Line Spkr StTime Content EnTime 1 ROC_int_01 0.0854 Uh, we were talking about how you had to Charlotte Beach. 3.5905 2 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 3.6010 Oh, yeah. [Uh-huh.] 4.5425 3 ROC_int_01 4.0223 [/Yes/.] 4.4213 4 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 5.6174 And, 5.9698 5 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 5.9698 (pause 0.24) 6.2061 6 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 6.2061 another thing is, 7.2073 7 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 7.2073 (pause 1.36) 8.5718 8 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 8.5718 I'd always have a lunch. 9.9150 9 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 9.9150 (pause 1.11) 11.0287 10 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 11.0287 Um. 11.5923 11 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 11.5923 (pause 0.22) 11.8086 12 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 11.8086 she'd- she'd make me a lunch 13.5403 13 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 13.5403 (pause 0.24) 13.7798 14 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 13.7798 c- 13.8875 15 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 13.8875 (pause 0.30) 14.1850 16 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 14.1850 called spice ham. 15.4122 17 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 15.4122 (pause 1.38) 16.7874 18 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 16.7874 And, uh, 17.4507 19 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 17.4507 (pause 0.66) 18.1140 20 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 18.1140 when it was time to eat, 19.4108 21 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 19.4108 (pause 0.13) 19.5439 22 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 19.5439 it was always full of sand (laughing) [] 23.3919 23 ROC_int_01 21.5937 [] 23.2255 24 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 23.7235 It was so full of sand, I couldn't eat it. 26.8638 25 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 26.8638 (pause 0.52) 27.3862 26 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 27.3862 So, 27.9583 27 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 27.9583 (pause 1.06) 29.0216 28 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 29.0216 I would- I would 29.8644 29 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 29.8644 (pause 0.51) 30.3743 30 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 30.3743 manage somehow. 31.6177 31 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 31.6177 (pause 0.20) 31.8164 32 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 31.8164 I don't know what I did, maybe she gave me some money too. I don't know. But, 35.6252 33 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 35.6252 (pause 0.78) 36.4058 34 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 36.4058 a hot dog probably was a nickel back then. [I don't know.] But. 39.5466 35 ROC_int_01 38.9871 [/?/] 39.2627 36 ROC_int_01 39.7625 40.1849 37 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 40.1849 Yeah, but, 40.7589 38 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 41.2641 that was, that was what I experienced in 43.6885 39 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 43.6885 (pause 0.27) 43.9548 40 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 43.9548 discrimination. 44.9879 41 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 44.9879 (pause 0.67) 45.6629 42 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 45.6629 And my own father, 46.8830 43 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 46.8830 (pause 0.69) 47.5763 44 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 47.5763 because. 48.0952 45 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 48.0952 (pause 1.04) 49.1329 46 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 49.1329 Oh, I'm going backwards now. 50.7216 47 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 50.7216 (pause 0.41) 51.1336 48 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 51.1336 I got to tell you what happened. 52.6580 49 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 52.6580 (pause 1.17) 53.8288 50 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 53.8288 He, um, 54.8023 51 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 54.8023 (pause 1.24) 56.0376 52 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 56.0376 He had a heart attack. 57.4151 53 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 57.4151 (pause 0.80) 58.2140 54 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 58.2140 He call me 59.0936 55 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 59.0936 (pause 0.20) 59.2910 56 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 59.2910 on, 59.7180 57 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 59.7180 (pause 0.41) 60.1267 58 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 60.1267 this in two thousand and uh 62.4478 59 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 62.4478 (pause 1.05) 63.4993 60 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 63.4993 two thousand and 64.6520 61 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 64.6520 (pause 2.31) 66.9616 62 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 66.9616 67.3358 63 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 67.3358 (pause 0.31) 67.6436 64 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 67.6436 seven, I think. 68.6491 65 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 68.6491 (pause 0.54) 69.1865 66 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 69.1865 Hadn't been that long ago. 70.5501 67 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 70.5501 (pause 0.74) 71.2941 68 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 71.2941 He was ninety three years old. 72.9379 69 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 72.9379 (pause 0.36) 73.2962 70 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 73.2962 He was still going to the U of R. 75.3372 71 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 75.3372 (pause 0.76) 76.0925 72 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 76.0925 He was the head of the economics department at that time. 78.9439 73 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 78.9439 (pause 0.86) 79.8012 74 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 79.8012 He would still go there once a week. 81.5461 75 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 81.5461 (pause 0.88) 82.4276 76 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 82.4276 So, he had a heart attack. 83.9343 77 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 83.9343 (pause 0.38) 84.3128 78 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 84.3128 He was in the hospital for a while. 86.2482 79 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 86.2482 (pause 0.45) 86.6936 80 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 86.6936 When he came home 87.8348 81 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 87.8348 (pause 0.60) 88.4363 82 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 88.4363 he call and ask me to come and see him. 90.6816 83 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 90.6816 (pause 0.80) 91.4805 84 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 91.4805 So, I said, well, 92.4310 85 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 92.4310 (pause 0.55) 92.9776 86 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 92.9776 okay, I'm getting ready to go to church now. Can I come 95.7854 87 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 95.7854 (pause 1.12) 96.9026 88 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 96.9026 this afternoon? 97.8841 89 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 97.8841 (pause 0.51) 98.3892 90 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 98.3892 I said probably maybe one thirty, 100.3544 91 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 100.3544 (pause 0.16) 100.5175 92 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 100.5175 two o'clock. 101.2635 93 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 101.2635 (pause 0.45) 101.7112 94 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 101.7112 He said, Okay. So, 103.0681 95 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 103.0681 (pause 0.63) 103.6951 96 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 103.6951 103.7502 97 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 103.7502 (pause 0.16) 103.9131 98 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 103.9131 I stopped at 104.7328 99 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 104.7328 (pause 0.39) 105.1209 100 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 105.1209 Wegman's 105.7912 101 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 105.7912 (pause 0.69) 106.4846 102 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 106.4846 and I bought the little fruit tarts cause he likes tea. 109.7953 103 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 109.7953 (pause 0.52) 110.3120 104 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 110.3120 So, I said, well, we'll ha- 111.6527 105 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 111.6527 (pause 0.49) 112.1394 106 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 112.1394 we'll have a little fruit tart with the tea. 114.0519 107 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 114.0519 (pause 0.77) 114.8189 108 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 114.8189 So, 115.3008 109 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 115.3008 (pause 0.74) 116.0403 110 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 116.0403 I was going up the walk. 117.5418 111 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 117.5418 (pause 0.39) 117.9275 112 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 117.9275 He lived on Dorchester Road in um Beachwood over there off 121.7062 113 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 121.7062 (pause 1.20) 122.9017 114 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 122.9017 Wenton 123.3336 115 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 123.3336 (pause 0.15) 123.4857 116 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 123.4857 [North Wenton.] 124.1117 117 ROC_int_01 123.5945 [Mm-Hm.] 124.0459 118 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 125.6226 So I was walking up the walk 127.2776 119 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 127.2776 (pause 0.46) 127.7366 120 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 127.7366 and I said, 128.3814 121 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 128.3814 (pause 0.86) 129.2438 122 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 129.2438 I'm tired of this man playing these games. I said 132.3931 123 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 132.3931 (pause 0.42) 132.8138 124 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 132.8138 I'm going to 133.1103 125 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 133.1103 (pause 0.10) 133.2151 126 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 133.2151 tell him 133.9740 127 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 133.9740 (pause 0.50) 134.4751 128 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 134.4751 all my life, I've been told he's my father 137.2487 129 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 137.2487 (pause 0.58) 137.8266 130 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 137.8266 and I'm'a ask him what he 139.5398 131 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 139.5398 (pause 0.41) 139.9525 132 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 139.9525 have to say about that. 141.2469 133 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 141.2469 (pause 0.71) 141.9529 134 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 141.9529 142.0800 135 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 142.0800 (pause 0.33) 142.4095 136 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 142.4095 So, 142.9084 137 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 142.9084 (pause 0.52) 143.4308 138 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 143.4308 I got there, I rang the bell, 145.0606 139 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 145.0606 (pause 0.61) 145.6725 140 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 145.6725 and he said, It's open. 147.2680 141 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 147.2680 (pause 0.34) 147.6116 142 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 147.6116 147.7011 143 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 147.7011 (pause 0.21) 147.9118 144 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 147.9118 I though that was odd cause it was cold. 150.1098 145 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 150.1098 (pause 1.01) 151.1172 146 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 151.1172 So, 151.6230 147 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 151.6230 (pause 0.63) 152.2537 148 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 152.2537 I went in 153.0741 149 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 153.0741 (pause 0.45) 153.5245 150 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 153.5245 and he was sitting in a chair. 155.0707 151 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 155.0707 (pause 0.77) 155.8448 152 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 155.8448 And he looked so bad. 157.2144 153 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 157.2144 (pause 0.62) 157.8310 154 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 157.8310 Oh, he looked so. 158.9136 155 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 158.9136 (pause 0.80) 159.7099 156 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 159.7099 He was 160.0841 157 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 160.0841 (pause 0.12) 160.2065 158 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 160.2065 pale. 160.7007 159 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 160.7007 (pause 0.58) 161.2838 160 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 161.2838 He was a big tall man. 162.9702 161 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 162.9702 (pause 0.63) 163.5953 162 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 163.5953 And um. 164.2307 163 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 164.2307 (pause 0.69) 164.9226 164 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 164.9226 165.0168 165 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 165.0168 (pause 0.47) 165.4875 166 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 165.4875 I told him, I said, um, 166.9324 167 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 166.9324 (pause 0.70) 167.6345 168 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 167.6345 How you doing? Or something I said. 169.3383 169 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 169.3383 (pause 1.01) 170.3522 170 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 170.3522 And he- he couldn't talk good. 172.2607 171 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 172.2607 (pause 0.35) 172.6133 172 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 172.6133 So. 172.9992 173 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 172.9992 (pause 1.38) 174.3808 174 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 174.3808 I said, I told him I brought him something. And he said, well, I'll make us some tea. He got up. I said, I could do it. 179.8733 175 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 179.8733 (pause 0.35) 180.2257 176 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 180.2257 He said, let me do it. 181.2376 177 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 181.2376 (pause 0.45) 181.6848 178 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 181.6848 I wanna do it. I said okay. 183.3086 179 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 183.3086 (pause 0.63) 183.9346 180 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 183.9346 184.0334 181 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 184.0334 (pause 0.25) 184.2829 182 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 184.2829 So, I thought I saw him trying to go in there and make the tea. 188.1092 183 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 188.1092 (pause 0.68) 188.7928 184 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 188.7928 And I said, I'm not gonna say anything to him. 191.5462 185 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 191.5462 (pause 0.66) 192.2047 186 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 192.2047 What would I accomplish? 193.4802 187 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 193.4802 (pause 0.94) 194.4198 188 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 194.4198 He's so 195.0417 189 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 195.0417 (pause 0.17) 195.2129 190 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 195.2129 sick, I cannot say something 197.4940 191 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 197.4940 (pause 0.42) 197.9147 192 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 197.9147 that might upset him. 199.1478 193 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 199.1478 (pause 1.48) 200.6229 194 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 200.6229 So, I didn't. 201.3755 195 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 201.3755 (pause 0.86) 202.2326 196 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 202.2326 So, we 202.8293 197 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 202.8293 (pause 0.29) 203.1211 198 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 203.1211 we ate the tart, we sipped the tea. 205.2062 199 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 205.2062 (pause 0.73) 205.9357 200 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 205.9357 And he told me, um, 207.6772 201 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 207.6772 (pause 1.36) 209.0364 202 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 209.0364 he ha- 209.6388 203 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 209.6388 (pause 0.53) 210.1660 204 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 210.1660 um, 210.6602 205 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 210.6602 (pause 1.04) 211.7051 206 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 211.7051 211.7616 207 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 211.7616 (pause 0.24) 211.9969 208 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 211.9969 All his 212.6276 209 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 212.6276 (pause 0.19) 212.8159 210 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 212.8159 papers, 213.5063 211 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 213.5063 (pause 0.98) 214.4900 212 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 214.4900 and 215.0554 213 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 215.0554 (pause 0.16) 215.2201 214 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 215.2201 all his 215.8451 215 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 215.8451 (pause 0.14) 215.9863 216 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 215.9863 work. He's very well known in Japan. 218.7151 217 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 218.7151 (pause 0.47) 219.1821 218 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 219.1821 Because he educated so many Japanese students 222.3545 219 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 222.3545 (pause 0.38) 222.7301 220 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 222.7301 in this country. 223.6291 221 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 223.6291 (pause 1.14) 224.7661 222 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 224.7661 And, 225.1724 223 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 225.1724 (pause 0.13) 225.3030 224 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 225.3030 they have a floor 226.4820 225 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 226.4820 (pause 0.17) 226.6514 226 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 226.6514 on a, in a library. 228.1764 227 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 228.1764 (pause 0.19) 228.3647 228 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 228.3647 I mean a museum. 229.4509 229 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 229.4509 (pause 0.57) 230.0251 230 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 230.0251 And it's all of his 231.3898 231 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 231.3898 (pause 0.22) 231.6063 232 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 231.6063 work. 232.1149 233 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 232.1149 (pause 1.31) 233.4231 234 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 233.4231 And he got- he got all his 235.6624 235 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 235.6624 (pause 0.31) 235.9731 236 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 235.9731 work there and blah, blah. He told me where 238.5665 237 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 238.5665 (pause 0.86) 239.4278 238 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 239.4278 uh, something else was. But mostly everything was 242.5690 239 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 242.5690 (pause 0.36) 242.9310 240 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 242.9310 in Japan. 243.9183 241 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 243.9183 (pause 0.96) 244.8832 242 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 244.8832 Except what 245.7540 243 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 245.7540 (pause 0.48) 246.2293 244 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 246.2293 was at the U of R. 247.4343 245 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 247.4343 (pause 1.21) 248.6486 246 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 248.6486 And, 249.1334 247 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 249.1334 (pause 0.92) 250.0548 248 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 250.0548 he said, um, 251.4292 249 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 251.4292 (pause 1.53) 252.9589 250 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 252.9589 253.0860 251 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 253.0860 (pause 0.62) 253.7073 252 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 253.7073 What did he say? 254.6957 253 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 254.6957 (pause 1.13) 255.8300 254 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 255.8300 Oh. He said, 256.6490 255 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 256.6490 (pause 0.55) 257.1997 256 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 257.1997 he told /RD-NAME-2/, 258.5588 257 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 258.5588 (pause 0.27) 258.8271 258 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 258.8271 his younger son, 260.0979 259 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 260.0979 (pause 0.64) 260.7372 260 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 260.7372 he said, I told /RD-NAME-2/ about you and I gave him your information, 264.6950 261 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 264.6950 (pause 0.52) 265.2157 262 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 265.2157 so he can contact you. 266.9138 263 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 266.9138 (pause 0.42) 267.3327 264 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 267.3327 267.3845 265 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 267.3845 (pause 0.35) 267.7375 266 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 267.7375 And I said Oh, okay. 269.0271 267 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 269.0271 (pause 0.52) 269.5449 268 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 269.5449 So, he said /RD-NAME-2/ 270.9027 269 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 270.9027 (pause 0.15) 271.0533 270 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 271.0533 uh, doesn't come to the house. 272.8385 271 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 272.8385 (pause 0.69) 273.5327 272 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 273.5327 He hasn't been to this house in years cause 276.0884 273 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 276.0884 (pause 0.36) 276.4508 274 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 276.4508 it had a lot of bad memories for him 278.5548 275 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 278.5548 (pause 1.18) 279.7369 276 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 279.7369 So I was getting kind of leery. You know. So, 281.8935 277 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 281.8935 (pause 1.15) 283.0441 278 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 283.0441 he said, he lives 284.2949 279 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 284.2949 (pause 0.53) 284.8265 280 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 284.8265 in the South Wedge. 286.3611 281 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 286.3611 (pause 0.62) 286.9839 282 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 286.9839 He say, 287.5555 283 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 287.5555 (pause 0.37) 287.9229 284 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 287.9229 /RD-NAME-1/ bought him a house, set up a trust fund. 290.9067 285 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 290.9067 (pause 1.18) 292.0852 286 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 292.0852 No. She bought him a house. 293.5558 287 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 293.5558 (pause 0.38) 293.9382 288 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 293.9382 And she set up a trust fund. That was his 296.8582 289 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 296.8582 (pause 0.83) 297.6913 290 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 297.6913 sister. 298.3031 291 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 298.3031 (pause 2.53) 300.8296 292 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 300.8296 Oh. And I had- 301.7474 293 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 301.7474 (pause 2.15) 303.8983 294 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 303.8983 Yeah. 304.2372 295 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 304.2372 (pause 0.21) 304.4490 296 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 304.4490 I had been invited to the W- 306.1565 297 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 306.1565 (pause 0.72) 306.8766 298 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 306.8766 the we- 307.3285 299 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 307.3285 (pause 0.14) 307.4697 300 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 307.4697 the repass. 308.4722 301 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 308.4722 (pause 0.68) 309.1547 302 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 309.1547 After /RD-NAME-1/ died. 310.6091 303 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 310.6091 (pause 1.07) 311.6771 304 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 311.6771 Who was my brother, but /RD-NAME-1/ didn't know. 313.8222 305 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 313.8222 (pause 1.10) 314.9236 306 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 314.9236 /RD-NAME-1/ died of 315.6814 307 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 315.6814 (pause 0.28) 315.9591 308 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 315.9591 cancer. 316.5710 309 ROC_int_01 316.8965 Hm 317.0189 310 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 317.9461 And, 318.3969 311 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 318.3969 (pause 0.60) 318.9994 312 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 318.9994 /RD-NAME-1/ died of cancer. 320.4541 313 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 320.4541 (pause 1.11) 321.5664 314 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 321.5664 But, I wasn't invited to 323.3794 315 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 323.3794 (pause 0.58) 323.9624 316 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 323.9624 /RD-NAME-1/'s funeral. 325.1721 317 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 325.1721 (pause 0.68) 325.8540 318 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 325.8540 She ha- 326.2270 319 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 326.2270 (pause 0.13) 326.3612 320 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 326.3612 they had her funeral in Boston. 328.0695 321 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 328.0695 (pause 1.14) 329.2136 322 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 329.2136 But, I was invited to his wife's funeral. 331.6599 323 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 331.6599 (pause 1.07) 332.7295 324 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 332.7295 /RD-NAME-1/ was his wife. 334.1274 325 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 334.1274 (pause 0.70) 334.8240 326 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 334.8240 But /RD-NAME-1/ 335.6174 327 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 335.6174 (pause 0.18) 335.7926 328 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 335.7926 died of caner. 336.9024 329 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 336.9024 (pause 0.40) 337.3063 330 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 337.3063 Same cancer I had. 338.7309 331 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 338.7309 (pause 1.16) 339.8888 332 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 339.8888 And /RD-NAME-1/ died of breast cancer. 342.0727 333 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 342.0727 (pause 1.03) 343.0988 334 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 343.0988 Now, /RD-NAME-2/ is still living. He's the youngest one 345.8508 335 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 345.8508 (pause 1.44) 347.2878 336 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 347.2878 So, I asked, 348.3845 337 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 348.3845 (pause 0.23) 348.6151 338 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 348.6151 um, 349.1281 339 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 349.1281 (pause 0.46) 349.5894 340 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 349.5894 Oh, after 350.4602 341 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 350.4602 (pause 0.78) 351.2415 342 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 351.2415 I left, 351.8769 343 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 351.8769 (pause 1.22) 353.1006 344 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 353.1006 I told him to call me w- 354.4410 345 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 354.4410 (pause 0.40) 354.8457 346 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 354.8457 if he needed something. 356.0601 347 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 356.0601 (pause 1.17) 357.2274 348 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 357.2274 So, 357.7074 349 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 357.7074 (pause 0.49) 358.1969 350 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 358.1969 he said he would. 359.1995 351 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 359.1995 (pause 0.83) 360.0250 352 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 360.0250 And about two weeks later, I'm reading the paper. He had died. 363.1764 353 ROC_int_01 364.5272 Hm. 364.7390 354 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 364.8802 That quick. 365.6369 355 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 365.6369 (pause 0.68) 366.3147 356 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 366.3147 Just like two weeks later. 367.8081 357 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 367.8081 (pause 0.51) 368.3164 358 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 368.3164 I said, boy am I glad I didn't say anything 370.9004 359 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 370.9004 (pause 0.56) 371.4645 360 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 371.4645 to him. 371.9681 361 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 371.9681 (pause 1.06) 373.0318 362 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 373.0318 If he got upset, I didn't do it. 375.4888 363 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 375.4888 (pause 0.65) 376.1419 364 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 376.1419 So, 376.6032 365 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 376.6032 (pause 0.30) 376.8997 366 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 376.8997 after about a year, 378.1658 367 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 378.1658 (pause 0.33) 378.4953 368 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 378.4953 I didn't hear from /RD-NAME-2/. 379.9210 369 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 379.9210 (pause 0.70) 380.6176 370 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 380.6176 So, I looked up 381.6567 371 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 381.6567 (pause 0.98) 382.6404 372 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 382.6404 uh, the information on him. 384.4336 373 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 384.4336 (pause 1.41) 385.8409 374 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 385.8409 And I called him. 386.8482 375 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 386.8482 (pause 0.56) 387.4072 376 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 387.4072 And we set up a time to meet. 389.3464 377 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 389.3464 (pause 1.16) 390.5042 378 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 390.5042 And, 390.8996 379 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 390.8996 (pause 0.14) 391.0408 380 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 391.0408 we met over at Jine's. 392.9376 381 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 392.9376 (pause 0.58) 393.5165 382 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 393.5165 I asked him, did he have a favorite place? 395.9865 383 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 395.9865 (pause 0.58) 396.5654 384 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 396.5654 And he said Jine's. 398.0992 385 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 398.0992 (pause 0.58) 398.6782 386 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 398.6782 On uh, Park Avenue. 400.2691 387 ROC_int_01 400.2785 Mm-hm. 400.7444 388 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 400.8715 So, we met at- 401.8071 389 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 401.8071 (pause 0.27) 402.0749 390 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 402.0749 we were going to meet at Jine's. 403.6466 391 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 403.6466 (pause 0.42) 404.0710 392 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 404.0710 So, I got there first. 405.5829 393 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 405.5829 (pause 0.56) 406.1407 394 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 406.1407 And I was talking to a man 408.2013 395 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 408.2013 (pause 0.62) 408.8168 396 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 408.8168 that was waiting in line. 410.3088 397 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 410.3088 (pause 0.81) 411.1219 398 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 411.1219 And /RD-NAME-2/ walked in, 412.5819 399 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 412.5819 (pause 0.32) 412.9015 400 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 412.9015 and he gave that man that nastiest look. It scared me. 417.4211 401 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 417.4211 (pause 0.60) 418.0237 402 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 418.0237 I didn't really know it was /RD-NAME-2/ 419.7790 403 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 419.7790 (pause 0.59) 420.3733 404 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 420.3733 I thought, 420.8719 405 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 420.8719 (pause 0.56) 421.4320 406 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 421.4320 this man and this 422.3648 407 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 422.3648 (pause 0.42) 422.7885 408 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 422.7885 guy got something going. You know? 424.7580 409 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 424.7580 (pause 0.35) 425.1064 410 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 425.1064 I stepped out of the way. 426.3992 411 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 426.3992 (pause 0.73) 427.1327 412 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 427.1327 But, 427.5554 413 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 427.5554 (pause 0.60) 428.1530 414 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 428.1530 It was /RD-NAME-2/ and I didn't know it. 429.7935 415 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 429.7935 (pause 0.93) 430.7276 416 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 430.7276 And he's my brother and I didn't know it. 432.8422 417 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 432.8422 (pause 0.93) 433.7733 418 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 433.7733 And the way he looked. 435.1615 419 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 435.1615 (pause 0.73) 435.8911 420 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 435.8911 I didn't tell him 437.1003 421 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 437.1003 (pause 0.21) 437.3122 422 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 437.3122 That I might be his sister (laughing) [] 439.6111 423 ROC_int_01 439.1098 [Mh-hm.] 439.6205 424 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 440.2569 So, 440.7618 425 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 440.7618 (pause 0.26) 441.0207 426 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 441.0207 Um. 441.4490 427 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 441.4490 (pause 0.32) 441.7644 428 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 441.7644 441.8020 429 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 441.8020 (pause 0.48) 442.2829 430 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 442.2829 I said, are you 443.1546 431 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 443.1546 (pause 0.29) 443.4436 432 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 443.4436 /RD-NAME-2/? 443.9990 433 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 443.9990 (pause 0.41) 444.4122 434 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 444.4122 Cause nobody else came in. 446.0888 435 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 446.0888 (pause 0.66) 446.7535 436 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 446.7535 And he said. yeah. Yeah. Are you /RD-NAME-1/? and I said, yeah. 449.4852 437 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 449.4852 (pause 0.60) 450.0807 438 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 450.0807 So, he said, pleased to meet you. And then we got a seat 453.4360 439 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 453.4360 (pause 0.50) 453.9334 440 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 453.9334 They k- they took us to a table. 455.6194 441 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 455.6194 (pause 1.09) 456.7080 442 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 456.7080 And, 457.1209 443 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 457.1209 (pause 0.42) 457.5364 444 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 457.5364 I- so you like Jine's? He said 459.3741 445 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 459.3741 (pause 0.58) 459.9492 446 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 459.9492 oh, I've never been here. 461.0859 447 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 461.0859 (pause 1.06) 462.1438 448 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 462.1438 And I said, oh, okay. So, you know 464.4078 449 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 464.4078 (pause 0.50) 464.9067 450 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 464.9067 I'm thinking. 465.6192 451 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 465.6192 (pause 0.85) 466.4711 452 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 466.4711 Well, I done work with- 467.4360 453 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 467.4360 (pause 1.10) 468.5373 454 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 468.5373 in mental health for thirty-five years. So I know what to say and know- and what to do. 473.0825 455 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 473.0825 (pause 1.25) 474.3345 456 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 474.3345 So, we- 475.1024 457 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 475.1024 (pause 0.17) 475.2766 458 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 475.2766 we had 475.8791 459 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 475.8791 (pause 0.78) 476.6604 460 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 476.6604 lunch. 477.2958 461 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 477.2958 (pause 0.56) 477.8559 462 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 477.8559 And then, h- 478.5807 463 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 478.5807 (pause 0.16) 478.7407 464 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 478.7407 Uh, he- he said, um, 480.1437 465 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 480.1437 (pause 1.68) 481.8273 466 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 481.8273 where'd you get my phone number? And I said, your dad. 484.7313 467 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 484.7313 (pause 0.63) 485.3616 468 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 485.3616 He said, why? 486.2041 469 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 486.2041 (pause 0.75) 486.9546 470 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 486.9546 I said, well, 487.7327 471 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 487.7327 (pause 0.53) 488.2658 472 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 488.2658 he wanted us to be friends. 490.1049 473 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 490.1049 (pause 1.13) 491.2336 474 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 491.2336 And he said, 491.9815 475 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 491.9815 (pause 1.29) 493.2671 476 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 493.2671 oh, I don't know you. I said, I know. He said. Bu- 496.0016 477 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 496.0016 (pause 0.52) 496.5194 478 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 496.5194 But I know your dad. 497.7196 479 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 497.7196 (pause 0.87) 498.5939 480 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 498.5939 So, 499.1399 481 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 499.1399 (pause 0.44) 499.5777 482 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 499.5777 we agreed to meet. 500.7214 483 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 500.7214 (pause 0.95) 501.6674 484 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 501.6674 Oh, and then I found out that 503.2113 485 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 503.2113 (pause 0.64) 503.8514 486 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 503.8514 he's uh 504.8999 487 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 504.8999 (pause 0.89) 505.7918 488 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 505.7918 patient 506.2695 489 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 506.2695 (pause 0.26) 506.5272 490 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 506.5272 out pa- 507.0426 491 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 507.0426 (pause 0.53) 507.5776 492 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 507.5776 /?/ 507.8736 493 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 507.8736 (pause 1.48) 509.3553 494 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 509.3553 And he- from Strong. 510.7286 495 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 510.7286 (pause 0.51) 511.2369 496 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 511.2369 But, he gets all his treatments at 513.5762 497 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 513.5762 (pause 0.98) 514.5552 498 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 514.5552 Strong Ties. 515.7263 499 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 515.7263 (pause 1.04) 516.7710 500 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 516.7710 516.8321 501 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 516.8321 (pause 0.66) 517.4924 502 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 517.4924 So, I thought to myself, oh man. 520.1769 503 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 520.1769 (pause 0.95) 521.1229 504 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 521.1229 This is running in the family. 522.7609 505 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 522.7609 (pause 1.07) 523.8340 506 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 523.8340 So, 524.3188 507 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 524.3188 (pause 1.52) 525.8438 508 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 525.8438 we m- we agreed to meet another time. 528.2384 509 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 528.2384 (pause 0.50) 528.7374 510 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 528.7374 He had. 529.1563 511 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 529.1563 (pause 0.35) 529.5078 512 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 529.5078 He was gonna walk me to my car. 531.3858 513 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 531.3858 (pause 0.75) 532.1330 514 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 532.1330 His car was in the same 533.6674 515 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 533.6674 (pause 0.38) 534.0487 516 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 534.0487 parking lot. 534.7594 517 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 534.7594 (pause 0.87) 535.6302 518 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 535.6302 And, so 536.3691 519 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 536.3691 (pause 0.97) 537.3373 520 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 537.3373 we agreed 538.1045 521 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 538.1045 (pause 0.34) 538.4481 522 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 538.4481 to meet again. 539.3278 523 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 539.3278 (pause 0.17) 539.5019 524 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 539.5019 So, we met again in the same place. 541.5635 525 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 541.5635 (pause 0.78) 542.3390 526 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 542.3390 So, he said, um. 543.8216 527 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 543.8216 (pause 0.67) 544.4947 528 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 544.4947 You know Mrs. /RD-NAME-2/? 545.7467 529 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 545.7467 (pause 0.77) 546.5139 530 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 546.5139 And I said, yeah, I know her. 547.8506 531 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 547.8506 (pause 0.93) 548.7772 532 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 548.7772 And, uh, 549.2992 533 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 549.2992 (pause 0.27) 549.5722 534 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 549.5722 he said, well she wants to know, 551.3857 535 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 551.3857 (pause 0.24) 551.6211 536 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 551.6211 how do you know my 552.7507 537 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 552.7507 (pause 0.54) 553.2948 538 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 553.2948 dad? 553.7951 539 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 553.7951 (pause 1.08) 554.8719 540 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 554.8719 And I said, 555.6155 541 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 555.6155 (pause 0.16) 555.7756 542 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 555.7756 we're from the same 556.8940 543 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 556.8940 (pause 0.24) 557.1387 544 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 557.1387 home town. 557.9845 545 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 557.9845 (pause 1.20) 559.1842 546 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 559.1842 And she wants to know why he wants 561.5549 547 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 561.5549 (pause 0.98) 562.5339 548 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 562.5339 you- 562.9340 549 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 562.9340 (pause 0.78) 563.7106 550 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 563.7106 Why did he want you to contact me? 565.9923 551 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 565.9923 (pause 1.00) 566.9925 552 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 566.9925 And I said, 567.7550 553 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 567.7550 (pause 0.10) 567.8562 554 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 567.8562 cause he wanted us to be friends. 570.0298 555 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 570.0298 (pause 0.34) 570.3710 556 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 570.3710 cause we're from- 571.1123 557 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 571.1123 (pause 0.74) 571.8531 558 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 571.8531 cause I know your family. 573.4463 559 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 573.4463 (pause 0.71) 574.1523 560 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 574.1523 And he- 574.8084 561 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 574.8084 (pause 0.39) 575.1943 562 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 575.1943 your family knows my family. 577.2488 563 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 577.2488 (pause 0.55) 577.8013 564 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 577.8013 So, we left it at that. 579.1333 565 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 579.1333 (pause 0.55) 579.6816 566 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 579.6816 So, we's going to the 581.1001 567 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 581.1001 (pause 0.84) 581.9361 568 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 581.9361 parking lot. 582.7799 569 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 582.7799 (pause 0.83) 583.6083 570 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 583.6083 583.6977 571 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 583.6977 (pause 0.38) 584.0790 572 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 584.0790 He said, uh 585.1563 573 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 585.1563 (pause 0.76) 585.9211 574 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 585.9211 I got this new car. 587.5449 575 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 587.5449 (pause 1.26) 588.8064 576 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 588.8064 I, 589.1588 577 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 589.1588 (pause 0.30) 589.4600 578 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 589.4600 uh, 589.9848 579 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 589.9848 (pause 0.18) 590.1637 580 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 590.1637 but I'm afraid to drive it. 591.8293 581 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 591.8293 (pause 0.24) 592.0670 582 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 592.0670 I said, why? 593.0931 583 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 593.0931 (pause 0.60) 593.6950 584 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 593.6950 He said, 594.3516 585 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 594.3516 (pause 0.11) 594.4598 586 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 594.4598 uh, 594.8011 587 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 594.8011 (pause 0.12) 594.9258 588 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 594.9258 cause it's got air conditioning. 596.7050 589 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 596.7050 (pause 0.68) 597.3822 590 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 597.3822 And I know it's gonna 598.4897 591 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 598.4897 (pause 0.49) 598.9839 592 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 598.9839 burn up a lot of gas. 600.3836 593 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 600.3836 (pause 0.64) 601.0284 594 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 601.0284 I said, no, that's not 602.3699 595 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 602.3699 (pause 0.47) 602.8376 596 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 602.8376 the way is is now. They make cars better now. 605.4028 597 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 605.4028 (pause 0.49) 605.8947 598 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 605.8947 They don't burn anymore gas than a 607.8921 599 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 607.8921 (pause 0.36) 608.2475 600 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 608.2475 car with no air conditioning 609.7837 601 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 609.7837 (pause 0.69) 610.4723 602 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 610.4723 He said, really? I said, yeah. Just enjoy your car. 613.6888 603 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 613.6888 (pause 1.35) 615.0438 604 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 615.0438 So, 615.6698 605 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 615.6698 (pause 0.95) 616.6247 606 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 616.6247 every now and then, he would call me. 618.6298 607 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 618.6298 (pause 1.36) 619.9901 608 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 619.9901 But, when I s- 620.7102 609 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 620.7102 (pause 0.16) 620.8738 610 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 620.8738 would see that 621.5987 611 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 621.5987 (pause 0.17) 621.7681 612 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 621.7681 caller ID, 623.0852 613 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 623.0852 (pause 0.81) 623.8947 614 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 623.8947 I wouldn't answer. 624.8361 615 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 624.8361 (pause 1.37) 626.2105 616 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 626.2105 I said, I'm not getting in t- I'm staying away from this. 629.2730 617 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 629.2730 (pause 0.98) 630.2567 618 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 630.2567 So, 630.8121 619 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 630.8121 (pause 0.51) 631.3211 620 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 631.3211 one day, I got a letter from him and it said, 634.4385 621 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 634.4385 (pause 1.69) 636.1235 622 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 636.1235 could you send me your 637.5862 623 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 637.5862 (pause 1.00) 638.5841 624 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 638.5841 address and phone number? 640.3020 625 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 640.3020 (pause 0.46) 640.7633 626 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 640.7633 I lost it. 641.7470 627 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 641.7470 (pause 1.14) 642.8907 628 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 642.8907 So, I sent him 644.3811 629 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 644.3811 (pause 0.47) 644.8470 630 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 644.8470 my phone number, 645.8778 631 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 645.8778 (pause 0.17) 646.0520 632 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 646.0520 but I didn't send him my address. 647.8923 633 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 647.8923 (pause 1.26) 649.1558 634 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 649.1558 And I didn't hear from him anymore. 651.0777 635 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 651.0777 (pause 1.18) 652.2546 636 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 652.2546 So, one day, 653.1016 637 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 653.1016 (pause 0.32) 653.4216 638 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 653.4216 I was bringing someone from the 655.4727 639 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 655.4727 (pause 0.20) 655.6698 640 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 655.6698 health 656.0534 641 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 656.0534 (pause 0.61) 656.6596 642 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 656.6596 place on South Clinton, which is Highland, 659.4932 643 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 659.4932 (pause 0.57) 660.0627 644 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 660.0627 part of Highland hospital, 661.4972 645 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 661.4972 (pause 0.84) 662.3395 646 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 662.3395 and the traffic 663.2528 647 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 663.2528 (pause 0.32) 663.5679 648 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 663.5679 diverted me a different way. 665.5353 649 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 665.5353 (pause 0.80) 666.3354 650 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 666.3354 So, I found myself on /RD-ADDRESS-3/ Street, 668.9147 651 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 668.9147 (pause 0.54) 669.4555 652 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 669.4555 which is the street he lived on. 671.2953 653 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 671.2953 (pause 1.38) 672.6743 654 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 672.6743 And I said, oh, I said 674.1897 655 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 674.1897 (pause 0.65) 674.8439 656 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 674.8439 he lived at forty-one. 676.2512 657 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 676.2512 (pause 0.86) 677.1126 658 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 677.1126 So when I got to forty-one, 678.9331 659 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 678.9331 (pause 0.36) 679.2959 660 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 679.2959 some men was out, 680.2608 661 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 680.2608 (pause 0.38) 680.6420 662 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 680.6420 they had these saw horses and they was cutting 683.1776 663 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 683.1776 (pause 0.63) 683.8031 664 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 683.8031 plywood or whatever. 685.1534 665 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 685.1534 (pause 1.13) 686.2806 666 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 686.2806 And, I said, um, 687.3302 667 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 687.3302 (pause 1.22) 688.5492 668 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 688.5492 I said /RD-NAME-5/ 690.0930 669 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 690.0930 (pause 0.23) 690.3240 670 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 690.3240 live here? 690.9547 671 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 690.9547 (pause 0.96) 691.9195 672 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 691.9195 And, they said, no. 693.1621 673 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 693.1621 (pause 0.37) 693.5292 674 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 693.5292 I said, oh, okay, uh, 695.0683 675 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 695.0683 (pause 0.48) 695.5531 676 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 695.5531 he used to live here didn't he? 696.9547 677 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 696.9547 (pause 0.55) 697.5029 678 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 697.5029 He said, 698.0655 679 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 698.0655 (pause 0.62) 698.6875 680 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 698.6875 we don't know, some- 699.7646 681 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 699.7646 (pause 0.11) 699.8728 682 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 699.8728 they got somebody that bought the house and hired them to do the work. 703.2760 683 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 703.2760 (pause 1.15) 704.4310 684 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 704.4310 So, I said, oh, okay. 705.8618 685 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 705.8618 (pause 0.24) 706.0974 686 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 706.0974 Sorry to bother you. No problem, they say. 708.2484 687 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 708.2484 (pause 0.54) 708.7883 688 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 708.7883 So, when I got to work, 710.2097 689 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 710.2097 (pause 0.24) 710.4545 690 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 710.4545 I looked it up. 711.2828 691 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 711.2828 (pause 1.35) 712.6290 692 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 712.6290 And, 713.1221 693 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 713.1221 (pause 0.41) 713.5363 694 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 713.5363 the house was burned up. 715.1130 695 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 715.1130 (pause 0.91) 716.0214 696 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 716.0214 Inside, 716.6898 697 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 716.6898 (pause 0.88) 717.5700 698 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 717.5700 every room was 718.5243 699 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 718.5243 (pause 0.28) 718.8067 700 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 718.8067 burned up and water damage. 720.7036 701 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 720.7036 (pause 0.46) 721.1648 702 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 721.1648 It was a mess. 722.6259 703 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 722.6259 (pause 0.61) 723.2378 704 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 723.2378 I said, 723.7085 705 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 723.7085 (pause 0.19) 723.8971 706 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 723.8971 thank God I didn't tell him where I live. 726.7049 707 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 726.7049 (pause 0.61) 727.3192 708 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 727.3192 He could have gone, 728.3136 709 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 728.3136 (pause 0.27) 728.5799 710 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 728.5799 got sick, 729.2341 711 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 729.2341 (pause 0.56) 729.7895 712 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 729.7895 and come over here and burn my house or hurt me and my granddaughters. 733.7714 713 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 733.7714 (pause 0.82) 734.5888 714 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 734.5888 Or something terrible. You know? 736.3303 715 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 736.3303 (pause 0.85) 737.1822 716 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 737.1822 Said, 737.5352 717 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 737.5352 (pause 0.13) 737.6670 718 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 737.6670 I'm glad I didn't tell him. 738.9614 719 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 738.9614 (pause 0.87) 739.8310 720 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 739.8310 So, I don't know where he is, 741.9349 721 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 741.9349 (pause 0.40) 742.3397 722 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 742.3397 cause he's not in that house. That's the only contact I had with him. 745.9592 723 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 745.9592 (pause 0.59) 746.5513 724 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 746.5513 His cell phone number is 748.0903 725 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 748.0903 (pause 1.51) 749.6011 726 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 749.6011 no- no longer. 750.8531 727 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 750.8531 (pause 1.09) 751.9398 728 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 751.9398 And Mrs. /RD-NAME-2/, 753.0360 729 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 753.0360 (pause 0.77) 753.8108 730 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 753.8108 she's probably in a nursing home if she's still alive, cause [she's a lot] older than me. 758.6388 731 ROC_int_01 757.0809 [Mm-hm] 757.5656 732 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 759.3296 She was around my dad's age. 761.3958 733 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 761.3958 (pause 0.63) 762.0265 734 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 762.0265 And, I think, t- 762.7420 735 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 762.7420 (pause 0.51) 763.2550 736 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 763.2550 they had something going, cause he was kind of like a lady's man. 766.9769 737 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 766.9769 (pause 1.07) 768.0501 738 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 768.0501 And, 768.5019 739 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 768.5019 (pause 1.13) 769.6353 740 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 769.6353 she- her husband was the director of the psych center. 773.1203 741 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 773.1203 (pause 0.69) 773.8084 742 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 773.8084 So, that's probably how they met. 775.8547 743 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 775.8547 (pause 0.68) 776.5325 744 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 776.5325 And, when her husband died, 778.0449 745 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 778.0449 (pause 1.21) 779.2554 746 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 779.2554 Old /RD-NAME-2/ s- 780.1932 747 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 780.1932 (pause 0.40) 780.5886 748 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 780.5886 stepped in. 781.5676 749 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 781.5676 (pause 0.50) 782.0636 750 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 782.0636 Cause he told me she would come to his house every Thursday evening. 785.9794 751 ROC_int_01 786.2383 Mm-hm. 786.6138 752 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 786.7382 So, he didn't 787.6128 753 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 787.6128 (pause 0.13) 787.7384 754 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 787.7384 go into details. 788.9890 755 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 788.9890 (pause 1.04) 790.0293 756 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 790.0293 I- I know I told you a lot and I skipped all around [everything, but.] 794.3013 757 ROC_int_01 793.2639 [I don't-] 793.5764 758 ROC_int_01 793.5764 (pause 0.23) 793.8096 759 ROC_int_01 793.8096 [It'll be fine.] 794.7226 760 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 794.7226 I don't even know if I put that in here about- 797.1448 761 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 797.5507 about my dad. 798.5059 762 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 798.5059 (pause 1.71) 800.2178 763 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 800.2178 But he owned the town. 801.7384 764 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 801.7384 (pause 0.30) 802.0349 765 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 802.0349 No, I didn't put it in here because /RD-NAME-2/ said 804.8773 766 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 804.8773 (pause 0.67) 805.5504 767 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 805.5504 I might not- 806.3929 768 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 806.3929 (pause 0.64) 807.0318 769 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 807.0318 you might not need to talk to me, 808.7640 770 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 808.7640 (pause 0.39) 809.1547 771 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 809.1547 cause I didn't grow up here. 810.5460 772 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 810.5460 (pause 0.71) 811.2539 773 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 811.2539 So, 811.7198 774 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 811.7198 (pause 0.87) 812.5917 775 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 812.5917 I thought 813.2166 776 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 813.2166 (pause 0.84) 814.0564 777 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 814.0564 well, maybe I'll just tell her how I got here. [] 817.2919 778 ROC_int_01 817.1127 [Yeah], no. It's- [it's been] really good. And, 819.3954 779 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 817.9646 [So,] 818.2705 780 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 819.5389 Mm-hm. 819.9069 781 ROC_int_01 819.9399 I have two more questions. 821.4507 782 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 821.4565 [Okay. 822.0296 783 ROC_int_01 821.5911 Um. 821.9355 784 ROC_int_01 822.0712 But, the- the n- 822.9969 785 ROC_int_01 822.9969 (pause 0.19) 823.1852 786 ROC_int_01 823.1852 next one is about- Y- I feel like you have so much knowledge of how Rochester has looked between 828.8268 787 ROC_int_01 828.8268 (pause 0.62) 829.4423 788 ROC_int_01 829.4423 you [know, uh] 830.7132 789 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 829.8330 [Uh.] 830.2707 790 ROC_int_01 831.2780 what 831.5510 791 ROC_int_01 831.5510 (pause 0.12) 831.6686 792 ROC_int_01 831.6686 the forties and now, and, 834.0173 793 ROC_int_01 834.0173 (pause 0.30) 834.3221 794 ROC_int_01 834.3221 what do you think are some of the biggest changes 836.7367 795 ROC_int_01 836.7367 (pause 0.58) 837.3203 796 ROC_int_01 837.3203 that the community has seen? 839.2149 797 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 839.7665 Oh. 840.3595 798 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 840.3595 (pause 1.83) 842.1858 799 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 842.1858 The biggest change 843.4602 800 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 843.4602 (pause 0.13) 843.5920 801 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 843.5920 that I see, 844.7225 802 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 844.7225 (pause 2.16) 846.8837 803 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 846.8837 is how the- 847.7716 804 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 847.7716 (pause 0.23) 847.9975 805 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 847.9975 the neighborhoods have changed. 849.6626 806 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 849.6626 (pause 1.15) 850.8153 807 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 850.8153 And how our people have 852.5612 808 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 852.5612 (pause 0.83) 853.3941 809 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 853.3941 progressed. 854.2234 810 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 854.2234 (pause 0.20) 854.4258 811 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 854.4258 I'll use that word. 855.5873 812 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 855.5873 (pause 0.80) 856.3921 813 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 856.3921 We seem to be doing better 858.4674 814 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 858.4674 (pause 0.44) 858.9102 815 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 858.9102 than when I was coming up. 860.9130 816 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 860.9130 (pause 1.06) 861.9719 817 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 861.9719 And, 862.4474 818 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 862.4474 (pause 0.29) 862.7334 819 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 862.7334 we have our own homes, 864.4325 820 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 864.4325 (pause 0.12) 864.5549 821 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 864.5549 we have our own business. 866.0846 822 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 866.0846 (pause 0.59) 866.6717 823 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 866.6717 Our children are 868.0552 824 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 868.0552 (pause 0.92) 868.9730 825 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 868.9730 more successful. 870.2956 826 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 870.2956 (pause 0.41) 870.7072 827 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 870.7072 Cause the opportunities seem to be there. 872.9820 828 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 872.9820 (pause 0.36) 873.3412 829 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 873.3412 Like, when I was in high school, I wasn't prepared 876.1920 830 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 876.1920 (pause 0.64) 876.8272 831 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 876.8272 for college. 877.7301 832 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 877.7301 (pause 0.63) 878.3590 833 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 878.3590 I had to take 879.2692 834 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 879.2692 (pause 0.64) 879.9072 835 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 879.9072 home economics. 881.0521 836 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 881.0521 (pause 0.52) 881.5736 837 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 881.5736 I can set a table. 882.7126 838 ROC_int_01 883.7419 [Mm-hm.] 884.2361 839 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 884.0657 [Or, I] can have a tea. I can t- 885.6801 840 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 885.9503 I can- I can do a tea. 887.5071 841 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 887.5071 (pause 0.61) 888.1169 842 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 888.1169 Those are the things I was taught 889.9090 843 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 889.9090 (pause 0.54) 890.4536 844 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 890.4536 in high school. 891.2645 845 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 891.2645 (pause 0.26) 891.5263 846 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 891.5263 And how to sew. 892.4448 847 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 892.4448 (pause 0.54) 892.9878 848 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 892.9878 Took me a whole year to make a apron. 894.8111 849 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 894.8111 (pause 0.88) 895.6878 850 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 895.6878 But, that's what they was teaching me 897.4031 851 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 897.4031 (pause 0.66) 898.0636 852 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 898.0636 So now, 898.8758 853 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 898.8758 (pause 0.34) 899.2111 854 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 899.2111 young people are better prepared 901.0629 855 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 901.0629 (pause 0.47) 901.5289 856 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 901.5289 and- like yourself. 902.7194 857 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 902.7194 (pause 0.44) 903.1569 858 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 903.1569 They're doing better. 904.1121 859 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 904.1121 (pause 0.12) 904.2368 860 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 904.2368 They're going to college. 905.3594 861 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 905.3594 (pause 0.46) 905.8183 862 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 905.8183 They're applying, they're getting accepted. 907.8161 863 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 907.8161 (pause 0.48) 908.2951 864 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 908.2951 Some of 'em 909.0904 865 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 909.0904 (pause 0.27) 909.3635 866 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 909.3635 get assistance. Some pay their own. 911.5051 867 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 911.5051 (pause 0.30) 911.8016 868 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 911.8016 S- 911.9475 869 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 911.9475 (pause 0.70) 912.6452 870 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 912.6452 You know, it's- 913.3031 871 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 913.3031 (pause 0.68) 913.9881 872 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 913.9881 And the neighborhoods look so much better. 916.6438 873 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 916.6438 (pause 1.06) 917.6999 874 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 917.6999 So much better. 918.7730 875 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 918.7730 (pause 0.61) 919.3818 876 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 919.3818 A lot of the old houses and buildings 921.7242 877 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 921.7242 (pause 0.48) 922.2090 878 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 922.2090 have been torn down 923.5493 879 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 923.5493 (pause 0.31) 923.8594 880 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 923.8594 and replaced with newer ones. 925.6485 881 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 925.6485 (pause 0.74) 926.3888 882 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 926.3888 I see 926.9993 883 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 926.9993 (pause 0.81) 927.8087 884 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 927.8087 apartments, 928.7444 885 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 928.7444 (pause 0.20) 928.9421 886 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 928.9421 complexes, 929.9541 887 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 929.9541 (pause 0.39) 930.3400 888 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 930.3400 all over. 931.1355 889 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 931.1355 (pause 0.83) 931.9638 890 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 931.9638 Um. 932.6651 891 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 932.6651 (pause 1.31) 933.9783 892 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 933.9783 934.0677 893 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 934.0677 (pause 1.33) 935.3940 894 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 935.3940 Like, hanover houses. There are other 937.7991 895 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 937.7991 (pause 0.52) 938.3206 896 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 938.3206 projects like that. 939.6218 897 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 939.6218 (pause 0.36) 939.9794 898 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 939.9794 Shopping malls, 941.3445 899 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 941.3445 (pause 0.72) 942.0646 900 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 942.0646 strip malls. 943.2084 901 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 943.2084 (pause 0.46) 943.6690 902 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 943.6690 You know, it's so many 945.1794 903 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 945.1794 (pause 0.42) 945.5996 904 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 945.5996 changes 946.3467 905 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 946.3467 (pause 0.38) 946.7313 906 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 946.7313 to make life 947.5987 907 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 947.5987 (pause 0.16) 947.7630 908 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 947.7630 better 948.4103 909 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 948.4103 (pause 0.53) 948.9359 910 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 948.9359 in Rochester. 949.8945 911 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 949.8945 (pause 0.69) 950.5865 912 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 950.5865 That's what I see. 951.6642 913 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 951.6642 (pause 0.74) 952.4079 914 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 952.4079 I don't know what 953.0291 915 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 953.0291 (pause 0.15) 953.1751 916 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 953.1751 somebody else see. 954.1663 917 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 954.1663 (pause 0.45) 954.6161 918 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 954.6161 That's what I see. 955.4343 919 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 955.4343 (pause 0.27) 955.7073 920 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 955.7073 And it feels good 957.0900 921 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 957.0900 (pause 0.25) 957.3384 922 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 957.3384 to see that. 957.9674 923 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 957.9674 (pause 0.56) 958.5322 924 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 958.5322 I just 959.1582 925 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 959.1582 (pause 0.36) 959.5136 926 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 959.5136 had a friend die Friday night. 961.3845 927 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 961.3845 (pause 0.55) 961.9331 928 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 961.9331 And, 962.3117 929 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 962.3117 (pause 0.64) 962.9495 930 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 962.9495 I would take him to 964.5275 931 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 964.5275 (pause 0.94) 965.4641 932 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 965.4641 get his groceries 966.6408 933 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 966.6408 (pause 0.43) 967.0753 934 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 967.0753 first of every month. 968.2128 935 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 968.2128 (pause 0.70) 968.9131 936 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 968.9131 969.0528 937 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 969.0528 (pause 0.41) 969.4637 938 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 969.4637 And, 969.9044 939 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 969.9044 (pause 0.57) 970.4695 940 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 970.4695 I took him out to Citygate. 972.2296 941 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 972.2296 (pause 0.19) 972.4205 942 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 972.4205 Oh. 972.6532 943 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 972.6532 (pause 1.01) 973.6667 944 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 973.6667 because he remembered when it was Iola Sanitarium. 976.8555 945 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 976.8555 (pause 0.71) 977.5648 946 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 977.5648 So, to see Citygate, 979.0992 947 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 979.0992 (pause 0.18) 979.2782 948 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 979.2782 oh, that was 980.1317 949 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 980.1317 (pause 0.69) 980.8189 950 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 980.8189 up his alley. 981.6143 951 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 981.6143 (pause 0.94) 982.5495 952 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 982.5495 And, 982.8663 953 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 982.8663 (pause 0.28) 983.1449 954 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 983.1449 I wouldn't take him up here like, 985.1588 955 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 985.1588 (pause 0.86) 986.0201 956 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 986.0201 what he called, the Ghetto Tops. 988.0393 957 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 988.0393 (pause 0.63) 988.6653 958 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 988.6653 I'd take him out 989.5595 959 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 989.5595 (pause 0.48) 990.0349 960 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 990.0349 Henrietta Tops, or- 991.7641 961 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 991.7641 (pause 1.01) 992.7739 962 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 992.7739 cause he never got out of the city. 994.6040 963 ROC_int_01 994.7876 Mm-hm. 995.1485 964 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 995.3665 He never- 996.1737 965 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 996.1737 (pause 0.10) 996.2702 966 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 996.2702 he never went out of this neighborhood barely. 999.1508 967 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 999.1508 (pause 1.38) 1000.5351 968 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1000.5351 And he died Friday night. 1002.4020 969 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1002.4020 (pause 0.53) 1002.9291 970 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1002.9291 And, two weeks ago, he turned sixty. 1005.2967 971 ROC_int_01 1005.9780 Mm. 1006.3734 972 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1007.3318 He- his legs, 1008.7135 973 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1008.7135 (pause 0.47) 1009.1833 974 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1009.1833 his knees was bone on bone. 1011.4930 975 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1011.4930 (pause 1.09) 1012.5870 976 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1012.5870 And, 1013.0404 977 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1013.0404 (pause 0.43) 1013.4687 978 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1013.4687 they wouldn't 1014.1371 979 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1014.1371 (pause 0.18) 1014.3159 980 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1014.3159 do surgery 1015.6009 981 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1015.6009 (pause 0.41) 1016.0150 982 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1016.0150 because 1016.5610 983 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1016.5610 (pause 0.32) 1016.8842 984 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1016.8842 he was too young. 1017.9260 985 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1017.9260 (pause 1.04) 1018.9700 986 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1018.9700 But, when he 1019.4737 987 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1019.4737 (pause 0.13) 1019.6031 988 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1019.6031 turned sixty, 1020.5089 989 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1020.5089 (pause 0.99) 1021.5035 990 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1021.5035 he could- 1021.8094 991 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1021.8094 (pause 0.29) 1022.1001 992 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1022.1001 they would evaluate him. 1023.3945 993 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1023.3945 (pause 1.07) 1024.4639 994 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1024.4639 And, 1024.8724 995 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1024.8724 (pause 0.27) 1025.1407 996 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1025.1407 he turned sixty two weeks ago. 1027.1575 997 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1027.1575 (pause 0.57) 1027.7259 998 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1027.7259 But, he died 1028.4272 999 ROC_int_01 1028.9167 [Mm.] 1029.1567 1000 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1028.9732 [Friday.] 1029.6074 1001 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1030.0616 So, 1030.4831 1002 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1030.4831 (pause 0.75) 1031.2288 1003 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1031.2288 I- 1031.4590 1004 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1031.4590 (pause 0.92) 1032.3768 1005 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1032.3768 I feel terrible. 1033.4507 1006 ROC_int_01 1034.0665 /?/ 1034.2488 1007 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1034.2313 He was the best friend, 1035.6045 1008 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1036.3623 I- 1036.7671 1009 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1036.7671 (pause 0.73) 1037.4926 1010 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1037.4926 um, 1038.0473 1011 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1038.0473 (pause 0.74) 1038.7910 1012 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1038.7910 1038.8898 1013 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1038.8898 (pause 0.87) 1039.7581 1014 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1039.7581 My granddaughter. 1040.9985 1015 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1040.9985 (pause 1.31) 1042.3075 1016 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1042.3075 I have three granddaughters 1043.9767 1017 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1043.9767 (pause 0.46) 1044.4321 1018 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1044.4321 and each one of 'em- 1045.6570 1019 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1045.6570 (pause 0.10) 1045.7593 1020 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1045.7593 One of 'em I raised from an infant. 1048.2113 1021 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1048.2113 (pause 0.56) 1048.7746 1022 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1048.7746 The other two had lived in my house at some time. 1051.9839 1023 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1051.9839 (pause 0.40) 1052.3885 1024 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1052.3885 And, each time, 1053.3870 1025 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1053.3870 (pause 0.34) 1053.7307 1026 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1053.7307 cause he and his mother and his nephews lived across the street. 1057.3302 1027 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1057.3302 (pause 1.56) 1058.8881 1028 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1058.8881 They would help me with the girls. 1060.5962 1029 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1060.5962 (pause 0.27) 1060.8681 1030 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1060.8681 Like, 1061.1552 1031 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1061.1552 (pause 0.50) 1061.6566 1032 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1061.6566 when school was 1062.5603 1033 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1062.5603 (pause 0.75) 1063.3058 1034 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1063.3058 out, they would meet the bus and they would stay 1065.6573 1035 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1065.6573 (pause 0.15) 1065.8090 1036 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1065.8090 at their house until 1067.1191 1037 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1067.1191 (pause 0.78) 1067.8965 1038 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1067.8965 I got home from work. 1069.1653 1039 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1069.1653 (pause 0.78) 1069.9410 1040 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1069.9410 Or, 1070.4397 1041 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1070.4397 (pause 1.52) 1071.9553 1042 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1071.9553 um. 1072.5013 1043 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1072.5013 (pause 1.17) 1073.6685 1044 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1073.6685 He took - he'd take- he's been taking my garbage cans 1076.7371 1045 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1076.7371 (pause 0.31) 1077.0440 1046 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1077.0440 out 1077.3921 1047 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1077.3921 (pause 0.14) 1077.5356 1048 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1077.5356 every week 1078.1641 1049 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1078.1641 (pause 0.79) 1078.9531 1050 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1078.9531 for over thirty [years.] 1080.2450 1051 ROC_int_01 1080.1038 [Mm.] 1080.3674 1052 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1080.9887 And, 1081.3776 1053 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1081.3776 (pause 0.12) 1081.4929 1054 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1081.4929 the lady down the street that came to tell me he died. 1084.4941 1055 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1084.4941 (pause 0.44) 1084.9335 1056 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1084.9335 She say, he had just taken your garbage can 1087.6578 1057 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1087.6578 (pause 0.27) 1087.9246 1058 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1087.9246 put it in the backyard 1089.1912 1059 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1089.1912 (pause 0.92) 1090.1090 1060 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1090.1090 And, I said, yeah, I notice. 1091.4790 1061 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1091.4790 (pause 0.31) 1091.7922 1062 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1091.7922 I say, well. He do- she say I know, he does that every week. 1094.9848 1063 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1094.9848 (pause 0.74) 1095.7262 1064 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1095.7262 But, he 1096.3158 1065 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1096.3158 (pause 0.24) 1096.5558 1066 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1096.5558 had not just taken that. 1098.1515 1067 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1098.1515 (pause 0.10) 1098.2480 1068 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1098.2480 He died later in the evening. 1100.0937 1069 ROC_int_01 1100.4985 Mm-hm. 1100.9221 1070 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1101.1779 So, 1101.6839 1071 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1101.6839 (pause 0.21) 1101.8957 1072 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1101.8957 another, you know, I just 1103.5619 1073 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1103.5619 (pause 0.38) 1103.9394 1074 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1103.9394 I don't even know how we got on that. 1105.6235 1075 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1105.6235 (pause 1.14) 1106.7625 1076 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1106.7625 I told you, my mind wander sometime. 1108.9595 1077 ROC_int_01 1109.6508 [Still doing fine.] 1110.7949 1078 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1109.8276 [I'm not that crazy] though. 1111.0166 1079 ROC_int_01 1111.0966 No, you're [not.] 1112.0593 1080 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1111.8125 [But], I still work 1113.3411 1081 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1114.1220 1114.2314 1082 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1114.2314 (pause 0.37) 1114.6025 1083 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1114.6025 because, 1115.1437 1084 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1115.1437 (pause 0.51) 1115.6553 1085 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1115.6553 I feel like 1116.5025 1086 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1116.5025 (pause 2.01) 1118.5159 1087 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1118.5159 I need to work. 1119.6173 1088 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1119.6173 (pause 0.75) 1120.3673 1089 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1120.3673 And I'm 1120.8175 1090 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1120.8175 (pause 0.15) 1120.9681 1091 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1120.9681 e- 1121.1234 1092 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1121.1234 (pause 0.18) 1121.2988 1093 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1121.2988 I have a good pension and I have social security. 1124.2197 1094 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1124.2197 (pause 0.94) 1125.1600 1095 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1125.1600 But, I reduced 1126.0170 1096 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1126.0170 (pause 0.12) 1126.1387 1097 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1126.1387 both of them by twenty percent. 1128.2056 1098 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1128.2056 (pause 0.18) 1128.3853 1099 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1128.3853 I asked to reduce it. 1129.9942 1100 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1129.9942 (pause 0.54) 1130.5383 1101 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1130.5383 Because, 1131.1321 1102 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1131.1321 (pause 1.01) 1132.1385 1103 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1132.1385 they insist on paying me on my job. 1134.5304 1104 ROC_int_01 1135.0858 Mm-hm. 1135.3635 1105 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1136.0738 And, 1136.5296 1106 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1136.5296 (pause 0.77) 1137.2959 1107 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1137.2959 I guess technically, I have to. I can't volunteer, so they pay me. 1141.6771 1108 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1141.6771 (pause 0.78) 1142.4619 1109 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1142.4619 But, I was paying like, 1143.5351 1110 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1143.5351 (pause 0.63) 1144.1658 1111 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1144.1658 twenty, 1144.9084 1112 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1144.9084 (pause 0.18) 1145.0872 1113 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1145.0872 thirty thousand 1146.2168 1114 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1146.2168 (pause 0.50) 1146.7157 1115 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1146.7157 I mean hundred dollars 1148.0619 1116 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1148.0619 (pause 0.87) 1148.9360 1117 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1148.9360 every year for income tax. 1150.7212 1118 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1150.7212 (pause 0.78) 1151.5020 1119 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1151.5020 So, now, this 1152.6737 1120 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1152.6737 (pause 0.12) 1152.7937 1121 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1152.7937 past one, I only paid eleven hundred dollars. 1155.5125 1122 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1155.5125 (pause 0.68) 1156.1908 1123 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1156.1908 And, 1156.6680 1124 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1156.6680 (pause 1.07) 1157.7415 1125 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1157.7415 I've had to, 1158.6240 1126 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1158.6240 (pause 0.67) 1159.2939 1127 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1159.2939 um, 1159.8666 1128 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1159.8666 (pause 1.54) 1161.4082 1129 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1161.4082 take my deduction zero 1163.2696 1130 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1163.2696 (pause 0.85) 1164.1167 1131 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1164.1167 plus 1164.5722 1132 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1164.5722 (pause 0.19) 1164.7609 1133 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1164.7609 twenty-five dollars a pay check. 1166.7821 1134 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1166.7821 (pause 0.82) 1167.5997 1135 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1167.5997 And now, it's like 1168.8940 1136 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1168.8940 (pause 0.41) 1169.3022 1137 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1169.3022 zero 1170.0095 1138 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1170.0095 (pause 0.20) 1170.2126 1139 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1170.2126 plus fifty dollars a pay check. 1172.1594 1140 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1172.1594 (pause 0.62) 1172.7816 1141 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1172.7816 So, what I bring home is just a little extra money. 1176.0373 1142 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1176.0373 (pause 0.70) 1176.7394 1143 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1176.7394 I don't live off it. I couldn't live off it. 1178.9178 1144 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1178.9178 (pause 0.13) 1179.0484 1145 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1179.0484 It's not enough. 1180.0381 1146 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1180.0381 (pause 0.63) 1180.6634 1147 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1180.6634 But, it's a good living. 1181.9709 1148 ROC_int_01 1182.1380 Mm-hm. 1182.3412 1149 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1182.3092 You know, it's a good living. 1183.5876 1150 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1184.3219 And I was working nine hours a week. 1186.4399 1151 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1186.4399 (pause 0.80) 1187.2354 1152 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1187.2354 But they asked if I would like 1188.8259 1153 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1188.8259 (pause 0.16) 1188.9877 1154 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1188.9877 more hours since the twins came to live with me. 1191.8747 1155 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1191.8747 (pause 0.82) 1192.6937 1156 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1192.6937 Cause, 1193.0044 1157 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1193.0044 (pause 0.35) 1193.3543 1158 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1193.3543 they say, well, if they get sick, 1194.9145 1159 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1194.9145 (pause 0.65) 1195.5685 1160 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1195.5685 now, you won't get paid for it. 1197.4422 1161 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1197.4422 (pause 0.92) 1198.3657 1162 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1198.3657 But, 1198.7693 1163 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1198.7693 (pause 0.30) 1199.0647 1164 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1199.0647 or, if you wanna 1199.9167 1165 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1199.9167 (pause 0.14) 1200.0599 1166 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1200.0599 take 'em on a trip, 1201.0114 1167 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1201.0114 (pause 0.79) 1201.7967 1168 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1201.7967 you don't have vacation time. 1203.2833 1169 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1203.2833 (pause 0.60) 1203.8882 1170 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1203.8882 Try working 1204.8223 1171 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1204.8223 (pause 0.80) 1205.6224 1172 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1205.6224 twenty point five hours a week, 1207.7753 1173 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1207.7753 (pause 0.37) 1208.1428 1174 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1208.1428 and we can give you benefits. 1209.7266 1175 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1209.7266 (pause 0.25) 1209.9736 1176 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1209.9736 So, that's what I do. 1211.0116 1177 ROC_int_01 1211.0623 Mm-hm. 1211.5753 1178 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1211.7443 1211.8577 1179 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1211.8577 (pause 0.25) 1212.1126 1180 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1212.1126 Now, I get five hou- five weeks vacation. 1214.8371 1181 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1214.8371 (pause 0.68) 1215.5196 1182 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1215.5196 But, I only work twenty point five hours (laughing) a week. 1218.6567 1183 ROC_int_01 1218.6297 [Mm-hm.] 1219.0969 1184 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1218.9850 [I have] 1219.2992 1185 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1219.5153 five weeks [vacation.] 1221.0972 1186 ROC_int_01 1220.6783 [] 1221.2008 1187 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1221.6368 And, I get sick time. 1222.8829 1188 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1222.8829 (pause 0.89) 1223.7772 1189 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1223.7772 So, 1224.3420 1190 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1224.3420 (pause 0.69) 1225.0369 1191 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1225.0369 it works out fine. 1226.1557 1192 ROC_int_01 1226.7535 Yeah. 1227.1300 1193 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1227.3701 They would pay my 1228.4432 1194 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1228.4432 (pause 0.24) 1228.6833 1195 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1228.6833 health insurance, but the state pays it. 1230.7971 1196 ROC_int_01 1230.9722 [Right.] 1231.3770 1197 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1231.0109 [So, I] don't pay anything now. 1233.0243 1198 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1233.6703 So, uh. 1234.1457 1199 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1234.1457 (pause 0.75) 1234.8948 1200 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1234.8948 I- I'm fortunate 1236.0537 1201 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1236.0537 (pause 0.10) 1236.1549 1202 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1236.1549 that I'm able to work and I think it's 1238.4983 1203 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1238.4983 (pause 0.61) 1239.1112 1204 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1239.1112 I'm healthy because- Well, I did have cancer. 1242.0357 1205 ROC_int_01 1242.4660 Mm-hm. 1242.7132 1206 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1242.7132 I had stage three 1244.1323 1207 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1244.2782 invasive 1245.1640 1208 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1245.1640 (pause 0.22) 1245.3805 1209 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1245.3805 colon cancer. 1246.4292 1210 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1246.4292 (pause 0.91) 1247.3359 1211 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1247.3359 And, I didn't know it 1248.1498 1212 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1248.1498 (pause 0.54) 1248.6900 1213 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1248.6900 til two weeks 1249.5298 1214 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1249.5298 (pause 0.21) 1249.7440 1215 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1249.7440 afterwards 1250.5747 1216 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1250.5747 (pause 0.74) 1251.3170 1217 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1251.3170 when I went to have the staples removed. 1253.7230 1218 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1253.7230 (pause 1.19) 1254.9130 1219 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1254.9130 And, after 1255.8367 1220 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1255.8367 (pause 0.10) 1255.9405 1221 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1255.9405 they removed the staples, the nurse 1257.8509 1222 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1257.8509 (pause 0.14) 1257.9912 1223 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1257.9912 handed me a 1258.9900 1224 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1258.9900 (pause 0.51) 1259.4959 1225 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1259.4959 referral slip. 1260.5408 1226 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1260.5408 (pause 0.83) 1261.3739 1227 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1261.3739 And, I said, what is this? 1262.6530 1228 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1262.6530 (pause 0.37) 1263.0201 1229 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1263.0201 And she said, 1263.7638 1230 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1263.7638 (pause 0.50) 1264.2686 1231 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1264.2686 oh, that's the Pluta Center. I said, what is that? 1266.7432 1232 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1266.7432 (pause 0.30) 1267.0395 1233 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1267.0395 And I read it. I said, Pluta Cancer Center. Why do I have to go there? 1270.4802 1234 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1270.4802 (pause 0.84) 1271.3169 1235 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1271.3169 She said, you have cancer. 1272.7161 1236 ROC_int_01 1273.2843 Mm. 1273.6797 1237 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1274.4173 I said, nobody told me that. 1276.0997 1238 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1276.0997 (pause 0.83) 1276.9320 1239 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1276.9320 The tears just rolled down my eyes. 1279.3314 1240 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1279.3314 (pause 1.35) 1280.6840 1241 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1280.6840 And after a minute I got it together. 1282.8661 1242 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1282.8661 (pause 0.99) 1283.8575 1243 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1283.8575 And, uh, I thanked her. 1285.2513 1244 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1285.2513 (pause 0.82) 1286.0750 1245 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1286.0750 She said, when you get home, call them 1288.4001 1246 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1288.4001 (pause 0.15) 1288.5478 1247 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1288.5478 and 1288.8944 1248 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1288.8944 (pause 0.77) 1289.6613 1249 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1289.6613 make an appointment. 1290.8017 1250 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1290.8017 (pause 1.29) 1292.0889 1251 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1292.0889 And, I did. I called and made an appointment to 1295.0494 1252 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1295.0494 (pause 0.20) 1295.2541 1253 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1295.2541 go out there, and I met the doctor. 1297.2122 1254 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1297.2122 (pause 1.41) 1298.6186 1255 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1298.6186 And he gave me, um, 1300.1315 1256 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1300.1315 (pause 0.66) 1300.7928 1257 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1300.7928 a name of a- 1301.7244 1258 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1301.7244 (pause 0.87) 1302.5917 1259 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1302.5917 the surgeon. The same surgeon that 1304.4073 1260 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1304.4073 (pause 0.19) 1304.5943 1261 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1304.5943 did the- removed it. 1305.8861 1262 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1305.8861 (pause 0.74) 1306.6293 1263 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1306.6293 He- 1307.0628 1264 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1307.0628 (pause 0.16) 1307.2228 1265 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1307.2228 uh, 1307.7218 1266 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1307.7218 (pause 0.95) 1308.6723 1267 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1308.6723 /?/ He 1309.5762 1268 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1309.5762 (pause 1.09) 1310.6624 1269 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1310.6624 inserted this 1311.7543 1270 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1311.7543 (pause 0.18) 1311.9310 1271 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1311.9310 Medport in my chest, 1313.5878 1272 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1313.5878 (pause 0.60) 1314.1862 1273 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1314.1862 which is still there. 1315.3235 1274 ROC_int_01 1315.5278 [Mm.] 1315.8439 1275 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1315.7066 [And] it's been ten years. 1317.1882 1276 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1318.1375 But he said, 1319.0999 1277 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1319.0999 (pause 0.31) 1319.4087 1278 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1319.4087 we can't take it out. 1320.6636 1279 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1320.6636 (pause 0.23) 1320.8932 1280 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1320.8932 Cause I might not be out of the woods. 1322.8152 1281 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1322.8152 (pause 0.71) 1323.5275 1282 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1323.5275 But, he said the farther out I go, 1325.7457 1283 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1325.7457 (pause 0.48) 1326.2268 1284 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1326.2268 the less chance it'll come back. 1327.9468 1285 ROC_int_01 1327.9468 Mm-hm. 1328.3135 1286 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1328.5633 And if it comes back, it's probably gonna come back in the same place. It usually comes somewhere else. 1333.5702 1287 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1333.5702 (pause 0.59) 1334.1601 1288 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1334.1601 So, I still go 1335.3231 1289 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1335.3231 (pause 0.27) 1335.5914 1290 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1335.5914 to Pluta Center every six weeks. 1337.5447 1291 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1337.5447 (pause 1.12) 1338.6649 1292 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1338.6649 Been ten years. 1340.3529 1293 ROC_int_01 1340.4659 Wow. 1341.1201 1294 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1341.3225 And I don't mind going. 1342.5981 1295 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1342.5981 (pause 0.43) 1343.0262 1296 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1343.0262 1343.2606 1297 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1343.2606 (pause 0.13) 1343.3928 1298 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1343.3928 I don't mind going. 1344.4483 1299 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1344.4483 (pause 0.90) 1345.3455 1300 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1345.3455 But the thing is, 1346.5412 1301 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1346.5412 (pause 1.25) 1347.7872 1302 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1347.7872 I went for a 1349.0377 1303 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1349.0377 (pause 0.15) 1349.1902 1304 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1349.1902 colonoscopy. 1350.2255 1305 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1350.2255 (pause 1.70) 1351.9268 1306 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1351.9268 Just a routine. 1353.0026 1307 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1353.0026 (pause 1.01) 1354.0144 1308 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1354.0144 My doctor had 1355.3629 1309 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1355.3629 (pause 0.58) 1355.9478 1310 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1355.9478 a skiing accident 1357.1951 1311 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1357.1951 (pause 1.17) 1358.3683 1312 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1358.3683 and she hurt her back. So, when it's time for my physical, 1361.5836 1313 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1361.5836 (pause 0.81) 1362.3907 1314 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1362.3907 she wasn't able. And they called and ask would I reschedule. 1365.4334 1315 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1365.4334 (pause 0.88) 1366.3127 1316 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1366.3127 So, I did. 1367.1685 1317 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1367.1685 (pause 1.09) 1368.2614 1318 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1368.2614 And 1368.6935 1319 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1368.6935 (pause 0.32) 1369.0133 1320 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1369.0133 so, when it was time for that 1370.8433 1321 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1370.8433 (pause 0.17) 1371.0175 1322 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1371.0175 appointment, 1371.7554 1323 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1371.7554 (pause 0.53) 1372.2812 1324 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1372.2812 they called again. 1373.3567 1325 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1373.3567 (pause 0.81) 1374.1681 1326 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1374.1681 And she's still not in. Do you mind if another doctor in the office do your physical? 1378.9156 1327 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1378.9156 (pause 0.55) 1379.4616 1328 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1379.4616 And I said, no, I don't mind. 1380.8736 1329 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1380.8736 (pause 0.54) 1381.4171 1330 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1381.4171 So, I went, 1382.5215 1331 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1382.5215 (pause 1.35) 1383.8749 1332 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1383.8749 and, um, 1384.7414 1333 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1384.7414 (pause 0.71) 1385.4537 1334 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1385.4537 the doctor, she did the physical and then she said, 1388.4557 1335 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1388.4557 (pause 0.58) 1389.0340 1336 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1389.0340 let's order some tests. So, she was ordering these different tests. 1392.5515 1337 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1392.5515 (pause 0.65) 1393.1993 1338 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1393.1993 And she said, colonoscopy. 1394.8872 1339 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1394.8872 (pause 0.45) 1395.3399 1340 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1395.3399 I said, I'm not due for that for another two years. 1398.0025 1341 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1398.0025 (pause 0.47) 1398.4726 1342 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1398.4726 She said, well, let's do it anyway. 1399.9808 1343 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1399.9808 (pause 0.53) 1400.5127 1344 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1400.5127 I said, okay. 1401.3921 1345 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1401.3921 (pause 0.94) 1402.3295 1346 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1402.3295 So, she did the colonos- 1403.7603 1347 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1403.7603 (pause 0.14) 1403.8968 1348 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1403.8968 they- 1404.0757 1349 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1404.0757 (pause 0.44) 1404.5170 1350 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1404.5170 she did the referral and I went to get the colonoscopy. 1407.6894 1351 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1407.6894 (pause 1.77) 1409.4591 1352 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1409.4591 And, um, 1410.1651 1353 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1410.1651 (pause 0.65) 1410.8182 1354 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1410.8182 the doctor told me, he said, 1412.5833 1355 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1412.5833 (pause 0.98) 1413.5614 1356 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1413.5614 uh, we're gonna have to do 1415.4676 1357 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1415.4676 (pause 0.20) 1415.6700 1358 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1415.6700 some surgery. 1416.7525 1359 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1416.7525 (pause 1.02) 1417.7681 1360 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1417.7681 We found a mass 1419.0671 1361 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1419.0671 (pause 0.13) 1419.1942 1362 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1419.1942 attached to your large intestine. 1421.2605 1363 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1421.2605 (pause 1.15) 1422.4136 1364 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1422.4136 He said, but, I can't remove it. 1424.5281 1365 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1424.5281 (pause 0.16) 1424.6859 1366 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1424.6859 He said if it was polyps, I can remove it. He said, but it's really big. He said, 1429.2190 1367 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1429.2190 (pause 0.63) 1429.8487 1368 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1429.8487 it would tear the intestines [so], 1431.8584 1369 ROC_int_01 1431.7083 [Hm.] 1431.9719 1370 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1432.2896 I'm gonna refer you to a surgeon. 1434.2259 1371 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1434.2259 (pause 0.69) 1434.9159 1372 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1434.9159 I said, okay. I never had surgery in my life. 1437.6202 1373 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1437.6202 (pause 0.46) 1438.0764 1374 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1438.0764 Didn't ever have medicine either and [I was] sixty-nine years old. 1441.1447 1375 ROC_int_01 1439.5965 [Hm.] 1439.8690 1376 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1442.1064 So, 1442.5906 1377 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1442.5906 (pause 1.53) 1444.1181 1378 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1444.1181 I said, well, 1444.8399 1379 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1444.8399 (pause 0.47) 1445.3065 1380 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1445.3065 I don't know any surgeons. 1446.7899 1381 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1446.7899 (pause 0.80) 1447.5880 1382 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1447.5880 He said, well, 1448.3507 1383 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1448.3507 (pause 1.00) 1449.3505 1384 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1449.3505 I had- my wife had a good surgeon, 1451.7359 1385 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1451.7359 (pause 0.94) 1452.6764 1386 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1452.6764 and I'll give you his name. He did. 1454.5185 1387 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1454.5185 (pause 0.75) 1455.2669 1388 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1455.2669 And, I call and made the appointment. 1457.3445 1389 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1457.3445 (pause 0.60) 1457.9431 1390 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1457.9431 They did a 1458.8587 1391 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1458.8587 (pause 0.73) 1459.5839 1392 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1459.5839 biopsy, 1460.5140 1393 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1460.5140 (pause 1.00) 1461.5130 1394 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1461.5130 and they did the l- 1462.3598 1395 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1462.3598 (pause 0.23) 1462.5887 1396 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1462.5887 lab work. 1463.5234 1397 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1463.5234 (pause 0.80) 1464.3186 1398 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1464.3186 And, 1464.7785 1399 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1464.7785 (pause 1.61) 1466.3841 1400 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1466.3841 um, I went on and had the surgery. 1468.7578 1401 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1468.7578 (pause 1.20) 1469.9616 1402 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1469.9616 And, 1470.4150 1403 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1470.4150 (pause 1.60) 1472.0128 1404 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1472.0128 after, 1472.7303 1405 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1472.7303 (pause 0.17) 1472.9053 1406 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1472.9053 um, 1473.4830 1407 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1473.4830 (pause 0.33) 1473.8176 1408 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1473.8176 I found out 1474.6319 1409 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1474.6319 (pause 0.27) 1474.9004 1410 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1474.9004 about the cancer, 1476.0514 1411 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1476.0514 (pause 1.58) 1477.6360 1412 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1477.6360 the nurse practitioner told me 1479.7577 1413 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1479.7577 (pause 0.71) 1480.4708 1414 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1480.4708 that 1480.9594 1415 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1480.9594 (pause 0.76) 1481.7186 1416 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1481.7186 when they 1482.2425 1417 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1482.2425 (pause 0.29) 1482.5286 1418 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1482.5286 removed the mass, 1483.8887 1419 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1483.8887 (pause 0.49) 1484.3778 1420 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1484.3778 and opened it, 1485.1961 1421 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1485.1961 (pause 0.38) 1485.5723 1422 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1485.5723 it was eighteen inches of cancer 1487.9387 1423 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1487.9387 (pause 0.45) 1488.3877 1424 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1488.3877 growing inside that mass. 1490.5182 1425 ROC_int_01 1490.5930 Mm. 1491.0420 1426 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1491.3501 That's why it didn't show on the biopsy, 1494.2750 1427 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1494.2750 (pause 0.62) 1494.8985 1428 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1494.8985 and that's why it didn't show in the lab work. 1497.1802 1429 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1497.1802 (pause 0.59) 1497.7678 1430 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1497.7678 It was concealed in a mass. 1499.9027 1431 ROC_int_01 1500.1052 Hm. 1500.3605 1432 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1502.0204 [So,] 1502.4474 1433 ROC_int_01 1502.0204 Yeah. 1502.2405 1434 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1503.1247 I tell everybody that story because, 1505.5033 1435 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1505.5033 (pause 1.85) 1507.3504 1436 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1507.3504 not all the time 1508.8008 1437 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1508.8008 (pause 0.29) 1509.0869 1438 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1509.0869 it will show. 1509.9012 1439 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1509.9012 (pause 1.04) 1510.9405 1440 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1510.9405 Cause, 1511.1958 1441 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1511.1958 (pause 0.21) 1511.4071 1442 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1511.4071 and- and if I'd've waited another two years, 1513.4496 1443 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1513.4496 (pause 0.64) 1514.0922 1444 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1514.0922 they said I'd've been dead. 1515.2652 1445 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1515.2652 (pause 1.05) 1516.3129 1446 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1516.3129 So, they- 1516.9335 1447 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1516.9335 (pause 0.38) 1517.3165 1448 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1517.3165 Doctor Chang was his name. Vincent Chang. 1519.8474 1449 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1519.8474 (pause 0.41) 1520.2546 1450 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1520.2546 He did the surgery. 1521.5128 1451 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1521.5128 (pause 0.59) 1522.0989 1452 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1522.0989 He- 1522.4423 1453 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1522.4423 (pause 0.29) 1522.7284 1454 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1522.7284 he cut 1523.4371 1455 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1523.4371 (pause 1.68) 1525.1220 1456 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1525.1220 three feet 1525.9373 1457 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1525.9373 (pause 0.39) 1526.3303 1458 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1526.3303 of my 1526.9739 1459 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1526.9739 (pause 0.23) 1527.2072 1460 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1527.2072 large intestine 1528.3692 1461 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1528.3692 (pause 0.46) 1528.8337 1462 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1528.8337 out of my stomach. 1530.0375 1463 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1530.0375 (pause 1.23) 1531.2712 1464 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1531.2712 And, he redirected my bowels so I didn't have to wear the sack. 1534.9379 1465 ROC_int_01 1535.6387 Yeah. 1536.0217 1466 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1536.1405 I'm forever grateful to him. 1537.6900 1467 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1537.6900 (pause 1.24) 1538.9334 1468 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1538.9334 So, that's- that's my story. I'm been through a lot. 1541.8649 1469 ROC_int_01 1541.9970 Mm-hm. 1542.5957 1470 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1543.1136 Three years ago, 1544.2801 1471 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1544.2801 (pause 0.18) 1544.4650 1472 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1544.4650 um, 1545.0284 1473 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1545.0284 (pause 0.78) 1545.8075 1474 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1545.8075 my son was scraping paint 1547.5506 1475 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1547.5506 (pause 1.07) 1548.6161 1476 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1548.6161 in the bathroom. He was getting ready to paint 1550.7906 1477 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1550.7906 (pause 0.52) 1551.3102 1478 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1551.3102 the bathroom and he's getting all the old paint. 1553.4706 1479 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1553.4706 (pause 1.31) 1554.7757 1480 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1554.7757 And, uh, 1555.3156 1481 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1555.3156 (pause 0.26) 1555.5724 1482 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1555.5724 I went to 1556.1467 1483 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1556.1467 (pause 0.46) 1556.6056 1484 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1556.6056 Home Depot to, um, 1558.2761 1485 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1558.2761 (pause 0.49) 1558.7691 1486 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1558.7691 1558.8924 1487 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1558.8924 (pause 0.74) 1559.6319 1488 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1559.6319 make an exchange. 1560.8336 1489 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1560.8336 (pause 0.70) 1561.5381 1490 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1561.5381 And, I thought, I'm this close to Marshall's. I'm not going right back home. [So, I'm out there in Marshall's and,] 1567.2428 1491 ROC_int_01 1565.1916 [Mm-hm. ] 1566.7587 1492 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1567.8876 everywhere else I wanted to go. 1569.6264 1493 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1569.6264 (pause 0.66) 1570.2910 1494 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1570.2910 And, when I got home, I had a note 1572.0782 1495 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1572.0782 (pause 0.11) 1572.1926 1496 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1572.1926 from him and- 1573.0285 1497 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1573.0285 (pause 0.12) 1573.1511 1498 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1573.1511 taped to the 1573.9386 1499 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1573.9386 (pause 0.31) 1574.2467 1500 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1574.2467 bathroom 1575.0787 1501 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1575.0787 (pause 0.32) 1575.3994 1502 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1575.3994 mirror. 1575.9370 1503 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1575.9370 (pause 0.62) 1576.5533 1504 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1576.5533 He said, Ma, he said, 1577.9398 1505 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1577.9398 (pause 0.68) 1578.6248 1506 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1578.6248 I made a mess, but I cleaned it up. He said, I'll be back tomorrow. He said, my new phone number and he put his new phone 1585.0582 1507 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1585.0582 (pause 0.48) 1585.5366 1508 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1585.5366 number. 1585.9253 1509 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1585.9253 (pause 1.30) 1587.2291 1510 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1587.2291 And, 1587.6334 1511 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1587.6334 (pause 0.29) 1587.9239 1512 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1587.9239 so, I said, aw man, I just went up to get him a pie. I said, good thing Gladys was closed. 1593.3197 1513 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1593.3197 (pause 0.55) 1593.8721 1514 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1593.8721 He loves sweet potato pie. 1595.3379 1515 ROC_int_01 1595.4743 Hm. 1595.7780 1516 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1596.2226 He likes mine better. 1597.5652 1517 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1597.5652 (pause 1.84) 1599.4072 1518 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1599.4072 So, 1600.0279 1519 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1600.0279 (pause 0.75) 1600.7762 1520 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1600.7762 1600.8378 1521 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1600.8378 (pause 0.73) 1601.5685 1522 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1601.5685 n- about nine o'clock that night, 1603.3204 1523 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1603.3204 (pause 0.44) 1603.7606 1524 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1603.7606 /RD-NAME-2/ call, 1604.6783 1525 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1604.6783 (pause 0.32) 1604.9971 1526 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1604.9971 the girl that was just here. 1606.3793 1527 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1606.3793 (pause 1.73) 1608.1069 1528 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1608.1069 Sh- that was his fiancee. 1609.7664 1529 ROC_int_01 1610.0041 Mm-hm. 1610.3650 1530 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1610.9567 And, 1611.4211 1531 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1611.4211 (pause 0.62) 1612.0445 1532 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1612.0445 she was crying. She said, boo-boo's not breathing. I can't get him to breathe. 1616.2937 1533 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1616.2937 (pause 0.36) 1616.6553 1534 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1616.6553 Nine-One-One on the way. 1618.2399 1535 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1618.2399 (pause 0.71) 1618.9530 1536 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1618.9530 And, I said, what? 1620.1242 1537 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1620.1242 (pause 1.09) 1621.2155 1538 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1621.2155 So, 1621.8142 1539 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1621.8142 (pause 0.34) 1622.1553 1540 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1622.1553 I had jumped out the bed, 1623.7223 1541 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1623.7223 (pause 1.21) 1624.9338 1542 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1624.9338 and, I went over there and the street was full. I couldn't get in the street. She lived on /RD-ADDRESS-2/ [Street, off] 1631.6704 1543 ROC_int_01 1630.9683 [Mm.] 1631.3983 1544 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1631.9612 Genesee Street. 1633.2107 1545 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1633.2107 (pause 0.40) 1633.6153 1546 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1633.6153 1633.7253 1547 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1633.7253 (pause 0.51) 1634.2359 1548 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1634.2359 So, I found somebody driveway. I just pulled in they driveway. I didn't know who it was. (laughing) 1639.7372 1549 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1639.7372 (pause 1.05) 1640.7890 1550 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1640.7890 And, I walked down to the house, 1643.2532 1551 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1643.2532 (pause 0.12) 1643.3721 1552 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1643.3721 and I heard somebody say, 1644.9202 1553 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1644.9202 (pause 0.57) 1645.4880 1554 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1645.4880 that's his mother, that's his mother. 1647.2531 1555 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1647.2531 (pause 0.75) 1648.0058 1556 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1648.0058 So, the policeman took me in the backyard. 1650.8196 1557 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1650.8196 (pause 0.63) 1651.4535 1558 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1651.4535 And I said, 1652.1930 1559 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1652.1930 (pause 0.40) 1652.5957 1560 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1652.5957 why are you bringing me here? 1654.0876 1561 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1654.0876 (pause 0.77) 1654.8538 1562 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1654.8538 I wanna see him. And, uh, 1656.4957 1563 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1656.4957 (pause 0.22) 1656.7113 1564 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1656.7113 he said, 1657.3716 1565 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1657.3716 (pause 0.34) 1657.7149 1566 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1657.7149 they're working on him now. 1659.0399 1567 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1659.0399 (pause 0.91) 1659.9488 1568 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1659.9488 And, so, I said, oh okay. 1661.6523 1569 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1661.6523 (pause 0.85) 1662.4974 1570 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1662.4974 So, 1663.1137 1571 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1663.1137 (pause 1.37) 1664.4870 1572 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1664.4870 finally, the medical examiner got there, 1667.3415 1573 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1667.3415 (pause 0.71) 1668.0497 1574 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1668.0497 and they told me, 1669.1505 1575 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1669.1505 (pause 0.67) 1669.8240 1576 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1669.8240 that 1670.2642 1577 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1670.2642 (pause 0.39) 1670.6497 1578 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1670.6497 he was dead. 1671.5476 1579 ROC_int_01 1672.2324 [Hm.] 1672.5443 1580 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1672.2827 [He had] a massive heart attack. 1674.2896 1581 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1675.0511 He was fifty-three years old. 1676.6138 1582 ROC_int_01 1676.7304 Wow. 1676.9725 1583 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1678.4074 And my husband had 1679.7223 1584 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1679.7223 (pause 0.38) 1680.1065 1585 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1680.1065 his heart attack, he was forty-one. 1682.5847 1586 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1682.5847 (pause 1.50) 1684.0835 1587 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1684.0835 And both of my sons were scared 1686.2051 1588 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1686.2051 (pause 0.49) 1686.6937 1589 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1686.6937 when they got close to that age. 1688.5425 1590 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1688.5425 (pause 1.04) 1689.5855 1591 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1689.5855 And, 1690.0633 1592 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1690.0633 (pause 0.21) 1690.2745 1593 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1690.2745 when they passed that age, I guess they thought, oh I'm okay. 1694.0463 1594 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1694.0463 (pause 0.94) 1694.9822 1595 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1694.9822 But, 1695.3171 1596 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1695.3171 (pause 0.60) 1695.9157 1597 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1695.9157 that one got it. 1697.1834 1598 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1697.1834 (pause 0.22) 1697.3991 1599 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1697.3991 And the younger one, he's fifty-four. 1699.6088 1600 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1699.6088 (pause 0.52) 1700.1304 1601 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1700.1304 He's probably worried too. 1701.6314 1602 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1701.6314 (pause 0.78) 1702.4105 1603 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1702.4105 But, I hope he 1703.2983 1604 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1703.2983 (pause 0.35) 1703.6460 1605 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1703.6460 live a long time. 1704.8578 1606 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1704.8578 (pause 1.32) 1706.1771 1607 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1706.1771 So, I've been through it. 1707.2456 1608 ROC_int_01 1707.5515 Yeah. 1708.1369 1609 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1708.4934 And, my granddaughter, 1709.8272 1610 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1709.8272 (pause 0.92) 1710.7454 1611 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1710.7454 she um, 1711.6407 1612 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1711.6407 (pause 1.02) 1712.6619 1613 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1712.6619 she was born to my daughter when my daughter was 1715.8598 1614 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1715.8598 (pause 0.79) 1716.6499 1615 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1716.6499 eighteen. 1717.4642 1616 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1717.4642 (pause 1.02) 1718.4830 1617 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1718.4830 And my daughter walked away from her. 1720.1999 1618 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1720.1999 (pause 0.19) 1720.3936 1619 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1720.3936 She was two weeks old. 1721.8042 1620 ROC_int_01 1722.1763 Mm. 1722.6077 1621 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1722.8498 So, I had to 1724.1460 1622 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1724.1460 (pause 1.51) 1725.6514 1623 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1725.6514 figure out what to do. 1726.9059 1624 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1726.9059 (pause 0.66) 1727.5706 1625 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1727.5706 So, both of my sons said, 1729.4224 1626 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1729.4224 (pause 0.88) 1730.3019 1627 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1730.3019 let's keep her. Let's take care of her. 1732.5919 1628 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1732.5919 (pause 0.92) 1733.5152 1629 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1733.5152 I say, you guys in school. How we gonna do that? I gotta work. They said, we'll figure something out. 1738.9512 1630 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1738.9512 (pause 0.91) 1739.8652 1631 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1739.8652 So, 1740.4682 1632 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1740.4682 (pause 0.30) 1740.7720 1633 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1740.7720 I found a babysitter 1742.2853 1634 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1742.2853 (pause 0.20) 1742.4878 1635 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1742.4878 she lived on School Street. 1744.4158 1636 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1744.4158 (pause 0.21) 1744.6227 1637 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1744.6227 off North [Street, by] Portland Avenue. 1747.3148 1638 ROC_int_01 1745.6867 [Mm.] 1746.1712 1639 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1748.5204 So, everyday, I had to drive over 1750.9150 1640 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1750.9150 (pause 0.80) 1751.7183 1641 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1751.7183 to School Street from Jefferson Avenue, 1754.2053 1642 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1754.2053 (pause 1.36) 1755.5610 1643 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1755.5610 drop her at the babysitter 1757.0928 1644 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1757.0928 (pause 0.79) 1757.8873 1645 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1757.8873 and then drive out to Elmwood Avenue to work. 1760.4668 1646 ROC_int_01 1761.1270 Wow. 1761.6433 1647 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1762.1504 Then, the lady told me that she couldn't babysit anymore, cause she was gonna start, 1767.1904 1648 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1767.1904 (pause 0.97) 1768.1604 1649 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1768.1604 uh, 1768.5374 1650 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1768.5374 (pause 0.30) 1768.8350 1651 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1768.8350 keeping 1769.3626 1652 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1769.3626 (pause 0.35) 1769.7148 1653 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1769.7148 children 1770.3243 1654 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1770.3243 (pause 0.49) 1770.8157 1655 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1770.8157 for the county. 1771.8589 1656 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1771.8589 (pause 0.96) 1772.8229 1657 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1772.8229 So, she couldn't have 1774.3148 1658 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1774.3148 (pause 0.17) 1774.4824 1659 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1774.4824 private 1775.0811 1660 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1775.0811 (pause 0.63) 1775.7105 1661 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1775.7105 [kids] and county kids. 1777.5526 1662 ROC_int_01 1775.7105 [Mm.] 1776.1792 1663 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1778.1600 I don't know if that was true or if she just didn't wanna do it anymore, but, 1781.7035 1664 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1781.7035 (pause 0.57) 1782.2690 1665 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1782.2690 I said, okay. So at work 1783.9857 1666 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1783.9857 (pause 0.34) 1784.3286 1667 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1784.3286 they told me 1785.2196 1668 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1785.2196 (pause 0.91) 1786.1333 1669 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1786.1333 um, Monroe Developmental Center 1788.1009 1670 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1788.1009 (pause 0.75) 1788.8469 1671 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1788.8469 had a daycare. 1789.8946 1672 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1789.8946 (pause 0.18) 1790.0795 1673 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1790.0795 So, I went over there, and they- 1791.8974 1674 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1791.8974 (pause 0.35) 1792.2495 1675 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1792.2495 they took her. 1793.0287 1676 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1793.0287 (pause 0.42) 1793.4474 1677 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1793.4474 1793.5839 1678 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1793.5839 (pause 0.10) 1793.6807 1679 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1793.6807 So, she 1794.2917 1680 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1794.2917 (pause 0.71) 1794.9969 1681 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1794.9969 did alright. 1795.8081 1682 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1795.8081 (pause 0.75) 1796.5551 1683 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1796.5551 So, she's still- 1797.4178 1684 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1797.4178 (pause 0.22) 1797.6379 1685 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1797.6379 she's not still with me. 1799.2314 1686 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1799.2314 (pause 0.37) 1799.6033 1687 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1799.6033 But, her children are (laughing) still with [me. ] 1803.0230 1688 ROC_int_01 1802.0326 [] 1803.1981 1689 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1804.4253 She- um, 1805.6490 1690 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1805.6490 (pause 0.52) 1806.1680 1691 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1806.1680 1806.2076 1692 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1806.2076 (pause 0.14) 1806.3449 1693 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1806.3449 she bought a house 1807.4609 1694 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1807.4609 (pause 0.29) 1807.7534 1695 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1807.7534 on 1808.1848 1696 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1808.1848 (pause 0.10) 1808.2838 1697 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1808.2838 /RD-ADDRESS-2/ Terrace. 1809.6175 1698 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1809.6175 (pause 1.33) 1810.9469 1699 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1810.9469 But, I already had her 1812.7014 1700 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1812.7014 (pause 1.17) 1813.8692 1701 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1813.8692 children. Her daughter 1815.3086 1702 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1815.3086 (pause 0.27) 1815.5771 1703 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1815.5771 lived with me all her life. 1817.3070 1704 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1817.3070 (pause 0.26) 1817.5689 1705 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1817.5689 She's twenty now. 1818.6649 1706 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1818.6649 (pause 1.21) 1819.8798 1707 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1819.8798 And, she had 1820.8702 1708 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1820.8702 (pause 0.13) 1820.9979 1709 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1820.9979 twins. 1821.7374 1710 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1821.7374 (pause 0.81) 1822.5517 1711 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1822.5517 And, 1823.0535 1712 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1823.0535 (pause 0.24) 1823.2978 1713 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1823.2978 they're 1823.6235 1714 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1823.6235 (pause 0.24) 1823.8612 1715 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1823.8612 eleven now. 1824.7522 1716 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1824.7522 (pause 0.94) 1825.6967 1717 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1825.6967 So, 1826.0577 1718 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1826.0577 (pause 0.50) 1826.5551 1719 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1826.5551 she started working. She's a nurse but, she started working for a private group of doctors. 1832.7593 1720 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1832.7593 (pause 0.74) 1833.4958 1721 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1833.4958 And she had to be to work like seven. 1835.4433 1722 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1835.4433 (pause 0.72) 1836.1652 1723 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1836.1652 But the twins' bus didn't come til seven forty. 1839.3037 1724 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1839.3037 (pause 0.72) 1840.0233 1725 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1840.0233 And they was in first grade. 1841.5384 1726 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1841.5384 (pause 0.18) 1841.7180 1727 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1841.7180 She couldn't leave 'em standing at the door. 1844.0799 1728 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1844.0799 (pause 0.99) 1845.0712 1729 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1845.0712 They didn't know how to lock the door. 1846.7175 1730 ROC_int_01 1846.8363 [Hm.] 1847.0520 1731 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1846.8803 [She] couldn't leave 'em on the porch. 1848.5261 1732 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1848.7071 She couldn't lock the door and leave 'em on the porch. 1850.8393 1733 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1850.8393 (pause 0.61) 1851.4488 1734 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1851.4488 So. I started going up there 1853.3196 1735 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1853.3196 (pause 1.07) 1854.3892 1736 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1854.3892 and wait for the school bus. 1855.9695 1737 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1855.9695 (pause 0.70) 1856.6738 1738 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1856.6738 And when they got on the school bus, 1858.2034 1739 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1858.2034 (pause 0.42) 1858.6260 1740 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1858.6260 I come back home. 1859.6648 1741 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1859.6648 (pause 0.14) 1859.8013 1742 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1859.8013 I get ready go to work. 1861.1086 1743 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1861.1086 (pause 1.62) 1862.7262 1744 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1862.7262 So, I thought, 1863.6021 1745 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1863.6021 (pause 1.28) 1864.8831 1746 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1864.8831 what if that school bus is late then I'm late for work? I would panic. I can't stand to be late. 1870.1743 1747 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1870.1743 (pause 0.41) 1870.5832 1748 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1870.5832 I'm serious. 1871.5824 1749 ROC_int_01 1871.6011 Mm-hm. 1872.1371 1750 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1872.5640 So, 1873.0658 1751 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1873.0658 (pause 0.74) 1873.8053 1752 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1873.8053 I told her, I said, why don't 1875.4472 1753 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1875.4472 (pause 0.83) 1876.2773 1754 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1876.2773 the twins come to my house, 1878.4689 1755 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1878.4689 (pause 0.64) 1879.1072 1756 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1879.1072 go to school from my house and they just come home on the weekend? 1882.5140 1757 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1882.5140 (pause 0.63) 1883.1479 1758 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1883.1479 Or, you come 1883.9160 1759 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1883.9160 (pause 0.62) 1884.5387 1760 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1884.5387 down there on- spend the weekends or whatever. 1886.9025 1761 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1886.9025 (pause 0.63) 1887.5363 1762 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1887.5363 So, that's what we agreed to do. And that lasted about a week. 1890.5575 1763 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1890.5575 (pause 0.24) 1890.7996 1764 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1890.7996 1891.1429 1765 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1891.1429 (pause 0.35) 1891.4951 1766 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1891.4951 She stopped coming down here, they stopped going up there. 1894.6065 1767 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1894.6065 (pause 0.32) 1894.9288 1768 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1894.9288 They call this home. 1896.0733 1769 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1896.0733 (pause 0.14) 1896.2142 1770 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1896.2142 They call that they mommy house. 1898.9531 1771 ROC_int_01 1899.1556 [Mm-hm.] 1899.5738 1772 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1899.4901 [So,] they still here 1900.5838 1773 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1900.6895 They're going- they're in sixth grade now. 1902.4062 1774 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1902.4062 (pause 1.05) 1903.4538 1775 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1903.4538 So, 1904.0348 1776 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1904.0348 (pause 1.32) 1905.3575 1777 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1905.3575 it works out fine. So, couple years ago, 1908.2847 1778 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1908.2847 (pause 0.49) 1908.7777 1779 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1908.7777 she rented her house out 1910.4365 1780 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1910.4365 (pause 0.14) 1910.5774 1781 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1910.5774 to 1910.9603 1782 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1910.9603 (pause 0.88) 1911.8407 1783 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1911.8407 another family. 1912.9727 1784 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1912.9727 (pause 0.53) 1913.5049 1785 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1913.5049 1913.6580 1786 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1913.6580 (pause 0.49) 1914.1466 1787 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1914.1466 And it 1914.5295 1788 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1914.5295 (pause 0.16) 1914.6924 1789 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1914.6924 turned out to be 1915.8369 1790 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1915.8369 (pause 0.30) 1916.1362 1791 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1916.1362 really good cause sh- 1917.3048 1792 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1917.3048 (pause 0.48) 1917.7890 1793 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1917.7890 the person she rented to was a school nurse. 1920.4080 1794 ROC_int_01 1920.7250 Mm. 1920.9627 1795 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1921.4645 And, 1921.9003 1796 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1921.9003 (pause 0.42) 1922.3184 1797 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1922.3184 She's in the process of buying- 1924.3545 1798 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1924.3545 (pause 0.41) 1924.7608 1799 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1924.7608 she's in a program where she can buy her own house. So, she needs about another year. 1929.3309 1800 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1929.3309 (pause 0.73) 1930.0593 1801 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1930.0593 And it's working out fine. 1931.4283 1802 ROC_int_01 1931.9345 Mm, that's good. 1932.9839 1803 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1932.9839 Yeah, it's working out fine. 1934.3309 1804 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1934.8547 The- 1935.0440 1805 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1935.0440 (pause 0.11) 1935.1540 1806 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1935.1540 p- the family that's in there, 1936.7720 1807 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1936.7720 (pause 0.85) 1937.6172 1808 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1937.6172 not the dude, but 1939.0962 1809 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1939.0962 (pause 0.64) 1939.7322 1810 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1939.7322 the girl. 1940.3704 1811 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1940.3704 (pause 0.26) 1940.6346 1812 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1940.6346 She's on section eight. 1942.1444 1813 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1942.1444 (pause 0.57) 1942.7166 1814 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1942.7166 So, 1943.1876 1815 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1943.1876 (pause 0.33) 1943.5133 1816 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1943.5133 that's 1944.0445 1817 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1944.0445 (pause 0.47) 1944.5125 1818 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1944.5125 added income 1945.5226 1819 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1945.5226 (pause 0.62) 1946.1433 1820 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1946.1433 for my granddaughter. 1947.3362 1821 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1947.3362 (pause 0.70) 1948.0405 1822 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1948.0405 And, it gives her a really nice house to live in. 1951.2934 1823 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1951.2934 (pause 0.75) 1952.0401 1824 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1952.0401 And, 1952.5985 1825 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1952.5985 (pause 0.73) 1953.3254 1826 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1953.3254 my granddaughter benefits. 1955.0408 1827 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1955.0408 (pause 0.67) 1955.7112 1828 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1955.7112 She gets the 1956.6987 1829 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1956.6987 (pause 0.42) 1957.1190 1830 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1957.1190 rent check 1957.9642 1831 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1957.9642 (pause 0.80) 1958.7653 1832 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1958.7653 and she pays her mortgage and the rest is free money for her. 1962.4805 1833 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1962.4805 (pause 0.16) 1962.6389 1834 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1962.6389 Along with her- 1963.4465 1835 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1963.4465 (pause 0.75) 1964.1997 1836 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1964.1997 She- she's a nurse at the /RD-WORK-2/ Health Center. 1966.6331 1837 ROC_int_01 1966.7872 Mm. 1967.1214 1838 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1967.4770 So, she's doing okay. 1968.7315 1839 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1968.7315 (pause 0.43) 1969.1629 1840 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1969.1629 But her kids are still here. 1970.5494 1841 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1970.5494 (pause 0.49) 1971.0358 1842 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1971.0358 [And,] they don't wanna go home 1972.4311 1843 ROC_int_01 1971.0358 [Mm.] 1971.3175 1844 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1973.1266 So, she said, um, 1974.2955 1845 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1974.2955 (pause 0.80) 1975.0922 1846 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1975.0922 when the 1975.6644 1847 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1975.6644 (pause 0.27) 1975.9329 1848 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1975.9329 lease is up, 1976.9850 1849 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1976.9850 (pause 1.28) 1978.2659 1850 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1978.2659 uh, 1978.7369 1851 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1978.7369 (pause 0.61) 1979.3509 1852 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1979.3509 they'll- it'll be good for them 1980.8475 1853 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1980.8475 (pause 0.10) 1980.9443 1854 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1980.9443 so they'll have their own room. I said, okay, they moving back home? 1984.3838 1855 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1984.3838 (pause 0.20) 1984.5819 1856 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1984.5819 She said, oh no. 1987.2841 1857 ROC_int_01 1987.4117 Best for them is it? [] 1989.5306 1858 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1988.5754 [Yeah.] She said, oh when they come to visit, they'll have their own room. They don't wanna come back. (laughing) 1993.5254 1859 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1993.7410 They don't wanna live with me. 1995.1090 1860 ROC_int_01 1995.2851 Mm-hm. 1995.9190 1861 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 1995.9190 Cause I asked one of them, I say, /RD-NAME-3/ if something happen I'm not here anymore, 2000.2703 1862 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2001.3798 what would you do? 2002.2415 1863 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2002.2415 (pause 0.77) 2003.0139 1864 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2003.0139 Where would you live? 2003.9251 1865 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2003.9251 (pause 0.54) 2004.4665 1866 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2004.4665 He said, in your garage. 2005.7606 1867 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2005.7606 (pause 0.14) 2005.8971 1868 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2005.8971 2007.0196 1869 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2007.0196 (pause 0.88) 2007.8999 1870 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2007.8999 That hurt my heart. 2008.9651 1871 ROC_int_01 2008.9651 Mm. 2009.4760 1872 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2009.6848 You w- 2010.0809 1873 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2010.0809 (pause 0.24) 2010.3186 1874 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2010.3186 you wouldn't want to live with your mother? He said, no. 2012.4975 1875 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2012.4975 (pause 1.41) 2013.9061 1876 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2013.9061 I said it's no bathroom in the garage. 2016.0667 1877 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2016.0667 (pause 0.37) 2016.4370 1878 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2016.4370 He said I'd come in the house. 2017.8059 1879 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2017.8059 (pause 0.63) 2018.4354 1880 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2018.4354 I said, what if some people live here and they don't want you in the m- 2021.3694 1881 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2021.3694 (pause 0.31) 2021.6819 1882 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2021.6819 use they bathroom? 2022.8352 1883 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2022.8352 (pause 0.86) 2023.6935 1884 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2023.6935 He said I'd go behind the garage. 2025.3222 1885 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2025.3222 (pause 0.53) 2025.8514 1886 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2025.8514 I said, you can't shower behind the garage. You know, so, 2029.2011 1887 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2029.2011 (pause 0.45) 2029.6478 1888 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2029.6478 I said, we'll- we'll talk about this. We need to talk about this [a little bit] more. You know, so, 2034.7983 1889 ROC_int_01 2032.9255 [Mm-hm.] 2033.5130 1890 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2035.7553 they're okay. 2036.4683 1891 ROC_int_01 2037.3751 Yeah. 2037.6216 1892 ROC_se0_ag3_f_02 2038.0794 They're okay. 2038.7793