Line Spkr StTime Content EnTime 1 VLD_int_01 0.9111 Alright. If you could say your name please. 2.9021 2 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 3.5642 /RD-NAME-8/ 5.7558 3 VLD_int_01 7.1162 Could you spell your last name? 8.1374 4 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 8.5104 /RD-NAME-1/ 9.1688 5 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 9.1688 (pause 0.12) 9.2894 6 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 9.2894 /RD-NAME-2/ 10.0993 7 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 10.0993 (pause 0.11) 10.2095 8 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 10.2095 /RD-NAME-1/ 10.5679 9 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 10.5679 (pause 0.13) 10.6954 10 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 10.6954 /RD-NAME-2/ 11.5087 11 VLD_int_01 12.6966 Alright. 13.1022 12 VLD_int_01 13.1022 (pause 0.52) 13.6198 13 VLD_int_01 13.6198 And can you give me your birthday please? 15.3358 14 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 15.7088 My birthday is August eleventh 17.9097 15 VLD_int_01 18.9110 What year? 19.2654 16 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 20.1234 /unintelligible/ 20.9726 17 VLD_int_01 22.3663 What year? 22.7766 18 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 23.3595 /unintelligible/ 24.0449 19 VLD_int_01 27.5315 I need the year. 28.1844 20 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 29.2196 Ninteen 30.1755 21 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 30.1755 (pause 0.28) 30.4599 22 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 30.4599 /unintelligible/ 31.1453 23 VLD_int_01 33.0793 Okay, well how old are you? 34.0259 24 VLD_int_01 34.0259 (pause 0.45) 34.4735 25 VLD_int_01 34.4735 It's 34.6740 26 VLD_int_01 34.6740 (pause 0.29) 34.9678 27 VLD_int_01 34.9678 so, six in [one, half a dozen in the other] 36.7910 28 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 35.3268 [] 37.0661 29 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 37.6618 Nineteen sixty nine. /I [would be fired/.] 39.9373 30 VLD_int_01 39.0793 [] 41.1496 31 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 40.3290 [Goodness.] 40.9911 32 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 41.7072 Have to make a joke out of it. 43.2000 33 VLD_int_01 43.3960 Um, 45.2751 34 VLD_int_01 45.2751 (pause 0.69) 45.9699 35 VLD_int_01 45.9699 where were you born? 46.8372 36 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 47.1543 I was born, in Miami Florida. 49.3587 37 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 49.3587 (pause 1.73) 51.0886 38 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 51.0886 In nineteen sixty nine. 52.5434 39 VLD_int_01 52.5528 54.1568 40 VLD_int_01 54.1568 (pause 0.88) 55.0369 41 VLD_int_01 55.0369 Um, 55.5499 42 VLD_int_01 55.5499 (pause 0.24) 55.7923 43 VLD_int_01 55.7923 what neighborhood did you grow up in? 57.0653 44 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 58.0375 The neighborhood right here on the West Side, Valdosta, Georgia. 61.1616 45 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 61.1616 (pause 1.13) 62.2900 46 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 62.2900 /RD-ADDRESS-4/ Street. 63.4313 47 VLD_int_01 71.7488 Um, besides Valdosta, 73.2782 48 VLD_int_01 73.2782 (pause 0.22) 73.4973 49 VLD_int_01 73.4973 did you live anywhere else? 74.6491 50 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 75.7157 As a child? 76.7649 51 VLD_int_01 77.3617 Anytime. 77.7651 52 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 78.0518 Oh, certainly. 78.8585 53 VLD_int_01 79.0544 Where- where else have you lived? 80.0441 54 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 80.4952 Melbourne, Florida, 81.5325 55 VLD_int_01 82.6464 Mm-hm. 83.0027 56 VLD_int_01 83.0027 (pause 2.27) 85.2735 57 VLD_int_01 85.2735 Anywhere else? 85.7072 58 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 86.0662 Valdosta, Georgia. 87.3858 59 VLD_int_01 87.9162 Anywhere else? 88.6017 60 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 89.7674 Not live, live. No that's about it. 91.6512 61 VLD_int_01 91.8844 That's it? Okay. 92.5465 62 VLD_int_01 92.5465 (pause 1.35) 93.8976 63 VLD_int_01 93.8976 And where'd you go to school? 95.0447 64 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 95.9026 High school? 96.4995 65 VLD_int_01 97.3202 Mm-hm. 97.5580 66 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 97.7538 Valdosta, Georgia. 98.9289 67 VLD_int_01 99.4826 Which- which high school? 100.3685 68 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 100.8584 /RD-SCHOOL-3/ 101.8467 69 VLD_int_01 107.2918 And 108.2524 70 VLD_int_01 108.2524 (pause 0.27) 108.5228 71 VLD_int_01 108.5228 where'd you go to college? 109.3994 72 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 110.1035 Um, 110.9009 73 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 110.9009 (pause 1.41) 112.3126 74 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 112.3126 does it matter what year? 113.3384 75 VLD_int_01 113.6508 Mm-mm. 113.9259 76 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 113.9306 Okay well, /RD-SCHOOL-4/ 115.4973 77 VLD_int_01 116.4953 Did you start at /RD-SCHOOL-4/? 117.6271 78 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 118.3406 I did not. 119.0447 79 VLD_int_01 119.6368 What school did you start at? 120.6580 80 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 121.5300 Uh, /RD-SCHOOL-2/ 122.7703 81 VLD_int_01 123.4453 /RD-SCHOOL-7/? 124.6810 82 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 124.8721 That is correct. 125.8560 83 VLD_int_01 125.9026 And where's [that-] 126.4808 84 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 126.3130 [Oh what-] 126.6627 85 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 126.8675 They've changed the name of it. I forgot now. 128.9848 86 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 128.9848 (pause 0.43) 129.4173 87 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 129.4173 It's a four year institution. 130.7696 88 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 130.7696 (pause 0.65) 131.4224 89 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 131.4224 Uh, in Melbourne, Florida. 132.9844 90 VLD_int_01 132.9938 Oh, that's when you lived in Melbourne? 134.2171 91 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 134.2854 Mm-hm. 134.7890 92 VLD_int_01 137.5902 And what's your current occupation? 138.8026 93 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 139.4729 I'm an educator. 140.6537 94 VLD_int_01 141.7297 Where do you teach? 142.6483 95 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 142.9607 At [/RD-SCHOOL-3/] 143.7021 96 VLD_int_01 143.1472 [And where do you-] I'm sorry, where do you educate? 144.6720 97 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 145.3295 At /RD-SCHOOL-3/ High School. 146.6771 98 VLD_int_01 151.4461 What do you 151.9823 99 VLD_int_01 151.9823 (pause 0.35) 152.3273 100 VLD_int_01 152.3273 educate 152.7750 101 VLD_int_01 152.7750 (pause 0.30) 153.0769 102 VLD_int_01 153.0769 the children in, at Valdosta High School? 154.3779 103 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 154.4805 Valdosta. 155.8403 104 VLD_int_01 156.6487 You educate them in [Valdosta? I no, (laughing) what] do you- what subject? 160.2613 105 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 157.1709 [] 159.1247 106 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 160.3219 Oh subject matter, oh I'm so sorry. English language arts. 163.1197 107 VLD_int_01 169.4507 Where was your father born? 170.5558 108 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 171.4966 I do not know. 172.5149 109 VLD_int_01 173.6975 What about your mom? 174.3223 110 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 175.1290 I am not sure. 176.1781 111 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 176.1781 (pause 4.59) 180.7707 112 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 180.7707 We didn't talk about those things. 182.3973 113 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 182.3973 (pause 0.32) 182.7179 114 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 182.7179 We don't ask questions like that. 184.2566 115 VLD_int_01 184.7929 Hm. 185.0074 116 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 185.2545 And we didn't ask questions like that. 187.0031 117 VLD_int_01 187.3108 So do you know what your dad did for a doz- do you know what your dad does for a living, or did for a living? 191.6415 118 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 192.4482 Uh, he was in the military. And he now works as a contractor for the military. 197.1099 119 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 197.1099 (pause 0.65) 197.7627 120 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 197.7627 In the safety department. 199.2456 121 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 199.2456 (pause 0.58) 199.8238 122 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 199.8238 But exactly what he does, I am not sure. 202.1540 123 VLD_int_01 202.4385 And what about your mom? 203.2219 124 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 203.6555 She worked at a hospital. 204.7839 125 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 204.7839 (pause 1.65) 206.4346 126 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 206.4346 She did. 207.2599 127 VLD_int_01 209.1799 [What did she-] 209.5483 128 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 209.1985 [She gave] me a look. 210.3922 129 VLD_int_01 210.6300 What did she- 211.0316 130 VLD_int_01 211.0316 (pause 0.66) 211.6932 131 VLD_int_01 211.6932 what did she do at the hospital? 212.8496 132 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 213.1096 She worked in food services. 214.7975 133 VLD_int_01 215.5622 And hospitality. 216.7746 134 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 220.5830 221.6648 135 VLD_int_01 225.9284 How long have we known each other? 227.0773 136 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 228.2570 All your [life.] 229.4787 137 VLD_int_01 228.9565 [] 232.6460 138 VLD_int_01 234.5321 Um. 235.5300 139 VLD_int_01 235.5300 (pause 1.18) 236.7085 140 VLD_int_01 236.7085 Excellent. Okay. 237.7251 141 VLD_int_01 237.7251 (pause 0.68) 238.4086 142 VLD_int_01 238.4086 So I'm gonna stop typing now. 239.8595 143 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 240.8539 You're typing what I'm [saying?] 242.4812 144 VLD_int_01 242.3833 [No.] I was not typing whatchu were saying. I was answering the questions on my little form. 245.9026 145 VLD_int_01 246.4762 But now, 246.8632 146 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 247.6279 Oh, so you weren't even engaging in the conversation? 249.9908 147 VLD_int_01 250.0421 I was engaging. 250.8442 148 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 251.5856 That is sad. (whispered) 252.4622 149 VLD_int_01 252.6767 But now we're back- we're back. 253.7165 150 VLD_int_01 253.7165 (pause 0.42) 254.1408 151 VLD_int_01 254.1408 Okay, so 254.9941 152 VLD_int_01 254.9941 (pause 0.12) 255.1142 153 VLD_int_01 255.1142 you were born in Mia- I didn't know you were born in Miami actually. 257.3151 154 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 257.6042 Yes. 258.6114 155 VLD_int_01 259.0450 I didn't know that. When did you move? 260.3180 156 VLD_int_01 260.3180 (pause 0.41) 260.7237 157 VLD_int_01 260.7237 How- Wait, how were you bor- I- [I mean] how were you born? I mean I know how you were born. 264.2337 158 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 262.1494 [] 262.3825 159 VLD_int_01 264.3829 Came through the vaginal canal, all that. 265.9870 160 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 266.0432 Wait, maybe not. 267.0361 161 VLD_int_01 267.1562 Maybe not. [In fact, were] you C-section? 268.8115 162 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 267.7204 [You know-] 268.1074 163 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 269.5762 I don't know. We didn't ask those [questions remember?] 272.1875 164 VLD_int_01 271.4408 [Oh.] 271.7305 165 VLD_int_01 272.2434 that's right, Okay. 273.2226 166 VLD_int_01 273.2226 (pause 0.26) 273.4826 167 VLD_int_01 273.4826 So you were born 274.2986 168 VLD_int_01 274.2986 (pause 0.52) 274.8162 169 VLD_int_01 274.8162 [in Miami.] 275.5622 170 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 274.8208 [Mm-hm.] 275.2032 171 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 275.7954 [Miami, Florida.] 276.6300 172 VLD_int_01 275.9399 [And how did you-] 276.6067 173 VLD_int_01 276.9899 Huh? 277.3248 174 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 277.8517 Miami, [Florida.] 279.0501 175 VLD_int_01 278.8123 [Miam-] How did you come back to Valdosta? 280.4198 176 VLD_int_01 280.6716 Or how- When- when did you come back to Valdosta? 282.4210 177 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 283.1628 /RD-NAME-2/, I do not know these answers (laughing), 286.0048 178 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 286.0048 (pause 0.87) 286.8721 179 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 286.8721 to these questions, 288.1638 180 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 288.1638 (pause 0.23) 288.3922 181 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 288.3922 that you are asking me. 289.5953 182 VLD_int_01 289.9636 Okay. 290.3040 183 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 291.0116 Alright. 291.5152 184 VLD_int_01 291.5152 So what is the earliest- Okay, but you remember coming- when you came back. 294.6627 185 VLD_int_01 294.6627 (pause 0.28) 294.9425 186 VLD_int_01 294.9425 You remember living- 295.9310 187 VLD_int_01 295.9310 (pause 0.41) 296.3367 188 VLD_int_01 296.3367 Did you live next door? 297.3858 189 VLD_int_01 297.3858 (pause 1.11) 298.4944 190 VLD_int_01 298.4944 When you came back? 299.3244 191 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 301.7212 I've lived next door. 302.9941 192 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 302.9941 (pause 0.52) 303.5106 193 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 303.5106 I've lived other places in Valdosta. 305.6648 194 VLD_int_01 305.8840 I know, but when you were younger. That's what I'm asking. 307.7118 195 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 307.8517 But I've lived other places in Valdosta. With my mother, my sister. 311.9772 196 VLD_int_01 312.6580 Okay, so when you first came back, when you were [youn-] 314.6317 197 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 314.5687 [I] was a baby okay? (yelling) 316.2706 198 VLD_int_01 316.3079 I know, that's why I'm asking. 317.8047 199 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 317.8187 How would I remember? Oh- 319.2782 200 VLD_int_01 321.1096 Okay. 321.4266 201 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 321.4453 Oh next door. 322.1960 202 VLD_int_01 322.8208 323.4783 203 VLD_int_01 323.4783 (pause 0.93) 324.4109 204 VLD_int_01 324.4109 Thank [you.] 324.7653 205 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 324.6534 [That] was the answer? [Oh well sorry.] 326.5838 206 VLD_int_01 325.4973 [Yes. (laughing)] 326.5558 207 VLD_int_01 326.9230 You did live next- Okay. 327.9815 208 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 327.9815 I did. 328.5924 209 VLD_int_01 328.6157 So what's your earliest memory of gro- Okay so when you lived there- 331.7725 210 VLD_int_01 331.7725 (pause 0.45) 332.2201 211 VLD_int_01 332.2201 Of growing up. Just growing up. In- 333.8649 212 VLD_int_01 333.8649 (pause 0.30) 334.1680 213 VLD_int_01 334.1680 living next door cause it was- I remember, 336.0752 214 VLD_int_01 336.0752 (pause 0.62) 336.6907 215 VLD_int_01 336.6907 when I came, but I was- you were much older when I 338.5745 216 VLD_int_01 338.5745 (pause 0.30) 338.8718 217 VLD_int_01 338.8718 got here. 339.3893 218 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 339.4266 I wasn't that much older. 340.5411 219 VLD_int_01 341.3897 You were a teenager. 342.1031 220 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 343.7212 That's ten years. 344.6771 221 VLD_int_01 345.5805 [Plus.] 346.2823 222 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 345.7857 [Maybe twelve.] 346.7229 223 VLD_int_01 348.2483 Fourteen. (whispered) 348.6894 224 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 349.0264 Okay fourteen. 350.0009 225 VLD_int_01 350.8764 351.2774 226 VLD_int_01 351.2774 (pause 0.97) 352.2520 227 VLD_int_01 352.2520 Okay when you grew up- Okay. 353.3058 228 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 354.2943 Do you have your list of questions that I may see? 356.5418 229 VLD_int_01 357.2028 Why do you need to see the [questions?] 358.3523 230 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 358.0281 [Cause I] think you're just making up (laughing) stuff cause- 360.2524 231 VLD_int_01 361.5067 No, this is part of the questions [you're just], you're answering- 364.1494 232 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 362.6969 [Oh.] 362.9907 233 VLD_int_01 365.4830 You're answering the way you want to answer. So then I have to adapt. 368.7423 234 VLD_int_01 368.7423 (pause 3.65) 372.3876 235 VLD_int_01 372.3876 Okay. 372.8166 236 VLD_int_01 372.8166 (pause 0.26) 373.0730 237 VLD_int_01 373.0730 So growing up, what do you remember about the neighborhood? 375.2739 238 VLD_int_01 375.2739 (pause 0.31) 375.5805 239 VLD_int_01 375.5805 When you were younger. 376.3452 240 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 382.2986 What do I remember about this neighborhood? 384.2990 241 VLD_int_01 384.3176 Mm-hm. 384.6720 242 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 387.5805 That it was a neighborhood. Not a hood, 390.4524 243 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 390.4524 (pause 0.09) 390.5420 244 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 390.5420 as the kids try to say now, that it was a neighborhood. 393.3205 245 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 393.3205 (pause 0.39) 393.7111 246 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 393.7111 Uh, excuse me. 394.4711 247 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 394.4711 (pause 1.34) 395.8094 248 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 395.8094 That- 396.1777 249 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 396.1777 (pause 1.43) 397.6093 250 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 397.6093 I mean, what- 398.1519 251 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 398.1519 (pause 5.28) 403.4367 252 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 403.4367 There weren't a whole lot of ki- I mean I'm sure there were kids 405.9571 253 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 405.9571 (pause 0.13) 406.0839 254 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 406.0839 in the bigger neighborhood. That were- But there were not a lot of kids 409.0590 255 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 409.0590 (pause 0.43) 409.4880 256 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 409.4880 in this neighbor- this part of the neighborhood. But 411.9070 257 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 411.9070 (pause 0.62) 412.5224 258 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 412.5224 The older people watched out for you. I remember Ms. Sister, 416.1119 259 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 416.1119 (pause 0.53) 416.6386 260 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 416.6386 you know. And 417.3847 261 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 417.3847 (pause 0.16) 417.5432 262 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 417.5432 going to the grocery for her. Ms. /RD-NAME-2/ and her sister Ms. Rachel. 421.3295 263 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 421.3295 (pause 0.47) 421.7958 264 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 421.7958 I can't remember Mr.- um, 423.1946 265 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 423.1946 (pause 1.03) 424.2240 266 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 424.2240 Mr. Squirrel, his mother lived across the street so they all watched out for us, told on us. Ms. L even. 430.3266 267 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 430.3266 (pause 0.51) 430.8348 268 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 430.8348 When I was 431.3431 269 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 431.3431 (pause 0.24) 431.5856 270 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 431.5856 thirty years old, you know. Keeping up with what we were doing. Yeah, neighborhoood. 435.6038 271 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 435.6038 (pause 0.60) 436.2007 272 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 436.2007 People looking out for you, watching out for you. 438.2897 273 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 438.2897 (pause 0.53) 438.8212 274 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 438.8212 [Watching] over you. [You watching out f-] 440.6083 275 VLD_int_01 438.8539 [/See-/] 439.0917 276 VLD_int_01 439.0917 (pause 0.68) 439.7725 277 VLD_int_01 439.7725 [There weren't a lot of kids?] 441.2040 278 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 441.6365 There were kids, but- 442.5504 279 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 442.5504 (pause 0.87) 443.4177 280 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 443.4177 Now my sister may have hung out with other kids, 446.2254 281 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 446.2254 (pause 0.94) 447.1702 282 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 447.1702 I didn't go beyond, 448.6986 283 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 448.6986 (pause 0.12) 448.8221 284 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 448.8221 certain 449.4550 285 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 449.4550 (pause 2.28) 451.7352 286 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 451.7352 parameters of the neighborhood. 453.3858 287 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 453.3858 (pause 1.04) 454.4292 288 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 454.4292 You know what I'm saying. 455.2125 289 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 455.2125 (pause 0.57) 455.7814 290 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 455.7814 Like, you wouldn't find me 457.2502 291 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 457.2502 (pause 0.74) 457.9916 292 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 457.9916 on river- What's this street? River street? which is just a couple blocks away but just like right in here? Yes. 463.0490 293 VLD_int_01 464.3507 Did you ride your bike? 465.4733 294 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 465.7297 Oh lor- But I didn't get a bike until I was ten. 468.0285 295 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 468.0285 (pause 0.37) 468.3969 296 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 468.3969 That was a ten speed. 469.4507 297 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 469.4507 (pause 0.55) 469.9963 298 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 469.9963 And your mom sent that to me from Oklahoma. 472.0794 299 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 472.0794 (pause 1.15) 473.2265 300 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 473.2265 You know the story? 474.1171 301 VLD_int_01 474.1544 Mm-mm. 474.5741 302 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 474.6114 Oh I loved riding that bike. Oh man. 477.5071 303 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 477.5071 (pause 0.61) 478.1214 304 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 478.1214 And I for someth- something within my spirit told me like, this will be the only bike I will ever have. 483.4779 305 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 483.4779 (pause 0.62) 484.0934 306 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 484.0934 And I would ride that bike to the Zippy Market. 486.5601 307 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 486.5601 (pause 0.46) 487.0217 308 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 487.0217 Oh that's that country side coming out, Zippy Market, convenience store. 490.1307 309 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 490.1307 (pause 0.65) 490.7789 310 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 490.7789 Uh, the grocery store that used to be right up there, it used to be several names, but 494.7144 311 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 494.7144 (pause 1.30) 496.0142 312 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 496.0142 what was the last name? 497.1845 313 VLD_int_01 498.3036 Uh, Harvey's or Pick 'n Save? 499.8657 314 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 499.9823 Yeah, but it- yeah, but it was another name. But anyway, and then one- I never forget, one day it was raining. 504.8212 315 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 504.8212 (pause 0.78) 505.5999 316 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 505.5999 And I don't know why I went behind, 507.1235 317 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 507.1235 (pause 0.19) 507.3131 318 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 507.3131 I guess trying to, beat the traffic. 509.1193 319 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 509.1193 (pause 0.48) 509.6042 320 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 509.6042 And I rode across those little grids that they have in there. 512.6164 321 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 512.6164 (pause 0.52) 513.1387 322 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 513.1387 And it bent the wheel. 514.2053 323 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 514.2053 (pause 1.04) 515.2405 324 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 515.2405 And I dragged that bike all the way back down here, 518.5824 325 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 518.5824 (pause 0.08) 518.6624 326 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 518.6624 /RD-ADDRESS-5/, crying and screaming. 520.6297 327 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 520.6297 (pause 0.42) 521.0540 328 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 521.0540 You thought I had been attacked with something. No, my bike cause I thought would never 524.5698 329 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 524.5698 (pause 0.51) 525.0762 330 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 525.0762 have a bike again. 526.3007 331 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 526.3007 (pause 0.16) 526.4642 332 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 526.4642 And I never ever ever had another bike. 528.1684 333 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 528.1684 (pause 1.51) 529.6792 334 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 529.6792 Isn't that sad? 530.5045 335 VLD_int_01 532.2520 So how'd you get the bike? 533.2592 336 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 533.6648 Yo- I just- 534.4482 337 VLD_int_01 534.5228 I know, but how- but did you ask for the bike or she just sent it to you? 537.9349 338 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 537.9396 I think she just sent it to- I don't- I don't ask for anything. 540.4342 339 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 540.4342 (pause 1.35) 541.7864 340 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 541.7864 We couldn't really afford anything. I didn't really- 543.8510 341 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 543.8510 (pause 0.48) 544.3312 342 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 544.3312 like a Easter dress, I didn't ask for that. And the shoes, I didn't ask for that. She just sent it to me. 548.1735 343 VLD_int_01 549.2588 Hm. All this was all the same year? 550.8395 344 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 551.2965 I can't say it was the same [year. I can't put-] 553.4973 345 VLD_int_01 552.7047 [Oh but just at different] times. 553.9590 346 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 553.9636 Yeah. 554.4486 347 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 554.4486 (pause 0.15) 554.5978 348 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 554.5978 So I didn't ask for stuff. No. 556.1634 349 VLD_int_01 557.0400 Mkay so, you were the older sister. 558.6813 350 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 558.9471 I [am.] 559.4041 351 VLD_int_01 559.0963 [Okay.] So, 559.7725 352 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 560.7190 It cr- 561.1795 353 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 561.1795 (pause 0.25) 561.4266 354 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 561.4266 In years, 562.2660 355 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 562.2660 (pause 0.16) 562.4292 356 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 562.4292 yes. 564.6627 357 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 564.6627 (pause 0.34) 564.9984 358 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 564.9984 In experience, 566.0056 359 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 566.0056 (pause 0.26) 566.2621 360 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 566.2621 No. (laughing) 566.9662 361 VLD_int_01 567.3800 What does that mean? 568.0841 362 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 568.7696 What does that mean? You said I'm the older sister. 570.6534 363 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 570.6534 (pause 0.41) 571.0637 364 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 571.0637 My younger sister, 572.1315 365 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 572.1315 (pause 0.28) 572.4113 366 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 572.4113 she has actually done everything 573.8043 367 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 573.8043 (pause 0.24) 574.0468 368 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 574.0468 before I have. 574.9794 369 VLD_int_01 575.9353 What do you mean by that? 576.7000 370 VLD_int_01 576.7000 (pause 1.44) 578.1362 371 VLD_int_01 578.1362 [I mean] you said- 578.8076 372 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 578.1455 [] 578.4999 373 VLD_int_01 578.9930 But I'm just trying to make sure I'm not assuming anything. 581.3804 374 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 581.7115 Uh, okay. 582.4808 375 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 582.4808 (pause 0.99) 583.4740 376 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 583.4740 Um. 584.2027 377 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 584.2027 (pause 2.24) 586.4431 378 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 586.4431 Wa- okay. 587.0866 379 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 587.0866 (pause 0.76) 587.8420 380 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 587.8420 Fighting, 588.5741 381 VLD_int_01 588.9098 589.2735 382 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 589.2922 boyfriends, 590.1082 383 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 590.1082 (pause 0.16) 590.2667 384 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 590.2667 dating. The junior prom, senior prom. 592.6623 385 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 592.6623 (pause 0.33) 592.9934 386 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 592.9934 She's done all of that. 593.9772 387 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 593.9772 (pause 0.28) 594.2570 388 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 594.2570 Married, two kids. The two kids are old enough to have two [kids.] 597.4826 389 VLD_int_01 597.2774 [] 599.3757 390 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 597.7857 [If they wanna have kids (laughing)] 599.2452 391 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 599.3851 600.6813 392 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 600.6813 (pause 0.46) 601.1430 393 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 601.1430 So I'm just saying, she has done everything first. 603.3299 394 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 603.3299 (pause 1.19) 604.5224 395 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 604.5224 But not everything. Things that 606.0332 396 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 606.0332 (pause 0.50) 606.5321 397 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 606.5321 people talk about. 607.3808 398 VLD_int_01 608.4905 Mm. 608.7750 399 VLD_int_01 608.7750 (pause 0.94) 609.7111 400 VLD_int_01 609.7111 So tell me about, 610.6996 401 VLD_int_01 610.6996 (pause 1.86) 612.5554 402 VLD_int_01 612.5554 when you- Okay. So you had the [bike.] 614.3600 403 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 614.2621 [Had] a bike, yes. 615.5059 404 VLD_int_01 615.5246 And then you 616.0515 405 VLD_int_01 616.0515 (pause 0.63) 616.6810 406 VLD_int_01 616.6810 lost your bike. 617.4550 407 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 617.7394 [Yes.] 618.5181 408 VLD_int_01 618.1824 [Or you] bent your bike. 619.1150 409 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 619.1430 And- but I really lost it, cause who would fix it? 621.1807 410 VLD_int_01 622.1634 Nobody in the neighborhood fix it [for you?] 624.0472 411 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 623.6042 [Mm-mm], see I don't have friends like that. 625.4554 412 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 626.1502 And nobody in my grandmother's house, fixed it for- 628.2566 413 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 628.2566 (pause 0.35) 628.6110 414 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 628.6110 I don't even know what happened to the bike. 629.8467 415 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 629.8467 (pause 1.01) 630.8598 416 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 630.8598 Except my wheel got bent. 632.0662 417 VLD_int_01 633.7064 Mm. 634.0188 418 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 635.0167 Isn't that something. 636.0145 419 VLD_int_01 637.0684 I mean I- I didn't know that story- I never knew about the bike. 639.4266 420 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 640.1028 Really? 640.5924 421 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 640.5924 (pause 0.24) 640.8302 422 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 640.8302 [A] great ten speed, yes. 642.6207 423 VLD_int_01 640.8395 [I-] 640.9794 424 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 643.0449 But anyway I hope this is not all about the bike. (laughing) 645.3812 425 VLD_int_01 645.4733 It's not all about the bike, well I just- I never knew about 647.9306 426 VLD_int_01 647.9306 (pause 0.67) 648.6021 427 VLD_int_01 648.6021 the bike. 649.0590 428 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 649.4461 [Mm.] 649.7352 429 VLD_int_01 649.5440 [Okay], so I remember- 650.5652 430 VLD_int_01 651.0781 Did you often come- did you come visit us in Oklahoma a lot? 653.7254 431 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 654.4622 655.6419 432 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 655.6419 (pause 0.65) 656.2900 433 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 656.2900 I've been to Oklahoma maybe three times. 658.0706 434 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 658.0706 (pause 0.13) 658.2007 435 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 658.2007 I think three times. I loved out- in Oklahoma. I loved the air. I loved what it did for my skin, 663.3939 436 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 663.3939 (pause 0.39) 663.7810 437 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 663.7810 my hair, I loved Oklahoma. 665.5016 438 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 665.5016 (pause 1.35) 666.8492 439 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 666.8492 It was just being alone in Oklahoma that was the problem. 669.4325 440 VLD_int_01 669.5665 Mm. 669.9722 441 VLD_int_01 669.9722 (pause 0.50) 670.4758 442 VLD_int_01 670.4758 You- you didn't like to be by yourself? 671.9493 443 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 672.4141 Uh, Oklahoma, 673.6405 444 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 673.6405 (pause 0.11) 673.7512 445 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 673.7512 certain places I would be in, 675.3926 446 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 675.3926 (pause 0.73) 676.1246 447 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 676.1246 had spirits, 677.0199 448 VLD_int_01 677.6494 678.6613 449 VLD_int_01 678.6613 (pause 0.39) 679.0529 450 VLD_int_01 679.0529 What does that- 679.4819 451 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 679.9144 Spirits, what does that mean? You know what a spirit is. 682.0734 452 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 682.0734 (pause 0.40) 682.4744 453 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 682.4744 683.8499 454 VLD_int_01 685.5834 Okay. 686.9636 455 VLD_int_01 686.9636 (pause 1.29) 688.2552 456 VLD_int_01 688.2552 You had the- the [spirits?] 689.5095 457 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 689.3044 [I'm] sorry. 690.0318 458 VLD_int_01 690.5540 Were you scared? 691.3327 459 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 692.7677 Your brother took me to the bus station Greyhound. Put me on a bus at two o'clock in the morning. 697.5845 460 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 697.5845 (pause 0.33) 697.9098 461 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 697.9098 Of course I was afraid. (yelling) 699.4205 462 VLD_int_01 699.5977 Oh okay, so [it was-] 700.5490 463 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 700.2552 [And she] was afraid. And she had to go to work. 702.4654 464 VLD_int_01 702.9259 So a little bit afraid? 704.1056 465 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 705.6444 [Yes.] 706.2459 466 VLD_int_01 705.9941 [A little] bit afraid- [Okay.] 707.0945 467 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 706.6795 [Yeah.] 707.1365 468 VLD_int_01 708.8839 709.4062 469 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 709.9936 Minnie you don't understand. 711.2946 470 VLD_int_01 711.3086 I don't. That's why I'm trying to understand. 713.1645 471 VLD_int_01 713.1645 (pause 0.76) 713.9272 472 VLD_int_01 713.9272 Like you've told me some stories, but I don't know a lot of [stories.] 716.8377 473 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 716.4740 [Well] your brother will have to tell you that one. 718.2692 474 VLD_int_01 718.7914 About the- [about-] about the [spirits?] 721.1788 475 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 719.5468 [Spirits.] 720.3115 476 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 720.3115 (pause 0.59) 720.9037 477 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 720.9037 [Mm-hm.] 721.3141 478 VLD_int_01 721.5787 Were you at our house? 722.4926 479 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 722.5299 Yes. 723.1641 480 VLD_int_01 723.8169 Oh, was I born? 724.8614 481 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 724.8800 Yes. 725.8779 482 VLD_int_01 726.3535 How old was I? 726.8653 483 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 727.3129 That was the time when you had the tooth sticking out above the tooth. 730.0314 484 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 730.0314 (pause 0.29) 730.3251 485 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 730.3251 So how old were you? 731.1785 486 VLD_int_01 732.0891 [Had to be like maybe] six, [seven.] 733.7745 487 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 732.1297 [Ten?] 732.6006 488 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 732.6006 (pause 0.74) 733.3447 489 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 733.3447 [Oh.] 733.7550 490 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 734.6698 Nah, you were big. 735.5604 491 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 735.5604 (pause 0.76) 736.3158 492 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 736.3158 Seven? 736.7961 493 VLD_int_01 737.2577 Eight? 737.5515 494 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 737.9851 Nah you were- Mm-mm. 739.4959 495 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 739.4959 (pause 1.16) 740.6512 496 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 740.6512 You were younger than that. 741.5278 497 VLD_int_01 743.4282 Eh- if you just said ten and I said eight and you said younger than that. 746.0674 498 VLD_int_01 746.0674 (pause 1.53) 747.5969 499 VLD_int_01 747.5969 748.2590 500 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 748.7614 You were younger than ten, 750.1559 501 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 750.1559 (pause 0.17) 750.3227 502 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 750.3227 you were younger than eight. 751.4006 503 VLD_int_01 751.9415 So six. 752.9767 504 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 753.5782 Or seven. Somewhere in there, but you were a big girl. 756.2116 505 VLD_int_01 757.0043 Okay. 757.4566 506 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 757.9788 And- and you got scared so you left. 759.8160 507 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 759.8160 (pause 1.35) 761.1624 508 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 761.1624 It wasn't that simple. Your mom decided it would be best for me to [leave. (laughing)] 766.4688 509 VLD_int_01 765.1492 [] 766.9724 510 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 766.9504 The facilities- So that she could get some rest. 769.3727 511 VLD_int_01 769.6851 Uh. 769.8343 512 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 769.8576 My spirit could rest, 771.1086 513 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 771.1086 (pause 0.10) 771.2054 514 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 771.2054 /I come home/ (laughing). 772.7020 515 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 772.7020 (pause 0.52) 773.2184 516 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 773.2184 So I could come on home. 774.3561 517 VLD_int_01 774.4681 Okay. 774.8737 518 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 774.9110 Okay. 775.4146 519 VLD_int_01 775.6478 So tell us about- Okay, so tell me about s- 777.7461 520 VLD_int_01 777.7461 (pause 0.33) 778.0771 521 VLD_int_01 778.0771 Going to school. 778.8838 522 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 779.6940 I loved school. 780.8737 523 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 780.8737 (pause 0.83) 781.6991 524 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 781.6991 School was my sanctuary. 783.3824 525 VLD_int_01 784.7195 Really? 785.2091 526 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 785.4795 Yes. 786.1976 527 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 786.1976 (pause 0.31) 786.5100 528 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 786.5100 [Yes.] 787.0975 529 VLD_int_01 787.0276 [Were] you always a good student? 788.1327 530 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 788.6083 I wouldn't say a great student, or a good student. I just- school was my sanctuary. I'll never forget. 792.9670 531 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 792.9670 (pause 0.74) 793.7037 532 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 793.7037 /RD-SCHOOL-3/ Elementary was just what? A few blocks away. 796.5574 533 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 796.5574 (pause 0.23) 796.7859 534 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 796.7859 Which we walked to school. 798.2349 535 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 798.2349 (pause 0.53) 798.7618 536 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 798.7618 Hm. 798.9623 537 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 798.9623 (pause 0.38) 799.3447 538 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 799.3447 Something someone else did not do. 801.3964 539 VLD_int_01 801.6062 I don't know what you're talking about. 802.5434 540 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 802.8465 /RD-SCHOOL-4/ 803.8024 541 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 803.8024 (pause 0.22) 804.0251 542 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 804.0251 [You-] 804.4214 543 VLD_int_01 804.0344 [Mm-hm.] 804.4354 544 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 804.9437 We [walked.] 805.6618 545 VLD_int_01 805.1582 [Are you] implying that someone in this room did not walk to school? 808.0212 546 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 808.0165 Exactly. 808.7719 547 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 809.4562 But I won't say anymore, but anyway, we walked to school and that was during the time when- 813.2285 548 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 813.2285 (pause 0.53) 813.7626 549 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 813.7626 Oh gosh I can't remember the man's name, but it was the killing of the children in Atlanta. 817.8576 550 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 817.8576 (pause 0.54) 818.3938 551 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 818.3938 Remember? 818.9347 552 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 818.9347 (pause 0.63) 819.5642 553 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 819.5642 Oh you weren't- You weren't [born then.] 821.1729 554 VLD_int_01 820.3010 [Really], something. 821.7185 555 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 822.1323 Mm-hm. And so like, so afraid. But just 824.8881 556 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 824.8881 (pause 0.36) 825.2518 557 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 825.2518 excited about school and when I would get to school. And 827.8246 558 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 827.8246 (pause 0.44) 828.2629 559 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 828.2629 Our teacher would pull up, Oh gosh, Mrs. /RD-NAME-2/ that was her name. Which 832.1144 560 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 832.1144 (pause 0.30) 832.4132 561 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 832.4132 I actually went to /RD-SCHOOL-1/ school first, but anyway 834.7385 562 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 834.7385 (pause 1.29) 836.0255 563 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 836.0255 right over here at /RD-SCHOOL-3/ elementary. 837.7321 564 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 837.7321 (pause 0.68) 838.4170 565 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 838.4170 We would run to her car. We would race to her car, the students. 840.9996 566 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 840.9996 (pause 0.53) 841.5301 567 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 841.5301 They'd bring her things back to the classroom. That was, 843.6901 568 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 843.6901 (pause 0.47) 844.1564 569 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 844.1564 the second semester of third grade. 846.1183 570 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 846.1183 (pause 0.71) 846.8318 571 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 846.8318 And I remember reading stories and doing the multiplication and we would have to 850.2269 572 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 850.2269 (pause 0.18) 850.4104 573 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 850.4104 race each other or whatever. 851.7511 574 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 851.7511 (pause 1.26) 853.0089 575 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 853.0089 Loved it. 853.4846 576 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 853.4846 (pause 1.51) 854.9927 577 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 854.9927 Ham bone. 855.7802 578 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 855.7802 (pause 0.13) 855.9103 579 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 855.9103 She'd play that beating her chest but she would also throw erasers at us, if we were misbehave. 859.9275 580 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 859.9275 (pause 0.57) 860.5011 581 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 860.5011 She also would 861.1539 582 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 861.1539 (pause 0.51) 861.6667 583 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 861.6667 hit our hands with a little ruler. I don't know if that was legal or not, but. 864.8317 584 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 864.8317 (pause 0.60) 865.4286 585 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 865.4286 Hey, we were 866.0581 586 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 866.0581 (pause 0.15) 866.2120 587 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 866.2120 six, seven, eight years old. 867.8440 588 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 867.8440 (pause 1.43) 869.2697 589 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 869.2697 She's still my favorite teacher. 870.6872 590 VLD_int_01 871.3353 Ms. /RD-NAME-2/. 871.9322 591 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 871.9322 Ms. /RD-NAME-6/. 873.3077 592 VLD_int_01 874.1890 She still living? 874.9817 593 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 875.2429 I'm not sure. She was on the board of education. 878.1420 594 VLD_int_01 878.8788 Oh. 879.2751 595 VLD_int_01 879.2751 (pause 0.57) 879.8440 596 VLD_int_01 879.8440 Recent like, [in the last few-] Oh, [okay.] 881.8490 597 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 880.5527 [Mm-hm.] 880.9911 598 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 880.9911 (pause 0.35) 881.3454 599 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 881.3454 [Mm-hm.] 881.8304 600 VLD_int_01 882.9157 And then- So that was third grade. What about- 884.9021 601 VLD_int_01 884.9021 (pause 0.26) 885.1632 602 VLD_int_01 885.1632 So- and, 885.6948 603 VLD_int_01 885.6948 (pause 0.15) 885.8486 604 VLD_int_01 885.8486 /RD-SCHOOL-3/ used to be like 887.0144 605 VLD_int_01 887.0144 (pause 0.38) 887.3956 606 VLD_int_01 887.3956 before it went to middle sch- cause it was middle school at one [point.] 890.3752 607 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 889.7923 [Never.] 890.3099 608 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 892.9491 No, /RD-SCHOOL-3/ was always elem- they done went to fifth and sixth [grade.] 895.9695 609 VLD_int_01 895.7317 [That's] what I mean, like 896.5524 610 VLD_int_01 896.6503 f- It was fourth and fifth grade. 898.0771 611 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 898.2357 four, fifth [or then six- yeah] 900.2582 612 VLD_int_01 898.7766 [Before you moved over to s- Mm-hm.] 900.3515 613 VLD_int_01 900.7618 So, but now it's back to like, [up to fifth, /three/-] Up to fifth grade or something [like that.] 904.6880 614 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 902.2306 [Elementary.] 902.9860 615 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 902.9860 (pause 1.26) 904.2497 616 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 904.2497 [Right.] 904.6926 617 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 904.9118 [Right.] 905.3128 618 VLD_int_01 905.0470 [So] for you it was up to fifth grade? 906.7665 619 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 907.1348 Right. 907.5172 620 VLD_int_01 907.6244 Okay, so then when you left /RD-SCHOOL-3/ where'd you go? 909.6761 621 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 910.7334 /RD-SCHOOL-3/ 911.6194 622 VLD_int_01 912.7058 [Junior] 913.2607 623 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 912.7198 [Junior] High. Which is /RD-SCHOOL-3/ middle school, but they- 915.2565 624 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 915.8207 you know, tore it down. And 917.4795 625 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 917.4795 (pause 0.76) 918.2349 626 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 918.2349 made it new so. 919.3260 627 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 919.3260 (pause 0.48) 919.8063 628 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 919.8063 It's so sad, all the buildings that I re- Can you imagine? They've torn them down. /RD-SCHOOL-3/ elementary, 924.6685 629 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 924.6685 (pause 0.38) 925.0509 630 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 925.0509 925.3260 631 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 925.3260 (pause 0.46) 925.7876 632 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 925.7876 they just knocked it down. Built a new school and then renamed it. 928.6553 633 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 928.6553 (pause 2.16) 930.8131 634 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 930.8131 /RD-SCHOOL-3/ Junior High, knocked it down, 933.0140 635 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 933.0140 (pause 0.46) 933.4709 636 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 933.4709 renamed it. 934.1750 637 VLD_int_01 936.0810 /RD-SCHOOL-2/ [High School-] 936.9670 638 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 936.6546 [That's sad] to me. Now /RD-SCHOOL-3/ High School is moving. 939.2564 639 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 939.6347 And that saddens me as well. I'm not as excited as the 942.1370 640 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 942.1370 (pause 1.87) 944.0021 641 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 944.0021 other teachers and faculty members. They're all like, oh it take- 946.8139 642 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 946.8139 (pause 0.31) 947.1251 643 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 947.1251 It's three miles to walk around the school, blah blah blah. 950.0161 644 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 950.0161 (pause 1.04) 951.0513 645 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 951.0513 That doesn't excite me. 952.0538 646 VLD_int_01 954.3888 So what was- 954.9436 647 VLD_int_01 954.9436 (pause 0.21) 955.1581 648 VLD_int_01 955.1581 Did you- 955.5965 649 VLD_int_01 955.5965 (pause 0.10) 955.6990 650 VLD_int_01 955.6990 Were you- 956.1234 651 VLD_int_01 956.1234 (pause 0.10) 956.2213 652 VLD_int_01 956.2213 Did you have any fond memories of /RD-SCHOOL-3/ middle school, or 958.5722 653 VLD_int_01 958.5722 (pause 0.09) 958.6623 654 VLD_int_01 958.6623 I'm sorry. /RD-SCHOOL-3/ Junior High? 959.7698 655 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 962.3752 Mm, /RD-SCHOOL-3/ Junior High, I got involved in sports. 964.8698 656 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 964.8698 (pause 0.73) 965.6007 657 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 965.6007 But, I mean I- everyday was a great day for me at school. 968.5150 658 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 968.5150 (pause 0.17) 968.6876 659 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 968.6876 I could even remember 969.4896 660 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 969.4896 (pause 0.34) 969.8315 661 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 969.8315 cursing. Well actually, I wrote a girl a note cussing her out. 972.9670 662 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 972.9670 (pause 0.62) 973.5918 663 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 973.5918 And she gave the note to the science teacher and he took me outside. 976.8791 664 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 976.8791 (pause 0.43) 977.3116 665 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 977.3116 And he told me that I was an ath- student athlete, blah blah blah. 980.4171 666 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 980.4171 (pause 0.48) 980.8974 667 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 980.8974 And how great I was and I don't need to do this and that's why I don't curse. 984.4641 668 VLD_int_01 986.6643 And that happened in the seventh grade? 987.9232 669 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 988.1424 Seventh gr- seventh or eighth grade. 989.8770 670 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 989.8770 (pause 0.07) 989.9458 671 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 989.9458 Cause it was /RD-SCHOOL-3/ Junior High School then. Yeah. 992.2819 672 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 992.2819 (pause 1.14) 993.4196 673 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 993.4196 I think it was seventh grade. 994.5014 674 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 994.5014 (pause 1.42) 995.9225 675 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 995.9225 I know you know these [stories stop (laughing)] 998.2026 676 VLD_int_01 996.7477 [I- I don't know.] 998.2353 677 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 998.4451 [It's not even the whole] story. I'm just telling you little clips so we can move on. 1001.9085 678 VLD_int_01 998.4451 [No I don't.] 999.2243 679 VLD_int_01 1002.3888 But I don't, but that's why I'm inter- like, I don't know that. 1004.8881 680 VLD_int_01 1004.8881 (pause 0.48) 1005.3684 681 VLD_int_01 1005.3684 Like I really don't, like, I'm [asking like I] 1007.2288 682 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1006.5201 [Mm-hm.] 1007.2475 683 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1007.3862 Cause she wrote me a cur- I can't even remember her name now. 1010.0021 684 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1010.0021 (pause 0.85) 1010.8554 685 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1010.8554 I could see her face sitting in science class. 1013.0237 686 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1013.0237 (pause 0.21) 1013.2370 687 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1013.2370 Okay, I got something for you. 1015.4472 688 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1015.4472 (pause 0.50) 1015.9508 689 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1015.9508 And I wrote it up. 1016.7762 690 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1016.7762 (pause 0.26) 1017.0326 691 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1017.0326 And I gave it to her. 1018.0118 692 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1018.0118 (pause 0.29) 1018.3009 693 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1018.3009 She- 1018.5387 694 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1018.5387 (pause 0.32) 1018.8558 695 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1018.8558 Mr. /RD-NAME-2/, that was his name. Mr. /RD-NAME-2/. 1020.9716 696 VLD_int_01 1022.2306 And he told you don't cuss cause you a sci- a [student athlete?] 1025.1496 697 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1024.5341 [Well, you know] to that, I mean there was- back- this is not me. I'm a student athlete, blah blah blah. 1029.0513 698 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1029.4709 So did I get into trouble? No, but him talking to me like that, boy, that just made an impression on me. 1033.9851 699 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1033.9851 (pause 0.53) 1034.5197 700 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1034.5197 For 1034.9720 701 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1034.9720 (pause 0.79) 1035.7647 702 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1035.7647 [thirty] years. Yeah. 1037.1496 703 VLD_int_01 1035.7740 [Okay.] 1036.1284 704 VLD_int_01 1037.5261 What sports did you play? 1038.4680 705 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1042.3662 Basketball and track. 1044.5240 706 VLD_int_01 1045.1628 Were you good? 1045.7130 707 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1046.6363 Mm. 1047.2098 708 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1047.2098 (pause 0.47) 1047.6761 709 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1047.6761 So-so. 1048.2683 710 VLD_int_01 1050.7198 Hm. 1050.9670 711 VLD_int_01 1050.9670 (pause 0.31) 1051.2794 712 VLD_int_01 1051.2794 Mkay. 1051.6431 713 VLD_int_01 1051.6431 (pause 1.45) 1053.0886 714 VLD_int_01 1053.0886 What was your favorite subject in high s- I mean, in- What was your favorite subject up to this point? 1057.0835 715 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1064.5570 I don't know. I'd have to think about that because I had great teachers. 1067.4946 716 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1067.4946 (pause 0.68) 1068.1743 717 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1068.1743 Social studies we had to do- Mrs. /RD-NAME-1/. I had great teachers. 1071.9792 718 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1071.9792 (pause 0.47) 1072.4501 719 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1072.4501 Ms.- Like I said, Mrs. /RD-NAME-1/ was social studies with all those presidents projects. 1076.3845 720 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1076.3845 (pause 0.33) 1076.7109 721 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1076.7109 I should know all forty- which one is this? forty five? 1079.5692 722 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1079.5692 (pause 0.18) 1079.7499 723 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1079.7499 1080.7291 724 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1080.7291 (pause 0.31) 1081.0416 725 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1081.0416 I should know all of them. 1082.3145 726 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1082.3145 (pause 0.46) 1082.7715 727 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1082.7715 Um, 1083.3963 728 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1083.3963 (pause 0.23) 1083.6248 729 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1083.6248 Like I said, Ms. /RD-NAME-2/ in third grade, 1085.7744 730 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1085.7744 (pause 0.45) 1086.2255 731 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1086.2255 had a math teacher in fifth grade. Mr. /RD-NAME-3/ who was a 1089.5176 732 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1089.5176 (pause 0.78) 1090.2963 733 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1090.2963 teacher when I was in fifth grade. Then became an assistant principle. I don't know if he became a principal principal, but then got into trouble. So I don't know where he is now. 1098.0250 734 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1098.0250 (pause 0.68) 1098.7058 735 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1098.7058 So, 1099.3307 736 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1099.3307 (pause 0.58) 1099.9089 737 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1099.9089 I'm just trying to think like 1101.0751 738 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1101.0751 (pause 1.24) 1102.3196 739 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1102.3196 gosh, if I could just remember all of their names. 1104.8737 740 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1104.8737 (pause 1.20) 1106.0767 741 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1106.0767 My first language arts teacher that I- r- It was the end of the school year. She started reading- 1110.2908 742 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1110.2908 (pause 0.65) 1110.9436 743 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1110.9436 reading Edgar Allen Poe to us. And I don't remember what t- uh- the story was, 1115.0516 744 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1115.0516 (pause 0.57) 1115.6205 745 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1115.6205 but she was sitting on top of the desk. It was so interesting and just like. 1118.6130 746 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1118.6130 (pause 0.53) 1119.1399 747 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1119.1399 Moment by moment what was she gonna s- This was fourth grade. 1121.5879 748 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1121.5879 (pause 0.49) 1122.0810 749 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1122.0810 What she was going to say. And 1123.6571 750 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1123.6571 (pause 0.41) 1124.0627 751 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1124.0627 she never finished [reading the whole story. (laughing)] 1126.3569 752 VLD_int_01 1125.0046 [] 1127.4853 753 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1128.3002 But anyway. 1128.9669 754 VLD_int_01 1129.3260 [Is that how] you started [is that-] 1131.1911 755 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1129.3307 [What wa-] 1129.8389 756 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1129.8389 (pause 0.84) 1130.6829 757 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1130.6829 [I'm not] sure cause I used to- like I said, math, I loved math. 1134.3261 758 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1135.3260 I loved- I loved school. 1136.7762 759 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1136.7762 (pause 0.57) 1137.3450 760 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1137.3450 I still love being at school. 1138.9164 761 VLD_int_01 1139.3773 Oh we know. 1139.9085 762 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1140.1773 Even when they fight. I love- I wanna jump in the fight. Let me get in. 1143.2082 763 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1143.2082 (pause 0.38) 1143.5847 764 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1143.5847 [] 1145.8975 765 VLD_int_01 1143.5894 [ Oh lord.] 1145.8882 766 VLD_int_01 1146.2654 You gonna be getting in enough fights. 1147.8746 767 VLD_int_01 1147.8746 (pause 0.69) 1148.5693 768 VLD_int_01 1148.5693 Um, so, 1149.7945 769 VLD_int_01 1149.7945 (pause 0.35) 1150.1396 770 VLD_int_01 1150.1396 the other question I wanna ask you is- Okay so, now we've 1153.2164 771 VLD_int_01 1153.2164 (pause 0.14) 1153.3565 772 VLD_int_01 1153.3565 left middle school, did co- the- not the coach, the teacher had a really- 1156.2980 773 VLD_int_01 1156.2980 (pause 0.27) 1156.5686 774 VLD_int_01 1156.5686 that 1156.8157 775 VLD_int_01 1156.8157 (pause 0.16) 1156.9742 776 VLD_int_01 1156.9742 [letter] 1157.3892 777 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1157.2354 [But], 1157.4359 778 VLD_int_01 1157.5338 [/That he caught you-/ 1158.2939 779 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1157.5524 [But that was coach] that was- [he was a coach he was a football] [coach I -think]. Mm-hm. 1161.1959 780 VLD_int_01 1158.8347 [He- he was a coach?] 1159.8419 781 VLD_int_01 1159.8419 (pause 0.34) 1160.1823 782 VLD_int_01 1160.1823 [Okay.] 1160.7512 783 VLD_int_01 1161.2361 So he had a impact when he said that to you. [Just because] he was a coach that meant- 1164.5643 784 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1163.0255 [Well just-] 1163.3613 785 VLD_int_01 1165.3850 That made it different. Because he knew how to talk to athletes? 1168.7318 786 VLD_int_01 1168.7318 (pause 0.90) 1169.6271 787 VLD_int_01 1169.6271 Do you think that made it different. Like as oppo- if he wasn't a coach that wouldn't have- 1172.2196 788 VLD_int_01 1172.2196 (pause 0.20) 1172.4155 789 VLD_int_01 1172.4155 it wouldn't have mattered to y- Not mattered, but it wouldn't have had the same 1175.3613 790 VLD_int_01 1175.3613 (pause 0.13) 1175.4872 791 VLD_int_01 1175.4872 it wouldn't have resonated with you the same way? 1177.2218 792 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1178.4994 Again, I mean just s- still thinking of the teachers that I've had. Ms. /RD-NAME-3/, 1183.1332 793 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1183.1332 (pause 0.65) 1183.7860 794 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1183.7860 all- Ms. /RD-NAME-2/, all the- 1185.2401 795 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1185.2401 (pause 0.12) 1185.3583 796 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1185.3583 like every teacher I've mentioned. My art teacher, they all had an impact on me. I love- 1189.5829 797 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1189.5829 (pause 0.38) 1189.9678 798 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1189.9678 Even when they were 1190.5973 799 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1190.5973 (pause 0.23) 1190.8305 800 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1190.8305 so called, mean or tough, 1192.2980 801 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1192.2980 (pause 0.72) 1193.0162 802 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1193.0162 I loved them. 1193.9068 803 VLD_int_01 1195.9025 But I mean that- that whole moment about you're a student athlete. You're- don't cuss this girl- don't 1200.2426 804 VLD_int_01 1200.2426 (pause 0.37) 1200.6156 805 VLD_int_01 1200.6156 say cuss words or whatever. 1201.7197 806 VLD_int_01 1201.7197 (pause 0.16) 1201.8765 807 VLD_int_01 1201.8765 I didn't know he was a coach. I just- 1203.1005 808 VLD_int_01 1203.1005 (pause 0.68) 1203.7805 809 VLD_int_01 1203.7805 It was a slip, but I didn't realize he was a coach. 1205.8283 810 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1207.0306 I don't know, I just think that he- I mean, I didn't get into trouble, which I- 1209.8132 811 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1209.8132 (pause 0.45) 1210.2655 812 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1210.2655 I didn't get into trouble, I didn't go to the office, I didn't get suspended, whatever. 1213.6694 813 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1213.6694 (pause 0.49) 1214.1590 814 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1214.1590 Which I have spent a couple days in. 1215.7164 815 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1215.7164 (pause 0.61) 1216.3308 816 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1216.3308 What is it called? ESS? 1217.7343 817 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1217.7343 (pause 0.32) 1218.0560 818 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1218.0560 ISS? 1218.8907 819 VLD_int_01 1219.2964 Oh [mm-hm.] 1219.8041 820 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1219.6134 [A] after school detention. I'm not even quite sure for what, cause I was not a bad student. 1223.3976 821 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1224.5213 And that's why I can't understand why I got whoopings. 1226.4547 822 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1226.4547 (pause 0.11) 1226.5682 823 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1226.5682 Cause I was not a bad child. 1228.0173 824 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1228.0173 (pause 0.93) 1228.9499 825 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1228.9499 But my sister was. 1230.1576 826 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1230.1576 (pause 0.73) 1230.8850 827 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1230.8850 And that maybe 1231.6544 828 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1231.6544 (pause 0.62) 1232.2712 829 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1232.2712 the reason. 1232.8295 830 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1232.8295 (pause 0.80) 1233.6303 831 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1233.6303 I was in ISS. 1234.8054 832 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1234.8054 (pause 1.41) 1236.2182 833 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1236.2182 My sister, 1236.8617 834 VLD_int_01 1237.9062 We getting into some deep seated [/??/ issues.] 1239.7460 835 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1239.3459 [I know] I'm thinking on this stuff right now. (laughing) 1241.9431 836 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1242.6099 Okay what's your next [question?] 1244.1254 837 VLD_int_01 1243.8596 [So,] going to high school, 1245.3319 838 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1246.2691 Mm-hm. 1246.6655 839 VLD_int_01 1246.6888 You went to /RD-SCHOOL-3/ High [School.] 1247.9751 840 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1247.8172 [Absolutely.] 1248.5260 841 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1249.8269 Home of the marching cats. 1251.0941 842 VLD_int_01 1251.2293 Yes. Pride and power of South Georgia. 1253.2996 843 VLD_int_01 1253.2996 (pause 0.28) 1253.5794 844 VLD_int_01 1253.5794 Love that. 1254.1809 845 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1254.2421 Hm. 1254.4141 846 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1254.4141 (pause 0.21) 1254.6192 847 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1254.6192 Was the football team good when you were there? 1255.9948 848 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1255.9948 (pause 0.29) 1256.2874 849 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1256.2874 Absolutely. Our football team was great, but whether they won or l- lost, 1260.0830 850 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1260.0830 (pause 0.45) 1260.5306 851 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1260.5306 they still were awesome. 1261.5891 852 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1261.5891 (pause 0.27) 1261.8596 853 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1261.8596 Cause I- I mean that was nineteen /blah blah/. 1264.2785 854 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1264.2785 (pause 0.75) 1265.0308 855 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1265.0308 And it were wonderful. 1266.1352 856 VLD_int_01 1267.7010 Did they w- 1268.1533 857 VLD_int_01 1268.1533 (pause 0.40) 1268.5532 858 VLD_int_01 1268.5532 did you get any state championships while you were in high school? 1271.0199 859 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1271.1597 Before I graduated, yes. After I graduated, yes. 1275.0848 860 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1275.0848 (pause 0.53) 1275.6163 861 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1275.6163 [Several] times, [yes.] 1277.2250 862 VLD_int_01 1275.7003 [Oh.] 1275.9800 863 VLD_int_01 1275.9800 (pause 0.96) 1276.9406 864 VLD_int_01 1276.9406 [Really?] 1277.2483 865 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1277.3323 Yes. 1277.9058 866 VLD_int_01 1278.0690 Mm. 1278.3861 867 VLD_int_01 1278.3861 (pause 0.15) 1278.5353 868 VLD_int_01 1278.5353 I didn't- 1278.7731 869 VLD_int_01 1278.7731 (pause 0.18) 1278.9503 870 VLD_int_01 1278.9503 So how was [the- At the] 1280.2093 871 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1279.3420 [Right the school- the f-] 1280.1067 872 VLD_int_01 1280.4366 [The football] team. [Yeah. How was the] atmosphere? 1282.3904 873 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1280.4844 [Yeah.] 1280.9960 874 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1280.9960 (pause 0.28) 1281.2713 875 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1281.2713 [And then the f-] 1281.8296 876 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1282.5163 I mean, 1282.9639 877 VLD_int_01 1283.2856 Was [it?] 1283.7426 878 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1283.5468 [uh] 1283.7100 879 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1284.0970 what do you [mean how was the-] 1285.1275 880 VLD_int_01 1284.6519 [Like was it] exciting. I mean when you were there, as a student. 1287.7469 881 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1287.9707 Always. From ninth grade being so awkward and odd. And 1291.7383 882 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1291.7383 (pause 0.16) 1291.8969 883 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1291.8969 You know, your body changing and growing. And 1294.1292 884 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1294.1292 (pause 0.55) 1294.6841 885 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1294.6841 you know, 1295.1038 886 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1295.1038 (pause 0.30) 1295.4022 887 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1295.4022 the groups, the clicks. And 1297.0249 888 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1297.0249 (pause 0.44) 1297.4632 889 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1297.4632 it is so odd now that I look at it thinking about the /gloop-/ groups and the clicks. 1300.9033 890 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1300.9033 (pause 1.28) 1302.1809 891 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1302.1809 Like in high school, 1303.2348 892 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1303.2348 (pause 0.11) 1303.3416 893 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1303.3416 it doesn't matter if your father was 1305.3302 894 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1305.3302 (pause 0.72) 1306.0453 895 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1306.0453 not in your life. Or your father was a doctor or the mayor. Like you all were 1310.4378 896 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1310.4378 (pause 0.33) 1310.7677 897 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1310.7677 the same. 1311.3785 898 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1311.3785 (pause 0.49) 1311.8681 899 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1311.8681 Like we were all in the same classes. 1313.8219 900 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1313.8219 (pause 0.44) 1314.2602 901 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1314.2602 Do you know what I'm [saying.] Like we were all treated the s- at least I felt that way- treated the same. 1317.9614 902 VLD_int_01 1314.7172 [Mm.] 1315.0762 903 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1318.4137 But once you graduated, 1319.6027 904 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1319.6027 (pause 0.24) 1319.8435 905 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1319.8435 life does not treat you the same. 1321.4679 906 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1321.4679 (pause 1.20) 1322.6698 907 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1322.6698 At least, I don't think so. 1323.9287 908 VLD_int_01 1324.7378 So high school's very different from like- 1326.3851 909 VLD_int_01 1326.3851 (pause 0.27) 1326.6563 910 VLD_int_01 1326.6563 [High] school is a very different microcosm from the real world. Like it was a very different- 1330.0245 911 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1326.6733 [But-] 1326.9620 912 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1326.9620 (pause 3.06) 1330.0245 913 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1330.0245 It- and it still is. 1331.2359 914 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1331.4737 Except now, high school 1333.1431 915 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1333.1431 (pause 0.68) 1333.8281 916 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1333.8281 has at least three 1335.7019 917 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1335.7019 (pause 1.11) 1336.8114 918 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1336.8114 maybe more microcosms within the 1339.2281 919 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1339.2281 (pause 1.27) 1340.4961 920 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1340.4961 /hotal-/ 1340.9198 921 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1340.9198 (pause 0.17) 1341.0900 922 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1341.0900 total 1341.5746 923 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1341.5746 (pause 0.18) 1341.7548 924 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1341.7548 subset 1342.6472 925 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1342.6472 (pause 0.53) 1343.1793 926 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1343.1793 known [as], 1343.9379 927 VLD_int_01 1343.8247 [Mm.] 1344.1360 928 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1344.3058 /RD-SCHOOL-3/ High. 1345.5224 929 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1345.5224 (pause 0.91) 1346.4338 930 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1346.4338 Do [you understand what I'm saying?] 1347.4245 931 VLD_int_01 1346.6886 [What- mm-hm.] 1347.4301 932 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1347.7471 Because we have like, the so called, honest kids. 1350.0398 933 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1350.0398 (pause 0.29) 1350.3285 934 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1350.3285 But they all are not honest kid- but they are p- predominantly- 1353.1131 935 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1353.1131 (pause 0.36) 1353.4698 936 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1353.4698 are majority a certain race. 1355.0378 937 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1355.0378 (pause 0.64) 1355.6790 938 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1355.6790 And like their parents don't want them to 1357.4658 939 VLD_int_01 1358.9433 Intermingle? 1359.5603 940 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1359.6735 Yeah, with the other kids. 1361.0378 941 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1361.0378 (pause 0.27) 1361.3120 942 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1361.3120 Which those kids who are supposedly to be- Like everybody's college prep. 1364.6603 943 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1364.6603 (pause 0.91) 1365.5660 944 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1365.5660 And- 1366.1547 945 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1366.1547 (pause 0.47) 1366.6246 946 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1366.6246 but everybody's not college prep. 1368.3455 947 VLD_int_01 1368.4921 Right. 1368.7469 948 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1369.1375 And our principal she's in the game of 1371.1641 949 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1371.1641 (pause 0.15) 1371.3113 950 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1371.3113 graduating 1372.1242 951 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1372.1242 (pause 0.11) 1372.2376 952 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1372.2376 students, 1372.8567 953 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1372.8567 (pause 0.33) 1373.1907 954 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1373.1907 that doesn't mean educating students. 1375.0304 955 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1375.0304 (pause 0.24) 1375.2733 956 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1375.2733 It doesn't mean they're prepared. 1376.5086 957 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1376.5086 (pause 0.44) 1376.9490 958 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1376.9490 You [understand?] 1377.8094 959 VLD_int_01 1377.3452 [Mm-hm.] 1377.7975 960 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1378.1491 So isn- for a lot of people- Oh it's the numbers and they get all excited. 1381.2733 961 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1381.2733 (pause 0.29) 1381.5675 962 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1381.5675 But for me, it's about making that individual 1383.8264 963 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1383.8264 (pause 1.19) 1385.0152 964 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1385.0152 contact, more than just a contact. Just a- 1387.4601 965 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1387.4601 (pause 0.98) 1388.4395 966 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1388.4395 It's more than just responsibility cause I have a responsibility, /for/ that student. Even though that student is thirteen, fourteen 1393.5337 967 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1393.5337 (pause 0.37) 1393.9017 968 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1393.9017 definitely has a responsibility sitting in my classroom as well. 1396.6133 969 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1396.6133 (pause 0.58) 1397.1907 970 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1397.1907 And I just jumped subjects. I didn't mean to do that cause we started on Valdosta High [School.] 1400.8584 971 VLD_int_01 1400.5753 [Mm], but that's- but you still talking about /RD-SCHOOL-3/ High School. 1402.8680 972 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1402.8793 Yeah, but now in a different- 1404.0511 973 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1404.0511 (pause 0.45) 1404.5035 974 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1404.5035 co- I'm saying as a- as a classroom teacher. 1406.9150 975 VLD_int_01 1407.7415 But still very relevant because I think 1409.4850 976 VLD_int_01 1409.4850 (pause 0.40) 1409.8869 977 VLD_int_01 1409.8869 it's interesting how you just made that connection right. Because I think it shows- 1413.0112 978 VLD_int_01 1413.0112 (pause 0.60) 1413.6113 979 VLD_int_01 1413.6113 thinking about how y- how you got into education, or how you- or even thinking about your own journey as a 1419.3059 980 VLD_int_01 1419.3059 (pause 0.39) 1419.6962 981 VLD_int_01 1419.6962 educator. 1420.6302 982 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1420.6585 I've always been an educator. That's the sad part about it. 1423.5337 983 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1423.5337 (pause 1.60) 1425.1301 984 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1425.1301 Don't- Haven't you realized [that?] 1426.5736 985 VLD_int_01 1426.2849 [Mm.] You have. 1427.2416 986 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1427.3435 And I'm always spending my- Well my- s- my free time 1430.3942 987 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1430.3942 (pause 0.42) 1430.8131 988 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1430.8131 with kids. 1431.6679 989 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1431.6679 (pause 0.32) 1431.9906 990 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1431.9906 You know open up the che- Come on kids, what do we got- I don't know. Come let's do something. 1435.9357 991 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1435.9357 (pause 0.43) 1436.3659 992 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1436.3659 You know I'm thinking. Why did I spend all my- I could be putting my [ideas] into 1439.8983 993 VLD_int_01 1439.1001 [Mm.] 1439.4341 994 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1440.5035 some money making things, but 1442.0206 995 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1442.0206 (pause 0.58) 1442.6017 996 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1442.6017 this is my investment. 1443.8228 997 VLD_int_01 1444.5453 It is. I think when it's your 1446.3002 998 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1447.1431 [Passion.] 1447.6017 999 VLD_int_01 1447.5620 [Passion.] 1447.9640 1000 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1447.9526 [Absolutely.] 1448.6036 1001 VLD_int_01 1448.5697 [You] follow the passion, not the paycheck. 1449.9906 1002 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1449.9906 Absolutely. 1450.7774 1003 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1451.0605 And I have a friend now. She has so many degrees. And all she talks about is, 1454.7282 1004 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1454.7282 (pause 0.41) 1455.1384 1005 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1455.1384 oh I can't wait til I start making this amount of money. 1457.5416 1006 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1457.5416 (pause 0.37) 1457.9152 1007 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1457.9152 And for me, 1458.5889 1008 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1458.5889 (pause 0.34) 1458.9280 1009 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1458.9280 it's n- 1459.4375 1010 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1459.4375 (pause 0.16) 1459.6017 1011 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1459.6017 If the money comes, wonderful. Is it- if it doesn't, 1461.9906 1012 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1461.9906 (pause 0.43) 1462.4208 1013 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1462.4208 I'm still going to survive. 1463.6809 1014 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1463.6809 (pause 1.11) 1464.7870 1015 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1464.7870 It's not about a bigger house, bigger car, whatever, 1467.3056 1016 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1467.3056 (pause 0.27) 1467.5717 1017 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1467.5717 it's not. 1468.3076 1018 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1468.3076 (pause 1.46) 1469.7681 1019 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1469.7681 But if I have a kid in my classroom, who doesn't have on shoes, 1472.9716 1020 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1472.9716 (pause 1.44) 1474.4095 1021 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1474.4095 or has on, 1475.2020 1022 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1475.2020 (pause 0.26) 1475.4624 1023 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1475.4624 two different pairs of shoes. 1477.1886 1024 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1477.1886 (pause 0.96) 1478.1451 1025 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1478.1451 Or have stuff smeared across his shirt, 1480.1774 1026 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1480.1774 (pause 1.28) 1481.4567 1027 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1481.4567 or has 1481.9945 1028 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1481.9945 (pause 0.94) 1482.9337 1029 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1482.9337 other kids picking on him. No, that can't happen. 1485.8321 1030 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1485.8321 (pause 1.21) 1487.0378 1031 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1487.0378 So they gonna bully, I'll be the biggest bully, cause that's not allowed. 1490.0036 1032 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1490.0036 (pause 2.33) 1492.3359 1033 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1492.3359 What? 1492.8736 1034 VLD_int_01 1493.2812 I'm just listening. 1494.0568 1035 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1494.7525 Oh I'm not used to that. You're supposed to be 1496.2629 1036 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1496.2629 (pause 0.12) 1496.3863 1037 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1496.3863 jumping in and saying stuff. (laughing) 1498.0868 1038 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1498.0868 (pause 0.63) 1498.7208 1039 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1498.7208 J- raising your hand. W- 1499.8586 1040 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1499.8586 (pause 0.19) 1500.0511 1041 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1500.0511 Can I go to the bathroom. (laughing) [] 1501.5451 1042 VLD_int_01 1501.5507 Oh, [sorry.] 1502.3829 1043 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1502.0149 [This is] not important to me. (laughing) 1503.7641 1044 VLD_int_01 1504.1943 But it is. [It's very- it's very important] to me. 1506.8544 1045 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1504.6982 [Oh, well it's important to me.] 1506.2096 1046 VLD_int_01 1507.2960 But I think, also, because I love the classroom too. And I think- 1510.3302 1047 VLD_int_01 1510.3302 (pause 0.33) 1510.6642 1048 VLD_int_01 1510.6642 And I told you this before, I think my 1512.5379 1049 VLD_int_01 1512.5379 (pause 0.30) 1512.8375 1050 VLD_int_01 1512.8375 joy of learning 1513.9300 1051 VLD_int_01 1513.9300 (pause 0.52) 1514.4508 1052 VLD_int_01 1514.4508 came from you. 1515.2234 1053 VLD_int_01 1515.2234 (pause 0.15) 1515.3735 1054 VLD_int_01 1515.3735 Like you were the- 1516.1717 1055 VLD_int_01 1516.1717 (pause 0.24) 1516.4095 1056 VLD_int_01 1516.4095 Who did I see in my life that was a teacher? 1518.2832 1057 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1519.4658 I was not a teacher. 1520.8301 1058 VLD_int_01 1520.9603 But you were- w- 1521.5239 1059 VLD_int_01 1521.5239 (pause 0.14) 1521.6607 1060 VLD_int_01 1521.6607 but- 1522.0110 1061 VLD_int_01 1522.0110 (pause 0.18) 1522.1912 1062 VLD_int_01 1522.1912 what did you just [say? You've always, always] been an educator, isn't that what you just said? 1525.8168 1063 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1522.6868 [I was an educator.] 1524.2040 1064 VLD_int_01 1526.3149 You've [always been an educator. And who did I-] who did I see- 1529.3435 1065 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1526.5131 [Oh lord, /I'm'a gonna die/] (whispered) 1528.5623 1066 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1529.7341 All these wonderful educators that were in your life, when you were in the /RD-SCHOOL-3/ city school system. 1534.0930 1067 VLD_int_01 1535.3007 But [before I was in the-] before I was [in the school system.] 1537.7114 1068 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1535.4639 [And- and before-] 1536.3638 1069 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1536.3638 (pause 0.41) 1536.7695 1070 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1536.7695 [before-] 1537.2078 1071 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1537.2078 (pause 0.28) 1537.4922 1072 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1537.4922 [before] you were in the school system. You're mom. 1539.7444 1073 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1539.8925 I have to tell you, 1540.7505 1074 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1540.7505 (pause 0.48) 1541.2354 1075 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1541.2354 the biggest educator and supporter you have, believe it or not 1544.3595 1076 VLD_int_01 1545.1511 [Right. But- but it was a different- it] was a different kind of way. 1547.9721 1077 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1545.3842 [I'll have to tell you, don't you-] 1546.8903 1078 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1548.0937 No, even with you being tested for gifted, 1550.3404 1079 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1550.3404 (pause 0.42) 1550.7652 1080 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1550.7652 and how they tried to, oh, we can't do this. Oh, it costs this, whatever, 1554.5317 1081 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1554.5317 (pause 0.41) 1554.9374 1082 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1554.9374 and your mom kept on pushing, pushing and calling til they had you tested 1558.0988 1083 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1558.0988 (pause 0.47) 1558.5686 1084 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1558.5686 at the college. 1559.4592 1085 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1559.4592 (pause 1.06) 1560.5174 1086 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1560.5174 You don't even know that, do you? 1561.6974 1087 VLD_int_01 1562.1497 I remember the day at s- 1563.3235 1088 VLD_int_01 1563.3235 (pause 0.08) 1563.4036 1089 VLD_int_01 1563.4036 um, at /RD-SCHOOL-4/, 1565.1686 1090 VLD_int_01 1565.1686 (pause 0.36) 1565.5290 1091 VLD_int_01 1565.5290 and I was sick. And that was the only day 1567.9026 1092 VLD_int_01 1567.9026 (pause 0.49) 1568.3922 1093 VLD_int_01 1568.3922 that they could do the [test.] 1570.1827 1094 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1569.6978 [Mm-hm.] 1570.2247 1095 VLD_int_01 1570.4754 And I remember I was sick. And that was the only day 1574.0611 1096 VLD_int_01 1574.0611 (pause 0.67) 1574.7326 1097 VLD_int_01 1574.7326 and I'm like, we can't reschedule [this?] 1576.6386 1098 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1576.2515 [And doesn't that] bother you? Like, 1577.8369 1099 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1578.7369 why did they give you such a- 1579.9259 1100 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1579.9259 (pause 0.21) 1580.1357 1101 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1580.1357 I mean there are so many kids that would have that /hurry/. 1582.5919 1102 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1582.5919 (pause 0.73) 1583.3193 1103 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1583.3193 Honors, 1583.9908 1104 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1583.9908 (pause 0.79) 1584.7788 1105 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1584.7788 and it came from when they were in elementary school, or whatever but they still have that tag. 1588.2853 1106 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1588.2853 (pause 0.12) 1588.4054 1107 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1588.4054 You know, when they're in high school. 1589.5478 1108 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1589.5478 (pause 0.62) 1590.1680 1109 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1590.1680 Well why do you think they gave you such a hard time? 1592.5740 1110 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1592.5740 (pause 1.88) 1594.4520 1111 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1594.4520 Do you ever think about that? 1595.4219 1112 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1595.4219 (pause 0.49) 1595.9115 1113 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1595.9115 Like that [still bothers me.] 1597.1892 1114 VLD_int_01 1596.3312 [I don't think I-] I don't have to think about it. I feel like I know why they gave me a hard time. 1600.5313 1115 VLD_int_01 1601.1794 I mean, in my class 1602.9245 1116 VLD_int_01 1602.9245 (pause 0.21) 1603.1314 1117 VLD_int_01 1603.1314 of what? There were like ten of us? 1605.0170 1118 VLD_int_01 1605.0170 (pause 0.55) 1605.5661 1119 VLD_int_01 1605.5661 In my class there were two black students. I don't- I don't- 1607.9488 1120 VLD_int_01 1607.9488 (pause 0.33) 1608.2799 1121 VLD_int_01 1608.2799 We're still in the very deep south. We're still in the time when 1610.9284 1122 VLD_int_01 1610.9284 (pause 0.26) 1611.1849 1123 VLD_int_01 1611.1849 racism is very much alive. I don't feel like I need to think about- even- 1614.4617 1124 VLD_int_01 1614.4617 (pause 0.38) 1614.8441 1125 VLD_int_01 1614.8441 even when I was very young, I don't- I don't know if I could necessarily articulate it in that way. 1618.7365 1126 VLD_int_01 1618.7365 (pause 0.71) 1619.4499 1127 VLD_int_01 1619.4499 But I knew something was 1620.6840 1128 VLD_int_01 1620.6840 (pause 0.15) 1620.8374 1129 VLD_int_01 1620.8374 different. 1621.5482 1130 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1621.9632 At the same time, those teachers from the high school, And at three- that I- well two right now I could name Ms. /RD-NAME-2/ 1627.5715 1131 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1627.5715 (pause 0.47) 1628.0425 1132 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1628.0425 and Mr. /RD-NAME-1/ 1628.9136 1133 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1628.9136 (pause 0.14) 1629.0504 1134 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1629.0504 think very highly of you. And they both are caucasian. 1631.8136 1135 VLD_int_01 1633.0539 Right. 1633.3430 1136 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1634.0098 And I don't even know how they knew- Well I knew Ms. /RD-NAME-2/ knew you, 1636.7318 1137 VLD_int_01 1636.7365 I didn't- Mr.- I had him for one [class.] 1639.0399 1138 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1638.8721 [But] immediately when you had your stroke, 1640.9191 1139 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1641.2502 Ms.- Ms. /RD-NAME-2/ talk- Oh, oh Minnie that, huh. 1643.8649 1140 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1643.8649 (pause 0.41) 1644.2752 1141 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1644.2752 That was twent- 1644.8637 1142 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1644.8637 (pause 0.15) 1645.0172 1143 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1645.0172 that was two thousand years ago. 1646.9144 1144 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1646.9144 (pause 0.44) 1647.3563 1145 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1647.3563 Okay, sorry. (laughing) 1649.2634 1146 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1649.2634 (pause 0.69) 1649.9488 1147 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1649.9488 How did- how did you know her? Wait- you- what? 1652.6253 1148 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1652.6253 (pause 0.25) 1652.8725 1149 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1652.8725 Okay, [well that's why.] 1653.5999 1150 VLD_int_01 1652.9890 [But I had her for-] 1654.1268 1151 VLD_int_01 1654.5220 Because she [was a year- I had her for two years. Yep.] 1657.2358 1152 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1655.1142 [I know, two years cause-] yeah I know, yeah. 1658.4342 1153 VLD_int_01 1658.8818 [But we also had like breakfast] and we- our class was real special. 1661.9504 1154 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1659.0310 [I'm just saying-] 1659.9309 1155 VLD_int_01 1663.2222 [But we also-] 1663.8144 1156 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1663.2269 [And she's still] there. 1664.6444 1157 VLD_int_01 1665.0687 She retired and came back. 1666.5842 1158 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1666.6774 Right. 1667.2043 1159 VLD_int_01 1667.6799 That's how you do it. 1668.5193 1160 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1668.5741 And she's teacher of the- Not teacher of the month, teacher of the year. She's star teacher, again. 1673.1437 1161 VLD_int_01 1673.4981 Oh, who? 1674.2581 1162 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1674.7488 /RD-NAME-3/ 1675.6325 1163 VLD_int_01 1675.8284 Mm. 1676.1781 1164 VLD_int_01 1676.1781 (pause 1.20) 1677.3811 1165 VLD_int_01 1677.3811 Wow. 1677.6935 1166 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1678.5981 But in a way [we digress. But was kind of still on topic.] 1681.1056 1167 VLD_int_01 1679.2416 [Oh we did. Okay, so back to-] back to high school- back to high- okay. 1682.5931 1168 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1682.6071 [Oh], 1682.8542 1169 VLD_int_01 1682.7796 [So], 1683.0920 1170 VLD_int_01 1683.2273 okay, so when you got to high school, did you play sports? 1685.5400 1171 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1685.6286 Absolutely. 1686.4120 1172 VLD_int_01 1686.5507 Did you maintain- Was it track and basketball [as well?] 1688.5931 1173 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1688.4485 [Absolutely.] 1689.2133 1174 VLD_int_01 1689.2366 Were you good? 1689.8521 1175 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1690.3697 I was okay. 1691.2707 1176 VLD_int_01 1692.4307 How okay were you? 1693.1243 1177 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1693.1233 Our team was not okay. [] 1695.6049 1178 VLD_int_01 1694.7423 [] 1696.0106 1179 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1696.0246 So, it- so I was about to say, no, we were not okay cause- 1698.7617 1180 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1698.7617 (pause 0.53) 1699.2875 1181 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1699.2875 And it was during that time, like 1700.8635 1182 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1700.8635 (pause 1.20) 1702.0619 1183 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1702.0619 it's not like it is today where it's very competitive. 1704.3887 1184 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1704.3887 (pause 1.22) 1705.6092 1185 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1705.6092 The people who coached 1707.0967 1186 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1707.0967 (pause 0.37) 1707.4697 1187 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1707.4697 girls' basketball, 1708.6821 1188 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1708.6821 (pause 0.61) 1709.2883 1189 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1709.2883 didn't really want- they didn't wanna coach girl- they didn't wanna coach girls basketball. It was just the principal said, 1713.5117 1190 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1713.5117 (pause 0.42) 1713.9360 1191 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1713.9360 you do it. 1714.5935 1192 VLD_int_01 1715.0598 Mm. 1715.2323 1193 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1715.2276 Cause coach /RD-NAME-2/, he was just like, he would sit on the bench. He wasn't tel- I don't know one play coach /RD-NAME-1/ has taught us yet. 1721.3162 1194 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1722.0065 But anyway, the coach that was before him, 1723.6758 1195 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1723.6758 (pause 0.73) 1724.4079 1196 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1724.4079 awesome. But she left my ninth grade year, but it's because of her, that I got the scholarship in Florida. 1728.8831 1197 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1728.8831 (pause 0.32) 1729.2049 1198 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1729.2049 For my ninth grade year. Can you believe that? 1731.4058 1199 VLD_int_01 1731.9327 Wow. 1732.3150 1200 VLD_int_01 1732.3150 (pause 0.64) 1732.9527 1201 VLD_int_01 1732.9527 So you're- okay, so, before we- we gonna come back to that, but before you- your- you- before your- 1737.5084 1202 VLD_int_01 1737.5084 (pause 0.60) 1738.1099 1203 VLD_int_01 1738.1099 you went to college on a basketball scholarship. 1741.0790 1204 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1741.3494 That is correct. 1742.0116 1205 VLD_int_01 1742.3426 Okay, so we'll come back to that in a second. 1743.7928 1206 VLD_int_01 1743.7928 (pause 0.29) 1744.0819 1207 VLD_int_01 1744.0819 Okay, how were you in track? 1745.3537 1208 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1746.3609 Oh I was- oh great. Cause it- my senior year, 1748.9488 1209 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1748.9488 (pause 0.28) 1749.2332 1210 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1749.2332 I mean, coach /RD-NAME-4/ would say, 1751.1019 1211 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1751.1019 (pause 0.44) 1751.5449 1212 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1751.5449 okay we can put 1752.4308 1213 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1752.4308 (pause 0.52) 1752.9484 1214 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1752.9484 twenty points right here, cause she knows I'm gonna get first place in two events. 1756.6927 1215 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1756.6927 (pause 0.72) 1757.4097 1216 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1757.4097 She knew that. 1758.1184 1217 VLD_int_01 1758.4961 Do you still hold the school record? 1759.7271 1218 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1760.0349 I do, did you know that? 1761.2939 1219 VLD_int_01 1761.2939 I [do.] 1761.6740 1220 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1761.6203 [That] just bother- I mean just like, wow okay [s-] 1763.7221 1221 VLD_int_01 1763.6242 [Every] time I go to the gym I always look at the thing and see if your name is still there. 1766.8916 1222 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1767.0094 Where do you look? 1767.7228 1223 VLD_int_01 1767.9700 It's on the- 1768.3663 1224 VLD_int_01 1768.3663 (pause 0.40) 1768.7708 1225 VLD_int_01 1768.7708 I don't know if it's still up [there, but it's on the board. Up on the thing. Mm-hm.] 1771.9603 1226 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1769.7292 [Used to be on the back s- yeah. Mm-hm.] 1771.9416 1227 VLD_int_01 1773.0048 I was like, I know her. 1773.9373 1228 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1774.2544 Uh. 1774.7347 1229 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1774.7347 (pause 0.24) 1774.9714 1230 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1774.9714 Well when I go through 1775.8093 1231 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1775.8093 (pause 0.17) 1775.9761 1232 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1775.9761 the front of the school and I see that picture of you, And you're with the president of Georgia. 1779.6995 1233 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1779.6995 (pause 0.08) 1779.7835 1234 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1779.7835 [] 1780.1425 1235 VLD_int_01 1779.7881 [] 1780.1332 1236 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1780.4817 Was it a president? 1781.4097 1237 VLD_int_01 1781.6568 I think [governor.] 1782.2397 1238 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1782.1557 [Governor], oh governor. 1783.2375 1239 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1784.0980 Youth governor. 1784.8627 1240 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1784.8627 (pause 0.24) 1785.1073 1241 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1785.1073 Yeah. yes. 1786.0866 1242 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1786.0866 (pause 0.32) 1786.4025 1243 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1786.4025 I'm like, I know her. (laughing) 1787.6055 1244 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1787.6055 (pause 0.49) 1788.0998 1245 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1788.0998 I'm related. 1788.6407 1246 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1788.6407 (pause 0.41) 1789.0510 1247 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1789.0510 [] 1791.8250 1248 VLD_int_01 1789.0510 [] 1792.1099 1249 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1792.7056 [ ] 1794.4402 1250 VLD_int_01 1793.0226 [Okay. So, okay.] 1794.4355 1251 VLD_int_01 1794.8132 Um, so high school was pretty good. 1796.5012 1252 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1797.1167 I didn't have- other than just being odd, I didn't really have any 1800.1511 1253 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1800.1511 (pause 0.21) 1800.3562 1254 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1800.3562 problems. I mean I didn't go to anything u- 1802.3380 1255 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1802.3380 (pause 0.28) 1802.6177 1256 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1802.6177 You know, I'm saying odd, like 1803.9187 1257 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1803.9187 (pause 2.15) 1806.0718 1258 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1806.0718 I just stayed to myself, 1807.2450 1259 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1807.2450 (pause 0.13) 1807.3785 1260 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1807.3785 except for sports. 1808.4499 1261 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1808.4499 (pause 0.73) 1809.1819 1262 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1809.1819 I didn't 1809.5363 1263 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1809.5363 (pause 0.67) 1810.2066 1264 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1810.2066 you know, 1810.9387 1265 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1810.9387 (pause 0.49) 1811.4330 1266 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1811.4330 I come- go to school, come home. 1813.4147 1267 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1813.4147 (pause 0.48) 1813.8996 1268 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1813.8996 That's about it. 1814.6224 1269 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1814.6224 (pause 0.68) 1815.2985 1270 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1815.2985 I didn't do any dances 1816.8699 1271 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1816.8699 (pause 0.61) 1817.4749 1272 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1817.4749 anything like that. that's why I get so excited now to do the prom. 1820.0908 1273 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1820.0908 (pause 0.42) 1820.5105 1274 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1820.5105 Which my picture is over there on your mom's shelf. 1822.5517 1275 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1822.5517 (pause 0.33) 1822.8828 1276 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1822.8828 I went to the prom that's my first year, yes. 1825.3821 1277 VLD_int_01 1826.6970 I [didn't know you] didn't go to prom. 1827.9187 1278 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1826.8276 [What?] 1827.2286 1279 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1828.9340 No, cause I didn't- I wasn't gonna say- ask anything, or say anything about prom, prom dresses. We didn't- 1834.0772 1280 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1834.0772 (pause 1.01) 1835.0879 1281 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1835.0879 Nobody had to say that we didn't have money for you to know you don't have money. 1838.6923 1282 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1838.6923 (pause 2.24) 1840.9294 1283 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1840.9294 So why would I ask for stuff like that? 1842.7572 1284 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1842.7572 (pause 1.02) 1843.7737 1285 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1843.7737 So, no. I don't wanna go. I'm good. I'm fine. 1846.0819 1286 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1846.0819 (pause 0.43) 1846.5097 1287 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1846.5097 And who would I go with? 1847.8247 1288 VLD_int_01 1848.7153 Go by yourself. 1849.9323 1289 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1851.4850 Next subject. 1852.2404 1290 VLD_int_01 1853.8340 Okay so you got the scholarship to go to [college.] 1856.5804 1291 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1856.1841 [Oh, no] it was kind of odd cause I just happened to be in a Valdosta mall. I'm not even sure why I was in a mall, cause I am not a shopper. 1862.2214 1292 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1862.8649 And I saw coach. 1864.1565 1293 VLD_int_01 1864.7605 Mm. 1865.0786 1294 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1865.5309 /RD-NAME-3/, I can't even think of her last name now. Just slipped my mind, sorry. 1868.7110 1295 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1868.7110 (pause 0.67) 1869.3824 1296 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1869.3824 And I was like, oh hey coach. And she was like, hey /RD-NAME-3/, blah, blah, blah, blah. And it was just like a few minutes and she told me the lady's name. 1875.5643 1297 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1875.5643 (pause 0.48) 1876.0446 1298 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1876.0446 And told me she would be contacting me. I was like well, okay and I didn't really think anything of it. 1879.4473 1299 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1879.4473 (pause 0.53) 1879.9789 1300 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1879.9789 And they sent it to /the/ me in the mail, at school. And it was the whole little, 1883.8247 1301 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1883.8247 (pause 0.50) 1884.3236 1302 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1884.3236 you know, full scholarship. 1885.8623 1303 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1885.8623 (pause 0.57) 1886.4359 1304 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1886.4359 Blah, blah, blah, sign here, sign there. And most people w- you have a- 1889.6428 1305 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1889.6428 (pause 0.71) 1890.3562 1306 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1890.3562 you know how you sign- when they have a signing day and all that? 1892.7520 1307 VLD_int_01 1892.7530 [Mm-hm.] 1893.2426 1308 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1892.9489 [I-] I just signed mine on the bus. We were going to some- 1895.4749 1309 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1896.9624 I don't know if it was a basketball game, or a track meet. I can't remember now. 1900.1378 1310 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1900.1378 (pause 0.42) 1900.5563 1311 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1900.5563 I just signed it 1901.3545 1312 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1901.3545 (pause 1.64) 1902.9950 1313 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1902.9950 and put it back in the- Cause I didn't really think anything of it. 1905.3498 1314 VLD_int_01 1907.2604 Were you- were you the first one to go to college 1909.3774 1315 VLD_int_01 1909.3774 (pause 0.35) 1909.7271 1316 VLD_int_01 1909.7271 in your family? 1910.6037 1317 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1911.6156 What do you mean, my family? 1912.7440 1318 VLD_int_01 1913.7034 Like, 1914.4215 1319 VLD_int_01 1914.4215 (pause 0.88) 1915.2981 1320 VLD_int_01 1915.2981 your immediate family, like in your household at that time. 1917.3778 1321 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1918.2812 Oh, uh, yeah. 1919.0646 1322 VLD_int_01 1920.4495 And it wasn't a big deal? 1921.4986 1323 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1922.0255 It was not a big deal. It was just another thing, just like, 1924.2124 1324 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1924.2124 (pause 0.37) 1924.5797 1325 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1924.5797 when you left elementary school to go to middle school, it's like, oh no, I wanna stay back. I don't wanna go to middle school, or junior high school. 1930.0725 1326 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1930.0725 (pause 0.48) 1930.5563 1327 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1930.5563 And once it's time to leave junior high school and go to high school, oh no, let me stay back. I can't go to high school. 1934.6364 1328 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1934.6364 (pause 0.39) 1935.0281 1329 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1935.0281 You know so many people or whatever. And you get there and you do just fine. 1937.7967 1330 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1937.7967 (pause 0.34) 1938.1392 1331 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1938.1392 Then you go onto the next thing. The thing I have not been able to accomplish, 1941.1586 1332 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1941.1586 (pause 0.37) 1941.5316 1333 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1941.5316 is that master's degree. 1942.9432 1334 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1942.9432 (pause 0.65) 1943.5962 1335 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1943.5962 1943.7734 1336 VLD_int_01 1944.8365 Why not? 1945.2328 1337 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1946.4778 That is a great question. 1947.7788 1338 VLD_int_01 1948.1973 Hm. So glad I asked it. 1949.5169 1339 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1949.8619 I just don't have all the answers right now. 1952.4265 1340 VLD_int_01 1952.4825 Hm. 1952.6737 1341 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1953.3218 If at- for a time, 1955.1392 1342 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1955.1392 (pause 0.46) 1955.5962 1343 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1955.5962 money. Cause I- And I just realized, 1957.5826 1344 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1957.5826 (pause 0.55) 1958.1281 1345 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1958.1281 I spent a lot of time on 1960.0725 1346 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1960.0725 (pause 1.40) 1961.4728 1347 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1961.4728 my lessons that I teach, preparing my lessons. Thinking about how my kids are going to get it. 1965.5829 1348 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1965.5829 (pause 0.43) 1966.0166 1349 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1966.0166 Like one day we even had a fire drill. And just for them following the directions and doing what we're supposed to do. 1970.0187 1350 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1970.0187 (pause 0.36) 1970.3752 1351 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1970.3752 And I was like, And you get a car, and you get a car. I was opening up the AC. 1973.4050 1352 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1973.4050 (pause 0.41) 1973.8107 1353 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1973.8107 And you get a car, it's like, oh is she gonna get us a car? 1975.7924 1354 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1975.7924 (pause 0.40) 1976.1934 1355 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1976.1934 And so I'm not very, uh, 1978.0213 1356 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1978.0213 (pause 0.45) 1978.4677 1357 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1978.4677 artistic, I guess. 1979.8190 1358 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1979.8190 (pause 0.43) 1980.2490 1359 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1980.2490 But when my mind gets to working, well I can do some things. So I'll put together little chocolate cars for them. 1984.4129 1360 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1984.4129 (pause 0.48) 1984.8921 1361 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1984.8921 And so they had- we had the little raffles and they got the little 1987.4893 1362 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1987.4893 (pause 0.42) 1987.9090 1363 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1987.9090 chocolate car. Which was a big deal. It was fun for me. 1990.3523 1364 VLD_int_01 1993.0883 And, 1993.6428 1365 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1993.7597 1995.4197 1366 VLD_int_01 1995.5037 But I remember we were working on a [project. I remember] this project we were working on- well you were working on a project, but- 2000.1095 1367 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 1996.6981 [Oh god] (whispered) 1997.6073 1368 VLD_int_01 2000.4452 but I was- You let me read it or something. 2002.1425 1369 VLD_int_01 2002.1425 (pause 0.48) 2002.6263 1370 VLD_int_01 2002.6263 And you had to do your- like your- 2004.0578 1371 VLD_int_01 2004.0578 (pause 0.30) 2004.3562 1372 VLD_int_01 2004.3562 your teaching statement. And your, like 2006.6749 1373 VLD_int_01 2006.6749 (pause 0.14) 2006.8183 1374 VLD_int_01 2006.8183 your 2007.1020 1375 VLD_int_01 2007.1020 (pause 0.19) 2007.2955 1376 VLD_int_01 2007.2955 your pedagogical statement, or something. 2008.9871 1377 VLD_int_01 2008.9871 (pause 0.17) 2009.1615 1378 VLD_int_01 2009.1615 Do you remember this? 2009.9086 1379 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2009.9459 Mm-mm. 2010.8038 1380 VLD_int_01 2010.8272 Anyway, I remember you talking about always being, 2012.7203 1381 VLD_int_01 2012.7203 (pause 0.28) 2013.0047 1382 VLD_int_01 2013.0047 the same thing you just said a few minutes ago about being an educator, 2015.7873 1383 VLD_int_01 2015.7873 (pause 0.45) 2016.2350 1384 VLD_int_01 2016.2350 um, and that it's not- 2017.4380 1385 VLD_int_01 2017.4380 (pause 0.28) 2017.7131 1386 VLD_int_01 2017.7131 and that- 2018.1001 1387 VLD_int_01 2018.1001 (pause 0.18) 2018.2820 1388 VLD_int_01 2018.2820 not about- 2018.7856 1389 VLD_int_01 2018.7856 (pause 0.20) 2018.9861 1390 VLD_int_01 2018.9861 about more than about teaching, but being an educator. And making sure that a young- touching a young person's life. 2023.5686 1391 VLD_int_01 2023.5686 (pause 0.89) 2024.4545 1392 VLD_int_01 2024.4545 And this [/stuff-/] 2025.0047 1393 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2024.8462 [I] said those [words?] 2026.0446 1394 VLD_int_01 2025.9886 [Mm-hm] 2026.2264 1395 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2026.3325 I don't think so. 2027.1578 1396 VLD_int_01 2027.7780 I wish I could, 2028.3562 1397 VLD_int_01 2028.3562 (pause 0.33) 2028.6873 1398 VLD_int_01 2028.6873 /use/ it . [You typed] it up and gave it to me. It wasn't- 2031.1959 1399 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2029.1909 [Because-] 2029.7877 1400 VLD_int_01 2031.7321 This is like really before email was like a [big thing. So, I couldn't say I'll look up on my email and- and send] it back to you. 2038.0585 1401 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2033.7407 [] 2037.0887 1402 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2038.1460 [Oh.] 2038.9760 1403 VLD_int_01 2038.7149 [But] like I was here. 2040.1837 1404 VLD_int_01 2040.4308 And I remember- the reason I rem- the reason this m- stands out to me is because 2043.6809 1405 VLD_int_01 2043.6809 (pause 0.29) 2043.9688 1406 VLD_int_01 2043.9688 in two thousand 2045.1392 1407 VLD_int_01 2045.1392 (pause 1.01) 2046.1510 1408 VLD_int_01 2046.1510 six, 2046.8505 1409 VLD_int_01 2046.8505 (pause 0.40) 2047.2515 1410 VLD_int_01 2047.2515 I had to take a class. I did, foundations of education. 2050.4316 1411 VLD_int_01 2050.4316 (pause 0.52) 2050.9527 1412 VLD_int_01 2050.9527 And we had to write our teaching philosophy. 2053.4660 1413 VLD_int_01 2053.4660 (pause 0.27) 2053.7364 1414 VLD_int_01 2053.7364 And so I remember, my- my- my portfolio was themed around Dr. Seuss, but my teaching philosophy was about 2058.7199 1415 VLD_int_01 2058.7199 (pause 0.22) 2058.9437 1416 VLD_int_01 2058.9437 the gift of education. 2060.0675 1417 VLD_int_01 2060.0675 (pause 0.47) 2060.5384 1418 VLD_int_01 2060.5384 And I remember talking about you, 2062.4596 1419 VLD_int_01 2062.4596 (pause 0.41) 2062.8734 1420 VLD_int_01 2062.8734 giving me that gift. 2064.0345 1421 VLD_int_01 2064.0345 (pause 0.40) 2064.4355 1422 VLD_int_01 2064.4355 And exposing me to like, the 2066.1561 1423 VLD_int_01 2066.1561 (pause 0.15) 2066.3100 1424 VLD_int_01 2066.3100 power of [education.] 2067.3824 1425 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2066.7343 [Going to the plays.] Okay /RD-NAME-2/ let's go to the play. [/You supposed to say/] when? 2070.2769 1426 VLD_int_01 2069.4563 [Yes.] 2069.9738 1427 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2070.6205 They have /RD-NAME-3/ come on /RD-NAME-3/, we're going to the play. 2072.6948 1428 VLD_int_01 2072.7716 Exactly. 2073.3265 1429 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2073.5783 [] 2074.9432 1430 VLD_int_01 2073.5829 [But- but it's those moments] right? When you're teaching. [And when you're-] 2077.3401 1431 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2076.8225 [I'm not] teaching. That's just living life, come on, let's go. 2080.0725 1432 VLD_int_01 2080.1786 Right, but when other kids are just going to the park, or 2082.9437 1433 VLD_int_01 2082.9437 (pause 0.36) 2083.3028 1434 VLD_int_01 2083.3028 going to get ice cream. Those are moments, 2085.1234 1435 VLD_int_01 2085.1234 (pause 0.10) 2085.2230 1436 VLD_int_01 2085.2230 like /RD-NAME-3/ was like 2086.3756 1437 VLD_int_01 2086.3756 (pause 0.32) 2086.6915 1438 VLD_int_01 2086.6915 we went- we saw it on the big screen, no. The big- n- the big TV. [The big, big TV, right? So she didn't have] the word for movie. 2092.8186 1439 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2089.8670 [] 2092.1518 1440 VLD_int_01 2093.1252 But she remembers about the cars and they were eating. And 2095.7691 1441 VLD_int_01 2095.7691 (pause 0.25) 2096.0209 1442 VLD_int_01 2096.0209 like so, that moment meant something, 2097.9189 1443 VLD_int_01 2097.9189 (pause 0.22) 2098.1391 1444 VLD_int_01 2098.1391 you know. 2098.6041 1445 VLD_int_01 2098.6041 (pause 0.31) 2098.9107 1446 VLD_int_01 2098.9107 And so those are the moments that you think about. You go back, and I remember going to see Cat on a Hot Tin Roof and- 2104.1833 1447 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2104.2765 You did not see that [with me. I promise you I did not see-] 2107.0541 1448 VLD_int_01 2105.3678 [I did because see it because we talked about Maggie.] 2107.4100 1449 VLD_int_01 2108.0928 We talked- I know we did. 2109.2725 1450 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2109.3425 I don't think so. 2110.3636 1451 VLD_int_01 2110.5641 I know we did. 2111.2610 1452 VLD_int_01 2111.2610 (pause 0.62) 2111.8791 1453 VLD_int_01 2111.8791 Um, 2112.3734 1454 VLD_int_01 2112.3734 (pause 0.62) 2112.9982 1455 VLD_int_01 2112.9982 but other- like those moments, those experiences. 2115.5197 1456 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2116.0559 And then we did it again at [/RD-SCHOOL-4/.] 2118.1942 1457 VLD_int_01 2117.3242 [/RD-SCHOOL-4/] we [went to Steel Magnolias] and we ate at Steel Magnolias. 2121.1933 1458 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2118.5132 [/for, ever/] 2119.2826 1459 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2121.5383 2121.7808 1460 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2121.7808 (pause 0.51) 2122.2890 1461 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2122.2890 [] 2123.0771 1462 VLD_int_01 2122.9418 [And so], those are moments that you know, you realize that it's something that you- 2126.5509 1463 VLD_int_01 2126.7143 you, do. It's not simply- it's not simply, oh I'm a teacher. It's not wh- it's not simply just, 2131.3106 1464 VLD_int_01 2131.3106 (pause 0.26) 2131.5699 1465 VLD_int_01 2131.5699 This is my profession though, this is my way of [living this is-] 2134.4337 1466 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2133.8789 [It is.] And it's not just, oh summer vacation. Woo I'm off. Nah, it's not like that. 2138.9958 1467 VLD_int_01 2139.8959 Cause even now you're still thinking about, well what can I do next year to make it better. 2143.0051 1468 VLD_int_01 2143.0051 (pause 0.14) 2143.1485 1469 VLD_int_01 2143.1485 I know you are. [I know you are.] Cause I know- I know- 2146.1619 1470 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2144.0051 [] 2144.9335 1471 VLD_int_01 2146.9318 I know what you're- 2147.8489 1472 VLD_int_01 2147.8489 (pause 0.63) 2148.4829 1473 VLD_int_01 2148.4829 How you're wired. So it's always about, how can I- 2150.6844 1474 VLD_int_01 2150.6844 (pause 0.24) 2150.9279 1475 VLD_int_01 2150.9279 Even the night you were talking to me about, how can I teach them about, 2153.2658 1476 VLD_int_01 2153.2658 (pause 1.07) 2154.3357 1477 VLD_int_01 2154.3357 um, was it grammar [and-] 2155.7962 1478 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2155.5126 [The Standard] American English. 2157.0128 1479 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2157.1543 And- but then I got into, oh, this is how they say it in the South. And this is how they say it in the North and the Midwest and the- 2162.6648 1480 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2162.6648 (pause 0.49) 2163.1543 1481 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2163.1543 And it just went- 2164.0431 1482 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2164.0431 (pause 0.46) 2164.5072 1483 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2164.5072 It was too much. 2165.2998 1484 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2165.2998 (pause 0.50) 2165.8036 1485 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2165.8036 It was 2166.1432 1486 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2166.1432 (pause 0.74) 2166.8791 1487 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2166.8791 units. 2167.4355 1488 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2167.4355 (pause 0.13) 2167.5689 1489 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2167.5689 It wasn't instead of just a lesson. When I just wanted to- 2169.7147 1490 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2169.7147 (pause 0.66) 2170.3714 1491 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2170.3714 Cause language is so 2171.6224 1492 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2171.6224 (pause 2.75) 2174.3764 1493 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2174.3764 I don't know the word. Evocative and yet, evasive. 2176.6205 1494 VLD_int_01 2177.0677 Hm. 2177.5998 1495 VLD_int_01 2177.5998 (pause 0.46) 2178.0583 1496 VLD_int_01 2178.0583 Ooh. 2178.3470 1497 VLD_int_01 2178.3470 (pause 0.41) 2178.7546 1498 VLD_int_01 2178.7546 Yes. 2179.2924 1499 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2179.3360 Or maybe provocative. You know? 2181.1090 1500 VLD_int_01 2181.6128 Mm-hm. 2182.1449 1501 VLD_int_01 2182.1449 (pause 0.80) 2182.9431 1502 VLD_int_01 2182.9431 That's deep. 2183.4696 1503 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2184.2564 It is. 2185.0716 1504 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2185.0716 (pause 0.59) 2185.6655 1505 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2185.6655 And it's not just about- 2186.8599 1506 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2186.8599 (pause 1.03) 2187.8902 1507 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2187.8902 Okay, let me- 2188.5072 1508 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2188.5072 (pause 0.78) 2189.2828 1509 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2189.2828 I was, 2189.9677 1510 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2189.9677 (pause 0.29) 2190.2564 1511 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2190.2564 again, I think I told you, just dealing with my health. And I just came from a doctor or whatever. 2194.0827 1512 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2194.0827 (pause 0.63) 2194.7110 1513 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2194.7110 Thinking about, 2195.4413 1514 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2195.4413 (pause 1.29) 2196.7320 1515 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2196.7320 I guess I said, my career. 2198.3113 1516 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2198.3113 (pause 0.54) 2198.8543 1517 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2198.8543 Or just thinking about life. 2200.1336 1518 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2200.1336 (pause 0.32) 2200.4506 1519 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2200.4506 And I wanna say that life is not just these six blocks that we live. Like, you [asked me about] the neighborhood. 2205.0352 1520 VLD_int_01 2203.8472 [Mm.] 2204.4076 1521 VLD_int_01 2205.2111 [Ntozake Shange.] 2206.4190 1522 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2205.4034 [But then again], 2206.1733 1523 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2206.7167 huh? 2207.0394 1524 VLD_int_01 2207.3734 For Colored Girls. 2208.3923 1525 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2208.6301 [But then again] it is. 2210.0283 1526 VLD_int_01 2208.6584 [/unintelligible/.] 2209.6547 1527 VLD_int_01 2210.2038 Mm. 2210.6340 1528 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2211.1090 Cause here I am. 2212.0600 1529 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2212.0600 (pause 0.98) 2213.0450 1530 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2213.0450 Not just sitting here, but it all comes back right here. Even the memories. 2216.6000 1531 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2216.6000 (pause 0.38) 2216.9788 1532 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2216.9788 The people, the places. 2218.3091 1533 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2218.3091 (pause 0.39) 2218.7037 1534 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2218.7037 Ay- you asked me about the neighbors. And I mentioned Ms. Sister earlier. Ms. Sister used to call grandmom, grandmother. 2223.9164 1535 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2223.9164 (pause 0.67) 2224.5844 1536 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2224.5844 Grandmother, why? I'm elevated. 2226.1128 1537 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2226.1128 (pause 0.43) 2226.5430 1538 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2226.5430 2227.3695 1539 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2227.3695 (pause 0.42) 2227.7884 1540 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2227.7884 For us to come ove- For me, not my sister 2230.2108 1541 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2230.2108 (pause 0.54) 2230.7542 1542 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2230.7542 to come over to go to the grocery store for her. And she always wanted some sizzling bacon. 2234.7111 1543 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2234.7111 (pause 0.59) 2235.3050 1544 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2235.3050 When I got to the door, 2236.4995 1545 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2236.4995 (pause 0.59) 2237.0939 1546 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2237.0939 she was butt naked. 2238.8487 1547 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2238.8487 (pause 0.44) 2239.2859 1548 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2239.2859 /Hell/ am I supposed to do? 2240.4770 1549 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2240.4770 (pause 0.28) 2240.7559 1550 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2240.7559 What am I supposed to say? 2241.9164 1551 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2241.9164 (pause 2.04) 2243.9600 1552 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2243.9600 I just act like I didn't see it. Yes ma'am. You want some sizzling bacon? (laughing) 2247.4867 1553 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2247.4867 (pause 0.57) 2248.0523 1554 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2248.0523 Say I'll be right back. 2251.0921 1555 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2251.0921 (pause 0.38) 2251.4761 1556 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2251.4761 Or we would play in the dirt, oh gosh I was thinking of all the fun just right there in the dirt. 2255.6203 1557 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2255.6203 (pause 0.96) 2256.5770 1558 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2256.5770 Hopscotch and marbles and just, r- hitting a ball on top of the house, or something and she'd yell us, 2261.2127 1559 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2261.2127 (pause 0.39) 2261.6033 1560 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2261.6033 y'all hitting up my- in my garage- not garage. What is that? car- car space. 2266.1286 1561 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2266.1286 (pause 0.26) 2266.3856 1562 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2266.3856 She didn't [have a car, who] was gonna drive there? 2268.7751 1563 VLD_int_01 2266.9806 [Right, right.] 2267.8468 1564 VLD_int_01 2269.3865 [] 2269.8564 1565 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2269.7997 But she would just yell at us, but you- she loved us- cause I'd play christian music. Especially on Sunday. 2274.0392 1566 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2274.4525 And she'd come out on porch, I love that song. 2276.3602 1567 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2276.3602 (pause 0.23) 2276.5866 1568 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2276.5866 I said, I love it too. 2277.5546 1569 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2277.5546 (pause 1.15) 2278.7089 1570 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2278.7089 Mm-hm. 2279.4052 1571 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2279.4052 (pause 0.48) 2279.8864 1572 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2279.8864 Ms. /RD-NAME-2/ and her kids, her husband, 2281.7884 1573 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2281.7884 (pause 0.48) 2282.2696 1574 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2282.2696 when they moved across the street, 2283.5999 1575 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2283.5999 (pause 2.87) 2286.4694 1576 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2286.4694 Ms. /RD-NAME-2/, I already mentioned Ms. /RD-NAME-2/. 2288.5526 1577 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2288.5526 (pause 1.96) 2290.5108 1578 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2290.5108 Ms. /RD-NAME-2/ and her kids, talking about education, Ms. /RD-NAME-2/, she had summer school for us. 2295.6905 1579 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2295.6905 (pause 0.53) 2296.2164 1580 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2296.2164 She had books, 2297.1731 1581 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2297.1731 (pause 0.29) 2297.4675 1582 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2297.4675 were you- was she around then? 2298.7185 1583 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2298.7185 (pause 0.50) 2299.2167 1584 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2299.2167 We would go up there, she would have food she had the tables all set. Right over there with her big plant kind of tree thing is. Yes. 2305.6526 1585 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2305.6526 (pause 0.35) 2306.0035 1586 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2306.0035 That's one thing I loved about the neighborhood. I couldn't skate worth a thing. But I'd get out there, try to skate, we would race, 2311.3582 1587 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2311.3582 (pause 0.75) 2312.1111 1588 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2312.1111 oh my goodness. 2313.2376 1589 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2313.2376 (pause 0.36) 2313.5937 1590 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2313.5937 One day out there skating 2314.7926 1591 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2314.7926 (pause 0.20) 2314.9894 1592 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2314.9894 and who came? I wanna say it was /RD-NAME-2/. That's Dot's brother. 2317.8224 1593 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2317.8224 (pause 0.45) 2318.2696 1594 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2318.2696 Which you probably don't know him. He's from Tampa. 2319.9900 1595 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2319.9900 (pause 0.42) 2320.4146 1596 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2320.4146 He was in the military. His car was parked right there in the little, 2322.9506 1597 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2322.9506 (pause 2.12) 2325.0697 1598 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2325.0697 curve or driveway. 2326.3378 1599 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2326.3378 (pause 0.39) 2326.7284 1600 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2326.7284 And so I couldn't curve to go up in the driveway to kind of stop on the grass. So what I did, curve flop. 2332.3153 1601 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2332.3153 (pause 0.22) 2332.5388 1602 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2332.5388 Right on top of his car, okay. 2334.0015 1603 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2334.0015 (pause 0.50) 2334.5054 1604 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2334.5054 Boom, so that was a talk 2335.9319 1605 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2335.9319 (pause 0.44) 2336.3734 1606 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2336.3734 for a minute, but you can get all those stories from my sister. 2338.8241 1607 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2338.8241 (pause 0.46) 2339.2826 1608 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2339.2826 Those were the days. Yes, Sheila, who was about this high, still this high, she has a three kids. 2344.4675 1609 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2344.4675 (pause 0.64) 2345.1071 1610 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2345.1071 But just that- 2345.9035 1611 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2345.9035 (pause 0.13) 2346.0370 1612 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2346.0370 that, power in her legs, skating. 2348.3451 1613 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2348.3451 (pause 0.54) 2348.8829 1614 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2348.8829 Playing kickball in the street. All right y'all here come a car, get out the way. Okay, yes. 2353.2356 1615 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2353.2356 (pause 0.53) 2353.7677 1616 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2353.7677 That was wonderful. 2354.9565 1617 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2354.9565 (pause 0.27) 2355.2277 1618 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2355.2277 Kids today you gotta be worried, okay that got a gun, they carrying drugs dah dah dah dah. 2359.0488 1619 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2359.0488 (pause 0.63) 2359.6828 1620 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2359.6828 And it's hard to see them as, they're still kids, 2362.1810 1621 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2362.1810 (pause 0.44) 2362.6189 1622 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2362.6189 mm-hm-hm. 2363.2826 1623 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2363.2826 (pause 0.54) 2363.8261 1624 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2363.8261 I have to say some adults are still kids. 2365.9545 1625 VLD_int_01 2369.5543 Mm. 2369.8600 1626 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2372.8654 And they need somebody to tell them that it's okay that they need to talk. 2376.3242 1627 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2376.3242 (pause 3.15) 2379.4768 1628 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2379.4768 Not that the person that they're talking to can solve their problems, but to get it out. 2383.0262 1629 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2383.0262 (pause 0.52) 2383.5470 1630 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2383.5470 The only reason I'm saying that, 2384.8004 1631 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2384.8004 (pause 0.18) 2384.9773 1632 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2384.9773 I don't know why I'm saying that, but I'm'a say it to you, 2387.3109 1633 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2387.3109 (pause 0.51) 2387.8204 1634 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2387.8204 I was in intensive care for three days. 2389.9093 1635 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2389.9093 (pause 0.81) 2390.7182 1636 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2390.7182 You remember when I fell out, 2391.8915 1637 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2391.8915 (pause 0.22) 2392.1151 1638 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2392.1151 in Walmart out there? When I went in and got the van- I said how did I get in that van. Big old van from 2396.9961 1639 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2396.9961 (pause 0.32) 2397.3143 1640 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2397.3143 the airport out there. Getting a little 2398.9599 1641 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2398.9599 (pause 0.92) 2399.8827 1642 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2399.8827 buckets for the beach. For them to- I want to make sand- 2402.4074 1643 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2402.4074 (pause 0.20) 2402.6112 1644 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2402.6112 I have no kids, but I always have kids. 2405.2713 1645 VLD_int_01 2405.2298 [Mm-hm.] 2405.6392 1646 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2405.3845 [I] birthed no kids, but I always have children. 2408.1244 1647 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2408.6282 And so, getting a little game to take them to the beach. 2411.1864 1648 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2411.1864 (pause 1.32) 2412.5054 1649 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2412.5054 And all I remember is that my eyes, 2414.8141 1650 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2414.8141 (pause 2.06) 2416.8750 1651 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2416.8750 It just looked like I was looking through a 2418.4035 1652 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2418.4035 (pause 1.53) 2419.9376 1653 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2419.9376 kaleidoscope or something. 2421.2339 1654 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2421.2339 (pause 0.71) 2421.9467 1655 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2421.9467 And I don't remember anything else. But the people in the store, on my little paperwork they had, it said I said, 2426.3078 1656 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2426.3078 (pause 0.76) 2427.0636 1657 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2427.0636 what was it? Help me God, or help me Jesus, or something like that. But I didn't- Three days, I chewed up my tongue. 2432.6848 1658 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2432.6848 (pause 0.44) 2433.1258 1659 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2433.1258 They couldn't figure out what- what- 2434.0553 1660 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2434.0553 (pause 0.18) 2434.2321 1661 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2434.2321 well what was wrong? What's wrong with her? What's going on? 2436.5733 1662 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2436.5733 (pause 0.44) 2437.0148 1663 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2437.0148 Neurologist, all this- Couldn't drive for six weeks. 2439.6806 1664 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2439.6806 (pause 0.49) 2440.1674 1665 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2440.1674 Can you imagine, paying for a car, insurance, gas and all that. And you still have to wait on somebody else. 2445.0414 1666 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2445.0414 (pause 0.54) 2445.5844 1667 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2445.5844 Woo my gosh. And it was my sister. 2448.0015 1668 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2448.0015 (pause 0.36) 2448.3638 1669 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2448.3638 But anyway, (laughing) 2449.2696 1670 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2449.2696 (pause 0.42) 2449.6885 1671 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2449.6885 2450.4301 1672 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2450.4301 (pause 0.96) 2451.3919 1673 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2451.3919 but that was a lesson in- just a lesson in patience and that- 2454.4901 1674 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2454.4901 (pause 0.12) 2454.6102 1675 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2454.6102 and that- again, the neurologist was just like, 2456.3225 1676 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2456.3225 (pause 0.96) 2457.2836 1677 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2457.2836 That was /out/ right- right after my mom had passed and all that. And like, trying to be strong for everybody, you know, and nobody can't see me cry. 2463.3924 1678 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2463.3924 (pause 0.36) 2463.7485 1679 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2463.7485 I told /RD-NAME-3/ yesterday. I haven't cried in a long time. What's wrong with me? I'm supposed to be crying everyday. 2469.0527 1680 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2469.0527 (pause 0.67) 2469.7202 1681 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2469.7202 Well not everyday, but about something. No. 2471.9619 1682 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2471.9619 (pause 0.96) 2472.9243 1683 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2472.9243 Maybe I'm wiser, 2473.8413 1684 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2473.8413 (pause 0.25) 2474.0904 1685 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2474.0904 maybe I'm older. Maybe those things don't get to me like they used to, but 2476.9883 1686 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2476.9883 (pause 0.41) 2477.4015 1687 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2477.4015 sometimes you just need to talk. 2478.7941 1688 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2478.7941 (pause 0.80) 2479.5922 1689 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2479.5922 Just get it out. 2480.3904 1690 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2480.3904 (pause 0.45) 2480.8371 1691 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2480.8371 Blah, 2481.4571 1692 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2481.4571 (pause 0.12) 2481.5806 1693 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2481.5806 there it is. 2482.2637 1694 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2482.2637 (pause 1.12) 2483.3823 1695 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2483.3823 Not to everybody. 2484.4374 1696 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2484.4374 (pause 1.09) 2485.5243 1697 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2485.5243 some people- My sister, 2486.7018 1698 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2486.7018 (pause 0.86) 2487.5617 1699 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2487.5617 who has not called me- 2489.3053 1700 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2489.3053 (pause 0.50) 2489.8034 1701 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2489.8034 Wow when did they move? In January? 2491.5753 1702 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2491.5753 (pause 0.56) 2492.1357 1703 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2492.1357 Which I didn't even know they were moving except 2493.9183 1704 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2493.9183 (pause 0.62) 2494.5354 1705 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2494.5354 what is it, Christmas? I'm'a go over do a little- I call it a run by, drive by, go see- you know how you in spirit? 2499.6640 1706 VLD_int_01 2499.9485 [Mm-hm.] 2500.2702 1707 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2500.1070 [Just] wanted to see what's going on. I drove up to Athens, I'm like, woah the house looks different. Stuff off the wall. 2505.6733 1708 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2506.3308 And that's when they said they were moving. Okay. 2508.2053 1709 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2508.2053 (pause 0.49) 2508.6949 1710 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2508.6949 Well, 2509.0172 1711 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2509.0172 (pause 0.21) 2509.2274 1712 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2509.2274 they moved. 2509.8839 1713 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2509.8839 (pause 1.10) 2510.9879 1714 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2510.9879 /RD-NAME-2/ came to college, and it's something about his 2513.7856 1715 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2513.7856 (pause 0.57) 2514.3545 1716 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2514.3545 housing. Where he didn't have a place to stay, so he stayed with me. Okay, no problem. 2518.5367 1717 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2518.5367 (pause 0.97) 2519.5059 1718 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2519.5059 But long story short, 2520.7882 1719 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2520.7882 (pause 0.28) 2521.0633 1720 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2521.0633 my sister, she was not communicating with me, 2523.7106 1721 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2523.7106 (pause 1.03) 2524.7411 1722 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2524.7411 as I felt she should have. 2526.2426 1723 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2526.2426 (pause 0.68) 2526.9234 1724 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2526.9234 So I said okay, well I'm gonna do the same thing. 2529.2071 1725 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2529.2071 (pause 0.51) 2529.7153 1726 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2529.7153 But now, these past two weeks, she's called me almost every day. Last night she called me twelve o'clock. 2534.4686 1727 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2534.4686 (pause 0.82) 2535.2863 1728 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2535.2863 Cause her dad told her 2537.0769 1729 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2537.0769 (pause 1.24) 2538.3125 1730 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2538.3125 that 2538.7136 1731 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2538.7136 (pause 0.88) 2539.5984 1732 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2539.5984 she needs to be more like me. 2540.9786 1733 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2540.9786 (pause 1.17) 2542.1443 1734 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2542.1443 And that upset her. 2543.0302 1735 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2543.0302 (pause 0.73) 2543.7623 1736 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2543.7623 I said, be more like me? What do you mean? 2545.8979 1737 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2545.8979 (pause 0.61) 2546.5123 1738 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2546.5123 That when I was going to school, 2548.0883 1739 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2548.0883 (pause 0.88) 2548.9696 1740 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2548.9696 when I was becoming a teacher, 2550.3405 1741 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2550.3405 (pause 0.41) 2550.7462 1742 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2550.7462 that he knew nothing about it. 2552.2103 1743 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2552.2103 (pause 0.10) 2552.3071 1744 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2552.3071 2553.8179 1745 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2553.8179 (pause 0.51) 2554.3308 1746 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2554.3308 Y'all get it? 2555.0209 1747 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2555.0209 (pause 0.49) 2555.5105 1748 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2555.5105 Like, 2555.7530 1749 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2555.7530 (pause 0.26) 2556.0129 1750 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2556.0129 it- that- she- she shouldn't tell everybody all her business. She needs to be more like me and hold it in. 2560.8531 1751 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2560.8531 (pause 0.44) 2561.2960 1752 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2561.2960 I said, /RD-NAME-2/ please. Don't be more like me. 2563.4550 1753 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2563.4550 (pause 0.48) 2563.9387 1754 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2563.9387 Share your excitement. Like some- The test that she had to take, or whatever. 2567.8929 1755 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2567.8929 (pause 0.45) 2568.3405 1756 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2568.3405 Like she was sharing that with him. And that's our dad. He should be happy, [but he said] she should be more like me and I'm just saying, 2573.8696 1757 VLD_int_01 2571.5103 [Mm.] 2571.9274 1758 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2574.4524 the me you think I am, 2575.7580 1759 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2575.7580 (pause 0.46) 2576.2139 1760 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2576.2139 that's not me. 2577.0578 1761 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2577.0578 (pause 0.46) 2577.5195 1762 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2577.5195 Let me tell you the real me. 2578.8297 1763 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2578.8297 (pause 1.58) 2580.4058 1764 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2580.4058 And talk. 2580.9136 1765 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2580.9136 (pause 0.18) 2581.0904 1766 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2581.0904 Shit. 2581.4638 1767 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2581.4638 (pause 2.48) 2583.9485 1768 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2583.9485 Uh, okay I'm talking too much. (whispered) 2585.6924 1769 VLD_int_01 2585.9768 No. 2586.4011 1770 VLD_int_01 2586.4011 (pause 0.45) 2586.8534 1771 VLD_int_01 2586.8534 That was- 2587.2918 1772 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2587.8641 That was too much. (laughing) [I'm just] saying those were the- 2589.8785 1773 VLD_int_01 2589.0159 [No.] 2589.2024 1774 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2590.4427 Oh wow, I'm sorry. I'm all over the place. 2592.8768 1775 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2592.8768 (pause 0.22) 2593.0994 1776 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2593.0994 Uh, what's your lesson plan? 2594.2465 1777 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2594.2465 (pause 0.14) 2594.3817 1778 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2594.3817 [] 2596.0557 1779 VLD_int_01 2594.7128 [] 2595.3796 1780 VLD_int_01 2595.3796 (pause 0.09) 2595.4728 1781 VLD_int_01 2595.4728 [What's my lesson] plan? 2596.4520 1782 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2596.4847 No, I'm just saying, what are we supposed to be talking about? 2598.4804 1783 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2598.4804 (pause 0.78) 2599.2626 1784 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2599.2626 It was just amazing cause I've always envied her. Cause she always seems to have 2603.0675 1785 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2603.0675 (pause 1.24) 2604.3079 1786 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2604.3079 everything. I told you that. 2606.2197 1787 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2606.2197 (pause 0.15) 2606.3724 1788 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2606.3724 I'm the older one 2607.3936 1789 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2607.3936 (pause 0.28) 2607.6733 1790 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2607.6733 chronologically. Age wise, but she has done everything first. 2611.0120 1791 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2611.0120 (pause 0.62) 2611.6275 1792 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2611.6275 And she has always been- 2613.1418 1793 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2613.1418 (pause 1.56) 2614.7038 1794 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2614.7038 Of course she's the baby. So she is the- 2616.6809 1795 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2616.6809 (pause 2.35) 2619.0299 1796 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2619.0299 I can't even think of the word. One is idolized. The one that's- 2621.3473 1797 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2621.3473 (pause 0.43) 2621.7763 1798 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2621.7763 Oh, 2622.4011 1799 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2622.4011 (pause 0.28) 2622.6856 1800 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2622.6856 and I'm the work horse. 2623.7207 1801 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2623.7207 (pause 0.41) 2624.1346 1802 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2624.1346 And I- I- that's all I can- you know. 2625.9065 1803 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2625.9065 (pause 0.55) 2626.4520 1804 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2626.4520 You don't know what I'm saying. 2627.4121 1805 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2627.4121 (pause 0.12) 2627.5356 1806 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2627.5356 I can't actually put into- she's the 2629.1099 1807 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2629.1099 (pause 0.56) 2629.6730 1808 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2629.6730 Okay, this is the baby. Let's hold the baby. Alright, you get to work. 2633.2914 1809 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2633.2914 (pause 1.13) 2634.4198 1810 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2634.4198 Even we- 2634.7695 1811 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2634.7695 (pause 0.59) 2635.3570 1812 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2635.3570 Oh she gets it, okay. 2636.6289 1813 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2636.6289 (pause 0.35) 2636.9786 1814 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2636.9786 Because- [] 2638.3821 1815 VLD_int_01 2638.0464 [I mean] I feel like /RD-NAME-2/ and- /RD-NAME-2/ and [I are similar] 2641.0912 1816 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2640.0654 [Oh, okay.] Oh okay. Well then [that's the way I-] 2642.5589 1817 VLD_int_01 2641.9020 [sort of.] 2642.3956 1818 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2642.7408 Yeah. So that's how I feel. 2644.2655 1819 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2644.2655 (pause 0.51) 2644.7784 1820 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2644.7784 And so, And I feel that way in the family still. My mom is gone. My grandmother is gone. 2649.7899 1821 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2649.7899 (pause 0.37) 2650.1629 1822 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2650.1629 All of my aunts, but one is gone. 2652.0328 1823 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2652.0328 (pause 0.45) 2652.4851 1824 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2652.4851 And I still feel that way with the cousins, um. 2655.0019 1825 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2655.0019 (pause 0.84) 2655.8412 1826 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2655.8412 But it's just odd to me, that she would be upset because he told her that she should be more like me. 2660.2337 1827 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2660.2337 (pause 0.67) 2660.8993 1828 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2660.8993 And not tell everything. (laughing) 2663.0069 1829 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2663.0069 (pause 0.63) 2663.6411 1830 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2663.6411 That is so funny to me. 2664.9747 1831 VLD_int_01 2665.6869 [Do you] feel like that's a quality that you would want him to praise? 2668.8484 1832 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2665.6916 [Oh.] 2665.9014 1833 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2671.7852 The funny thing, 2672.7261 1834 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2672.7261 (pause 0.10) 2672.8229 1835 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2672.8229 he tells her, 2673.9205 1836 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2673.9205 (pause 0.50) 2674.4241 1837 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2674.4241 she needs to be more like me. 2675.9162 1838 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2675.9162 (pause 0.64) 2676.5597 1839 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2676.5597 The person she definitely does not want- Only thing she would wanna be more like me like now, she's working on being a teacher. 2681.7903 1840 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2681.7903 (pause 0.66) 2682.4497 1841 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2682.4497 Well she used to, ew, poo, poo, poo, ew, a teacher. Poo, poo, poo, oh, you put in all these hours a, duh, duh, duh. 2687.3193 1842 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2687.3193 (pause 0.56) 2687.8789 1843 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2687.8789 And now I hear the same stuff that I used to say. 2690.5869 1844 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2690.5869 (pause 0.55) 2691.1418 1845 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2691.1418 But now I have to sit back and- Oh that's wonderful, 2693.3380 1846 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2693.3380 (pause 0.38) 2693.7157 1847 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2693.7157 oh you go for it, 2694.8628 1848 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2694.8628 (pause 0.33) 2695.1892 1849 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2695.1892 oh reach for your dreams, you can do it. 2697.8365 1850 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2697.8365 (pause 0.92) 2698.7551 1851 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2698.7551 She didn't do that for me, 2699.8929 1852 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2699.8929 (pause 0.31) 2700.2053 1853 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2700.2053 but it's okay. 2700.9141 1854 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2700.9141 (pause 0.36) 2701.2778 1855 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2701.2778 Cause I- I'm older. I'm wiser. 2703.1138 1856 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2703.1138 (pause 0.45) 2703.5661 1857 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2703.5661 I'm in a whole different place. I'm at the end of my career. 2706.3918 1858 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2706.3918 (pause 0.68) 2707.0726 1859 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2707.0726 As far as in that little box room. 2709.0364 1860 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2709.0364 (pause 1.42) 2710.4567 1861 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2710.4567 She's just at the beginning. 2711.6038 1862 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2711.6038 (pause 1.75) 2713.3524 1863 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2713.3524 Even though we're only two years apart. 2714.8946 1864 VLD_int_01 2715.2956 Mm-hm. 2715.7106 1865 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2716.7833 But it just amazed me. Sombody told somebody to be like me? 2719.5741 1866 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2719.5741 (pause 0.85) 2720.4237 1867 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2720.4237 Wow, I mean it was a bad, 2721.8179 1868 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2721.8179 (pause 0.67) 2722.4847 1869 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2722.4847 [characteristic, but] 2723.9348 1870 VLD_int_01 2722.8158 [] 2725.1938 1871 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2725.2118 Wow. Be like me. 2726.9044 1872 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2726.9044 (pause 0.53) 2727.4309 1873 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2727.4309 You should be like your sister. 2728.8348 1874 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2728.8348 (pause 0.96) 2729.7996 1875 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2729.7996 Wow. (whispered) 2730.3592 1876 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2730.3592 (pause 1.05) 2731.4100 1877 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2731.4100 I'm like still amazed by that. That was last- that was 2733.4568 1878 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2733.4568 (pause 0.15) 2733.6036 1879 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2733.6036 twelve o'clock this morning. 2734.7385 1880 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2734.7385 (pause 0.44) 2735.1796 1881 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2735.1796 Wow. (whispered) 2735.7060 1882 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2735.7060 (pause 0.38) 2736.0910 1883 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2736.0910 And she was upset. 2737.1835 1884 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2737.1835 (pause 0.31) 2737.4892 1885 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2737.4892 Wow. 2737.9591 1886 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2737.9591 (pause 0.10) 2738.0553 1887 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2738.0553 Yes. 2738.6327 1888 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2738.6327 (pause 2.02) 2740.6536 1889 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2740.6536 And she should be more like me. 2742.2061 1890 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2742.2061 (pause 0.14) 2742.3429 1891 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2742.3429 I am stable. 2743.5232 1892 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2743.5232 (pause 1.48) 2745.0007 1893 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2745.0007 In, 2745.4479 1894 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2745.4479 (pause 0.20) 2745.6436 1895 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2745.6436 the five times she's moved, 2747.4631 1896 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2747.4631 (pause 0.45) 2747.9155 1897 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2747.9155 I've been in the same place. 2749.4496 1898 VLD_int_01 2750.6428 [Yes, /damn straight/.] 2751.6407 1899 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2750.9413 [] 2752.5686 1900 VLD_int_01 2752.2982 [Yes.] Yes, [you have.] 2753.2886 1901 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2752.9323 [That is] true. 2753.7577 1902 VLD_int_01 2753.8463 It- Yes it is true. It's very true. 2755.6881 1903 VLD_int_01 2755.6881 (pause 0.50) 2756.1859 1904 VLD_int_01 2756.1859 Um. 2756.7174 1905 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2756.9786 Uh-oh, our time is /rind-/ winding-up. 2758.6152 1906 VLD_int_01 2758.7924 No. 2758.9883 1907 VLD_se0_ag3_f_01 2758.9743 I don't know why I keep going off in [tangents.] 2761.1798 1908 VLD_int_01 2760.7322 [Your-] our time is not winding-up. What I'm going to do, is we're going to pause one second, 2764.5276 1909 VLD_int_01 2765.4835 because I 2766.0199 1910 VLD_int_01 2766.0199 (pause 0.20) 2766.2201 1911 VLD_int_01 2766.2201 think 2766.4503 1912 VLD_int_01 2766.4503 (pause 0.20) 2766.6505 1913 VLD_int_01 2766.6505 I 2766.8607 1914 VLD_int_01 2766.8607 (pause 0.36) 2767.2210 1915 VLD_int_01 2767.2210 think. 2767.7403