Line Spkr StTime Content EnTime 1 DCB_int_01 0.5258 And where were you born? 1.6485 2 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2.1386 I lived in DC but I was born in Prince George's County. 5.4333 3 DCB_int_01 5.4253 Okay, so you were born in 6.7253 4 DCB_int_01 7.6463 Prince George's but you grew up in DC. 10.0314 5 DCB_int_01 10.0314 (pause 0.52) 10.5529 6 DCB_int_01 10.5529 In what neighborhood? 11.4476 7 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 11.9416 Um, Langston Place. 13.5708 8 DCB_int_01 13.5597 Mm. 13.8437 9 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 14.3547 [Formerly known as Woodland.] 15.9667 10 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 14.3707 [/inaudible/.] 16.0992 11 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 16.6530 Huh? 17.0023 12 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 17.1732 You got a neighborhood, 18.3399 13 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 18.3399 (pause 0.20) 18.5378 14 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 18.5378 /inaudible/ [/That's Woodland./] 20.5138 15 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 19.3142 [No.] 20.0115 16 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 21.2603 [It's cool she] /wouldn't/ hear about them girl gangs and stuff. 23.8270 17 DCB_int_01 21.2843 [Um-] 21.7163 18 DCB_int_01 23.8615 What- how long have you lived in DC? 26.0082 19 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 26.1426 Um, 26.9066 20 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 26.9066 (pause 1.65) 28.5609 21 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 28.5609 I'm twenty-five, so, for twenty-three years. 31.0861 22 DCB_int_01 31.0901 Twenty-three years. 31.8807 23 DCB_int_01 31.8807 (pause 0.60) 32.4827 24 DCB_int_01 32.4827 Where'd you live the other two years? 33.5912 25 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 33.5765 Germany for two years. 34.7535 26 DCB_int_01 35.1692 Huh. 35.5319 27 DCB_int_01 35.5319 (pause 0.55) 36.0776 28 DCB_int_01 36.0776 How'd you get to Germany? 37.0883 29 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 37.0821 My father's in the [military.] 38.4314 30 DCB_int_01 38.3547 [Mm.] 38.6960 31 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 38.7509 [Yeah.] 39.0870 32 DCB_int_01 38.9790 [I] thought so. 39.6896 33 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 39.7886 40.1207 34 DCB_int_01 40.4849 Where'd you go to school? 41.2129 35 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 41.5974 Um, all the schools? 43.0574 36 DCB_int_01 43.1341 Mm-hm. 43.5488 37 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 43.6303 Elementary /RD-SCHOOL-7/. 46.8273 38 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 46.8273 (pause 1.59) 48.4178 39 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 48.4178 Uh, for middle school /RD-SCHOOL-2/, 50.2484 40 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 50.3827 /They ain't gonna remember ?/. 51.6747 41 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 51.8646 and for high school /RD-SCHOOL-4/. 54.8340 42 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 54.7099 I don't remember [that.] 55.5714 43 DCB_int_01 55.2782 Oh mm-hm. 56.0385 44 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 56.0465 And college. 57.2351 45 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 57.5044 Oh, and college /RD-SCHOOL-3/. 59.5177 46 DCB_int_01 60.4778 Oh. 62.4546 47 DCB_int_01 62.4546 (pause 0.60) 63.0510 48 DCB_int_01 63.0510 My girlfriend just graduated from /RD-SCHOOL-3/ a coup- well not just, two years ago. 66.5993 49 DCB_int_01 66.5993 (pause 0.70) 67.3022 50 DCB_int_01 67.3022 Um, what do you do? 68.5475 51 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 68.9189 I'm a food service worker at /RD-WORK-9/. 72.7699 52 DCB_int_01 78.0456 What about your father and mom where were they born? 79.8825 53 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 80.2346 Mm- sh- my mother was born- I think she was born here. 84.6499 54 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 84.6499 (pause 0.28) 84.9300 55 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 84.9300 But she moved around a lot, and my dad was born in Mississippi. 87.7269 56 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 89.1332 [I like my baby hair with baby hair and afros. (singing)] 92.9102 57 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 90.7657 [] [Hey.] 94.4556 58 DCB_int_01 93.9967 [What about your] parents what do they do? 95.3573 59 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 95.6094 Um, my dad is- he's still in the military. 98.9790 60 DCB_int_01 98.9950 Mm. 99.3710 61 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 99.6565 Um, and he's a regional manager for Home Depot. 103.1938 62 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 103.1938 (pause 1.27) 104.4627 63 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 104.4627 [M-] 104.7894 64 DCB_int_01 104.4747 [Is he in] reserves? 105.4792 65 DCB_int_01 105.7966 Or is he [retired? No?] 107.0291 66 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 106.2568 [No, he was] in reserve but he just went back to [active.] Yeah. 109.5581 67 DCB_int_01 108.7299 [Oh.] 109.0352 68 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 110.2666 Um, and my mom is a retired government employee. 113.9660 69 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 122.7869 She was trying to [/inaudible/] 124.3390 70 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 124.0927 [No] I'm not. 124.7610 71 DCB_int_01 125.8935 So- 126.2202 72 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 126.1857 That's my thinking, like I'm really trying to think. [] 129.7953 73 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 127.8384 [/inaudible/ ] 129.9154 74 DCB_int_01 130.2328 So tell me about, um, 132.1817 75 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 132.2377 [/inaudible/] 134.2666 76 DCB_int_01 133.3422 [your youngest] memory like your first- do you remember your first home 136.6530 77 DCB_int_01 137.2612 um, or your first- like, growing up in DC, tell me about it. 140.6279 78 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 140.6068 My first home I would say was around- 144.2577 79 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 145.8785 What was the name of them apartments? 147.2105 80 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 147.2105 (pause 1.75) 148.9611 81 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 148.9611 I cannot remember the name of the apartments. 150.8620 82 DCB_int_01 151.0981 But just [describe 'em.] 151.9825 83 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 151.4302 [But basically] it was like a real hood like people got shot 155.9015 84 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 156.1376 in the neighborhood, people were killed in the neighborhood, 158.4547 85 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 158.4547 (pause 0.32) 158.7749 86 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 158.7749 heard gunshots all the time, we weren't allowed to go outside. 161.8207 87 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 161.8207 (pause 0.81) 162.6259 88 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 162.6259 And things like that. 163.4863 89 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 163.4863 (pause 0.15) 163.6383 90 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 163.6383 I wanna remember the neighbor- this is like one of those neighborhoods everyone knows but I can't remember, so we lived around there for a while. 168.5900 91 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 168.5900 (pause 0.33) 168.9220 92 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 168.9220 Then my mom- I'm not sure why she moved I don't know if she got put out or she just wanted to move, 173.0131 93 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 173.0131 (pause 0.32) 173.3293 94 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 173.3293 I just know we packed up all our things put it into storage and we moved with my grandmother in 177.1230 95 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 177.1230 (pause 0.24) 177.3671 96 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 177.3671 Woodland, which is Langston Place. 179.4569 97 DCB_int_01 179.7735 Mm-hm. 180.2588 98 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 180.8180 And 181.5140 99 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 181.5140 (pause 0.18) 181.6984 100 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 181.6984 we lived around /RD-ADDRESS-3/ 183.0237 101 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 183.0237 (pause 0.91) 183.9326 102 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 183.9326 for a long time probably about ten years then my mom got a house, 187.3176 103 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 187.3176 (pause 0.83) 188.1466 104 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 188.1466 um, 188.6266 105 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 188.6266 (pause 0.28) 188.9069 106 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 188.9069 cause my dad had left. 189.9923 107 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 189.9923 (pause 0.23) 190.2208 108 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 190.2208 My dad had left and 191.2813 109 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 191.2813 (pause 0.38) 191.6614 110 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 191.6614 he was 192.3577 111 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 192.3577 (pause 0.68) 193.0421 112 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 193.0421 probably in another country somewhere, but them two weren't getting along and my mom was still pregnant with his- 196.8891 113 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 196.8891 (pause 0.32) 197.2052 114 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 197.2052 they had a baby- she was pregnant but they weren't /unintelligible/ so she got pregnant with my 200.5788 115 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 200.5788 (pause 0.38) 200.9630 116 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 200.9630 brother but they were broken up. So he was 203.1972 117 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 203.1972 (pause 0.84) 204.0336 118 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 204.0336 out of the country my mom is just 205.4403 119 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 205.4403 (pause 0.12) 205.5623 120 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 205.5623 taking care of us, th- herself. 207.1703 121 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 207.1703 (pause 0.30) 207.4672 122 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 207.4672 And, then- 208.2475 123 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 208.2475 (pause 0.74) 208.9851 124 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 208.9851 we li- we moved in a house on Massachusetts Avenue, we stayed there for about 212.8629 125 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 212.8629 (pause 0.48) 213.3471 126 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 213.3471 seven years. 214.4556 127 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 214.4556 (pause 0.36) 214.8130 128 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 214.8130 I know she got put out of that. It was like, um, 217.0397 129 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 217.0397 (pause 0.43) 217.4743 130 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 217.4743 yeah so we had to move back to /RD-SCHOOL-2/ with my grandmother. 219.8476 131 DCB_int_01 221.5254 Are your- 222.0374 132 DCB_int_01 222.0374 (pause 0.56) 222.5979 133 DCB_int_01 222.5979 so wait how many siblings do you have? 223.9885 134 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 223.9767 I have two older sisters and one little brother. 226.1198 135 DCB_int_01 226.3808 Okay. 226.8582 136 DCB_int_01 226.8582 (pause 0.18) 227.0411 137 DCB_int_01 227.0411 [And did you] all live together? 228.2531 138 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 227.0531 [/That's-/] 227.4091 139 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 228.5899 Yes, um, 230.2037 140 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 230.2037 (pause 0.16) 230.3667 141 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 230.3667 yeah we did. 231.1509 142 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 231.1509 (pause 0.12) 231.2751 143 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 231.2751 My 231.8711 144 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 231.8711 (pause 0.25) 232.1207 145 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 232.1207 s- okay I have a older sister that's- 234.2497 146 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 234.2497 (pause 0.46) 234.7099 147 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 234.7099 she's about eight years older than me. 236.8219 148 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 236.8219 (pause 0.60) 237.4204 149 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 237.4204 And I have another sister that's six years older than me. My sister that's six years older than me she was like one of those like trouble kids. 243.3393 150 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 243.3393 (pause 0.55) 243.8926 151 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 243.8926 So it was like every time she'd get in trouble my mom would say, okay, you gotta go to your grandmother's, so she's just like back and forth. 248.5548 152 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 248.5548 (pause 0.77) 249.3231 153 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 249.3231 That was about it, other than that yeah we all lived together. 251.1812 154 DCB_int_01 251.9336 Um, 252.4336 155 DCB_int_01 252.4336 (pause 0.67) 253.1061 156 DCB_int_01 253.1061 so what- 253.6954 157 DCB_int_01 253.6954 (pause 0.33) 254.0265 158 DCB_int_01 254.0265 okay so you said you didn't play outside so what did you do as a kid like [growing up-] 257.7544 159 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 257.2732 [Played with my sisters.] 258.1865 160 DCB_int_01 258.4098 In the [house?] 258.9900 161 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 258.7179 [Yeah] in the house. Mm-hm. 259.8704 162 DCB_int_01 260.2866 So outside did you ever feel like 262.1173 163 DCB_int_01 262.1173 (pause 0.18) 262.3008 164 DCB_int_01 262.3008 there was a point where you were going to get hurt? 264.3377 165 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 264.5258 Once we moved to Woodland which is strange she had- that's when she allowed us to go outside though, 268.1995 166 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 268.1995 (pause 0.17) 268.3648 167 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 268.3648 around Woodland cause we had family members that lived around there. 271.4463 168 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 271.4463 (pause 0.56) 272.0105 169 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 272.0105 So Woodland was like a 273.1390 170 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 273.1390 (pause 0.38) 273.5152 171 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 273.5152 I had my aunt, uncles, all lived there before they all branched off and moved to like Maryland 278.6872 172 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 278.6872 (pause 0.18) 278.8709 173 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 278.8709 and other places. 279.7829 174 DCB_int_01 279.8126 So you were safe in [an unsafe] neighborhood because you had [people-] 283.7904 175 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 281.2332 [Woodland.] 281.8612 176 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 281.8612 (pause 1.79) 283.6503 177 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 283.6503 [People] yeah, because these were people that we'd known, like e- although it was a very unsafe neighborhood it was just like, 288.7167 178 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 289.1181 it was more familiar. Like, we knew these people they wouldn't hurt us and things like that. They did things to other people but they wouldn't do it to us. 294.9673 179 DCB_int_01 295.5223 Gotcha. 296.1076 180 DCB_int_01 296.1076 (pause 0.18) 296.2826 181 DCB_int_01 296.2826 So what about elementary school? 297.8652 182 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 298.2008 [Um-] 298.9727 183 DCB_int_01 298.4609 [Do you remember] a lot about elementary school? 300.0449 184 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 300.3537 My first elementary school was /RD-SCHOOL-4/, um, my grandmother was a teacher there, so 304.7433 185 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 304.7433 (pause 0.49) 305.2372 186 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 305.2372 she took us back and forth to /RD-SCHOOL-4/. 307.8050 187 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 307.8050 (pause 0.92) 308.7228 188 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 308.7228 Um, 309.3992 189 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 309.3992 (pause 1.02) 310.4169 190 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 310.4169 that was in North- I think /RD-SCHOOL-4/'s in Northwest. 312.6297 191 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 312.6297 (pause 0.69) 313.3222 192 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 313.3222 I don't even know how I was able to go there because we lived in Southeast but I think because my grandmother, 317.7495 193 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 317.7495 (pause 0.45) 318.1977 194 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 318.1977 so yeah, but 319.2061 195 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 319.2061 (pause 0.48) 319.6864 196 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 319.6864 I don't remember much about /RD-SCHOOL-4/. 321.2711 197 DCB_int_01 321.4632 What about /RD-SCHOOL-2/? 322.2552 198 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 322.3608 /RD-SCHOOL-2/ I remember a lot, um, that's when the nine eleven 325.6421 199 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 325.6421 (pause 0.45) 326.0946 200 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 326.0946 happened so I remember being in class with that. 328.0555 201 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 328.0555 (pause 0.69) 328.7410 202 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 328.7410 School shut, my mom came and got me. 331.2623 203 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 331.2623 (pause 0.24) 331.4983 204 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 331.4983 I didn't know what was going on, 332.6423 205 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 332.6423 (pause 0.31) 332.9509 206 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 332.9509 and I think as a child and probably now it was just like, okay. 336.7073 207 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 336.7073 (pause 0.62) 337.3262 208 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 337.3262 Somebody- I- I was just always nonchalant about it like, okay somebody just 340.6260 209 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 340.6260 (pause 0.46) 341.0812 210 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 341.0812 took a plane and, 341.9225 211 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 341.9225 (pause 0.31) 342.2337 212 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 342.2337 like I was never sad about it like, I don't know [why but-] 344.8949 213 DCB_int_01 344.3187 [Mm.] 344.7973 214 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 345.7073 I guess I didn't- because it was no one that I knew. 348.0736 215 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 348.0736 (pause 0.47) 348.5458 216 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 348.5458 It was just like another current event on the news, so. 350.8949 217 DCB_int_01 350.8820 And you were like eleven, right? [So it wasn't a-] 353.4043 218 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 352.3358 [Yeah so it was just like] 353.6604 219 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 353.9966 I saw everybody else saying thing- things like that was just like, 356.6099 220 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 356.6099 (pause 0.77) 357.3834 221 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 357.3834 what was your rush for coming to get me like, we were [playing in school, like, like, some-] 362.3813 222 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 359.2362 [ /inaudible/ so out of] control. 363.0736 223 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 363.0792 So. 363.5325 224 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 363.5325 (pause 0.21) 363.7395 225 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 363.7395 But I'm [still like that to this day like,] 365.6242 226 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 364.2424 [/unintelligible/] 364.7217 227 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 364.9864 [/I was gonna/] say that. 366.2047 228 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 366.2367 I don't know why I'm like that but it's just- 367.9175 229 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 367.9175 (pause 0.93) 368.8511 230 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 368.8511 Things that everybody else can be crying about, I'm like, girl, like, it's not that serious, like, 372.9970 231 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 372.9970 (pause 0.48) 373.4772 232 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 373.4772 so. 373.8574 233 DCB_int_01 373.9175 Have anything like really just shaken you to the core like- and- and- and you don't have to share if you don't [want to but like] something that's just like, 380.1255 234 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 378.5448 [Uh-huh.] 379.0061 235 DCB_int_01 380.3977 messed you all up emotion like, I just can't, this is too much? 383.4403 236 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 383.4465 I would sa- n- I still wasn't messed up to the- but I was like- I would say like the- the most that ever hit me 388.6741 237 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 388.6741 (pause 0.50) 389.1722 238 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 389.1722 was /RD-NAME-2/ passing away like I've been- 391.9882 239 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 391.9882 (pause 0.29) 392.2736 240 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 392.2736 I've been molested before and it still- when that happened I was just like, 395.0361 241 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 395.0361 (pause 1.94) 396.9810 242 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 396.9810 okay, like, 398.0370 243 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 398.0370 (pause 0.19) 398.2308 244 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 398.2308 he did this, okay what's next? And that was it. But I wasn't like, oh my god, like, my world's ruined and- no. 403.8454 245 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 403.8454 (pause 0.43) 404.2776 246 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 404.2776 Never was like that. 404.9976 247 DCB_int_01 405.3593 Mm. 405.7914 248 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 406.2998 So. 406.7118 249 DCB_int_01 407.4003 Um, so I'll ask you- so okay, moving on to- to middle school then we'll come back, 411.7035 250 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 411.7355 Mm-hm. 412.1277 251 DCB_int_01 412.1557 um, but moving to middle school, you went to- I forgot what you s- which one. 415.9255 252 DCB_int_01 415.9255 (pause 1.01) 416.9311 253 DCB_int_01 416.9311 [] 418.6199 254 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 418.1957 [/RD-SCHOOL-2/.] 418.6277 255 DCB_int_01 418.7160 /RD-SCHOOL-2/. 419.2106 256 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 419.9806 [I hated going to /RD-SCHOOL-2/.] 421.0272 257 DCB_int_01 420.0086 [And high school?] 420.8206 258 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 420.7009 [/inaudible/] 423.0780 259 DCB_int_01 421.0170 [Okay.] 421.5717 260 DCB_int_01 422.0855 [Why did you hate going-] okay. 423.7472 261 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 423.7678 Because it was the neighborhood school and I wasn't supposed to go to /RD-SCHOOL-2/, I was supposed to- during this time my mom was getting- cause I had 429.8756 262 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 429.8756 (pause 0.32) 430.1997 263 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 430.1997 a niece 430.8824 264 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 430.8824 (pause 0.50) 431.3843 265 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 431.3843 and a brother they're the same age so my mom and my sister were pregnant at the same time. 434.4910 266 DCB_int_01 434.4789 Mm-hm. 434.8150 267 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 434.8671 And so 435.3578 268 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 435.3578 (pause 0.21) 435.5634 269 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 435.5634 my mom was trying to transfer all us to a private school so they- their scholarship had went through, they had started pro- my scholarship was still in the process so, 442.6840 270 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 442.6840 (pause 0.23) 442.9161 271 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 442.9161 she was like, you can just go to /RD-SCHOOL-2/ for one year and then the next year, 445.7654 272 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 445.7654 (pause 0.72) 446.4817 273 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 446.4817 um, 447.0310 274 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 447.0310 (pause 0.34) 447.3714 275 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 447.3714 we'll c- 448.1037 276 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 448.1037 (pause 0.22) 448.3253 277 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 448.3253 continue doing the /payment/ so you can go, and I was like, I don't wanna go to school, this is a neighborhood school, like, 452.7338 278 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 452.7338 (pause 0.55) 453.2873 279 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 453.2873 I- 453.5514 280 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 453.5514 (pause 0.09) 453.6395 281 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 453.6395 the kids were rough to me like, you know, I didn't know how it was gonna go but it ended up being a great experience. 458.3857 282 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 458.3857 (pause 0.24) 458.6276 283 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 458.6276 Like in the beginning I was like, I don't wanna go to this school, but my mom was like, well there's no other options, but I ended up loving it. But in the beginning I was like, I don't wanna go to this school. 465.3233 284 DCB_int_01 465.7115 Why? 466.1837 285 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 466.8280 Cause it was neighborhoods like w- they were rough, [] like, I didn't wanna go there. 471.3553 286 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 468.7009 [/inaudible/] 469.8356 287 DCB_int_01 471.3473 But no- but I mean why did it [end up being- embracing] the [experience?] 473.9751 288 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 472.2358 [Oh why'd I li-] 473.0264 289 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 473.0264 (pause 0.74) 473.7685 290 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 473.7685 [I think] because it was so hood. 475.2831 291 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 475.4612 [] 479.4630 292 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 475.7254 [] 478.4230 293 DCB_int_01 476.1628 [] 478.5799 294 DCB_int_01 479.0721 [I ain't like it] because it was hood but it was great because it was [hood.] 481.3635 295 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 481.2211 [Right, you know how you- 482.2851 296 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 482.6298 like it- I- my- my childhood was, uh, it was like- 485.5138 297 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 485.5138 (pause 0.15) 485.6644 298 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 485.6644 [My mom- and it's- it's like] I am now with my sons like, I live in a hood, but it's like 489.0938 299 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 485.6644 [] 486.8911 300 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 489.3714 you try your best to 490.7440 301 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 491.2282 Branch out to [the-] 492.2402 302 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 492.0126 [No], you try your best to pr- cause I have two others- I m- I have two sons. [They're five and seven.] 496.0762 303 DCB_int_01 495.4034 [Mm.] 495.8356 304 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 496.3958 So you try your best to like, protect them from that. 498.7849 305 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 498.7849 (pause 0.29) 499.0771 306 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 499.0771 Like although my kids in the hood, 500.3777 307 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 500.3777 (pause 0.20) 500.5818 308 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 500.5818 I- 500.9311 309 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 500.9311 (pause 0.29) 501.2193 310 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 501.2193 they don't feel like they're in the hood. [So that was] my mom's thing like, we're in the hood but 505.3052 311 DCB_int_01 503.0441 [Mm.] 503.4763 312 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 505.5773 you don't have to- 506.5831 313 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 506.5831 (pause 0.18) 506.7609 314 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 506.7609 I'm not gonna treat you like you're in the hood, you don't have to talk like this, you know so, it's just like, although we in the hood I try my best to like, 512.0177 315 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 512.0177 (pause 0.41) 512.4257 316 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 512.4257 still show you the nice part of life. 514.2197 317 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 514.2197 (pause 0.72) 514.9441 318 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 514.9441 So it was like that with my mom. 516.1894 319 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 516.1894 (pause 0.18) 516.3727 320 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 516.3727 So. 516.7489 321 DCB_int_01 516.7929 And when you say show them the ni- like what do you mean like how do [you-] 519.8004 322 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 519.4154 [Like] anything 520.9407 323 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 521.4003 a person making a hundred K a year, 523.4292 324 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 523.4292 (pause 0.28) 523.7134 325 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 523.7134 I'm able to do that. So I take them on trips, you know, I show them nice things I get 'em out here, 528.0417 326 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 528.0417 (pause 0.17) 528.2127 327 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 528.2127 I buy them nice clothes and stuff like that so you won't- 530.5698 328 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 530.5698 (pause 0.29) 530.8551 329 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 530.8551 there- there's always food on the table, there's always- 533.3511 330 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 533.3511 (pause 0.57) 533.9205 331 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 533.9205 Like I've been without electricity, um, 536.1654 332 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 536.1654 (pause 0.76) 536.9231 333 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 536.9231 that's a- 537.2753 334 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 537.2753 (pause 0.16) 537.4394 335 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 537.4394 that was another story. I don't even know if y'all know that. 539.2242 336 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 539.2242 (pause 0.36) 539.5884 337 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 539.5884 Okay my- I had a- I've been on my own since I was seventeen. 542.5710 338 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 542.5710 (pause 0.48) 543.0472 339 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 543.0472 Had my first place when I was eighteen. 544.4510 340 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 544.4510 (pause 0.34) 544.7920 341 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 544.7920 So I experienced having no lights 547.1771 342 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 547.1771 (pause 0.16) 547.3372 343 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 547.3372 in my- in my first apartment. 548.6258 344 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 548.6258 (pause 0.24) 548.8671 345 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 548.8671 I was like, oh no we're never gonna be there, no ma'am, my lights are never gonna get cut off again like that. 552.7568 346 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 552.7568 (pause 0.20) 552.9570 347 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 552.9570 So it was like things like that I don't ever wanna experience again. 555.1580 348 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 555.1580 (pause 0.36) 555.5147 349 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 555.5147 And like with my oldest son, we went like from house to house to house to house before and I was like, oh we're never gonna be without a house. 560.4137 350 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 560.4137 (pause 0.31) 560.7231 351 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 560.7231 And then it was like, 561.5644 352 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 561.5644 (pause 0.12) 561.6835 353 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 561.6835 I gotta make sure we always have our own place so it was like stuff like that. 564.2341 354 DCB_int_01 564.6569 I understa- my mom was 565.8982 355 DCB_int_01 565.8982 (pause 0.30) 566.1948 356 DCB_int_01 566.1948 um, a single parent [and we grew up] in the projects so I understand, and my mom was very much- she said she would go without 571.6733 357 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 567.3073 [Yeah.] 567.8620 358 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 571.9255 [Yeah.] 572.5348 359 DCB_int_01 572.0495 [so that we] could ha- so we would never know what it is to 574.4879 360 DCB_int_01 575.0521 eat, you know never know what it is to be [hungry, never know what] it is to- 578.3695 361 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 575.5043 [Mm-hm.] 576.1817 362 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 576.1817 (pause 0.84) 577.0250 363 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 577.0250 [Right.] 577.6837 364 DCB_int_01 578.6510 You okay? 579.1590 365 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 579.2713 Yeah I got charley horse. [] 582.7569 366 DCB_int_01 580.4278 [Oh yeah I kno- ooh, yes, um.] 582.8249 367 DCB_int_01 583.1011 So I- I [understand that], I understand you don't, you know. 585.4714 368 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 583.7174 [Uh-huh] 584.2587 369 DCB_int_01 585.6795 Um, so thinking about high school then, you moved to- 589.1611 370 DCB_int_01 589.1611 (pause 0.45) 589.6093 371 DCB_int_01 589.6093 you went to /RD-SCHOOL-4/, what was that experience like? 592.1773 372 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 592.3758 [Um], 593.2242 373 DCB_int_01 592.3758 [Where is it? Is it-] Where is [Math-] 593.9325 374 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 593.6964 [it's] in Northeast. 594.6689 375 DCB_int_01 594.6609 Okay. 594.9785 376 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 595.2812 Okay /RD-SCHOOL-4/- 597.2322 377 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 597.2322 (pause 0.66) 597.8956 378 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 597.8956 What year- what year is that when you're seventeen, is that eleventh or twelfth? 601.4086 379 DCB_int_01 602.2416 It [could be either] eleventh or twelfth depending on when you started school. 605.0306 380 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 602.4389 [Eleventh.] 602.9191 381 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 605.0521 Well I don't- 605.6615 382 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 605.6615 (pause 0.72) 606.3847 383 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 606.3847 Ninth and tenth was smooth, 607.7814 384 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 607.7814 (pause 0.13) 607.9094 385 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 607.9094 because that's when my moth- my mother was like very active in my life, like she did everything 611.5908 386 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 611.5908 (pause 0.27) 611.8645 387 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 611.8645 for me 612.6529 388 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 612.6529 (pause 0.12) 612.7769 389 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 612.7769 that [like-] 613.2211 390 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 613.0531 [You] was pregnant twelfth grade. 614.4520 391 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 614.5990 I know. 615.1630 392 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 615.1630 (pause 0.14) 615.3033 393 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 615.3033 But it's some stories lining up 616.6144 394 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 616.6760 [Oh.] 616.9401 395 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 616.7440 [before] we get to that. 618.0546 396 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 618.3287 So when I turned seventeen is when my mom got really really really really really sick. 622.2277 397 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 622.2277 (pause 0.27) 622.4999 398 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 622.4999 Like she wasn't supposed to make it past December of 625.0235 399 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 625.0235 (pause 1.36) 626.3857 400 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 626.3857 whatever that year was that I was seventeen. /Is/ [that two-thousand seven?] Yeah two-thousand seven. 630.0806 401 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 628.3598 [Two-thousand seven.] 629.0851 402 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 630.5488 So I was living with her and her husband in District Heights, 634.1557 403 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 634.1557 (pause 0.15) 634.3078 404 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 634.3078 they had a house. 635.0851 405 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 635.0851 (pause 0.45) 635.5324 406 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 635.5324 But me and her husband did not get along because 638.0564 407 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 638.0564 (pause 0.49) 638.5470 408 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 638.5470 I felt like he took advantage of her because she was very sick, 641.8895 409 DCB_int_01 642.1206 Mm. 642.5446 410 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 642.5128 and like would talk to her any type of way just do anything to her and things like that. 646.3230 411 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 646.6399 And my mother couldn't do anything on her own like she couldn't wipe her own butt, she couldn't 649.8398 412 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 649.8398 (pause 1.34) 651.1793 413 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 651.1793 clothe herself, she couldn't- nothing, like she had like the mind of a two year old she would just go in the kitchen, 655.5813 414 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 655.5813 (pause 0.16) 655.7454 415 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 655.7454 cut on the stove and 657.1094 416 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 657.1094 (pause 0.65) 657.7555 417 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 657.7555 like- and just walk away, and stuff be on the stove, like so you had to 660.8889 418 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 660.8889 (pause 0.10) 660.9850 419 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 660.9850 tend to her like a- all the time. 662.6624 420 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 662.6624 (pause 0.40) 663.0672 421 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 663.0672 So me and him had got into a heated- oh and then I was getting child support from my dad. 666.3535 422 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 666.3535 (pause 0.32) 666.6689 423 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 666.6689 My dad just disappeared after a while. 668.0811 424 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 668.0811 (pause 0.22) 668.2989 425 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 668.2989 But he- 668.6630 426 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 668.6630 (pause 0.18) 668.8431 427 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 668.8431 the child support was ending. 669.8231 428 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 669.8231 (pause 0.70) 670.5239 429 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 670.5239 And so I was like, you know, I need my money to take care of me like my mom can't take care of me and my child support so me and him got into it one day and he was like, well you gotta go. 677.4257 430 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 677.4257 (pause 0.39) 677.8205 431 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 677.8205 And like just put me out. 678.8178 432 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 678.8178 (pause 0.56) 679.3812 433 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 679.3812 And so, 680.2092 434 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 680.2092 (pause 0.38) 680.5870 435 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 680.5870 I'm still going to /RD-SCHOOL-4/, still going to school, so I end up moving with my aunt. 683.5804 436 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 683.5804 (pause 0.79) 684.3687 437 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 684.3687 And then I don't know what happened with me and my aunt, but that didn't work out either. 687.8513 438 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 687.8513 (pause 0.45) 688.3038 439 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 688.3038 So I moved from my aunt, I went to go- still going to school. 691.6093 440 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 691.6093 (pause 0.12) 691.7254 441 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 691.7254 I never dropped out, still going to school. 693.4594 442 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 693.4594 (pause 0.41) 693.8676 443 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 693.8676 And then I moved with my friend who lived around /RD-ADDRESS-2/, 696.9010 444 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 696.9010 (pause 0.44) 697.3412 445 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 697.3412 but by this time I did get pregnant. 699.0860 446 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 699.0860 (pause 1.33) 700.4158 447 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 700.4158 Um, who was I living with when I was pregnant? 702.9290 448 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 703.2371 Girl you got a lot of [living situations.] 705.0590 449 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 704.0547 [Wasn't it /RD-NAME-2/?] 705.0590 450 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 705.1272 Huh? 705.4806 451 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 705.6635 Was it /RD-NAME-2/? 706.4198 452 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 708.2167 I don't know who I was living with when I got pregnant, it could have been /RD-NAME-2/. 710.8896 453 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 710.8896 (pause 1.37) 712.2558 454 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 712.2558 I don't know, it was between, /when I was pregnant/, could have been with /RD-NAME-2/ but then it could have been my aunt /RD-NAME-3/. 716.1076 455 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 716.1076 (pause 0.45) 716.5590 456 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 716.5590 But I think both, but when I finally had him, 718.7735 457 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 718.7735 (pause 0.38) 719.1562 458 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 719.1562 I was w- living with my aunt /RD-NAME-3/. 721.0971 459 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 721.0971 (pause 0.46) 721.5573 460 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 721.5573 But it was like, I would sleep on the couch, my baby sleep on the couch, and was like this not gonna work, so I went back with /RD-NAME-2/. 726.4764 461 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 726.4764 (pause 0.62) 727.0931 462 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 727.0931 So I was still in school, so I finally had my son, graduated from high school, 730.2764 463 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 730.2764 (pause 1.00) 731.2722 464 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 731.2722 and then 731.8709 465 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 731.8709 (pause 0.43) 732.2967 466 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 732.2967 yeah. 732.7169 467 DCB_int_01 733.1811 So, 733.6211 468 DCB_int_01 733.6211 (pause 0.22) 733.8374 469 DCB_int_01 733.8374 do me a favor, move your mic to the middle [of your shirt. No because] you talk with your hands, 737.5804 470 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 735.3353 [Oh. ] 736.4599 471 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 737.5964 [Uh-huh.] 738.1364 472 DCB_int_01 737.7124 [that's fine], I just don't want you to- I don't want it to [hit you.] 740.0586 473 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 739.6133 [Right.] 740.2080 474 DCB_int_01 740.4017 Um, okay so you had your son, 742.1917 475 DCB_int_01 742.1917 (pause 0.32) 742.5159 476 DCB_int_01 742.5159 and then 743.1802 477 DCB_int_01 743.1802 (pause 0.36) 743.5444 478 DCB_int_01 743.5444 um, when- at what [point did you-] 745.0410 479 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 744.5088 [When I was going] to UDC too, once I had had him [then I /lived/ with my] aunt. Mm-hm. 748.1317 480 DCB_int_01 746.9432 [Okay you-] 747.5554 481 DCB_int_01 747.5554 (pause 0.55) 748.1077 482 DCB_int_01 748.1077 Okay so then 749.0041 483 DCB_int_01 749.1282 fr- how did you- 750.0455 484 DCB_int_01 750.0455 (pause 0.12) 750.1606 485 DCB_int_01 750.1606 kind of from high school did you go straight to UDC? 752.1576 486 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 752.1496 Mm-hm. 752.5269 487 DCB_int_01 752.7671 Okay. 753.1897 488 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 753.3714 So I went straight to UDC but I stopped after the second semester. 757.9380 489 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 757.9380 (pause 1.27) 759.2073 490 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 759.2073 Um, 759.9796 491 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 759.9796 (pause 0.50) 760.4839 492 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 760.4839 760.6239 493 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 760.6239 (pause 0.70) 761.3243 494 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 761.3243 um, my sister called me one day and was like, 764.0055 495 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 764.0055 (pause 0.31) 764.3176 496 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 764.3176 oh these people have a apartment listing opening up you should go try it out, and it was like, okay. 768.5088 497 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 768.5088 (pause 0.36) 768.8650 498 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 768.8650 So me and my friend /RD-NAME-2/ the girl that I was living with, we went to go put our name on the list. 772.6840 499 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 772.6840 (pause 0.94) 773.6284 500 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 773.6284 They end up calling me a week la- it was a quarter income, 775.7643 501 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 775.7643 (pause 0.31) 776.0695 502 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 776.0695 ended up calling me a week later and I got the apartment, um, 778.9001 503 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 778.9001 (pause 0.49) 779.3883 504 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 779.3883 I still wasn't working at this time, 781.1011 505 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 781.1011 (pause 0.64) 781.7414 506 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 781.7414 so it was just me and my son, I don't know what I was doing though. 784.3017 507 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 784.3017 (pause 2.30) 786.5968 508 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 786.5968 I don't know, but I ended up getting a job at Giant. 788.6685 509 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 788.6685 (pause 1.05) 789.7195 510 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 789.7195 So I was working at Giant, at this time my rent was only like twenty dollars. 793.9747 511 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 794.1068 Ooh, [/inaudible/] 795.2681 512 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 794.5470 [] 795.4874 513 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 795.8556 Like twenty dollars, um, 797.5701 514 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 797.5701 (pause 0.68) 798.2487 515 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 798.2487 this when I was 798.7769 516 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 798.7769 (pause 0.12) 798.8970 517 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 798.8970 getting food stamps, /??/, everything, like I was getting all the benefits, WIC, 803.5442 518 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 803.5442 (pause 0.40) 803.9485 519 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 803.9485 everything you name, I was 805.2131 520 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 805.2131 (pause 0.13) 805.3412 521 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 805.3412 getting every, all the benefits, but 806.9579 522 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 806.9579 (pause 0.45) 807.4074 523 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 807.4074 I didn't- I [know n- ] 808.2077 524 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 807.8556 [/inaudible/] 808.8796 525 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 808.4158 [no, then] sum- you know about summer jobs, the summer youth employment [program?] 811.5754 526 DCB_int_01 810.9930 [Mm-hm.] 811.5344 527 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 812.1988 That came around 813.2833 528 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 813.2833 (pause 0.50) 813.7875 529 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 813.7875 and I quit my- I quit my real job and I said okay I'm'a just see how this works because this is in a government building. 819.7670 530 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 819.7670 (pause 0.36) 820.1237 531 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 820.1237 This is a government position, I'm'a see how this work, everybody was like, No you're dumb, you're stupid, why would you quit your real job? 824.8579 532 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 824.8579 (pause 0.27) 825.1232 533 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 825.1232 So this was a summer job that's gonna be over by the end of the summer. 827.6619 534 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 827.6619 (pause 0.86) 828.5248 535 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 828.5248 And I was like, you know, 829.2972 536 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 829.2972 (pause 0.44) 829.7414 537 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 829.7414 if- if it's- 830.6578 538 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 830.6578 (pause 0.58) 831.2393 539 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 831.2393 I put in a two weeks notice and my boss told me if you need to come back, you can come back, you're /?/ what you supposed to do. 836.5537 540 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 836.5537 (pause 0.31) 836.8631 541 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 836.8631 So I tried the job out and it did end, 839.3683 542 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 839.3683 (pause 0.54) 839.9045 543 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 839.9045 but they ended up calling me back and they was like, okay you did so well want- we want you to come on by, and so I ended up getting a full time position 846.0604 544 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 846.0604 (pause 0.62) 846.6809 545 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 846.6809 at /RD-WORK-6/ so that worked out. 848.7751 546 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 848.7751 (pause 0.59) 849.3633 547 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 849.3633 Then my rent was no longer twenty dollars, my rent- 853.7894 548 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 852.1006 [] 854.2496 549 DCB_int_01 852.4728 [/It sure wasn't/.] 853.4612 550 DCB_int_01 853.9094 Amen. 854.4497 551 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 854.4749 my rent- 854.9003 552 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 854.9003 (pause 0.13) 855.0312 553 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 855.0312 I'm sorry. My rent was no longer twenty dollars, 857.4660 554 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 857.4660 (pause 0.53) 857.9966 555 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 857.9966 they cut me off of food stamps [um,] 860.4303 556 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 860.1708 [You got] the real life bills. 861.5754 557 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 861.6075 Yeah um, 863.4163 558 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 863.4163 (pause 0.66) 864.0806 559 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 864.0806 n- 864.2847 560 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 864.2847 (pause 0.20) 864.4808 561 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 864.4808 I- the only thing they allowed me to continue was Medicaid. 867.7235 562 DCB_int_01 868.0357 Mm-hm. 868.5479 563 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 868.6039 Yeah, and then two years later, 870.7999 564 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 870.7999 (pause 0.42) 871.2211 565 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 871.2211 no. 871.6331 566 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 871.6331 (pause 0.18) 871.8134 567 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 871.8134 Hold on, 872.2881 568 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 872.2881 (pause 0.33) 872.6218 569 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 872.6218 so after my oldest son was born I got pregnant again. 875.0161 570 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 875.0161 (pause 0.80) 875.8125 571 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 875.8125 I had abortion with 876.5688 572 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 876.5688 (pause 0.18) 876.7489 573 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 876.7489 the second baby. 877.7094 574 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 877.7094 (pause 0.53) 878.2416 575 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 878.2416 Then- 878.9656 576 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 878.9656 (pause 0.17) 879.1392 577 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 879.1392 no no no no. [] 882.1847 578 DCB_int_01 881.5564 [Okay, rewind.] We [going back.] 883.0771 579 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 882.5568 [Yeah rewind.] 883.2772 580 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 883.5613 Okay. 884.2213 581 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 884.2213 (pause 0.19) 884.4109 582 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 884.4109 Before my son was born I got pregnant. 886.9481 583 DCB_int_01 887.0041 Mm-hm. 887.3414 584 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 887.4243 I didn't have that baby. 888.4363 585 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 888.4363 (pause 0.18) 888.6209 586 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 888.6209 All this with the same man, I was with one- with this man for four- 890.9889 587 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 890.9889 (pause 0.43) 891.4154 588 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 891.4154 four almost five years. 892.7280 589 DCB_int_01 892.8400 Mm-hm. 893.2147 590 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 893.4483 So I was with him, got pregnant. 895.7534 591 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 895.7534 (pause 0.51) 896.2656 592 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 896.2656 Hold on, I met him in August, 898.0116 593 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 898.0116 (pause 0.41) 898.4198 594 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 898.4198 I got pregnant [by him in December,] 900.3012 595 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 899.0041 [/inaudible/] 900.9334 596 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 901.7414 I- I aborted that baby in December. I got- 904.6760 597 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 904.2237 [Who was that?] 904.8851 598 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 905.2562 Huh? 905.5736 599 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 905.7404 Who was that? 906.3551 600 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 906.6289 This was /RD-NAME-2/. 907.5702 601 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 907.6893 Oh. 908.1520 602 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 908.4709 909.1576 603 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 909.1576 (pause 0.69) 909.8436 604 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 909.8436 [] 910.4889 605 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 910.0757 [She know] her baby father [is girl.] 912.0597 606 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 911.3763 [] 912.1883 607 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 912.5368 I aborted that baby in December, 914.5848 608 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 914.5848 (pause 0.35) 914.9392 609 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 914.9392 Then I got pregnant again in Jan- the very the next month 917.2816 610 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 917.5644 /??/ 918.1286 611 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 918.0806 with my oldest son. 919.3593 612 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 919.6133 I had him in October, 921.4217 613 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 921.4217 (pause 0.97) 922.3878 614 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 922.3878 before my six weeks is up I was pregnant again 925.7807 615 DCB_int_01 926.1188 Okay. 926.6841 616 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 926.8031 /inaudible/ no judgement. 928.4599 617 DCB_int_01 928.7800 Mm-mm. 929.4253 618 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 929.6524 Oh, she don't wanna hear my [/inaudible/] 931.9135 619 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 930.9450 [I got pregnant again.] 932.3490 620 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 932.9139 I did not have that baby, 934.4118 621 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 934.4118 (pause 0.50) 934.9121 622 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 934.9121 and then I preg- got pregnant with my second son, 937.4452 623 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 937.4452 (pause 0.65) 938.0975 624 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 938.0975 938.2056 625 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 938.2056 (pause 0.11) 938.3136 626 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 938.3136 and 939.0032 627 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 939.0032 (pause 0.27) 939.2753 628 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 939.2753 I didn't wanna keep him but it- m- God was telling me like, if you have abortion, 943.6013 629 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 943.6013 (pause 0.36) 943.9655 630 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 943.9655 I'm gonna kill you. 945.0588 631 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 945.0588 (pause 0.09) 945.1472 632 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 945.1472 [You know what I'm saying like, like,] 948.3767 633 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 945.1753 [] 948.3072 634 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 948.6769 Did God physically say that? 950.1416 635 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 950.1896 Like I- 950.8819 636 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 950.9392 You [felt that?] 951.5554 637 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 951.1403 [/inaudible/] 951.7761 638 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 951.5194 [I] felt it like, I- that- that's another thing like, my mom has always like 955.2571 639 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 955.4132 brought us up in church /and though-/ and although we not li- her children aren't the most like 959.3963 640 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 959.3963 (pause 0.42) 959.8205 641 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 959.8205 religious people in the world it's just like, those things will never leave you. 963.1633 642 DCB_int_01 963.1312 Yup. 963.4379 643 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 963.4994 You know, so, 964.6287 644 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 964.6287 (pause 0.33) 964.9601 645 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 964.9601 it's just like, 965.7668 646 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 965.7668 (pause 0.38) 966.1446 647 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 966.1446 I did it once, God didn't do anything. 968.4538 648 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 968.4538 (pause 0.21) 968.6630 649 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 968.6630 I did it a second time, I'm like, he was like, you playing with me now like, 972.1322 650 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 972.1322 (pause 0.57) 972.7009 651 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 972.7009 you get this again something's gonna happen to you, so I was just like, okay /God just did it./ 976.6079 652 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 976.6079 (pause 0.31) 976.9161 653 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 976.9161 Then I ended up getting a birth control after my second son 979.1906 654 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 979.1906 (pause 0.26) 979.4532 655 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 979.4532 I was on that for five years. 980.8539 656 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 980.8539 (pause 0.40) 981.2553 657 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 981.2553 I was off my birth control for a week and then I got pregnant again. 983.7605 658 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 984.2767 [] 987.5337 659 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 984.2807 [] 985.1247 660 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 984.4076 [] 987.8023 661 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 986.3457 [] 987.6595 662 DCB_int_01 986.7231 [Mm.] 987.3177 663 DCB_int_01 987.9316 Okay, [you're fertile.] 989.1596 664 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 988.4318 [/inaudible/] 989.3425 665 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 989.5404 Very. 990.5017 666 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 990.5017 (pause 0.87) 991.3732 667 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 991.3732 Um, 992.0855 668 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 992.0855 (pause 1.29) 993.3714 669 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 993.3714 so I think I was out of college for about 996.8610 670 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 996.8610 (pause 0.32) 997.1811 671 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 997.1811 four years, 998.1304 672 DCB_int_01 998.1828 [Mm-hm.] 998.5950 673 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 998.2909 [cause that's] how long it took you to get- 999.4554 674 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 999.6435 you was in school for four years? 1000.7280 675 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1000.7280 (pause 0.40) 1001.1242 676 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1001.1242 I was out of college for four years, so as- as I was working at the job that I am now, 1004.4937 677 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1004.4937 (pause 0.49) 1004.9792 678 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1004.9792 this lady came to me and was like, have you ever considered 1007.6362 679 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1007.6362 (pause 0.29) 1007.9285 680 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1007.9285 like going to school, you know, going to get your bachelors, and I was like, no. 1011.3217 681 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1011.3217 (pause 0.30) 1011.6195 682 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1011.6195 And she was like, why? I was like, cause I believe- like, I'm a very hard worker, so I believe, like, 1015.5555 683 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1015.5555 (pause 0.22) 1015.7734 684 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1015.7734 if I do good at my job, 1017.1881 685 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1017.1881 (pause 0.23) 1017.4154 686 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1017.4154 I'm- I'm'a continue to get promoted and promoted and promoted and promoted, and she was like, honey, 1021.7832 687 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1021.7832 (pause 0.40) 1022.1828 688 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1022.1828 it doesn't work like that. Or whatever like, you have to 1025.1002 689 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1025.1002 (pause 0.34) 1025.4363 690 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1025.4363 have the education as well as the experience. So I was like, okay I guess I'll try it out. 1028.7458 691 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1028.7458 (pause 0.25) 1028.9952 692 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1028.9952 I didn't know who was gonna watch my kids while I was in school, I didn't know how I was gonna make it work but 1033.4092 693 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1033.4092 (pause 0.63) 1034.0347 694 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1034.0347 faith in God, was like just do it, step out on faith and you never know. 1037.5080 695 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1037.5080 (pause 1.40) 1038.9130 696 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1038.9130 And, um, 1039.6730 697 DCB_int_01 1040.6898 It's okay, it's my mom. She- we can- 1042.3398 698 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1042.4719 [] 1043.0612 699 DCB_int_01 1042.5319 [we can talk to her] later. 1043.6924 700 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1044.1206 So I enrolled in school, I didn't know who was gonna watch my kids but it was just like, 1047.5074 701 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1047.5074 (pause 0.26) 1047.7635 702 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1047.7635 people were coming out of anywh- everywhere like, oh I'll watch 'em 1050.6369 703 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1050.6369 (pause 0.21) 1050.8443 704 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1050.8443 fo- f- for this day, and I'll watch 'em for that day. 1053.3377 705 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1053.3377 (pause 0.17) 1053.5074 706 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1053.5074 So it all worked out and I'm 1054.7080 707 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1054.7080 (pause 0.17) 1054.8760 708 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1054.8760 graduating next year. 1055.8040 709 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1055.8040 (pause 0.24) 1056.0446 710 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1056.0446 So. 1056.2939 711 DCB_int_01 1056.2607 Well [congratulations, what's your degree] in? 1058.4954 712 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1057.1011 [Yes, thank you-] 1058.0464 713 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1058.6378 Um, 1059.1793 714 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1059.1793 (pause 0.22) 1059.3954 715 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1059.3954 business administration with human resource management, this is not what I wanna do with my life, though. 1063.4714 716 DCB_int_01 1064.7591 [Okay.] 1065.2884 717 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1064.9792 [So], it was just one of those things, I just needed to get in school just- 1067.7004 718 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1068.2727 just needed to go get a bachelors. 1069.3260 719 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1069.3260 (pause 0.35) 1069.6733 720 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1069.6733 Now I think I wanna be interior decorator but it's just like that's my plan B like, 1073.7777 721 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1073.7777 (pause 0.22) 1073.9966 722 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1073.9966 /although-/ 1074.4219 723 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1074.4219 (pause 0.16) 1074.5808 724 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1074.5808 n- no one can take my education away from me so I was just like, 1077.0782 725 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1077.0782 (pause 0.41) 1077.4914 726 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1077.4914 okay I'm'a just go get a degree in something, bam. 1079.9726 727 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1079.9726 (pause 0.42) 1080.3882 728 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1080.3882 /And, that's it/. 1081.2463 729 DCB_int_01 1081.5533 But that's a smart- I'm'a tell you why that's really smart. Human resources is always a necessary field right, [you can have no] company 1088.1696 730 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 1086.6249 [Yes it is.] 1087.5795 731 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1086.9090 [Mm-hm.] 1087.4612 732 DCB_int_01 1088.3709 and you don't have an HR department. 1090.1874 733 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1090.1917 Right. 1090.6399 734 DCB_int_01 1090.6439 So th- 1091.3323 735 DCB_int_01 1091.3323 (pause 0.14) 1091.4683 736 DCB_int_01 1091.4683 if nothing else, that's a great 1093.4923 737 DCB_int_01 1093.4923 (pause 0.42) 1093.9135 738 DCB_int_01 1093.9135 backup [plan, because it's- it's-] 1095.4474 739 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1094.4429 [Mm-hm.] 1095.0522 740 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1094.7991 [Everybody] needs [somebody in HR. They] always need [somebody in HR.] 1098.9656 741 DCB_int_01 1095.8396 [everybody needs HR.] 1096.9822 742 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1097.0721 [Right.] 1097.3801 743 DCB_int_01 1098.2567 [So], that's a great backup plan. 1100.4954 744 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1100.6870 No that was- yeah, that was one of the reasons why I didn't take school seriously at first because it's like 1105.9404 745 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1105.9404 (pause 0.37) 1106.3096 746 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1106.3096 I didn't wanna go to school for four years and 1108.4799 747 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1108.4799 (pause 0.16) 1108.6359 748 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1108.6359 it's not something that I really wanted to do, so it was just like, until I found out what I really wanted to do then /now I'm not going to/ school, so. 1114.3118 749 DCB_int_01 1116.0246 So how was college? 1117.2819 750 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1118.0495 Um, 1118.9509 751 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1118.9509 (pause 1.01) 1119.9636 752 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1119.9636 it's- 1120.4530 753 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1120.4530 (pause 0.23) 1120.6800 754 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1120.6800 I've been in school since two-thousand twelve, and I've never taken a break like, 1124.9739 755 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1124.9739 (pause 0.15) 1125.1232 756 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1125.1232 going on every semester. 1126.7338 757 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1126.7338 (pause 0.42) 1127.1562 758 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1127.1562 Um, 1127.7364 759 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1127.7364 (pause 1.09) 1128.8249 760 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1128.8249 it- in the beginning str- it was stressful but it's like /now/ a part of me like, 1132.9404 761 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1132.9404 (pause 0.42) 1133.3643 762 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1133.3643 like I'm not going to school this summer and I feel like a loser like, why am I n- 1137.8756 763 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1137.8756 (pause 0.53) 1138.4038 764 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1138.4038 I don't know what I'm gonna do with myself. 1140.1366 765 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1140.1366 (pause 0.36) 1140.4968 766 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1140.4968 And then I was talking to my sister, my sister said, no maybe you- maybe you needed this break. But only reason I'm not going to school this summer because they had no classes that I need. 1148.1536 767 DCB_int_01 1148.5257 [Mm.] 1148.9284 768 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1148.5870 [So they're] like, you know we have no classes for you this summer, that's the only thing you can do is sit out until fall semester. 1153.7163 769 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1154.0695 So it's like, I won't be working this summer, I won't be in school, and it's just like, I haven't done that in so long like, what am I gonna be doing? 1159.9135 770 DCB_int_01 1160.0735 Hanging out with the boys. 1161.3353 771 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1161.6635 And having a baby. 1162.6928 772 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1162.6800 I'm just one of those constructive people like I have to be doing something. 1165.9680 773 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1166.1736 I have to be doing something, like, so. 1168.2362 774 DCB_int_01 1168.5279 When is the baby due? 1169.4239 775 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1169.5964 In July. 1170.2007 776 DCB_int_01 1170.5528 July what? 1171.3808 777 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1171.5293 Fifteenth. 1172.1893 778 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1172.1893 (pause 0.91) 1173.1032 779 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1173.1032 [] 1174.0076 780 DCB_int_01 1173.2313 [My birthday's in July.] 1174.2806 781 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1174.2758 [Oh yeah?] 1174.8744 782 DCB_int_01 1174.4118 [If you could just wait] a couple [weeks /??/] 1175.7565 783 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1175.2762 [When your birthday at?] 1176.0522 784 DCB_int_01 1176.2807 Honey I understand that, you wanna give birth [as soon as possible.] 1178.8767 785 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1177.8574 [Yeah.] 1178.5041 786 DCB_int_01 1179.0232 Um, July twenty seventh. 1180.2165 787 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1180.4719 What s- what sign is that? 1181.5123 788 DCB_int_01 1181.9525 Leo. 1182.3672 789 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1182.5008 Le- oh. 1183.2968 790 DCB_int_01 1184.3016 Uh- 1184.5763 791 DCB_int_01 1184.5763 (pause 0.30) 1184.8751 792 DCB_int_01 1184.8751 ooh. 1185.1698 793 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1185.0512 Here we go. She ain't- she ain't /RD-NAME-1/'s yet? 1186.8805 794 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1185.7955 [/inaudible/ birthday?] 1188.2276 795 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 1186.8600 [Uh-uh.] 1187.8214 796 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1187.8845 [Mm.] 1188.3112 797 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 1188.3127 I'm trying to get her to do it but /Jessie/ can't do hers until six, so I- I don't know if she wanted to be [by five.] 1192.8244 798 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1191.9116 [Oh.] 1192.3343 799 DCB_int_01 1192.3278 [Oh.] 1192.7998 800 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 1192.9921 Now that'd be a interesting interview. 1194.7334 801 DCB_int_01 1195.0210 [So um,] 1196.5778 802 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1195.5653 [/inaudible/] 1197.1833 803 DCB_int_01 1196.7791 [okay] so let's talk about then 1198.8791 804 DCB_int_01 1199.2722 talk about- 1199.8682 805 DCB_int_01 1199.8682 (pause 0.86) 1200.7289 806 DCB_int_01 1200.7289 so okay, I know you're getting- you're- you're engaged now, so tell me a little about your fiance. 1205.1562 807 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1205.8645 So I was dating this guy, 1208.7819 808 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1208.7819 (pause 0.83) 1209.6167 809 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1209.6167 for seven months 1211.5674 810 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1211.5674 (pause 1.70) 1213.2652 811 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1213.2652 in two thousand fourteen. 1215.0860 812 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1215.0860 (pause 0.62) 1215.7075 813 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1215.7075 And he was like very like verbally abusive like, he would be like, oh you're not pretty, you're this, that, 1221.3553 814 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1221.3553 (pause 0.42) 1221.7755 815 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1221.7755 and all that so, 1223.1809 816 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1223.1809 (pause 0.49) 1223.6684 817 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1223.6684 I just knew that relationship wasn't work but it was just like one of those convenient things, okay, he's here for my rent, 1227.8116 818 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1227.8116 (pause 0.31) 1228.1237 819 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1228.1237 just gonna enjoy it 1229.2384 820 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1229.2384 (pause 0.19) 1229.4323 821 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1229.4323 and then go from there. 1230.3723 822 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1230.3723 (pause 0.70) 1231.0731 823 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1231.0731 We had all had a falling out. 1232.6704 824 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1232.6704 (pause 1.27) 1233.9396 825 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1233.9396 Um, after /RD-NAME-2/ passed away. 1235.8071 826 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1235.8071 (pause 0.27) 1236.0806 827 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1236.0806 Um, I don't know what the falling out was for but 1238.5950 828 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1238.5950 (pause 0.15) 1238.7471 829 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1238.7471 we decided to go out to the bar 1240.5159 830 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1240.5159 (pause 0.22) 1240.7320 831 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1240.7320 on H Street 1241.5493 832 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1241.5493 (pause 0.36) 1241.9045 833 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1241.9045 at Kong's so it was me /RD-NAME-3/, 1243.9175 834 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1243.9175 (pause 0.41) 1244.3296 835 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1244.3296 /RD-NAME-2/- 1245.0947 836 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1245.0947 (pause 0.74) 1245.8396 837 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1245.8396 that was it, right? 1246.4849 838 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1246.4849 (pause 0.21) 1246.6920 839 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1246.6920 And /RD-NAME-3/. 1247.2480 840 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1247.2480 (pause 0.74) 1247.9926 841 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1247.9926 And so I kept feeling this boy like, look at him he's- 1252.6037 842 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1252.1077 [And I moved my seat so y'all could see him.] 1254.5904 843 DCB_int_01 1252.4579 [] 1256.5250 844 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1253.4836 [] 1256.1448 845 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1256.5090 1257.3156 846 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1257.8016 So we- /RD-NAME-2/ the one you gonna meet, 1260.1955 847 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1260.1955 (pause 0.26) 1260.4600 848 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1260.4600 she's like- 1261.2724 849 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1261.2724 (pause 0.14) 1261.4164 850 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1261.4164 she was like, kirking off, I don't even know what she was kirking off on, 1264.4579 851 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1264.4579 (pause 0.21) 1264.6700 852 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1264.6700 the bartender was really nice, he was paying for the shots, it was just wonderful. 1268.0447 853 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1268.0447 (pause 0.53) 1268.5730 854 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1268.5730 So I see the guy walk in, 1270.2183 855 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1270.2183 (pause 0.40) 1270.6139 856 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1270.6139 like, oh he's cute. So- but once he sit down I'm like, I see him out of my corner of my eye. 1275.1132 857 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1275.1132 (pause 0.72) 1275.8376 858 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1275.8376 And so I don't know if he aks us what we drinking or did we aks him what he drinking, 1279.3302 859 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1279.3302 (pause 0.79) 1280.1168 860 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1280.1168 but it was like, 1280.7371 861 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1280.7371 (pause 0.20) 1280.9412 862 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1280.9412 and he was like, all I drink is Patron, and I was like, okay well, 1283.9145 863 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1283.9145 (pause 0.48) 1284.3920 864 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1284.3920 we- you know, let us get a shot of Patron. 1286.5210 865 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1286.5210 (pause 0.16) 1286.6850 866 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1286.6850 You know- yeah, so. 1287.9130 867 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1287.9130 (pause 0.91) 1288.8260 868 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1288.8260 I don't- and then he was there with his sister and I think his sister was like, my brother like- 1292.8771 869 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1292.8771 (pause 0.14) 1293.0132 870 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1293.0132 something happened. [Basically-] 1294.5292 871 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1294.0096 [I moved] seats so y'all two could sit [/inaudible/] 1296.5515 872 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1295.8437 [No I got up] honey. 1297.1637 873 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1297.3604 Well yeah you got up [/inaudible/] 1298.8371 874 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1298.1288 [] 1299.4734 875 DCB_int_01 1298.8731 [Mm.] 1299.4465 876 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1299.2373 [Cause] I was sitting beside him so I- him and his sister, so I end up moving- 1303.8325 877 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1304.0808 you know, I moved to the /?/ 1305.4447 878 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1305.5534 I don't know how it happened but [basically] 1307.4860 879 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1306.9688 [Mm-hm.] 1307.5926 880 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1307.8197 I got up, and I went down there with him and his sister and so we was just talking, I did tell him I had a boyfriend. 1312.9741 881 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1312.9741 (pause 0.26) 1313.2382 882 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1313.2382 /RD-NAME-3/ made sure that he knew that I had a boyfriend, 1316.1728 883 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1316.1728 (pause 0.50) 1316.6690 884 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1316.6690 she just kept saying, but you got a boyfriend like, why are you over talking to him? Like- [] 1322.0327 885 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1320.9923 [] 1322.0203 886 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1322.4889 But I knew that I was not happy and I knew that 1325.1634 887 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1325.1634 (pause 0.23) 1325.3955 888 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1325.3955 me and my boyfriend 1326.2959 889 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1326.2959 (pause 0.44) 1326.7401 890 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1326.7401 at the time was not gonna be a permanent thing, wasn't gonna be a long term thing so it was like, let me do me. Like, 1331.4663 891 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1331.4663 (pause 0.59) 1332.0598 892 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1332.0598 you know, and so me and him started talking- 1334.3302 893 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1334.3302 (pause 0.52) 1334.8531 894 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1334.8531 No no no no, we didn't start talking right then and there. 1336.9621 895 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1336.9621 (pause 0.44) 1337.3983 896 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1337.3983 We didn't start talking right then and there. 1338.8583 897 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1339.0163 Y'all started drinking. 1339.8042 898 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1340.1488 [ Yeah we was drinking] we was talking and all this other stuff. So we all left. 1343.7821 899 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1340.1968 [And /inaudible/] 1341.1568 900 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1345.0003 We left and went to this- 1346.2327 901 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1346.2327 (pause 0.45) 1346.6810 902 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1346.6810 this little fake party looking thing across the street. 1349.9210 903 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1349.9210 (pause 1.05) 1350.9722 904 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1350.9722 1352.2008 905 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1352.2008 (pause 0.40) 1352.6050 906 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1352.6050 So guess who was in the party. 1355.4195 907 DCB_int_01 1355.4195 Mm. 1356.2515 908 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1356.3880 And so this song was like, you make me wanna leave the one I'm with, [start a new- ] 1362.6393 909 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1359.4894 [ I remember that.] 1363.7350 910 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 1363.8086 I do too. 1364.7180 911 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1364.5970 [Start a new relationship.] 1366.5779 912 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1364.7020 [Start a new relationship with you.] 1367.3062 913 DCB_int_01 1366.6019 [Mm-hm.] 1367.3823 914 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1367.5156 So they go, /RD-NAME-3/ that's a sign. 1369.3796 915 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1369.3884 [] 1371.3704 916 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1369.7846 [] 1371.4595 917 DCB_int_01 1370.8891 [] 1372.9421 918 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1374.7962 Everything- (laughing) 1375.5365 919 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1376.0087 [Everything's a sign.] 1377.2687 920 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1376.0247 [everything's a sign] for her. 1377.9701 921 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1378.4819 So we're like, grooving and dancing, 1380.9762 922 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1380.9762 (pause 0.52) 1381.4965 923 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1381.4965 and stuff like that. 1382.7602 924 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1382.7602 (pause 0.29) 1383.0532 925 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1383.0532 /RD-NAME-3/ talking to one of his cousins, we're just dancing, 1386.3422 926 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1386.3422 (pause 0.19) 1386.5320 927 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1386.5320 and then you know we just- 1387.6446 928 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1387.7046 She [crazy.] 1388.3969 929 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1388.1768 [we] exchanged numbers and stuff like that. 1390.2603 930 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1390.5179 But it was like I- it felt weird that day because its like, okay I'll be right back- I don't know where I went but once I came back he was down there talking to another girl. 1397.2222 931 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1397.2222 (pause 0.71) 1397.9318 932 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1397.9318 I was looking at him like, what is this? 1399.6821 933 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1399.6821 (pause 0.65) 1400.3329 934 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1400.3329 So but 1400.9782 935 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1400.9782 (pause 0.17) 1401.1493 936 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1401.1493 he called me later on that day, he was like, no my sister- basically his sister had him out 1405.4883 937 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1405.4883 (pause 0.26) 1405.7486 938 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1405.7486 because she felt like he needed to talk to girls. 1408.2698 939 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1408.2698 (pause 0.34) 1408.6059 940 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1408.6059 Because he had broken up with some girl 1410.9122 941 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1410.9122 (pause 0.28) 1411.1883 942 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1411.1883 a while ago, so he just was messing with just 1413.2030 943 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1413.2030 (pause 1.03) 1414.2338 944 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1414.2338 I guess girls that he- she didn't think that he should be with. 1416.9475 945 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1416.9475 (pause 0.30) 1417.2444 946 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1417.2444 So she was like, I'm'a take you out and I'm'a hook you up with some girls, so [I was like, that's-] 1420.8056 947 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 1419.9736 [/That's dope/.] 1420.7283 948 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1420.9661 I was number one, 1422.1261 949 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1422.1261 (pause 0.78) 1422.9042 950 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1422.9042 the girl in the club was number two, 1424.3809 951 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 1424.5130 [] 1426.3778 952 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1424.6370 [and then I don't know who else- ] 1426.1577 953 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1426.5019 [whoever else he met that night.] 1427.7917 954 DCB_int_01 1426.5099 [] 1428.5120 955 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1428.5841 So, um, 1429.6161 956 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1429.6161 (pause 0.21) 1429.8286 957 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1429.8286 that was that. Our relationship moved really really really really really really fast though. 1433.3983 958 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1433.3983 (pause 0.43) 1433.8237 959 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1433.8237 Um, so, 1434.7882 960 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1434.7882 (pause 0.70) 1435.4845 961 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1435.4845 I met him in November, 1437.2093 962 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1437.2093 (pause 1.06) 1438.2698 963 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1438.2698 um, he started catching feelings, he was like, well /look, you gotta-/ 1441.4885 964 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1441.4885 (pause 0.50) 1441.9927 965 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1441.9927 I thought I could play the dude on the side, 1443.8656 966 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1443.8656 (pause 0.19) 1444.0577 967 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1444.0577 DC does that a lot, you know side chicks, side dudes. 1446.9963 968 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1446.9963 (pause 0.29) 1447.2844 969 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1447.2844 He was like, 1448.3249 970 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1448.3249 (pause 0.50) 1448.8291 971 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1448.8291 I thought I could be the, uh, side dude but I can't, you know, I got feelings for you, like so whatchu gonna do? 1453.7342 972 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1453.7342 (pause 0.74) 1454.4769 973 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1454.4769 I was like, 1455.1889 974 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1455.1889 (pause 0.66) 1455.8496 975 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1455.8496 well I'm'a work it out with my boyfriend because I don't really know you, like, so I sent him this real 1460.3169 976 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1460.3169 (pause 0.28) 1460.6010 977 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1460.6010 long text message and I was like you know, I'm sorry for [leading you on,] 1463.9838 978 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1463.2314 [/Exit/ message.] 1464.1861 979 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1464.6361 I'm sorry for leading you on, and all this other stuff. 1467.6100 980 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1467.6100 (pause 0.50) 1468.1097 981 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1468.1097 Um, because during this time we would go on like, multiple dates 1471.0163 982 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1471.0163 (pause 0.21) 1471.2284 983 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1471.2284 within one week. 1472.3278 984 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1472.3278 (pause 0.42) 1472.7451 985 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1472.7451 But it was just like, I'm cheating, like- Oh don't- I- I didn't- 1476.0449 986 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1476.0449 (pause 0.94) 1476.9883 987 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1476.9883 cheating ain't my thing, but I felt like that was- that was just- 1480.1094 988 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1480.1094 (pause 1.77) 1481.8837 989 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1481.8837 me and him was just not right for each other so /I'm just like, oh-/ oh I'm just gonna cheat, I don't care like, you know, so. 1487.3077 990 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1487.3077 (pause 0.48) 1487.7877 991 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1487.7877 So I was just like, you know, I can't do this no more, so he- he- basically he went off. 1492.1917 992 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1492.1917 (pause 0.47) 1492.6592 993 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1492.6592 No no no, I w- I talked to my friends I was like, who do y'all think I should let go? 1496.0876 994 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1496.0876 (pause 0.56) 1496.6433 995 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1496.6433 And so /RD-NAME-3/ was like, 1497.8607 996 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1497.8607 (pause 0.18) 1498.0413 997 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1498.0413 one day she'll be on team /RD-NAME-2/ side, and one day she'll be on team /RD-NAME-2/ side. 1502.4234 998 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1502.4234 (pause 0.28) 1502.6986 999 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1502.6986 /RD-NAME-3/ one day she be- 1504.0426 1000 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1504.0426 (pause 0.27) 1504.3170 1001 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1504.3170 Like I was like, I couldn't even go to my friends and ask them for advice like, who should I talk to? So I was just like, well I'm'a just try to make it work with him. 1508.9619 1002 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1508.9619 (pause 0.44) 1509.3987 1003 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1509.3987 So he- and I was like, if me and /RD-NAME-2/ don't work out, I'm'a knock on /RD-NAME-2/'s door, 1513.4165 1004 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 1513.9771 [] 1515.9222 1005 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1514.4165 [] 1515.9973 1006 DCB_int_01 1515.9935 That's that backup plan. 1517.1495 1007 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1517.1050 Yeah I was like, [I'm not gon- ] 1519.0801 1008 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1517.6608 [That's that side- that side-] 1519.1408 1009 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1519.6284 And I'm'a just see what he say. 1521.0964 1010 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1521.0964 (pause 0.33) 1521.4281 1011 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1521.4281 But he didn't take my farewell text message 1524.0228 1012 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1524.0228 (pause 0.35) 1524.3758 1013 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1524.3758 as- like I thought he would because I'm thinking, 1526.4572 1014 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1526.4572 (pause 0.23) 1526.6825 1015 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1526.6825 I just met you in November it's December like, 1528.2258 1016 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1528.2258 (pause 0.36) 1528.5863 1017 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1528.5863 m- b- dudes don't catch feelings like that, like why you so mad? 1531.2326 1018 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1531.2326 (pause 0.49) 1531.7266 1019 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1531.7266 So he didn't take it good, and I didn't- and then 1534.0359 1020 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1534.0359 (pause 0.09) 1534.1260 1021 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1534.1260 we stopped talking for about a couple of days but I like- I missed him like terribly like, 1538.0173 1022 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1538.0173 (pause 0.40) 1538.4153 1023 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1538.4153 I was like, oh my god, like, no more dates? 1540.5593 1024 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 1540.7847 [] 1542.4869 1025 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1541.3179 [] 1543.4219 1026 DCB_int_01 1542.7722 [] 1543.7856 1027 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1543.9813 No more like, falling asleep on the phone, 1546.1401 1028 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1546.1401 (pause 0.31) 1546.4521 1029 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1546.4521 /And then the fact-/ and then I wanted to know people like, 1548.1913 1030 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1548.1913 (pause 0.36) 1548.5523 1031 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1548.5523 how did I even have this much time to date you 1551.2897 1032 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1551.2897 (pause 0.25) 1551.5413 1033 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1551.5413 and talk to you this much and I had a full- 1553.2836 1034 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1553.2836 (pause 0.34) 1553.6264 1035 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1553.6264 a full boyfriend like how did I have this much time like, w- where are you? 1557.1185 1036 DCB_int_01 1557.3664 Mm. 1557.7930 1037 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1557.9221 But that wasn't a /??/ 1558.9594 1038 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1558.9594 (pause 0.71) 1559.6693 1039 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1559.6693 So, 1560.2506 1040 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1560.2506 (pause 0.52) 1560.7733 1041 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1560.7733 I- I was like, I'm just gonna make it work with /RD-NAME-2/. 1562.8866 1042 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1562.8866 (pause 0.65) 1563.5369 1043 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1563.5369 My car got a boot on it. 1565.1873 1044 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1565.1873 (pause 0.58) 1565.7685 1045 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1565.7685 Or whatever so, 1567.2961 1046 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1567.2961 (pause 0.47) 1567.7624 1047 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1567.7624 um, I called my boyfriend at the time, 1570.1356 1048 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1570.1356 (pause 0.61) 1570.7413 1049 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1570.7413 I was like, uh, my car has a boot on it, 1573.0018 1050 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1573.0018 (pause 0.21) 1573.2120 1051 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1573.2120 and it wasn't like a thing I was aksing for money, to help me or anything, he was like- and but he know I has two sons, 1577.8844 1052 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1577.8844 (pause 0.30) 1578.1810 1053 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1578.1810 and use- I use my car for everything. He was like, dang, you know, 1581.0273 1054 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1581.0273 (pause 0.86) 1581.8834 1055 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1581.8834 that's so sad to hear that, or something, he was like- basically that's what he said. 1584.9541 1056 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1584.9541 (pause 0.40) 1585.3504 1057 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1585.3504 So /RD-NAME-2/ ended up texting me and was like, um, 1588.3664 1058 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1588.3664 (pause 0.08) 1588.4494 1059 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1588.4494 how your morning going? I was like, It's going horribly, he was like, why? 1591.1155 1060 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1591.1155 (pause 0.30) 1591.4159 1061 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1591.4159 I was like, I w- walked outside and had a boot on my car. 1593.6999 1062 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1593.6999 (pause 0.59) 1594.2896 1063 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1594.2896 He was like, alright, well meet me at the station, 1596.4167 1064 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1596.4167 (pause 0.63) 1597.0495 1065 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1597.0495 or whatever, and I'm'a give you money to get the boot off your car. I'm like, I just met this dude like, a couple of weeks ago, and it's like, 1602.2537 1066 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1602.2537 (pause 0.59) 1602.8408 1067 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1602.8408 he's willing to help me and my own boyfriend's not willing to help me, like, 1606.0756 1068 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1606.0756 (pause 0.39) 1606.4692 1069 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1606.4692 it's time for me to- So after that I was like, yeah /RD-NAME-2/ we- we're- we're just not gonna work anymore. 1610.5633 1070 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1610.5633 (pause 0.59) 1611.1491 1071 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1611.1491 So- 1612.6285 1072 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1612.6285 (pause 0.31) 1612.9402 1073 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1612.9402 so I ended up going to team /RD-NAME-2/. 1614.6349 1074 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 1616.8465 [] 1618.5701 1075 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1618.0969 [/RD-NAME-2/] and /RD-NAME-2/ is two different type of men though, okay? 1620.7449 1076 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1621.4250 /RD-NAME-2/ was the 1622.6491 1077 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1622.6491 (pause 0.68) 1623.3288 1078 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1623.3288 on the right path type of guy like, 1625.7019 1079 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1625.7019 (pause 0.75) 1626.4566 1080 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1626.4566 1627.9255 1081 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1627.9255 (pause 0.94) 1628.8648 1082 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1628.8648 he had a nice little job and, 1631.0468 1083 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1631.0468 (pause 0.47) 1631.5195 1084 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1631.5195 you know, he come from a nice little family. 1634.1067 1085 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1634.1067 (pause 0.56) 1634.6636 1086 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1634.6636 He was like different from any other guy I ever talked to and like, and that- I think that was the reason I tried him out but he wasn't- 1639.6387 1087 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1639.6387 (pause 2.02) 1641.6565 1088 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1641.6565 he wasn't- it- we was like oil and vinegar we just didn't [mix, it was just] like, 1645.3150 1089 DCB_int_01 1644.0157 [Mix, mm-hm.] 1644.8931 1090 DCB_int_01 1645.4013 Yup. 1645.6760 1091 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1645.8669 [We- we too] from- 1647.1624 1092 DCB_int_01 1645.8932 [I know that feeling.] 1646.7892 1093 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1647.7557 d- [it just] didn't work. 1649.6837 1094 DCB_int_01 1648.3790 [Mm.] 1648.8444 1095 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1649.9685 And so /RD-NAME-2/ was just like, 1653.1265 1096 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1653.1265 (pause 0.37) 1653.4944 1097 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1653.4944 the hood boy. /You know, so-/ [] 1657.7162 1098 DCB_int_01 1657.0966 [/Alright/.] 1657.5579 1099 DCB_int_01 1657.9865 I understand. 1658.7338 1100 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1658.7713 So- [] 1660.6353 1101 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 1659.8351 [/??/] 1660.6111 1102 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1659.9666 [You better] be street [if you looking at me, hey. (singing)] 1663.4512 1103 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1661.4310 [] 1662.0297 1104 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1662.0297 (pause 0.16) 1662.1933 1105 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1662.1933 [So- ] 1662.9893 1106 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1662.9893 (pause 0.39) 1663.3798 1107 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1663.3798 But it was like, 1664.2885 1108 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1664.3899 /RD-NAME-2/ was like that protector as well like, he's like, 1667.1280 1109 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1667.1280 (pause 0.21) 1667.3425 1110 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1667.3425 if I was around him, you're not about to talk no trash about me, you're not about to- you're gonna respect me, and it was like one of those thing, and /RD-NAME-2/ didn't make me feel protected. 1674.3552 1111 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1674.3552 (pause 0.30) 1674.6546 1112 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1674.6546 Like- 1675.1519 1113 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1675.1519 (pause 0.07) 1675.2178 1114 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1675.2178 so it was just like, both of them was giving me different feelings cause like, 1677.9018 1115 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1677.9018 (pause 1.11) 1679.0152 1116 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1679.0152 I- I felt wanted and I made him happy and he showed it he was, 1683.0143 1117 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1683.0143 (pause 0.37) 1683.3797 1118 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1683.3797 he told me how he felt and /RD-NAME-2/ didn't like, 1685.9443 1119 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1685.9443 (pause 0.45) 1686.3949 1120 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1686.3949 it- it was just two different things. But my sister was like, you know, 1689.7706 1121 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1689.7706 (pause 0.24) 1690.0083 1122 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1690.0083 s- even before she met /RD-NAME-2/ she was like, come on, 1692.8270 1123 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1692.8270 (pause 0.18) 1693.0048 1124 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1693.0048 he a street dude, 1693.8435 1125 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1693.8435 (pause 0.50) 1694.3427 1126 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1694.3427 I was like- 1695.1613 1127 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1695.1613 (pause 0.99) 1696.1489 1128 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1696.1489 She was like, yeah he is street dude, she was like, that's why you like- I was like, no that's not why I like him. 1700.1855 1129 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1700.1855 (pause 0.32) 1700.5058 1130 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1700.5058 But then after a while, like my family wanted me to stay with /RD-NAME-2/ because 1703.8402 1131 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1703.8402 (pause 0.35) 1704.1894 1132 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1704.1894 the type of guy he was but they didn't know like, how he was. 1706.7477 1133 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1706.7477 (pause 0.15) 1706.8941 1134 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1706.8941 E- every guy shows to be a nice person 1708.8993 1135 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1708.8993 (pause 0.26) 1709.1546 1136 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1709.1546 while they around your family but behind closed doors that's 1711.6680 1137 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1711.6680 (pause 0.23) 1711.8932 1138 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1711.8932 not how they treat you. So everybody was like, 1713.5529 1139 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1713.5529 (pause 0.25) 1713.8044 1140 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1713.8044 team /RD-NAME-2/, team /RD-NAME-2/ but 1715.2804 1141 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1715.2804 (pause 0.44) 1715.7157 1142 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1715.7157 eventually everybody is now team /RD-NAME-2/. 1717.9811 1143 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1717.9811 (pause 0.74) 1718.7246 1144 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1718.7246 And so, 1719.2465 1145 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1719.2465 (pause 0.18) 1719.4305 1146 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1719.4305 [then-] 1719.8809 1147 DCB_int_01 1719.4418 [Are y'all team] /RD-NAME-2/? 1720.3605 1148 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1721.2817 Are you team /RD-NAME-2/? 1722.6864 1149 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1722.7999 Even when they crazy. 1724.0845 1150 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1723.9564 1725.1138 1151 DCB_int_01 1725.3570 [] 1726.2157 1152 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1725.6537 [And] so me and him have been dating 1728.4169 1153 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1729.2221 for- 1730.2780 1154 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1730.2780 (pause 1.56) 1731.8393 1155 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1731.8393 two thousand fourteen of November and then he propo- no- Oh lord. 1735.8845 1156 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1735.8845 (pause 0.43) 1736.3126 1157 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1736.3126 Two-thousand fourteen November we moved in with each other that April. 1739.3299 1158 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1739.3299 (pause 0.90) 1740.2264 1159 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1740.2264 Um, 1741.0863 1160 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1741.0863 (pause 0.19) 1741.2778 1161 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1741.2778 and then he proposed to me 1743.4219 1162 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1743.4219 (pause 0.32) 1743.7448 1163 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1743.7448 this January. 1744.8368 1164 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1744.8368 (pause 0.83) 1745.6685 1165 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1745.6685 And I- 1746.0778 1166 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1746.0778 (pause 0.50) 1746.5735 1167 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1746.5735 I got pregnant by him last October. 1748.3120 1168 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1748.3120 (pause 1.02) 1749.3334 1169 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1749.3334 So everything just kind of like- 1750.5774 1170 DCB_int_01 1750.7088 Mm-hm, when are you gonna get married? 1752.0541 1171 DCB_int_01 1752.0541 (pause 2.21) 1754.2611 1172 DCB_int_01 1754.2611 Mkay, take some [time.] 1755.3571 1173 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1755.0796 [S- no], it shouldn't take no time. 1757.1423 1174 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1757.4464 So when I asked him when we're getting married it's one of those things like, 1761.2917 1175 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1761.2917 (pause 0.48) 1761.7721 1176 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1761.7721 right now 1762.9308 1177 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1762.9308 (pause 0.32) 1763.2528 1178 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1763.2528 we need to focus on the baby then after the baby, focus on 1766.6165 1179 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1766.6165 (pause 1.17) 1767.7824 1180 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1767.7824 it's the wedding and then it's just like, 1769.7416 1181 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1769.7416 (pause 0.76) 1770.5010 1182 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1770.5010 I- I just feel like, you shouldn't have proposed to me if you wasn't ready to do this, like at least give me a date. 1775.0870 1183 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1775.0870 (pause 0.36) 1775.4512 1184 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1775.4512 That's the question everyone asks, so when's the date? 1777.4259 1185 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1777.4259 (pause 1.80) 1779.2299 1186 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1779.2299 And it just makes me look dumb, that's- /and I just feel like- it just meant like,/ give me something like, a round about or something. 1784.3404 1187 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1784.3404 (pause 0.24) 1784.5769 1188 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1784.5769 It doesn't have to be the exact day but maybe you could /saying/ it's 1786.8036 1189 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1786.8036 (pause 0.42) 1787.2216 1190 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1787.2216 December, next July, or something like just give me a round about and it's not that so, 1791.1993 1191 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1791.1993 (pause 0.65) 1791.8526 1192 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1791.8526 that's why the ring is no longer on my finger. 1793.6513 1193 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 1793.6137 God, this girl's annoying. 1795.2097 1194 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1795.4398 Because it's like, 1796.8544 1195 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1796.8544 (pause 0.29) 1797.1445 1196 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1797.1445 at the end of the day you're not about to- 1798.6202 1197 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1798.6202 (pause 0.70) 1799.3187 1198 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1799.3187 When a man sees that, or anyone sees that, that means you're- you're- you're- you're off- you're off limits, you know what I'm saying? And I feel like that was his way like, keeping me on a leash, like, 1807.3138 1199 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1807.3138 (pause 0.34) 1807.6532 1200 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1807.6532 and you can't go nowhere you're pregnant, got my baby, and all this. And it's just like, you're not ready to make that real commitment yet. 1812.1555 1201 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1812.1555 (pause 0.23) 1812.3883 1202 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1812.3883 So it was just like, 1813.0353 1203 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1813.0353 (pause 0.23) 1813.2681 1204 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1813.2681 until you're ready to make that real commitment then, 1815.2875 1205 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1815.2875 (pause 0.31) 1815.5999 1206 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1815.5999 yeah. 1815.9754 1207 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1815.9754 (pause 1.30) 1817.2709 1208 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1817.2709 Mm-mm. 1817.8416 1209 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1817.8567 /One/ [relationship's] a lot of work. 1819.8926 1210 DCB_int_01 1818.1095 [Okay.] 1818.5842 1211 DCB_int_01 1819.9118 It is a lot of work. 1820.7566 1212 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1820.7379 It [is.] 1821.2792 1213 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1821.0045 [Mm-hm.] 1821.7631 1214 DCB_int_01 1821.2260 [It is a lot] so how did you- okay so let's talk about a different type of relationship [right, so] 1824.8719 1215 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1824.1222 [Okay.] 1824.6956 1216 DCB_int_01 1825.0835 you're best friends, how did y'all 1826.4009 1217 DCB_int_01 1826.4009 (pause 1.11) 1827.5130 1218 DCB_int_01 1827.5130 get 1827.8716 1219 DCB_int_01 1827.8716 (pause 0.20) 1828.0762 1220 DCB_int_01 1828.0762 together? I know- 1829.0176 1221 DCB_int_01 1829.0176 (pause 0.49) 1829.5069 1222 DCB_int_01 1829.5069 she told me kind of her side and I know /RD-NAME-3/ told me about- [from your-] 1833.2292 1223 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1832.7073 [How each-/ 1833.3366 1224 DCB_int_01 1833.4921 how you become friends with them. 1835.3519 1225 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1835.3820 Okay, um, /RD-NAME-3/ and I started going to /RD-SCHOOL-2/ together 1838.6500 1226 DCB_int_01 1838.6976 [Mm.] 1839.0322 1227 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1838.8966 [in] the seventh grade. 1840.0355 1228 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1840.5800 And we kind of like kicked it from there but our, um, relationship always had like- 1844.1409 1229 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1844.1409 (pause 0.31) 1844.4514 1230 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1844.4514 she's always been my best friend 1845.7517 1231 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1845.7517 (pause 0.68) 1846.4314 1232 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1846.4314 but our relationship always had those 1848.3239 1233 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1848.3239 (pause 1.09) 1849.4128 1234 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1849.4128 breaks and gaps in between like I don't- the falling out never be that serious but 1853.9387 1235 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1853.9387 (pause 0.78) 1854.7214 1236 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1854.7214 the length that- [that we go not talking to each other you would] think it would be like that serious [but-] 1859.3887 1237 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1855.7026 [] 1857.6889 1238 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 1856.3747 [] 1858.0419 1239 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 1859.1534 [Fall] out in two [point five seconds, not talk two point] five years. 1863.0579 1240 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1860.1222 [It's never like- it's never that deep like-] 1862.3763 1241 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1862.3763 (pause 0.65) 1863.0297 1242 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1863.0297 like we're- we're never fought each other, we never like- 1865.8534 1243 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1866.0374 So it's just like 1866.9348 1244 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1866.9348 (pause 0.22) 1867.1538 1245 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1867.1538 we just be 1867.9160 1246 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1867.9160 (pause 0.26) 1868.1789 1247 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1868.1789 not tal- and it don't- it don't even be beefing. 1870.2762 1248 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1870.2762 (pause 0.29) 1870.5633 1249 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1870.5633 Cause it's like I- I wouldn't talk bad about her and never- n- never heard her like, say she was talking bad about me, it's just like we're not talking anymore, so. 1876.8991 1250 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1876.8991 (pause 0.64) 1877.5374 1251 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1877.5374 And then, 1878.5441 1252 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1878.5441 (pause 0.59) 1879.1382 1253 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1879.1382 /RD-NAME-3/ and I, my kids'- 1881.2034 1254 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1881.2034 (pause 0.48) 1881.6841 1255 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1881.6841 my son's father 1883.3361 1256 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1883.3361 (pause 0.39) 1883.7279 1257 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1883.7279 and her 1884.6404 1258 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1884.6404 (pause 0.55) 1885.1886 1259 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1885.1886 kids' father were friends. 1886.7579 1260 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1886.7579 (pause 0.48) 1887.2351 1261 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1887.2351 And so 1887.9751 1262 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1887.9751 (pause 0.20) 1888.1776 1263 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1888.1776 they'll come around with their girlfriend, he'll come around with his girlfriend and we just 1891.6521 1264 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1891.6521 (pause 0.39) 1892.0426 1265 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1892.0426 intertwine. 1892.8452 1266 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1892.8452 (pause 0.41) 1893.2517 1267 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1893.2517 And yeah. 1894.0597 1268 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1894.0597 (pause 0.73) 1894.7886 1269 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1894.7886 And /RD-NAME-2/, 1895.9189 1270 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1895.9189 (pause 0.32) 1896.2380 1271 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1896.2380 I met her through /RD-NAME-3/ and /RD-NAME-2/ and I met her through /RD-NAME-3/, through the mentoring. 1899.5386 1272 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1899.5386 (pause 0.72) 1900.2558 1273 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1900.2558 No I been- 1900.9291 1274 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1900.9291 (pause 0.08) 1901.0042 1275 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1901.0042 I been met 1901.5776 1276 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1901.5776 (pause 0.21) 1901.7853 1277 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1901.7853 /RD-NAME-2/ like, long time ago. 1903.6402 1278 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1903.6402 (pause 0.10) 1903.7416 1279 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1903.7416 But we- me and her never like 1905.2511 1280 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1905.2511 (pause 0.29) 1905.5402 1281 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1905.5402 got close a long time ago /until/ recently then we started 1908.5566 1282 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1908.5566 (pause 0.28) 1908.8345 1283 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1908.8345 getting close. 1909.3677 1284 DCB_int_01 1909.6456 So tell me a little bit about the mentoring program. 1911.7429 1285 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1912.6958 Um, 1913.5857 1286 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1913.5857 (pause 0.52) 1914.1076 1287 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1914.1076 me and /RD-NAME-3/- okay, my mom had a mentoring prog- 1916.4357 1288 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1916.4357 (pause 0.11) 1916.5409 1289 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1916.5409 mentoring program before she got real sick, 1918.4082 1290 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1918.4082 (pause 0.44) 1918.8438 1291 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1918.8438 but she would do it at her house and it was named, Not a Girl, Not Yet a Woman. 1921.9717 1292 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1921.9717 (pause 0.55) 1922.5237 1293 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1922.5237 Um, so it ended 1923.7184 1294 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1923.7184 (pause 0.24) 1923.9630 1295 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1923.9630 because she couldn't no longer do it, and so /RD-NAME-3/ was like, 1926.9444 1296 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1926.9444 (pause 0.52) 1927.4626 1297 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1927.4626 why don't we- why don't we start it back up? And I was like, sure, y- you know, she was president, I was the vice president. 1931.9487 1298 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1931.9487 (pause 0.43) 1932.3790 1299 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1932.3790 But I think her and my mom had a falling out, 1934.8346 1300 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1934.8346 (pause 0.65) 1935.4855 1301 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1935.4855 cause it was like, /RD-NAME-3/ wanted to do something, my mom was like, no, 1938.6059 1302 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1938.6059 (pause 0.35) 1938.9514 1303 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1938.9514 we can't do that because- 1940.3719 1304 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1940.3719 (pause 0.20) 1940.5709 1305 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1940.5709 I don't know why they couldn't do it but she was just like, no, so /RD-NAME-3/ was like, I'm just gonna start my own. 1944.2176 1306 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1944.2176 (pause 0.39) 1944.6038 1307 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1944.6038 So it was like, okay. 1945.5737 1308 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1945.5737 (pause 0.21) 1945.7877 1309 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1945.7877 I guess I'll just go along with you then, like, 1948.3486 1310 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1948.3486 (pause 0.40) 1948.7466 1311 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1948.7466 help you do you. And b- it wasn't like no shade to my mom or nothing. 1952.0071 1312 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1952.0071 (pause 0.23) 1952.2399 1313 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1952.2399 But it's just like, I still wanted to be a mentor you know, we- we can do /??/ a later time in life, /like/ now. 1956.7689 1314 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1956.7689 (pause 0.29) 1957.0587 1315 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1957.0587 /RD-NAME-3/ wanted to do her own 1958.5119 1316 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1958.5119 (pause 0.35) 1958.8611 1317 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1958.8611 mentoring route, I'm still gonna support. So we ended up /doing/ um, 1961.9101 1318 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1961.9101 (pause 0.17) 1962.0829 1319 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1962.0829 mentoring. 1962.7224 1320 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1962.7224 (pause 0.30) 1963.0190 1321 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1963.0190 I had two young ladies, /RD-NAME-2/ and /RD-NAME-2/. 1965.9014 1322 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1965.9014 (pause 0.72) 1966.6200 1323 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1966.6200 /RD-NAME-2/ was seventeen at the time, and /RD-NAME-2/ was like, thirteen. 1969.2510 1324 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1969.2510 (pause 0.72) 1969.9706 1325 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1969.9706 Like thirteen at the time. 1971.3186 1326 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1971.3186 (pause 0.77) 1972.0922 1327 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1972.0922 1972.1710 1328 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1972.1710 (pause 0.61) 1972.7793 1329 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1972.7793 Um, I didn't spend that much time with /RD-NAME-2/ but I spent more time with /RD-NAME-2/. 1976.4035 1330 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1976.4035 (pause 1.08) 1977.4854 1331 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1977.4854 I don't know why cause I thought I would 1979.0550 1332 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1979.0550 (pause 0.29) 1979.3491 1333 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1979.3491 connect more with the seventeen year old but I connected more with the thirteen year old. 1982.7173 1334 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1982.7173 (pause 0.44) 1983.1604 1335 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1983.1604 But then I eventually fell off, like I don't even to talk to her anymore. 1986.1859 1336 DCB_int_01 1986.9691 To either of them? 1987.6784 1337 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1987.8665 No. 1988.2645 1338 DCB_int_01 1988.6663 Oh, okay. 1989.2383 1339 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1989.9179 But I- I plan to start back talking to /RD-NAME-2/ though, I need- I need to do better with that. 1993.9770 1340 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1993.9770 (pause 1.14) 1995.1147 1341 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1995.1147 It just- I don't know, when life- 1996.9716 1342 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1996.9716 (pause 0.28) 1997.2562 1343 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 1997.2562 I'm one of those people when life does hit, like I'm not gonna be sad or none of that but I'm more of a like- I just 2001.5675 1344 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2001.5675 (pause 0.11) 2001.6770 1345 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2001.6770 distance myself from everybody. 2003.1639 1346 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2003.1639 (pause 0.63) 2003.7985 1347 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2003.7985 So. 2004.1972 1348 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2004.1972 (pause 0.87) 2005.0640 1349 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2005.0640 I just have to stop doing that. 2006.1454 1350 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2006.1454 (pause 0.67) 2006.8138 1351 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2006.8138 You won't see me sad or crying all that, I'm just like, hey. 2009.5444 1352 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2009.5444 (pause 0.23) 2009.7701 1353 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2009.7701 You see me now then you won't see me again 'til like six months later. 2012.2183 1354 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2012.2183 (pause 0.95) 2013.1657 1355 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2013.1657 So. 2013.4844 1356 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2013.4844 (pause 0.26) 2013.7440 1357 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2013.7440 [] 2014.4161 1358 DCB_int_01 2014.2659 [Is] that your- that's the way you cope, you just [kind of-] 2016.0991 1359 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2015.6816 [Yeah], I just- yeah. 2017.2882 1360 DCB_int_01 2018.1899 So tell me about 2019.3513 1361 DCB_int_01 2019.3513 (pause 0.23) 2019.5766 1362 DCB_int_01 2019.5766 some times with your- 2021.3900 1363 DCB_int_01 2021.3900 (pause 0.26) 2021.6531 1364 DCB_int_01 2021.6531 your- your little boy, I see the Disney World [picture on] the table. 2025.4656 1365 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2024.0124 [] 2024.7057 1366 DCB_int_01 2025.5857 How was that experience? 2027.0014 1367 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2026.9938 It was amazing because, um, I've never had those experience as a child like, 2031.8952 1368 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2032.3571 my mom say I went 2033.5745 1369 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2033.5745 (pause 0.10) 2033.6788 1370 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2033.6788 to Disney World but it- 2035.2334 1371 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2035.2334 (pause 0.70) 2035.9292 1372 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2035.9292 I don't remember, I don't have pictures of that. So I can't [say like-] 2038.7905 1373 DCB_int_01 2038.1935 [Show me the pictures.] 2039.1472 1374 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2039.3312 Yeah I don't- I can't say like I have, so to be able to take my kids there was amazing. 2044.6396 1375 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2044.6396 (pause 0.24) 2044.8785 1376 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2044.8785 Also to take him there. 2046.1739 1377 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2046.1739 (pause 0.28) 2046.4556 1378 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2046.4556 Although he- 2047.2152 1379 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2047.2152 (pause 0.39) 2047.6095 1380 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2047.6095 he financed some and I financed some but it's like he had never been anywhere like ever 2051.7099 1381 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2051.7099 (pause 0.13) 2051.8350 1382 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2051.8350 in his life so it was like, 2053.1417 1383 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2053.1417 (pause 0.47) 2053.6148 1384 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2053.6148 oh let's go to Disney. And all three of their birthdays are in October. 2056.3209 1385 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2056.3209 (pause 0.56) 2056.8817 1386 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2056.8817 So it was just like, okay this y'all birthday gift, we're going to go to Disney World, stuff like that. So it was just amazing like to see him, his mom called me and was like, 2063.0935 1387 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2063.0935 (pause 0.27) 2063.3650 1388 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2063.3650 I'm so glad you was able to take him, my kids was like, this is amazing, their first time on a plane. 2068.0700 1389 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2068.0700 (pause 0.36) 2068.4268 1390 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2068.4268 I was like, I wanna give my kids the life, like, I feel- 2071.6872 1391 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2071.6872 (pause 0.29) 2071.9801 1392 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2071.9801 I feel great. 2072.9299 1393 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2072.9299 (pause 0.50) 2073.4258 1394 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2073.4258 And so, um, 2074.6658 1395 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2074.6658 (pause 1.00) 2075.6649 1396 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2075.6649 yeah that was- 2076.1906 1397 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2076.1906 (pause 0.14) 2076.3333 1398 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2076.3333 th- 2076.5398 1399 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2076.5398 (pause 0.14) 2076.6750 1400 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2076.6750 I don't know, Disney World was amazing. 2078.1699 1401 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2078.1699 (pause 0.12) 2078.2934 1402 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2078.2934 It was just like, 2079.0556 1403 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2079.0556 (pause 1.17) 2080.2208 1404 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2080.2208 my kids' expectations now is just like, 2082.4362 1405 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2082.4362 (pause 0.58) 2083.0145 1406 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2083.0145 through the roof. Like, I'm like, /oh my god/, I don't make that much money, like, we can't do all that, 2088.1187 1407 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2088.1187 (pause 0.15) 2088.2726 1408 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2088.2726 so. 2088.6766 1409 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2088.6766 (pause 0.71) 2089.3841 1410 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2089.3841 Yeah. 2089.8548 1411 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2089.8548 (pause 0.63) 2090.4805 1412 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2090.4805 Now- now though, 2091.8323 1413 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2091.8323 (pause 0.65) 2092.4793 1414 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2092.4793 although I took a lot of trips with my friends which I- I'm- I'm now ready to take my mom on trips. 2097.3045 1415 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2097.3045 (pause 0.30) 2097.6005 1416 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2097.6005 Cause she ain't really been no where. 2099.2125 1417 DCB_int_01 2099.4693 Your [m- so she's] better now? 2100.8472 1418 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2099.5774 [So.] 2100.2054 1419 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2101.0073 She's better but she's not like 2103.1002 1420 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2103.1002 (pause 0.58) 2103.6765 1421 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2103.6765 the mother I remember. She's- she's able to do things on her own but it's like she's not the same. 2108.4279 1422 DCB_int_01 2109.1002 [Mm.] 2109.4844 1423 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2109.3203 [Yeah] and so it's like 2110.7963 1424 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2111.2652 I really only had a mother up until seventeen. 2113.4315 1425 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2113.4315 (pause 0.36) 2113.7916 1426 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2113.7916 That's what I feel like. 2114.6276 1427 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2114.6276 (pause 0.30) 2114.9322 1428 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2114.9322 So. 2115.3043 1429 DCB_int_01 2116.8971 But 2117.2492 1430 DCB_int_01 2117.2492 (pause 0.17) 2117.4173 1431 DCB_int_01 2117.4173 you're getting back to that relationship and- and [just-] 2119.8925 1432 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2119.7196 [The relationship] never went anywhere but [it's like] 2122.1567 1433 DCB_int_01 2121.3483 [Oh okay.] 2121.8257 1434 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2122.6610 I can't go to my mother, like I talk to my m- mother but you can't- I can't go to- 2126.2238 1435 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2126.2238 (pause 0.31) 2126.5360 1436 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2126.5360 It's- 2126.8120 1437 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2126.8120 (pause 0.18) 2126.9922 1438 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2126.9922 it's hard to explain like I can't go to my mother and be like, 2129.6229 1439 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2129.6229 (pause 0.39) 2130.0176 1440 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2130.0176 ma help me, I- it- 2131.6516 1441 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2131.6516 (pause 0.82) 2132.4719 1442 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2132.4719 I can't- you remember how my mom used to be and it's just- it's just- 2135.4578 1443 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2135.8135 You like the mother. 2136.7921 1444 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2136.7921 I'm like the mother, like yeah [it's just like] she comes to me more than I can come to her and it's just like, even if I come to her it's just not- 2143.2314 1445 DCB_int_01 2138.4519 [Mm-hm.] 2139.0306 1446 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2143.4515 and although she would love love love love love to help me it's just like she's not in a place where- 2147.5300 1447 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2147.5300 (pause 0.32) 2147.8535 1448 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2147.8535 And it's not even just financially it's just anything like, 2150.5560 1449 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2150.5560 (pause 0.13) 2150.6840 1450 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2150.6840 she's not in a place to 2151.6645 1451 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2151.6645 (pause 0.20) 2151.8686 1452 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2151.8686 do that. 2152.3859 1453 DCB_int_01 2152.9451 How about you and your siblings, are y'all close? 2154.6064 1454 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2155.2514 Uh, we're getting closer 2156.7961 1455 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2156.7961 (pause 0.52) 2157.3163 1456 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2157.3163 now, [yeah.] 2158.2248 1457 DCB_int_01 2157.7405 [Mm.] 2158.1647 1458 DCB_int_01 2159.4653 So what do you like to- to do besides- okay, so I know you like to kind of hang out with your [girls], 2166.1712 1459 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2165.6094 [Mm-hm. 2166.0894 1460 DCB_int_01 2166.4338 um, and that may be your thing, what's- is that your favorite thing to do? 2169.8406 1461 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2170.6249 Not hang out, it was- it's more traveling with them. 2173.5378 1462 DCB_int_01 2173.8877 Mkay. 2174.3159 1463 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2174.2799 Like I'm not- I mean hanging out is fun but I'm more of like I wanna see new things, I wanna do new things and stuff like that, 2179.8181 1464 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2180.0144 and /RD-NAME-3/ is actually one of the people- well is the person who introduced me to traveling, so. 2184.2658 1465 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2184.2658 (pause 0.23) 2184.4950 1466 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2184.4950 I'm more of like I just wanna get up and go, 2186.4050 1467 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2186.4050 (pause 0.32) 2186.7201 1468 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2186.7201 like- 2187.0987 1469 DCB_int_01 2187.0842 So where's been your best trip? 2188.4016 1470 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2190.4430 See I w- 2191.9357 1471 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2191.9357 (pause 0.26) 2192.1918 1472 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2192.1918 /RD-NAME-3/ probably don't understand this but I'm one of them people like, 2195.0251 1473 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2195.0251 (pause 0.34) 2195.3613 1474 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2195.3613 I'm a daredevil. 2196.4110 1475 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2196.4110 (pause 0.15) 2196.5631 1476 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2196.5631 Like so, if I'm doing something and it's half- it's like near 2200.6289 1477 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2200.6289 (pause 1.04) 2201.6654 1478 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2201.6654 death experience and then we make it through it, 2204.0758 1479 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2204.0758 (pause 0.68) 2204.7601 1480 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2204.7601 oh my god like that was the best time of my life [like, it's- like-] 2209.7602 1481 DCB_int_01 2207.2972 [] 2208.5399 1482 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2207.8895 [Wow.] 2208.9549 1483 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2208.2589 [She's crazy.] 2209.0673 1484 DCB_int_01 2209.2234 [I love it.] 2209.9887 1485 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2209.8396 [/inaudible/ I ain't do nothing/ I'm [scary.] 2212.5756 1486 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2210.1838 [Right?] 2210.6905 1487 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2210.2078 [/inaudible/] 2211.9326 1488 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2211.2363 [My- ] 2211.8326 1489 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2212.5289 Huh. 2212.9556 1490 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2213.1892 [So the be- and it didn't happen to me] but I was able to witness was- having to /call to Maryland/ because /RD-NAME-3/ almost died. 2220.0216 1491 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2213.2052 [/inaudible/] 2215.2445 1492 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2215.2445 (pause 4.51) 2219.7575 1493 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2219.7575 [Oh. ] 2221.7996 1494 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2220.3950 [] 2220.7483 1495 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2222.1198 [] 2223.3584 1496 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2222.1278 [Hey,] 2222.7825 1497 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2222.7825 (pause 0.18) 2222.9602 1498 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2222.9602 [we're] on a banana boat. 2224.3288 1499 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2224.2768 2224.9141 1500 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2224.9611 Wait, whatchu talking about? 2225.9930 1501 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2225.9783 [] 2226.7579 1502 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2226.3457 [] 2228.8161 1503 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2227.7956 [Oh yeah, /RD-NAME-3/ almost died.] 2229.1963 1504 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2229.2283 2229.6725 1505 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2229.5204 [] 2230.2127 1506 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2229.6085 [I was scared] but /RD-NAME-3/ almost died. 2231.3871 1507 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2231.3133 2231.9306 1508 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2233.0513 [So- ] 2233.7396 1509 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2233.0553 [So we almost] died in the [/banana boat/.] 2235.4967 1510 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2234.5840 [/RD-NAME-3/ went like this.] 2235.8293 1511 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2235.3884 [Yes like] it was- okay so we're on a banana boat, 2238.0656 1512 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2238.3870 and this guy like, 2239.8975 1513 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2239.8975 (pause 0.36) 2240.2598 1514 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2240.2598 he's like a big guy he- [you know how the banana boat-] 2242.3848 1515 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2241.5204 [/You mean/ big girl?] 2242.5351 1516 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2242.3408 [No] but- but look how this girl sit. 2244.1204 1517 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2244.2297 [ So you know how the banana boat is] 2246.3879 1518 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2244.2297 [/Yeah, really not scared/.] 2245.7436 1519 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2245.7316 [This chair looks scary like it's gonna break.] 2247.5644 1520 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2246.5880 [she was in the-] 2247.3786 1521 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2247.6445 she was in the back of the m- he was in the back of the banana boat so as we went over waves, 2251.5475 1522 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2251.5475 (pause 0.20) 2251.7436 1523 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2251.7436 like he like went like all the way up and like all the way down so it made the banana boat tip- 2255.5956 1524 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2255.5956 (pause 0.13) 2255.7214 1525 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2255.7214 tip [over.] 2256.6081 1526 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2256.2697 [We flipped] over so many [times.] 2257.8817 1527 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2257.3394 [And so all] of us 2258.4477 1528 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2258.8361 landed in the water, it was like in the middle of the ocean, 2261.0828 1529 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2261.0828 (pause 0.13) 2261.2092 1530 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2261.2092 sea [whatever it is.] 2262.2399 1531 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2261.6881 [/??/.] 2262.2307 1532 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2262.4601 And we were in the middle of it so I didn't know what was in the water, I just knew we had to get back on this boat, 2266.4846 1533 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2266.4846 (pause 0.20) 2266.6812 1534 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2266.6812 and I knew the only way to get back on it is you had to be calm. 2269.2434 1535 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2269.2434 (pause 0.26) 2269.5055 1536 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2269.5055 You know what I'm saying, flip the boat over- 2271.5778 1537 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2271.5778 (pause 0.61) 2272.1923 1538 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2272.1923 flip the boat over and just bounce back on it. 2274.2350 1539 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2274.2350 (pause 0.45) 2274.6809 1540 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2274.6809 So everyone was able to do that except this one. 2277.8883 1541 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2276.6050 [] 2278.3136 1542 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2278.6335 [We had /inaudible/] 2281.6161 1543 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2278.8505 /?/ 2279.2151 1544 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2279.2151 (pause 0.38) 2279.5938 1545 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2279.5938 [She was like, I'm drowning. ] 2281.9477 1546 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2282.6290 My life jacket- 2283.7557 1547 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2283.7557 (pause 2.15) 2285.9033 1548 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2285.9033 And so it was just like, 2287.1473 1549 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2287.1473 (pause 0.36) 2287.5087 1550 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2287.5087 I was trying so hard to save her 2289.8729 1551 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2289.8729 (pause 0.24) 2290.1155 1552 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2290.1155 but it was like, I- I can't save you until you wanna save yourself, like, 2293.4982 1553 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2293.4982 (pause 0.27) 2293.7717 1554 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2293.7717 just- 2294.7835 1555 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2295.0622 How many times did we get on and get off, three times? 2297.3369 1556 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2297.8239 And I- I [tried to get off, I tried /inaudible/] 2300.3220 1557 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2298.6240 [We flipped over- one time we flipped] all [the way over.] 2301.7080 1558 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2300.8246 [It just- it just] wasn't working for her and this is- after a while I was just like, 2304.0219 1559 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2305.4239 this is it for you. 2306.4976 1560 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2306.4976 (pause 0.28) 2306.7763 1561 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2306.7763 Like, [] 2309.0182 1562 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2307.1960 [Didn't they pull you back- they pulled her] back in. 2309.5587 1563 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2307.4490 [] 2308.9821 1564 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2309.9732 2310.5772 1565 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2310.7681 Oh that thing was terrible, /unintelligible/. 2312.7798 1566 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2312.7826 I can't- I was- my life jacket wasn't working. 2315.0641 1567 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2316.1588 [/RD-NAME-3/] 2316.7348 1568 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2316.3549 [] 2317.3099 1569 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2316.6543 [No it was over] my head. 2318.2545 1570 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2318.2649 [] 2319.6342 1571 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2318.2700 [] 2319.3282 1572 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2320.3245 2321.1005 1573 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2321.1005 (pause 0.18) 2321.2795 1574 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2321.2795 I'm just terrified, I'm just done, like- (laughing) 2323.4542 1575 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2323.4542 (pause 0.22) 2323.6762 1576 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2323.6762 /unintelligible/ 2325.8391 1577 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2323.9136 [/RD-NAME-3/ was- the life jacket was like] this and /RD-NAME-3/ head was like [this. ] 2328.9827 1578 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2327.4651 [Yeah so I'm like /a holder] on/ as opposed to trying to get on then someone was like, I hold on like- 2332.3808 1579 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2332.7680 No but it was [/really bad/] 2334.0707 1580 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2333.4287 [But if I didn't have y'all] I woulda been [dead.] 2334.9754 1581 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2334.4973 [like] we had our- the person who drives the banana boat but then he had to call someone else 2339.2220 1582 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2339.1136 [] 2340.5280 1583 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2339.5782 [over there like with] their little jet ski thing like they both trying to get her, I mean it just- 2343.5915 1584 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2343.9503 it was just not working like it was just- 2346.4488 1585 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2347.0130 And [everybody else on] there. 2348.2917 1586 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2347.2866 [And she's like-] 2347.9158 1587 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2348.3448 [And once again like I'm saying] we're out of the country we don't know what's in this water so I didn't know if a shark was gonna come and eat her up or none of that [so it was just like,] 2355.2935 1588 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2348.5358 [Everybody else on.] 2349.4185 1589 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2349.4185 (pause 4.83) 2354.2465 1590 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2354.2465 [] 2355.6612 1591 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2355.6351 you need to get back on the boat. But like once she was saved and stuff like that, 2358.7561 1592 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2359.4498 2360.6680 1593 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2361.1687 You said once she was saved. 2362.9160 1594 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2362.9357 it was- 2363.5250 1595 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2363.5250 (pause 0.26) 2363.7823 1596 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2363.7823 it was fun but it was like that was- [I- I loved it though.] 2366.7254 1597 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2365.5322 [/inaudible/] 2367.5802 1598 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2367.1943 [I loved] that. And then like this- 2369.7955 1599 DCB_int_01 2369.9472 Her [favorite moment was your near death experience.] 2372.1824 1600 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2370.0763 [/inaudible/] 2371.1390 1601 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2371.1706 [ Yes it was.] 2373.0988 1602 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2372.3424 [What ] /that's some messed up stuff./ 2375.1439 1603 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2375.3931 [And-] 2375.8705 1604 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2375.3931 [Hey that] thing was funny, I forgot all about that honestly. 2378.7069 1605 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2379.0132 [Um], 2379.8359 1606 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2379.2920 [That thing was] funny. 2380.3389 1607 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2380.7993 that was a good trip, um, 2382.4300 1608 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2382.4300 (pause 0.21) 2382.6421 1609 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2382.6421 Disney World was good but it's just like that was more for my kids so I didn't do anything for myself, so. 2386.9943 1610 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2386.9943 (pause 1.21) 2388.2031 1611 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2388.2031 All the trips so I think, uh, /??/ was amazing, 2391.3055 1612 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2391.3055 (pause 0.69) 2391.9920 1613 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2391.9920 and [Miami.] 2393.2789 1614 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2392.6337 [/inaudible/] 2393.5473 1615 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2393.6048 2393.7442 1616 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2393.7442 (pause 0.61) 2394.3526 1617 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2394.3526 Miami [was amazing.] 2395.4819 1618 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2394.7759 [Oh yeah, I had a ball in Miami too, I forgot about Miami.] 2397.7649 1619 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2395.6431 [/inaudible/] 2397.3871 1620 DCB_int_01 2396.5361 [So where's your next- what's] your next goal tri- like, where- 2399.8818 1621 DCB_int_01 2400.0979 She wants to go to [Fiji.] 2401.2925 1622 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2400.8118 [For what? /inaudible/] 2402.2572 1623 DCB_int_01 2401.6274 [What about you?] 2402.3207 1624 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2402.5256 Um, 2403.1909 1625 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2403.1909 (pause 0.18) 2403.3670 1626 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2403.3670 Bali and, um, Jerusalem. I know this is crazy but yeah. 2407.1523 1627 DCB_int_01 2407.7443 No [why is that crazy?] 2408.8030 1628 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2407.9524 [/inaudible/] 2409.3671 1629 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2408.7577 [I just wanna] see like where, uh, Jesus was like 2411.8600 1630 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2412.1252 buried at and 2413.1247 1631 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2413.1247 (pause 0.49) 2413.6151 1632 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2413.6151 the tomb [he was in, like I wanna see] all that stuff. 2415.8915 1633 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2414.2035 [/inaudible/] 2415.2035 1634 DCB_int_01 2415.8399 My friend just came back. 2416.8171 1635 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2416.8481 Really? 2417.3334 1636 DCB_int_01 2417.2971 She did it [for uh,] 2419.2484 1637 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2417.8650 [My coworkers /unintelligible/.] 2420.6013 1638 DCB_int_01 2420.4459 like, I think she [w- /did they/ go like-] 2423.0254 1639 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2421.8707 [Oh yeah /RD-NAME-2/ what did /RD-NAME-2/ wants to go with.] 2423.9370 1640 DCB_int_01 2423.7393 [/?/] 2424.6649 1641 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2423.9370 [Oh thank god] at least I won't be there [by myself.] 2426.3037 1642 DCB_int_01 2425.4133 [December?] 2426.1294 1643 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2425.5579 [/Y'all/.] 2426.2651 1644 DCB_int_01 2426.8535 [She did it in December.] 2427.7149 1645 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2426.9361 [Sorry.] 2427.5349 1646 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2427.9066 [Mm-hm.] 2428.4306 1647 DCB_int_01 2428.1544 [Mm-hm.] 2428.6157 1648 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2428.7531 Did [she say it] was nice? 2429.7029 1649 DCB_int_01 2428.8564 [She-] 2429.1777 1650 DCB_int_01 2429.1777 (pause 0.51) 2429.6926 1651 DCB_int_01 2429.6926 She loved it. 2430.3700 1652 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2430.3533 Yeah I want- I wanna- I wanna see all that. 2432.6265 1653 DCB_int_01 2433.2611 She got baptized in the river, she loved it- in the Jor- she loved it, she s- 2437.2255 1654 DCB_int_01 2437.2255 (pause 0.17) 2437.3907 1655 DCB_int_01 2437.3907 she said it was probably one of the best thing- 2439.7648 1656 DCB_int_01 2439.7648 (pause 0.15) 2439.9113 1657 DCB_int_01 2439.9113 cause she's also in a different like- like right now she's trying to figure out like 2442.8691 1658 DCB_int_01 2442.8691 (pause 0.29) 2443.1634 1659 DCB_int_01 2443.1634 if she's gonna switch jobs, [and she just] moved to a new house and 2446.2502 1660 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2444.4022 [Uh-huh.] 2445.0489 1661 DCB_int_01 2446.5047 all this stuff so her life was kind of just all over the place so [she said it was really] 2449.6202 1662 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2448.7554 [Wow.] 2449.5628 1663 DCB_int_01 2449.8342 [calming for her.] 2450.9955 1664 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2449.8600 [That's why I need to do that.] 2451.0507 1665 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2451.1299 I heard it's expensive though. 2452.4619 1666 DCB_int_01 2452.7507 Yeah but she said it's worth it, [she said it was] really worth it 2455.9992 1667 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2454.1047 [Yeah.] 2454.7341 1668 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2456.1385 [I-] 2456.3863 1669 DCB_int_01 2456.1385 [more] so like, [emotionally and spiritually] 2458.7712 1670 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2457.5426 [Uh-huh.] 2458.2213 1671 DCB_int_01 2459.0551 than, you know- 2460.0977 1672 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2460.2836 Yeah I really- [I really wanna go there.] 2461.9303 1673 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2460.9650 [You should go.] I need [to go] there right [now.] 2463.7450 1674 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2462.1900 [Like-] 2462.3846 1675 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2462.3846 (pause 0.55) 2462.9333 1676 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2462.9333 [I really wanna go] there. 2464.0799 1677 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2464.0276 I got [a lot of life changes] I [need to go there right] now. 2466.5774 1678 DCB_int_01 2464.2496 [I mean] 2464.9429 1679 DCB_int_01 2464.9429 (pause 0.40) 2465.3439 1680 DCB_int_01 2465.3439 [Fiji.] 2465.9839 1681 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2467.1506 Yeah but I could go to /inaudible/ I'm calling Ru I need to go to Ru. 2472.1438 1682 DCB_int_01 2472.0509 You need to go to Ru? 2472.9749 1683 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2472.9594 [Yeah, that's /inaudible/] 2474.9984 1684 DCB_int_01 2473.4808 [Okay.] 2474.0101 1685 DCB_int_01 2474.0101 (pause 0.75) 2474.7609 1686 DCB_int_01 2474.7609 [And where-] where did Bali come from? 2476.4543 1687 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2476.8567 Um, just because I had seen somebody else go there. 2479.1853 1688 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2479.1853 (pause 0.15) 2479.3309 1689 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2479.3309 And I was like, the pictures 2481.4359 1690 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2479.3618 [] 2482.4892 1691 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2482.0667 [/from there-/] 2482.9133 1692 DCB_int_01 2482.1493 [And the pictures look good?] 2483.0911 1693 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2483.2798 [Yeah.] 2483.9678 1694 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2483.5740 [This girl] is [crazy talking about she seen somebody else] go there. 2486.3741 1695 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2484.3403 [And it's like um-] 2485.7599 1696 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2485.7599 (pause 0.44) 2486.1986 1697 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2486.1986 [Right now though] 2487.3786 1698 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2486.6116 [/inaudible/] 2487.6079 1699 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2487.6801 I'm- I'm- I wanna go on trips like inside the United States cause I do wanna be able to take my mom 2492.0487 1700 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2492.0487 (pause 0.75) 2492.8024 1701 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2492.8024 p- like I don't know if she can go out of the country. 2494.6008 1702 DCB_int_01 2494.7536 [Mm-hm.] 2495.1614 1703 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2494.9136 [Know] what I'm saying, like I don't know if she can do that. 2496.4234 1704 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2496.6997 Right now it's just like, okay let's- let's experience this, let's go here, let's do that, because she's- 2500.6023 1705 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2500.6023 (pause 0.22) 2500.8257 1706 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2500.8257 she's so like cooped up in the house all the time it's like that's- you're not living that's just existing like, [you need to] get out and do some things, so. 2507.5010 1707 DCB_int_01 2505.2562 [Mm-hm.] 2505.8669 1708 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2507.9404 And then because of her- I was having this conversation with 2510.6195 1709 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2510.6195 (pause 0.45) 2511.0686 1710 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2511.0686 them two and /RD-NAME-2/, 2512.3406 1711 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2512.3406 (pause 0.16) 2512.5000 1712 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2512.5000 that's the reason why I can't have boundaries with men like the moment a man try to like give me boundaries and restrictions, 2517.7188 1713 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2517.7188 (pause 0.33) 2518.0440 1714 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2518.0440 it doesn't work for me because I seen my mom succeed more without a man, 2522.6759 1715 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2522.6759 (pause 0.46) 2523.1404 1716 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2523.1404 then when she was with a man it- 2525.5098 1717 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2525.5098 (pause 0.35) 2525.8608 1718 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2525.8608 it- everything started being taken away from her. 2528.0555 1719 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2528.0555 (pause 0.39) 2528.4434 1720 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2528.4434 So I'm just one of those people like, 2530.0701 1721 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2530.0701 (pause 1.08) 2531.1482 1722 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2531.1482 y- you're in my life but 2532.6504 1723 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2532.6504 (pause 0.56) 2533.2079 1724 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2533.2079 you're not my life like, I'm 2534.8081 1725 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2534.8081 (pause 0.23) 2535.0352 1726 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2535.0352 in control of my life, you know what I'm saying. So, 2537.3597 1727 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2537.3597 (pause 0.25) 2537.6126 1728 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2537.6126 yeah. 2538.0059 1729 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2538.0059 (pause 0.35) 2538.3559 1730 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2538.3559 So- but it- that might be a reason why all my relationships is like- because I'm not the, um, 2542.9810 1731 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2543.5747 Submissive [type?] 2544.4497 1732 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2544.1941 [submissive] female because it's like I've seen how men can take a woman that's on her A game 2549.1906 1733 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2549.4248 and then 2549.9668 1734 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2549.9668 (pause 0.24) 2550.2042 1735 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2550.2042 just 2550.6496 1736 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2550.6496 (pause 0.32) 2550.9734 1737 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2550.9734 tear it all down. 2551.8509 1738 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2551.8509 (pause 0.21) 2552.0641 1739 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2552.0641 Like so, it's just like mm-mm. 2553.4940 1740 DCB_int_01 2555.5020 I appreciate [that.] 2556.6420 1741 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2556.3898 [] 2556.9472 1742 DCB_int_01 2557.0196 I appreciate that. 2557.8983 1743 DCB_int_01 2557.8983 (pause 0.31) 2558.2120 1744 DCB_int_01 2558.2120 So, 2559.3840 1745 DCB_int_01 2559.3840 (pause 1.70) 2561.0888 1746 DCB_int_01 2561.0888 what's the one thing- you said you like to do the daredevil type stuff and you [enjoyed /RD-NAME-3/ almost dying.] 2566.5037 1747 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2564.9190 [Mm-hm.] 2565.4537 1748 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2565.4537 (pause 0.20) 2565.6572 1749 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2565.6572 [] 2567.6394 1750 DCB_int_01 2567.1505 [What's something] that you wanna do like that's a- that you haven't done that you think, oh I've gotta do that before I- 2572.4364 1751 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2572.3951 Jump out a plane. 2573.4991 1752 DCB_int_01 2573.6701 Yeah. (whispered) 2574.4702 1753 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2574.4547 Um, 2575.1206 1754 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2575.3442 I- I'm just strange like when I s- 2578.0697 1755 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2578.0697 (pause 0.34) 2578.4104 1756 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2578.4104 I'm just strange like I wanna run like from a herd of animals, like- 2582.0412 1757 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2582.3573 [] 2583.7371 1758 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2582.3799 [] 2583.3399 1759 DCB_int_01 2582.8306 [I was- I was] with you 2584.6486 1760 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2584.5960 [like-] 2585.0709 1761 DCB_int_01 2585.1019 [um,] 2585.6459 1762 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2585.1741 [Until you said /herd of animals/.] 2586.7207 1763 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2585.9071 [No like I wanna- like- 2588.1681 1764 DCB_int_01 2585.9742 [the herd of animals.] 2587.1196 1765 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2586.7124 [You lost me at that.] 2588.2897 1766 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2588.6843 No, really like I was talking to /RD-NAME-2/'s mom and his sister 2592.5003 1767 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2592.5003 (pause 0.38) 2592.8825 1768 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2592.8825 and I was like, you know what would be like the perfect labor, 2595.1985 1769 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2595.1985 (pause 0.45) 2595.6442 1770 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2595.6442 like if I'm driving 2597.0898 1771 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2597.0898 (pause 0.30) 2597.3860 1772 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2597.3860 and then it's like, oh my god it's time, and I gotta pull over on the side of the road. 2600.7606 1773 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2600.7606 (pause 0.29) 2601.0540 1774 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2601.0540 And people are stopping their cars and like coming to help me push out the baby like- 2604.4715 1775 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2604.4715 (pause 0.70) 2605.1682 1776 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2605.1682 like- 2606.7269 1777 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2606.7218 Seriously? 2607.3361 1778 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2607.3397 I was just telling- she was [like you /?/-] 2609.1541 1779 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2608.4933 [You just wanna] have a labor- a delivery in the car? 2610.9468 1780 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2611.5896 Because I've experienced like going to the hospital but [just like-] 2614.3290 1781 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2613.7636 [/unintelligible/] 2614.6538 1782 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2614.6076 I want [like-] 2615.2956 1783 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2615.1110 [Maybe] you should have a t- tub [birth.] 2617.0825 1784 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2616.8253 [I want-] that's [not- that's not] great. Like I want a like amazing story to [tell like-] 2621.4005 1785 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2617.7004 [A water birth.] 2618.4790 1786 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2618.4790 (pause 2.40) 2620.8826 1787 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2620.8826 [That is amazing] story to tell, it's calm, it's peaceful, it's you and your mate, he's hoping the baby come [out.] 2626.5755 1788 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2626.3826 [No.] 2626.9266 1789 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2626.8717 She just /?/, look how she's sitting [ she could /inaudible/ her chair.] 2629.4396 1790 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2628.3467 [] 2630.4397 1791 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2630.9933 No it's just no. 2632.0254 1792 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2632.0254 (pause 0.21) 2632.2326 1793 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2632.2326 No, [mm-mm.] 2632.9566 1794 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2632.7540 [I always] wanted to experience a real birth, I didn't have a 2635.7468 1795 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2636.0111 real labor. 2636.5817 1796 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2636.5817 (pause 0.41) 2636.9933 1797 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2636.9933 I mean not- I mean not that it was fake but 2639.7253 1798 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2639.7253 (pause 0.40) 2640.1217 1799 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2640.1217 I had C-sections, always wanted to push a [baby.] 2642.3361 1800 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2642.1790 [I don't] know it- I'm just one of those people who's just like you really really only get one life to live. 2646.4182 1801 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2646.8575 And like I don't wanna do everything traditionally, I don't wanna do 2649.8933 1802 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2649.8933 (pause 0.31) 2650.2040 1803 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2650.2040 everything the way that it's supposed to do, I wanna like 2652.7062 1804 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2652.7062 (pause 0.28) 2652.9825 1805 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2652.9825 take some different routes and just 2654.3397 1806 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2654.3397 (pause 0.35) 2654.6861 1807 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2654.6861 see where it takes me, 2655.5754 1808 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2655.5754 (pause 0.22) 2655.7969 1809 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2655.7969 /like/ so. 2656.4355 1810 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2656.6395 It's a good way to think. 2657.5896 1811 DCB_int_01 2657.4967 So that- 2658.3740 1812 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2658.6825 Jumping out there on that faith. 2659.9278 1813 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2659.8968 [] 2660.8315 1814 DCB_int_01 2660.2075 [Mm jumping] right out. 2661.4342 1815 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2661.3433 [She- she died on that faith] she almost drowned on that [faith honey.] 2664.4896 1816 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2661.3790 [] 2661.8326 1817 DCB_int_01 2661.8540 [/?/] 2662.5300 1818 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2663.7682 [] 2665.2253 1819 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2664.6075 [Drowned like /RD-NAME-3/] 2665.6504 1820 DCB_int_01 2665.3218 [] 2667.7364 1821 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2666.0501 [Mm.] 2666.3204 1822 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2666.6540 [] 2667.9646 1823 DCB_int_01 2667.8862 [So has there ever been a time] like, not- 2670.3825 1824 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2667.9719 [/unintelligible/] 2669.3824 1825 DCB_int_01 2670.5682 and it could be your daredevil time or it could be just walking down the [street where you felt like oh my god], 2675.4969 1826 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2673.9112 [Mm-hm.] 2674.3597 1827 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2674.3362 [Is this the /?/] 2675.1862 1828 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2675.6041 [Which one?] 2676.2014 1829 DCB_int_01 2675.6539 [I'm about to die.] 2676.5152 1830 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2676.5682 This white [one?] 2677.1909 1831 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2677.0325 [Um], I'm about to die? 2678.3925 1832 DCB_int_01 2678.3932 Mm-hm. 2678.7306 1833 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2679.6790 Uh, both, you could say both. 2681.3310 1834 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2681.3789 Oh my god, she gonna be so [thankful.] 2683.3218 1835 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2682.9289 [Um-] 2683.7742 1836 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2683.5718 /inaudible/ 2684.8111 1837 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2684.7968 /inaudible/ 2686.1608 1838 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2686.2326 My mother. 2686.8219 1839 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2687.4967 Uh, /? was/ there a time when I was like, I'm about to die. 2690.5897 1840 DCB_int_01 2690.8540 And you just didn't feel- either you didn't feel safe or you felt uncomfortable or you felt 2695.3462 1841 DCB_int_01 2695.3462 (pause 0.71) 2696.0611 1842 DCB_int_01 2696.0611 in danger. 2696.9011 1843 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2698.4576 No but I think the scariest time was- 2701.6102 1844 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2701.6102 (pause 0.84) 2702.4540 1845 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2702.4540 /??/ 2702.9460 1846 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2702.9460 (pause 0.15) 2703.1004 1847 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2703.1004 2703.4504 1848 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2703.4504 (pause 0.43) 2703.8826 1849 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2703.8826 E- even when I know I c- there's a possibility I'm about to die I'm never like, oh I'm about to die, but I think the scariest time probably- 2709.7141 1850 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2709.7141 (pause 0.24) 2709.9576 1851 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2709.9576 I'm probably probably telling too much but 2711.1074 1852 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2711.1074 (pause 0.32) 2711.4253 1853 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2711.4253 when I used to- 2712.2066 1854 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2712.2066 (pause 0.29) 2712.4932 1855 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2712.4932 to go with /RD-NAME-2/ to wherever he used to go. 2714.8683 1856 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2714.8683 (pause 0.53) 2715.3933 1857 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2715.3933 And it's just like, you just see some things and was like, I could really die right here, somebody could really just come in here and shoot this place up and I'm just right here chilling so I think- 2722.1042 1858 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2722.1042 (pause 0.44) 2722.5397 1859 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2722.5397 I think that's the w- like the scariest moments for me. 2725.3968 1860 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2725.6289 [But you enjoyed] it. 2726.4369 1861 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2725.7075 [But it was-] 2726.0968 1862 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2726.0968 (pause 0.30) 2726.4004 1863 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2726.4004 I didn't- /?/ 2727.1968 1864 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2727.5040 Yeah, I just said that but I [like /it/] 2729.2541 1865 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2728.9255 [Oh I] missed it. 2729.5641 1866 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2729.5431 It was like I enjoy like the- the- the r- the risk of it like- 2733.2004 1867 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2733.5219 [/inaudible/] 2735.6164 1868 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2733.5361 [You're crazy.] 2734.3826 1869 DCB_int_01 2734.3969 [So you're a thrill seeker.] 2735.6326 1870 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2735.4967 [Yeah, like- ] 2737.5646 1871 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2737.2611 [So if somebody] come in here stick up this joint you'll be thrilled. 2739.9771 1872 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2740.4326 But it's like, I'm one of those people like, if somebody was, I know exactly what I'd do. Not saying that I'm gonna make it out of here but I know exactly what I'm gonna do. I'm not gonna be the one like, 2748.8590 1873 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2748.8590 (pause 0.44) 2749.2943 1874 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2749.2943 stuck in shock like I know exactly what I would do like to try to get out that situation. 2753.0555 1875 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2753.0610 Oh I'm the scariest person [/inaudible/] 2755.2182 1876 DCB_int_01 2754.3503 [Me too, like I don't even like to get stopped for a traffic ticket.] 2758.0826 1877 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2755.1396 [/inaudible/] 2757.6099 1878 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2757.5611 [] 2759.0112 1879 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2758.7612 [Right.] Chest hurting. 2760.3185 1880 DCB_int_01 2760.4003 Like I get upset when they send the little thing in my mail like, um, 2763.5004 1881 DCB_int_01 2763.5004 (pause 0.55) 2764.0504 1882 DCB_int_01 2764.0504 you were going [fifty-seven and it was a forty-five.] 2766.9039 1883 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2764.8288 [] 2766.1753 1884 DCB_int_01 2767.2361 Like, [damn.] 2768.3627 1885 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2767.7718 /??/ I remember that time we went to Busch Gardens y'all talked me into that ride, I don't do [roller coasters.] 2772.8456 1886 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2772.1967 [Mm-mm.] 2772.7528 1887 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2772.9825 Period. 2773.6078 1888 DCB_int_01 2774.0504 You a [roller coaster?] 2774.9290 1889 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2774.2218 [I got on that roller coaster I almost died.] 2776.2658 1890 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2774.9147 [Mm-hm.] 2775.3317 1891 DCB_int_01 2775.3969 [Oh.] 2775.7889 1892 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2775.9397 [Yeah.] 2776.3477 1893 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2776.2862 Then when we got pulled over he thought we was prostitutes. 2778.3736 1894 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2778.3110 Yeah. [The only thing I- I'm- 2779.9539 1895 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2778.6289 [ Wait a minute I missed that one.] 2782.3290 1896 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2780.5397 [the only thing I'm afraid of is dying itself.] 2783.6483 1897 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2782.5005 [It was good.] 2783.1617 1898 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2783.2255 [/??/] 2784.0001 1899 DCB_int_01 2783.9682 [Why?] 2784.3775 1900 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2784.6468 I don't know. 2785.2174 1901 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2785.2174 (pause 0.27) 2785.4896 1902 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2785.4896 Because I think it's the unknown that's the only thing that you can't go and [/aks somebody like, how was your experience?] so I think- 2791.0851 1903 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2788.4864 [Oh yeah.] 2790.0829 1904 DCB_int_01 2791.3113 [No you can't go] they- 2792.5903 1905 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2791.4292 [Like no.] 2792.2685 1906 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2792.8042 So, 2793.2935 1907 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2793.2935 (pause 0.53) 2793.8221 1908 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2793.8221 that's the only thing. 2794.9507 1909 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2794.9507 (pause 0.45) 2795.3972 1910 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2795.3972 It's- 2795.7222 1911 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2795.7222 (pause 0.10) 2795.8258 1912 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2795.8258 it's just so like- 2797.2578 1913 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2797.2578 (pause 0.20) 2797.4613 1914 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2797.4613 No one- I mean, 2798.3720 1915 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2798.3720 (pause 0.23) 2798.6042 1916 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2798.6042 like I said I was in church, you know heaven and hell and stuff but no one- 2801.4420 1917 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2801.4420 (pause 0.58) 2802.0258 1918 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2802.0258 I don't have no one that can verify for me and tell me like this is- 2805.3721 1919 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2805.3721 (pause 0.12) 2805.4900 1920 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2805.4900 this what happens. Like, so th- 2807.2650 1921 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2807.2650 (pause 0.23) 2807.4936 1922 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2807.4936 it's just the unknown of it like, that's it. 2809.5365 1923 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2809.5365 (pause 1.29) 2810.8292 1924 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2810.8292 And then- and if- 2812.1186 1925 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2812.1186 (pause 0.21) 2812.3257 1926 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2812.3257 it's- 2812.6686 1927 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2812.6686 (pause 0.10) 2812.7722 1928 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2812.7722 it's not just that it's like dying young. 2815.1433 1929 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2815.1433 (pause 0.13) 2815.2687 1930 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2815.2687 Like if [I'm-] 2815.9487 1931 DCB_int_01 2815.6937 [Mm.] 2816.2870 1932 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2816.7578 if I'm older and like did everything that I wanted to do in life, nothing is- 2820.8972 1933 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2820.8972 (pause 0.31) 2821.2044 1934 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2821.2044 all the- 2821.7111 1935 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2821.7111 (pause 0.61) 2822.3185 1936 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2822.3185 nothing I feel is incomplete then I'm- I'm okay, you know, that's my time, but like, 2826.6851 1937 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2826.6851 (pause 0.30) 2826.9865 1938 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2826.9865 /RD-NAME-2/'s case, I just feel like that was just so unfair like she had so many things she wanted to do. 2831.5543 1939 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2831.5543 (pause 0.28) 2831.8293 1940 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2831.8293 And it's like, she wasn't a bad person, why was that taken away from her? 2834.6985 1941 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2834.6985 (pause 0.33) 2835.0292 1942 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2835.0292 And stuff like that and it's like, you have all these cruel people, not- and I don't wish death on anyone but it's just like- 2839.6958 1943 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2839.6958 (pause 0.79) 2840.4899 1944 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2840.4899 She was- she was like the opposite of me. 2842.7859 1945 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2842.7859 (pause 0.21) 2842.9936 1946 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2842.9936 Like she was the- the one that was like, so cautious about life, it's like we- 2846.3536 1947 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2846.3536 (pause 0.19) 2846.5471 1948 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2846.5471 let's go do this, she's like, no, that doesn't even make sense like, why would we do this? 2849.7936 1949 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2849.7936 (pause 0.24) 2850.0293 1950 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2850.0293 Like, you guys this could happen, this could happen, it's like, shut up /RD-NAME-2/ like let's just do it, like- 2854.5487 1951 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2854.5487 (pause 0.53) 2855.0793 1952 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2855.0793 so it was just like, yeah. 2857.0380 1953 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2857.2687 Well y'all /had/ y'all daredevil time /I watch./ 2859.5507 1954 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2859.4543 [] 2861.9758 1955 DCB_int_01 2860.0507 [] 2861.5134 1956 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2861.0686 [/inaudible/] 2862.7347 1957 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2861.0865 [I ain't- I'm too- I'm too old] to be dare-deviling I'm finna die [/inaudible/] 2864.9332 1958 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2864.5007 [] 2865.3793 1959 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2865.9043 Mm-mm. 2866.6043 1960 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2866.6043 (pause 0.25) 2866.8507 1961 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2866.8507 What did you say? Oh /RD-NAME-2/ get on what? Oh no ma'am I walk through the whole theme park don't get on nothing. 2871.7454 1962 DCB_int_01 2872.6329 [Unless we have a little] funnel cake. 2874.0462 1963 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2872.6329 [/inaudible/] 2873.3582 1964 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2874.8615 Yeah. 2875.3544 1965 DCB_int_01 2875.8756 Well thank you it was so nice to meet [you.] 2877.6396 1966 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2877.2900 [Oh] interesting interview, thank you. Uh, I'll see you girls later. 2881.3698 1967 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2882.2042 I guess I got 2882.8749 1968 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2882.8749 (pause 0.55) 2883.4293 1969 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2883.4293 wedding dates for me and /RD-NAME-2/. 2885.4759 1970 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2885.5936 Girl bye. 2886.8044 1971 DCB_se1_ag2_f_04 2886.8651 Bye. 2887.5677 1972 DCB_int_01 2891.4186 Oh /?/ I'm t- I'm locking your door, [/nodding/.] 2894.0937 1973 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2893.3937 [No that's fine. (laughing)] 2894.4377 1974 DCB_int_01 2894.2971 [I'm-] you know it's just habit. 2895.4931 1975 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2895.3007 [It's a h- ] 2896.2380 1976 DCB_int_01 2895.7578 [Habit] just- /unintelligible/ 2897.1650 1977 DCB_int_01 2897.5865 Um, 2898.1758 1978 DCB_int_01 2898.1758 (pause 0.24) 2898.4115 1979 DCB_int_01 2898.4115 so 2898.8328 1980 DCB_int_01 2898.8328 (pause 1.24) 2900.0723 1981 DCB_int_01 2900.0723 let me ask you [this- Oh, mm-hm.] 2901.8056 1982 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2900.5614 [But there are things I would] not try. 2902.2793 1983 DCB_int_01 2902.4686 Okay, like what? 2903.3939 1984 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2903.6793 I would not get my palms read, 2906.0830 1985 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2906.0830 (pause 0.20) 2906.2792 1986 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2906.2792 I would not like 2907.4900 1987 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2907.4900 (pause 1.61) 2909.1007 1988 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2909.1007 talk to a- 2910.0329 1989 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2910.0329 (pause 0.61) 2910.6472 1990 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2910.6472 a- 2910.8872 1991 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2910.8872 (pause 0.21) 2911.0972 1992 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2911.0972 a ca- a tarot card re- so anything like that I will not do. 2913.7342 1993 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2913.7342 (pause 0.80) 2914.5364 1994 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2914.5364 Only because my mom say you kn- 2916.8365 1995 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2916.8365 (pause 0.36) 2917.2008 1996 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2917.2008 those spirits linger on to you and stuff like that I wouldn't do that 2921.1650 1997 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2921.1650 (pause 0.40) 2921.5650 1998 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2921.5650 type of stuff. 2922.1329 1999 DCB_int_01 2922.4901 You'll jump out of a plane and [jump off a bridge] but you [ain't gonna get your palm read?] 2925.8971 2000 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2923.5292 [Yeah.] 2924.0614 2001 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2924.0614 (pause 0.35) 2924.4149 2002 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2924.4149 [I know it's weird like I would not-] I would not. 2926.5007 2003 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2926.7579 I wouldn't. 2927.3512 2004 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2927.3512 (pause 0.31) 2927.6615 2005 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2927.6615 Like, 2927.9008 2006 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2927.9008 (pause 0.27) 2928.1722 2007 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2928.1722 I don't mess with spirits and stuff like that like, no. 2930.6435 2008 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2930.6435 (pause 0.76) 2931.4043 2009 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2931.4043 I need to see what's coming at me. 2932.8865 2010 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2932.8865 (pause 0.54) 2933.4293 2011 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2933.4293 Like spirits they just on you and you just- no, I c- I can't do that. 2936.8971 2012 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 2936.9150 Talking about, you /??/ 2937.9936 2013 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2938.1543 Yeah. 2938.7663 2014 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2938.7663 (pause 0.44) 2939.2079 2015 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2939.2079 2940.4789 2016 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2940.4789 (pause 0.83) 2941.3080 2017 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2941.3080 So that's the o- that's- that's the only thing like I don't need no one to tell me my future or when I wanna die, stuff like that. I don't- 2946.6258 2018 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2946.6258 (pause 0.18) 2946.8079 2019 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2946.8079 mm-mm. 2947.2399 2020 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2947.2399 (pause 0.47) 2947.7113 2021 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2947.7113 So that's the only thing I won't try. 2948.8612 2022 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2948.8612 (pause 1.14) 2950.0043 2023 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2950.0043 But other than that yeah, I'm down for whatever. 2952.1789 2024 DCB_int_01 2953.0080 Have you ever been scuba diving? 2954.1933 2025 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2954.5221 Um, nope. 2955.3421 2026 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2955.3421 (pause 0.26) 2955.6043 2027 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2955.6043 Cause I'm on- I'm- oh, that's another thing. 2957.5079 2028 DCB_int_01 2958.0794 [Water.] 2958.5079 2029 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2958.2544 [You might] could say I'm a scaredy cat but I like to do it with someone. 2961.2432 2030 DCB_int_01 2961.6078 Oh I'll do it with you. 2962.6329 2031 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2962.6686 Oh, [see?] 2963.5865 2032 DCB_int_01 2963.1507 [I went] scuba diving in Cozumel, [it was the best.] 2966.1603 2033 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2964.9758 [/unintelligible/] I have to have at least one person to do it with [me.] 2968.6829 2034 DCB_int_01 2968.5257 [It] was the [best.] 2969.5115 2035 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2969.1543 [No one] would do skydiving with me. 2970.7503 2036 DCB_int_01 2971.4151 I wanna do [skydiving.] 2972.4149 2037 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2972.1328 [You wanna] do skydiving? 2973.4715 2038 DCB_int_01 2973.4471 Mm-hm I- 2974.2650 2039 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2974.0400 [No] for [real?] 2975.0307 2040 DCB_int_01 2974.8114 [I did] parasailing 2976.3035 2041 DCB_int_01 2976.6472 one day and then we did scuba diving [the n-] 2978.6491 2042 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2978.4042 [You just] said you were scared, you get scared of stuff. 2980.4856 2043 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2981.1222 [You w-] you wanna go [skydiving.] 2982.7648 2044 DCB_int_01 2981.1293 [Uh,] 2981.4222 2045 DCB_int_01 2981.4222 (pause 0.51) 2981.9365 2046 DCB_int_01 2981.9365 [but that's like getting] in trouble kind of stuff. 2983.6687 2047 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2983.6365 Oh [ I see, okay.] 2985.9436 2048 DCB_int_01 2984.9114 [No no no. Like I wouldn't do] like 2986.3793 2049 DCB_int_01 2986.8150 [daredevil-y.] 2987.6564 2050 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2987.1472 [Oh my god.] 2988.0765 2051 DCB_int_01 2987.8543 [But scuba] diving changed my life like that was like a pivotal moment in my life. Yes, oh I loved [it.] 2992.9629 2052 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 2992.7329 [Oh] my god. 2993.8435 2053 DCB_int_01 2994.0829 It is like- 2994.9082 2054 DCB_int_01 2994.9082 (pause 1.00) 2995.9113 2055 DCB_int_01 2995.9113 there- like, so where- okay so where I'm sitting and like where the balloon is 2999.1434 2056 DCB_int_01 2999.1434 (pause 0.28) 2999.4222 2057 DCB_int_01 2999.4222 there were like two barracudas there. 3001.1222 2058 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3001.2758 Did you do it with someone? 3002.2358 2059 DCB_int_01 3002.4435 I did it with my best friend. 3003.3935 2060 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3003.3471 See. 3003.7988 2061 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3004.8114 You wanna go scuba diving? 3005.6048 2062 DCB_int_01 3006.3901 She [don't even-] 3006.9114 2063 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3006.5151 [] 3007.8471 2064 DCB_int_01 3007.2758 [She don't even want] to get out the boat. 3008.6611 2065 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3009.6007 She don't need to get out the boat. 3011.2127 2066 DCB_int_01 3010.7936 [The boat. She] need to stay- 3011.7696 2067 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3011.7758 [] 3013.8544 2068 DCB_int_01 3011.9829 [she need to stay in the boat.] 3013.2429 2069 DCB_int_01 3014.1828 So let's talk a little about DC, have you seen the city 3017.6829 2070 DCB_int_01 3017.6829 (pause 0.58) 3018.2651 2071 DCB_int_01 3018.2651 change? Do you feel like it's changing? 3020.3437 2072 DCB_int_01 3020.3437 (pause 0.20) 3020.5435 2073 DCB_int_01 3020.5435 Or do you feel like it's the same as you remember as a child? 3023.1293 2074 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3023.6650 Um, it's changed. 3024.8290 2075 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3024.8290 (pause 0.94) 3025.7651 2076 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3025.7651 No, I'm not gonna say it's changed cause it mighta been the same but because I'm older I'm allowed to see more things. 3031.3508 2077 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3031.3508 (pause 0.31) 3031.6580 2078 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3031.6580 And like once I got thinking I was just protected from everything, but- 3034.5507 2079 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3034.5507 (pause 0.51) 3035.0615 2080 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3035.0615 Um, 3035.7721 2081 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3035.7721 (pause 1.11) 3036.8865 2082 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3036.8865 I think 3037.8252 2083 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3037.8252 (pause 1.18) 3039.0078 2084 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3039.0078 I don't like DC no more though because it's like now we're always attached to such negative things, like, 3044.2340 2085 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3044.2340 (pause 0.48) 3044.7185 2086 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3044.7185 it's like rare you hear DC as something positive beside 3047.2793 2087 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3047.2793 (pause 0.13) 3047.4079 2088 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3047.4079 the President, it's just like we're always attached to something negative. 3049.8880 2089 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3049.8880 (pause 0.28) 3050.1685 2090 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3050.1685 And it makes people look at us like we're just a group of 3052.6614 2091 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3052.6614 (pause 1.18) 3053.8365 2092 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3053.8365 people that's here to 3054.7901 2093 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3054.7901 (pause 0.16) 3054.9544 2094 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3054.9544 destroy. 3055.7830 2095 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3055.7830 (pause 0.15) 3055.9363 2096 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3055.9363 And that's the [only thing I don't like.] 3057.2793 2097 DCB_int_01 3056.5435 [Mm.] 3057.2293 2098 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3058.0864 So. 3058.4227 2099 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3058.4227 (pause 0.80) 3059.2222 2100 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3059.2222 So it's like, 3059.7795 2101 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3059.7795 (pause 0.20) 3059.9758 2102 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3059.9758 now people like, I gotta get out of DC because DC is so horrible, let's move to Virginia, Maryland, stuff like that because it's like DC now has this 3066.2878 2103 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3066.2878 (pause 0.30) 3066.5901 2104 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3066.5901 negative 3067.2794 2105 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3067.2794 (pause 0.22) 3067.5042 2106 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3067.5042 thing now s- that's the only thing. 3069.3221 2107 DCB_int_01 3070.3507 Um, 3070.9400 2108 DCB_int_01 3070.9400 (pause 0.75) 3071.6936 2109 DCB_int_01 3071.6936 what about- so you guys hang out on H Street a lot, do you remember when H street was like- 3075.3614 2110 DCB_int_01 3075.3614 (pause 0.36) 3075.7257 2111 DCB_int_01 3075.7257 do y- have you seen- do you remember it changing over the last few years? 3078.8222 2112 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3078.7865 Yeah, yeah. 3080.0687 2113 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3080.5971 It's- uh- mm, I like how it's changing now though, I like how it's changing because it's like a- it's a mixture of people now. 3086.3401 2114 DCB_int_01 3086.3864 Mm-hm. 3086.7614 2115 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3086.7614 It's like it's so diverse now. 3088.0720 2116 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3088.6579 And I like that. 3089.6436 2117 DCB_int_01 3090.1686 What's your favorite place to hang out? 3091.5937 2118 DCB_int_01 3091.5937 (pause 0.44) 3092.0330 2119 DCB_int_01 3092.0330 [Not necessarily H Street], anywhere 3093.3328 2120 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3092.0899 [Um-] 3092.7846 2121 DCB_int_01 3093.8650 in the city. 3094.3570 2122 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3096.0972 I don't have a favorite place in DC though. 3097.8151 2123 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3097.8151 (pause 2.01) 3099.8221 2124 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3099.8221 But it- I can name some places I like to go. [I like-] 3102.8294 2125 DCB_int_01 3102.3579 [Okay.] 3102.8151 2126 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3103.1687 I like um, U Street. 3104.5553 2127 DCB_int_01 3104.7578 Mm-hm. 3105.1045 2128 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3105.0864 Um, 3105.7744 2129 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3106.8686 no then I would say U Street probably is my favorite there now. 3109.1044 2130 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3109.1044 (pause 1.04) 3110.1401 2131 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3110.1401 [Yeah.] 3110.4864 2132 DCB_int_01 3110.3864 [Any] particular places on the U [Street?] 3111.9784 2133 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3111.7686 [No.] 3112.2186 2134 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3112.6150 I like going with /RD-NAME-3/ where they- when I used to go with like to happy hour and stuff like that but, no. 3117.0292 2135 DCB_int_01 3117.4614 No? 3117.7686 2136 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3117.7436 That's it, yeah. 3118.5742 2137 DCB_int_01 3118.6364 What's your favorite restaurant or favorite rest- or 3120.7972 2138 DCB_int_01 3120.7972 (pause 0.54) 3121.3401 2139 DCB_int_01 3121.3401 places that you really like as far as food. 3123.4543 2140 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3123.6257 I'm strange because I try my hardest to stay out of DC. 3127.1382 2141 DCB_int_01 3127.8187 Really? 3128.3435 2142 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3128.3256 Yeah. 3128.9435 2143 DCB_int_01 3129.0328 Why? 3129.4793 2144 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3130.6579 I don't know so I'm more of a like, okay here's this restaurant in Virginia oh here's this restaurant in- 3134.9114 2145 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3134.9114 (pause 0.12) 3135.0328 2146 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3135.0328 No, I'm- 3135.7507 2147 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3135.7507 (pause 0.61) 3136.3579 2148 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3136.3579 DC is just like, mm 3137.7151 2149 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3137.7151 (pause 0.63) 3138.3436 2150 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3138.3436 nah. 3138.8823 2151 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3138.8823 (pause 0.26) 3139.1437 2152 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3139.1437 Cause it's like you- you just gotta be careful in DC it's like you always run into either- 3142.5400 2153 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3142.5400 (pause 0.15) 3142.6900 2154 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3142.6900 that's why I don't like go gos. 3143.9180 2155 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3143.9180 (pause 0.74) 3144.6579 2156 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3144.6579 I used to like go go, I no longer h- like go go cause it's not- it's- it's- it's attached to so much negative things. 3149.5472 2157 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3149.5472 (pause 0.27) 3149.8151 2158 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3149.8151 Like people done got killed at go gos, 3151.5991 2159 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3151.5991 (pause 0.34) 3151.9401 2160 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3151.9401 you know, it's just like no I'm- 3153.4150 2161 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3153.4150 (pause 0.41) 3153.8293 2162 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3153.8293 go go's just not my thing, I'm not going to no go gos, I'm not- I'm not, so it was just like 3157.8008 2163 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3157.8008 (pause 0.25) 3158.0508 2164 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3158.0508 th- 3158.3044 2165 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3158.3044 (pause 0.59) 3158.8971 2166 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3158.8971 j- just because what DC is attached to I'm just like, okay let's try this, 3162.1670 2167 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3162.1670 (pause 0.13) 3162.2972 2168 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3162.2972 this is a nice restaurant over here. 3163.7187 2169 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3163.7187 (pause 0.24) 3163.9578 2170 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3163.9578 We don't have to worry about no girls starting some stuff, or talking trash or being ratchet, and things like that so it's just like I try to 3169.7723 2171 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3169.7723 (pause 0.77) 3170.5399 2172 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3170.5399 move out a little bit. 3171.3799 2173 DCB_int_01 3171.8757 Mm. 3172.2637 2174 DCB_int_01 3172.2637 (pause 2.41) 3174.6722 2175 DCB_int_01 3174.6722 So where do you go [now?] 3175.8042 2176 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3175.4151 [My favorite] restaurant in DC- um, oh. 3177.5971 2177 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3177.8221 I- I still wanna answer the question. 3179.3848 2178 DCB_int_01 3179.4329 B- oh, go [ahead yeah.] 3180.6609 2179 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3179.9829 [Um-] 3180.6936 2180 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3183.3721 uh, sh- 3184.2508 2181 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3184.2508 (pause 0.55) 3184.8043 2182 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3184.8043 what were some places we been in DC? 3186.2829 2183 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3188.1506 /??/ I don't know. 3189.2015 2184 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3189.2042 I like Sticky Rice, that ain't- that ain't my favorite restaurant [but I- I like Sticky Rice.] 3192.7687 2185 DCB_int_01 3191.3365 [Oh I like them too, yeah. /I must/ wanna] go there [today.] 3195.4871 2186 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3193.1258 [I like, um,] 3194.5007 2187 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3194.5007 (pause 0.37) 3194.8685 2188 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3194.8685 [H & Pizza] on H Street, [um, I-] I mean, I [like uh-] 3198.0615 2189 DCB_int_01 3196.3436 [Mm-hm.] 3197.0529 2190 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3197.6865 [You like the] Ha- you went to the Hamil- did you take /RD-NAME-1/ to the Hamilton?] 3200.4328 2191 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3200.4006 N- 3200.5864 2192 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3200.8114 [I- I-] 3201.5471 2193 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3201.1971 [You have-] you have /???/ 3202.5864 2194 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3202.5829 I went with /RD-NAME-2/ I just- 3204.2508 2195 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3204.6187 The price of the Ha- the prices of the Hamilton for their food, no. That's- that's ridiculous. 3208.8686 2196 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3208.8686 (pause 0.83) 3209.6936 2197 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3209.6936 That's what DC is too now son, you just- 3211.4973 2198 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3211.4973 (pause 0.28) 3211.7758 2199 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3211.7758 [you pay all this] money and it's just like, wh- what is this? 3214.5864 2200 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3211.8332 [] 3212.5245 2201 DCB_int_01 3215.0186 [Mm-hm.] 3215.6253 2202 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3215.0257 [So no], no. 3216.1329 2203 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3216.3401 [I would have] said Antonios. 3217.9544 2204 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3216.4329 [But-] 3216.7263 2205 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3218.5578 There was a- oh, that was in DC but that was like a small- I like places like that in [DC.] 3222.7579 2206 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3222.4508 [Yeah like the- /inaudible/] 3224.6828 2207 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3223.3258 [The small little-] 3224.6351 2208 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3224.8042 small little hole in the wall places [I like.] 3226.7722 2209 DCB_int_01 3226.3400 [Oh that's why] you like [Sticky Rice.] 3227.8360 2210 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3227.3293 [Yeah. Yeah I like- yup.] 3229.0115 2211 DCB_int_01 3228.0758 [Cause it's little.] 3229.0012 2212 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3228.5222 [/?/] Yup [/inaudible/] 3230.2864 2213 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3229.6865 [No I like /?/-] I like little places like that [in DC.] 3232.1543 2214 DCB_int_01 3231.7971 [Have you been] to Boundary? 3232.7545 2215 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3233.4615 Boundary [no.] 3234.2222 2216 DCB_int_01 3233.9972 [I just] went there yesterday. It's- it's- it's, um, it's pretty- [it's] cute. 3238.2221 2217 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3237.5721 [What-] 3237.8855 2218 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3238.2257 what kind of food do they sell? 3239.3857 2219 DCB_int_01 3240.7437 It's kind of like a wine and cheese type thing but [like I had a] cheesesteak and then the lady I was with she had a quiche. 3246.5552 2220 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3243.1471 [Mm.] 3243.6114 2221 DCB_int_01 3246.9437 Um, so it was just kind of like [American-y.] 3249.9936 2222 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3249.4650 [Where is it?] 3249.9810 2223 DCB_int_01 3250.7007 Four- I think it's- 3251.7079 2224 DCB_int_01 3251.7079 (pause 0.20) 3251.9115 2225 DCB_int_01 3251.9115 the address was four fourteen. 3253.6248 2226 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3253.8616 In Northwest? 3254.6549 2227 DCB_int_01 3255.2971 Uh-huh it's on that- it's on the- 3256.7864 2228 DCB_int_01 3256.7864 (pause 0.33) 3257.1115 2229 DCB_int_01 3257.1115 is it Northwest side? It's on the Northeast side. 3259.0728 2230 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3259.3115 I have to say that you and Denise be knowing all the places. I'm like, nigga, how you /gonna get to/ know all the places to go, what's the place we went to for /RD-NAME-3/ baby shower? 3266.0822 2231 DCB_int_01 3266.4257 Oh Gordon Biersch? But that's a chain. 3268.3293 2232 DCB_int_01 3268.3293 (pause 0.50) 3268.8257 2233 DCB_int_01 3268.8257 [Oh for the baby shower?] 3270.0657 2234 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3268.8472 [Yeah, I like that too.] 3269.8329 2235 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3270.1794 Wait not the baby shower [for the /inaudible/] 3272.2901 2236 DCB_int_01 3271.0615 [For the saying goodbye?] 3272.1709 2237 DCB_int_01 3272.4185 Yeah that's [Gord-] 3273.2650 2238 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3272.9435 [/unintelligible/] 3275.2929 2239 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3274.1507 [How long you been in DC?] 3275.2617 2240 DCB_int_01 3275.8115 So, 3276.7035 2241 DCB_int_01 3276.7035 (pause 0.25) 3276.9544 2242 DCB_int_01 3276.9544 I moved back in two thousand, um, 3279.8685 2243 DCB_int_01 3279.8685 (pause 0.69) 3280.5543 2244 DCB_int_01 3280.5543 at the end of two thousand twelve so almost four years but I went to college here. 3284.4971 2245 DCB_int_01 3284.4971 (pause 0.60) 3285.0935 2246 DCB_int_01 3285.0935 And I went to get my- so I was here [five years] 3287.6972 2247 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3286.4722 [/inaudible/] 3287.7263 2248 DCB_int_01 3287.9293 before I left. 3289.1508 2249 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3289.3080 But I find the people that like- 3291.0864 2250 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3291.0864 (pause 0.77) 3291.8543 2251 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3291.8543 but you've been here for a while. 3292.8263 2252 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3292.8263 (pause 0.28) 3293.1043 2253 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3293.1043 I find people that move here 3295.0794 2254 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3295.1580 Love it better? 3295.7899 2255 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3296.1471 They- no, not only love it but they experience more than the people [who actually- /actually/ live here, so.] 3301.3258 2256 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3299.1686 [Yeah, that's true.] 3300.3166 2257 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3300.3166 (pause 0.29) 3300.6115 2258 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3300.6115 [That's true.] 3301.1022 2259 DCB_int_01 3301.3115 So have you been a tourist in your own city? 3303.2422 2260 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3303.5007 Yeah but only on field trips. 3304.9115 2261 DCB_int_01 3304.9150 Mm-hm, [exactly. But people who] fly from [California-] 3308.2971 2262 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3305.7722 [Yeah, so.] 3306.6865 2263 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3306.6865 (pause 0.91) 3307.5973 2264 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3307.5973 [They actually fly just to see those-] yeah. But only on field trips and so I- 3312.2686 2265 DCB_int_01 3308.8400 [Just to come-] 3309.5721 2266 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3312.5579 I've never- no, except the Martin Luther King, I did- I did take my time out to go see that but everything else, no. 3317.7543 2267 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3317.7543 (pause 0.39) 3318.1436 2268 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3318.1436 [Only] when my school took me. 3319.4356 2269 DCB_int_01 3318.1722 [Are y-] 3318.4829 2270 DCB_int_01 3319.6508 Are you going to the African American Museum when it opens up? 3322.7842 2271 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3323.5222 Um, no. But now that you say that, yeah. I need to go I guess. 3328.5579 2272 DCB_int_01 3328.7222 You need to- 3329.1829 2273 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3329.0329 [] 3329.9758 2274 DCB_int_01 3329.6650 [I'm] going, I'm gonna take- I- so I teach as well, I'm gonna take my class there, [um,] 3333.9007 2275 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3333.1792 [Mm.] 3333.8699 2276 DCB_int_01 3334.2293 but I'm r- I hear it's 3335.4008 2277 DCB_int_01 3335.4008 (pause 0.20) 3335.5972 2278 DCB_int_01 3335.5972 going to be something. 3336.6639 2279 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3337.1292 So my sons like 3338.5435 2280 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3338.5435 (pause 0.34) 3338.8864 2281 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3338.8864 they aks me all the time, like, mom why you don't take us to like 3342.1877 2282 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3342.1877 (pause 0.34) 3342.5294 2283 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3342.5294 to Monument? Or why [you don't take us-] 3344.2651 2284 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3343.5044 [Well /rough/ kids are like] that, /like/ her kids /??/ they into 3346.5650 2285 DCB_se2_ag2_f_01 3346.9722 that type of [stuff.] 3347.8365 2286 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3347.7258 So- 3348.3401 2287 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3348.5901 so I think I- I do need to get more in- 3350.2701 2288 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3350.2701 (pause 0.21) 3350.4828 2289 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3350.4828 into that. 3351.0900 2290 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3351.0900 (pause 0.23) 3351.3221 2291 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3351.3221 Like I've never been to the White House and I feel like I need to take my kids like to- the White House. 3355.4973 2292 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3355.4973 (pause 0.13) 3355.6223 2293 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3355.6223 Like they'll be like, where's the White House? I'm- I know where it is, I'm like, oh it's over there and it's just like- 3359.7829 2294 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3359.7829 (pause 0.65) 3360.4365 2295 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3360.4365 Yeah they wanna actually like, Mommy I really wanna like see it like up- but no. 3364.8972 2296 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3364.8972 (pause 0.70) 3365.5936 2297 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3365.5936 So I'm- I'm- I'm'a get better with that. 3367.1937 2298 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3367.1937 (pause 0.47) 3367.6651 2299 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3367.6651 We been to like the Air and Space Museum, 3369.6355 2300 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3369.6355 (pause 0.33) 3369.9686 2301 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3369.9686 and like, 3370.6792 2302 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3370.6792 (pause 0.58) 3371.2543 2303 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3371.2543 um, stuff like- but not like the main monuments. We went to the, um, World War Two [memorial.] 3376.6900 2304 DCB_int_01 3376.1436 [Mm-hm.] 3376.6132 2305 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3377.2507 Um, 3377.8881 2306 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3377.8881 (pause 0.22) 3378.1044 2307 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3378.1044 and I think I only went to the World War Two memorial with them is because it was a project at school. 3382.7472 2308 DCB_int_01 3383.3686 And you had to- 3383.8433 2309 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3383.8686 Yeah I could go, so. 3385.2293 2310 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3385.2293 (pause 0.22) 3385.4473 2311 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3385.4473 And that was it. 3386.0032 2312 DCB_int_01 3386.4114 One of the things that I tell people to do, 3388.2900 2313 DCB_int_01 3388.2900 (pause 0.18) 3388.4686 2314 DCB_int_01 3388.4686 and I know it sounds silly but like, do one of the little tourist things, like one of the little 3393.2303 2315 DCB_int_01 3393.2303 (pause 0.20) 3393.4293 2316 DCB_int_01 3393.4293 get on the bus 3394.2614 2317 DCB_int_01 3394.2614 (pause 0.23) 3394.4864 2318 DCB_int_01 3394.4864 and they do the [tour. I think it-] 3395.8865 2319 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3395.0722 [Oh, I never done] that either. 3396.6651 2320 DCB_int_01 3396.7187 I, uh, actually wanted to be a tour guide when I was- 3398.8364 2321 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3398.8757 [] 3399.3530 2322 DCB_int_01 3399.0792 [I don't] know that was just this 3400.2752 2323 DCB_int_01 3400.4900 crazy part of my- but I- they're really interesting they have some interesting stories. 3403.8116 2324 DCB_int_01 3403.8116 (pause 0.15) 3403.9580 2325 DCB_int_01 3403.9580 And if nothing else it just gives you a very different [perspective of] like, where you live, right? 3408.6187 2326 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3406.4079 [Mm-hm.] 3407.0345 2327 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3408.6401 [Wow.] 3409.1758 2328 DCB_int_01 3409.0722 [Cause] you live [outside of-] 3410.5602 2329 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3409.9863 [So you did the-] the big red bus that [rides around?] 3412.8579 2330 DCB_int_01 3412.2150 [I did that one] before, I've done the one- the little duck boat where [you g- where it goes] down Potomac. 3417.2364 2331 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3415.6115 [Oh.] 3416.3759 2332 DCB_int_01 3417.7114 Um, I've done the night- the night one is the best, [I think that's] the prettiest one. 3422.2605 2333 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3420.9008 [Mm-hm.] 3421.4223 2334 DCB_int_01 3422.5757 Um, I haven't done the dinner cruise but I've done the lunch cruise, 3425.8258 2335 DCB_int_01 3425.8258 (pause 0.44) 3426.2686 2336 DCB_int_01 3426.2686 um, from Southwest off the, um, 3428.7819 2337 DCB_int_01 3428.7819 (pause 0.18) 3428.9650 2338 DCB_int_01 3428.9650 [marina-] 3429.4916 2339 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3429.0328 [Waterfront?] 3429.5078 2340 DCB_int_01 3429.8364 Waterfront, mm-hm. 3430.9511 2341 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3431.0007 Oh speaking of that, that is my f- favorite restaurant in DC. 3433.6021 2342 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3433.6021 (pause 0.22) 3433.8187 2343 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3433.8187 I only been like three times though, Nick's Riverside Grill. 3436.0814 2344 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3436.0814 (pause 0.36) 3436.4436 2345 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3436.4436 It's down like the- in the Waterfront like- 3438.4365 2346 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3438.4365 (pause 0.52) 3438.9544 2347 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3438.9544 I don't even know why they call it the Waterfront, but it's like the Georgetown Waterfront, it's like in the back of Georgetown. 3443.6792 2348 DCB_int_01 3443.7972 Oh [okay.] 3444.3901 2349 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3444.1829 [Yeah.] 3444.7437 2350 DCB_int_01 3444.8579 [N- in Northwest?] 3446.0633 2351 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3444.9830 [So-] 3445.6056 2352 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3445.6056 (pause 0.38) 3445.9863 2353 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3445.9863 [In Northwest.] 3446.7649 2354 DCB_int_01 3446.6578 [Uh-huh.] 3447.0605 2355 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3447.1757 Where- where they sometimes do like the pirate ships on Halloween for the little kids. Um, 3451.6685 2356 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3451.6685 (pause 0.10) 3451.7685 2357 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3451.7685 I can't think of the name of it, but they also do it for adult- I took my kids on there cause it was like groupon deal. 3455.6543 2358 DCB_int_01 3456.0508 [Mm-hm.] 3456.4228 2359 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3456.1115 [And so] we hop on it, the little pirate ship and then you get off and it's like all these restaurants around there. 3460.5364 2360 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3460.6936 But Nick's Riverside Grill is like really nice because in the winter time they have the like the ice skating rink 3465.0792 2361 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3465.0792 (pause 0.36) 3465.4364 2362 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3465.4364 [and stuff like that. Yeah], and then like during this time the ice skating rink is around, so it's just like this big water- 3470.3651 2363 DCB_int_01 3465.4578 [I've never been there.] 3466.7965 2364 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3471.0542 this big water pond and stuff but it's like the scenery is very pretty but the food is also really good. 3475.5916 2365 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3475.5916 (pause 0.28) 3475.8721 2366 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3475.8721 And I thought the food would be expensive because where it's at but no it was like 3479.3037 2367 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3479.3037 (pause 0.11) 3479.4186 2368 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3479.4186 the prices are amazing like- 3481.0044 2369 DCB_int_01 3480.9830 Nick's Riverside [Grill.] 3482.4841 2370 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3482.1114 [Grill] yeah, Nick's Riverside Grill. 3483.6400 2371 DCB_int_01 3483.6757 In Georgetown. 3484.5024 2372 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3484.5579 In- 3484.8979 2373 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3484.8979 (pause 0.17) 3485.0722 2374 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3485.0722 in Georgetown Water- like all the way in the back of Georgetown. 3487.3228 2375 DCB_int_01 3488.4757 Okay I'll look it up. [Cause I'm in] Georgetown a lot, 3490.5364 2376 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3489.2435 [Yeah.] 3489.7078 2377 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3490.6507 [Yeah it's in the back of-] yeah in the back. But it's um- I- I've taken him, 3494.7672 2378 DCB_int_01 3490.6757 [ob- obviously, so.] 3491.7851 2379 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3495.1614 and then I went with my cousin. But it's- it's- it's amazing like you- and it's not just Nick's Riverside Grill either, it's like 3501.1370 2380 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3501.1370 (pause 0.25) 3501.3900 2381 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3501.3900 when you go it's like a whole circle 3502.9615 2382 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3502.9615 (pause 0.40) 3503.3579 2383 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3503.3579 full of like, restaura- I- but I've only tried Nick's Riverside Grill. 3506.5232 2384 DCB_int_01 3506.7435 Oh, okay, so it's like- it's not- okay I thought the whole thing was called Nick's Riverside [Grill so Nick's is] just one [/in there by itself/] 3512.4759 2385 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3510.1365 Uh-uh, but that- 3510.9151 2386 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3510.9151 (pause 0.57) 3511.4899 2387 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3511.4899 [it's that restaurant] yeah, it's that restaurant. 3513.9654 2388 DCB_int_01 3514.0900 [Oh okay.] 3515.0167 2389 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3514.4257 [But there- but] it's like a circle of restaurants but I like Nick's Riverside Grill. 3518.3937 2390 DCB_int_01 3518.8614 [Oh okay, alright I'm'a] have to go over [there cause I don't eat] a lot over there [actually.] 3522.8830 2391 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3519.1721 [Yeah, mm-hm.] 3520.3079 2392 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3520.3079 (pause 0.74) 3521.0507 2393 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3521.0507 [Yeah, you'll-] 3521.7222 2394 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3521.7222 (pause 0.95) 3522.6687 2395 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3522.6687 [No] you'll like it because n- i- 3524.2506 2396 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3524.5435 The reason I like Nick's Riverside Grill because you have the option to eat outside and inside, [always ask] for outside 3529.2712 2397 DCB_int_01 3528.4176 [Mm-hm.] 3528.6708 2398 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3529.3794 cause I like /how it look/. 3530.3527 2399 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3530.3527 (pause 0.27) 3530.6185 2400 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3530.6185 But you- you'll really like it. 3532.2150 2401 DCB_int_01 3532.6079 Okay, and it's not expensive? 3534.0472 2402 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3534.0329 No like, I don't know what type of food you like but I like their crab cakes. 3537.2793 2403 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3537.5864 [/inaudible/] 3538.1147 2404 DCB_int_01 3537.6114 [Oh I'm allergic] to [crab.] 3539.0186 2405 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3538.9400 [But] they have everything, [they have like] wings, they have french fries, [everything] but 3542.6757 2406 DCB_int_01 3539.9472 [Okay.] 3540.3472 2407 DCB_int_01 3540.3472 (pause 1.50) 3541.8473 2408 DCB_int_01 3541.8473 [Okay.] 3542.2526 2409 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3542.8792 that's why I go because of- they have crab cakes that are amazing it's not like ridiculous prices. 3546.7579 2410 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3546.7579 (pause 0.50) 3547.2580 2411 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3547.2580 So that's why I like it. 3548.1899 2412 DCB_int_01 3548.8935 Do you eat mumbo sauce? 3549.8639 2413 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3550.0114 I do eat mumbo sauce. 3551.7508 2414 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3551.7508 (pause 0.42) 3552.1686 2415 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3552.1686 3552.6646 2416 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3552.6646 (pause 0.43) 3553.0937 2417 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3553.0937 But I totally agree with you when you say it depends where you go. 3556.0043 2418 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3556.0043 (pause 0.21) 3556.2150 2419 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3556.2150 And I like Danny's. 3557.1923 2420 DCB_int_01 3557.6079 Danny's? 3558.2258 2421 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3558.1936 Mm-hm. 3558.6008 2422 DCB_int_01 3558.5758 Where's Danny's? 3559.4935 2423 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3559.5685 There's multiple Danny's but I always go to- you know where Iverson Mall is? 3562.7165 2424 DCB_int_01 3562.7543 Mm-hm. 3563.0983 2425 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3563.2257 And I think it's t- 3564.1901 2426 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3564.1901 (pause 0.14) 3564.3294 2427 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3564.3294 um, considered Temple Hills? 3565.7544 2428 DCB_int_01 3566.0651 Mm-hm. 3566.5078 2429 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3566.6971 That Danny's is 3567.9309 2430 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3567.9309 (pause 0.16) 3568.0864 2431 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3568.0864 the one, like 3569.1744 2432 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3569.1744 (pause 0.21) 3569.3829 2433 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3569.3829 that's the one. And they're now stingy with their mu- you can- now people are like really stingy with their mumbo sauce. 3573.7263 2434 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3573.7263 (pause 0.36) 3574.0900 2435 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3574.0900 You only get like, this much and if you want- 3575.9132 2436 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3575.9132 (pause 0.19) 3576.1044 2437 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3576.1044 they put them in this little tube and then they put that on your food, and if you want extra mumbo sauce they charge you per tube and put it like- it's- it's ridiculous now with the mumbo sauce. 3583.1459 2438 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3583.1459 (pause 0.54) 3583.6901 2439 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3583.6901 3584.9101 2440 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3584.9101 (pause 1.24) 3586.1543 2441 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3586.1543 But yeah. 3586.7316 2442 DCB_int_01 3586.8186 I've ne- okay so I'm'a have to go over there, I was just thinking like what am I gonna eat today, that might be- 3591.3078 2443 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3591.3900 And /RD-NAME-3/ got me on to Danny's too, like- 3593.4033 2444 DCB_int_01 3593.7579 I'm- I've only tried- I've tried a few different- I've tried Eddie's- 3596.6113 2445 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3597.0400 Eddie's. Oh Eddie Leonard's? 3598.2703 2446 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3598.2703 (pause 0.10) 3598.3686 2447 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3598.3686 But it's a lot of 'em. 3599.4008 2448 DCB_int_01 3599.6186 The one, 3600.3440 2449 DCB_int_01 3600.3440 (pause 0.14) 3600.4829 2450 DCB_int_01 3600.4829 um, that's up the street from- So I work in the same building she works [in, I work] on the other side [so the] one right up, uh, I think Marlboro Pike. 3607.0002 2451 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3603.2614 [Uh-huh.] 3603.7757 2452 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3603.7757 (pause 0.79) 3604.5614 2453 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3604.5614 [Uh-huh.] 3604.9868 2454 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3607.0437 Marlboro Pike, okay cause it's one right here on Alabama Avenue too. 3609.8328 2455 DCB_int_01 3610.0650 Oh no I ain't- not over [here. I- I'm not usually-] oh we have a club over here [but I'm not usually] over in [Southeast.] 3614.8542 2456 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3610.9400 [] 3611.9436 2457 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3611.9436 (pause 1.26) 3613.2008 2458 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3613.2008 [Mm-hm.] 3613.6075 2459 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3613.6075 (pause 1.11) 3614.7185 2460 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3614.7185 [Right.] 3615.2639 2461 DCB_int_01 3615.4543 Um, 3616.2364 2462 DCB_int_01 3616.2364 (pause 0.15) 3616.3829 2463 DCB_int_01 3616.3829 cause I live in Silver Spring, so I have- 3618.3044 2464 DCB_int_01 3618.3044 (pause 0.13) 3618.4329 2465 DCB_int_01 3618.4329 When I come into DC if I'm not in Georgetown 3620.6221 2466 DCB_int_01 3620.6221 (pause 0.52) 3621.1400 2467 DCB_int_01 3621.1400 or Northeast 3622.4793 2468 DCB_int_01 3622.4793 (pause 0.10) 3622.5793 2469 DCB_int_01 3622.5793 I'm usually not- 3623.4180 2470 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3623.6793 You travel from Silver Spring to DC every day? 3625.7567 2471 DCB_int_01 3626.0687 Mm-hm. 3626.3780 2472 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3626.5864 /Wow/. 3627.1292 2473 DCB_int_01 3627.5078 But it's actually not 3628.5614 2474 DCB_int_01 3628.5614 (pause 0.99) 3629.5472 2475 DCB_int_01 3629.5472 that 3630.0043 2476 DCB_int_01 3630.0043 (pause 0.26) 3630.2686 2477 DCB_int_01 3630.2686 ba- 3630.4258 2478 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3630.6615 When [we go to /RD-NAME-3/'s house- oh well when we go to] /RD-NAME-3/'s it felt like we ran forever. 3634.9865 2479 DCB_int_01 3630.8044 [But I have no desire to live in-] 3633.1361 2480 DCB_int_01 3633.1361 (pause 1.83) 3634.9615 2481 DCB_int_01 3634.9615 But she's past me. 3636.0186 2482 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3635.9758 Oh okay [/??/] 3637.0991 2483 DCB_int_01 3636.6365 [Uh], 3637.1687 2484 DCB_int_01 3638.2685 so she is still like, four or five miles past where I am. 3641.8321 2485 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3641.9079 Oh okay. 3642.5251 2486 DCB_int_01 3642.5251 But still I mean it still- it is a long way. [I mean it's like] eighteen miles but in DC eighteen miles could be like a [hour.] 3647.9983 2487 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3644.2504 [Yeah.] 3644.9744 2488 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3644.9744 (pause 2.69) 3647.6668 2489 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3647.6668 [] 3649.1847 2490 DCB_int_01 3648.7372 [Or it could be] like twenty minutes, you know what I mean, just depending on traffic. Traffic is the worst. 3652.7119 2491 DCB_int_01 3653.4044 Um, so d- mm. A- speaking of traffic do you- do you drive everywhere, do you take public [transportation?] 3658.2080 2492 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3657.9952 [Um], I drive to work 3659.6566 2493 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3659.9148 but catch the train back 3661.2055 2494 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3661.2055 (pause 0.25) 3661.4565 2495 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3661.4565 home. 3661.9525 2496 DCB_int_01 3662.4024 Why? 3662.7597 2497 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3663.2755 Um, because I get a ride in the morning [and] then in the evenings he pick up the boys, but I wouldn't even aks him to pick me up in the evening because of the traffic, /exactly./ 3671.3728 2498 DCB_int_01 3665.2367 [Mm-hm.] 3665.5913 2499 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3671.6950 I leave out at six o'clock in the morning so it's like the like traffic is 3674.1042 2500 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3674.1042 (pause 0.48) 3674.5880 2501 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3674.5880 just- 3674.8618 2502 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3674.8618 (pause 0.32) 3675.1805 2503 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3675.1805 [cause no one's really out] there so- but in the evenings absolutely not, I would never. 3678.4999 2504 DCB_int_01 3675.2498 [No traffic /?/] 3676.0432 2505 DCB_int_01 3678.6418 Do you like public transportation? 3679.9191 2506 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3680.4886 Um, I like the subway, not the bus. 3682.8412 2507 DCB_int_01 3683.7003 What line do you ride? 3684.7259 2508 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3684.8264 The green line. The green line and the blue line. 3687.4099 2509 DCB_int_01 3687.9448 Oh okay. [Cause-] 3688.7764 2510 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3688.4438 [Both are] dangerous. 3689.3011 2511 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3689.5248 [] 3690.2210 2512 DCB_int_01 3689.9508 [But the] red line I think is the worst. 3691.6148 2513 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3691.7491 Red line, yeah but far as like violence, 3694.8328 2514 DCB_int_01 3694.8709 Oh, mm. 3695.9137 2515 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3695.9622 the green line. 3696.9515 2516 DCB_int_01 3697.0640 Really? 3697.4867 2517 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3697.4659 Yeah. 3698.0846 2518 DCB_int_01 3698.9697 Is it a certain part? Like is it one [end versus the other?] 3701.4207 2519 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3700.5774 [Um, I would] say, if you- if you're traveling to Greenbelt way, you're more safer but if you traveling to the Branch Avenue way, yeah you might- 3708.0703 2520 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3708.4770 that's the mo- that's the- yeah. 3710.2121 2521 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3710.2121 (pause 0.10) 3710.3099 2522 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3710.3099 You- 3710.5386 2523 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3710.5386 (pause 0.24) 3710.7742 2524 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3710.7742 you going through some things. 3711.8369 2525 DCB_int_01 3711.8830 At what point does it change, like you know how you can like- [okay well once you get to this stop-] 3715.5824 2526 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3714.0553 [No you- After Gallery Place-] 3715.8716 2527 DCB_int_01 3715.9055 After Gallery [Place?] 3716.9242 2528 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3716.4772 [After Gallery] Place going towards Branch Avenue. 3718.3586 2529 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3718.9752 But then it stops so it's like from 3720.9433 2530 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3720.9433 (pause 0.45) 3721.3937 2531 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3721.3937 Gallery Place to- 3722.9111 2532 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3722.9111 (pause 1.36) 3724.2731 2533 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3724.2731 I would say Gallery Place to Congress Heights. 3725.7531 2534 DCB_int_01 3725.9915 Mm-hm. 3726.2848 2535 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3726.3137 No no no to Suitland. 3727.5125 2536 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3727.5125 (pause 0.11) 3727.6200 2537 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3727.6200 Suitland's bad too so Gallery Place to Suitland. 3729.6285 2538 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3729.6285 (pause 0.36) 3729.9863 2539 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3729.9863 But Naylor Road and Branch Avenue are- are kind of good stations but 3733.6903 2540 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3733.6903 (pause 0.16) 3733.8462 2541 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3733.8462 I guess from Gallery Place to 3735.3361 2542 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3735.3361 (pause 0.51) 3735.8420 2543 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3735.8420 Suitland, yes. That's- the- those the ones I feel like it need to be a police officer on every car. 3740.3219 2544 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3740.3219 (pause 1.04) 3741.3579 2545 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3741.3579 Like, 3742.5832 2546 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3742.5832 (pause 0.29) 3742.8684 2547 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3742.8684 seriously. 3743.4158 2548 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3743.4158 (pause 0.21) 3743.6272 2549 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3743.6272 [Like-] 3744.1157 2550 DCB_int_01 3743.7069 [It's really] that bad? 3744.8330 2551 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3744.8676 Yeah because you- you know Anacostia? 3746.5100 2552 DCB_int_01 3746.6312 Mm-hm. 3747.0219 2553 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3747.3658 It's going through Anacostia and Congress Heights and yeah those aren't like nice- 3751.6863 2554 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3751.6863 (pause 0.36) 3752.0501 2555 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3752.0501 those are pretty rough yeah, so- 3753.9870 2556 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3753.9870 (pause 0.27) 3754.2536 2557 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3754.2536 So I- my stop is Congress Heights. 3756.1455 2558 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3756.1455 (pause 0.70) 3756.8488 2559 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3756.8488 [So] he'll pick me up from the station and then yeah, so 3760.0123 2560 DCB_int_01 3756.9251 [Mm.] 3757.2691 2561 DCB_int_01 3760.3135 How do you feel like this neighborhood- is it safe around these parts? It seems really quiet. 3764.1561 2562 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3764.8941 Um, 3765.7478 2563 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3765.7478 (pause 0.72) 3766.4705 2564 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3766.4705 I'm just one of those people like I don't mess with nobody so I- I- it- it's w- it's what you make it like I don't m- b- I- it- I'm cool with it. 3773.5906 2565 DCB_int_01 3773.9129 Mm-hm. 3774.2883 2566 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3774.5261 I been in this area all my life. 3776.3025 2567 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3776.3025 (pause 0.22) 3776.5183 2568 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3776.5183 Like /at the map/, before moving here I was in my old apartment for about six years. 3780.1564 2569 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3780.1564 (pause 0.37) 3780.5237 2570 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3780.5237 That was like right down the street, like 3782.0725 2571 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3782.0725 (pause 0.35) 3782.4222 2572 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3782.4222 that was a really bad area but it was like I didn't mess with nobody, nobody messed with me, so. 3786.4883 2573 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3786.4883 (pause 0.51) 3786.9959 2574 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3786.9959 That was that. 3787.4498 2575 DCB_int_01 3787.4567 Do you see your neighborhood changing like rent going up, different [people moving in?] 3791.4620 2576 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3790.5645 [Yeah.] 3791.3272 2577 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3791.5209 [Yeah.] 3792.2315 2578 DCB_int_01 3791.6179 [How does that make you] feel? 3792.7697 2579 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3792.9449 I like it. 3793.7419 2580 DCB_int_01 3794.0745 [Really?] 3794.4624 2581 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3794.2649 [I like] it because I- like I said, it was always so much negative things now people seeing like if it- d- 3798.8195 2582 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3799.1954 it's n- 3799.6112 2583 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3799.6112 (pause 0.91) 3800.5259 2584 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3800.5259 The news only 3801.6622 2585 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3801.6622 (pause 0.21) 3801.8770 2586 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3801.8770 tell you what they wanna tell you, you know what I'm saying, so. 3804.0184 2587 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3804.0184 (pause 0.80) 3804.8187 2588 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3804.8187 Until you actually experience it for yourself you will never know like, the real DC, so. 3808.6322 2589 DCB_int_01 3809.1739 Hm. 3809.6096 2590 DCB_se1_ag2_f_02 3809.6729 3810.1510