fort Washington, Potomac, you know, it was really estate-y type,3096.8154 
3088 3097.4293um, complex.3098.4805 
3090 3099.0910You go into the- you don't even think that it's3100.5924 
3092 3100.7659where she is cause it's so rich-y and stuff, like.3103.8297 
3094 3104.7840Soon as you turn out the neighborhood and go left or right,3107.0829 
3096 3107.6910<ts>3107.7911 
3098 3108.5418what's over there?3109.1711 
3100 3109.8431What is that neighborhood? Glass Manor3111.3445 
3102 3111.8851is right there.3112.8960 
3104 3113.3064Um,3113.9404 
3106 3114.5385this little,3115.3059 
3108 3116.1000uh, hood neighborhoods right here. It's like literally within walking distance. So I say that to say,3119.9237 
3110 3120.5385a lot of the houses,3121.4861 
3112 3121.9131thank god not hers, have always getting breaking- broken into.3124.2421 
3114 3125.2831All the time.3125.9637 
3116 3126.3416Cause it's like you3127.2225 
3118 3127.7363put these- you build up these nice rich neighborhood with these affluent people3131.2764 
3120 3131.7035are gonna be there3132.3007 
3122 3132.9022but you-3133.4393 
3124 3133.6529you leave the surrounding areas the same and then take their jobs.3137.0695 
3126 3137.5033How they gonna survive?3138.2507 
3128 3140.6172So,3140.8998 
3130 3141.3045no I wouldn't.3141.9218 
3132 3142.9261I'm just not that stupid.3143.6776 
3134 3144.2515I'd rather be in a place where everybody3145.9899 
3136 3146.4937is pretty [much]3147.0809 
3137DCB_int_013146.9742[Mm.]3147.3675
3138DCB_se3_ag3_f_023147.5581the [same.]3148.1320
3139DCB_int_013147.8617[that makes] sense.3148.6024
3140DCB_se3_ag3_f_023148.5991They're- they- they don't need to steal from you. They're working class people.3152.1033
3141 3152.5871They'll- they- No.3153.3178
3143 3154.1453So like you not gonna go to the Hamptons and have that problem.3156.0572 
3145 3156.5752The Hamptons,3157.1157 
3147 3157.2925everything is- <laugh>3157.9365 
3149 3158.4937Yeah, there's a certain class that's over there.3160.2588 
3150DCB_int_013160.9361Do you think it's a class issue or a race issue?3162.7754
3151DCB_se3_ag3_f_023163.2592Uh, both.3163.7671
3153 3164.8407I think it's both.3165.3245 
3154DCB_int_013165.3979Why?3165.6859
3155DCB_se3_ag3_f_023166.5123Um,3166.9561
3157 3167.2430cause both of them like, kind of coexist3169.2525 
3159 3169.4093together.3169.8764 
3161 3170.2601Some of the classes think that only a particular race3172.6558 
3163 3172.8860can be one thing and vice versa.3174.5451 
3165 3175.0356Um,3175.5294 
3167 3175.8931I think when it comes to3177.4546 
3169 3177.8617the race issue,3178.9628 
3171 3179.5267the stereotype is that all white people are racist.3181.9632 
3173 3182.4437That's a stereotype which is3183.6849 
3175 3184.2454not true. I was just having this conversation with my ten year old3186.3917 
3177 3186.8855last night.3187.4127 
3179 3187.7930And these are the conversations my kids have.3189.2204 
3181 3189.6782Kind of like3190.0352 
3183 3190.2254me growing up.3190.8560 
3185 3191.3031Um,3191.7369 
3187 3192.1714<ts> the stereotype is that3193.2492 
3189 3194.1667all white people are racist, all black people are thugs and3197.5700 
3191 3198.0313angry and3198.9756 
3193 3199.2291violent.3199.8998 
3195 3200.5204Um,3201.2378 
3197 3201.6115and then you have inter racism, you have3203.8403 
3199 3204.4284race on race racism, you got black people that are,3207.0643 
3201 3207.5481you too dark,3208.2731 
3203 3208.5891you too light,3209.3424 
3205 3209.5567you too this.3210.2081 
3207 3210.6786That's the issue. And then it's- for- for my family it's on both. It's like it's Spanish people,3214.7893 
3209 3215.2631all the Dominicans3216.3564 
3211 3216.6286who-3217.0423 
3213 3217.2859I always gotta constantly tell some of3218.8807 
3215 3219.3212my cousins3220.3385 
3217 3220.9528who are like in DR.3222.1339 
3219 3222.4217<ts>3222.4784 
3221 3222.7787Um,3223.3126 
3223 3223.8130some are much older,3224.8674 
3225 3225.1010like a older3225.6615 
3227 3225.8617group. Because they went through so much their mentality is so warped.3228.0482 
3229 3228.4350I'm like, let me explain to you, you are a black person who speaks Spanish, okay? Your oppressor3232.5590 
3231 3233.4841raped our people and that's why you speak Spanish, kay?3235.9932 
3233 3236.7439Learn your history.3237.4580 
3235 3238.1453Don't think you3238.9294 
3237 3239.4966not black. Spanish is a culture,3241.1858 
3239 3241.9732okay?3242.3652 
3241 3242.7039Latino is a culture, not a race.3244.4156 
3243 3244.7726<laugh> So,3245.2597 
3245 3245.7669I'm like,3246.1206 
3247 3246.3917you are black3247.2024 
3249 3247.4060and you speak Spanish.3248.2068 
3251 3248.5004Like, that's it.3248.9542 
3253 3249.5481Um, they wanna try to separate themselves like,3251.7210 
3255 3251.9746oh no we-3252.6119 
3257 3252.9555we're not black, we Spanish.3254.2201 
3259 3254.6739<ts>3254.7540 
3261 3254.9477We need to /DNA/ on you?3255.8848 
3263 3256.3255You need DNA?3256.8293 
3265 3257.5033Like,3257.7936 
3267 3258.3316where you think you get your melanin from?3259.5661 
3269 3260.2835Where you think you get it from? Like,3261.2211 
3271 3261.6815you3261.9685 
3273 3262.1119are3262.3689 
3275 3262.5390African.3262.9795 
3277 3263.1730Okay? (laughing)3263.7569 
3279 3264.4817So, um,3265.4026 
3281 3265.9966<ts> that whole thing.3266.9575 
3283 3267.2878So I think- And then you have those classes there.3269.3231 
3285 3269.8678You know you got like,3270.5151 
3287 3270.8988oh, well you dark, so3272.8874 
3289 3273.2845you not from here. It's like, I wouldn't be considered dark in DR.3275.4933 
3291 3275.9412But like,3276.3817 
3293 3277.2325<ts>3277.3025 
3295 3278.4837I don't know who here.3279.2778 
3297 3279.7950You would be borderline.3280.7926 
3299 3281.3932I'm trying to think who here.3282.4987 
3301 3283.2125/I don't know./3283.6262 
3303 3284.6639/RD-NAME-2/ for example.3285.6014 
3304DCB_int_013285.9017Mm-hm.3286.1937
3305DCB_se3_ag3_f_023286.1854He could be like,3286.9528
3306 3287.7769as Dominican as they come <laugh>3289.2392
3308 3289.6662and he would be considered,3290.6138 
3310 3291.0876oh, he's dark.3292.0752 
3312 3292.5991And you have like,3293.2797 
3314 3293.8370the3294.5109 
3316 3295.0256Jessica Alba looking Dominicans, white looking Dominicans and they're like- they're like they're better.3298.4690 
3318 3299.1596[And it's like,]3299.5967 
3319DCB_int_013299.1730[Mm.]3299.4599
3320DCB_se3_ag3_f_023300.0680<ts>3300.1781
3322 3300.6986No.3301.0289 
3324 3301.5795Your skin literally does not make- (laughing)3303.0876 
3326 3303.6115You don't come off smarter,3304.6425 
3328 3304.9227you don't come off brighter, you don't come off dumber,3306.5121 
3330 3307.2425you know.3307.6128 
3332 3308.1400So- um,3309.0976 
3334 3309.4880<ts>3309.5581 
3336 3309.6915but- I'm- I'm off track but,3310.9694 
3338 3311.2430I think that the two coexist.3312.6452 
3340 3313.0189The racism,3313.7063 
3342 3314.0733and the classism, I think they both3315.8306 
3344 3316.0419coexist.3316.7092 
3346 3317.2797And3317.8303 
3348 3318.1714it is all about the upbringing, you know.3319.9665 
3350 3320.3869Some of the white people that think they're better is because they was taught they were better. Now that could be a good and a bad thing.3323.9738 
3352 3324.6085If we taught our kids they was better,3326.3035 
3354 3328.3922you know, look at- look at how much of a difference that could make.3330.4617 
3355DCB_int_013330.5652Mm.3330.8888
3356DCB_se3_ag3_f_023331.2959So,3331.6796
3358 3331.8431they was taught3332.6806 
3360 3332.9708that they were better,3333.7883 
3362 3334.1887now there's a way you teach- You don't teach your kids you're better and these people are nothing.3337.5379 
3364 3337.7930That's where the-3338.4403 
3366 3338.6238the break down is.3339.5180 
3368 3339.9451But3340.1520 
3370 3340.3789if we taught our kids3341.6743 
3372 3342.1014to be better,3342.7854 
3374 3343.1424and that they are better than,3344.4937 
3376 3344.9175not better than someone but better than3346.6291 
3378 3347.0362your stereotypes, better than3348.6419 
3380 3348.8755your environment, better than your neighborhood, better than,3351.4780 
3382 3352.0752you know, all these things around you. You are better.3354.1372 
3384 3354.9922It can- they would go so much further. That's how- what I was taught growing up.3357.5214 
3386 3358.1420So.3358.4690 
3387DCB_int_013358.7826And that's why you had conversations about the stock market.3360.5952
3388DCB_se3_ag3_f_023361.0223Yes, exactly.3362.0967