Line | Speaker | St Time | Content | En Time |
1 | ROC_int_01 | 0.0854 | Uh, we were talking about how you had to Charlotte Beach. | 3.5905 |
2 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 3.6010 | Oh, yeah. [Uh-huh.] | 4.5425 |
3 | ROC_int_01 | 4.0223 | [/Yes/.] | 4.4213 |
4 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 5.6174 | And, | 5.9698 |
6 | | 6.2061 | another thing is, | 7.2073 |
8 | | 8.5718 | I'd always have a lunch. | 9.9150 |
10 | | 11.0287 | Um. | 11.5923 |
12 | | 11.8086 | she'd- she'd make me a lunch | 13.5403 |
14 | | 13.7798 | c- | 13.8875 |
16 | | 14.1850 | called spice ham. | 15.4122 |
18 | | 16.7874 | And, uh, | 17.4507 |
20 | | 18.1140 | when it was time to eat, | 19.4108 |
22 | | 19.5439 | it was always full of sand (laughing) [<laugh>] | 23.3919 |
23 | ROC_int_01 | 21.5937 | [<laugh>] | 23.2255 |
24 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 23.7235 | It was so full of sand, I couldn't eat it. <laugh> | 26.8638 |
26 | | 27.3862 | So, | 27.9583 |
28 | | 29.0216 | I would- I would | 29.8644 |
30 | | 30.3743 | manage somehow. | 31.6177 |
32 | | 31.8164 | I don't know what I did, maybe she gave me some money too. I don't know. But, | 35.6252 |
34 | | 36.4058 | a hot dog probably was a nickel back then. [I don't know.] But. | 39.5466 |
35 | ROC_int_01 | 38.9871 | [/?/] | 39.2627 |
36 | | 39.7625 | <laugh> | 40.1849 |
37 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 40.1849 | Yeah, but, | 40.7589 |
38 | | 41.2641 | that was, that was what I experienced in | 43.6885 |
40 | | 43.9548 | discrimination. | 44.9879 |
42 | | 45.6629 | And my own father, | 46.8830 |
44 | | 47.5763 | because. | 48.0952 |
46 | | 49.1329 | Oh, I'm going backwards now. | 50.7216 |
48 | | 51.1336 | I got to tell you what happened. | 52.6580 |
50 | | 53.8288 | He, um, | 54.8023 |
52 | | 56.0376 | He had a heart attack. | 57.4151 |
54 | | 58.2140 | He call me | 59.0936 |
56 | | 59.2910 | on, | 59.7180 |
58 | | 60.1267 | this in two thousand and uh | 62.4478 |
60 | | 63.4993 | two thousand and | 64.6520 |
62 | | 66.9616 | <exhales> | 67.3358 |
64 | | 67.6436 | seven, I think. | 68.6491 |
66 | | 69.1865 | Hadn't been that long ago. | 70.5501 |
68 | | 71.2941 | He was ninety three years old. | 72.9379 |
70 | | 73.2962 | He was still going to the U of R. | 75.3372 |
72 | | 76.0925 | He was the head of the economics department at that time. | 78.9439 |
74 | | 79.8012 | He would still go there once a week. | 81.5461 |
76 | | 82.4276 | So, he had a heart attack. | 83.9343 |
78 | | 84.3128 | He was in the hospital for a while. | 86.2482 |
80 | | 86.6936 | When he came home | 87.8348 |
82 | | 88.4363 | he call and ask me to come and see him. | 90.6816 |
84 | | 91.4805 | So, I said, well, | 92.4310 |
86 | | 92.9776 | okay, I'm getting ready to go to church now. Can I come | 95.7854 |
88 | | 96.9026 | this afternoon? | 97.8841 |
90 | | 98.3892 | I said probably maybe one thirty, | 100.3544 |
92 | | 100.5175 | two o'clock. | 101.2635 |
94 | | 101.7112 | He said, Okay. So, | 103.0681 |
96 | | 103.6951 | <ts> | 103.7502 |
98 | | 103.9131 | I stopped at | 104.7328 |
100 | | 105.1209 | Wegman's | 105.7912 |
102 | | 106.4846 | and I bought the little fruit tarts cause he likes tea. | 109.7953 |
104 | | 110.3120 | So, I said, well, we'll ha- | 111.6527 |
106 | | 112.1394 | we'll have a little fruit tart with the tea. | 114.0519 |
108 | | 114.8189 | So, | 115.3008 |
110 | | 116.0403 | I was going up the walk. | 117.5418 |
112 | | 117.9275 | He lived on Dorchester Road in um Beachwood over there off | 121.7062 |
114 | | 122.9017 | Wenton | 123.3336 |
116 | | 123.4857 | [North Wenton.] | 124.1117 |
117 | ROC_int_01 | 123.5945 | [Mm-Hm.] | 124.0459 |
118 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 125.6226 | So I was walking up the walk | 127.2776 |
120 | | 127.7366 | and I said, | 128.3814 |
122 | | 129.2438 | I'm tired of this man playing these games. I said | 132.3931 |
124 | | 132.8138 | I'm going to | 133.1103 |
126 | | 133.2151 | tell him | 133.9740 |
128 | | 134.4751 | all my life, I've been told he's my father | 137.2487 |
130 | | 137.8266 | and I'm'a ask him what he | 139.5398 |
132 | | 139.9525 | have to say about that. | 141.2469 |
134 | | 141.9529 | <ts> | 142.0800 |
136 | | 142.4095 | So, | 142.9084 |
138 | | 143.4308 | I got there, I rang the bell, | 145.0606 |
140 | | 145.6725 | and he said, It's open. | 147.2680 |
142 | | 147.6116 | <ts> | 147.7011 |
144 | | 147.9118 | I though that was odd cause it was cold. | 150.1098 |
146 | | 151.1172 | So, | 151.6230 |
148 | | 152.2537 | I went in | 153.0741 |
150 | | 153.5245 | and he was sitting in a chair. | 155.0707 |
152 | | 155.8448 | And he looked so bad. | 157.2144 |
154 | | 157.8310 | Oh, he looked so. | 158.9136 |
156 | | 159.7099 | He was | 160.0841 |
158 | | 160.2065 | pale. | 160.7007 |
160 | | 161.2838 | He was a big tall man. | 162.9702 |
162 | | 163.5953 | And um. | 164.2307 |
164 | | 164.9226 | <ts> | 165.0168 |
166 | | 165.4875 | I told him, I said, um, | 166.9324 |
168 | | 167.6345 | How you doing? Or something I said. | 169.3383 |
170 | | 170.3522 | And he- he couldn't talk good. | 172.2607 |
172 | | 172.6133 | So. | 172.9992 |
174 | | 174.3808 | I said, I told him I brought him something. And he said, well, I'll make us some tea. He got up. I said, I could do it. | 179.8733 |
176 | | 180.2257 | He said, let me do it. | 181.2376 |
178 | | 181.6848 | I wanna do it. I said okay. | 183.3086 |
180 | | 183.9346 | <ts> | 184.0334 |
182 | | 184.2829 | So, I thought I saw him trying to go in there and make the tea. | 188.1092 |
184 | | 188.7928 | And I said, I'm not gonna say anything to him. | 191.5462 |
186 | | 192.2047 | What would I accomplish? | 193.4802 |
188 | | 194.4198 | He's so | 195.0417 |
190 | | 195.2129 | sick, I cannot say something | 197.4940 |
192 | | 197.9147 | that might upset him. | 199.1478 |
194 | | 200.6229 | So, I didn't. | 201.3755 |
196 | | 202.2326 | So, we | 202.8293 |
198 | | 203.1211 | we ate the tart, we sipped the tea. | 205.2062 |
200 | | 205.9357 | And he told me, um, | 207.6772 |
202 | | 209.0364 | he ha- | 209.6388 |
204 | | 210.1660 | um, | 210.6602 |
206 | | 211.7051 | <ts> | 211.7616 |
208 | | 211.9969 | All his | 212.6276 |
210 | | 212.8159 | papers, | 213.5063 |
212 | | 214.4900 | and | 215.0554 |
214 | | 215.2201 | all his | 215.8451 |
216 | | 215.9863 | work. He's very well known in Japan. | 218.7151 |
218 | | 219.1821 | Because he educated so many Japanese students | 222.3545 |
220 | | 222.7301 | in this country. | 223.6291 |
222 | | 224.7661 | And, | 225.1724 |
224 | | 225.3030 | they have a floor | 226.4820 |
226 | | 226.6514 | on a, in a library. | 228.1764 |
228 | | 228.3647 | I mean a museum. | 229.4509 |
230 | | 230.0251 | And it's all of his | 231.3898 |
232 | | 231.6063 | work. | 232.1149 |
234 | | 233.4231 | And he got- he got all his | 235.6624 |
236 | | 235.9731 | work there and blah, blah. He told me where | 238.5665 |
238 | | 239.4278 | uh, something else was. But mostly everything was | 242.5690 |
240 | | 242.9310 | in Japan. | 243.9183 |
242 | | 244.8832 | Except what | 245.7540 |
244 | | 246.2293 | was at the U of R. | 247.4343 |
246 | | 248.6486 | And, | 249.1334 |
248 | | 250.0548 | he said, um, | 251.4292 |
250 | | 252.9589 | <ts> | 253.0860 |
252 | | 253.7073 | What did he say? | 254.6957 |
254 | | 255.8300 | Oh. He said, | 256.6490 |
256 | | 257.1997 | he told /RD-NAME-2/, | 258.5588 |
258 | | 258.8271 | his younger son, | 260.0979 |
260 | | 260.7372 | he said, I told /RD-NAME-2/ about you and I gave him your information, | 264.6950 |
262 | | 265.2157 | so he can contact you. | 266.9138 |
264 | | 267.3327 | <ts> | 267.3845 |
266 | | 267.7375 | And I said Oh, okay. | 269.0271 |
268 | | 269.5449 | So, he said /RD-NAME-2/ | 270.9027 |
270 | | 271.0533 | uh, doesn't come to the house. | 272.8385 |
272 | | 273.5327 | He hasn't been to this house in years cause | 276.0884 |
274 | | 276.4508 | it had a lot of bad memories for him | 278.5548 |
276 | | 279.7369 | So I was getting kind of leery. You know. So, | 281.8935 |
278 | | 283.0441 | he said, he lives | 284.2949 |
280 | | 284.8265 | in the South Wedge. | 286.3611 |
282 | | 286.9839 | He say, | 287.5555 |
284 | | 287.9229 | /RD-NAME-1/ bought him a house, set up a trust fund. | 290.9067 |
286 | | 292.0852 | No. She bought him a house. | 293.5558 |
288 | | 293.9382 | And she set up a trust fund. That was his | 296.8582 |
290 | | 297.6913 | sister. | 298.3031 |
292 | | 300.8296 | Oh. And I had- | 301.7474 |
294 | | 303.8983 | Yeah. | 304.2372 |
296 | | 304.4490 | I had been invited to the W- | 306.1565 |
298 | | 306.8766 | the we- | 307.3285 |
300 | | 307.4697 | the repass. | 308.4722 |
302 | | 309.1547 | After /RD-NAME-1/ died. | 310.6091 |
304 | | 311.6771 | Who was my brother, but /RD-NAME-1/ didn't know. | 313.8222 |
306 | | 314.9236 | /RD-NAME-1/ died of | 315.6814 |
308 | | 315.9591 | cancer. | 316.5710 |
309 | ROC_int_01 | 316.8965 | Hm | 317.0189 |
310 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 317.9461 | And, | 318.3969 |
312 | | 318.9994 | /RD-NAME-1/ died of cancer. | 320.4541 |
314 | | 321.5664 | But, I wasn't invited to | 323.3794 |
316 | | 323.9624 | /RD-NAME-1/'s funeral. | 325.1721 |
318 | | 325.8540 | She ha- | 326.2270 |
320 | | 326.3612 | they had her funeral in Boston. | 328.0695 |
322 | | 329.2136 | But, I was invited to his wife's funeral. | 331.6599 |
324 | | 332.7295 | /RD-NAME-1/ was his wife. | 334.1274 |
326 | | 334.8240 | But /RD-NAME-1/ | 335.6174 |
328 | | 335.7926 | died of caner. | 336.9024 |
330 | | 337.3063 | Same cancer I had. | 338.7309 |
332 | | 339.8888 | And /RD-NAME-1/ died of breast cancer. | 342.0727 |
334 | | 343.0988 | Now, /RD-NAME-2/ is still living. He's the youngest one | 345.8508 |
336 | | 347.2878 | So, I asked, | 348.3845 |
338 | | 348.6151 | um, | 349.1281 |
340 | | 349.5894 | <ts> Oh, after | 350.4602 |
342 | | 351.2415 | I left, | 351.8769 |
344 | | 353.1006 | I told him to call me w- | 354.4410 |
346 | | 354.8457 | if he needed something. | 356.0601 |
348 | | 357.2274 | So, | 357.7074 |
350 | | 358.1969 | he said he would. | 359.1995 |
352 | | 360.0250 | And about two weeks later, I'm reading the paper. He had died. | 363.1764 |
353 | ROC_int_01 | 364.5272 | Hm. | 364.7390 |
354 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 364.8802 | That quick. | 365.6369 |
356 | | 366.3147 | Just like two weeks later. | 367.8081 |
358 | | 368.3164 | I said, boy am I glad I didn't say anything | 370.9004 |
360 | | 371.4645 | to him. | 371.9681 |
362 | | 373.0318 | If he got upset, I didn't do it. <laughs> | 375.4888 |
364 | | 376.1419 | So, | 376.6032 |
366 | | 376.8997 | after about a year, | 378.1658 |
368 | | 378.4953 | I didn't hear from /RD-NAME-2/. | 379.9210 |
370 | | 380.6176 | So, I looked up | 381.6567 |
372 | | 382.6404 | uh, the information on him. | 384.4336 |
374 | | 385.8409 | And I called him. | 386.8482 |
376 | | 387.4072 | And we set up a time to meet. | 389.3464 |
378 | | 390.5042 | And, | 390.8996 |
380 | | 391.0408 | we met over at Jine's. | 392.9376 |
382 | | 393.5165 | I asked him, did he have a favorite place? | 395.9865 |
384 | | 396.5654 | And he said Jine's. | 398.0992 |
386 | | 398.6782 | On uh, Park Avenue. | 400.2691 |
387 | ROC_int_01 | 400.2785 | Mm-hm. | 400.7444 |
388 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 400.8715 | So, we met at- | 401.8071 |
390 | | 402.0749 | we were going to meet at Jine's. | 403.6466 |
392 | | 404.0710 | So, I got there first. | 405.5829 |
394 | | 406.1407 | And I was talking to a man | 408.2013 |
396 | | 408.8168 | that was waiting in line. | 410.3088 |
398 | | 411.1219 | And /RD-NAME-2/ walked in, | 412.5819 |
400 | | 412.9015 | and he gave that man that nastiest look. It scared me. | 417.4211 |
402 | | 418.0237 | I didn't really know it was /RD-NAME-2/ | 419.7790 |
404 | | 420.3733 | I thought, | 420.8719 |
406 | | 421.4320 | this man and this | 422.3648 |
408 | | 422.7885 | guy got something going. You know? | 424.7580 |
410 | | 425.1064 | I stepped out of the way. | 426.3992 |
412 | | 427.1327 | But, | 427.5554 |
414 | | 428.1530 | It was /RD-NAME-2/ and I didn't know it. | 429.7935 |
416 | | 430.7276 | And he's my brother and I didn't know it. | 432.8422 |
418 | | 433.7733 | And the way he looked. | 435.1615 |
420 | | 435.8911 | I didn't tell him | 437.1003 |
422 | | 437.3122 | That I might be his sister (laughing) [<laughing>] | 439.6111 |
423 | ROC_int_01 | 439.1098 | [Mh-hm.] | 439.6205 |
424 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 440.2569 | So, | 440.7618 |
426 | | 441.0207 | Um. | 441.4490 |
428 | | 441.7644 | <clicks> | 441.8020 |
430 | | 442.2829 | I said, are you | 443.1546 |
432 | | 443.4436 | /RD-NAME-2/? | 443.9990 |
434 | | 444.4122 | Cause nobody else came in. | 446.0888 |
436 | | 446.7535 | And he said. yeah. Yeah. Are you /RD-NAME-1/? and I said, yeah. | 449.4852 |
438 | | 450.0807 | So, he said, pleased to meet you. And then we got a seat | 453.4360 |
440 | | 453.9334 | They k- they took us to a table. | 455.6194 |
442 | | 456.7080 | And, | 457.1209 |
444 | | 457.5364 | I- so you like Jine's? He said | 459.3741 |
446 | | 459.9492 | oh, I've never been here. | 461.0859 |
448 | | 462.1438 | And I said, oh, okay. So, you know | 464.4078 |
450 | | 464.9067 | I'm thinking. | 465.6192 |
452 | | 466.4711 | Well, I done work with- | 467.4360 |
454 | | 468.5373 | in mental health for thirty-five years. So I know what to say and know- and what to do. | 473.0825 |
456 | | 474.3345 | So, we- | 475.1024 |
458 | | 475.2766 | we had | 475.8791 |
460 | | 476.6604 | lunch. | 477.2958 |
462 | | 477.8559 | And then, h- | 478.5807 |
464 | | 478.7407 | Uh, he- he said, um, | 480.1437 |
466 | | 481.8273 | where'd you get my phone number? And I said, your dad. | 484.7313 |
468 | | 485.3616 | He said, why? | 486.2041 |
470 | | 486.9546 | I said, well, | 487.7327 |
472 | | 488.2658 | he wanted us to be friends. | 490.1049 |
474 | | 491.2336 | And he said, | 491.9815 |
476 | | 493.2671 | oh, I don't know you. I said, I know. He said. Bu- | 496.0016 |
478 | | 496.5194 | But I know your dad. | 497.7196 |
480 | | 498.5939 | So, | 499.1399 |
482 | | 499.5777 | we agreed to meet. | 500.7214 |
484 | | 501.6674 | Oh, and then I found out that | 503.2113 |
486 | | 503.8514 | he's uh | 504.8999 |
488 | | 505.7918 | patient | 506.2695 |
490 | | 506.5272 | out pa- | 507.0426 |
492 | | 507.5776 | /?/ | 507.8736 |
494 | | 509.3553 | And he- from Strong. | 510.7286 |
496 | | 511.2369 | But, he gets all his treatments at | 513.5762 |
498 | | 514.5552 | Strong Ties. | 515.7263 |
500 | | 516.7710 | <ts> | 516.8321 |
502 | | 517.4924 | So, I thought to myself, oh man. | 520.1769 |
504 | | 521.1229 | This is running in the family. | 522.7609 |
506 | | 523.8340 | So, | 524.3188 |
508 | | 525.8438 | we m- we agreed to meet another time. | 528.2384 |
510 | | 528.7374 | He had. | 529.1563 |
512 | | 529.5078 | He was gonna walk me to my car. | 531.3858 |
514 | | 532.1330 | His car was in the same | 533.6674 |
516 | | 534.0487 | parking lot. | 534.7594 |
518 | | 535.6302 | And, so | 536.3691 |
520 | | 537.3373 | we agreed | 538.1045 |
522 | | 538.4481 | to meet again. | 539.3278 |
524 | | 539.5019 | So, we met again in the same place. | 541.5635 |
526 | | 542.3390 | So, he said, um. | 543.8216 |
528 | | 544.4947 | You know Mrs. /RD-NAME-2/? | 545.7467 |
530 | | 546.5139 | And I said, yeah, I know her. | 547.8506 |
532 | | 548.7772 | And, uh, | 549.2992 |
534 | | 549.5722 | he said, well she wants to know, | 551.3857 |
536 | | 551.6211 | how do you know my | 552.7507 |
538 | | 553.2948 | dad? | 553.7951 |
540 | | 554.8719 | And I said, | 555.6155 |
542 | | 555.7756 | we're from the same | 556.8940 |
544 | | 557.1387 | home town. | 557.9845 |
546 | | 559.1842 | And she wants to know why he wants | 561.5549 |
548 | | 562.5339 | you- | 562.9340 |
550 | | 563.7106 | Why did he want you to contact me? | 565.9923 |
552 | | 566.9925 | And I said, | 567.7550 |
554 | | 567.8562 | cause he wanted us to be friends. | 570.0298 |
556 | | 570.3710 | cause we're from- | 571.1123 |
558 | | 571.8531 | cause I know your family. | 573.4463 |
560 | | 574.1523 | And he- | 574.8084 |
562 | | 575.1943 | your family knows my family. | 577.2488 |
564 | | 577.8013 | So, we left it at that. | 579.1333 |
566 | | 579.6816 | So, we's going to the | 581.1001 |
568 | | 581.9361 | parking lot. | 582.7799 |
570 | | 583.6083 | <ts> | 583.6977 |
572 | | 584.0790 | He said, uh | 585.1563 |
574 | | 585.9211 | I got this new car. | 587.5449 |
576 | | 588.8064 | I, | 589.1588 |
578 | | 589.4600 | uh, | 589.9848 |
580 | | 590.1637 | but I'm afraid to drive it. | 591.8293 |
582 | | 592.0670 | I said, why? | 593.0931 |
584 | | 593.6950 | He said, | 594.3516 |
586 | | 594.4598 | uh, | 594.8011 |
588 | | 594.9258 | cause it's got air conditioning. | 596.7050 |
590 | | 597.3822 | And I know it's gonna | 598.4897 |
592 | | 598.9839 | burn up a lot of gas. | 600.3836 |
594 | | 601.0284 | I said, no, that's not | 602.3699 |
596 | | 602.8376 | the way is is now. They make cars better now. | 605.4028 |
598 | | 605.8947 | They don't burn anymore gas than a | 607.8921 |
600 | | 608.2475 | car with no air conditioning | 609.7837 |
602 | | 610.4723 | He said, really? I said, yeah. Just enjoy your car. | 613.6888 |
604 | | 615.0438 | So, | 615.6698 |
606 | | 616.6247 | every now and then, he would call me. | 618.6298 |
608 | | 619.9901 | But, when I s- | 620.7102 |
610 | | 620.8738 | would see that | 621.5987 |
612 | | 621.7681 | caller ID, | 623.0852 |
614 | | 623.8947 | I wouldn't answer. | 624.8361 |
616 | | 626.2105 | I said, I'm not getting in t- I'm staying away from this. | 629.2730 |
618 | | 630.2567 | So, | 630.8121 |
620 | | 631.3211 | one day, I got a letter from him and it said, | 634.4385 |
622 | | 636.1235 | could you send me your | 637.5862 |
624 | | 638.5841 | address and phone number? | 640.3020 |
626 | | 640.7633 | I lost it. | 641.7470 |
628 | | 642.8907 | So, I sent him | 644.3811 |
630 | | 644.8470 | my phone number, | 645.8778 |
632 | | 646.0520 | but I didn't send him my address. | 647.8923 |
634 | | 649.1558 | And I didn't hear from him anymore. | 651.0777 |
636 | | 652.2546 | So, one day, | 653.1016 |
638 | | 653.4216 | I was bringing someone from the | 655.4727 |
640 | | 655.6698 | health | 656.0534 |
642 | | 656.6596 | place on South Clinton, which is Highland, | 659.4932 |
644 | | 660.0627 | part of Highland hospital, | 661.4972 |
646 | | 662.3395 | and the traffic | 663.2528 |
648 | | 663.5679 | diverted me a different way. | 665.5353 |
650 | | 666.3354 | So, I found myself on /RD-ADDRESS-3/ Street, | 668.9147 |
652 | | 669.4555 | which is the street he lived on. | 671.2953 |
654 | | 672.6743 | And I said, oh, I said | 674.1897 |
656 | | 674.8439 | he lived at forty-one. | 676.2512 |
658 | | 677.1126 | So when I got to forty-one, | 678.9331 |
660 | | 679.2959 | some men was out, | 680.2608 |
662 | | 680.6420 | they had these saw horses and they was cutting | 683.1776 |
664 | | 683.8031 | plywood or whatever. | 685.1534 |
666 | | 686.2806 | And, I said, um, | 687.3302 |
668 | | 688.5492 | I said /RD-NAME-5/ | 690.0930 |
670 | | 690.3240 | live here? | 690.9547 |
672 | | 691.9195 | And, they said, no. | 693.1621 |
674 | | 693.5292 | I said, oh, okay, uh, | 695.0683 |
676 | | 695.5531 | he used to live here didn't he? | 696.9547 |
678 | | 697.5029 | He said, | 698.0655 |
680 | | 698.6875 | we don't know, some- | 699.7646 |
682 | | 699.8728 | they got somebody that bought the house and hired them to do the work. | 703.2760 |
684 | | 704.4310 | So, I said, oh, okay. | 705.8618 |
686 | | 706.0974 | Sorry to bother you. No problem, they say. | 708.2484 |
688 | | 708.7883 | So, when I got to work, | 710.2097 |
690 | | 710.4545 | I looked it up. | 711.2828 |
692 | | 712.6290 | And, | 713.1221 |
694 | | 713.5363 | the house was burned up. | 715.1130 |
696 | | 716.0214 | Inside, | 716.6898 |
698 | | 717.5700 | every room was | 718.5243 |
700 | | 718.8067 | burned up and water damage. | 720.7036 |
702 | | 721.1648 | It was a mess. | 722.6259 |
704 | | 723.2378 | I said, | 723.7085 |
706 | | 723.8971 | thank God I didn't tell him where I live. | 726.7049 |
708 | | 727.3192 | He could have gone, | 728.3136 |
710 | | 728.5799 | got sick, | 729.2341 |
712 | | 729.7895 | and come over here and burn my house or hurt me and my granddaughters. | 733.7714 |
714 | | 734.5888 | Or something terrible. You know? | 736.3303 |
716 | | 737.1822 | Said, | 737.5352 |
718 | | 737.6670 | I'm glad I didn't tell him. | 738.9614 |
720 | | 739.8310 | So, I don't know where he is, | 741.9349 |
722 | | 742.3397 | cause he's not in that house. That's the only contact I had with him. | 745.9592 |
724 | | 746.5513 | His cell phone number is | 748.0903 |
726 | | 749.6011 | no- no longer. | 750.8531 |
728 | | 751.9398 | And Mrs. /RD-NAME-2/, | 753.0360 |
730 | | 753.8108 | she's probably in a nursing home if she's still alive, cause [she's a lot] older than me. | 758.6388 |
731 | ROC_int_01 | 757.0809 | [Mm-hm] | 757.5656 |
732 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 759.3296 | She was around my dad's age. | 761.3958 |
734 | | 762.0265 | And, I think, t- | 762.7420 |
736 | | 763.2550 | they had something going, cause he was kind of like a lady's man. | 766.9769 |
738 | | 768.0501 | And, | 768.5019 |
740 | | 769.6353 | she- her husband was the director of the psych center. | 773.1203 |
742 | | 773.8084 | So, that's probably how they met. | 775.8547 |
744 | | 776.5325 | And, when her husband died, | 778.0449 |
746 | | 779.2554 | Old /RD-NAME-2/ s- | 780.1932 |
748 | | 780.5886 | stepped in. | 781.5676 |
750 | | 782.0636 | Cause he told me she would come to his house every Thursday evening. | 785.9794 |
751 | ROC_int_01 | 786.2383 | Mm-hm. | 786.6138 |
752 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 786.7382 | So, he didn't | 787.6128 |
754 | | 787.7384 | go into details. | 788.9890 |
756 | | 790.0293 | I- I know I told you a lot and I skipped all around [everything, but.] | 794.3013 |
757 | ROC_int_01 | 793.2639 | [I don't-] | 793.5764 |
759 | | 793.8096 | [It'll be fine.] | 794.7226 |
760 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 794.7226 | I don't even know if I put that in here about- | 797.1448 |
761 | | 797.5507 | about my dad. | 798.5059 |
763 | | 800.2178 | But he owned the town. | 801.7384 |
765 | | 802.0349 | No, I didn't put it in here because /RD-NAME-2/ said | 804.8773 |
767 | | 805.5504 | I might not- | 806.3929 |
769 | | 807.0318 | you might not need to talk to me, | 808.7640 |
771 | | 809.1547 | cause I didn't grow up here. | 810.5460 |
773 | | 811.2539 | So, | 811.7198 |
775 | | 812.5917 | I thought | 813.2166 |
777 | | 814.0564 | well, maybe I'll just tell her how I got here. [<laugh>] | 817.2919 |
778 | ROC_int_01 | 817.1127 | [Yeah], no. It's- [it's been] really good. And, | 819.3954 |
779 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 817.9646 | [So,] | 818.2705 |
780 | | 819.5389 | Mm-hm. | 819.9069 |
781 | ROC_int_01 | 819.9399 | I have two more questions. | 821.4507 |
782 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 821.4565 | [Okay. | 822.0296 |
783 | ROC_int_01 | 821.5911 | Um. | 821.9355 |
784 | | 822.0712 | But, the- the n- | 822.9969 |
786 | | 823.1852 | next one is about- Y- I feel like you have so much knowledge of how Rochester has looked between | 828.8268 |
788 | | 829.4423 | you [know, uh] | 830.7132 |
789 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 829.8330 | [Uh.] | 830.2707 |
790 | ROC_int_01 | 831.2780 | what | 831.5510 |
792 | | 831.6686 | the forties and now, and, | 834.0173 |
794 | | 834.3221 | what do you think are some of the biggest changes | 836.7367 |
796 | | 837.3203 | that the community has seen? | 839.2149 |
797 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 839.7665 | Oh. | 840.3595 |
799 | | 842.1858 | The biggest change | 843.4602 |
801 | | 843.5920 | that I see, | 844.7225 |
803 | | 846.8837 | is how the- | 847.7716 |
805 | | 847.9975 | the neighborhoods have changed. | 849.6626 |
807 | | 850.8153 | And how our people have | 852.5612 |
809 | | 853.3941 | progressed. | 854.2234 |
811 | | 854.4258 | I'll use that word. | 855.5873 |
813 | | 856.3921 | We seem to be doing better | 858.4674 |
815 | | 858.9102 | than when I was coming up. | 860.9130 |
817 | | 861.9719 | And, | 862.4474 |
819 | | 862.7334 | we have our own homes, | 864.4325 |
821 | | 864.5549 | we have our own business. | 866.0846 |
823 | | 866.6717 | Our children are | 868.0552 |
825 | | 868.9730 | more successful. | 870.2956 |
827 | | 870.7072 | Cause the opportunities seem to be there. | 872.9820 |
829 | | 873.3412 | Like, when I was in high school, I wasn't prepared | 876.1920 |
831 | | 876.8272 | for college. | 877.7301 |
833 | | 878.3590 | I had to take | 879.2692 |
835 | | 879.9072 | home economics. | 881.0521 |
837 | | 881.5736 | I can set a table. | 882.7126 |
838 | ROC_int_01 | 883.7419 | [Mm-hm.] | 884.2361 |
839 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 884.0657 | [Or, I] can have a tea. I can t- | 885.6801 |
840 | | 885.9503 | I can- I can do a tea. | 887.5071 |
842 | | 888.1169 | Those are the things I was taught | 889.9090 |
844 | | 890.4536 | in high school. | 891.2645 |
846 | | 891.5263 | And how to sew. | 892.4448 |
848 | | 892.9878 | Took me a whole year to make a apron. | 894.8111 |
850 | | 895.6878 | But, that's what they was teaching me | 897.4031 |
852 | | 898.0636 | So now, | 898.8758 |
854 | | 899.2111 | young people are better prepared | 901.0629 |
856 | | 901.5289 | and- like yourself. | 902.7194 |
858 | | 903.1569 | They're doing better. | 904.1121 |
860 | | 904.2368 | They're going to college. | 905.3594 |
862 | | 905.8183 | They're applying, they're getting accepted. | 907.8161 |
864 | | 908.2951 | Some of 'em | 909.0904 |
866 | | 909.3635 | get assistance. Some pay their own. | 911.5051 |
868 | | 911.8016 | S- | 911.9475 |
870 | | 912.6452 | You know, it's- | 913.3031 |
872 | | 913.9881 | And the neighborhoods look so much better. | 916.6438 |
874 | | 917.6999 | So much better. | 918.7730 |
876 | | 919.3818 | A lot of the old houses and buildings | 921.7242 |
878 | | 922.2090 | have been torn down | 923.5493 |
880 | | 923.8594 | and replaced with newer ones. | 925.6485 |
882 | | 926.3888 | I see | 926.9993 |
884 | | 927.8087 | apartments, | 928.7444 |
886 | | 928.9421 | complexes, | 929.9541 |
888 | | 930.3400 | all over. | 931.1355 |
890 | | 931.9638 | Um. | 932.6651 |
892 | | 933.9783 | <ts> | 934.0677 |
894 | | 935.3940 | Like, hanover houses. There are other | 937.7991 |
896 | | 938.3206 | projects like that. | 939.6218 |
898 | | 939.9794 | Shopping malls, | 941.3445 |
900 | | 942.0646 | strip malls. | 943.2084 |
902 | | 943.6690 | You know, it's so many | 945.1794 |
904 | | 945.5996 | changes | 946.3467 |
906 | | 946.7313 | to make life | 947.5987 |
908 | | 947.7630 | better | 948.4103 |
910 | | 948.9359 | in Rochester. | 949.8945 |
912 | | 950.5865 | That's what I see. | 951.6642 |
914 | | 952.4079 | I don't know what | 953.0291 |
916 | | 953.1751 | somebody else see. | 954.1663 |
918 | | 954.6161 | That's what I see. | 955.4343 |
920 | | 955.7073 | And it feels good | 957.0900 |
922 | | 957.3384 | to see that. | 957.9674 |
924 | | 958.5322 | I just | 959.1582 |
926 | | 959.5136 | had a friend die Friday night. | 961.3845 |
928 | | 961.9331 | And, | 962.3117 |
930 | | 962.9495 | I would take him to | 964.5275 |
932 | | 965.4641 | get his groceries | 966.6408 |
934 | | 967.0753 | first of every month. | 968.2128 |
936 | | 968.9131 | <ts> | 969.0528 |
938 | | 969.4637 | And, | 969.9044 |
940 | | 970.4695 | I took him out to Citygate. | 972.2296 |
942 | | 972.4205 | Oh. | 972.6532 |
944 | | 973.6667 | because he remembered when it was Iola Sanitarium. | 976.8555 |
946 | | 977.5648 | So, to see Citygate, | 979.0992 |
948 | | 979.2782 | oh, that was | 980.1317 |
950 | | 980.8189 | up his alley. | 981.6143 |
952 | | 982.5495 | And, | 982.8663 |
954 | | 983.1449 | I wouldn't take him up here like, | 985.1588 |
956 | | 986.0201 | what he called, the Ghetto Tops. | 988.0393 |
958 | | 988.6653 | I'd take him out | 989.5595 |
960 | | 990.0349 | Henrietta Tops, or- | 991.7641 |
962 | | 992.7739 | cause he never got out of the city. | 994.6040 |
963 | ROC_int_01 | 994.7876 | Mm-hm. | 995.1485 |
964 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 995.3665 | He never- | 996.1737 |
966 | | 996.2702 | he never went out of this neighborhood barely. | 999.1508 |
968 | | 1000.5351 | And he died Friday night. | 1002.4020 |
970 | | 1002.9291 | And, two weeks ago, he turned sixty. | 1005.2967 |
971 | ROC_int_01 | 1005.9780 | Mm. | 1006.3734 |
972 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1007.3318 | He- his legs, | 1008.7135 |
974 | | 1009.1833 | his knees was bone on bone. | 1011.4930 |
976 | | 1012.5870 | And, | 1013.0404 |
978 | | 1013.4687 | they wouldn't | 1014.1371 |
980 | | 1014.3159 | do surgery | 1015.6009 |
982 | | 1016.0150 | because | 1016.5610 |
984 | | 1016.8842 | he was too young. | 1017.9260 |
986 | | 1018.9700 | But, when he | 1019.4737 |
988 | | 1019.6031 | turned sixty, | 1020.5089 |
990 | | 1021.5035 | he could- | 1021.8094 |
992 | | 1022.1001 | they would evaluate him. | 1023.3945 |
994 | | 1024.4639 | And, | 1024.8724 |
996 | | 1025.1407 | he turned sixty two weeks ago. | 1027.1575 |
998 | | 1027.7259 | But, he died | 1028.4272 |
999 | ROC_int_01 | 1028.9167 | [Mm.] | 1029.1567 |
1000 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1028.9732 | [Friday.] | 1029.6074 |
1001 | | 1030.0616 | So, | 1030.4831 |
1003 | | 1031.2288 | I- | 1031.4590 |
1005 | | 1032.3768 | I feel terrible. | 1033.4507 |
1006 | ROC_int_01 | 1034.0665 | /?/ | 1034.2488 |
1007 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1034.2313 | He was the best friend, | 1035.6045 |
1008 | | 1036.3623 | I- | 1036.7671 |
1010 | | 1037.4926 | um, | 1038.0473 |
1012 | | 1038.7910 | <ts> | 1038.8898 |
1014 | | 1039.7581 | My granddaughter. | 1040.9985 |
1016 | | 1042.3075 | I have three granddaughters | 1043.9767 |
1018 | | 1044.4321 | and each one of 'em- | 1045.6570 |
1020 | | 1045.7593 | One of 'em I raised from an infant. | 1048.2113 |
1022 | | 1048.7746 | The other two had lived in my house at some time. | 1051.9839 |
1024 | | 1052.3885 | And, each time, | 1053.3870 |
1026 | | 1053.7307 | cause he and his mother and his nephews lived across the street. | 1057.3302 |
1028 | | 1058.8881 | They would help me with the girls. | 1060.5962 |
1030 | | 1060.8681 | Like, | 1061.1552 |
1032 | | 1061.6566 | when school was | 1062.5603 |
1034 | | 1063.3058 | out, they would meet the bus and they would stay | 1065.6573 |
1036 | | 1065.8090 | at their house until | 1067.1191 |
1038 | | 1067.8965 | I got home from work. | 1069.1653 |
1040 | | 1069.9410 | Or, | 1070.4397 |
1042 | | 1071.9553 | um. | 1072.5013 |
1044 | | 1073.6685 | He took - he'd take- he's been taking my garbage cans | 1076.7371 |
1046 | | 1077.0440 | out | 1077.3921 |
1048 | | 1077.5356 | every week | 1078.1641 |
1050 | | 1078.9531 | for over thirty [years.] | 1080.2450 |
1051 | ROC_int_01 | 1080.1038 | [Mm.] | 1080.3674 |
1052 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1080.9887 | And, | 1081.3776 |
1054 | | 1081.4929 | the lady down the street that came to tell me he died. | 1084.4941 |
1056 | | 1084.9335 | She say, he had just taken your garbage can | 1087.6578 |
1058 | | 1087.9246 | put it in the backyard | 1089.1912 |
1060 | | 1090.1090 | And, I said, yeah, I notice. | 1091.4790 |
1062 | | 1091.7922 | I say, well. He do- she say I know, he does that every week. | 1094.9848 |
1064 | | 1095.7262 | But, he | 1096.3158 |
1066 | | 1096.5558 | had not just taken that. | 1098.1515 |
1068 | | 1098.2480 | He died later in the evening. | 1100.0937 |
1069 | ROC_int_01 | 1100.4985 | Mm-hm. | 1100.9221 |
1070 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1101.1779 | So, | 1101.6839 |
1072 | | 1101.8957 | another, you know, I just | 1103.5619 |
1074 | | 1103.9394 | I don't even know how we got on that. | 1105.6235 |
1076 | | 1106.7625 | I told you, my mind wander sometime. | 1108.9595 |
1077 | ROC_int_01 | 1109.6508 | [Still doing fine.] | 1110.7949 |
1078 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1109.8276 | [I'm not that crazy] though. | 1111.0166 |
1079 | ROC_int_01 | 1111.0966 | No, you're [not.] | 1112.0593 |
1080 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1111.8125 | [But], I still work | 1113.3411 |
1081 | | 1114.1220 | <ts> | 1114.2314 |
1083 | | 1114.6025 | because, | 1115.1437 |
1085 | | 1115.6553 | I feel like | 1116.5025 |
1087 | | 1118.5159 | I need to work. | 1119.6173 |
1089 | | 1120.3673 | And I'm | 1120.8175 |
1091 | | 1120.9681 | e- | 1121.1234 |
1093 | | 1121.2988 | I have a good pension and I have social security. | 1124.2197 |
1095 | | 1125.1600 | But, I reduced | 1126.0170 |
1097 | | 1126.1387 | both of them by twenty percent. | 1128.2056 |
1099 | | 1128.3853 | I asked to reduce it. | 1129.9942 |
1101 | | 1130.5383 | Because, | 1131.1321 |
1103 | | 1132.1385 | they insist on paying me on my job. | 1134.5304 |
1104 | ROC_int_01 | 1135.0858 | Mm-hm. | 1135.3635 |
1105 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1136.0738 | And, | 1136.5296 |
1107 | | 1137.2959 | I guess technically, I have to. I can't volunteer, so they pay me. | 1141.6771 |
1109 | | 1142.4619 | But, I was paying like, | 1143.5351 |
1111 | | 1144.1658 | twenty, | 1144.9084 |
1113 | | 1145.0872 | thirty thousand | 1146.2168 |
1115 | | 1146.7157 | I mean hundred dollars | 1148.0619 |
1117 | | 1148.9360 | every year for income tax. | 1150.7212 |
1119 | | 1151.5020 | So, now, this | 1152.6737 |
1121 | | 1152.7937 | past one, I only paid eleven hundred dollars. | 1155.5125 |
1123 | | 1156.1908 | And, | 1156.6680 |
1125 | | 1157.7415 | I've had to, | 1158.6240 |
1127 | | 1159.2939 | um, | 1159.8666 |
1129 | | 1161.4082 | take my deduction zero | 1163.2696 |
1131 | | 1164.1167 | plus | 1164.5722 |
1133 | | 1164.7609 | twenty-five dollars a pay check. | 1166.7821 |
1135 | | 1167.5997 | And now, it's like | 1168.8940 |
1137 | | 1169.3022 | zero | 1170.0095 |
1139 | | 1170.2126 | plus fifty dollars a pay check. | 1172.1594 |
1141 | | 1172.7816 | So, what I bring home is just a little extra money. | 1176.0373 |
1143 | | 1176.7394 | I don't live off it. I couldn't live off it. | 1178.9178 |
1145 | | 1179.0484 | It's not enough. | 1180.0381 |
1147 | | 1180.6634 | But, it's a good living. | 1181.9709 |
1148 | ROC_int_01 | 1182.1380 | Mm-hm. | 1182.3412 |
1149 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1182.3092 | You know, it's a good living. | 1183.5876 |
1150 | | 1184.3219 | And I was working nine hours a week. | 1186.4399 |
1152 | | 1187.2354 | But they asked if I would like | 1188.8259 |
1154 | | 1188.9877 | more hours since the twins came to live with me. | 1191.8747 |
1156 | | 1192.6937 | Cause, | 1193.0044 |
1158 | | 1193.3543 | they say, well, if they get sick, | 1194.9145 |
1160 | | 1195.5685 | now, you won't get paid for it. | 1197.4422 |
1162 | | 1198.3657 | But, | 1198.7693 |
1164 | | 1199.0647 | or, if you wanna | 1199.9167 |
1166 | | 1200.0599 | take 'em on a trip, | 1201.0114 |
1168 | | 1201.7967 | you don't have vacation time. | 1203.2833 |
1170 | | 1203.8882 | Try working | 1204.8223 |
1172 | | 1205.6224 | twenty point five hours a week, | 1207.7753 |
1174 | | 1208.1428 | and we can give you benefits. | 1209.7266 |
1176 | | 1209.9736 | So, that's what I do. | 1211.0116 |
1177 | ROC_int_01 | 1211.0623 | Mm-hm. | 1211.5753 |
1178 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1211.7443 | <ts> | 1211.8577 |
1180 | | 1212.1126 | Now, I get five hou- five weeks vacation. | 1214.8371 |
1182 | | 1215.5196 | But, I only work twenty point five hours (laughing) a week. | 1218.6567 |
1183 | ROC_int_01 | 1218.6297 | [Mm-hm.] | 1219.0969 |
1184 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1218.9850 | [I have] | 1219.2992 |
1185 | | 1219.5153 | five weeks [vacation.] | 1221.0972 |
1186 | ROC_int_01 | 1220.6783 | [<laugh>] | 1221.2008 |
1187 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1221.6368 | And, I get sick time. | 1222.8829 |
1189 | | 1223.7772 | So, | 1224.3420 |
1191 | | 1225.0369 | it works out fine. | 1226.1557 |
1192 | ROC_int_01 | 1226.7535 | Yeah. | 1227.1300 |
1193 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1227.3701 | They would pay my | 1228.4432 |
1195 | | 1228.6833 | health insurance, but the state pays it. | 1230.7971 |
1196 | ROC_int_01 | 1230.9722 | [Right.] | 1231.3770 |
1197 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1231.0109 | [So, I] don't pay anything now. | 1233.0243 |
1198 | | 1233.6703 | So, uh. | 1234.1457 |
1200 | | 1234.8948 | I- I'm fortunate | 1236.0537 |
1202 | | 1236.1549 | that I'm able to work and I think it's | 1238.4983 |
1204 | | 1239.1112 | I'm healthy because- Well, I did have cancer. | 1242.0357 |
1205 | ROC_int_01 | 1242.4660 | Mm-hm. | 1242.7132 |
1206 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1242.7132 | I had stage three | 1244.1323 |
1207 | | 1244.2782 | invasive | 1245.1640 |
1209 | | 1245.3805 | colon cancer. | 1246.4292 |
1211 | | 1247.3359 | And, I didn't know it | 1248.1498 |
1213 | | 1248.6900 | til two weeks | 1249.5298 |
1215 | | 1249.7440 | afterwards | 1250.5747 |
1217 | | 1251.3170 | when I went to have the staples removed. | 1253.7230 |
1219 | | 1254.9130 | And, after | 1255.8367 |
1221 | | 1255.9405 | they removed the staples, the nurse | 1257.8509 |
1223 | | 1257.9912 | handed me a | 1258.9900 |
1225 | | 1259.4959 | referral slip. | 1260.5408 |
1227 | | 1261.3739 | And, I said, what is this? | 1262.6530 |
1229 | | 1263.0201 | And she said, | 1263.7638 |
1231 | | 1264.2686 | oh, that's the Pluta Center. I said, what is that? | 1266.7432 |
1233 | | 1267.0395 | And I read it. I said, Pluta Cancer Center. Why do I have to go there? | 1270.4802 |
1235 | | 1271.3169 | She said, you have cancer. | 1272.7161 |
1236 | ROC_int_01 | 1273.2843 | Mm. | 1273.6797 |
1237 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1274.4173 | I said, nobody told me that. | 1276.0997 |
1239 | | 1276.9320 | The tears just rolled down my eyes. | 1279.3314 |
1241 | | 1280.6840 | And after a minute I got it together. | 1282.8661 |
1243 | | 1283.8575 | And, uh, I thanked her. | 1285.2513 |
1245 | | 1286.0750 | She said, when you get home, call them | 1288.4001 |
1247 | | 1288.5478 | and | 1288.8944 |
1249 | | 1289.6613 | make an appointment. | 1290.8017 |
1251 | | 1292.0889 | And, I did. I called and made an appointment to | 1295.0494 |
1253 | | 1295.2541 | go out there, and I met the doctor. | 1297.2122 |
1255 | | 1298.6186 | And he gave me, um, | 1300.1315 |
1257 | | 1300.7928 | a name of a- | 1301.7244 |
1259 | | 1302.5917 | the surgeon. The same surgeon that | 1304.4073 |
1261 | | 1304.5943 | did the- removed it. | 1305.8861 |
1263 | | 1306.6293 | He- | 1307.0628 |
1265 | | 1307.2228 | uh, | 1307.7218 |
1267 | | 1308.6723 | /?/ He | 1309.5762 |
1269 | | 1310.6624 | inserted this | 1311.7543 |
1271 | | 1311.9310 | Medport in my chest, | 1313.5878 |
1273 | | 1314.1862 | which is still there. | 1315.3235 |
1274 | ROC_int_01 | 1315.5278 | [Mm.] | 1315.8439 |
1275 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1315.7066 | [And] it's been ten years. | 1317.1882 |
1276 | | 1318.1375 | But he said, | 1319.0999 |
1278 | | 1319.4087 | we can't take it out. | 1320.6636 |
1280 | | 1320.8932 | Cause I might not be out of the woods. | 1322.8152 |
1282 | | 1323.5275 | But, he said the farther out I go, | 1325.7457 |
1284 | | 1326.2268 | the less chance it'll come back. | 1327.9468 |
1285 | ROC_int_01 | 1327.9468 | Mm-hm. | 1328.3135 |
1286 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1328.5633 | And if it comes back, it's probably gonna come back in the same place. It usually comes somewhere else. | 1333.5702 |
1288 | | 1334.1601 | So, I still go | 1335.3231 |
1290 | | 1335.5914 | to Pluta Center every six weeks. | 1337.5447 |
1292 | | 1338.6649 | Been ten years. <laugh> | 1340.3529 |
1293 | ROC_int_01 | 1340.4659 | Wow. | 1341.1201 |
1294 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1341.3225 | And I don't mind going. | 1342.5981 |
1296 | | 1343.0262 | <ts> | 1343.2606 |
1298 | | 1343.3928 | I don't mind going. | 1344.4483 |
1300 | | 1345.3455 | But the thing is, | 1346.5412 |
1302 | | 1347.7872 | I went for a | 1349.0377 |
1304 | | 1349.1902 | colonoscopy. | 1350.2255 |
1306 | | 1351.9268 | Just a routine. | 1353.0026 |
1308 | | 1354.0144 | My doctor had | 1355.3629 |
1310 | | 1355.9478 | a skiing accident | 1357.1951 |
1312 | | 1358.3683 | and she hurt her back. So, when it's time for my physical, | 1361.5836 |
1314 | | 1362.3907 | she wasn't able. And they called and ask would I reschedule. | 1365.4334 |
1316 | | 1366.3127 | So, I did. | 1367.1685 |
1318 | | 1368.2614 | And | 1368.6935 |
1320 | | 1369.0133 | so, when it was time for that | 1370.8433 |
1322 | | 1371.0175 | appointment, | 1371.7554 |
1324 | | 1372.2812 | they called again. | 1373.3567 |
1326 | | 1374.1681 | And she's still not in. Do you mind if another doctor in the office do your physical? | 1378.9156 |
1328 | | 1379.4616 | And I said, no, I don't mind. | 1380.8736 |
1330 | | 1381.4171 | So, I went, | 1382.5215 |
1332 | | 1383.8749 | and, um, | 1384.7414 |
1334 | | 1385.4537 | the doctor, she did the physical and then she said, | 1388.4557 |
1336 | | 1389.0340 | let's order some tests. So, she was ordering these different tests. | 1392.5515 |
1338 | | 1393.1993 | And she said, colonoscopy. | 1394.8872 |
1340 | | 1395.3399 | I said, I'm not due for that for another two years. | 1398.0025 |
1342 | | 1398.4726 | She said, well, let's do it anyway. | 1399.9808 |
1344 | | 1400.5127 | I said, okay. | 1401.3921 |
1346 | | 1402.3295 | So, she did the colonos- | 1403.7603 |
1348 | | 1403.8968 | they- | 1404.0757 |
1350 | | 1404.5170 | she did the referral and I went to get the colonoscopy. | 1407.6894 |
1352 | | 1409.4591 | And, um, | 1410.1651 |
1354 | | 1410.8182 | the doctor told me, he said, | 1412.5833 |
1356 | | 1413.5614 | uh, we're gonna have to do | 1415.4676 |
1358 | | 1415.6700 | some surgery. | 1416.7525 |
1360 | | 1417.7681 | We found a mass | 1419.0671 |
1362 | | 1419.1942 | attached to your large intestine. | 1421.2605 |
1364 | | 1422.4136 | He said, but, I can't remove it. | 1424.5281 |
1366 | | 1424.6859 | He said if it was polyps, I can remove it. He said, but it's really big. He said, | 1429.2190 |
1368 | | 1429.8487 | it would tear the intestines [so], | 1431.8584 |
1369 | ROC_int_01 | 1431.7083 | [Hm.] | 1431.9719 |
1370 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1432.2896 | I'm gonna refer you to a surgeon. | 1434.2259 |
1372 | | 1434.9159 | I said, okay. I never had surgery in my life. | 1437.6202 |
1374 | | 1438.0764 | Didn't ever have medicine either and [I was] sixty-nine years old. | 1441.1447 |
1375 | ROC_int_01 | 1439.5965 | [Hm.] | 1439.8690 |
1376 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1442.1064 | So, | 1442.5906 |
1378 | | 1444.1181 | I said, well, | 1444.8399 |
1380 | | 1445.3065 | I don't know any surgeons. | 1446.7899 |
1382 | | 1447.5880 | He said, well, | 1448.3507 |
1384 | | 1449.3505 | I had- my wife had a good surgeon, | 1451.7359 |
1386 | | 1452.6764 | and I'll give you his name. He did. | 1454.5185 |
1388 | | 1455.2669 | And, I call and made the appointment. | 1457.3445 |
1390 | | 1457.9431 | They did a | 1458.8587 |
1392 | | 1459.5839 | biopsy, | 1460.5140 |
1394 | | 1461.5130 | and they did the l- | 1462.3598 |
1396 | | 1462.5887 | lab work. | 1463.5234 |
1398 | | 1464.3186 | And, | 1464.7785 |
1400 | | 1466.3841 | um, I went on and had the surgery. | 1468.7578 |
1402 | | 1469.9616 | And, | 1470.4150 |
1404 | | 1472.0128 | after, | 1472.7303 |
1406 | | 1472.9053 | um, | 1473.4830 |
1408 | | 1473.8176 | I found out | 1474.6319 |
1410 | | 1474.9004 | about the cancer, | 1476.0514 |
1412 | | 1477.6360 | the nurse practitioner told me | 1479.7577 |
1414 | | 1480.4708 | that | 1480.9594 |
1416 | | 1481.7186 | when they | 1482.2425 |
1418 | | 1482.5286 | removed the mass, | 1483.8887 |
1420 | | 1484.3778 | and opened it, | 1485.1961 |
1422 | | 1485.5723 | it was eighteen inches of cancer | 1487.9387 |
1424 | | 1488.3877 | growing inside that mass. | 1490.5182 |
1425 | ROC_int_01 | 1490.5930 | Mm. | 1491.0420 |
1426 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1491.3501 | That's why it didn't show on the biopsy, | 1494.2750 |
1428 | | 1494.8985 | and that's why it didn't show in the lab work. | 1497.1802 |
1430 | | 1497.7678 | It was concealed in a mass. | 1499.9027 |
1431 | ROC_int_01 | 1500.1052 | Hm. | 1500.3605 |
1432 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1502.0204 | [So,] | 1502.4474 |
1433 | ROC_int_01 | 1502.0204 | Yeah. | 1502.2405 |
1434 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1503.1247 | I tell everybody that story because, | 1505.5033 |
1436 | | 1507.3504 | not all the time | 1508.8008 |
1438 | | 1509.0869 | it will show. | 1509.9012 |
1440 | | 1510.9405 | Cause, | 1511.1958 |
1442 | | 1511.4071 | and- and if I'd've waited another two years, | 1513.4496 |
1444 | | 1514.0922 | they said I'd've been dead. | 1515.2652 |
1446 | | 1516.3129 | So, they- | 1516.9335 |
1448 | | 1517.3165 | Doctor Chang was his name. Vincent Chang. | 1519.8474 |
1450 | | 1520.2546 | He did the surgery. | 1521.5128 |
1452 | | 1522.0989 | He- | 1522.4423 |
1454 | | 1522.7284 | he cut | 1523.4371 |
1456 | | 1525.1220 | three feet | 1525.9373 |
1458 | | 1526.3303 | of my | 1526.9739 |
1460 | | 1527.2072 | large intestine | 1528.3692 |
1462 | | 1528.8337 | out of my stomach. | 1530.0375 |
1464 | | 1531.2712 | And, he redirected my bowels so I didn't have to wear the sack. | 1534.9379 |
1465 | ROC_int_01 | 1535.6387 | Yeah. | 1536.0217 |
1466 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1536.1405 | I'm forever grateful to him. | 1537.6900 |
1468 | | 1538.9334 | So, that's- that's my story. I'm been through a lot. | 1541.8649 |
1469 | ROC_int_01 | 1541.9970 | Mm-hm. | 1542.5957 |
1470 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1543.1136 | Three years ago, | 1544.2801 |
1472 | | 1544.4650 | um, | 1545.0284 |
1474 | | 1545.8075 | my son was scraping paint | 1547.5506 |
1476 | | 1548.6161 | in the bathroom. He was getting ready to paint | 1550.7906 |
1478 | | 1551.3102 | the bathroom and he's getting all the old paint. | 1553.4706 |
1480 | | 1554.7757 | And, uh, | 1555.3156 |
1482 | | 1555.5724 | I went to | 1556.1467 |
1484 | | 1556.6056 | Home Depot to, um, | 1558.2761 |
1486 | | 1558.7691 | <ts> | 1558.8924 |
1488 | | 1559.6319 | make an exchange. | 1560.8336 |
1490 | | 1561.5381 | And, I thought, I'm this close to Marshall's. I'm not going right back home. [So, I'm out there in Marshall's and,] | 1567.2428 |
1491 | ROC_int_01 | 1565.1916 | [Mm-hm. <laugh>] | 1566.7587 |
1492 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1567.8876 | everywhere else I wanted to go. | 1569.6264 |
1494 | | 1570.2910 | And, when I got home, I had a note | 1572.0782 |
1496 | | 1572.1926 | from him and- | 1573.0285 |
1498 | | 1573.1511 | taped to the | 1573.9386 |
1500 | | 1574.2467 | bathroom | 1575.0787 |
1502 | | 1575.3994 | mirror. | 1575.9370 |
1504 | | 1576.5533 | He said, Ma, he said, | 1577.9398 |
1506 | | 1578.6248 | I made a mess, but I cleaned it up. He said, I'll be back tomorrow. He said, my new phone number and he put his new phone | 1585.0582 |
1508 | | 1585.5366 | number. | 1585.9253 |
1510 | | 1587.2291 | And, | 1587.6334 |
1512 | | 1587.9239 | so, I said, aw man, I just went up to get him a pie. I said, good thing Gladys was closed. | 1593.3197 |
1514 | | 1593.8721 | He loves sweet potato pie. | 1595.3379 |
1515 | ROC_int_01 | 1595.4743 | Hm. | 1595.7780 |
1516 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1596.2226 | He likes mine better. | 1597.5652 |
1518 | | 1599.4072 | So, | 1600.0279 |
1520 | | 1600.7762 | <ts> | 1600.8378 |
1522 | | 1601.5685 | n- about nine o'clock that night, | 1603.3204 |
1524 | | 1603.7606 | /RD-NAME-2/ call, | 1604.6783 |
1526 | | 1604.9971 | the girl that was just here. | 1606.3793 |
1528 | | 1608.1069 | Sh- that was his fiancee. | 1609.7664 |
1529 | ROC_int_01 | 1610.0041 | Mm-hm. | 1610.3650 |
1530 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1610.9567 | And, | 1611.4211 |
1532 | | 1612.0445 | she was crying. She said, boo-boo's not breathing. I can't get him to breathe. | 1616.2937 |
1534 | | 1616.6553 | Nine-One-One on the way. | 1618.2399 |
1536 | | 1618.9530 | And, I said, what? | 1620.1242 |
1538 | | 1621.2155 | So, | 1621.8142 |
1540 | | 1622.1553 | I had jumped out the bed, | 1623.7223 |
1542 | | 1624.9338 | and, I went over there and the street was full. I couldn't get in the street. She lived on /RD-ADDRESS-2/ [Street, off] | 1631.6704 |
1543 | ROC_int_01 | 1630.9683 | [Mm.] | 1631.3983 |
1544 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1631.9612 | Genesee Street. | 1633.2107 |
1546 | | 1633.6153 | <ts> | 1633.7253 |
1548 | | 1634.2359 | So, I found somebody driveway. I just pulled in they driveway. I didn't know who it was. (laughing) | 1639.7372 |
1550 | | 1640.7890 | And, I walked down to the house, | 1643.2532 |
1552 | | 1643.3721 | and I heard somebody say, | 1644.9202 |
1554 | | 1645.4880 | that's his mother, that's his mother. | 1647.2531 |
1556 | | 1648.0058 | So, the policeman took me in the backyard. | 1650.8196 |
1558 | | 1651.4535 | And I said, | 1652.1930 |
1560 | | 1652.5957 | why are you bringing me here? | 1654.0876 |
1562 | | 1654.8538 | I wanna see him. And, uh, | 1656.4957 |
1564 | | 1656.7113 | he said, | 1657.3716 |
1566 | | 1657.7149 | they're working on him now. | 1659.0399 |
1568 | | 1659.9488 | And, so, I said, oh okay. | 1661.6523 |
1570 | | 1662.4974 | So, | 1663.1137 |
1572 | | 1664.4870 | finally, the medical examiner got there, | 1667.3415 |
1574 | | 1668.0497 | and they told me, | 1669.1505 |
1576 | | 1669.8240 | that | 1670.2642 |
1578 | | 1670.6497 | he was dead. | 1671.5476 |
1579 | ROC_int_01 | 1672.2324 | [Hm.] | 1672.5443 |
1580 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1672.2827 | [He had] a massive heart attack. | 1674.2896 |
1581 | | 1675.0511 | He was fifty-three years old. | 1676.6138 |
1582 | ROC_int_01 | 1676.7304 | Wow. | 1676.9725 |
1583 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1678.4074 | And my husband had | 1679.7223 |
1585 | | 1680.1065 | his heart attack, he was forty-one. | 1682.5847 |
1587 | | 1684.0835 | And both of my sons were scared | 1686.2051 |
1589 | | 1686.6937 | when they got close to that age. | 1688.5425 |
1591 | | 1689.5855 | And, | 1690.0633 |
1593 | | 1690.2745 | when they passed that age, I guess they thought, oh I'm okay. | 1694.0463 |
1595 | | 1694.9822 | But, | 1695.3171 |
1597 | | 1695.9157 | that one got it. | 1697.1834 |
1599 | | 1697.3991 | And the younger one, he's fifty-four. | 1699.6088 |
1601 | | 1700.1304 | He's probably worried too. | 1701.6314 |
1603 | | 1702.4105 | But, I hope he | 1703.2983 |
1605 | | 1703.6460 | live a long time. | 1704.8578 |
1607 | | 1706.1771 | So, I've been through it. | 1707.2456 |
1608 | ROC_int_01 | 1707.5515 | Yeah. | 1708.1369 |
1609 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1708.4934 | And, my granddaughter, | 1709.8272 |
1611 | | 1710.7454 | she um, | 1711.6407 |
1613 | | 1712.6619 | she was born to my daughter when my daughter was | 1715.8598 |
1615 | | 1716.6499 | eighteen. | 1717.4642 |
1617 | | 1718.4830 | And my daughter walked away from her. | 1720.1999 |
1619 | | 1720.3936 | She was two weeks old. | 1721.8042 |
1620 | ROC_int_01 | 1722.1763 | Mm. | 1722.6077 |
1621 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1722.8498 | So, I had to | 1724.1460 |
1623 | | 1725.6514 | figure out what to do. | 1726.9059 |
1625 | | 1727.5706 | So, both of my sons said, | 1729.4224 |
1627 | | 1730.3019 | let's keep her. Let's take care of her. | 1732.5919 |
1629 | | 1733.5152 | I say, you guys in school. How we gonna do that? I gotta work. They said, we'll figure something out. | 1738.9512 |
1631 | | 1739.8652 | So, | 1740.4682 |
1633 | | 1740.7720 | I found a babysitter | 1742.2853 |
1635 | | 1742.4878 | she lived on School Street. | 1744.4158 |
1637 | | 1744.6227 | off North [Street, by] Portland Avenue. | 1747.3148 |
1638 | ROC_int_01 | 1745.6867 | [Mm.] | 1746.1712 |
1639 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1748.5204 | So, everyday, I had to drive over | 1750.9150 |
1641 | | 1751.7183 | to School Street from Jefferson Avenue, | 1754.2053 |
1643 | | 1755.5610 | drop her at the babysitter | 1757.0928 |
1645 | | 1757.8873 | and then drive out to Elmwood Avenue to work. | 1760.4668 |
1646 | ROC_int_01 | 1761.1270 | Wow. | 1761.6433 |
1647 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1762.1504 | Then, the lady told me that she couldn't babysit anymore, cause she was gonna start, | 1767.1904 |
1649 | | 1768.1604 | uh, | 1768.5374 |
1651 | | 1768.8350 | keeping | 1769.3626 |
1653 | | 1769.7148 | children | 1770.3243 |
1655 | | 1770.8157 | for the county. | 1771.8589 |
1657 | | 1772.8229 | So, she couldn't have | 1774.3148 |
1659 | | 1774.4824 | private | 1775.0811 |
1661 | | 1775.7105 | [kids] and county kids. | 1777.5526 |
1662 | ROC_int_01 | 1775.7105 | [Mm.] | 1776.1792 |
1663 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1778.1600 | I don't know if that was true or if she just didn't wanna do it anymore, but, | 1781.7035 |
1665 | | 1782.2690 | I said, okay. So at work | 1783.9857 |
1667 | | 1784.3286 | they told me | 1785.2196 |
1669 | | 1786.1333 | um, Monroe Developmental Center | 1788.1009 |
1671 | | 1788.8469 | had a daycare. | 1789.8946 |
1673 | | 1790.0795 | So, I went over there, and they- | 1791.8974 |
1675 | | 1792.2495 | they took her. | 1793.0287 |
1677 | | 1793.4474 | <ts> | 1793.5839 |
1679 | | 1793.6807 | So, she | 1794.2917 |
1681 | | 1794.9969 | did alright. | 1795.8081 |
1683 | | 1796.5551 | So, she's still- | 1797.4178 |
1685 | | 1797.6379 | she's not still with me. | 1799.2314 |
1687 | | 1799.6033 | But, her children are (laughing) still with [me. <laugh>] | 1803.0230 |
1688 | ROC_int_01 | 1802.0326 | [<laugh>] | 1803.1981 |
1689 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1804.4253 | She- um, | 1805.6490 |
1691 | | 1806.1680 | <ts> | 1806.2076 |
1693 | | 1806.3449 | she bought a house | 1807.4609 |
1695 | | 1807.7534 | on | 1808.1848 |
1697 | | 1808.2838 | /RD-ADDRESS-2/ Terrace. | 1809.6175 |
1699 | | 1810.9469 | But, I already had her | 1812.7014 |
1701 | | 1813.8692 | children. Her daughter | 1815.3086 |
1703 | | 1815.5771 | lived with me all her life. | 1817.3070 |
1705 | | 1817.5689 | She's twenty now. | 1818.6649 |
1707 | | 1819.8798 | And, she had | 1820.8702 |
1709 | | 1820.9979 | twins. | 1821.7374 |
1711 | | 1822.5517 | And, | 1823.0535 |
1713 | | 1823.2978 | they're | 1823.6235 |
1715 | | 1823.8612 | eleven now. | 1824.7522 |
1717 | | 1825.6967 | So, | 1826.0577 |
1719 | | 1826.5551 | she started working. She's a nurse but, she started working for a private group of doctors. | 1832.7593 |
1721 | | 1833.4958 | And she had to be to work like seven. | 1835.4433 |
1723 | | 1836.1652 | But the twins' bus didn't come til seven forty. | 1839.3037 |
1725 | | 1840.0233 | And they was in first grade. | 1841.5384 |
1727 | | 1841.7180 | She couldn't leave 'em standing at the door. | 1844.0799 |
1729 | | 1845.0712 | They didn't know how to lock the door. | 1846.7175 |
1730 | ROC_int_01 | 1846.8363 | [Hm.] | 1847.0520 |
1731 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1846.8803 | [She] couldn't leave 'em on the porch. | 1848.5261 |
1732 | | 1848.7071 | She couldn't lock the door and leave 'em on the porch. | 1850.8393 |
1734 | | 1851.4488 | So. I started going up there | 1853.3196 |
1736 | | 1854.3892 | and wait for the school bus. | 1855.9695 |
1738 | | 1856.6738 | And when they got on the school bus, | 1858.2034 |
1740 | | 1858.6260 | I come back home. | 1859.6648 |
1742 | | 1859.8013 | I get ready go to work. | 1861.1086 |
1744 | | 1862.7262 | So, I thought, | 1863.6021 |
1746 | | 1864.8831 | what if that school bus is late then I'm late for work? I would panic. I can't stand to be late. | 1870.1743 |
1748 | | 1870.5832 | I'm serious. | 1871.5824 |
1749 | ROC_int_01 | 1871.6011 | Mm-hm. | 1872.1371 |
1750 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1872.5640 | So, | 1873.0658 |
1752 | | 1873.8053 | <ts> I told her, I said, why don't | 1875.4472 |
1754 | | 1876.2773 | the twins come to my house, | 1878.4689 |
1756 | | 1879.1072 | go to school from my house and they just come home on the weekend? | 1882.5140 |
1758 | | 1883.1479 | Or, you come | 1883.9160 |
1760 | | 1884.5387 | down there on- spend the weekends or whatever. | 1886.9025 |
1762 | | 1887.5363 | So, that's what we agreed to do. And that lasted about a week. | 1890.5575 |
1764 | | 1890.7996 | <laugh> | 1891.1429 |
1766 | | 1891.4951 | She stopped coming down here, they stopped going up there. | 1894.6065 |
1768 | | 1894.9288 | They call this home. | 1896.0733 |
1770 | | 1896.2142 | They call that they mommy house. <laugh> | 1898.9531 |
1771 | ROC_int_01 | 1899.1556 | [Mm-hm.] | 1899.5738 |
1772 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1899.4901 | [So,] they still here | 1900.5838 |
1773 | | 1900.6895 | They're going- they're in sixth grade now. | 1902.4062 |
1775 | | 1903.4538 | So, | 1904.0348 |
1777 | | 1905.3575 | it works out fine. So, couple years ago, | 1908.2847 |
1779 | | 1908.7777 | she rented her house out | 1910.4365 |
1781 | | 1910.5774 | to | 1910.9603 |
1783 | | 1911.8407 | another family. | 1912.9727 |
1785 | | 1913.5049 | <ts> | 1913.6580 |
1787 | | 1914.1466 | And it | 1914.5295 |
1789 | | 1914.6924 | turned out to be | 1915.8369 |
1791 | | 1916.1362 | really good cause sh- | 1917.3048 |
1793 | | 1917.7890 | the person she rented to was a school nurse. | 1920.4080 |
1794 | ROC_int_01 | 1920.7250 | Mm. | 1920.9627 |
1795 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1921.4645 | And, | 1921.9003 |
1797 | | 1922.3184 | She's in the process of buying- | 1924.3545 |
1799 | | 1924.7608 | she's in a program where she can buy her own house. So, she needs about another year. | 1929.3309 |
1801 | | 1930.0593 | And it's working out fine. | 1931.4283 |
1802 | ROC_int_01 | 1931.9345 | Mm, that's good. | 1932.9839 |
1803 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1932.9839 | Yeah, it's working out fine. | 1934.3309 |
1804 | | 1934.8547 | The- | 1935.0440 |
1806 | | 1935.1540 | p- the family that's in there, | 1936.7720 |
1808 | | 1937.6172 | not the dude, but | 1939.0962 |
1810 | | 1939.7322 | the girl. | 1940.3704 |
1812 | | 1940.6346 | She's on section eight. | 1942.1444 |
1814 | | 1942.7166 | So, | 1943.1876 |
1816 | | 1943.5133 | that's | 1944.0445 |
1818 | | 1944.5125 | added income | 1945.5226 |
1820 | | 1946.1433 | for my granddaughter. | 1947.3362 |
1822 | | 1948.0405 | And, it gives her a really nice house to live in. | 1951.2934 |
1824 | | 1952.0401 | And, | 1952.5985 |
1826 | | 1953.3254 | my granddaughter benefits. | 1955.0408 |
1828 | | 1955.7112 | She gets the | 1956.6987 |
1830 | | 1957.1190 | rent check | 1957.9642 |
1832 | | 1958.7653 | and she pays her mortgage and the rest is free money for her. | 1962.4805 |
1834 | | 1962.6389 | Along with her- | 1963.4465 |
1836 | | 1964.1997 | She- she's a nurse at the /RD-WORK-2/ Health Center. | 1966.6331 |
1837 | ROC_int_01 | 1966.7872 | Mm. | 1967.1214 |
1838 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1967.4770 | So, she's doing okay. | 1968.7315 |
1840 | | 1969.1629 | But her kids are still here. | 1970.5494 |
1842 | | 1971.0358 | [And,] they don't wanna go home | 1972.4311 |
1843 | ROC_int_01 | 1971.0358 | [Mm.] | 1971.3175 |
1844 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1973.1266 | So, she said, um, | 1974.2955 |
1846 | | 1975.0922 | when the | 1975.6644 |
1848 | | 1975.9329 | lease is up, | 1976.9850 |
1850 | | 1978.2659 | uh, | 1978.7369 |
1852 | | 1979.3509 | they'll- it'll be good for them | 1980.8475 |
1854 | | 1980.9443 | so they'll have their own room. I said, okay, they moving back home? | 1984.3838 |
1856 | | 1984.5819 | She said, oh no. <laugh> | 1987.2841 |
1857 | ROC_int_01 | 1987.4117 | Best for them is it? [<laugh>] | 1989.5306 |
1858 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1988.5754 | [Yeah.] She said, oh when they come to visit, they'll have their own room. They don't wanna come back. (laughing) | 1993.5254 |
1859 | | 1993.7410 | They don't wanna live with me. | 1995.1090 |
1860 | ROC_int_01 | 1995.2851 | Mm-hm. | 1995.9190 |
1861 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 1995.9190 | Cause I asked one of them, I say, /RD-NAME-3/ if something happen I'm not here anymore, | 2000.2703 |
1862 | | 2001.3798 | what would you do? | 2002.2415 |
1864 | | 2003.0139 | Where would you live? | 2003.9251 |
1866 | | 2004.4665 | He said, in your garage. | 2005.7606 |
1868 | | 2005.8971 | <laugh> | 2007.0196 |
1870 | | 2007.8999 | That hurt my heart. | 2008.9651 |
1871 | ROC_int_01 | 2008.9651 | Mm. | 2009.4760 |
1872 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 2009.6848 | You w- | 2010.0809 |
1874 | | 2010.3186 | you wouldn't want to live with your mother? He said, no. | 2012.4975 |
1876 | | 2013.9061 | I said it's no bathroom in the garage. | 2016.0667 |
1878 | | 2016.4370 | He said I'd come in the house. | 2017.8059 |
1880 | | 2018.4354 | I said, what if some people live here and they don't want you in the m- | 2021.3694 |
1882 | | 2021.6819 | use they bathroom? | 2022.8352 |
1884 | | 2023.6935 | He said I'd go behind the garage. | 2025.3222 |
1886 | | 2025.8514 | I said, you can't shower behind the garage. You know, so, | 2029.2011 |
1888 | | 2029.6478 | I said, we'll- we'll talk about this. We need to talk about this [a little bit] more. You know, so, | 2034.7983 |
1889 | ROC_int_01 | 2032.9255 | [Mm-hm.] | 2033.5130 |
1890 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 2035.7553 | they're okay. | 2036.4683 |
1891 | ROC_int_01 | 2037.3751 | Yeah. | 2037.6216 |
1892 | ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 | 2038.0794 | They're okay. | 2038.7793 |